Camp Walden Parent-Orientation Guide
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Camp Walden Parent-Orientation Guide
Camp Walden Parent-Orientation Guide We are delighted that you and your child have chosen to make Camp Walden a part of your summer! Our top priority is to provide your camper with a safe and memorable overnight camping experience. In order to do that, we need to familiarize you with how camp runs and how best to prepare yourself and your camper for his/her session at Walden. This guide seeks to answer many questions that parents have—especially those new to Walden. Some of the information provided is straight-forward, such as laundry service and our bathing-suit policy; other information—regarding emotional issues, for instance—comes from our observations as directors, from other camping professionals, and from the feedback of Walden campers and parents, past and present. As this guide is updated annually, it is important that even parents of “veteran” Walden campers read through it thoroughly. We regularly add topics and alter the way we address others. You’ll find the packing list, directions to camp and Do Not Bring list included at the end. Also included herein is the WALDEN PARENT/CAMPER CONTRACT, a form for you and your son/daughter to read, sign and return to us by May 15. If there is anything we’ve missed—and surely there will be!—please do not hesitate to call us for answers or guidance. Here’s to a summer of sunny weather, lazy mosquitoes and happy campers! Liz and Scott CONTACT US: Winter—through June 1 Summer —through August 19 2335 Mistletoe Avenue 5607 South River Road Fort Worth, TX 76110 Cheboygan, MI 49721 Phone: 817-923-9536 Fax: 817-923-7992 Phone: 231-625-2050 Fax: 231-625-2600 1 Table of Contents Summer 2015 Important Dates . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Page 3 Typical A-B Day Schedule. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Page 3 Areas & Activities . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Page 4 Arts & Crafts Athletics Horseback riding Media Outdoor Life Performing Arts Waterfront Other Programs Procedures and Policies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Page 5 CampInTouch . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Packing for Camp. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Transportation. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Laundry . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Lost and Found. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Electronics Policies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Communicating with Your Camper . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . (Online photo gallery, letters, one-way email, phone-calls home) Sending Care Packages . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Personal Spending Money . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Our Mess Hall, i.e. Food at Camp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Visiting Day Procedures. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Off-Season Staff/Camper Contact . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Your Contact info/Refund Policies . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Page 5 Page 5 Page 6 Page 6 Page 7 Page 7 Page 8 Page 9 Page 9 Page 10 Page 10 Page 11 Page 11 Emotional Well-being and Behavior . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Pages 12-14 Homesickness, Bullying, Swearing, Participation, Graffiti Health and Medical Information . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Pages 15-17 Medical Forms, Infirmary Procedures, Medications, Braces/Glasses, Arriving Healthy, Staying Healthy Directions to Camp . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Page 17 Pre-Camp Checklist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Page 18 Packing List . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Page 19 Do Not Bring List . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Page 20 2 Summer 2015 Important Dates Saturday, June 13—Staff Week begins. Office staff will begin answering camp phones on Sunday, June 15. Between June 1 and June 13, Liz and Scott are reachable on their cell phones: 248-225-1256 and 817-253-0722. After June 14, please call the camp office to contact us. Sunday, June 21—CAMP BEGINS. First Session and Mini Session campers arrive (NOTE!!) FRIDAY, July 3—Mini Session campers depart Saturday, July 18—First Session campers depart and VISITING DAY Sunday, July 19—Second Session and Two-week campers arrive Wednesday, July 29—Mini-Mini Session campers arrive Saturday, August 1—Mini-Mini Session and Two-week campers depart Saturday, August 8—CAMP ENDS. All campers depart Typical Day Schedule 8 a.m. WAKE-UP BELL 2:30 p.m. THIRD PERIOD 8:30 a.m. BREAKFAST 3:45 p.m. PUNCH AND COOKIES—Snack and Mail Call in the Meadow. CLEAN-UP – Every one back to the cabin! Counselors will assist and supervise the clean-up of your cabin and surrounding grounds. Dress for 1st and 2nd periods. 4:15 p.m. FOURTH PERIOD 5:30 p.m. WASH-UP 6 p.m. DINNER 7-8 p.m. TWILIGHT—Campers may choose from a list of activities that are ‘open.’ 10 a.m. FIRST PERIOD 11:15 a.m. SECOND PERIOD 8:15 p.m. EVENING PROGRAM—With Unit Group. 12:30 p.m. WASH-UP for LUNCH 12:45 LUNCH 1:30 to 2:30 REST PERIOD—One counselor per cabin accompanies campers back to the cabin area for quiet activities. 9-9:30 p.m. EVENING SNACK 9:30-10:30 p.m. BEDTIME/LIGHTS-OUT— Determined by age group. 3 Activity Areas Your camper will choose his/her own activity schedule for two weeks at a time. We’ll make sure it’s well-rounded and fulfills any requests that you might have (e.g. swim lessons). Here are classes that are regularly part of the offerings. Arts & Crafts Visual arts come alive through ceramics (hand-building and wheel), drawing/painting, cartooning, copper enameling, jewelry (string and beads/metals), tie dye, batik, lapidary (shaping and polishing rocks), screen printing, black & white photography, digital photography, puppet-making, weaving and product design/model-making. Athletics Walden fills two sprawling athletic fields and other buildings with classes in individual and team sports: archery, fencing, gymnastics, fitness, tennis, yoga, golf, basketball, lacrosse, softball/baseball, soccer, ultimate Frisbee. Special unit/cabin programs can include kickball, ga-ga-ga, flag-football and dodge ball. Inter-camp sports competitions, golf and tennis trips, the Walden triathlon, and off-camp run/walk