Volunteer Recognition Pantry
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Volunteer Recognition Pantry
Volunteer Recognition Pantry Healthy Recipes for Keeping Motivated and Devoted Volunteers Volunteer Recognition Pantry… Healthy Recipes for Keeping Motivated and Devoted Volunteers This book is designed for the purpose of assisting you recognize your volunteers and insuring your volunteer program has resources at hand that might be helpful when your funds are limited but your heart is full. Enjoy! Designed and Produced by Silvestre Araceli Smith (RC) in Collaboration with Cathy Mansfield, Installation Volunteer Services, ACS Menu Planning Fundmentals Recipes from Budget to Gourmet Seasonings… A Daily Dose of Reflection Desserts A’La Poem Distinguishing Made Easy… Deli Food Kits Special Entrees for all Seasons Key Ingredients & Whine List Installation Volunteer Services Ready to Serve Hors d’Vours Menu Planning Fundamentals Raising a Hand Isn't Enough Be very careful not to imply that anyone can become a volunteer simply by calling up or raising a hand. It's guaranteed that you'll end up with a screening problem! Or with someone who says, "what do you mean I can't do this?" The best thing is to say some variation of: "now accepting applications," "call for an interview," or "let's talk about whether this is the right assignment for you." Then you have established your intention to find the best candidates, which may mean turning some applicants away. Hint: Even if you take the first person who applies, it's much more motivating to say "We're delighted that you qualify for this volunteer role" than to say "Since you're breathing, you can do it"! VOLUNTEER RECOGNITION A Year-Round Responsibility The following list provides lots of ideas at a glance for recognizing your volunteers yearround as well as during National Volunteer Week. It is reprinted with permission from a recently revised handbook entitled From Here to There, published by the Volunteer Action Center of the United Way in Dayton, Ohio. A volunteer’s pay is recognition and the assurance that he/she is an equal partner of the agency or organization. Recognition, therefore, should be an integral part of the management process so that people feel valued and good about themselves and their organization. THE INFORMATION CONTAINED IN THIS DOCUMENT DOES NOT EXPRESS OR IMPLY AN ENDORSEMENT OF ANY PRODUCTS, SERVICES, OR FIRMS BY THE U.S. ARMY, FORT BRAGG, OR THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT. 1 WHEN TO RECOGNIZE VOLUNTEERS 1. At the time they sign up to volunteer: Send letter of welcome Issue I.D. card, name tags, uniform, etc. Provide an orientation program Provide a parking space, lunch, coffee and/or mileage reimbursement Provide good job descriptions, training and supervision Publish name of new volunteer in employee newsletter and/or volunteer newsletter 2. Daily or weekly: Smile! Informal thank-yous by staff and volunteer coordinator Document their time for evaluation On the job praise 3. Monthly: Volunteer of the Month Appropriate evaluations Articles in newsletters Logging Volunteer Hours 4. Annually: Special events where awards are given, such as a dinner, luncheon, reception, coffee or dinner dance. Certificates, plaques and other awards for time spent volunteering Gift of photo of volunteer at work or receiving award Volunteer Appreciation Day- use facilities free of charge “Turn-about” lunch - staff serves volunteers Holiday parties 5. At the completion of a special project: Say “thank you” Send letter of thanks to volunteers and/or their boss or school or staff supervisor Write article for newspaper or in-house publication about project. Take out to lunch or for a coffee break Promote to another job; give more responsibility 6. At meetings with staff or groups: Tell about volunteer projects and individual accomplishments Praise volunteers to others Have a slide show or film showing volunteers at work Invite volunteers to staff meetings Provide volunteers with outside training programs 2 7. On their birthdays or holidays: Send cards Have an informal party 8. When they are sick: Send a get-well card Call at home 9. At the time they leave: Send a letter of thanks Give a certificate or resolution of appreciation Send letter of appreciation to potential employers 10. During National Volunteer Week. Be a part of the community recognition activities planned by local Volunteer center 3 WHERE TO RECOGNIZE VOLUNTEERS 1. Volunteer office or lounge: Have coffee available Have pictures posted 2. Hallway entrance to building or cafeteria Have a bulletin board with pictures Display posters Display Pictures of Volunteers 3. On the job: Thank-yous and smiles Treat as an employee Invite to staff meetings 4. At home: Send a letter/post card Call Thank you note 5. At school or business: Send a letter 6. At church: Announcements in bulletin Encourage minister to talk about volunteering 7. At shopping centers: Display banner or billboard 8. At main intersection: Display banner or billboard 9. In all media: Newspaper--feature articles about volunteer projects and/or individual volunteers TV--commercial and cable Radio--news and public service announcements Slide shows and movies In-house publications Volunteer newsletters Professional journals or magazines TV documentary during National Volunteer Week 10. City Council or Commission meetings: Proclamation Mayor’s Award for Volunteer Service 4 RECOGNITION OF STAFF WHO WORK WITH VOLUNTEERS 1. Thank staff members who are working cooperatively with volunteers For special projects they worked on together For using volunteer’s skills creatively For using lots of volunteers For taking time to supervise and train volunteers For showing their appreciation to volunteers 2. Send memo to department and supervisor recognizing their efforts 3. Award certificate to department who most effectively uses skills and talents of volunteers 4. Invite staff to volunteer recognition events 5. Remember, with today’s budget cuts, some staff may feel ”forced” to use volunteer assistance and feel negative toward them. Others may feel threatened for their jobs. Help staff to see the benefits of volunteer assistance. Staff may not have even thought of using volunteers and something new is always frightening. Use this “crisis” as an opportunity to explore new ways of doing things. Many of the most loyal supporters of volunteer programs were very skeptical of the idea at first. 5 The Recognition Pantry Under $5.00 Your Time A Smile A Thumps Up A Post-It Note Of Appreciation A Stop For An Ice Cream Cone Gift Certificate For Fast Food Or a Video Rental Decorative Pencils A Thank You Note Stickers Candy A Soda Pop A Potted Perennial From You Garden Invitation to Coach, Train or Mentor A Co-Worker Job Assignment of Personal Interest The Words “Thank You” A Day Name After Them Flower from Your Garden In a Jar Badges Engraved With Years of Service Pocket Praise-Easy to Carry and Quick to Personalize A Personalized Magnet A Framed Quote or Poem A Personalized Candy Bar Homemade Cookies Under $10.00 Motivated Calendar A Mug or Tumbler With Candy Baseball Cap Award Certificate In a Frame Lapel Pins Company Logo Items Book Flowers T.E.A.M Paper Cube Phone Card With Free Minutes Golf Balls-Personalized for You Organization Car Wash Coupons A Gift Certificate for a Manicure Ticket to a Newly Realized Movie Under $30.00 Under $20.00 T.E.A.M Sweatshirt Tickets To A Movie For Two Star Clock A Computer Screen Saver Thanks a Million Gift Box A Magazine Subscription Bookstore or Music Store Tee-Shirt Picture Frame or Umbrella T.E.A.M. Tote Bag Travel Mug-Personalized for Your Organization Applause, Applause Celebration Gift Tumbler Now let’s get cooking! 6 Recipes from Budget to Gourmet Compiled by Araceli Smith Kitchen Knickers A new set of dish towels or dish cloths is always welcome. In minutes you can turn them into a fun gift for any occasion. Main Ingredients: Two dish cloths or dish towels 1-12/ yards of 1/8-inch ribbon Needle with an eye large enough for the ribbon to fit (on open-weave materials, I use a tapestry needle) Put the dish cloths or dish towels side by side vertically. Thread the needle with the ribbon and make a running stitch 2" from top of both dish cloths (towels). Make your stitches 3/4" apart so the ribbon will gather easily. The top of the cloths are now joined together by the ribbon. Pull the ribbon to gather the top and tie a bow in the front--this will fold the cloths in half. Stitch the ribbon 1-1/2" form the bottom of each leg. Make the stitches 3/4" apart. Pull the ribbon to gather the bottom and ties the bow on the inside of each leg (also folding the 'legs' in half). Tie two bows through the front of the cloths to fasten them together. (See drawing) Now print up a tag with one of these sayings on it and give to your favorite person. You can hang these little If it's bloomers that you need, bloomers, I hope that these will do. Upon your kitchen wall. If it's dish towels that you'd like, It's obvious you can't wear them, Then these are just for you. They'd be a bit too small. Pull out the little stitches, Now untie the bows For something that is useful, Untie each pretty bow. And pull out the stitches. Remove the bows and stitches. And you'll have two new dish You'll have two dish cloths, And you'll have not one, but two, towels, But lost your new britches! Dish cloths to do your dishes. To make your dishes glow! Don't be dismayed Don't be misled. These are not for you, But your kitchen instead. 1 Dish Rags Shirt Main Ingredients: Two dish cloths or dish towels 3 Buttons Needle and Thread 3 Safety Pins You can hang this little shirt, upon your kitchen wall. It's obvious you can't wear it; it’ll be a bit too small. For something that is useful, Remove buttons, pins and stitches. And you'll have not one, but two, Dish cloths to do your dishes. Number1 Half Number2 Fold Flaps in Half Fold down corners to make collar Fold dish rags as illustrated above. Place number one dish cloth as illustrated below. Fold #2 in half going upwards to wrap around sleeves. Safety pin in place where arrows are shown on the fallowing illustration. Sew buttons in place as if it were a real shirt. Add the above verse on a card. For best results you can Stitch ribbon 1 inch on each sleeve. Make the stitches 3/4" apart. Pull the ribbon to gather and tie a bow. The picture above shows a sample with a third dish towel for pants. Dishtowel Bunny Materials: 1 dishtowel 2 washcloths Ribbon Instructions: Lay the dishtowel on the table with the wrong side up. Fold in thirds lengthwise. Fold in thirds again (Fig. 1). Set aside. Take one of the washcloths and starting at one corner roll to the middle. Roll the opposite corner to the middle to meet it (Fig. 2). This will be the ears. 2 Fold the top part of the dishtowel down about 1/3 of the way. Take the washcloth "ears" and lay them inside the fold--Grab the ears by the points and pull up tightly (Fig. 3) Tie with a piece of ribbon as close to the dishtowel as you can (tie a bow with the ribbon) (Fig. 4). Tie another bow under the bulge you made with the ears (Fig. 5). This makes the head. Starting at the edge roll up the other washcloth (Fig. 6). This will be the arms. Slide the "arms" in between the back and front of the dishtowel up to the "neck". Tie a bow under the arms. This makes the waist. (Fig. 7) Bring the "hands" to the front and tie at the "wrists" with another bow (Fig. 8). You should have a little lady bunny ready to hold some wooden spoons, an Easter basket, flowers, etc. Poem for Kitchen Bunny "I am your kitchen bunny when you tire of me untie my bows...and I will become 2 washcloths and one drying towel" Dishtowel Angel Materials: 1 dishtowel 1 washcloth 1 Pot holder Ribbon Instructions: Fan Fold the dishtowel lengthwise (Fig. 1). Fold in half and tie off about 2 to 3 inches from fold, this forms the head (Fig. 2). Fanfold the washcloth (Fig. 3). This forms the arms. Fanfold the potholder with the loop along top edge (Fig. 4). This forms the wings. Place the washcloth on top of the potholder and secure in the center with a ribbon (Fig. 5). 3 Lay towel on top of potholder and washcloth. Bring the arms (washcloth) around and tie together 1 inch from ends, this forms the hands and holds all the pieces together. Angel Poem An angel in the Kitchen Watching the stew Blesses your cooking And all that you do. Dishtowel Scarecrow Materials: 1 dishtowel 1 matching dishcloth 1/4-inch dia. Wood dowel, 11-inches long Beige felt Raffia Burlap or straw hat Red and black permanent makers Glue gun Scissors Instruction: Arms Lay washcloth out flat. Place several strands of raffia along one end. Place the wooden dowel over the raffia (see fig. 1). Starting on the side you placed the raffia and dowel, begin rolling the washcloth, inclosing the raffia and dowel in the center. Tie a piece of raffia around dishcloth 1-inch from each end (see fig. 2). Trim the raffia so it hangs out about 1 1/2 –inches on each end of the dishcloth. Set arms aside. Head Cut a 7 ½” x 2 ½” piece of beige felt. Clip short ends so they have a jagged look. Fold in half widthwise and using the markers draw a face about 1-inch down from fold. Set head aside. Body Fan fold the dishtowel lengthwise (refer to fig. 1 of the angel towel http://crafterscommunity.com/projects/misc/towelangel.html). Fold in center and place the folded felt head over fold in towel (see fig. 3). Tie a length of raffia just under the scarecrow face, around the felt and towel, to form the head. Slide arms 4 between the folded towel up to the neck. Tie a length of raffia under arms for waist. Separate the two sections of the towel below the waist to form legs (see fig. 4). Tie a length of raffia 1-inch from the bottom of each leg. Finish Create hair by tying a bunch of raffia in the center (see fig. 5). Using a glue gun, glue center of raffia bunch to the top of the scarecrow head. Spread raffia down around the head and glue hat onto head over raffia. Trim the hair if needed. Bath Towel Elephant Materials: 1 Large thick bath towel (body) 2 washcloths (trunk and ears) Ribbon Lace Felt- white, blue and black (eyes) Silk flowers Wire (wire coat hanger will work) Hot glue gun Instructions: Lay the bath towel out on a edge, roll the towel to the table. Starting at narrow center. Repeat with the other edge. (see Fig. 1) Fold the the rolls washcloth in the middle and slide it bath towel. This creates the ears. Set towel in the middle with facing out. Scrunch the between the fold of the this piece aside. To create the trunk, cut a piece of wire about 2 inches smaller than the width of your wash cloth. Lay the wire along one edge of the wash cloth (see Fig. 3) and roll up the wash cloth around the wire as tightly as possible. Glue the edge with a glue gun. This creates the trunk. Bend the trunk shaping it as shown in Fig. 4 Take half of the trunk and snuggle it down between the rolls of the bath towel (see Fig. 5) leaving only the curved half of the trunk sticking 5 out. Tie a ribbon around the middle of the bath towel just below the ears and trunk (see Fig. 6). This creates the neck. Cut a length of lace to fit around the neck and glue in place so the bow of the ribbon is hanging in front of the lace. To create the eyes, cut two ovals from white felt. Cut two circles from blue felt and two small rectangles from black felt. Fringe the edge of the black felt to create eyelashes. Glue the eyelashes to the back of the white ovals. Glue the blue circles to the front of the white ovals. Arrange the eyes on the elephant and glue in place. Finishing: Glue silk flowers to the end of the trunk and on the top of the head. Attach a small bow to the forehead. Washcloth Fish Materials: Washcloth Felt for fins and eyes Oval scented soap for fish Raffia Moveable eyes glue gun Skewer Bar of soap for stand Instructions: Place the soap on the washcloth just to one side of the center (Fig. 1). Fold the washcloth in half covering the soap. Take both ends of the folded side and bring them together inside the folded washcloth (Fig. 2). Gather the washcloth around the soap (Fig. 3) and tie with a piece of raffia. Trim ends of raffia close to the knot (Fig. 4). Cut a circle of felt slightly larger than the moveable eye. Glue movable eye to felt circle. Repeat with other eye. Glue both eyes to fish. Cut 3 fins from felt. Glue one to the top of the fish and the other two to each side of the bottom of the fish. 6 You can make a stand by pushing a skewer up through the bottom of the fish. Push the other end of the skewer through the flat side of another bar of soap. Adorable Snow Folks Create a group of carolers or a sleigh full of happy winter friends with your mismatched children's mittens, wooden balls, and lots of imagination. The sky is the limit! You will need children's mittens rice cotton batting 11/4" diameter wooden balls buttons mismatched infant or children's socks small pom poms scrap material for scarves Silk florals (holiday springs, berries, flowers, etc.) sleigh or basket tiny black plastic eyes or black acrylic paint rosy lipstick black marker Grandpa Instructions Basic Snow Person Fill the hand portion of a child's mitten with one or two handfuls of rice, fill the rest of the way with cotton batting, be sure to fill thumb as well. Cut a scrap piece of material for scarf and gently tie around the mitten where the ribbing of the cuff meets the plain material of the mitten (end of the cuff). (When tying scarf, point the scarf material away from the thumb to make it appear as if the scarf is covering the person's other arm.) Fold down cuff to cover scarf and form a turtle neck. Hot glue on wooden ball to top of turned down cuff. Glue on tiny plastic eyes or paint on with black acrylic paint. Use black marker for mouth. Gently dot on lipstick for cheeks by applying first to your finger and then dotting onto face. Glue 2 or 3 buttons to tummy area. Glue a stem of holiday florals or greenery tucked into the arm (thumb), and glue arm to the mitten body. Jessica- click for larger view You can personalize each snow person with different hats, scarves, florals, and more. Our examples show how you can create an entire family of folks by simply using different colored mittens, scarves, and different styles of hats and ear muffs. Grandpa Our Grandpa (pictured above) wears a top hat that is fashioned from a scrap of scarf. Lay your basic snowperson face up on your work surface. Lay a rectangular scrap flat and place under ball head. Fold a flap of the material up to form the brim of the hat (see 7 photo) and begin gluing in place, wrapping around the head as you work. Glue final seams in the back of the hat so they are not visible. Amy & Peter - click for larger view Little Sister Little Jessica is wearing earmuffs instead of a hat. We simply cut a scrap piece from the cuff of an infant's sock and glued it across the top of her head. At the ends of the headband, glue two pom poms for the muffs. Brother & Sister Amy and Peter are wearing snow hats. These hats are both fashioned from infant socks. To make Amy's hat we simply fit the cuff of the sock onto her head and rolled up the edge of the cuff to form her hat brim. Then trim the end of the sock off and fold over neatly then glue in place. Glue a pom pom to the top. For Peter's hat, put sock on head the same way as Amy's, trim toe portion off, then cut the end of the sock into three sections. Pull those three sections together to form a cone type tip, glue three pom poms to that tip. Mom & Dad - click for larger view Mom & Dad A slightly larger mitten was used for Mom and Dad. Because the cuffs of the mittens were much larger and thicker, we formed parka hoods by simply gluing the ball inside the cuff and gluing the "chin" to the mitten itself. You can display these snow people in a basket with sprigs of greenery and holly berries, or place them in a sleigh. Fill the sleigh with cotton batting and place each family member in their seat. Place these cute little people on your fireplace mantel, or attach a piece of gold cord and hang from your tree or in your doorway. Poem If you'd like to give these folks as gifts, you can include this poem to add just the right touch: The Snow Folks I look out the window, And I see a place That's covered all over With white, frosted lace. This place once had colors, But it changed overnight. And now it's a Glistening, magical white! Jessica Amy & Peter I wonder who lives In a place where I'd freeze, If I didn't wear sweaters And boots to my knees. These folk must be snow From their heads to their toes! For I'd never be happy With frost on my nose. The folks who live here Just love to be out They're happy in blizzards. They smile through a storm. They laugh when it freezes, But they cry when it's warm! ~ Author Unknown Mom & Dad 8 In the cold, wintry drifts As the snow swirls about. Country Elegance Holiday Wreath The holidays are just around the corner and you aren't looking forward to fighting the crowds at the mall for just a few decorations. Then dig out your fabric scraps and a grapevine wreath and you are on your way to country elegance. You will need: grapevine wreath 24" long lace remnant 3" x 3" fabric squares in green & burgundy plaid, white lace, and burgundy velour pen with cap or screwdriver hot glue gun Note: fabric squares can be in any color combination you choose. Instructions: Figure 1 When choosing your fabric colors, remember that solids and plaids contrast quite nicely. Try to find a plaid or floral pattern with at least one dark color in it, contrast with a deep colored solid. See Figure 1. The lace addition brings elegance to your country look. You may also cut the fabric squares with pinking shears if you choose. Turn grapevine wreath face down on work surface. Using hot glue gun, glue lace remnant in place around the center of the wreath. When you turn the wreath you should see the lace around the center edge. Glue any spots that are sticking up or falling back. See Figure 2 With wreath face up, begin inserting fabric squares into wreath by putting pen into the center of the square and pressing down into the nooks and crannies. Figure 2 See Figure 3. Insert solids first, leaving enough room between each square to allow for the other patterns. When you have completed the circle, begin inserting the plaid or floral squares, then follow with the lace squares. Fill any gaps with remaining squares, alternating where needed. Figure 3 9 Note: If you will be giving this wreath as a gift, you may want to secure the squares with glue. As an optional finishing touch, add a small glittery holiday silk stem with cranberries or other small fruit to the wreath. Glue in place just off center. Pinecone Ornament Materials: 3 yards of 7/8 inch ribbon 1 yard of contrasting ribbon (for bow) 104 flat head steel pins 1 3-inch polystyrene egg Instructions: Cut the 3 yards of ribbon into 52 2-inch pieces. Fold each piece into a triangle (Fig. 1) and iron. At narrow end of egg, pin 2 triangles, seam side down opposite each other so that tips meet 1/4 inch beyond egg, pin in each corner (Fig. 2). Pin 2 more triangles opposite each other in space between the first two, with tips meeting. Pin two more triangles opposite each other in the remaining spaces. Place 45 more triangles with tips in line with tips of first row. Continue to alternate rows in this manner until egg is completely covered. With 12 inches on contrasting ribbon make a hanger and bow. Glue or pin to large end of egg. Thanks…..For Popping into Action! Personalize a mini bag of microwave popcorn with a label or Tag using the above lines. You can add the unit logo, crest or “compliments of ?”