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november 2014 - Christian Family Publications
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Knowing that the church’s response and attitude should be one that goes beyond adoption, KnowOrphans addresses the complexities of how Christians are to respond ethically, compassionately, and comprehensively to the biblical call to care for orphans. $14.99 All over America, people and churches are discovering opportunities to care for the fatherless in very creative and practical ways. Orphanology is a great resource that introduces innovative approaches to orphan ministry and how you can get involved! $14.99 Visit NewHopeDigital.com to learn more and download small-group and discussion-group resources for both books. Available wherever books are sold. This year The Foundry Ministries In association with will distribute more than 200 Boxes of Hope Publisher: The Christian Family Publication, Inc./ Laurie Stroud, [email protected] Copy Editor: Marlys Kuehnert Contributing Writers: Anita Bosley Dr. Jade K. Carter Krista Conlin Tony Cooper John Croyle Rev. Dr. Chris DeGreen Dr. Riley P. Green III Darrel Holcombe Hal B. Holland, Jr. Dr. Jay Jackson Rev. Dr. J. Mark Kuehnert Matt Lovett Camille Smith Platt Laurie Stroud Art Director: Hope Chastain, HbcDesigns Sales and Marketing: Dafney Dooley, Charlee Splawn, Laurie Stroud, 205-408-7150 Cover Photo: The Big Oak Ranch Birmingham Christian Family is published monthly by The Christian Family Publication, Inc., P.O. Box 382724, Birmingham, AL 35238, 205-408-7150, ® 205-408-9761(Fax). Visit www.ChristianFamilyPublications.com Reproduction of any part of Birmingham Christian Family without permission of the publisher is prohibited. Distribution of this magazine does not constitute an endorsement of information, products or services. Views expressed in Birmingham Christian Family do not necessarily represent those of the publisher. Every effort has been made by Birmingham Christian Family staff to insure accuracy of the publication contents. However, we do not guarantee the accuracy of all information nor the absence of errors and omissions; hence, no responsibility can be or is assumed. All Rights Reserved. Copyright 2014 by The Christian Family Publication, Inc. Unless otherwise noted, scripture taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version, copyright 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society. Used by permission of International Bible Society. Circulation & Distribution: Birmingham Christian Family is free and available at targeted, high traffic locations throughout the Birmingham area. 4 Birmingham Christian Family ·ÄSSLK^P[OHSS[OL ingredients for a Thanksgiving meal to impoverished families. Here’s how you can help! November 7-8, 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. Go to any Birmingham Area LifeWay Store to Pick Up a Box of Hope & Receive Simple Steps on ðOOLQJ\RXUER[DQGKHOSLQJDIDPLO\LQQHHG )RUPRUHGHWDLOV contact Amy Jones, [email protected], (205) 425-7737, ext. 26. www.ChristianFamilyPublications.com November 2014 C ONTENTS Volume 14, Number 11 DEPARTMENTS 8 Giving Children a Hope and a Future • Share the Story ON THE COVER 16 Former Alabama & NFL QB Brodie Croyle and his sister Reagan share their story of how God led them back to the Big Oak Ranch their father John founded 40 years ago. See Page 16. 9, 13, 21 Great GIFTS FEATURES 8, 11 Meeting the Needs of Alabama’s Orphans 11 Game Day: How to Win in the Game of Life 21 Holiday Gift Guide NEXT ISSUE Celebrating CHRIST’S BIRTH, Best Gifts of the Season & MUCH MORE! 9 Fashion for You • Put Your Best BOOT Forward 13 City Scene • Veterans Day at American Village • Glory Cottage Gifts & Market • Christmas Arts & Craft Show 14 Bringing Out the Winner • Show Me the Way 14 Education Extra • 10 Tips for Time Management 19 Best Books • The Expected One: Local Physician Pens Advent Book Fashion for You 19 Money Matters • Merging Your Money When You Marry 21 Cool Stuff for Christmas • ChicWrap • Suspenseful Romantic Holiday Read • Cool Beans • Incentive to Stay Fit 22 Healthy Living • Holiday Expectations 22 Senior Scene • Never Too Old to Dream: Rev. Buddy Majors 9 24 Potluck • Perfect Holiday Main Course 25 Encouraging Word • 3 Ts of Spritual Maturity 26 The Great Outdoors • Season’s Greeting 28 Calendar 28 Support Groups 29 Advertising Directory 29 Photo Fun 13 13 November 2014 5 & present CHRISTMAS WITH MICHAEL W. SMITH | FRIDAY, DECEMBER 5, 2014 8 pm TICKETS CALL 205-975-2787 VISIT WWW.ALABAMASYMPHONY.ORG Your Thanksgiving Gift-Offering is Vital With Thanksgiving approaching, we are already busy. This season and all winter as more people come for help, we will serve over 20,200 meals and provide 9,700 bed-nights & showers – stretching all of our resources. I ask you to please make a Thanksgiving contribution to Brother Bryan Mission. With your gift, we can continue helping overwhelmed lives change. This Thanksgiving we really need your prayerful support. Jim Etheredge, Executive Director I will help Brother Bryan Mission. 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In the future, if I notify you of any decrease, increase or cessation of this, BBM will immediately make the desired change. www.ChristianFamilyPublications.com 13 WAYS TO SERVE CHILDREN IN NEED There are over 5,000 children in foster care in Alabama. Not everyone is called to be a foster parent, but we are called to care for the fatherless around us. To help live out this Biblical call, we’ve put together a list of 13 practical ways you can serve children in need. Ideas range from things you can do as an individual, with your family, or with your small group. Some include: • Praying for those in foster care • Providing basic needs through our Needs List • Sending a child to summer camp at Camp of Champions • Hosting a Foster or House Parent Appreciation event To read the full list online or to download and share with others, visit alabamachild.org/13waysbirmingham. .... .... (888) 720-8805 www.alabamachild.org AlabamaChild AlabamaChildOrg November 2014 7 G IVING C HILDREN A H OPE & A F UTURE presented by: Lifeline Children’s Services Lifeline Children’s Services In a time when people are socially connected but missing relationship, we invite you to an evening that points to times when friends and family sit around the table and tell their stories of adventure, sorrow and hope. This evening isn’t about a program for entertainment, but a night of relating and hearing how the Lord is changing lives in the midst of incredible loss by offering unimaginable redemption. Come hear stories of real people whose lives have been altered by foster care, adoption, and orphan care. Hear from a boy who traversed unthinkable situations in domestic foster care and then witnessed Love as a family fought to make him their son. Hear from a family who adopted their severely malnourished son and witnessed Hope as his life turned from near-death to thriving. Hear the story of a church who