events fill out the offerings. Horseback Riding Our riding program focuses on English-saddle techniques, taught in the school ring; and the occasional Western ride. Riders may also participate in trail rides, Adopt-a-Horse classes, and other special activities at the stables. Media/Science This area encompasses video (making movies for our YouTube channel) and radio (playing music and hosting shows on WLDN), and drawing and writing for the Walden Pond, the daily camp newspaper. Outdoor Life Outdoor life is a general heading for nature, animals, gardening, and outdoor cooking. The Walden farm houses rabbits and kittens, and the occasional “found” turtle or frog! In these classes, campers learn to care for animals; identify the trees, flowers and birds of Walden; plant and care for herbs and vegetables; and cook over an open campfire. Our half-day Hikes and Trips classes explore sites around Northern Michigan. Performing Arts Campers interested in drama can participate in improvisational theater class, set design, and join the cast of the play. Dance classes include hip-hop and poms, (ballet and tap dependent on staff). Walden counselors teach guitar and drums, and lead a ‘jam session’ for musicians and singers. Tripping Overnights of 1- to 2- nights (and longer for more advanced campers) travel to a variety of scenic locations in the Lower and Upper Peninsulas. Campers will have the opportunity to join a cabin trip and/or sign up individually for day and overnight excursions. We will generally take “tent trips” of 1-3 nights at approved camp grounds where we are in contact with Department of Natural Resources personnel. All trips are voluntary; we assure that the campers going on trips are physically prepared, have the proper equipment, and take part in a pre-trip orientation. Trips remain in areas where there is an emergency medical facility within 45 minutes, unless a certified Wilderness First Aid staff member accompanies the trip. Trippers carry cell phones and are trained in emergency procedures. Waterfront Walden offers a huge array of boating activities: Canoeing, kayaking, stand-up paddle boarding, windsurfing, sailing, waterskiing, wakeboarding and tubing, plus fishing. Campers can earn Red Cross certifications in sailing and swimming. Campers who pass the swim test may participate in all waterfront sports and activities. When campers do not pass the test, we encourage them to sign up for swim lessons and retake the test as many times as they need to! 4 Procedures and Policies Your CampInTouch Account CampInTouch is your portal to your camper’s experience: medical forms, transportation and financial information, and the camp photo gallery are some of the items you’ll find here. You can pay your outstanding balances in CampInTouch and send your camper email from this portal. (CampInTouch also offers parents the ability to upload PDF forms directly to your camper’s account). Every Walden family has one or more CampInTouch accounts. When you registered your camper online, you created a password that, along with your email address, provides you access to this account. To see your account, go to our Web site and click on “Login.” If another parent/guardian would also like an account, make sure his/her email address is in your account contact information. Upon request, we will happily send an email with a link to create a new account. You should also contact us if you forget your password. Please don’t give your personal password out to friends and relatives. However, you can create guest accounts that allow them access to photographs and email. Packing for Camp The Walden Packing List can be found both in your CampInTouch account, at the end of this document, and also on the Parent page of our Web site. A few suggestions: You should not need more than two Large/Jumbo duffels for each camper (please avoid Brody’s “Big Bertha”; it is much too heavy when full). You might pack clothes and odds ‘n ends in one and save the other for bulky items such as bedding and towels. Two-week campers will need a 13-day supply of clothes; all others, a 10-day supply. WALDEN logo apparel can be purchased at Brodys in West Bloomfield, MI, www.brodysonline.com, 248-8516232, or Perfect Trading Co. in Bloomfield Hills, MI, 248-792-5949. Walden’s Bathing Suit Policy We do not allow “string” bikinis or “tube” tops Bathing suits that tie, OR APPEAR TO TIE, to keep them in place on top or bottom, are not worn at Walden. Nor are “tube”style tops with no straps. Swimwear that your camper brings with him/her should be appropriate for athletic waterfront activities. Girls may choose tank-style bathing-suit tops or anything with secure fasteners. Please see the Parent Page of our Website for pictures. Boys are expected to wear midthigh-length swim trunks. Other packing tips: If your camper is taking the bus, s/he might want to pack a small carry-on with travel games, water bottle, a small snack, and travel pillow. Walden will provide 1st Session and 2nd Session campers with a string backpack for the trip to Mackinac Island. Campers will NOT be allowed to bring other bags. Refrain from sending area rugs for use next to your camper’s bunk. Rugs trap dirt and mildew, and are usually piled in the dumpsters at camp’s end. Plastic-drawer storage units take up too much floor space and are a sure sign that your camper is over-packed. These, too, end up left at camp and eventually go to the landfill. Don’t worry about not sending enough. If your child runs out of clean underwear or another wardrobe component, we will wash the item or, if you would like, purchase an inexpensive replacement in town. 5 Transportation Come March, you’ll find detailed information about getting to and from camp in your CampInTouch account, under “Transportation Information.” By Bus First Session: Walden provides charter bus transportation, on June 21, from suburban Detroit (Farmington Hills), suburban Cleveland (Beachwood) and Chicago, and back to these cities on July 18. Two-Week Mini Session: We will have a bus returning to Farmington Hills on July 3. Second Session: Walden has charter bus transportation from Farmington Hills to camp on July 19, and from camp to both Farmington Hills and Chicago on August 8. Campers taking the bus to camp may pack a small snack and reusable water bottle in a backpack, along with items to entertain themselves, such as cards or books. We do not allow phones or electronics on the bus ride to or from camp. Candy and/or snacks must be eaten by