. How to Grow your Own Herd-Cow Seeds Key Ingredients: Lima Beans Plastic Bag Label on Card Stock Black Marker Plant the seeds in warm spot right side up. Cow will grow upside down if planted wrong. Be patient, it takes a long time to start your own herd. For best results, MOO softly while watering. Not for Consumption 10 Directions: Take each Lima bean and paint spots with the marker to look like spots on a cow. Let dry for 5 minutes. Make label, put six beans in the plastic bag and add the label above. Apple Cider Basket Your friends and family will love this festive Spiced Apple Cider. Give a jar of Apple Cider Spice Mix along with the recipe for making Spiced Apple Cider. If you want to make a basket, add a bottle of dry red wine or apple cider, a couple of mugs, coasters, an orange or lemon, and a bunch of cinnamon sticks tied together. Don't forget to keep some for yourself. This recipe is delicious and fills the home with wonderful scents! Apple Cider Spice Mix 2 cups sugar 2 teaspoons ground cinnamon 1 teaspoon ground cloves 1 1/2 teaspoon ground allspice 1/2 teaspoon ground mace 1/4 teaspoon ground nutmeg Combine all ingredients and store in airtight container. Spiced Apple Cider 8 ounces dry red wine or apple cider 2 teaspoons Apple Cider Spice Mix 1 cinnamon stick 1 twist of orange or lemon peel Gummie Blue bearly hold back tears Blue hope Green make sadness fade away Green barely control your envy Orange make wishes come true Orange never bear a grudge Red energy to get through the day Red to bear a HOT day Red hot under the collar White/clear love White/clear help you see clearly Yellow brighten your day Yellow barely any sunshine Heat wine or cider until hot but not boiling. Steep the Apple Cider Spice Mix in the liquid until sugar is dissolved. Pour into serving mug and garnish with cinnamon stick and twist of peel. Old Age Jelly Beans Pills Black JB Senility Green JB constipation Orange JB Deafness Pink JB Wrinkles Purple JB Arthritis Red JB Sex White JB Baldness Yellow JB gas Happiness a la mode 2 Cups Unselfishness 1 Cup Patience 11 1 Cup Understanding 2 Tablespoons Humor Mix ingredients well and sprinkle generously Happiness Cake 1 Cup Good Thoughts 1 Cup Consideration for Others 2 Cups Well-Beaten Faults 1 Cup Kind Deeds 3 Cups Forgiveness Mix thoroughly. Add Tears of Joy, Sorrow and Sympathy. Flavor with Love and Kindly Service. Fold in 4 Cups of Prayer and Faith. Blend well. Fold into daily life. Bake well with warmth and Human Kindness and serve with a Smile, anytime. --St. Peter Lutheran Church newsletter Recipe of a Military Spouse 1 1/2 cups patience 1 lb. courage 3/4 cups tolerance A dash of Adventure With the above ingredients, add two teaspoons elbow grease. Let set alone for one year. Marinate frequently with salty tears. Pour off excess fat. Sprinkle ever so lightly with money. "Knead" dough until payday. Season with international spices. Bake 20 years or until done. Serve with pride Recipe for a Happy New Year Take 12 whole months. Clean them thoroughly of all bitterness, hate and jealousy. Make them just as fresh and clean as possible. Now cut each month into twenty-eight, thirty or thirty-one different parts, but don't make up the whole batch at once. Prepare it one day at a time out of these ingredients. Mix well into each day one part of faith, one part of patience, one part of courage and one part of work. Add to each day one part each of hope, faithfulness, generosity and kindness. Blend with one part prayer, one part meditation and one good deed. Season the whole with a dash of good spirits, a sprinkle of fun, a pinch of play and a cupful of good humor. Pour all of this into a vessel of love. Cook thoroughly over radiant joy, garnish with a smile and serve with quietness, unselfishness and cheerfulness. You're bound to have a happy new year. 12 HAPPINESS CAKE 1/2 C. Charity 2 C. Smiles 2 tsp. Enthusiasm 1 tsp. Health 1 C. Love 2 C. Forgiveness 1 pinch Adoration 1 Tbsp. Humor Mix charity and love well, add the smiles. Blend forgiveness, enthusiasm, and adoration together. Gently add to charity, love and smiles. Flavor with health, and be sure always to stir in the humor. Bake in a very clean oven for many, many years. Serve to everyone you know and everyone you meet. Will taste delicious and keep well, no matter how you store it. RECIPE FOR FRIENDSHIP Fold two hands together and express a dash of sorrow. Marinate it overnight and work on it tomorrow. Chop up grudges in tiny pieces; add several cups of love. Dredge with a large-size smile, mix with the ingredients above. Dissolve the hate within you by doing a good deed. Cut in, and help your friend if he should be in need. Stir in laughter, love, and kindness; from the heart it has to come. Toss with genuine forgiveness and give your neighbor some. The amount of people served will depend really on you. It can serve the whole wide world if you really want it to! COOKBOOK INSTRUCTIONS FOR LIFE 1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. 2. Memorize your favorite poem. 3. Don’t believe all you hear. 4. Don’t spend all you have. 5. Believe in love at first sight. 6. When you say, “I love you,” mean it. 7. Be engaged at least 6 months before you get married. 8. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt, but it’s the only way to live life completely. 9. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling. 10. Don’t judge people by their relatives. 11. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 12. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson. 13 13. Remember the 3 R’s: respect for self; respect for others; responsibility for all your actions. 14. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship. 15. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice. 16. Marry a person you love to talk to. It becomes more important as you grow older. 17. Spend some time alone. 18. Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values. 19. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. 20. Read more books and watch less tv. 21. Live a good, honorable life. When you get older and think back, you’ll enjoy it a second time. 22. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 23. Read between the lines. 24. Be gentle with the earth. 25. Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before. 26. Remember, not getting what you want is sometimes a stroke of luck. 27. Remember that your character is your destiny. 28. Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality. 29. PRAY. There’s immeasurable power in it. 30. Trust in God, but lock your car. ....and one last recipe “for good measure” – RECIPE FOR A PROMISE OF FRIENDSHIP Promise always to be the kind of friends we are today. Promise always to be there for each other, no matter what. Promise to be friends when we’re eighty and have just as much fun then as we do now. Promise always to make time for each other, even when there’s lots of other things we have to do. Promise always to share the laughter, tears and celebrations of a lifetime... PROMISE TO BE FRIENDS FOREVER... HOW TO PRESERVE A HUSBAND Pick one that’s tender, but not too young, add 2 Cups of love & 1 Cup of devotion. Mix with laughter and sweeten with smiles, Do not beat! Add a variety of spices until well seasoned, Do not pickle or put them in hot water... this makes them sour! Add a pinch of forgiveness as needed. Serve daily with plenty of peaches & cream. This makes one happy marriage that keeps forever! 14 Monday – clean the bathrooms. Scrub the toilets, put things away, sweep and mop. Tuesday – vacuum the house. Go through the house and give it a good sucking up. Wednesday – dusting day. Wipe down everything – counter tops, window sills, shelves, etc. Thursday – bedclothes – change the beds. Put fresh blankets and sheets on. Wash the others and put them away. Friday – kitchen scrub. Wipe out the inside of the refrigerator, microwave, oven, wipe down the stove, etc. Mop your kitchen floor as well if you haven’t already. Saturday – anything else. Whatever you have left focus on that. If you don’t have more cleaning take some time to do other work – garden, file papers, can foods, etc. Or best yet, spend some special time with your family. Sunday – relax. God called for a day of rest and though we do not rest on Saturday like the Jewish people do take a day to spend with Him and your family. FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT SOUP (Galatians 5:22,23) Ingredients Pearl Barley - Love Split Peas - Joy Black Beans - Peace Red Beans - Patience Pinto Beans - Kindness Navy Beans - Goodness Lentils - Gentleness Black-Eye-Peas - Self-Control Gabanzo's - Holy Spirit Smoked sausage or diced ham Directions: Rinse beans, Put in Crock-pot & cover with water. "About 3/4 full of liquid & beans total", - Add meat, turn on low, cook 8 to 10 hours. (10 to 12 hrs if using Gabanzo's beans) I use liquid smoke, & onions. I also serve it with fresh bread. NOTE: I buy 1 pound of each of these beans, open them and put into a large container, then I mix the completely so there always ready when I am, I measure out 2 cups and that's enough to feed 4 to 6 folks. NOTE: This also makes a lovely gift for someone who might be moving or down in the dumps, if you layer each kind of bean in a jar, then attach this recipe, they'll always know how much you love them. 15 A RECIPE FOR A CHRISTIAN LIFE Fold two hands together and express a dash of sorrow. Marinate it overnight And work on it tomorrow Chop one grudge in tiny pieces Add several cup of love Dredge with a large sized smile Mix with the ingredients above. Dissolve the hate within you, By doing a good deed. Cut in and help your friend If he should be in need. Stir in laughter, love and kindness From the heart it has to come. Toss with genuine forgiveness And give your neighbor some. The amount served will depend on you. It can serve the whole wide world, If you really want it to. (author unknown) A Biblical Recipe for Effective Child Training Ingredients: 1 gallon faith in God 7 cupfuls love for your child 1 cup patience 1 cup clarified instruction 1 cup consistent discipline (whipped lightly) 3 teaspoons of pure mercy 1 generous dash of humor 2 cupfuls praise 2 cupfuls liberty Direction: Pour faith in God into any size family. Mix one teaspoon of clarified instruction and one teaspoon of consistent discipline. Add only a half cup of liberty initially. Stir well and chip lightly. Sprinkle in pure mercy and simmer over a steady flame of prayer. Proceed to fold in additional teaspoons of instruction and discipline, in equal amounts, adding liberty slowly. Stir well and whip as needed to smooth out any 16 lumps of disobedience. Never over beat! Sweeten to taste with humor and praise. Melt any specks of misunderstanding or sour attitude by turning up the level of prayer and adding extra instruction. Continue this process until all remaining ingredients have been added and all bitterness has been removed. When adding the last cup of liberty, be careful not to cause any sudden separation or foaming. If either of these occur, or if the moral character begins to lose its intended shape, skim off the excess liberty until the desired consistency results. Try adding this liberty again later when character is firmer. Keep warm over a steady flame of prayer. Serve with a tender heart and the sincere milk of God's Word. Never serve with a cold shoulder or a hot tongue. Recipe for Forever Gather all of the ingredients together, so that they are close at hand! Get a clean cloth and wipe the bowl clean of any lingering dust from the past. Take MATURITY, RESPECT and FRIENDSHIP, and stir gently. Add unlimited amounts of COMPASSION and KINDNESS, and mix well. To this, add CARING by the handfuls, and fold in TRUST. Continue stirring gently, adding LISTENING, HONESTY and large amounts of COMMUNICATION. Slip in some DREAMS, GOALS, and firm pieces of KEEPING PROMISES. Bake in a home filled with PEACE, BEAUTY, and SERENITY. Before you taste the finished product, sprinkle liberally with PATIENCE, LOVE and a touch of SPICE. Serve very hot, with IMAGINATION on the side. ~ Author Unknown ~ A Recipe for a Happy Home Heart full of Love Mind full of Religion Eye full of Nature Awareness of Immortality Dedication of Fidelity Body of Patriotism (author unknown) A Recipe for Happiness Take twelve whole months. Clean them thoroughly of all bitterness, hate, and jealousy. Make them just as fresh and clean as possible. Now cut each month into twenty-eight, thirty or thirty-one different parts, but don't make the whole batch at once. Prepare it one day at a time out of these ingredients. 17 Mix well into each day one part of faith, one part of patience, one part of courage, and one part of work. Add to each day one part of hope, faithfulness, generosity, and meditation, and one good deed. Season the whole with a dash of good spirits, a sprinkle of fun, a pinch of play, and a cupful of good humor. Pour all of this into a vessel of love. Cook thoroughly over radiant joy, garnish with a smile, and serve with quietness, unselfishness, and cheerfulness. You're bound to have a Happy New Year. Recipe for a Keepsake Cookbook Start with a generous helping of your favorite recipes Spice with memories, anecdotes, and stories Fold in photos, drawings, or doodles Pepper with dashes of humor and nostalgia to taste Combine all and blend well Serve up to yourself, family, and friends. A Recipe for Miracles Ingredients: 1 part of knowing who you are 1 part of knowing who you aren't 1 part of knowing what you want 1 part of knowing who you wish to be 1 part of knowing what you already have 1 part of choosing wisely from what you have 1 part of loving and thanking for ALL you have Method: Combine ingredients together gently finely blended. Use thoughts, words and actions for best results. Bake until blessed. Give thanks again. Makes unlimited servings Scripture Cake The Bible often likens the Word of God to food. Job had an "appetite for God's Word more than his necessary food." (Job 23:12.) The Psalmist regarded the Word as "sweeter than honey from the honeycomb" (Psalms 19:10). In the Book of Revelation, John was 18 instructed to take God's Word and "eat the book" (Rev. 10:9). This fun recipe is another way of eating God's Word. Ingredients 1 Cup golden raisins (1 Samuel 25:18..."a hundred clusters of raisins") 1 Cup figs, chopped (Isaiah 34:4..."fig from the fig tree") 1 Cup almonds, finely chopped (Numbers 17:23..."bore ripe almonds" 1 Cup dates, chopped (Exodus 15:27..."there were seventy palms") 11/2 Cups flour (Leviticus 2:5..."fine flour, unleavened) 1 pinch salt (Leviticus 2:13..."season with salt") 1 tsp. cinnamon (Exodus 30:23..."of sweet cinnamon) 1 dash ginger and allspice (Song of Solomon 4:10..."all manner of spices) 1 tsp. baking powder (Amos 4:5..."of that which is leavened") 3 large eggs (Isaiah 10:14..."One gathered eggs") 1 Cup sugar (Jeremiah 6:20..."And the sweet cane") 1/2 Cup vegetable oil (Numbers 11:8..."Cake baked with oil") 1 Tblsp. honey (Judges 14:18..."What is sweeter than honey?) Directions Preheat oven to 325 degrees (F) or 165 degrees (C). In a medium bowl combine raisins, dates, figs, and almonds. Set aside. In a large bowl beat eggs until light. Gradually add sugar and continue beating for 5 minutes. Add oil and honey slowly and continue beating another 5 minutes. Add flour, salt, baking powder, and spices, a little at a time. Stir until well blended. Finally, fold in the fruit and nuts. Pour into well-greased 5"x9" loaf pan or two smaller pans. Bake about 11/2 hours for large loaf, 45 minutes to 1 hour for smaller loaves. Let cool for a few hours then slice with a sharp knife. Keeps well in refrigerator. Scripture Cake (Version 2) Ingredients 3/4 cup Genesis 18:8 (found in the first four words) butter (in the NIV it is curds and milk, which were used to make butter) 1 1/2 cup Jeremiah 6:20 cane, brown sugar 5 Luke 11:12 eggs 3 c. Leviticus 24:5 fine flour 3/4 tsp. 2 Kings 2:20 salt 3 tsp. Amos 4:5 leaven, baking powder 1 tsp. Exodus 30:23 cinnamon 1/4 tsp. each: 2 Chronicles 9:9 spices, cloves, allspice, nutmeg 1/2 c. Judges 4:19 (last part) milk 1/2 c. Genesis 43:11 (last part of the verse only) pistachio nuts or almonds 1/2 c. Jeremiah 24:5 figs 1/2 c. 2 Samuel 16:1 raisins Heat oven to 350 degrees. Directions 19 Thoroughly cream butter, brown sugar and eggs; combine dry ingredients and add alternately to creamed mixture with milk. Stir in nuts and fruit. Bake in two oiled cake pans for 30 to 40 minutes. Clay pot Candy Dish Materials: Clay pot with Clay plate Round Candle holder Hot glue gun and glue Paint Wooden Circle and ball for handle Paint the pot and plate and decorate with desired theme. Paint wooden pieces to coordinate with the clay pot colors and glue: Bottom of clay pot to bottom of Candle holder, wooden ball to bottom middle of clay pot plate, finally glue wooden circle to middle of clay pot. Assemble according to picture above. Uncle Sam Pin Pin on a patriotic face that's sure to stand out in any Fourth of July crowd. WHAT YOU NEED • • • • White craft foam Markers Googly eyes Glue Time needed: Under 1 Hour • • • • Scissors Wooden craft spoon Cotton balls Self-adhesive pin back Step 1 To make one, cut out a basic Uncle Sam style hat (about 2 inches tall and 1 inch wide) from white craft foam Step 2 Use markers to color the brim blue and to draw red stripes on the top Step 3: Glue the hat to the handle of a wooden craft spoon (if necessary, first use scissors to trim the wooden handle so that it's shorter than the hat). Step 4: Glue on googly eyes and a cotton ball beard, then draw on a small L-shaped nose 20 Step 5: Attach a self-adhesive pinback (sold at many craft and bead stores), and your Uncle Sam pin is ready to wear. Lady Bug pin Bestow a little ladybug luck by rounding up a few of these charming beetle tie tacks (they look great on jackets and baseball caps too) for all of your favorite people. WHAT YOU NEED • Red and black Sculpey III clay • Tie tack backing (sold at most craft stores) Time needed: Under 1 Hour To make a tack, roll a lima bean-size piece of red Sculpey III clay into a round ladybug body and press it securely onto the flat surface of the tie tack backing. From a lentil-size piece of black Sculpey III clay, shape a head and press it onto the body. Use a thin log of black clay to create a centerline on the bug's body and rounded bits of black clay to make spots. Bake the decorated tack (a parent's job) according to the directions on the clay package, let cool, and the tack is ready to wear. A Pup for Pop The next time Dad needs someone to fetch him a pencil, this desktop dog can deliver. WHAT YOU NEED • 4 pinch-style wooden clothespins • Wood glue • Felt • Googly eyes • Pom-pom • Markers • Pencil Time needed: Under 1 Hour To form the front end of the dog pinch open a clothespin and apply glue to the inner surface of the opened end. Then clamp the glued end onto a second clothespin, just behind the metal spring. For the dog's tail end, glue and clamp together the last two clothespins so that one holds the other wide open. When the glue is dry, fit the opened 21 end of the back half onto the lower end of the front half. Apply glue to bond the two sections. From the felt, cut out floppy ears and circular paws. Then glue ears and paws, the googly eyes, and the pom-pom nose onto the dog. Add spots or other distinguishing details with colored markers. Finally, pinch open the dog's mouth and insert a pencil, balancing its weight equally on both sides. Candy Cane Reindeer Candy Cane (I use 6 inch, individually wrapped) Ribbon - 8 inch piece 2 wiggle eyes (I use 5 mm) Red or Brown pom-pom (very small) 2 (18") pipe cleaners (craft kind - use any color but I particularly like to use gold metallic) Tacky glue How to Make It 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. Leave the wrapping on the candy cane (so the kids can eat it later). Glue eyes on rounded face of the candy cane. Glue red pom-pom on the face for a nose. Tie ribbon into a bow on the straight part of the candy cane. Cut one of the pipe cleaners in half. Use the full pipe cleaner and wrap it around the crook of the candy cane (both sides equal) to make the beginning part of the antlers. 