intentionally and personally invests in (un)adopted’s work in Liberia to change the future of orphans by teaching life skills. These stories matter because they are part of a greater story—God’s story. All of history tells the story of God’s plan to redeem the broken relationship between He and His people through His Son. Lifeline is thrilled to be a witness to God’s story in the lives of children, families and church. Join us for “Share the Story” and hear first-hand accounts of how families, children, and churches have seen their futures changed through the power of family and the Gospel. For more information or to become a sponsor or purchase a ticket, contact Elizabeth Gilmer at 967-0811 or [email protected]. Visit www.lifelinechild.org. 8 Birmingham Christian Family Invites You to Our 12th Annual Fundraising Dinner Thursday, November 13, 2014 The Sheraton Birmingham Hotel 5:30 p.m. Silent Auction 6:30 p.m. Dinner and Program PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH www.ChristianFamilyPublications.com FASHION FOR Y OU Put Your Best BOOT Forward I recently took a little inventory of my closet and, yep, I have to admit, I may have an addiction….I love boots! All styles, heights and colors! less number of options to help you find your staple riding boot. The “good” problem with being obsessed with boots is that they stay in style for the long haul. Out of all the boots in my closet, I would, I could and I will wear each pair this fall and winter- they just have a way of staying These Michael Kors over on trend season to season. With the right boot or the knee boots give you bootie, the outfit possibilities are endless! the hottest boot look of the season. Whether flat or heeled; suede or studded, there is a boot that will give you that extra pep in your step. Here are a few trends that are especially popular this season. Booties. When looking for a style that will give you comfort and that effortless ‘cool’ factor, go with a bootie. This is a great option to pair with anything from flirty dresses to jeans. Riding Boots. A true American classic that never goes out of style. A winner brand for all colors and looks for riding boots is Frye. They offer an end- Over the Knee. This style is one of this season’s hottest trends and by A sample of boot style options from which to hot I mean sexy. To keep this look choose, all found in Krista’s closet. classy, wear the over-the-knee boots with jeans and a loose blazer or chunky sweater. Or opt for a lower heel which will allow you to wear this boot with skirts and dresses. From gorgeous black booties to funky cowgirl boots, animal print to sparkle, and hiking to fringed, there are an endless array of possibilities to put your best boot forward this season. Check out the new boot styles perfect for cheering on your favorite team. This Bama boot can be found at Helena Mercantile. — Krista Conlin KC Projects, a full service public relations agency providing branding services to clients from the fashion industry to the corporate world, www.kcprojects.com A staple in your boot collection should be the classic riding boot. These Frye riding boots available at Gus Meyer. November 2014 9 BULLDOGS FREE-B ALL HOME EVENTS Kids 12 & Under Get In Free WITH PAID ADULT Courtesy of S PECIAL F EATURE Meeting the Needs of Alabama’s Orphans Lord, If You Will 5 Reasons to be a Therapeutic Foster Care Parent I recently read Matthew 8:1–4. These verses focus on a leper who asked Jesus to make him clean. I’ve meditated on these verses, even asked if there is anything common between lepers and fatherless children. I certainly do not intend to take anything out of context; I’m simply asking what they have in common. I asked our staff members the same question. Here is a list of what they thought the two had in common: Rejection, Loneliness, Powerlessness, Bullying, and need help from an outside source. 1. No child deserves abuse and neglect. 2. Every child deserves compassion and support. 3. You can pay forward all the blessings you enjoy. 4. You can truly change the world, at least the world of the child you help. 5. Why not you? I’ll also add marginalized— outcasts of society. You can read Leviticus 13:45–46 and Lev. 14:1–32 for further details on leper laws and you’ll see exactly why they felt marginalized. They were, and unfortunately, so are many fatherless children. In Alabama, there are over 5,000 children in foster care. How would you feel if you were placed in a stranger’s home or care due to no fault of your own? For the child, it’s usually a result of abandonment, abuse, or neglect. For the leper, his disease results in him being placed in a colony with others with a similar condition. Neither would choose to be in these situations. Therapeutic Foster Care serves a very specific group of children who typically need more intensive support and professional services than children in regular or emergency foster care. These children, who range in age from three to 19, often come from abusive homes or have experienced multiple unsuccessful placements. Gateway, established as the Mercy Home in 1891 by the Women’s Christian Temperance Union, is the oldest social service agency in Birmingham and offers Therapeutic Foster Care as a part of its services. The program gives children a structured, loving environment which is often exactly what they need to recover from their trauma and learn how to live successfully with family, prepare for adoption, or live independently in the community. What did the leper have to lose in saying,“Lord, if you will, you can make me clean”? Nothing. Let’s pray and ask the Lord a similar question as it relates to children in foster care, “Lord, if you will, please use me and the churches of this state to take care of these children.” This type of prayer could change the course of history in the life of a child. We see in Matthew 8 that God’s love extends to the most marginalized outcasts of society. Let’s ask Him to do a great work in Alabama for the 5000 children in foster care. — Dr. Riley P. Green III V.P. of Administration, Alabama Baptist Children’s Homes & Family Ministries For more information on the statewide ministries within Alabama Baptist Children's Homes & Family Ministries, visit alabamachild.org. Through Gateway, therapeutic foster families receive 40 hours of intensive, agencysponsored training and ongoing support in order to know how to provide for these children. While in the home, children work with social workers and counselors in order to address emotional or behavioral problems. Weekly visitations, intensive professional psychiatric consultation, clinical intervention and 24-hour emergency support are provided.