the time your camper arrives at Walden. By Car Many Walden campers travel to camp by car. DROP OFF BEGINS NO EARLIER THAN 10:30 AM on the first day of First and Second Session, June 21 and July 19. Besides the fact that our gate will be closed until then, our staff is extremely busy preparing. If you arrive early, we will not be able to offer you the undivided attention that you need and deserve! Pick up times vary. Please see the Travel Information 2015 document in your CampInTouch account for detailed information. By Plane Pellston Regional Airport (PLN) is the closest commercial airport to Walden—a 35-minute drive. Our staff will pick up campers at Pellston at no additional charge on the day their session begins. If your child is flying alone, please make sure that you, and we, are aware of all of the airline’s rules and restrictions regarding “unaccompanied minors.” When possible, pre-pay the unaccompanied minor fee and provide camp with the receipt. Should my camper ride the bus? It is our belief that, for most first-time campers, taking the bus to camp is the easier way to acclimate to camp. Saying goodbye to parents is often less daunting in a semi-familiar suburban parking lot than it is in the foreign surroundings of a camper’s new bunk. The hours on the bus allow a gradual digestion of the separation from mom and dad. Plus, taking the bus offers the opportunity to start making friends right away, to listen to the anecdotes of returning campers, and maybe even to learn some Walden songs! Laundry Walden provides laundry service for all campers registered for longer than two weeks. Our laundry service picks up your child’s dirty laundry bag from his/her cabin porch on Thursdays and returns the laundry to the office the following Wednesday. This is why your camper needs two laundry bags, both of which should be washable. It is essential that you label every item of clothing, every towel, and every piece of bedding that your camper brings to camp.* Otherwise, you can be guaranteed that your camper’s property will end up in someone else’s clean laundry or in the “no name” package of clothes that comes back to us each week. (And there is no easy way 6 to locate the owner of a pair of unlabeled underwear!) *Walden works with Mabel’s Labels, a Canadian company, www.mabelslabels.com. Please let them know that you are from “Camp Walden MICH” when placing your order. Lost and Found Walden’s Lost and Found Box is located next to the Mess Hall in the middle of the main Punch and Cookie benches. Items left behind at activities and events are brought here. Items that remain at camp AFTER your camper’s departure will be shipped to you and the charge added to your invoice. Please think twice before allowing your camper to bring an expensive item to camp, be it clothing, an eReader, sports equipment, etc. When things go missing we try hard to locate them, but better to leave valuables at home. Electronics Policy Walden is a “screen-free” community! We forbid cell phones, hand-held video games, DVD players, iTouches and anything else with the capacity to play video. We adhere strongly to the belief that campers need a break from these items. While we do use computers for digital photography, radio and video classes; pull out the TVs for major sporting events; or provide popcorn and a movie as a cabin reward, camp remains almost entirely out-of-reach of the mass media. (See our Web site’s Parents Page for related articles.) Walden allows MP3 players without screens for the purpose of listening to music. Nook and Kindle eReaders without videos and without Wi-Fi capability are okay, but such expensive items should be a last resort for campers who are voracious readers. Walden has a nice lending library of children’s books. Cell Phones Most parents are relieved to know that their campers will have little to no access to computers and TVs at Walden. But the ban on cell phones causes some parents great angst. After all, many of you text and talk to your children throughout the day on mobile phones. Communicating with them is how you know they are safe. But camp is a different environment. It requires you, and them, to “let go” of the hi-tech tether. Aside from the fact that cell phones are expensive and can get lost or stolen, there is a fundamental problem with campers having phones at camp: Trust. Sending a cell phone to camp is like saying to your child that you are not entirely comfortable with them being in our care. When campers come to Walden they—and you—are making a leap of faith, placing the responsibility for their health and wellness with us and their counselors. The independence that children experience from this temporary separation is an important way they develop greater resilience, and learning to trust caring adults and solve their own problems is also among the most rewarding outcomes of camp. So please do not put your camper in the uncomfortable position of asking him or her to bring a phone to Walden “just in case.” If a situation arises at camp for which you need to be contacted, we will surely do so. Nor should you look the other way when your teenager “secretly” packs his or her phone. When we find them, we take them and mail them back home at your expense. Thanks for your understanding! 7 Communicating with Your Camper Letters to Campers Parents have several options when it comes to sending “news from home:” Write the traditional letter and put it in the mail to: 5607 S. River Road, Cheboygan, MI 49721 Fax a letter to camp, 231-625-2600 Email your camper through your CampInTouch account (CampInTouch charges $1 per). Please do not send emails meant for your camper to our “summer@” business email. Faxes and emails that arrive in our office before approximately 11 a.m. will be delivered to your camper that day. On the first day of camp, you will receive an email confirming your child’s safe arrival and also telling you his/her CABIN NUMBER. Include this designation (B-7, G-15) next to his/her name on all correspondence. Please refrain from telling your camper that you “miss them unbearably” and “can’t have fun without them.” These sentiments will only serve to make your camper anxious about YOUR well-being. If you have bad news to share while your child is at camp, please let the directors know before informing your camper. We will work with you to decide the best way and time to deliver this information. Letters from Campers Remember that no letters from your camper usually means that he is having too good a time