7. Use 1 of the cut pipe cleaner pieces to wrap around the left antler and repeat it on the right side. 8. Manipulate the pipe cleaners to look like antlers. Bon Bon Guest Soaps Basic Soap Supplies: 6 1" cubes of white soap 4 1" cubes of clear soap Heart candy mold for 12 1" hearts Red and blue soap dye (no food coloring) 1 1/2" x 1" white paper candy cups 1 teaspoon of clear iridescent fine polyester glitter Rubbing alcohol in a spray bottle Petroleum jelly, cooking oil or non-stick cooking spray Microwave oven Microwave-safe measuring cups or bowls Measuring spoons Sharp, smooth knife Craft sticks (to stir melted soap) Plastic wrap 22 Optional: Soap fragrance or scented oils (no alcohol-based perfume) Instructions: 1. Reinforce 4 paper cups each with 3-4 other cups (the outer cups will be removed later.) Place the white soap cubes in microwave-safe measuring cup and microwave on high for 30 seconds. If necessary, microwave at 5 second intervals until melted. Add 2 drops of red to tint it pink. You may add fragrance at this time, if desired. 2. Let cool until no longer steaming and carefully pour the liquid soap into 2 cups. Add a drop of blue to the pink soap to turn it lavender and fill 2 more cups. Pour into cups within?" of the top. Spritz with rubbing alcohol to prevent bubbles. 3. Melt 1 cube of clear soap; add a drop of blue dye and a pinch of glitter. Pour into a heart mold lightly greased with oil or petroleum jelly. Melt the remaining cubes; add a drop of red and the remaining glitter then fill another heart. Add a drop of blue to make lavender and fill 2 hearts. Let set. For easy removal, put the molded soap into the freezer for a few minutes until hard, and then run warm water over the mold to loosen the soap. 4. Remove the hearts. Use a dab of melted soap to glue a lavender heart to each lavender bon bon. Glue the remaining hearts to the pink bon bons. Discard the outer "support" paper cup. Perky Pens Materials Needed: Ballpoint pens Chenille Stems (optional) Decorative element such as: balls; beads; butterflies; fabric trims; rhinestones Floral tape: light green Hot-glue gun/ glue sticks Instructions 1. Beginning at writing end of pen, wrap tape around pen. Make certain to cover pen completely. 2. Glue decorative element to end of pen. Note: Pens can be wrapped first with chenille stem, then wrapped with tape to give more dimension. Ideas: Try creating pens with colored floss and beads. Wrap pens with floss, beginning at writing end. Leave extra floss at the end, and then thread beads onto string. Knot to secure. Gift Box This box made from two bills. The bills/box can be the gift itself, but it is also just about the right size for a ring box. (Perhaps a dollar-bill ring?) Get yourself two fairly new, crisp bills. Older "soggier" bills are much harder to work with. For this design to work, the folds should be very precise and perpendicular to the edges of the bill if the resulting is to be rectangular. Lay the bill on a flat surface, face up. Fold the bill in thirds lengthwise as shown. Gently unfold these folds, you will reuse them later. I will refer to these as the third folds. 23 Fold the note top-to-bottom just to the right of the portrait, and then unfold. Repeat just to the left of the portrait. I will refer to these as the portrait folds. Note that the third folds the opposed (are perpendicular to) the portrait folds. Starting at the top left corner (as illustrated), close the top third fold to about 90 degrees. Lift the right edge of the bill to the right of the right portrait fold up while holding the top third fold in place, allowing the third fold to close completely to the right of this corner. Inside this corner will be a remaining portion that you will crease along the natural 45 degree line to complete the corner. Complete the previous step for the other three corners. Now you will have two "tabs" sticking up on the left and right sides. For each tab, pull it inside the box, folding so that the natural edge of the box is pulled slightly over inside the fold. (Look carefully at the bottom left of the picture.) Do this evenly for both tabs. For the two other sides, evenly fold over the edge of the bill. You should now have an open box. If you make another piece just like the first, but slightly larger, you would have a lid similar to that found on most shoe boxes. To adjust the instructions above, you would fold so that the inner rectangle (bounded by the third and portrait folds) is slightly larger. I do not like the way that looks, so I close the box another way as illustrated below. Try both - choose whichever you prefer. Fold the second bill lengthwise so that the width matches the widest portion of the open box you just made. I will refer to this bill as the cover, and the previous piece made as the open box in the following steps. You need two folds as shown to be able to follow the last step (see below). For general appearance, it is nice if these are nearly symmetrical as shown. These will be called the width folds. Holding one end of the cover across the bottom of the open box, find the point which matches the corner of the open box and fold at that point. After folding, open the fold to 90 degrees, hold the cover back in place, and find the point for the next corner of the open box as the cover wraps around. Repeat this process until the cover wraps over itself (four folds). These will be called the wrapping folds. There is now one very long side to the cover. Fold back the long side so that is just a bit shorter than the first side. 24 I will call this the end cover fold. In this illustration, the end cover fold is at the left edge of the picture. I have also (gently) completely unfolded the cover, refolded the end cover fold, the width folds, then the wrapping folds in that order. (This unfolding/refolding is optional, but makes the cover look nicer.) In either case, the end cover fold puts the remainder of the long side inside the wrapping folds. Refold the wrapping folds holding the long side in place to crease it at the correct points. Open up the width folds slightly on the open end, and insert the last side under the width folds. (Normally I do this with the open box already inside, but for clarity, the picture shows this without the open box. Slide the open box inside the cover before closing the cover tightly, or close the cover with the open box already inside. In either case you are done. Money Roses Materials: $ bills (the newer the better) Floral Wire and Tape Toothpick to help rolling the corners These money roses make great gifts, but they also look fabulous when made from homemade paper. Just use a dollar bill as a template to cut 5 pieces of homemade paper and assemble the same way. Instructions: Lay your bills all face up and curl by rolling a toothpick at the corners. Roll all four corners of the bill toward the centre of the bill. The curl is the outside of the rose. Turn bills over (face down) and fold in half. Place a piece of floral wire across and under the fold. Crimp the fold across and bring your wire under the fold and twist together to form a stem. Repeat this for all 5 bills. With your finger, cup each bill and shape to form into a petal. 25 To create your rose, begin with one bud that has been wired and add another bud going back to back to the first bud, concealing the open sides of the first bud. Add the next 2 buds in the same manner, covering the open sides of the previous 2 buds. Twist all of your floral wires together forming a stem and wrap floral tape around the wire, beginning at the rose and working your way down the stem. You can add a few silk leaves by taping them onto the wire as you work your way down the stem. The two ideas above are samples of easy ways that to present inexpensive thank yous to your volunteers. Candy Bar Wrappers You can easily print on regular or fancy paper a (theme) design with your special message. Size it to wrap around a Hershey candy bar and glue the back. It will be a hit. Don’t forget to leave the original wrapper underneath so the nutrition facts are available for your recipient. You can also print labels and wrap them around the assorted miniature Hershey candy bars. You can add your logo, special message, motivational quotes, or trivia about your organization. One simple idea for a baby shower is to scramble words such as, “pacifier”, or Nursery Rhymes such 26 as, “Who was the bear with no hair?” Reward participants with a sweet chocolate treat after each correct answer is revealed! Another idea just for fun is to add silly messages such as “Pay for your electric bill in pennies,” and “Apply for a unicorn hunting license!” or Things to Do if You’re Bored. Angel Hershey's Kiss Party Favor What you will need: Hershey's Kiss candy, aluminum foil, chocolate covered peanuts, and powdered sugar. What to do: Cut a strip of aluminum foil about 5” by 2”. Crinkle up the center and wrap the foil around the top of the Hershey's kiss. You may want to add a dab of glue to the foil to keep it on the kiss. Spread out the foil to form wings use scissors to shape the wings. Form a cup in the aluminum foil at the top of the Heresy’s Kiss so that a chocolate covered peanut or raisin will sit inside. Mix a small amount of water with the powdered sugar to make a frosting. You can place a small amount of frosting on the bottom of the chocolate covered peanut and place it on the wings and Hershey's Kiss to make it stay in place a little better. Use a cake decorating tool to make a halo on top of the angels head. (If you want to get really creative you can add hair and face feature with other icing.) Angel Crafts Foamie Angels "Use a foam star for the body. a heart for the wings, a circle for the head. Add a tinsel pipe cleaner halo and decorate with glitter." --Kelsey, Minnesota Paper Clip Angel "Turn a large ideal clamp (the kind of paper clip that looks like an 'X', not the standard loop-de-loop) upside down. It looks like an angel already. Simply tie a loop of silver cord to the center and slip a silver or crystal bead on the cord and glue it in place. You can add a silver bow on the front to dress her up." --Brynn, Coolville, Ohio Angel Tootsie Pop Favors "Open up a white napkin and put it over the tootsie pop. Use a piece of ribbon to tie it off. Draw on a face, add some yarn hair, make a pipe cleaner halo and glue on some foam wings." --Teri Goldsberry, Jonesboro, IL Paper Angels 27 Fold a paper doily in half, and a circle of construction paper for the head. Gold wings can be made for construction paper and twisted raffia for a halo." --Mary B., Oxford, ME Button Angel Pin Paint a large wooden shank button flesh colored. Paint on a pretty face. Pinch a 4" rectangle of sparkly tulle together at the center and hot glue it to the back of the button. & cut a rectangle 3"" larger than the diameter of the button. Pinch it together at the center & hot glue to the back of the button. Add a pipe cleaner halo and glue a pin to the back." -Cindy M., GA Clay Pot Angels String a piece of folded jute up through an upside down small clay pot then through the hole in a wooden ball. Tie a knot under the pot, leaving enough jute to hang down as feet. Tie another knot above the head. Add Spanish moss for the head and an imitation gold wedding band for a halo. Another piece of jute can be wrapped around the pot for arms, add feathers for wings and paint on a face." --Diane, Great Falls, MT Coffee Filter Angels "Paint a face on an old fashioned clothespin. Cut a piece of lacy fabric into a circle. Cut a hole in the middle and slip the clothespin inside the hole. Glue in place arranging lace to look like a dress or skirt. Fold a coffee filter in half, pinch in the middle and wrap in with a pipe cleaner. Glue to the back of the clothespin and bring the up and shape into a halo." --Lydia M, Troy, MO Tinsel Angels "Fold a metallic pipe cleaner in half and twist it at the center of a bundle of about 20 pieces of folded tinsel. Bend it to make wings and connect a second, smaller piece of pipe cleaner to the 'waist' to make a halo." –Anonymous Paper Cone Angel Tray Favors "Turn a cone paper cup upside down, glue on a wooden bead for the head, gold doily for the wings, pipe cleaners for arms." --Sue C., Madoc, Ontario, Canada Pinecone Angels "Cut a foam heart for wings and glue to a pinecone. Use a wooden ball for the head-add some hair and draw on a face." Angel Candy Dishes "Turn a wavy edge ivy bowl upside down and glue a smaller regular edged bowl right 28 side up on top. Paint to look like an angel. Glue on some Spanish moss for hair, Make some gold wings and add some candy. --Betty I., Fredericksburg, VA Yarn Doll Angel "Use crochet thread to make a yarn doll. At the bottom, instead of legs, cut the edges so it looks like a robe or skirt. Glue the 'hands' together in front and glue a rosette where they join. Twist a piece of light weight, sparkly ribbon or paper twist for wings and glue to the back. Circle head with a piece of gold thread for the halo. You can glue a thin loop of white craft ribbon to the back for a hanger." --Connie, VA Tassel Angels " Braid three strands of yarn from each side of a tassel for arms. Attach them in the center with glue & add a small star sequin. For the halo, glue on small crafters gold wedding band. Make a bow (gold ribbon) & attach to back for wings."--K.M. Seals Doily Angels "Paint a face on a craft stick. Glue a doily folded in half to the back of the craft stick for wings." --Patti Q., Logandale, NV Paper Cup Angel "Push one end of a craft stick through a Styrofoam ball and the other end through a Styrofoam cup. This will be the head and body. Trace children's hands for wings and glue to the back of the cup. Use yarn for the hair and glue on wiggles eyes. Make a halo from a gold pipe cleaner." Mary H., Winston-Salem, N.C Soda Can Angels "Squash a soda can in on one side so that it is bending over and pull OFF the little pull tab. The hole is the mouth, and the little 'button' that holds the pull tab on is the nose. Paint the can; add some hair, a halo and ribbon wings and paint on a face. Glue a painted wooden heart to the bottom for feet." --Candice, Moore, OK Hand and Footprint Angels "Use the children's handprints as the wings and a foot print as the body. Put a peach colored circle on top for the head and a piece of gold pipe cleaner for a halo." --Rhonda, Paxton, Illinois Craft Stick Angels "Using a jumbo craft stick, paint the top third flesh color for the face and the bottom a pretty color for the skirt. Glue a folded piece of ribbon to the back for a hanger. Draw an angel face, glue hair on top, add a halo, and cut and glue a 3" white heart out of foam for the wings." --Teri G., Jonesboro, IL 29 Angel Kisses "Hot glue a small wooden bead to the top of a Hershey's kiss. This is the head. Wrap and glue a 2" piece of pipe cleaner around the back of the angel to form arms bending each end out in front. Cut another small piece of pipe cleaner and wrap in a circle and glue to top of bead to form a halo. Wrap remaining pipe cleaner into shape of a figure '8' and turn sideways. Glue to the back of the kiss to form angel wings. Using a black fine tip marker, add eyes to the bead." --Lisa, Orem Utah Sweetheart Roses Materials: HERSHEY'S KISSES or HERSHEY'S HUGS Safe Confectioners' Glue* Florists' wire Pink, red or yellow-tinted cellophane or plastic wrap Florists' tape Artificial leaves (optional) Ribbon *To Make Safe, Edible Confectioners' Glue Gently whisk together 4 teaspoons of all-natural powdered egg whites ("meringue powder") and 1/4 cup of water until completely dissolved. Beat in 3 cups of sifted confectioners' sugar until thick and smooth. Form the bud by taping two foil-wrapped candies bottom to bottom. Drape a 5-inch square of pink plastic wrap over the top of one kiss, then gather the edges and twist them into a tail. Tightly twist the top of a green pipe cleaner around the tail for the stem. Then add leaves by holding a strip of green tissue paper against the stem and rolling the pipe cleaner around the center of the strip. Trim the leaves so that they have pointy tips, and wrap green tape around the stem portion above the leaves to reinforce it. Reindeer Craft What you will need: Wooden spoon, small oval wooden pieces for ears, wooden clothes pin with stand, brown pipe cleaners for the ears, green pipe cleaner, red beads and red ribbon for the wreath, oval wiggly eyes, red pompom for the nose, glue and paint. What to do: 1. Glue the wooden pieces together to form the reindeer as shown. The wooden spoon I 30 used came from the spoon you get with ice cream cups at the grocery store. 2. Paint the reindeer brown and let dry. 3. Glue on the eyes and nose. Draw in the mouth and other face features. Make some antlers out of brown pipe cleaners and glue on. Make a tiny wreath out of green pipe cleaners and glue on tiny red beads for berries. Add a red ribbon to the wreath and hang it on the reindeer to finish. Make a Handkerchief Doll! Materials needed: 1 Lg. Mans Handkerchief (Today we will have to put lace around the outside. In the olden days the man’s hanky was made as pretty as the lady's but larger.) 4 pieces of 1/2 inch ribbon (Blue=boys Pink=girls) or whatever choice you may make. Thin rope or twine was used as well. 6 inches x 6 inches of light material (head) stuff with cotton or straw. Head should be about 2 inches round with neckline hanging in order to make wrap with ribbon. Directions: Lay the handkerchief out to form a square. Take head after stuffed and put it at the center of the hanky just below the top. Enough room should be present in order to cover toward face of head. Wrap ribbon around neck area and the first step is completed. Next take tips of upper handkerchief one at a time and pull up from middle section of the point below. This will make the first arm. Tie a piece of ribbon at the shoulder joint. Repeat for 2nd arm. The third step is the easiest. Take a piece of ribbon and tie it around the waist. This makes the hanky look like it has a body. The last step is to make a face or not. Many times in old the dolls had what we call prayer faces. Closed eyes sewed on by hand with just a basic stitch. As time moved on in history of course doll faces became more involved. The History of the Handkerchief doll has been known for years especially in the more religious rites 'they were known as the prayer doll. Little Girls were given these dolls to take to church with them and if they dropped them no sound would be heard to disturb the congregation. 