“There are always more children needing therapeutic foster care than there are homes available,” explains Gateway Therapeutic Foster Care Director Jennifer Lackey. For more information visit www.gway.org/therapeutic-foster-care, email Reggie Wilson at [email protected] or call 510-2728. G AME D AY How to Win in the Game of Life All I remember is that he looked as big as the Biblical Goliath, and all I could do was laugh. I was a non-scholarship, practice player with The University of Tennessee football team, commonly known to the public as "walkon", but commonly known to the scholarship football players as "blocking dummy." He, by contrast, was the all-time quarterback sack leader at Tennessee on his way to being the all-time sack leader in the NFL. When we ran our conditioning tests at the start of training camp, we ran side by side. He ran them faster than me even though I was 5'10" and 174 lbs., and he was 6'3" and 295 lbs. His name was Reggie White, aka, The Minister of Defense, because he was also ordained as a Baptist Minister around the end of high school. Tragically he tasted a premature death from a heart condition, but he did a lot of great things with his life. One thing he did was humble me, along with a lot of other people. In my case, I was supposed to block Reggie White. He was on the punt return team and I was on the practice-squad punt team. He said, "C'mon Chris, give me some more resistance!" I said, "Reggie, it takes three guys, twice my size, to try to block you in real games, and effective, 3) Job and his life are restored in a multitude they can't do it. So what do you want me to do?" It was of ways. Trust the God who made every mountain! He humbling. And Reggie was merely a man. Imagine how will work with your humility and bless you! humbled Job felt when God said, "Who is this that darkens my counsel with words without knowledge? —Rev. Dr. Chris DeGreen, Brace yourself like a man; I will question you, and you Senior Pastor Christ the King Lutheran shall answer me." (Job 38:1-3) Church, Hoover Author of 60 Days of Praise! Devotional I was humbled by a mountain of a man. Job was humavailable at www.DestinyCenter.com bled by the God who made every mountain! And yet if If you would like to receive Pastor Chris’ free “Daily Day of you read the balance of the book of Job, you see some Praise” by email, email [email protected] great things come from being humbled: 1) Job's prayers and ask to receive it. are rich toward God and others, 2) Job's prayers are November 2014 11 12 Birmingham Christian Family www.ChristianFamilyPublications.com C ITY S CENE Veterans Day at American Village On Veterans Day November 11 from 10am-4pm, experience the National Veterans Shrine and Register of Honor at the American Village. At noon, the Village will host a wreath laying in honor of all veterans and active military. The Shrine is dedicated to those in each generation who have served and sacrificed for America and for liberty. Interactive media, artifacts and exhibits help answer the questions: “Who are our country’s veterans?” “What did they do for our country?” and “What do we owe Honor a veteran or member of the military in your family by tolling them?” Housed within the Shrine is the a bell at the Veterans Shrine. Veterans Register of Honor, a website and database containing photographs, biographical sketches, and stories of America’s veterans and active members of the United States Armed Forces. Volunteers will be on hand from 10am-4pm to assist you in submitting a veteran to the Register of Honor. 37th Annual Christmas Arts & Craft Show Find one of a kind gifts for those on your Christmas list at the North Arts Council’s annual Arts and Crafts Show. More than 65 vendors with a wide variety of handmade crafts will be at the Gardendale Civic Center November 14-15. The show was established in 1975 to provide talented artist and crafters with an opportunity to display and sell their hand crafted wares. In years past, The North Arts Council have donated funds to Happy Feet Santa will visit the North Arts Council Arts & International Ministry and The Crafts Show on Saturday November 15 from 93pm. See calendar page 28 for more event details. Free Will Baptist Children's Home. Admission and parking are free. Plus door prizes are given away every hour. For more details visit www.northartscouncil.webs.com Glory Cottage Gifts & Market After 26 years, The Briarwood Christmas Shop has a new name! Glory Cottage Gifts and Market will be held at Briarwood Presbyterian Friday, November 14 and Saturday, November 15. Enjoy a variety of vendors including delicious foods, boutique clothing for women and children, jewelry, stationery, unique woodwork, great door prizes and more! Admission is free. Proceeds benefit Briarwood Christian School. Learn more on Facebook at Glory Cottage. Beaded jewelry, children’s clothing, paintings, and perfect gifts for your football fan can be found at Glory Cottage Nov 14-15. November 2014 13 B RINGING O UT T HE W INNER I N Y OUR C HILD E DUCATION E XTRA Show Me the Way 10 Tips for Time Management Imagine you are in the woods, and you are lost. You have no idea which way to go. The compass you thought you put in your backpack is nowhere to be found. You have absolutely no sense of direction. You do not know where to turn. Is your student’s calendar already out of control? What about yours as you juggle daily schedules, homework and project assignments, extra curricular activities and family responsibilities? Well, imagine trying to balance it all if you have a learning disability. Talk about being overwhelmed! Here are some strategies I would like to share with you to help you and your student regain control of the runaway ‘to do’ list: In my life, I've never met anyone who always knew where to go and what to do. Nobody has it all together. For many of us as parents, we can become so frustrated when we lose the compass on this thing called parenting. I am asked by so many people,“What do you do when you don't know where to go?” I hope the simplicity of my answer will speak volumes. God said in Psalms 32:8,“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” Stop and think a minute. It is pretty cool that the Creator of the Universe said,“If you don't know where to go, call on Me. I will show you the way to go. I will counsel you and I will have my eye upon you.” (Paraphrased Psalm 32:8) What if you and I could make it a habit whenever we don't know what to do to simply quote this verse back to God and say,“I'm lost. Show me the way”? This verse is His guarantee that He will never ever leave us, especially when we call on Him as a lost child. To verify this point, if your own child said,“I'm lost…help me,” what would you do? Every parent I know who really loves their child would move heaven and earth to be sure that child has a chance to make it and move in the right direction. God said, “I'm your Father.” Trusting Him is the only way to get down this road called life and to be successful as a great parent. Think about it. — John Croyle Executive Director, Big Oak Ranch, Author of Bringing Out the Winner in Your Child, The Two Minute Drill to Manhood and Raising a Princess. Visit www.bigoak.org 1. Keep your expectations age-appropriate. Children and adults often have difficulty with organization. Mailbox Services Notary Services Passport Photos Rubber Stamps Copy/Fax Graphic Design Digital Printing Logo Design Business Cards Banners QR Codes Every Door Direct Mail® T-shirts Pens Signs 205-980-8180 [email protected] 5184 Caldwell Mill Rd. Suite 204 (In Publix Shopping Center) Hoover, Alabama 35244 to email you assignments at the end of each class or school day. This may open communication with their teacher(s), too. 6. Have different colored folders for papers and assignments, and your important papers. 