to write! However, we do strongly encourage campers to show up with some missive home on Letter Days, twice a week. It helps to send younger children to camp with self-addressed, stamped envelopes. This way they are not deterred by having to remember all those numbers and where to stick the postage. If you have not received mail in a while and are concerned (or frustrated!), do not hesitate to contact us. Alternatively, you may receive a letter that your child wrote during a sad or lonely moment, especially in the first week of camp. This is normal, as campers tend to write more when feeling glum than when they are happy and busy. By the time this letter arrives, your child has most likely conquered the melancholy and moved on. Pictures CampInTouch also offers what has become the most popular “parent portal” to camp: the photo gallery. Our camp photographer Mark Goodine shoots dozens of pictures on most days. Photographs from the current day usually arrive online the following morning. However, Mark does take a day off each week! In addition, we will not post cabin photographs—those special pictures will arrive with the hardback yearbook. Phone/Skype calls Campers are prohibited from using the phones at camp, except under special circumstances. If a situation arises in which we feel it would benefit the camper to speak with you, we will certainly allow a traditional or Skype call. Campers who have birthdays while at camp may receive a call* on that day, at a predetermined time. Campers may also receive a call on the birthday of an immediate family member: mom, dad, sister or brother. Sorry—grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and pets do not count as immediate family! Because we have only two phone lines over which to conduct all of camp’s business, we must limit calls from home to 10 minutes. Our Skype address is camp.walden Please note: Campers will not be able to call OUT from camp for birthdays, only to RECEIVE your call. 8 Sending “Packages” Campers love receiving mail, and, of course, the bigger the better. However, the ever-growing quantity of large packages arriving in the mail creates a variety of problems. For that reason, like many other camps, we have changed our policy: o Mail must be no larger than approximately 10”x 13” padded envelope, except birthday packages. o Birthday packages must be marked as such and no larger than 500 sq. inches (the size of a medium Priority Mail box. o Please refrain from sending more than one large envelope a week. Ask that grandparents and other family/friends stick to the same general rule. o Sending food is prohibited. Food taken from campers who bring it to camp will NOT be returned when they leave. PLEASE DO NOT SEND FOOD TO CAMP! o o o o o We have children at camp with life-threatening allergies—to dairy, nuts, eggs, sesame seeds and other common ingredients. It is imperative that we keep these campers safe. Food in cabins attracts bugs and animals, and creates unsanitary conditions. Candy, chips and/or crackers end up replacing healthier camp meals. Campers can stay hydrated by bringing a reusable water bottle to camp and refilling it at the Mess Hall and at camp’s five drinking fountains throughout the day. Food will cause friction between campers who have it and those who don’t. For all of these reasons, FOOD IS FORBIDDEN and will be redirected to the local Senior Center. As an alternative, companies such as Sealed with a Kiss, Mirth in a Box, and Camp Pacs create entertaining nonfood packages for campers. Sending games, books, comics or novelty toys is always your best bet! Personal Spending Money/Camp Store Last summer, we debuted our camp store with great success! “Wald-Mart” sells Walden logo apparel, teddy bears, water bottles, magnets, bug spray and other necessities and knick-knacks. Wald-mart will not sell food. You may fund your camper’s store account by sending a check made out to Walden, with “Camp Store” on the memo line. You may also fund the store account online. Campers going to Mackinac Island will also need some personal cash. Thirty dollars is enough for a camper to purchase a meal ($7-$10), buy fudge ($7-$10) and take home a small souvenir or two ($10). You are welcome to send more, especially if your child wants to purchase gifts for family members. Mini Session campers not going to Mackinac Island might use their own money on other out-of-camp excursions (Mill Creek or an athletic excursion into Cheboygan or Harbor Springs, etc.) at our camp Trading Post event (a fundraiser for charity). Ten dollars is sufficient, especially for young Mini Session campers. Camper money will be kept in a locked cabinet in the office. We cannot be responsible for money kept in cabins! To send money to camp, put cash or check in an envelope (make checks out to “Camp Walden”), write your camper’s name and the amount on the outside of the sealed envelope. Deliver it to us in one of three ways: o o o Give the envelope to a camp administrator at the buses. If dropping child off at camp, bring the envelope to the camp office. Mail us your camper’s spending money ahead of his/her arrival at camp. 9 Our Dining Room, or “Mess Hall” Meals For a detailed description of food at camp, and sample menu, see the Parent Page of our Web site. Camp Walden serves three meals and two snacks daily. Meals in the Mess Hall offer a variety of choices—hot and cold cereals and a “breakfast bar” serving muffins, yogurt and fruit; a salad bar with greens and toppings at lunch/dinner; soup; bread and butter; plus vegetarian and gluten-free alternatives. Campers who still do not find an appealing option can request a soy-nut butter and jelly sandwich. The Mess Hall is peanut and tree-nut free. Besides water and cow’s milk at every meal, we make soy milk available. Snacks Campers receive snacks at 3:45 p.m. and before bed each evening. Despite its name, Punch and Cookies more often means fresh fruit! Nighttime snacks consist of bagged items, such as baked chips or Smartcorn popcorn. Food Allergies As mentioned previously, a growing number of Walden campers have severe food allergies. Our Mess Hall is prepared to handle peanut/tree nut allergies, as well as allergies to gluten, shellfish, sesame seeds, and legumes. TThis is why it is vital that you DO NOT send food to camp!! If your camper has special dietary needs or food allergies, and you have not made us aware of these yet, please contact us right away. The online Health History form provides the opportunity to explain in