31 Baby Memory Jar You will need to decorate a jar and include a little notepad with pastel pages and a pen or pencil to match. Print this poem and glue on to the jar. Keep events and memories in the jar like: took 3 steps on May 1st or teething December 5. Cupid poop Valentine tricksters, take note ... it's Cupid Poop! Surprise your Valentine this easy gag gift. Place a handful of candy hearts or red jelly beans in a small zipper food storage bag. Baby books are great ideas, But sometimes you’re too busy. Living with a little one Can put you in a tizzy Milestones pass too fast at time to find the proper page. So, jot a note of each event With date or baby’s age Then drop it in this Memory Jar to help you to remember. Tag/Verse I couldn't send you flowers And candy wouldn't do. Romantic cards just didn't say The things I wanted to. with I got you something special And here's the inside scoop. It's very rare and magical: A bag of Cupid Poop! Seal and label with the following poem: Ghost Poop SWAPs You need: Mini Zip Lock Bags Low Temp Glue Gun Orange Card Stock Scissors Safety Pin Ghost Poop Poems Wax Paper Tag/Verse I bet you'd like some candy but listen, here's the scoop... The only thing we're giving out is bags of weird ghost poop! Instructions: Print Poop Poem on orange card stock. Cut out into squares and place slip a poem into each mini Ziploc bag. Squeeze out small dollops of hot glue on wax paper. Let dry. Peel off and place several inside each back. Add a safety pin. 32 Leprechaun poop Place a handful of Lucky Charms brand cereal, green jelly beans or mints in a small zipper food storage bag. Seal and label with the following poem. Tag/Verse I spied a little leprechaun Outside upon the lawn. I hurried out to catch him for I knew he’d soon be gone. I tiptoed very quietly Sprang toward him with a swoop. He shook his fist and disappeared, All but this pile of poop! Magic reindeer food Many families leave cookies and milk for Santa, but what about his reindeer? Magic Reindeer Food lays a glittering path to guide the reindeer on Christmas Eve. [Note: while many Internet recipes for Magic Reindeer Food call for craft glitter, this ingredient can harm birds or wildlife if eaten. Substitute colored sugar crystals and be kind to animals!] In a small zipper food storage bag or empty shaker container, mix: 1/2 cup oatmeal 1/2 cup sugar 1/4 cup red or green sugar crystals (for cake decorating) Tag/Verse Be sure to take this magic food and sprinkle on the lawn, On Christmas, Santa's reindeer travel miles before the dawn. The smell of oats and glitter path will guide them on their way And you'll wake up to Santa's gifts next morn on Christmas Day! Pumpkin poop Just in time for Halloween: it's Pumpkin Poop! Treat your favorite trickster with this simple, silly gift. Place a handful of candy corn or black and orange jelly beans in a zipper food storage bag. Seal and label with the following poem. Tag/Verse I started to carve a pumpkin with my carving knife and scoop But the pumpkin got so scared He took a little poop! It looked so cute and funny Just like a candy treat So eat it all and take a chance I promise it is sweet. 33 Reindeer poop Along the same lines (but a bit naughtier): It's Reindeer Poop! Place a handful of malted milk balls in a zipper food storage bag. Seal and label with the following poem: I woke up with such a scare when I heard Santa call... "Now dash away, dash away, dash away all!" I ran to the lawn, and in the snowy white drifts, those nasty reindeer had left "little gifts". I got an old shovel and started to scoop Neat little piles of "reindeer poop." but to throw them away seemed such a waste, So I saved them, thinking you might like a taste! As I finished my task, which took quite a while, Old Santa passed by and he sheepishly smiled. And I heard him exclaim as he rose to the sky~~~ "Well, they're not potty trained, but at least they can fly!" Snowman "Poop"P Main Ingredients: Mini-marshmallows Plastic bag Ribbon Tag/Verse (see right) o Instructions: Tag/Verse You've been naughty So here's the Scoop You're getting nothing But Snowman Poop! Put a handful of mini-marshmallows in plastic bag. Tie off with pretty holiday ribbon. Print and attach tag with verse. Give to friends and family as a fun holiday joke. Variation: Reindeer Poop: Instead of marshmallows fill bag with raisins, chocolate covered raisin, Bridge Mixture candies. Change tag to read "Reindeer Poop" instead of "Snowman". Turkey poop A silly treat for Thanksgiving: it's Turkey Poop! Tag/Verse You invited me to dinner with your family and your friends. You didn't say I was the main 34 dish. For me it was "THE END!" Place a handful of coffee beans, or chocolatecovered coffee beans in a small zipper food storage bag. ® Safety Pin Crafts American Flag Beaded Safety Pin Ingredients Needed: 14 - 1 1/16 inch Safety Pins 1 - 2 inch Safety Pin Seed Beads (see picture below for colors needed) Instructions: Follow this pattern and the basic directions: Each number column represents a pin; for example, your first pin will have 5 blue, 1 white, 1 red, 1 white, and then 1 red bead on it. Your second pin will have the same. When you thread these beaded pins onto your larger pin, start with pin number 1. American Flag Heart Beaded Safety Pin Needed Ingredients: 13 -1 1/16 inches Safety Pins 1 - 2 inch Safety Pin Seed Beads (see picture below for colors needed) Instructions: Follow this pattern and the basic directions: 35 Each number column represents a pin; for example, your first pin will have 2 black beads, 3 blue beads, then 5 more black beads. Your second pin will have 1 black bead, 4 blue beads, 1 white bead, and 4 black beads. When you thread these beaded pins onto your larger pin, start with pin number 1. American Flag - USA Beaded Safety Pin Main Ingredients: 14 -1 1/16 inches Safety Pins 1 - 2 inch Safety Pin Seed Beads (see picture below for colors needed) Instructions: Follow this pattern and the basic directions: Each number column represents a pin; for example, your first pin will have 5 blue beads, 1 white bead, 1 red bead, 1 more white bead, then 1 more red bead. Your second pin will have 8 black beads and 1 red bead. When you thread these beaded pins onto your larger pin, start with pin number 1. Bear Beaded Safety Pin Ingredients Needed: 13 -1 1/16 inches Safety Pins 1 - 2 inch Safety Pin Seed Beads (see picture below for colors needed) 36 Instructions: Follow this pattern and the basic directions: Each number column represents a pin; for example, your first pin will have 10 red beads. Your second pin will have 1 red bead, 3 brown beads, and 6 red beads. When you thread these beaded pins onto your larger pin, start with pin number 1. Angel Beaded Safety Pin Ingredients Needed: 14 - 1 1/16 inch Safety Pins 1 - 2 inch Safety Pin Seed Beads (see picture below for colors needed) Instructions: Follow this pattern and the basic: Each number column represents a pin; for example, your first pin will have 2 white beads, 6 yellow beads, and then 2 more white beads. Your second pin will have 1 white bead, 6 yellow beads, and then 3 white beads. When you thread these beaded pins onto your larger pin, start with pin number 1. Happy Face Beaded Safety Pin Needed Ingredients: 13 -1 1/16 inches Safety Pins 1 - 2 inch Safety Pin Seed Beads (see picture below for colors needed) 37 Instructions: Follow this pattern and the basic directions: Each number column represents a pin; for example, your first pin will have 10 purple beads. Your second pin will have 3 purple beads, 4 yellow beads, and 3 purple beads. When you thread these beaded pins onto your larger pin, start with pin number 1. 123 Beaded Safety Pin Needed Ingredients: 11 - 1 1/16 inch Safety Pins 1 - 1 3/4 inch Safety Pin Seed Beads (see picture below for colors needed) Instructions: Follow this pattern and the basic directions: Each number column represents a pin; for example, your first pin will have 10 black beads. Your second pin will have 2 black beads, 1 red bead, 2 black beads, 1 red bead, and then 4 more black beads. When you thread these beaded pins onto your larger pin, start with pin number 1. USA Heart Beaded Safety Pin Main Ingredients: 13 -1 1/16 inches Safety Pins 1 - 2 inch Safety Pin Seed Beads (see picture below for colors needed) 38 Instructions: Follow this pattern and the basic directions: Each number column represents a pin; for example, your first pin will have 2 blue beads, 3 red beads, and then 5 more blue beads. Your second pin will have 1 blue bead, 5 white beads, and 4 blue beads. When you thread these beaded pins onto your larger pin, start with pin number 1. Safety Pin Angel Combine everyone's two favorite crafts... pony bead patterns and beaded safety pins for a winning angel project. Makes great ornaments or back pack decorations. You need: 5 Safety Pins, Size 4 6 Safety Pins, Size 2 49 Red, White & Blue Pony Beads or Translucent Pony Beads 20 Metallic Pony Beads White Glue 30" Metallic Cord One 16mm Wooden Barrel Bead Instructions: Cut cord to 30". Stiffen ends with white glue. Let dry. Fold in half and tie a knot 1/2" below the fold. Choose your bead colors for the wings. Open six size 2 safety pins and string on the beads. Four safety pins should have four beads each. Two safety pins should have three beads each. See diagram at right. Close the pins. Choose your bead colors for the body. Open five size 4 safety pins and string on the beads. Two safety pins should have four beads each. Two safety pins should have five beads each. One safety pin should have six beads. See diagram at right. Close the pins. These written directions for weaving the pins and beads may seem complicated. Just follow along using the diagram above. String three metallic pony beads on one end. String the other cord end through the same three beads in the opposite direction. String one barrel bead on one cord. String the other cord end 39 through the same bead in the opposite direction. String one metallic pony bead on one end. String the other cord end through the same bead in the opposite direction. Tighten cord, pulling both ends evenly and firmly. String the safety pins in the order shown above on one cord. String that cord through the metallic neck bead again forming a loop that holds the safety pins. String that cord down through the first safety pin of the wing. Pull it through the opening on the pin head. String on a metallic bead, then through the next wing safety pin head. String on a metallic bead, then through the third wing safety pin. String on a metallic bead, then through the last two beads on the first safety pin of the body. String on a metallic bead then through the head of the first body pin. String on two metallic beads, then through the next body safety pin head. String on two metallic beads, then through the third body safety pin head. String the other cord through the last safety pin on the wing then through the head. Continue adding gold beads and stringing through the heads as with the first cord. Tie off under middle safety pin. Add a dab of glue on the knot. Let dry and trim. Let Freedom Ring" Pin Instructions for making a patriotic pin, shared by Marilyn. Ingredients Needed: 1 small liberty bell 1 small safety pin in same color as bell (i.e. gold) 6" narrow red cord 6" narrow blue cord 6 1/2 " narrow white cord Instructions: 1. Thread the red and blue cords through the eye of the safety pin until midway of cords, approximately 3". 2. Thread one end of white cord into the eye of the bell and tie a small knot to secure. 3. Wind white cord around the other two cords, near the safety pin , about mid way on white cord, and secure with a knot. The bell should hang about the same length as the ends of the colored cords. 4. If you like you can hem the ends of the cords to make a neat appearance. Pot Crafts Wind Chime Step 1: Paint the saucer and pots. Step 2: When the paint dries, add a coat of clear acrylic finish. Let it dry. 40 Step 3: Using a pushpin, make a hole in the center of the plastic saucer and at four equidistant spots around the side of the saucer. Widen the holes with scissors or a compass point if needed (a parent's job). Step 4: Cut five leaf shapes out of the soda bottle (a parent's job). Step 5: Cut four 1 1/2-foot lengths of string. Step 6: To make each chime, punch a hole in the end of a plastic leaf and tie it onto the end of the string. Next, slip on the bell, tie a knot about 3/4 inch above the bell, thread on a button and then a pot (upside down). Step 7: Thread the end of the string out through one of the side holes in the saucer (thread from the inside and make sure the saucer's upside down). To fasten in place, run the string up through one hole in a button and then down through another hole and knot tightly. WHAT YOU NEED • 5 1/4-inch-diameter plastic flowerpot saucer • Five 1 1/2-inch-diameter clay pots • Clear acrylic finish • Pushpin • Acrylic paint • Scissors • String • Hole punch • Soda bottle • Craft knife • Small bells • Buttons Time needed: Under 1 Hour Stars & Stripes Wreath Ingredients: 3 ounces of blue yarn 5 ounces of red yarn 5 ounces of white yarn 1 wire coat hanger or 12” wire ring and wreath hanger Cardboard Scissors 1 Small American flag 1 Large red, white, and blue decorative ribbon Instructions: 1. Shape the wire coat hanger into a ring. Bend hook for hanging loop. 2. Each wreath is made of bundles of yarn that are tied to the ring. 3. Make 36 blue bundles, 56 red bundles, and 48 white bundles. 41 4. Using the ends of the 8” strand tie the bundles to the ring, positioning the bundle perpendicular to the wire. 5. Continue to make the bundles and tie them to the wire ring adjacent to one another. 6. Continue to work around the wire ring until entire wreath is filled. 7. Attach decorations; glue in place if necessary. Attach bow. To make yarn bundles: Wind yarn 20 times around a 4” piece of cardboard. Slip these strands off the cardboard and with a separate 8” strand tie at the center. (Do NOT cut the yarn loops) Project Courtesy of Coats & Clark Inc. Springing into Action: Supplies - Medium size Pom-Pom (head) Google Eyes Sticky Back Foam (For Feet And Hands) Glue Small Slinky (Body) Small Strip of Paper with "THANKS FOR SPRINGING INTO ACTION" Take the sticky back foam and cut two ovals for feet. Glue the feet (foam side up) to the bottom of the slinky. Keep the sticky side covered. Glue the eyes to the pom pom and the pom pom to the top of the slinky. Stick the hands to the slinky and the paper to one of the hands (hint: don't remove all of the paper from the sticky side; only enough to stick to the slinky and paper. Give to your volunteer. They can then take the paper off the sticky side and stick to a desk, computer or other area. Kim Hughes 42 Seasonings… A Daily Dose of Reflection Volunteer Quotes Volunteers are the only human beings on the face of the earth who reflect this nation's compassion, unselfish caring, patience, and just plain love for one another. --Erma Bombeck Volunteers are not paid -- not because they are worthless, but because they are priceless. We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But the ocean would be less because of that missing drop. --Mother Teresa The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is just that little extra. Snowflakes melt alone - but together they can be traffic stoppers! Teamwork allows common people to attain uncommon results. Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape. Some people want it to happen, some wish it to happen, others make it happen. Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has. --Margaret Mead Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and help them become what they are capable of being. --Goethe We ourselves must be full of life if we are going to make life fuller for others. --David Sawyer We can do no great things -- only small things with great love. --Mother Teresa I can't be found in myself; I discover myself in others. That much is clear. And I suspect that I also love and care for myself in others. --Hugh Prather If you want to innovate, to change an enterprise or a society, it takes people willing to do what is not expected. --Jean Ribould Giving kids clothes and food is one thing but it's much more important to teach them that other people besides themselves are important, and that the best thing they can do with their lives is to use them in the service of other people. --Dolores Huerta We need love and creative imagination to do constructive work. --Paula Ollendorf 1 Work is love made visible. --Kahlil Gibran We ourselves must be full of life if we are going to make life fuller for others. --Davod Sawuer No man or woman, even of the humblest sort, can really be strong, gentle, pure and good without the world being better for it; without somebody being helped and comforted by the very existence of that goodness. --Phillips Brooks The final test of a leader is that he leaves behind him in other men the conviction and the will to carry on . . . The genius of a good leader is to leave behind him a situation which common sense, without the grace of genius, can deal with successfully. --Walter Lippmann Nothing is so contagious as example; and we never do any great good or evil which does not produce its like. --Francois de La Rochefoucauld No matter how big and powerful government gets, and the many services it provides, it can never take the place of volunteers. --Ronald Reagan Throughout my life, I've seen the difference that volunteering efforts can make in people's lives. I know the personal value of service as a local volunteer. --Jimmy Carter Service to youth is the rent we pay for the space we occupy on earth. --Jane Deeter Rippin How can we expect our children to know and experience the joy of giving unless we teach them that the greater pleasure in life lies in the art of giving rather than receiving. --James Cash Penny Volunteering creates a national character in which the community and the nation take on a spirit of compassion, comradeship and confidence. --Brian O'Connell The soul is healed by being with children. --Feodor Dowtoevski We make a living by what we do, but we make a life by what we give. --Winston Churchill I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve. --Albert Schweitzer I have been the recipient of love and service, therefore I can love and serve. There is great satisfaction in service to others, in ... seeing people and their conditions change. --Clarence E. Hodges We seldom stop to think how many people's lives are entwined with our own. It is a form of selfishness to imagine that every individual can operate on his own or can pull out of the general stream and not be missed. --Ivy Baker Priest We're put on this earth not to see through each other but to see each other through. --Anonymous It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself. --Ralph Waldo Emerson 2 Caring must strengthen into commitment and commitment into action if we are to preserve and nurture one of the greatest forces for rebirth and renewal this nation has ... voluntarism. -Marlene Wilson Volunteering can be an exciting, growing, enjoyable experience. It is truly gratifying to serve a cause, practice one's ideals, work with people, solve problems, see benefits, and know one had a hand in them. --Harriet Naylor Everybody can be great because anybody can serve. You don't have to have a college degree to serve. You don't have to make your subject and your verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace, a soul generated by love. --Martin Luther King Jr. It is a rare and high privilege to be in a position to help people understand the differences that they can make not only in their own lives but in the lives of others by simply giving of themselves. --Helen Boosalis Living is the art of loving. Loving is the art of caring. Caring is the art of sharing. Sharing is the art of living. --Anonymous A volunteer is a person who can see what others cannot see; who can feel what most do not feel. Often, such gifted persons do not think of themselves as volunteers, but as citizens - citizens in the fullest sense: partners in civilization --George Bush Though government has an important role to play in meeting the many challenges that remain before us, we are coming to understand that no organization, including government, will fully succeed without the active participation of each of us. Volunteers are vital to enabling this country to live up to the true promise of its heritage --Bill Clinton If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else. --Booker T. Washington There is a tremendous strength that is growing in the world through . . . sharing together, praying together, suffering together and working together --Mother Teresa How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and strong. --George Washington Carver How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world. --Anne Frank I shall pass through this world but once. Any good therefore that I can do or any kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again. --Mahatma Gandhi No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of it for someone else. --Benjamin Franklin When you cease to make a contribution, you begin to die. --Eleanor Roosevelt 3 I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do the something that I can do. --Edmund Evertt Hale The moral test of a society is how that society treats those who are in the dawn of life -- the children; those who are in the twilight of life -- the elderly; and those who are in the shadow of life -- the sick, the needy and the handicapped. --Hubert Humphrey No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted. --Aesop Our nation will succeed or fail to the degree that all of us -- citizens and businesses alike -- are active participants in building strong, sustainable and enriching communities. --Arnold Hiatt You will find as you look back upon your life, that the moments that stand out are the moments when you have done things for others. Source Unknown The miracle is this - the more we share, the more we have. --Leonard Nimoy To serve, not to be served. --Submitted by Carolyn Hunter Don't ever question the value of volunteers. Noah's Ark was built by volunteers; the Titanic was built by professionals. Submitted by Dave Gynn Too often we under-estimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. -- Dr. Felice Leonardo Buscaglia No person was ever honored for what he received. Honor is given by what he gave. -- Calvin Coolidge You make a living by what you get, but you make a life by what you give. -- Winston Churchill If you have come to help me, you are wasting your time. But if you have come because your liberation is tied up with mine, then let us work together. -- Lill Watson, aboriginal activist The Winds of change shall not discourage the volunteer.