7. You and your student should identify a personal “homework” space and time. 8. Avoid over-scheduling. Most students need only two extra-curricular activities weekly. 2. Develop a routine… put away items 9. Create a mini learning/work space after each use, especially if the student is moving on to another activity or assignment. Keep items and tasks separated and organized. Label drawers, baskets, and bins with words for older students and pictures for younger ones. 3. Take 10 minutes each evening and Experienced Packing & Shipping You’ve Come to Expect And So Much More... 5. Ask your student look at each paper or item of mail. Review the next day’s schedule and prepare…minimizing confusion and surprises. 4. Use a calendar with colored cues for assignments and projects. If a project requires many steps and days to complete, define the times that s/he will work on it. Code the due date in big red letters so that it is highly visible. (maybe in your car) while attending extra-curricular activities for siblings. 10. Adults with learning disabilities should have a color-coded schedule, reminders in their smart phone or voice prompts prior to scheduled activities and deadlines. — Dr. Jade K. 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They helped their parents— former University of Alabama football defensive end John Croyle and his wife Tee—welcome in abandoned and abused children with the following four promises: We love you. We’ll never lie to you. We’ll stick with you until you’re grown. And there are boundaries; don’t cross them. Celebrating the Ranch’s 40th anniversary last month, the Croyles have given nearly 2,000 hurting children a chance at a new life in a Christian home. And now John is passing the leadership to his children. Raised on the Ranch. Whether it was fetching Band-Aids and medicine or watching her brother pull pajamas out of his own drawer for the new children his father brought home, Reagan says that while her childhood was unique, she did not know it. She simply followed her parents’ lead. “If they’re hurt, fix them. If they’re hungry, feed them. It was just a family affair. Just jump in,” she says. “Mom was always cooking huge meals because we never knew who was coming.” “I’ve heard my sister say before that growing up we never knew that there was anyone else outside that didn’t have all these brothers and didn’t have all these sisters and weren’t raised the exact same way we were,” Brodie adds. “So to us, it’s just a way of life, the way we grew up. We always knew where we stood as our parents’ biological children, but we also knew that there was a bigger picture and that there were 140 hurting boys and girls that also looked to them as somebody special in their life. We just thought this is what everybody did.” While he also has memories of his father seeking out homeless children across town, grandmothers dropping John and Tee Croyle with their children and grandchildren at the Big Oak Ranch founded by John 40 years ago. Learn more off grandchildren they could no longer afford to sup- at www.bigoak.org port, and fathers abandoning their sons for life with a new girlfriend, Brodie says growing up with so many siblings was a blessing and adventure. “I’d have friends say, ‘Hey do you want to come spend the night? We can play basketball in the neighborhood.’ I’m like, ‘Man I have 60 brothers with 200 acres and cows and horses and chickens and gyms and everything under the sun. Why don’t you come hang out with us? It’s a whole lot more fun here.’” Reagan’s Return. Reagan played basketball at the University of Alabama and earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology and a master’s degree in counseling. She married former Alabama Quarterback John David Phillips in 2001 and worked at Brewer Porch Children’s Center in Tuscaloosa before returning to Big Oak Ranch in 2003. She became Director of Children’s Care in 2009. Much of her time is spent reviewing case plans and meeting with social workers and educators to discuss how each child is doing. “Every child’s goals look different. But my biggest goal Reagan Croyle Phillips was a scholarship athlete and Homecoming Queen at the would be that they would break the cycles that they’ve come from. University of Alabama. She spent time modeling in Europe before returning to college to earn her master’s degree in counseling. She and her husband, former Whether that was a cycle of addiction, Tide QB John David Phillips, have three sons Cade (10), Will (8) and Gibbs (3). abuse, or dysfunction. That we would 16 Birmingham Christian Family www.ChristianFamilyPublications.com alter the course of their life and their children’s lives and their children’s children’s lives,” she explains adding, “For them to be introduced to Jesus while with us is our biggest success.” As a mother, Reagan says she hopes to mirror the example of selflessness and servant hood modeled by her parents. “My husband and I have three boys, and we try to be very intentional about raising them. They are future men. They are not just children. [We are] Brodie Croyle met his wife, Kelli Schutz Croyle, at raising them up to be men who are Children’s Hospital in Mobile the weekend of his Senior Bowl. She was there as Distinguished going to bind up the broken hearted Young Woman of America 2005. They live at the and take care of the orphans and the Boys’ Ranch with their sons, Sawyer (3) and Luke widows. ” (10 mo.). “Every childhood memory I have comes from the Ranch and I just feel honored that we get to be back here now and our boys get to grow up the exact same way,” says Brodie. Brodie’s Return. After play- ing quarterback for the University of Alabama from 2002 to 2005, Brodie Croyle married wife Kelli in 2007 and played in the NFL for the Kansas City Chiefs until he retired in 2012. He was working in Tuscaloosa in a land and timber real estate business when a conversation with a coworker made him realize his heart was back in North Alabama. “For two months I just prayed about it, and I just felt the conviction that this is what God put us on earth to do. My wife had just come down from putting our little boy to bed and we were sitting down for dinner and I said, ‘Baby, I’ve got to tell you I really feel God’s calling us back to the ranch.’ And she broke down crying. Like crying crying. She said, ‘I’ve been waiting on you to say that for five years. Your dad and I have spent countless hours in prayer, countless hours in conversation, but we knew it had to be on God’s time and we knew it had to be on your time. Tell me when and I’ll have the bags packed.’” Since then Brodie has been shadowing his father as associate executive director and will eventually take over as executive director, handling day-to-day operations of Big Oak Boys’ Ranch, Big Oak Girls’ Ranch and Westbrook Christian School. “When Brodie and I drive up to the Boys’ Ranch and he hops out of the truck, I see 20 boys come running to his truck just to hug him or shake his hand or hit him or punch him like boys do when they interact,” John says of son Brodie. “The joy in their eyes and the love and respect they have for him and Kelli, living on the ranch with them, there really are no words.” Reagan adds she has the utmost respect for her brother’s leadership skills. “Dad has always said that great leaders know where they are going and know how to persuade people to go with them,” she says. “I think that really sums up my brother, and I think he learned it by watching my dad. He has a very clear direction of where he wants to go.” With his children leading the Ranch, John Croyle has more time for writing. 100% of the proceeds from his latest book, Raising a Princess: 8 Essential Virtues to Teach Your Daughter, go directly to the children of Big Oak Ranch. Available at Sanctuary Christian Books, www.amazon.com. To Brodie, where he wants to go is down the same path his parents have paved for the last 40 years. Inspired by the Scripture the Ranch is built upon—Isaiah 61:3—he will continue to plant seeds of hope to the glory of God. John, who will remain in a supportive role at the ranch, couldn’t be prouder. “I know not only are our children doing what God called them to do but all the ranch children have got protectors and enablers. They have a secure future because our two children are taking them there.” — Camille Platt KNOW wh a t to do in c a se o f SUSPECTED CONCUSSION A concussion is an injury caused by a blow to the head in which the brain moves rapidly and may collide with the inside of the skull. Even a minor fall or collision may be of concern, so be alert to symptoms such as headaches, unsteadiness, confusion or other types of abnormal behavior. Any athlete with a suspected concussion: ! Should be IMMEDIATELY REMOVED FROM PLAY/ACTIVITY ! Should be urgently assessed medically ! Should not be left alone ! Should not drive a motor vehicle ThinkFirst _____________________________________________ Alabama www.ChildrensAL.org/ThinkFirstPrograms In case of medical emergency, call 911 or go directly to your local ER. November 2014 17 LISTEN TO NEW DAY CAFÉ Weekday Mornings t 6–9 a.m. Extra weight she won’t mind putting on. 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Advent isn’t simply a season in which we anticipate the birth of Jesus; it’s a time in which we contemplate the salvation of humanity. The manger is where atonement begins, not the cross. The baby wasn’t going to become our savior; he was saving us the moment he breathed in the stale air of a stable and looked into Mary’s eyes. Advent is the season in which we anticipate the coming of the Messiah. It’s a time of preparation and reflection, suspense and joy. In his new book, The Expected One (B&H Pubishing, $9.99), local author Scott James, MD offers us a thoughtful collec- M ONEY M ATTERS presented by: Vision Financial Group tion of scriptures taken from the ancient Hebrew prophets. The texts all point to the promise that God would send a Deliverer, a King, and a Savior. The Messiah would come, and everything would be different. After each scriptural selection, James adds questions that can be used as a discussion guide for families. The questions are simple and designed to include children into the conversation, making the book an excellent family devotional for the weeks leading up to Christmas. Scott James, MD specializes in Pediatric Infectious Disease Medicine at Children’s Hospital of Alabama. He attends Church at Brook Hills. I don’t know what the angels in heaven were doing when Jesus died on the cross. The Bible is silent on the subject. But it does tell us what they did the night Jesus was born. The heavenly hosts filled the cosmos with joyful praise. Unable to contain their joy, they tore through the barrier dividing the spiritual world from the physical and proclaimed the gospel of Jesus’ birth to a small band of wretched peasants watching their sheep.“Good news of great joy! Peace has come to earth! The Savior has been born! He is the long awaited Messiah! He is the Lord!” Luke says that when Mary heard the shepherds tell their story, she treasured up all she had seen and heard, pondering them in her heart. Advent is a good time for us to do the same. — Darrel Holcombe Sanctuary Owner Sanctuary Christian Books and Gifts Christian Books and Gifts Colonial Promenade, Alabaster It Takes Vision to Prosper Merging Your Money When You Marry 3. Bank Accounts Getting married is exciting, but it brings many challenges. One such challenge is how to merge finances. Planning carefully and communicating clearly are important, because the financial decisions that you make now can have a lasting impact on your future. . At some point, you and your spouse will have to decide whether to combine your bank accounts or keep them separate. Maintaining a joint account does have advantages, such as easier record keeping and lower maintenance fees. However, it's sometimes more difficult to keep track of how much money is in a joint account when two individuals have access to it. term goals (e.g., paying off wedding debt, new car, vacation) and long-term goals (e.g., having children, your children's college education, retirement). Then, determine which goals are most important to you. Once you've identified the goals that are a priority, you can focus your energy on achieving them. think again. When you and your spouse have joint credit, both of you will become responsible for 100 percent of the credit card debt. In addition, if one of you has poor credit, it will negatively impact the credit rating of the other. 4. Credit cards. If you're thinking about adding 1. Financial goals. Make a list of your short- your name to your spouse's credit card accounts, 2. Budget. Begin by listing your sources of income (e.g., salaries and wages, interest, dividends). Then, list your expenses over a certain time period (e.g., monthly, annually). Hopefully, you get a positive number, meaning that you spend less than you earn. If not, review your expenses and see where you can cut down on your spending. 5. Insurance. If you and your spouse have separate health insurance coverage, you'll want to do a cost/benefit analysis of each plan to see if you should continue to keep your health coverage separate. It's a good idea to examine your auto insurance coverage, too. If you and your spouse own separate cars, you may have different auto insurance carriers. Also take time to review life insurance and disability income needs. 