detail what your child’s allergy is and how you handle it at home. Visiting Day Policies Our annual Visiting Day occurs on the last day of First Session (Saturday, July 18). Parents of two-week campers may also spend time touring camp on the final day of that session (Friday, July 3; Saturday, August 1). These mornings are very busy times with lots of moving parts! Parents picking up two- or four-week campers, and those visiting seven-week campers are asked to respect our designated pickup times. You’ll find those in the Travel Information 2015 document in your CampInTouch account. WE WILL ONLY RELEASE CAMPERS TO PARENTS/LEGAL GUARDIANS. IF YOUR CAMPER WILL BE LEAVING CAMP, AT ANY POINT, WITH RELATIVES OR FAMILY FRIENDS, WE REQUIRE YOUR WRITTEN PERMISSION. PETS: We love dogs but must prohibit your pets in camp during mid-session pickups/drop-offs—July 5, August 2— or any time camp is IN SESSION. You may be confident of their sweet disposition, but an incident presents a liability for camp. If there is no way around having your dog accompany you to camp on pickup/drop off days, we ask that the animal remain in the car for most of the visit. Dogs MUST be on a leash when out of your vehicle. On pickup days, you are welcome to leisurely wander through camp and join us for lunch. On July 18, parents may take seven-week campers out of camp overnight, returning no later than 1:30 p.m. on Sunday. Campers who do not have visitors on this day will take a short excursion out-of-camp with Walden staff. Overnight accommodations at camp are not provided for visitors. But there are many nearby options. For a listing, please refer to the Forms and Documents section of your CampInTouch account. Make your reservations early: Northern Michigan is a popular summer vacation spot! 10 Off-Season Staff-Camper Contact It is not unusual for strong bonds to develop between campers and their college-age counselors. These relationships are healthy, fun and beneficial to campers and staff alike. However, this inevitably means that some children/teens will want to keep in touch with staff over the winter—by phone, visits, email or social-media sites such as Facebook and Instagram. Not only would it be impossible to prohibit interaction between these groups, we also don’t believe that this interaction is inherently negative. However, our official policy is to PROHIBIT the exchange of contact information of any kind between campers and our staff. As part of their training, we tell our staff that they are barred from communicating with campers after camp has ended. We also prohibit hired counselors from “friending” campers or parents on Facebook while employed by Walden. (We have set up a Walden group site on Facebook, WALDEN FAMILY, where staff and campers can interact publicly without having access to each other’s private information.) At Walden our foremost responsibility is to put your children in the company of the most trustworthy and appropriate young adults we can hire. However, by hiring staff, we do not implicitly recommend them as babysitters, nannies or child companions outside of camp. Our counselors work with your camper in the context of a visible, well-scrutinized community that has many built-in checks and balances. Counselors are supervised by senior staff and are guided by clear, firm policies regarding behavior. We hire our staff for the camp season and do not take responsibility for their behavior off-season. In the end, it is up to you how much interaction your camper has with Walden staff after camp. If you as a parent or legal guardian wish your child to exchange contact information with a camp staff member, that is, of course, your right. However, by doing so, you understand that you accept full responsibility for overseeing that interaction. Your Contact Information We need to know how to reach you at all times. If you are moving or vacationing during the time your child is camp, please let us know this. Parents who will be traveling during their camper’s session must leave camp with an intinerary and instructions of how to best contact you. Walden sends out mail in the winter, too. If you relocate and wish to continue receiving, for instance, the winter/spring Walden Pond, please change your address, phone numbers and/or email in your CampInTouch account. Refund Policy As a summer camp, our biggest expenses are fixed costs, and a camper’s late-spring decision not to attend does not lower those expenses. As stated on the Camper Application, campers whose registrations are cancelled before January 15 will receive a full refund of tuition. Cancellations between January 16 and March 14 will result in a refund of deposit less a $300 cancellation fee; between March 15 and May 15 will result in a refund of deposit less a $600 cancellation fee. After May 15, deposits will not be refunded. We cannot refund any part of the tuition of campers who are sent home for behavioral issues. Please make certain that your camper is prepared for the experience of a residential camp and has a thorough understanding of our behavior policy, on the following pages and in our Parent/Camper Contract. “Walden Days, Walden Nights There’s nothin’ to do back in the city…” 11 Emotional Well-Being and Behavior at Camp Homesickness Homesickness is the top concern of new campers and their parents. Indeed, most children have some mild homesick feeling when they are away. Don’t be surprised if you receive a “come and get me” letter a few days into camp. Fortunately, this feeling has almost always passed by the time you receive the mail: Campers become busy at activities, establish friendships and soon understand that the entire camp staff wants them to succeed. Rest assured, if we are unable to help your child adjust to camp life, we will contact you. The best thing you can do to decrease the likelihood that homesickness will disrupt your child’s experience at camp is to be proactive. The following is from the American Camp Association (ACA) Web site: Phillips Exeter Academy psychologist Dr. Christopher Thurber studied homesickness in 329 boys between the ages of 8 and 16 at resident camp. According to his results, homesickness is the norm rather than the exception. A whopping 83 percent of the campers studied reported homesickness on at least one day of camp. Thurber and the ACA suggest the following tips for parents to help their child with homesickness: Encourage your child's independence throughout the year. Practice separations, such as sleepovers at a friend's