--Lorna Wilson Those who say it cannot be done should not interrupt the person doing it. - Chinese Proverb It is only through the eyes of others do you see yourself. It is only through the work of your own do you find the difference in others. --Submitted by Foo Ji-Wei, Volunteerism Through Oneself Being a man or a woman is a matter of birth. Being a man or a woman who makes a difference is a matter of choice.--Byron Garrett It's easy to make a buck. It's a lot tougher to make a difference. -- Tom Brokaw 4 If you want to build a ship, don't drum up the women and men to gather wood, divide the work, and give orders. Instead, teach them to yearn for the vast and endless sea. --Antoine de SaintExupery, The heart of a volunteer is not measured in size, but by the depth of the commitment to make a difference in the lives of others. -- DeAnn Hollis The broadest, and maybe the most meaningful definition of volunteering: Doing more than you have to because you want to, in a cause you consider good.--Ivan Scheier We ourselves feel that what we are doing is just a drop in the ocean. But the ocean would be less because of that missing drop.-- Mother Theresa It is one of the beautiful compensations of life, that no man can sincerely help another without helping himself.-- Ralph Waldo Emerson To the world you may be one person, But to one person you may be the world.-- Anonymous Your hands may be empty but your heart is full. --Unknown If you can't go where people are happier, try to make people happier where you are.--Ashleigh Brilliant Let us not love with words or tongue but with actions and in truth. --I John 3:18 Better one friend with a dish of food than a hundred with a sigh. --Yiddish proverb The deeds you do may be the only sermon some persons will hear today. --Saint Francis of Assisi Everyone can be great, because everyone can serve. --Martin Luther King, Jr. Unless someone like you cares a whole, awful lot. Things aren't going to get better, they're NOT! -- Dr. Seuss, The Lorax You have not lived until you have done something for someone who can never repay you. --unknown They don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care. I'm in the business of loving the hell out of people - Mother Waddles First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do - Epictetus Be ashamed to die until you have won some victory for humanity - Horace Mann The mode in which the inevitable comes to pass is through effort - Oliver Wendell Holmes I hate quotations - Ralph Waldo Emerson 5 "A healthy social life is found only, when in the mirror of each soul the whole community finds its reflection, and when in the whole community the virtue of each one is living." --Rudolf Steiner, Austrian Philosopher and Scientist Most of us in volunteer programs now realize that those 1000 points of light of George Bush #1 are really 500 candles burning at both ends and the only thing to trickle down from Reganomics was budget cuts. --self & good friend Margaret "Put yourself in someone's shoes" is a common phrase. But it is not a common thing that we do everyday. We are, most of the time, self-centered. Especially in this modern, fast-paced life. It is only when we stop for a moment and give our time to others, that we realize the true meaning of empathy. --The word "empathy". He who does nothing for others does nothing for himself --Goethe I don't know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know: The only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve. --Albert Schweitzer Life is never so busy that there is no time to serve. Volunteerism is the voice of the people put into action. These actions shape and mold the present into a future of which we can all be proud. --Helen Dyer We are all like one-winged angels. It is only when we help each other that we can fly. --Luciano de Crescenzo I am a recipient of unconditional love, I am a volunteer --Shanterra McBride "A civilization flourishes when people plant trees under which they will never sit." --Greek Proverb "One of the things I keep learning is that the secret of being happy is doing things for other people." --Dick Gregory "Destiny is not necessarily what we get out of life, but rather, what we give." --Cary Grant "The best way to find yourself, is to lose yourself in the service of others." --~Ghandi Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do. -- Goethe Some people see things as they are and say 'why', I look at things that never were and say 'why not'. --Robert F. Kennedy Help me help us. --inspired by other reflections listed here. The True Rose of Love can only be found in the heart. --Lectorium Rosicrucianum 6 Good ideas remain ideas - unless we act upon them. It is better to shoot for the moon and miss, than shoot for nothing and hit it. --Reverend Eloise Page Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumps, even though checkered by failure, than to take rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory or defeat. -- Theodore Roosevelt When it comes to helping you, some people stop at nothing. --Unknown Every society honors its live conformists and its dead troublemakers. -- Mignon McLaughlin Don't wait for the last judgment - it takes place every day. -- Albert Camus To keep a lamp burning we have to keep putting oil in it. - - Mother Teresa You can't build a reputation on what you are going to do. -- Henry Ford The most pathetic person in the world is someone who has sight, but has no vision. --Helen Keller All we have in this world is each other. Life is meant to be shared. --Patricia A. Chambers A man never stands as tall as when he kneels to help a child. --Knights of Pythogoras It is believing in what you do, no matter in which aspect, that makes every moment fulfilling. The greatest virtues are those which are most useful to other people. --Aristotle If your heart is full, it shouldn't matter if your pockets are empty. --Karen Dawson We must be the change we wish to see. --M.K. Gandhi You can't leave footprints in the sands of time while sitting down. --Nelson Rockefeller. The significant problems we face cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them. --Albert Einstein You've got to think about 'big things' while you're doing small things, so that all the small things go in the right direction. --Alvin Toffler Past the beggar and the suffering walks he who asks, 'Why, oh God, do you not do something for these people?' To which God replied, 'I did do something, I made you.' --old Sufi saying A civilization flourishes when people plant trees under whose shade they will never sit. --Greek Proverb 7 Serving humanity is like giving life to the lifeless. --Self The people who appreciate others are themselves to be appreciated. --Self thought As many arrows, loosed several ways, come to one mark...so many a thousand actions, once afoot, end in one purpose. --William Shakespeare Henry V, Act I, Sc.2 The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but reveal them to their own. --Benjamin Disraeli Whatever you do may seem insignificant, but it is most important that you do it. --M. Gandhi You have to become involved to make an impact. No one is impressed with the won/loss record of the referee. --John Holcomb There are three kinds of people: Those who make things happen, those who watch things happen, and those who say, 'what happened?' --Casey Stengel There are only two rules to change: One is to begin; the second is to continue. --unknown People don't care how much you know, unless they know how much you care. --Anonymous One hand alone does not clap. --Arab Proverb Be honest, be real - people respect you for that. --Self How many people did you help make happy today? Was one of them you? --Self-after a long day Here is a test to find whether your mission on earth is finished: if you are alive, it isn't. --Richard Bach It's good to be blessed. It's better to be a blessing. Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you. --- Emerson I have an almost complete disregard of precedent, and a faith in the possibility of something better. It irritates me to be told how things have always been done. I defy the tyranny of precedent. I go for anything new that might improve the past. --Clara Barton I have the audacity to believe that people everywhere can have three meals a day for their bodies, education and culture for their minds, and dignity, equality and freedom for their spirits. I believe that what self-centered people have torn down, other-centered people can build up --Martin Luther King Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. --Mahatma Gandhi "How wonderful that no one need wait a single moment to improve the world." --Anne Frank 8 There is only one thing worse than training your volunteers and having them leave - and that's not training them, and having them stay. --unknown Each one of us should lead a life stirring enough to start a movement." --Max Lucado, in On the Anvil "If every American donated five hours a week, it would equal the labor of twenty million fulltime volunteers." --Whoopi Goldberg "Forget yourself for others, and others will never forget you." --author unknown "If you try to find time for something that matters, you never will. You must make the time." --Unknown "Volunteers are paid in six figures... S-M-I-L-E-S" --Gayla LeMaire "Great opportunities to help others seldom come, but small ones surround us every day." --Sally Koch "I feel that we all must live, so that when we are gone, everyone will miss the work we did, but someone has learned by watching us, how to take up the banner and go forward." --Self "Help one another; there's no time like the present and no present like the time." --James Durst "Some get and forget. Some give and forgive." --Marquis on a street corner "I did not find the world desolate when I entered it. My fathers planted for me before I arrived, so I plant for those who come after me." -- Talmud "Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on Earth." --Mohammed Ali "If you make a lot of money, put it to use helping others while you are living. It is wealth's greatest satisfaction." --Anonymous African Origin "Volunteers are somebody! Somebody who cares, Somebody who devotes time without pay, Somebody who praises all, large or small and somebody who has a common bond with others to make things better." --Self "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen nor touched...but felt in the heart." --Helen Keller "Life's most persistent and urgent question is 'What are you doing for others?' " --Rev. Martin Luther King "When you stop giving and offering something to the rest of the world, it's time to turn out the lights." --George Burns "If you want to change the world, be that change." --Ghandi 9 "You are a rainbow between a child and reading." --VISTA volunteers for America Reads "To truly find yourself, touch as many lives as possible!" --Ashley Klein "It is not how much you do, but how much love you put in the doing." --Mother Theresa "The noble man will only ask of his fellow men what he expects of himself. He will fault in others only what he himself feels free of. " --Dseng De "To ease another's heartache is to forget one's own" - Abraham Lincoln "It is in giving oneself that one receives." -- Francis of Assisi "A bit of fragrance always clings to the hand that gives roses."-- Chinese proverb "Help your sister's boat across the water, and yours too will reach the other side." Kindness can become its own motive. We are made kind by being kind."-- Eric Hoffer " If you ever need a helping hand, it is at the end of your arm As you get older you must remember you have a second hand. The first one is to help yourself. The second hand is to help others." -- Audrey Hepburn "Remember, we all stumble, every one of us. That's why it's a comfort to go hand in hand." -- Emily Kimbrough "Don't just work in the world, work to change it!" --self "All that we send into the lives of others comes back into our own” --Anonymous "Where apathy is the master, all men are slaves." --anonymous "A candle loses nothing of its light when lighting another." --Kahlil Gibran "Many volunteers are lost due to under-utilization rather than burnout. The secret is to challenge them according to their abilities." --self "Volunteers don't necessarily have the time, but they have the heart." --Anonymous "First, there's the job--where the goal is simply to earn a living and support your family. Then there's the career--where you trace your progress through various appointments and achievements. Finally, there's the calling-- the ideal blend of activity and character that makes work inseparable from life." --Author Robert Bella "Put your body where your mouth is." --Sister Mary Clare “Fund raising must proceed from the inside out. A volunteer gives time, a donor gives money. But a board member has the responsibility to give both.” --David Lansdowne 10 "I have never been especially impressed by the heroics of people convinced that they are about to change the world. I am more awed by ... those who ... struggle to make one small difference after another." --Ellen Goodman "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." --Helen Adams Keller "The main quality of leadership..........is courage! If you can dream it, you can do it!" --Walter Elias Disney "If you are coming over to help me, don't bother. But if you are coming because you believe your liberation is tied to mine, then please join me." --aborigine woman "I am only one, but still I am one; I cannot do everything, but still I can do something; and because I cannot do everything I will not refuse to do the something that I can do.” --Edward Hale (but frequently attributed to Helen Keller) "Refusing to ask for help when you need it is refusing someone the chance to be helpful." -Author unknown "Blessed is the influence of one true, loving human soul on another." - George Eliot, Day by Day Calendar "We can't do much about the length of our lives, but we can do plenty about its width and depth." --Evan Esar "The measure of a life is not its duration, but its donation." --Peter Marshall "I slept and I dreamed that life is all joy, I woke and I saw that life is all service. I served and I saw that service is joy. “-- Rabindranath Tagore "Having a big heart has nothing to do with how big your bank account is. Everyone has something to give". --Barbara Bush, ARC Calendar "People tend to support that which they help to create."-- Unknown Past the beggar and the suffering walked he who asks, "Why, oh God, do you not do something for these people?" To which God replied, "I did do something, I made you." --Old Sufi Saying One is not born into the world to do everything but to do something. --Henry David Thoreau Plant flowers in others' gardens and your life becomes a bouquet! --unknown If you want to touch the past TOUCH A ROCK. If you want to touch the present TOUCH A ROSE. If you want to touch the future TOUCH A LIFE. --Author Unknown "Naked a man comes into the world and naked he leaves it, after all is said and done he leaves nothing except the good deeds he leaves behind". --adapted from the great Jewish thinker RASHI 11 We cannot live for ourselves alone. Our lives are connected by a thousand invisible threads, and along these sympathetic fibers, our actions run as causes and return to us as results. --Hermann Melville Ain't Nothin' to It, But to Do it! --Maya Angelou "I cannot know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know is that the truly happy among you will be those who have learned to serve." --Albert Schweitzer It is not what one says, but rather what one does, that makes a difference in the world. --Pirke Avot, 1:17 Volunteer activities can foster enormous leadership skills. The nonprofit professional volunteer world is a laboratory for self-realization. --Madeleine Kunin The essence of volunteerism is not giving part of a surplus one doesn't need, but giving part of one's self. Such giving is more than a duty of the heart, but a way people help themselves by satisfying the deeper spiritual needs that represent the best that is in us.--Kathleen Kennedy "The greatest good we can do for others is not to share our riches, but to reveal theirs." This is used to recruit volunteer mentors to support people transitioning from welfare to work. --Unknown Service is the Jewel in the rock of attainment --George King Everybody can be great...because anybody can serve. You don't have to have a college degree to serve. You don't have to make your subject and your verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love. --Martin Luther King, Jr. We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give. --Winston Churchill To leave the world a better place - whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or an improved social condition - that is to have succeeded. That only one life breathed easier because you lived - that is success. --Ralph Waldo Emerson We must view young people not as empty bottles to be filled, but as candles to be lit. --Robert H. Shaffer Never tire of doing what is right. --II Thessalonians 3:13 Not being able to do everything is no excuse for not doing everything you can, --Ashleigh Brilliant With a sweet tongue and kindness, you can drag an elephant by a hair. --Persian Proverb Small things, done with great love, bring joy and peace. --Mother Teresa A volunteer is a person who believes that people can make a difference - and is willing to prove it. --Anonymous 12 Do all the good you can, by all the means you can, in all the ways you can, in all the places you can, at all the times you can, to all the people you can, as long as you ever can. --John Wesley "Service is the rent we pay for living. It is the very purpose of life and not something we do in our spare time." "You can achieve much in life if you don't mind doing the work and giving someone else the credit." --Marian Wright Edelman The gift of time is priceless. --unknown Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not. --Dr. Seuss in "The Lorax" Nobody made a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could do only a little. -- Edmond Burke Once people really believe something, they begin to act on it. -- Dr. Jerry R Kirk All that is necessary for evil to flourish is for good men to do nothing. --Edmond Burke Life's most persistent and urgent question is: What are you doing for others? --Martin Luther King Jr. Even if you are on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. --Will Rogers People who say it cannot be done should not interrupt those who are doing it. --Unknown People are homeless, hungry and sick. Somebody should do something about this. Be Somebody! --Bonnie Brady Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest. --Mark Twain "We are not called upon to do all the good possible, but only that which we can do." --Mother Theodore Guerin "We each must do our part, and give as long as we are able- while we have something to give." --Albert Loden In every community, there is work to be done. In every nation, there are wounds to heal. In every heart, there is the power to do it. --Marianne Williamson - A return to Love No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted. --Unknown You must give some time to your fellow man. Even if it's a little thing, do something for which you get not pay but the privilege of doing it. --Albert Schwester 13 "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has." --Margaret Mead, anthropologist ...Service is the rent we pay for living. It is the very purpose of life and not something you do in your spare time. -- Marian Wright Edelman Give yourself fully to your endeavors. Decide to construct your character through excellent actions and determine to pay the