6. Employer-sponsored retirement plans. If both you and your spouse participate in an employersponsored retirement plan, you should be aware of each plan's characteristics. Review each plan together carefully and determine which plan provides the best benefits. If you can afford it, you should each participate to the maximum in your own plan. Here are some helpful tips: If both plans match contributions, determine which plan offers the best match and take full advantage of it. Compare the investment options offered by each plan--the more options you have, the more likely you are to find an investment mix that suits your needs. Find out whether the plans offer loans. — Hal B. Holland, Jr., RFC®, Vision Financial Group 4505 Pine Tree Circle, Birmingham, 35243 205-970-4909, www.visionfinancialgroup.com Investment Advisory services offered through Investment Advisors, a division of ProEquities, Inc., a Registered Investment Advisor. Securities offered through ProEquities, Inc., a registered broker-dealer and member of FINRA & SIPC. Vision Financial Group, Inc. is independent of ProEquities, Inc. Prepared by Broadridge Investor Communication Solutions, Inc. November 2014 19 20 Birmingham Christian Family www.ChristianFamilyPublications.com C OOL S TUFF FOR C HRISTMAS ChicWrap s you prepare for holiday cooking, treat yourself and your kitchen to ChicWrap plastic wrap ($11.95 retail, www.ChicWrap.com). The sturdy dispenser comes in six vibrant designs complete with a twelve inch, 250 - foot roll of professional grade plastic wrap, which holds tighter, longer and more securely than traditional store brands. ChicWrap is also the only plastic wrap designed for home use that utilizes the safe and easy, patented ZipSafe Slide Cutter technology. All that is required for a clean cut is to lay the plastic wrap across the item to be wrapped, and lightly move the button across the track. The ever-sharp blade is completely contained within the cutter to avoid cuts and kitchen mishaps. Suspenseful, Romantic Holiday Read Award winning writer Kathi Macia will get you in the Christmas spirit with her new Christmas fiction novel, A Christmas Gift (NewHope, www.newhopedigital.com). The inspirational love story is filled with suspense. The novel’s main character, Julia, accepts a job teaching in Chiapas, Mexico and is unaware of how deeply the events leading up to Christmas, the growing affections of a local pastor, and one simple Christmas Eve service will change her life. Macias notes, “I wanted to weave in an international tale of intrigue that would give a unique twist to the story and also take the Christmas gift idea to an entirely different level.” Susan G. Mathis, author of The Remarriage Adventure, writes, “This page-turning, cultural thriller is packed with compelling and sobering truths about the broken and sometimes evil world around us as well as the reality that God’s plans are, ultimately, good.” Cool Beans This holiday season unwind with a hot cup of joe and the soothing sounds of classical pianist Dottie Clendenin. Decompress with Dottie’s recently released second CD, a custom-designed mug and a 6-ounce bag of fresh-roasted gourmet coffee beans. ($27 gift set, dottieplayspiano.com). Cool Beans is an artful arrangement of classics from the 1940s to ’90s and features timeless piano ballads like Moon River, Love Story and Over the Rainbow along with medleys from Phantom of the Opera and Les Miserables. Committed to enriching the performing arts, a portion of the proceeds from Dottie’s Cool Beans gift set benefits the Orlando Philharmonic Orchestra’s program for elementary students in Title 1 schools. 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Original Christian Music & Lyrics by Michele Miree Smith performed by notable artists singing her 15 inspirational songs. sav·a·life V E S TAV I A visit: www.MicheleMireeSmith.com Also available on iTunes November 2014 21 H EALTHY L IVING Holiday Expectations If we expect perfection of circumstances and people, chances are we will be disappointed. Each holiday event requires much preparation and planning. Expectations might be that everyone will be cheerful without disagreements. The moment a disagreement occurs the one with expectations experiences disappointment. As other disappointments take place, feelings of depression may occur. circumstances do not always go our way, but the Lord will never leave us nor forsake us. He Is faithful and trustworthy. Secondly, we must die to our expectations. A disciple of Christ is a person who has taken up his cross. The disciple must apply the work of the cross to the self-life. Galatians 2:20 states, “I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me….” Expectations and rights must die at the cross. If we have no expectations, except in the Lord, then our disappointments cease. A dead man has no disappointments! If Jesus is living through us, then He can handle those “disappointments.” How can this be avoided? We can approach this Remember, we can truly enjoy the holidays if we give all of our expectations to the from two perspectives. First, our expectation Lord and make Him our only expectation. must be in the Lord, not in man or circumstances. Paul exemplified this truth as he wrote —Dr. Jay Jackson from prison in Rome. In Philippians 1:20 he Exec. Dir. 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His visits with seniors revealed to him how many senior adults were lonesome, depressed, and hurting mentally, physically and emotionally. Majors’ sought to find a way to lift their spirits and bring some joy and hope into their lives. He began to use his gift of music to serve seniors. Singing old pop songs mixed with humor, personal testimony, and classic southern gospel, resonated with most seniors. For a few minutes they were able to focus on the lighter side of life and experience some of the joy God desires them to have. Today Majors has seen God fulfill his dream for his senior years of giving back through song that lifts up one’s faith in Jesus Christ. He spends his time preaching and singing at special events including senior adult gatherings, concerts, revivals, banquets, parties and weddings. Besides song he also shares his powerful personal testimony. Majors and his wife Mary Ruth went through two times of testing when there was little joy in their life and they needed to be lifted up. Twenty-five years ago Buddy was waiting for heart surgery when his heart failed and came very close to death. After surgery, the doctor told his wife, “He shouldn’t be here.” A miracle! Eighteen years ago, Mary Ruth underwent surgery to remove a golf-ball size malignant tumor from her brain. The prognosis was grim and she was given three months to live. But God had other plans. Through the able hands of two neurosurgeons, the tumor was removed and 18 years later she is still at his side. Another miracle! Through these crisis God reaffirmed for Buddy, Mary Ruth, their two sons and their families, that apart from Jesus Christ life makes no sense. Majors’ message to all seniors is to never allow age to be a hindrance to following your dream and accomplishing your goal. If you are interested in having Rev. 