house that simulate the camp environment. Your child should be comfortable sleeping out of his/her house before arriving at camp. Involve your child in the process of choosing a camp. The more that the child owns the decision, the more comfortable the child will feel being at camp. Discuss what camp will be like before your child leaves. Consider role-playing anticipated situations, such as using a flashlight to find the bathroom. Use a calendar to show exactly the amount of time a child will be away. Predictability and perspective on the length of separation is important whenever possible. Send a note or care package ahead of time to arrive the first day of camp. Acknowledge, in a positive way, that you will miss your child. For example, "I am going to miss you, but I know that you will have a good time at camp." Don't bribe. Linking a successful stay at camp to a material object sends the wrong message. The reward should be your child's newfound confidence and independence. Pack a personal item from home, such as a stuffed animal, special pillow or blanket. Speak positively about your child’s upcoming camp experience and avoid exposing your camper to your own anxiety or ambivalence. Even comments such as, "I hope you'll be okay," or "What will I do without you?" can leave a child worried and make her preoccupied with thoughts of home. Don't make a "pick up plan" or a deal with a child to bring him home if he doesn't like the experience of being away! This undermines the camper's sense that his parents have confidence in his ability to be on their own, and sets him up to expect that he won't like the new experience. Talk candidly with the camp directors to obtain their perspective on your child's adjustment. Don't feel guilty about encouraging your child to stay at camp. For many children, camp is a first step toward independence and plays an important role in their growth and development. 12 While most incidents of homesickness will pass in a day or two, Thurber's research shows that approximately seven percent of the cases are severe. If a camper is not eating or sleeping because of anxiety or depression, it is time to go home. However, don't make your child feel like a failure if his/her stay at camp is cut short. Focus on the positive and encourage your child to try camp again next year. Please remember that we have a no-phone-calls-home policy, and cases of homesickness are no exception. Hearing your voice at the other end of the phone line magnifies the distance between you and your child, and intensifies emotions. Only in rare cases, and after we have thoroughly discussed the situation with you, might we allow a phone conversation to take place. The good news is that it is unusual for a Walden camper to leave camp early due to homesickness. The vast majority of campers overcomes these feelings and enjoys the camp experience. Walden owns numerous copies of Dr. Thurber’s DVD-CD set, The Secret Ingredients of Summer Camp Success: How to Have the Most Fun with the Least Homesickness. We also highly recommend Michael Thompson’s new book, Homesick and Happy. We encourage anxious new campers and their parents to take advantage of these resources between now and the summer. Bullying In 2015, we know much more about bullying than ever before—it’s causes, detection, prevention. As a summer camp, we are extremely sensitive to this issue, knowing that being bullied at camp can be an even more troubling experience for a child than being bullied at home. That is why we spend a significant amount of time training our staff about bullying: how to recognize and approach incidents; why it is important for “bystanders” to speak up; why speaking up isn’t “tattling”; and the difference between bullying and meanness or insensitivity. We want campers and staff to be comfortable alerting us to problems while at camp and to bullying issues that arise when camp is over. Because we take bullying so seriously, we make it a point to share our policy with campers in our literature and on the FIRST DAY OF CAMP. Our program for Units II and III girls, Walden T.R.U.E. (Trust/Respect/ Unity/Empathy), addresses “relational aggression” head-on through role-playing and team-building exercises. The result has been very, very few cases of chronic bullying at Walden since we began using this multifaceted approach. Parents also played a vital role by: discussing bullying with their campers, specifically in the context of camp; stressing Walden’s intolerance for it; and informing us, before camp, of any past incidents or behaviors. If your child has been a target of bullying, LET US KNOW! Counselors should be aware of this so that they are especially vigilant about helping your child make friends and adjust well to camp. If your child has been a perpetrator in the past, LET US KNOW! No parent wants to paint a negative picture of his/her child, but by having this information we can specifically prepare your camper’s counselors with methods for channeling those impulses, stressing empathy, and harnessing your camper’s leadership skills in a positive way. iChronic bullying behavior may warrant a camper’s removal from camp,i iwith no refund of tuition.. 13 Swearing Swearing and other offensive language is not allowed at camp. By campers, counselors or administrators. Period. We are aware that most campers know these obscenities and some probably use them, depending on age, in or out of your earshot at home. However, in seeking to make camp a place where children of all ages and backgrounds feel welcome and comfortable, we prohibit it. Swearing makes most campers uneasy and is just plain ugly. The vast majority of campers use appropriate language. However, if a camper exhibits a persistent swearing habit, we will call home. Like bullying, chronic swearing is a behavioral issue that may warrant a camper’s removal from camp with no refund of tuition. Participation We hope your camper is coming to Walden to be busy! By allowing campers to choose what they do most of the day, we are assuming that they will pick activities that interest them and enthusiastically attend those activities! If they find they have registered for an activity that they do not enjoy, we offer the opportunity to switch into something else. Skipping activities is forbidden. When a Walden camper is a “no-show” for an activity, his/her absence sets in motion a time- and energy-consuming string of events: counselors are sent to look for him or her, the office is notified and, if the camper