price of a worthy goal. The trials you encounter will introduce you to your strengths. --Epictetus When spider webs unite, they can tie up a lion. --Ethiopian Proverb He who upsets a thing should know how to rearrange it. -- Sierra Leonean Proverb The greatest service to yourself is service to others! --Unknown "Do small things with great love." --Mother Theresa Here's to all volunteers, those dedicated people who believe in all work and no pay. --Robert Orben Volunteering is fulfilling. Volunteers touch the lives of others and in the process we develop ourselves and make new friends. The gain a man witholds from his brother becomes his own deprivation. -on the wall of an emergency department head nurs Let each man be judged by his deeds, I have paid my price to live with myself on the terms that I willed. -- Kipling It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself. - Ralph Waldo Emerson Some people dream of worthy accomplishments while others stay awake and do them! Unknown Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. -- Leo Buscaglia Giving oneself to other people, one way or another, is one of the great joys of living. Nothing we get or take equals the joy of giving. How unfortunate so many people never discover it. -Unknown When we dream alone, it is only a dream, but when we dream together, it is the beginning of reality. -- Unknown Not a day passes over the earth but men and women of no note do great deeds, speak great words and suffer noble sorrows. -- Charles Reade 14 We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly. -- Martin Luther King The only one who likes change is a wet baby! --source unknown I am only one, but I am one. I can't do everything, but I can do something. What I can do, I ought to do. What I ought to do, by the grace of God, I will do. -- Anonymous Our good works are like stones cast into the pool of time; though the stones themselves may disappear, their ripples extend to eternity. --Anonymous Volunteers don't necessarily have the time; they just have the heart. --Author Unknown If you want to build a ship, don't drum up the men to gather wood, divide the work and give orders. Instead, teach them to yearn for the vast and endless sea. - Antoine de Saint-Exupery Happiness is thinking of myself; joy is thinking of others. -- "from a friend". Your attitude determines your altitude! -- Author unknown I've learned that it is impossible to accomplish anything without the help of other people. -- taken from Live and Learn Pass It On, by H. Jackson Brown It is not fair to ask of others what you are not willing to do yourself. -- Eleanor Roosevelt Go out and do something for somebody. Go out and give something to somebody. It will take you away from yourself and make you happy. -- Joseph Jefferson (1829-1905) When giving comes directly from the heart, it can never disappoint or embarrass. -- Bel Kaufman If you want happiness for a lifetime, help someone else. -- Chinese Proverb He/she who has never fallen knows no heights. "We are all bozos on this bus." -- Fireside Theatre I wondered why somebody didn't do something. Then I realized… I am somebody. -- Source unknown When people forget themselves, they usually do things others remember. -- James Coco He who is helping to row the boat has neither the time nor the desire to rock it. ---unknown There aren't any great men. There are just great challenges that ordinary men like you and me are forced by circumstances to meet. -- William f. Halsey, Jr. (1882-1959) Professionalism is a frame of mind, not a paycheck. -- Captain Cecil Castle 15 "If you want to change the world, be that change." ---Ghandi The best way to get something done is to find people who don't know it can't be done and do it. --Alma Williams Whatever you can do, or dream you can... begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. --Goethe ...some things we will own forever -- the memory of the just, the remembrance of a good act, the good remembrance of someone fair...this will never be taken from us...this we will never give away. --Inspired by a Mexican Nahuatl Indian song Volunteers are the only human beings on the face of the earth who reflect this nation's compassion, unselfish caring, patience, and just plain loving one another. --Erma Brombeck A volunteer is like a rare gem. When placed in the right setting and cared for, they will shine and give pleasure to all who see them. Children must have at least one person who believes in them. It could be a counselor, a teacher, a preacher, a friend. It could be you. You never know when a little love, a little support will plant a small seed of hope. -- Marian Wright Edelman "The Measure of Our Success" If your ship doesn't come in. Swim out to it -Jonathan Winters Volunteers are not paid because they are worthless, but because they are priceless. --Does anyone know the source of this quote and if it is quoted correctly? Do all you can for everyone who deserves your help. Don't tell your neighbor to come back tomorrow, if you can help today. --Proverbs 3:27, 28 CEV "Charity," Mr. Hilton told his foundation board in his will, "is a supreme virtue, and the great channel through which the mercy of God is passed onto mankind." -The New York Times, June 16, 1986. The debt that each generation owes to the past, it must pay to the future. -- Abigail Scott From what we get, we can make a living. What we give, however, makes a life. --Arthur Ashe Being defeated is often a temporary condition. Giving up is what makes it permanent. -- Marilyn Von Savant Reach for the stars. You might not get them, but you won't wind up with a handful of mud either! Service is the rent you pay for living. It is the very purpose of life and not something you do in your spare time. --Marian Wright Edelman I feel the greatest reward for doing is the opportunity to do more. --Jonas Salk 16 You cannot do a kindness too soon because you never know how soon it will be too late. --Ralph Waldo Emerson When you stop giving and offering something to the rest of the world, it's time to turn out the lights. --George Burns In my career, I learned that giving your services for free gives you a good return on your investment, not just financially but morally. It supplements your personal integrity. --Stevie Wonder A bit of fragrance always clings to the hand that gives you roses. --Chinese proverb In proportion as one renders service he becomes great. --Booker T. Washington My country is the world, and my religion is to do good. --Thomas Paine The greatest poverty that can afflict the human spirit is the loss of a generous heart. You will know that success has slipped away when your passion for helping others grows cold. --Bill Lane "May I never get too busy in my own affairs that I fail to respond to the needs of others with kindness and compassion." --Thomas Jefferson "If you don't believe one person can make a difference, you have never been in bed with a mosquito." --Anita Roddick, founder of The Body Shop "Bloom where you are planted" --Mother Jones "Everything in the universe is subject to change and everything is right on schedule." UNKNOWN "You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have really lived, are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love." --- Henry Drummond "We are not going to dwell on those things that divide us. We are going to rejoice in those things that keep us together to make this a better country- to reach down and back to touch every young person in need!" ---Gen. Colin Powell "We are not here to enjoy the things on earth, but to pass them around. The people who do it are the happiest people you know!" --- President George Bush "The era of big government is over, but the era of big challenge is not. We need an era of big citizenship. There are many important people at this summit, but the most important title is 'citizen.' This is our republic. Let us keep it!" --President Bill Clinton "Volunteers are not servants. Volunteers are partners working together for improving America's future." --Mayor Richard Daly "It's not how high we jump off our feet in church; it's what we do with them when we hit the ground!" --Governor Tom Ridge 17 "I slept and dreamt that life was pleasure, I woke and saw that life was service, I served and discovered that service was pleasure." - Rabindranath Tagore "It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no man can seriously help another without helping himself." -Charles Dudley Warner, 1873 "In about the same degree as you are helpful, you will be happy" -- Karl Reiland "The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but reveal to them their own." -- Disraeli "Who then can so softly bind up the wound of another as he who has felt the same wound himself." -- Thomas Jefferson "Be kind and generous everyday and volunteer, it is good for the soul." Anything can be accomplished as long as you don't care who gets the credit.-- Author Unknown "Volunteering is so pervasive it's invisible. We take for granted all the things that have been pioneered by concerned, active volunteers." "Men have always volunteered, they just called themselves coaches, trustees, and firemen!" Quotes from Susan J. Ellis, president of Energize. "We are surrounded by visionaries sacrificed on the altar of tradition." "I do get paid for my voluntary work. I just don't get paid money." -- a young volunteer at a conference in London. "We are all angels with only one wing; we can only fly while embracing one another" --Luciano de Crescanzo "Everybody can be great, because ANYBODY can serve." --Martin Luther King "You tell me and I forget. You teach me and I remember. You involve me and I learn" --Ben Franklin "What volunteers bring is the human touch, the individual, caring approach that no government program, however well-meaning and well-executed, can deliver." --Actor Edward James Olmos "We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give." --Winston Churchill "I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something, and because I cannot do everything I will not refuse to do something that I can do." --Edmund Everett Hale, Writer "How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world." --Anne Frank 18 "In American Society today, we need to have volunteerism. I truly believe that it is the glue that will hold us together and it will be the energy that will take us into the 21st century." --U.S Senator Barabara Mikulski "Our nation will succeed or fail to the degree that all of us -- citizens and businesses alike -- are active participants in building strong, sustainable and enriching communities." --Arnold Hiatt "I shall pass through this world but once. Any good therefore that I can do or any kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again." --Mahatma Gandhi "Everyone can be great because anyone can serve. You don't have to have a college degree to serve. You don't even have to make your subject and your verb agree to serve...You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love." --Martin Luther King, Jr. "The moral test of a society is how that society treats those who are in the dawn of life -- the children; those who are in the twilight of life -- the elderly; and those who are in the shadow of life -- the sick, the needy, and the handicapped." --Hubert Humphrey Those who can, do. Those who can do more, volunteer! Stop me before I volunteer again! Volunteers are angels in disguise! Volunteers are angels on earth! Volunteers are special folks! Volunteers do not necessarily have the time; they just have the heart. --Elizabeth Andrew Time spent as a volunteer is not deducted from one's lifespan! Volunteers take the time to lend a helping hand. Volunteers don't get paid, not because they're worthless, but because they're priceless! Your generosity of love and time touch all who know you! Volunteers are love in motion! 19 Reflections I was taught that the world had a lot of problems; that I could struggle and change them; that intellectual and material gifts brought the privilege and responsibility of sharing with others less fortunate; and that service is the rent each of us pays for living -- the very purpose of life and not something you do in your spare time or after you have reached your personal goals. --Marian Wright Edelman Which is more subversive—and corrosive—to believe in altruism or to see it simply as a cloak of self interest? Even if altruism did not exist, it would be necessary to believe in it. Pessimists in power are prone to despotism. --Frank Prochaska To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.--Ralph Waldo Emerson Throughout your life, there is a voice only you can hear. A voice which mythologists label "the call." A call to the value of your life. The choice of risk and individual bliss over the known and secure. You may choose not to hear your spirit. You may prefer to build a life within the compound, to avoid risk. It is possible to find happiness within a familiar box, a life of comfort and control. Or, you may choose to be open to new experiences, to leave the limits of your conditioning, to hear the call. Then you must act. If you never hear it, perhaps nothing is lost. If you hear it and ignore it, your life is lost. --Jennifer James Let ... individuals make the most of what God has given them, have their neighbors do the same, and then do all they can to serve each other. There is no use in one man, or one nation, to try to do or be everything. It is a good thing to be dependent on each other for something, it makes us civil and peaceable.-- quoted in History of Woman Suffrage, by Elizabeth Cady Stanton I shall pass through this world but once. Any good therefore that I can do or any kindness that I can show to any human being, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again. - Mahatma Gandhi "It is not enough to merely exist. It's not enough to say, 'I'm earning enough to live and support my family. I do my work well. I'm a good parent.' That's all very well. But you must do something more. "Seek always to do some good, somewhere. Every person has to seek in his own way to make his own self more noble and to realize his own true worth. You must give some time to your fellow man. "Even if it's a little thing, do something for those who have need of a man's help, something for which you get no pay but the privilege of doing it. For, remember, you don't live in a world all your own. Your brothers are here too." --Albert Schweitzer Nobel Peace Prize winner, 1952 20 "This is the true joy in life being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one being a force of Nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. . . ." "I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community and as long as I live it is my privilege to do for it whatever I can. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die. For the harder I work the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. " "Life is no brief candle to me. It's a sort of splendid torch which I've got to hold up for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations." --George Bernard Shaw "Unless your department has a budget infinitely greater than most, you will not get rich being a volunteer director/coordinator, but your life will be indescribably enriched by the people you meet and work with. A wise lady once told me that when you find your ideal job, you will do it for less than they pay you and when you find your calling you will do it for free. This is my ideal job. I hope you find yours." --Martin Tichenor At an inner city soup kitchen, a young woman was serving meals to guests. It was her very first day and she was nervous and unsure of how to behave around the poor, the indigent, the homeless people she had never seen before. Coming from a middle class neighborhood, she felt she had nothing in common with them, that she had nothing to offer." " As one man was moving past her, she noticed that he had missed his bread portion. She reached out and touched his arm. The man was old, disheveled and had his head hung low. When he turned, the young woman saw that he was crying. Concerned, she asked if she had hurt him. The man, tears in his eyes replied, "No, you are the first person who has touched me in more than two years." --a member of Sisters of St. Joseph, Canada "My adult daughter (an attorney) was assisting me in picking up rubbish on my Adopt-AHighway strip. We had on the usual brightly colored vest and traffic was pretty heavy. Pausing to reflect, she pondered, "You know, dad, these people probably think we did something very wrong!" --Self It is from the numberless diverse acts of courage and belief that human history is shaped. Each time a man stands up for an ideal or acts to improve the lot of others or strikes out against injustice, he sends forth a tiny ripple of hope, and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring, those ripples build a current that can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance. --Robert F. Kennedy speech in South Africa "Service is not as much about good actions, as it is about good feelings; creating them in others, and experiencing them within. It is not so much about 'doing', as it is about 'being'; being one's best, being one's higher self. Love, is the only true doer. Good deeds, like good works, are but priceless opportunities to experience and share our being's deepest nature: Joy." --Author anonymous. There are three ways of trying to win the young. There is persuasion, there is compulsion, and there is attraction. You can preach at them: that is a hook without a worm. You can say, "You must volunteer," and that is of the devil. You can tell them, "You are needed." That appeal hardly ever fails. --K. Hahn, Readings from the Hurricane Island Outward Bound School 21 It is not the critic who counts, not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes short again and again because there is no effort without error and shortcomings, who knows the great devotion, who spends himself in a worthy cause, who at best knows in the end the high achievement of triumph and who at worst, if he fails while daring greatly, knows his place shall never be with those timid and cold souls who know neither victory nor defeat. --Theodore Roosevelt If you want happiness for an hour -- take a nap. If you want happiness for a day -- go fishing. If you want happiness for a month -- get married. If you want happiness for a year -- inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime -- help someone else. --Chinese proverb "Your corn is ripe today, mine will be so tomorrow. ’Tis profitable for us both that I should labor with you today and that you should aid me tomorrow. I have no kindness for you, and know you have as little for me. I will not, therefore, take any pains upon your account . . . Here then I leave you to labor alone; you treat me in the same manner. The seasons change, and both of us lose our harvests for want of mutual confidence and security." – David Hume, 18th century philosopher In the end, more than they wanted freedom, they wanted security. They wanted a comfortable life and they lost it all -- security, comfort and freedom.... When the Athenians finally wanted not to give to society but for society to give to them, when the freedom they wished for most was freedom from responsibility, then Athens ceased to be free.