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Reduce heat to low, and simmer; place top of double boiler over simmering water. Whisk sugar and eggs into mustard mixture, and cook, whisking constantly, 8 to 10 minutes or until thickened. Remove from heat, and cool completely (about 1 hour). (Mixture will continue to thicken as it cools.) Refrigerate in an airtight container up to 2 weeks. Makes 2 1⁄4 cups. Homemade Hot Mustard 1 cup dry mustard 1 cup apple cider vinegar 1 cup sugar 3 large pasteurized eggs, lightly beaten Homemade Horseradish Sauce 1 1⁄3 cups sour cream 1⁄2 cup whipping cream, whipped to soft peaks 6 tbsp. prepared horseradish 11⁄2 tsp. Dijon mustard 2 to 3 tsp. fresh lemon juice 1⁄2 tsp. sugar Fold together first 4 ingredients in a medium bowl. Stir in lemon juice and sugar. Add salt and pepper to taste. 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I would like to suggest three spiritual attitudes that we as Christ followers should possess. Trusting. Trust means to depend on, BJCC Concert Hall November 14 & 15 Ticketmaster.com • 1.800.982.2787 BJCC Central Ticket Office rely on, have confidence in, to believe in. Trust is something that has to be developed and earned. It is not an automatic response. Only the naïve would trust without having a relationship. There has to be a history of healthy interaction. The trust I’m referring to is trust in God. Proverbs 3:5 says,“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.” You can trust God in every situation and at all times. He has proven that He is faithful and trustworthy. Thankful. We must also be thankful. This is indeed an attitude of gratitude. I Thessalonians 5:18 says,“In everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” Being grateful is very positive. You can’t be thankful and negative at the same time, and there is always something to be thankful for. T eachable. Have you noticed it’s difficult to teach someone who knows everything? A sign of a good student (disciple) is one that is willing to learn and open to receiving information and instruction. Proverbs 1:5 says,“A wise man will hear and increase in learning and a man of understanding will acquire wise counsel.” I challenge you to discover or rediscover today how trusting God, being thankful, and being teachable are worthy spiritual attitudes that lead to spiritual maturity. —Tony Cooper Beginning his 25th Year of Service as Exec. 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Give Today jimmiehalemission.com t10#PY#JSNJOHIBN"- *Rated a 4-Star Charity by independent organization, Charity Navigator! November 2014 27 NOVEMBER 2014 November 14-15 Dr. Seuss' How the Grinch Stole ChristmasBroadway in Birmingham presents this musical Fri 7pm and Sat 1pm, ticketmaster.com. November 1 & 8 Samford Football Home Games- Nov. 1 Homecoming, Bulldogs take on Concordia at 2pm. Nov. 8 Samford vs. Western Carolina 2:30pm. Kids 12 and under get in free with paid adult, samfordsports.com. November 2 Orphan Sunday- Learn more at orphansunday.lifelinechild.org November 3 Arabesque – 8pm world renowned Vietnamese Independent Dance Company performs in first ever U.S. tour, 8pm Samford University Wright Center. Tickets start at $15. Free for Samford students and employees, tickets.samford.edu. November 9 Don Piper- Author of 90 Minutes in Heaven speaking at Riverchase Baptist 9:30am and 10:30am, 985-4495, www.riverchasebaptist.org. November 12 Foster Care Breakfast- 7-8:30am “How can your church live out the Great Commission through foster care?” Register to attend this free breakfast and panel discussion for answers. Lakeside Baptist Fellowship Hall, 2865 Old Rocky Ridge Rd. Register online at alabamachild.org/becominghome. Seating limited! November 13 Share the Story- Lifeline annual fundraising banquet, Sheraton Birmingham Hotel, 5:30pm Silent Auction, 6:30pm Dinner and Program. November 14-15 Christmas Arts & Crafts Show- Presented by the North Arts Council, Gardendale Civic Center, 857 Main Street, Fri 9-6, Sat 9-4. Free admission and parking, 681-8028, visit www.northartscouncil.webs.com S UPPORT G ROUPS November 16 Sounds of Mobile- 11am worship with song and dance group from the Univ. of Mobile. Bring your youth groups for a special time of worship. Stemley Baptist,399 Rock Church Rd,Talladega, 256-493-6771. November 17-19 Fall Jewelry Sale- Hosted by St. Vincent’s East Auxiliary in hospital atrium 7-4 each day, St. Vincent's East, 50 Medical Park East Dr,35235. Funds yearly scholarships to undergraduates seeking a degree in the medical field, educational cardiac CDs for patients, Camp Bluebird(adult cancer survivor/patient camp) and other worthwhile causes. November 21 Mid- Day Music- 12:30pm Paul Mosteller, baritone, and Frederick Teardo, organ, will perform a free, 30-minute concert, Cathedral Church of the Advent, 2017 6th Ave N,35203, adventbirmingham.org. November 23 Community Thanksgiving Service- 6pm Homewood area churches join together for service at Trinity United Methodist 1400 Oxmoor Rd. Rev. Brian Erickson will deliver the message. Combined adult choirs and orchestras of churches will present music of the season. Nursery provided. Non-perishable food items will be collected and donated to Greater Birmingham Ministries. November 25 I Cared Enough Thanksgiving Outreach- Presented by Daniel Cason Ministries 11 am & 6 pm, Bill Harris Arena @ CrossPlex, 2331 Bessemer Rd, 35208. Free meal, groceries, clothes, hair cuts, medical screenings, school supplies and more. November 27 THANKSGIVING Our Lady of the Valley Catholic Church, Hwy 119 Abortion Recovery 2nd and 4th Wed, 5:30pm Forgiven & Set Free Our Lady of Sorrows, “A Faith Bible study hosted Abortion Perspective"1st and 3rd Sun. Recovery Ala. in Chelsea, 2pm, 1728 Oxmoor Rd, Fultondale, Helena, Hoover, Homewood, Social Hall, and Springville. To learn more 983-4030/Chad. call 620-1344. Breast Cancer Addiction St. Vincent’s Bruno Conf. Ctr. Flow of the Spirit Church 2nd Tues. of mo. Facilitator Every Mon. 6:30pm, 90 Judith Harrington NoonSheffield Dr, Ashville, 2401:30pm, free lunch provided. 4801, 594-4888. Call 930-2217, e-mail katherPine Haven Church [email protected] to Every Mon. 6:00pm, Christian register support for people recovering St. Vincent’s East, Cancer from addiction or life issues. Treatment Ctr. Family members affected by 3rd Tues. of the month.Noon, addiction also welcome,3465 free lunch provided. Call 838Shannon-Wenonah Rd, 3519 for details. Bessemer,260-0020. Cancer ADHD Parent Support Group St. Vincent’s, Bruno Conf. Family Bridges and Grace Center Presbyterian Church General Cancer Support 4th Tues. of every month. Group, 1st Tues. of mo., 6-7:30pm, 6110 Deerfoot Facilitator Louis Josof Pkwy, Trussville. Call Diane at Noon-1:30pm, free lunch pro205-681-6431. Visit www.fam- vided. Call 930-2217, bridge.org e-mail [email protected] Autism/Asperger Syndrome to register. Christ the King Lutheran, St. Vincent's East, Cancer 611 Riverchase Pkwy. 1st Fri of mo. 6:30-8pm for parents and Treatment Ctr TOUCH General Cancer caregivers. RSVP for dinner [email protected], 612- Support Group for Cancer Survivors & Families.First 1567. Wednesday of every month, Alzheimers 11am, free lunch provided. Covenant Place, Gardendale Call 838-3519 for details. 