cannot be located within minutes, we initiate a full-fledged “missing camper” search. This is serious business! Please stress to your camper the importance of being where they are supposed to be at camp! Two days a week and each evening, your camper will participate in group programs designed by the camp directors, program director and unit programmers. Not everyone is a die-hard kickball fan or looks forward to a challenging scavenger hunt. But experience has shown us that campers who participate nearly always end up enjoying the activity. Programs that involve the entire camp, especially, are designed to have multiple components to engage kids of all interests and abilities: athletic, intellectual and artistic! Therefore, we expect your child to join all of these group activities unless a very good reason exists for him/her not to. Graffiti Walden takes great pride in its facilities and natural beauty. We forbid writing on building walls, beams, mattresses, bed frames, or carving into trees. Campers who leave their autographs or other marks on our facilities will be billed for the time and effort it requires to remove those marks. Campers may not bring permanent markers to Walden; we can supply those when necessary, for autographs and the like. Goodnight, Camp Walden, we’ll miss you, Had a great summer, we’ll be back next year Now we gather ‘round the campfire for the last time So let’s all raise a smile not shed a tear 14 Health and Wellness at Walden Medical forms In order to fully provide for your child’s medical well-being, we require three items, all of which can be found under the “Forms and Documents” section of your CampInTouch account. 1) A complete ONLINE health history for your camper, including mental-health history. This would be a good place to include any information about past bullying incidents. You will submit this electronically and do not need a doctor’s signature. 2) A doctor-signed physical-examination form. This physical must be less than a year old. You will send this form to us—via email, fax, mail or upload the PDFs to your CampInTouch account. 3) An immunization record, also signed by the doctor’s office. You will send this form to us via email, fax, or mail, or you can upload the PDFs to your CampInTouch account. iWE MUST HAVE THESE FORMS AT CAMP PRIOR TO YOUR CHILD’S ARRIVAL!! State law requires that we have your camper’s medical forms before s/he can participate in ANY camp activities. Forms for both First and Second Session campers are due May 15. The directors and Walden’s camp health officers need time to read through these forms and prepare for potential health issues BEFORE the campers arrive. Please make completing the health forms early a top priority. Infirmary Walden employs two or three camp health officers (CHOs) and/or RNs/LPNs, and houses rotating doctors-inresidence who change weekly. Our infirmary is stocked to handle common camp medical issues: bites, bruises, colds and sore throats, e.g. The camp doctor oversees “sick call” immediately following breakfast and dinner for campers with medical complaints. You will receive a call from the Infirmary staff if: 1. 2. 3. 4. Your child spends the night in the Infirmary due to illness. The camp doctor deems it necessary to prescribe a medication for your child. The camp doctor/nurse believes your child’s medication regimen should change for any reason. The camp doctor/nurse deems it necessary for your camper to seek additional treatment or tests at the McLaren-Northern Michigan hospitals in Cheboygan or Petoskey, or at the office of a specialist. Medications--NEW!! Prescription and over-the-counter meds no longer come to camp with campers. They will be pre-packaged and delivered to camp by CampRx. Please stay tuned for further instructions in early spring. STATE LAW REQUIRES THAT ALL MEDICATIONS, WITH THE EXCEPTION OF EMERGENCY INHALERS AND EPI-PENS, BE KEPT IN THE INFIRMARY. This includes OVERTHE-COUNTER pain killers, inhalers used daily, herbal remedies (such as melatonin), and allergy and cold medicines. 15 The camp health officers will deliver morning medications at breakfast, so no trip to the infirmary is necessary—this includes daily asthma “puffers” and multi-vitamins. If your camper takes a regular dose of medication any other time of the day, s/he will need to visit the infirmary. CHOs distribute bedtime meds at the infirmary between 9 p.m. to 10 p.m., following evening program. Counselors will accompany younger campers on this errand. Braces and Glasses If your child wears braces and has a problem during the summer, we will either take him/her to the local dentist for treatment or determine whether a visit to the orthodontist is necessary. If your child wears glasses, please be sure to send either an extra pair or the prescription (or both!). Arriving Healthy It’s vital that you send your children to camp well-rested and illness-free! Group living situations provide a mecca for contagious illnesses and infestations. A child who arrives at camp in poor health puts many others at immediate risk. We ask that you let us know if your child has been exposed to any communicable diseases in the weeks leading up to camp (flu, chicken pox, head lice, etc.) Our health officers visually screen all campers within 24 hours of their arrival. Staying Healthy There are certain habits that your child will need to practice at Walden that they don’t necessarily need to practice at home. Our counselors will assist younger campers with these new routines and remind older campers of them. But discussing with your camper the following issues BEFORE CAMP will go a long way toward preparing them. Your camper will use a lot of energy during his/her days at camp. Remind children about the importance of staying hydrated and eating properly. Let them know that if they do not see food to their liking at a particular meal to ask their counselor, unit programmer or a director. We will find them something! Sunscreen is vitally important at camp. The Northern Michigan sun is particularly strong, and campers should be in the habit of applying a 30+ SPF sunscreen several times a day to exposed areas. Rash guards, hats and other protective clothing are a good idea. Our athletic fields and waterfront have sunscreen on hand for campers who need to reapply. The Skin Cancer Foundation’s recommended products can be found here: http://www.skincancer.org/products/categories Showering and daily hygiene are a new responsibility for some younger campers. We do not