--- Edward Gibbon 22 Desserts A’La Poem A G.I.'s Family's Prayer "A NATION OF HEROS" Hear, Lord my prayer for my G.I., so eager to live--to young to die. Teamwork in abundance, with peace in our heart, Striving stronger than ever, while loved ones are apart. Beneath an alien blistering sun, he faces a dangerous enemy gun. The storm clouds gather, the horror of war, my soldier stands bravely at the door. Defending justice, peace, and freedom, to his Commander-in-chief give Holy wisdom. From war's alarm, bring swift release, hasten the day of honorably peace. On land and sea and air, I back my soldier with this prayer: "No matter how far he's forced to roam, just bring, I pray my G.I. home." Amen ~submitted by Barbara Dorsheimer Lives at stake, this is no game, I will fight to the death, and do so without shame. Each day an eternity, with no end in sight, We are behind you, and support you a nations delight. We pray for your return, welcome you with pride, We will recognize all heroes, and mourn those who died. Every life that is lost, is a commitment that’s true, They did it for us, and the RED, WHITE and BLUE. ~submitted by SrA Kandis Boot "Spouses/Family Members serve Army, too." I would like to say something about those who have been "drafted" into the military by a spouse or parent. Our sacrifices frequently go unnoticed, and the importance of our contribution is often overlooked or taken for granted. Family support of the military member is critical to his or her performance. Contrary to the belief that soldiers are only as good as their leaders, the truth of the matter is that the soldier is only as good as the people who support him or her in their everyday life. We live on an Army post. Every morning at 0700 we are awakened to the sound of reveille. At 1700 hours every day a cannon fires which signals the end of the work day. At 2300 hours every evening we are serenaded by Taps. Every house on our street flies an American flag, not just on Flag Day, but every day. Patriotism isn't something we celebrate only on the Fourth of July; it is a way of life for us. In every house on post lives 1 the spouse and family members of a soldier, but the soldiers aren't always there. They are in Bosnia, Saudi, Korea or any one of a hundred other countries throughout the world where they might be needed, and we are left to "hold down the fort". I have a plaque that says, "Army wife - toughest job in the Army." This is an accurate description of ALL military family members of all branches. I am not just speculating on this, I speak from experience. I am a military spouse who is also an Army veteran. It was much easier being a soldier than it is being the family member of a soldier. I volunteered to be in the Army. It was what I wanted to do. I was drafted as a military dependant, and there are times when it is not what I want at all. Soldiers choose to live this lifestyle, but the family members don't. This fact does not diminish the sacrifices they are required to make for the sake of their country. They must be resourceful, capable, independent, and if you don't have at least a little bit of gypsy in your soul, the nomadic lifestyle you are forced to live can be devastating. Military dependents are anything but dependent. We are a uniquely adaptable group of talented individuals from diverse cultural and ethnic backgrounds. We are required to be ambassadors to the world in the truest sense of the word, and we do, as a whole, represent our country well. We may be reluctant patriots, but we serve judiciously, and we serve with pride. ©Cheryl Harvey Hill Veteran, WAC/ARNG/USArmy ACRONYMS Somewhere.. You asked me how my day was. Well sit down, dear. Let me see. The baby threw her squash at me. But that's just SOP. A bugle softly sounds the message of renown, and some inside their buildings wait until the flag comes down. And others run to get their cars quite harrowed or dismayed afraid they will not reach the gate before retreat is played. Not thinking of the flag or those who fought to keep it flying. How many would be glad to stand whose bodies now are mute or have no hand that they might raise and stand in proud salute. so accept it not as duty but a privilege even more and receive it as an honor instead of just a chore. ~Author unknown ~submitted by Jenny O'Rourke Your great aunt's coming to visit for her annual TDY. She sure asks a lot of questions. Do you think she's MI? I'm sure the dog's gone AWOL, I can't find him anywhere. And I bleached your OD T-shirt, Now it's lime green underwear. I've had my fill of KP. Can I change my MOS? Better kiss me ASAP Or I'm gonna PCS. ~by Pam Greer, Army Wife submitted by Melissa Trefault 2 Serving Our Country, Me and You SUPPORT He tells me they will go back to the desert again. Brown will soon be so mundane. Capturing scorpions and lizards for fun. Not much else to do in the sun. I reach out and your hand is there for me to grasp. We need to cling together now, to share the winter winds and warming rays, a steaming cup, our children's play, a laugh, a tear, a hand pressed in understanding, a kindred, soggy shoulder when life is just too hard to understand, a voice on the phone when the night jitters grab, a hug when the ache for that comforting pressure is overwhelming, and someone to hug in return to sustain and uphold. I reach, as for a sister, and you are there. Gone he has been for only a day. What did he do with the checkbook anyway? The fence gate fell off its hinges this morning. This is what you are in for, is its warning. Lots of learning and lots of growing. Looks like the grass could use a mowing. The neighbors look in awe at this handy woman. Does she ever sleep or is she even human? Hanging in there we both will do. Serving our country, me and you. ~by Gina Seaman HOMECOMING His manner was happy. His face wore a smile, his eager eyes searching the last endless mile. Ribbons of yellow and red white and blue adorned every front door that passed into view. His heart swelled with pride for he'd done his job well, but a part of him wept for his buddies who fell. His emotions were jumbled. His feelings were torn. He needed some time now to quietly mourn. He had left here a boy and now he'd returned, ~by B. V. Dahlen © The American Creed "I believe in the United States of America as a Government of the people by the people, for the people, whose just powers are derived from the consent of the governed; a democracy in a Republic; a sovereign Nation of many sovereign States; a perfect Union, one and inseparable; established upon those principles of freedom, equality, justice, and humanity for which American patriots sacrificed their lives and fortunes. I therefore believe it is my duty to my Country to love it; to support its Constitution; to obey its laws; to respect its flag, and to defend it against all enemies." by William Tyler Page 3 and in the short span there was so much he'd learned. Today all that mattered was a few miles ahead, and anticipation was beginning to spread. At last, the bus station and people galore, but one, only one was he searching for. Both tear streaked and laughing her face filled his view, and with all his mixed feelings there was one thing he knew. He had hated that desert. He had hated the war, and he knew only freedom was worth fighting for. He wasn't a hero with ambitions to roam. As he ran to her arms he at last had come home. ~by B. V. Dahlen © Midway Emergency! Emergency! Please send my husband home. His ship is due to pull into A port not far from Rome. My spider needs transplanting, there's no light bulbs in the hall, the living room is drafty where our son's began to crawl. The car has not been tuned up since the last time he was here. It rumbles every time I try to shift to second gear. TEN COMMANDMENTS FOR MILITARY SPOUSES By Jean Walter I. Thou shalt not write in ink in thy address book. II. Thou shalt not covet choice assignments of other uniformed branches of service. III. Love thy neighbor. (Tis easier if thou buyest a house on a corner) IV. Honor thy Commissary and Exchange for as long as they both shall live. V. Thou shalt not ridicule a local politician, for mighty senators from local politicians grow. VI. Thou shalt look for the best in every assignment, even though the best may be The World's Biggest Cockroaches or Record Snow in One Month's Time or Most Childhood Diseases Experienced in One Year. VII. Thou shalt remember all they friends from all thy assignments with greetings at Christmas, for thou never knowest when thou might like to spendeth the night with them while enroute to a new duty station. VIII. Be kind and gentle to retired, white-hair Exchange and Commissary customers, because thou too will be a retiree someday. IX. Thou shalt not curse thy active duty spouse who is off TAD on moving day. X. Thou must never arrive at a new assignment and constantly brag about how everything was much better at thy last assignment 4 I really need him right away, I tell you I'm not bluffing! I've an itch I cannot scratch and floors that need a buffing. There's a cobweb on the ceiling that only he can reach, an he's the only one who cleans my counter tops with bleach. This is no trumped up emergency! My bathroom has a bug, And I'm having trouble sleeping, And I know I need a hug. In fact if I could get one hug I guess it wouldn't matter that the oven needs a scrubbing and the dog is getting fatter. A hug would reassure me, It would say that he's still mine. I'd cope with both the house and car and things would be just fine. I guess that my emergency is just that it’s so hard to want a hug and settle for a letter or a card. Emergency! Emergency! Please rush the mail here, and tell him when his ship pulls in, I'll be waiting on the pier. ~by Marian J. Gorman A Child’s Prayer To think a good thought To speak a good word To do a good deed Is happiness For him or her who seeks no reward. Army Spouse Prayer Dear Lord, Give me the greatness of heart to see the difference between duty and his love for me. Give me a task to do each day, to fill the time when he is away. When he is in a foreign land, keep him safe in your loving hand. And, when duty is in the field, please protect him and be his shield. And Lord, when deployment is so long, please stay with me and keep me strong. AMEN I AM YOU I stand tall with pride and dignity A symbol of truth, honor and liberty I cry out to those who fought and died for me Be it on land, in the air, or on an angry sea My blue is for your loyalty My white stands for its purity My red is for their courage, and the blood they shed I was with you on the sands of Iwo; also Wake and Guam On the bone chilling hills of Korea and in the steaming jungles of Vietnam You didn't let me falter, though torn along your side A tribute to the many; a vision of your pride So for those who shed their blood and tears I proudly represent their courage and fears...AMERICA! Look up to me and as you do Please remember always, that I am you... ~Thomas F. Whiteman ~submitted by Jamie I. Ellis 5 And you thought you were a civilian...... When Dad's away, Mom's the Commanding Officer When Dad's home, Mom's the Executive Officer, coordinating and executing actions for the Command Team Keeping track of the kids, she's the S-1 Collecting the neighborhood news, and relaying it to Dad, she's the S-2 Making plans for the entire family and training the kids, she's the S-3 Stocking food and supplies for the family, she's the S-4 She answers all the family correspondence and makes appointments for Dad, that makes her the Adjutant. Worrying about the family budget makes her the Comptroller Paying the bills, and accounting to Dad for the paychecks makes her Disbursing Looking for a new place to live when we move, she's like Billeting Assigning us chores to do, getting us fed, bathed, and put to bed, she's our First Sergeant. Serving the food and doing dishes, she's the Mess Hall. Carrying small children, she's ammunition handler. Driving the family to all our appointments, she's the duty driver Looking like a queen when she goes out with Dad, she's a Military Man's Lady. Gosh, Mom's the whole darn Military "Volunteer's Creed" - Tom Krause Though my troubles and my worries are sometimes all that I see still I always must remember life's not only about me. Other souls are also hurting and I know that it's in God's plan to reach out to help another to extend to them my hand. With this purpose as my focus to be a comfort to a friend all my troubles and my worries seem to fade out in the end. It is one of God's true lessons how my walk is meant to be true happiness I find when life's not only about me. 6 Sisterhood by Debbie Giusti I am an Army wife - member of that sisterhood of women who have had the courage to watch their men march into battle and the strength to survive until their return. Our sorority knows no rank for we earn our membership with a marriage license, traveling over miles, or over nations to begin a new life with our soldier husbands. Within days we turn a barren, echoing building into a home and though our quarters are inevitably white walled and un-papered we decorate with the treasures of our travels for we shop the markets of the globe. Using hammer and nail, we tack our pictures to the wall and our roots to the floor as firmly as if we had lived there for a lifetime. We hold a family together by the bootstraps and raise the best "brats", instilling into them our motto "Home is Togetherness" whether motel, or guest house, apartment or duplex. As Army Wives we soon realize that the only good in "Good-bye" is the "hello again." For as salesmen for freedom our husbands are often on the road leaving us behind for a week, a month, and assignment. During separation we guard the home front existing till the homecoming. Unlike our civilian counterparts we measure time not by age, but by our tours - married at Knox, baby born at Bliss, a promotion in Missouri. We plant trees and never see them grow tall, work on projects completed long after our departure, and enhance our community for the betterment of those who come after us. We leave a part of ourselves at every stop. Through experience we have learned to pack a suitcase, a car, or hold baggage and live indefinitely from it's contents within; and though our fingers are sore from the patches we have sewn and the silver we have shined, our hands are always ready to help those around us. Women of peace we pray for a world in harmony, for the flag that leads our men into battle will also blanket them in death. Yet we are an optimistic group, thinking of the good and forgetting the bad, cherishing yesterday while anticipating tomorrow. Never rich by monetary standards, our hearts are overflowing with a wealth of experiences common only to those united by the special traditions of military life. We pass on this legacy to every Army bride, welcoming her with outstretched arms, with love, and friendship from one sister to another, sharing in the bounty of our unique, fulfilling Army way of life. 7 One Red Rose No one knows how long the legend has been observed… One Red Rose Handed from military spouse to military spouse And from friend to friend And always with the deepest appreciation For a welcome, a thank you, or Merely a reminder That we strive for the same thing… …a peaceful world. Quite Hero She wakes very early, he’s leaving today, She will stand tall and proud as he’s walking away He glances back warmly at his children and wife, Knowing they will bravely carry on with their life. Her strength and her courage only one understands, He is walking away with her heart in his hands. For he knows that without it he would be lost, But they both know that freedom comes at a cost. She walks away holding her children so close, Swallowing tears for the one she loves most. This quiet here does not walk into war; She soldiers on behind her front door. She will move trough her life the wind at her back, Determined to keep her family on track Her tears fall in silence while she lies in her bed, Her fear is right there but nothing is said. She will ask that no metals be pinned to her chest. Her husbands safe return her only request. Few understand her commitment, her life: She is the quiet hero, the brave soldier’s wife. --Kathleen Mills Teacher's Prayer Lord, help me to make my classroom a place where love and learning come to life. Guide me in all that I do that I may strive, not so much to teach, as to awaken, not so much to instruct, as to inspire. Save me from complacency of readymade answers by an ever-present sense of the wonder of your creation. Above all, help me to give my students love ~ a love gentle enough to touch, but firm enough to leave them room to grow. And help me to give it now ~ that they may share it with a world in need of love. Student's Prayer Now I lay me down to study, I pray the Lord I won't go nutty. If I should fail to learn this junk, I pray the Lord I will not flunk. Now I lay me down to rest, and pray I pass tomorrow's test. If I should die before I wake, that's one less test I'll have to take. 8 An Army’s Wife Creed by Heather A I am the wife of an American Soldier. I am a supporter of the United States Army an encouragement for the protectors of the greatest nation on earth. Because I am proud of my husband and the uniform that he wears, I will always act in ways creditable to him, the military service and the nation he is sworn to guard. I am proud of my husband. I will do all that I can to protect and provide for my family in his absence. I will be loyal to my husband and to the vows that we made as we entered the covenant of marriage. I will do my full part to carry on the values and goals we have set apart for our family and I will continue to instruct our children in the same manner. As a soldier's wife, I realize that I play a vital role in my husband's decision to become a member of a time-honored profession that I am doing my share to keep alive the principles of freedom for which my country stands. No matter what situation I am in, I will never do anything, for pleasure, profit, or personal safety, which will disgrace my husband, his uniform or our country. I will use every means I have to encourage my husband to be the best soldier that he can be. I am proud of my husband, my country and its flag. I will fly the flag and will always remember the sacrifices made by my husband and by generations of men and women that have served our beloved country. I will try to make my husband proud of the manner in which I accept his decision to defend my freedom and the freedom of all American citizens for I am the wife of an American soldier. Army of One Author unknown I've noticed in my present job, there is a tiny quirk. There's no respect at all and it's not considered work. Well, I am here to show you another point of view, and give you an idea of what I really do! Here's my job description and to better understand, it's written in the language of the Army Man. I'm the IG, complaints come to me. 9 I am the Medic, I bandage skinned knees. I'm the Legal Office and the courts-martial, too. I decide the punishment, how much and on who, I'm Health: Welfare, inspecting for junk, and the 1SG checking the bunk. I'm also Supply, in charge of food, clothes, house wares, diapers, toys, heaven only knows. I'm the MP, who secures the door, I'm also the PVT who GI's the floor, I'm the Mess SGT who cooks all the meals. I'm TMP in charge of the wheels. I'm MWR planning all the fun and I am the Bugler, announcing the "day is done". I'm the KP, who does all the dishes; I am the DA who hears all you wishes. I'm the CQ and the Fireguard, too, there isn't that much that I don't do. I'm the instructor too, you see, because what is learned is taught by me. I'm the Squad Leader, who knows his troops well, sometimes the Drill SGT who really can yell. I'm the S4, S1, 2, 3, just about everything must come through me! Appropriations, tasking, and commitments too, I'm responsible for all we do. I never go to battle, and AR of some sort, but you can count on me to bravely guard the fort. I'm ALWAYS on duty, I never take leave, no Holidays off, and it’s hard to believe! I can never ETS, I signed for life, my primary MOS is Mother, my secondary is Army Wife. For all my devotion, to duty, my LES says "NO PAY DUE" because I'm not paid in money, but in the words of 'I LOVE YOU'. I AM AN ARMY WIFE! I Do Not Like This Dust and Sand By CPT Jay P...Kentucky Army National Guard. With apologies to Dr. Seuss. I do not like this dust and sand, I do not like it on my hands. I do not like dust in my head; I do not like it in my bed, I do not like sand in my hair; I hate it in my underwear. I do not like this dust and sand, I used to like the color tan. I do not like dust on my clothes; I despise it up my nose. I do not like sand in my face, invading all my private space. I do not like dust in my mouth; I do not like it north or south. I do not like sand east or west, No where is where I like it best. I do not like dust in my ear, it’s hard to reach, I cannot hear. When it gets in my drink and food, it affects my attitude. I like it not with ham and eggs; I do not like sand on my legs. I like it not in socks and boots, Nor on my veggies, meats and fruits. This dust and sand floats everywhere, it dances in the desert air I like a dust storm even less, because it leaves a gritty mess I want to leave this sand and dust, but until then in God I trust. 