2nd Thurs. of mo., 6-7pm 28 Birmingham Christian Family Hunter Street Baptist Rays of Hope, Rm W205, 2nd Sun. of mo. 5pm 2600 John Hawkins Pkwy, Hoover, 9857295, [email protected]. Celebrate Recovery Asbury United Methodist Every Tues. 6:30pm, grace filled, Christ-centered fellowship community, 6690 Cahaba Valley Rd (119), www.asburyonline.org/cr. Participants must be 18 years old. Calvary Baptist Every Tues. 6pm, 7570 15th Street Rd, Concord, 205-4911885, calvaryalive.com Harvest Assembly of God, Every Wed 6:30pm, meal provided, 81 Old Shocco Rd, Talladega, 256-362-5973. Harvest Community Church Every 2nd & 4th Tues.7pm,4465 Pinson Valley Pkwy, www.harvestcpc.org. Kingwood Church, Alabaster Every Fri. starts with dinner at 6:30pm, large group at 7pm and small groups at 8:30pm. A safe place where someone will walk with you to freedom from your habits,hang ups or hurts. 100 Harvest Way,6633933. McElwain Baptist Every Fri. 6:30pm,www.celebraterecoverybirmingham.co m4445 Montevallo Rd, 35213, 956-0388 North Gardendale Baptist, Every Thurs 6pm dinner, 7pm worship and large group, 125 Coming In DECEMBER December 2 Christmas Concert- UAB Symphony Band and Wind Symphony Band at Trinity United Methodist Homewood. Free. December 12 The Mutt-cracker- Birmingham Ballet’s canine filled version of the traditional Nutcracker, 7:30pm BJCC, www.birminghamballet.com. Benefits the Greater Birmingham Humane Society. December 12-14, 19-21 George Balanchine’s The NutcrackerPerformed by the Alabama Ballet, Samford Wright Center, alabamaballet.org. November 10 The Preservation Hall Jazz Band & Allen Toussaint – New Orleans legends perform 8pm at Samford University Wright Center, tickets.samford.edu/online/legends. December 5 Night of Jazz & Christmas Spirit- Enjoy live music performed by the Oak Mountain High School Jazz Bands and a delicious dinner at Oak Mountain High School. Email [email protected] for details. December 13-14 The Nutcracker- Performed by the Birmingham Ballet, BJCC, Sat 2pm and 7:30pm, Sun 2pm, www.birminghamballet.com December 13 Voices of the South- Christmas spectacular by the performing chorus of the Central Alabama Chapter of the Barbershop Harmony Society 3pm Spain Park High School,voicesofthesouth.com, 252-Sing. December 23 Manheim Steamroller Christmas- Presented by Broadway in Birmingham 7:30pm BJCC, www.ticketmaster.com. December 5 Christmas With Michael W. Smith Dove Award Winner and the celebrated musicians of the Alabama Symphony Orchestra perform 8pm Samford University Wright Center. Christmas favorites plus songs from Smith’s vast repertoire. Tickets start at $25, tickets.samford.edu/Online/Michael_W _Smith. November 30 Hanging of the Green- Trinity United Methodist List your event in the Homewood observes the beginning of the Advent Birmingham Christian Family Season with 6pm worship service and sacred music Community Calendar led by Trinity’s Sanctuary Choir and Orchestra. Plus Trinity ladies vocal ensemble. Free, nursery providEmail to: ed, and free valet parking, 1400 Oxmoor Rd [email protected] Homewood, 879-1737, subject line-Calendar www.trinitybirmingham.com. Belcher Hill Rd, 410-2156. One Eighty/Clearbranch UMC Ministry Every Friday at 6pm, 5770 U.S. Hwy 11, Springville, 35146, www.turnoneeighty.org, 238-8075. Palmerdale United Methodist Sundays 5pm, 7778 Alabama Hwy 75, Pinson, 35126, 681-9762. The Worship Center Christian Church Every Mon., including holidays, 6:00pm, www.theworshipcentercc.org or visit us at 9553 Pkwy East, 35215. COPD St. Vincent’s Blount First Tuesday of every month, 6pm Divorce/Grief Recovery Beginning Experience- For adults who have suffered a loss through death, divorce or separation. Our Lady of Sorrows Catholic Church, 6pm every Tues, www.birminghambeginningexperience.org Divorce DivorceCare The Church at Brook Hills, Weds. Modular 5A, 6:30-8:30pm. DivorceCare for Kids (DC4K) ages 5-12 Same time, 313-7777. DivorceCare Inverness Vineyard Church, 4733 Valleydale Road, 35242 Inverness. 1pm, Loved One," 938-3753. Hoover, 35244, 2nd Tues. of invernessvineyard.org. mo,Noon-1pm,sponsored by DivorceCare South Highland Meadow Brook Baptist Every Sun. 3-4:30pm, 4984 The Leukemia & Lymphoma Presbyterian, Weds, G16, 6Meadow Brook Rd, 35242, Society, 988-5004,989-0098. 7:30pm. Registration, free, www.griefshare.org, 933-0790. Multiple Myeloma 991-8384. Green Valley Baptist, Family Support Group St. Vincent’s East, Cancer Patton Chapel Rd Hoover.1st Safe Harbor Center Sat of mo.11-1pm. Every Tuesday faith-based 2nd Tues. Led by Dr. Penny [email protected] support for those who have Njoroge, 478-1464, 838teens in rebellion. Signs of Ostomy 3594.Every Sat.11am-Noon, rebellion can be disrespect, 1036 Hagwood Rd, 35235. Led St. Vincent’s 119, social withdrawal, dropping September 11, 2:30 – 4:30 p.m. by Dr. Penny Njoroge. grades, truancy, substance B’ham Ostomy Assoc., Lyn abuse, 981-0995, www.thesafe- Infertility Hayes 907-3706 or Sydney Homewood Library harbor.org. Bloom 995-0149. RESOLVE (The National Grief Parenting Infertility Association) Peer Ala. Grief Support Services Support Group, 1st Monday of Alabama Family Rights 2nd & 4th Tues 10:15am for Assoc. mo., 6-7:30pm, 868-1252 or Newly Widowed, Sr Citizen 626-9458 www.alfra.org. [email protected] Ctr, 193 Bryan Rd, Sumiton. Hoover Library, 200 Low Vision 1st & 3rd Tues 10am Shades Dr, St. Vincent’s East, Classrooms Municipal Valley Pres, 2305 Montevallo alfra.bhm.epr@gmail. Rd., 1st & 3rd Thurs 10am 1-2. For individuals and supHunter Street Baptist, 2nd & porting individuals living with Prostate Cancer St. Vincent’s East, Cancer 4th Wed 10am Huffman Low Vision. Last Wed. of mo. Treatment Ctr., 2nd Wed. of Baptist, 700 Huffman Rd, 1st 11:30am-1pm.Lunch $5, first & 3rd Wed 10am Regions time attending free, 838-3162. the month. Noon, free lunch provided. Call 838-3519 Bank,2964 Pelham Pkwy, 2nd Lupus & 4th Thurs 10am Westwood St. Vincent’s 119 Weight Loss Baptist,2349 Forestdale Blvd Indian Springs First Baptist Sat of mo, 10am – Noon, Call 870-0336 for more details. 1st Cahaba Valley Rd, 35242, Mondays, 5:30-6:30, 3375 Kingwood Church, Alabaster 7191 Cahaba Valley Rd, 408-6551. Every Tues. 6:30pm. A Journey www.tops.org, FB: TOPS Leukemia/Lymphoma/Myeloma Indian Springs AL from Mourning to Joy,Flag Christ the King Lutheran Foyer at 100 Harvest Way, Church- Luther Room,611 663-3933. Riverchase Pkwy West, McCalla Bible Church Every Thurs. 6:30pm, Fellowship Hall, 5860 Does your church or organization host a support group? Old Tuscaloosa Hwy. Tell us so we can share with Free, "Help for Hurting Birmingham Christian Family readers. Hearts in the Loss of a [email protected] www.ChristianFamilyPublications.com A BOUT O UR A DVERTISERS Support us by supporting them. 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