require campers to shower every day, but please discuss with your 2nd through 5th graders that keeping clean includes brushing their teeth in the morning and evening, brushing their hair, and changing clothes each day. Make sure your camper is comfortable with showering (as opposed to bathing in the tub) before camp begins. Mosquitoes are part of life in the woods. Please send your child with bug repellant. Whether it is DEETbased, Picaridin-based or herbal is up to you. Talk about the importance of using it daily and covering up when doing activities under the trees: nature/animal care, outdoor cooking, and fencing all take place in wooded parts of camp. Most evenings at Walden are cool enough that campers will be comfortable in long sleeves and long pants, which help to protect against mosquitoes during their dusk meal time. 16 Ticks are an uncommon occurrence at camp, but a concern nevertheless. Practice a “tick check” with your camper, stressing these areas of the body: under the arms; in and around the ears, hair and hairline; inside the belly button; behind the knees; in the groin area; and around the waist. Parents of children who regularly wet the bed at night should let camp know ahead of time that this might be an issue. If so, pack a protective mattress cover and an additional set of sheets; some campers will bring pull-ups to wear while sleeping. If a camper should wet the bed, a counselor will change the camper’s bedding when all of his/her bunkmates are at breakfast. Dirty sheets are delivered to the office for washing that day or the next. We train our staff to treat this often embarrassing issue with great sensitivity. However, campers are often hesitant to let anyone know about a bed-wetting incident. Remind them that their counselors are there to help and that sleeping in a soiled bed is unsanitary and unhealthy. Counselors will be watching your camper closely for signs that something might be physically amiss: persistent scratching, refusing food, acting unusually tired, etc. But some ailments are harder to see and easier to hide. Stress to your child that s/he should never hesitate to seek out an adult for help when feeling unwell! Directions to camp GPS devices have been known to get parents lost on their way to camp! We suggest following these specific directions or referring to the Google map on our Web site. 1. Take I-75 North 2. Take exit 313 (Hwy 27) and turn right toward Cheboygan. Drive approximately 15 miles (you will pass through Topinabee and hug the shore of Mullett Lake for part of the drive.) 3. Turn right at the blinking yellow light. This is Hwy 33. Drive approx. 3 miles. 4. Turn left at Orchard Beach Road. Drive approximately two miles. 5. At the stop sign, turn right onto South River Road. Drive two miles. Camp will be at the top of the hill on your right. (You’ll see our riding rings and stables.) 6. If you reach the entrance to Michakewa Shores, on the right, you’ve gone a quarter mile too far. 17 Pre-Camp Checklist I have logged into my CampInTouch account and … Filled out the ONLINE “Camper Health History” form. Uploaded or sent to camp my child’s “Physician’s Exam” and “Immunization” forms, signed by his/her doctor (if after May 30, I have sent these to the Cheboygan address). Consulted the “Travel Information 2015” document for details regarding bus, car and plane travel to camp. Completed the “Camper Transportation” form, letting camp know how my child will be traveling to and from camp. Downloaded and read the “Parent Orientation Guide!” Printed out, and discussed the items on, the “Parent/Camper Contract” with my camper. We have each signed this form, and emailed/mailed it to camp. If so desired, signed up for a hardcover 2015 yearbook and/or horseback riding lessons on the “Additional Options” form. Listed no more than two other children with whom my camper would like to be in a cabin on the “Bunk Requests” form. (We can only acknowlege the first two friends requested.) Uploaded a photograph of my camper in the “Camper Photo” section. Re-checked the “Packing List” and “Do Not Bring List” and labeled everything my camper is taking with him/her. If necessary, I have also… Made Walden aware of any travel plans that I have during my child’s session and delivered a written itinerary, with dates and locations, to camp. Taken a deep breath, knowing that Walden’s directors and staff will do their utmost to make sure that my child is safe, healthy and enjoying camp! 18 CAMP WALDEN 2015 Packing List This is a suggested list. For instance, if your child tends to go through clothes rapidly, then pack a bit more than what is noted. If s/he loves sports, probably best to send two pairs of athletic shoes. Please remember: We will not send out laundry for two-week campers. These campers will need a 13-day clothing supply. All other campers should have a 10-day clothing supply. For trips out of camp, such as Mackinac Island, we request that campers wear a Walden T-shirt and/or sweatshirt for easy identification. Clothing ____ 6 pr shorts ____ 4 pr jeans/athletic pants ____ 10 long- and short-sleeve T-shirts, incl. one green or grey that says “Walden” ____ 3 sweatshirts (1 “Walden”) ____ 2 pr pajamas (1 for cool weather) ____ 10-14 pr underwear ____ 10-14 pr socks ____ 3 swimsuits (please note our swimwear policy earlier in this Parent Guide) ____ 1 raincoat or poncho ____ 1 mid-weight (i.e. fleece) jacket ____ 3 beach towels ____ 1 pillow ____ 2 pillow cases ____ 2 fitted cot sheets ____ 2 flat cot sheets ____ 2 blankets ____ 1 sleeping bag (may be unzipped and used as a 2nd blanket) Miscellaneous ____ Flashlight and batteries ____ Kleenex ____ Toilet articles in box/case ____ Sunscreen and bug spray ____ Cards/games/books ____ Stationary/stamps Shoes ____ 1 pr water shoes (not flip flops) ____ 1-2 pr athletic shoes ____ 1 pr hiking shoes (a sturdy athletic shoe can often substitute) ____ If horseback riding: 1 pr hard-sole shoes with small heel, or riding boots Optional Items (*available at camp) ____ Cot-sized mattress cover ____ Disposable camera(s) ____ Tennis racket, Archery bow, Lacrosse stick* ____ Softball glove* ____ Musical instruments ____ Dance shoes (Tap, Ballet, Etc.) ____ Board games* ____ Riding helmet*, Riding Breeches or Boots Bed and Bath ____ 2 washable laundry bags Mini Session campers: 1 laundry bag ____ 4 bath towels ____ 4 wash cloths and/or hand towels ____ 2 large duffel bags (please avoid jumbo-size bags; they become too heavy when filled!) 19 FOOD! FOOD! FOOD! 20