10 Final Inspection A Recipe for the Spirit The soldier stood and faced his God Which must always come to pass He hoped his shoes were shining bright Just as brightly as his brass "Step forward now, soldier, How shall I deal with you? Have you turned the other cheek? To my church have you been true?" The soldier squared his shoulders and said, "No, Lord, I guess I ain't because those of us who carry guns can't always be a saint. I've had to work most Sundays and at times my talk was rough, Because the world is awfully tough, But, I never took a thing That wasn't mine keep... Though I worked a lot of overtime When the bills got just too steep, And I never passed a cry for help, Though at times I shook with fear, And sometimes, God forgive me, I've wept unmanly tears. I know I don't deserve a place Among the People here, They never wanted me around Except to calm their fears. If you've a place for me here, Lord, It needn't be so grand, I never expected or had too much, But if you don't I'll understand." There was a silence all around the throne Where the saints often trod As the soldier waited quietly, for the judgment of his God, "Step forward now, soldier, You've borne your burdens well, Come walk peacefully on Heaven's streets, You've done your time in HELL." Fold two hands together, And express a dash of sorrow. Marinate it overnight, And work on it tomorrow. Chop one grudge in tiny pieces, Add several cups of love. Dredge with a large sized smile, Mix with the ingredients above. Dissolve the hate within you, By doing a good deed. Cut in and help your friend, If he/she should be in need. Stir in laughter, love and kindness, From the heart it has to come. Toss with genuine forgiveness, And give your friends some. The amount of people served, Will depend on you. It can serve the whole wide world. If you really want it to!!! (author unknown) Author Unknown 11 You Probably Didn’t Realize You probably didn't realize who was sitting next to you. You rattled on about how silly this anti-terrorist war is, and that it's just a political ploy. You said you'd never let your son run off to fight, and you'd throw a fit if they just sent your husband off. At that point, I almost turned around and told you who I am. I am a military spouse. Life in the military has never been easy. It means low pay with no overtime, watching your husband go to work with a fever because the doctor didn't deem him sick enough for the day off. It means years of rules and protocol that wear on you like a dripping faucet late at night. Don't even get me going on the weekly inspection of our yards. We live with Terms like "Exercise" which means 12 hour shifts. And "TDY," which means your spouse is gone for up to 180 days. And "Remotes," which means your spouse is gone for longer than 180 days. And finally, "PCS," which means your whole family is going on this ride. Don't get me wrong; whining is not my intent here. While the road we've been down in the military hasn't always been paved; it's been a good life. 12 My kids know you don't wait to make friends because you never know how long they'll be here. We know how precious good friends are even when miles separate us. It wasn't always in vogue to be patriotic. Sept. 11 helped turn that tide, but flags are fading around here again. My husband is TDY (temporary duty) right now. I'm not allowed to tell you where. I'm 26 days into a 109-day TDY. There have been too many times I have needed him here. Forget the running of the home there are kisses and hugs that should be taking place. I lie in bed and try to recall what his breathing sounds like next to meor I hear the door open and try to envision him walking in from work. What I would give to hear his clear voice without telephone static and worrying about how much the phone call will cost us. Then the deep fear what if this separation becomes permanent? Distance is a horrible thief of what is precious, because it only reminds us of how precious it is. You kept on talking for a while. I then realized I was picking up your tab. You could sit there freely and give your opinion because of the military families like ours. We are paying the price for your freedom. I've heard it said that soldiers of the past, present and future pay for the flag. Nah, we're the threads it's woven with. 13 I got your back by Autumn Parker I am a small and precious child, my dads been sent to fight... The only place I'll see his face, is in my dreams at night. He will be gone too many days for my young mind to keep track. I may be sad, but I am proud. My daddy's got your back. I am a caring mother. My son has gone to war... My mind is filled with worries that I have never known before. Every day I try to keep my thoughts from turning black. I may be scared, but I am proud. My son has got your back. I am a strong and loving wife, with a husband who had to go. There are times I'm terrified in a way most never know. I bite my lip, and force a smile as I watch my husband pack... My heart may break, but I am proud. My husband's got your back... I am a soldier... Serving Proudly, standing tall. I fight for freedom, yours and mine by answering this call. I do my job while knowing, the thanks it sometimes lacks. Say a prayer that I'll come home. It's me who's got your back. Recruiter’s wife payer Lord, Give me the strength of heart to see the difference in duty and his love for me. Give me the understanding to know that when duty calls, he must go. Give me the patience to know in my heart that he is serving his country and doing his part. Give me the strength to carry one when he's working late or must be gone. Give me a task to do each day to fill the time while he is away. Give me the vision I need to see he's doing his best for the kids and me. Give me others who can share the ups and downs and who'll really care. Give me the wisdom to get me through when I'm not quite sure of what to do. And Lord, while our family is here keep us healthy, safe and full of cheer. by J Grimsley 14 Army Wedding Vows by D. A. Stohlman If the Army wanted you to have a wife, it would have issued you one. Dear family and friend, we are gathered here today in the sight of God and the Department of the Army to witness this exchange of vows and to see the love that these dedicated, loving people have for one another. I,______________________________________, take (who was once referred to as the ‘dependent’), as your Family Member, to dwell together in so far as the Department of the Army will permit?” “Wilt thou love her, comfort her via the Postal Service or over the telephone, make sure she knows where the commissary, PX, clinic and the church are and what time she is scheduled to use the laundry room the day she arrives, wherever you are stationed?” “Wilt thou attempt to tell her more than 24 hours in advance that you will be leaving for two weeks, beginning the next morning? This especially applies to the years you will live in a foreign country!” “Wilt thou, , take this soldier as thy wedded husband, knowing that he is depending upon you to be the perfect (well, almost) Army Wife, running the household as you see fit and being nice to the Commander’s Wife (even when it is hard to)? Further, you understand that your life with your husband (little that you may have together) will not be normal, that you may have to explain to your children, not once but twice and more often in the same day, that mothers do have husbands, that children do have daddies, and that the picture of the man on the refrigerator is not the milkman, but the same individual who tucks the in at 2200 hours, long after they are asleep. This soldier is their daddy, who loves then very, very much” "Wilt thou love, respect and wait for him, preparing his favorite meals when he does come home and freezing them when he doesn’t? When he is gone wilt thou send him all his favorite cookies and pictures of yourself and the children so he can remember what you look like? When you are separated on your anniversaries (which will happen more often than not) you will remember this special day and celebrate it on the closest day possible to the actual date. And last but not least, put on the outside of the door his ‘WELCOME HOME’ sign when he is due to arrive.” “I, , take thee , as my independent wife from 1900 to 2200 hours or as long as allowed by my Commanding Officer (subject to change without notice) for better or worse, earlier or later, near or far, and promise to look at the pictures you send me, maybe not when they get to me in the field, but before I turn out the lights. I will also send you a letter if time permits, and if not, to somehow, someway make the time. I will also remember this special day and will try to telephone you somehow; someway on the anniversaries we are separated.” 15 DEPARTMENT OF THE ARMY 327th SIGNAL BATTALION (ABN) FORT BRAGG NORTH CAROLINA 28310 ORDERS: 2005-0002 25 August 2014 Layla Reagan Shue, 000-00-0000, Private (extremely), bundle of joy, Heaven Sent You will proceed on a permanent change of station as indicated. Assigned to: 327th Signal Battalion (ABN), Fort Bragg North Carolina 28310 Reporting Date: 02/04/2005 Reporting Time: 1717 hrs Weight: 6 lbs. 9 oz. Height: 19 ½ in. Additional Instruction: (a) You may wear clothes only when your mom and dad decide to dress you. (b) Travel is authorized by infant car seat only at no expense to the government, (you’ve cost enough already). (c) You are required to report in a loud and thunderous voice for assistance when hungry or in need of changing. (d) You are authorized shipment of personal belongings i.e. diapers, bottles and clothing received as gifts by well wishers and the hospital at parent’s expense to your residence. (e) Use of more than one POV is not authorized. (f) You are responsible for reporting for your next doctor’s visit in satisfactory condition, able to meet or exceed height and weight standards. (g) Concurrent travel is mandatory with your parents until you show suitable proficiency in walking and talking. (h) You are not required to report to family housing as quarters are prearranged. (i) Early reporting is not authorized, but will be tolerated only once. (j) You will proceed on or about three days after birth IAW written discharges from your immediate physician. FOR ARMY USE: Auth: Grace of God MDC: Birth PMOS/PSSI: OJT/Life Enl/Renl Indic: Indefinite Project Specialty: Adulthood Control Speciality: Baby MICHELLE R. GEORGE CPT, SC Commanding 16 THE SILENT RANKS Author Unknown I wear no uniforms, no blues or army greens. But I am in the military in the ranks rarely seen. I have no rank upon my shoulders. Salutes I do not give. But the military world is the place where I live. I'm not in the chain of command, orders I do not get. But my husband is the one who does, this I can not forget. I'm not the one who fires the weapon, who puts my life on the line. But my job is just as tough. I'm the one that's left behind. My husband is a patriot, a brave and prideful man and the call to serve his country, not all can understand. Behind the lines I see the things needed to keep this country free. My husband makes the sacrifice, but so do our kids and me. I love the man I married. Soldiering is his life. But I stand among the silent ranks known as the Military Wife. Ode to a Military Spouse by Tonyia Maynor-Cohen We often take for granted The things we see each day; Our home, our money, life and love; Our children deep in play. But once we step outside our world And take a peek within, We re-evaluate our lives And long to "start" again. And with this I must ask of you Since we have been apart, Do you still feel the same as me? Am I still in your heart? Do you wish as I do now ...That you were here today? That I could touch and hold you close And kiss five months away? And with each day that passes by The boat moves closer in. I dream, I laugh, I smile for you, my husband, lover, friend. Recipe for a Military Wife Author Unknown 1 1/2 cups Patience 1 lb. Adaptability 3/4 cup Tolerance 1 tsp. Courage A Dash of Adventure Combine above ingredients: Add 2 tablespoons elbow grease. Let sit alone for one year. Marinate frequently with salty tears. Pour off excess fat. Sprinkle lightly with money. "Knead" dough until payday. Season with international spices. Bake 20 years or until done.....Dedicated.....to military wives everywhere, who have waved "good-bye: more often than not, who have heated up more dinners than most wives cook, who have missed more anniversaries, birthdays, Christmases and Valentine's Days than they should have, and most important of all have welcomed their husbands home GLADLY. 17 Daddy's Day Her favorite dress tied with a bow. Today was Daddy's Day at school, And she couldn't wait to go. The words did not offend her, As she smiled up at her Mom. And looked back at her teacher, Who told her to go on. But her Mommy tried to tell her, That she probably should stay home. Why the kids might not understand, If she went to school alone. And with hands behind her back, Slowly she began to speak. And out from the mouth of a child, Came words incredibly unique. But she was not afraid; She knew just what to say. What to tell her classmates Of why he wasn't there today. "My Daddy couldn't be here, Because he lives so far away. But I know he wishes he could be, Since this is such a special day. But still her mother worried, For her to face this day alone. And that was why once again, She tried to keep her daughter home. And though you cannot meet him, I wanted you to know. All about my daddy, And how much he loves me so. But the little girl went to school, Eager to tell them all. About a dad she never sees A dad who never calls. He loved to tell me stories He taught me to ride my bike. He surprised me with pink roses, And taught me to fly a kite. There were daddies along the wall in back, For everyone to meet. Children squirming impatiently, Anxious in their seats. We used to share fudge sundaes, And ice cream in a cone. And though you cannot see him, I'm not standing here alone. Author Unknown One by one the teacher called, A student from the class. To introduce their daddy, As seconds slowly passed. At last the teacher called her name, Every child turned to stare. Each of them was searching, For a man who wasn't there. "Cause my daddy's always with me, Even though we are apart I know because he told me, He'll forever be in my heart" With that, her little hand reached up, And lay across her chest. Feeling her own heartbeat, Beneath her favorite dress. "Where's her daddy at?" She heard a boy call out. "She probably doesn't have one," Another student dared to shout. And from somewhere in the crowd of dads, Her mother stood in tears. Proudly watching her daughter, Who was wise beyond her years. And from somewhere near the back, She heard a daddy say, "Looks like another deadbeat dad, Too busy to waste his day." For she stood up for the love Of a man not in her life. Doing what was best for her, Doing what was right. And when she dropped her hand back down, Staring straight into the crowd. She finished with a voice so soft, But its message clear and loud. "I love my daddy very much, He's my shining star. And if he could, he'd be here, But heaven's just too far. You see he was a fireman And died just this past year When airplanes hit the towers And taught Americans to fear. But sometimes when I close my eyes, It's like he never went away." And then she closed her eyes, And saw him there that day. And to her mother's amazement, She witnessed with surprise. A room full of daddies and children, All starting to close their eyes. Who knows what they saw before them, Who knows what they felt inside. Perhaps for merely a second, They saw him at her side. "I know you're with me Daddy," To the silence she called out. And what happened next made believers, Of those once filled with doubt. Not one in that room could explain it, For each of their eyes had been closed. But there on the desk beside her, Was a fragrant long-stemmed pink rose. And a child was blessed, if only for a moment, By the love of her shining bright star. And given the gift of believing, That heaven is never too far 18 Dear God Author Unknown Dear God, So far today, I've done all right. I haven't gossiped. I haven't lost my temper. I haven't lied or cheated. I haven't been greedy, grumpy, nasty, selfish or overindulgent. I'm very thankful for that. But in a few minutes, Lord, I'm going to get out of bed; and from then on, I'm probably going to need a lot more help. Amen Prayer for a Military Fiancé Author unknown This is the prayer that I say tonight It is for my fiancé who must fight For you see, he is away from me Keeping his country safe and free. This is the one that I love And so I ask you Lord above Please keep him safe while under way And bring him home to me someday. While he is gone please hear my prayer And let him know I will be there Waiting for him on the pier Hoping praying with some fear. This prayer is not for him alone But for all military far from home. I ask you to keep them safe and sound On their way to where their bound We love these men that are asked to fight So, keep them safe for us tonight. Daddy's Going to Miss Christmas Author, Jennifer M. Daddy's going to miss Christmas, I heard my son say. No, baby Jesus has a birthday even far away. We can celebrate our savior's birth, while daddy's in Iraq and keep his presents for him until he comes back. See, the gift of giving is what daddy is doing. Giving others the freedom us Americans are pursuing. We can be proud even though daddy is away. He is fighting so we can continue to Celebrate Christmas day. 19 Album by J Wightman As I worked on this album, Many long hours into the night, I tried to find the right words for this page, But nothing ever sounded right. Words just can’t describe, The pride I feel towards you, And the respect that I have because of what you do. Sometimes it’s really hard for me to have to say good-bye, To smile anyway as you leave, even though I just want to cry. But I really shouldn’t worry, I know our country is in good hands, Knowing you’re out there, fighting for these lands. As you turn each page in this book, You’ll be taking a step back into your past, And see all that you’ve accomplished, I just hope I’ve made your memories last. I just needed a way to show people, A side of you they don’t often see, And show them what a hero is, Because that’s what you are to me. Prayer for Military Families Marine Corps CWO3 CJ Lee Pause for a moment, to remember the family. Who for liberty, freedom and our security, Endure many a hardship and separation, Which serve to bond them closer to their Nation. These bonds are true, no mere artifice, Which is the measure of their sacrifice, Engendered by a love for their country, If you don’t believe, ask Mrs. Bixby. Re’member them… mother, wives, children, all, Their loved one’s gone when they hear the call, These silent patriots, yet they’re always there, So for the military families say a prayer. Unnamed Jennifer Bingham, Marine Corps Spouse Military families must be strong Sometimes Mommy or Daddy could be gone all year long Moving here and there over the years Saying goodbye to friends with fearful tears Families who’ve learned to take care of each other Always helping one another Friends who share lots of things Knowing what being away from your family really means We learn how to survive Praying for God to keep us revived Volunteering our help now and then Knowing God is watching over us until the end Military families are special you know Always finding room to grow God bless each and everyone of us today And give us strength to send Mommy or Daddy on their way. 20 The Twelve Folds of the Flag The first fold of our flag is a symbol of life. The second fold is a symbol of our belief in the eternal life. The third fold is made in honor and remembrance of the veteran departing our ranks who gave a portion of life for the defense of our country to attain a peace throughout the world. The fourth fold represents our weaker nature, for as American citizens trusting in God, it is to Him we turn in times of peace as well as in times of war for His divine guidance. The fifth fold is a tribute to our country, for in the words of Stephen Decatur, "Our country, in dealing with other countries, may she always be right; but it is still our country, right or wrong." The sixth fold is for where our hearts lie. It is with our heart that we pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic for which it stands, one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all. The seventh fold is a tribute to our Armed Forces, for it is through the Armed Forces that we protect our country and our flag against all her enemies, whether they be found within or without the boundaries of our republic. The eighth fold is a tribute to the one who entered in to the valley of the shadow of death, that we might see the light of day, and to honor mother, for whom it flies on mother's day. The ninth fold is a tribute to womanhood; for it has been through their faith, love, loyalty and devotion that the characters of the men and women who have made this country great have been molded. The tenth fold is a tribute to father, for he, too, has given his sons and daughters for the defense of our country since they were first born. The eleventh fold, in the eyes of a Hebrew citizen, represents the lower portion of the seal of King David and King Solomon, and glorifies, in their eyes, the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. The twelfth fold, in the eyes of a Christian citizen, represents an emblem of eternity and glorifies, in their eyes, God the Father, the Son, and Holy Ghost. When the flag is completely folded, the stars are uppermost, reminding us of our national motto, "In God we Trust." "A NATION OF HEROS" Teamwork in abundance, with peace in our heart, Striving stronger than ever, while loved ones are apart. Lives at stake, this is no game, I will fight to the death, and do so without shame. Each day an eternity, with no end in sight, We are behind you, and support you a nations delight. We pray for your return, welcome you with pride, We will recognize all heroes, and mourn those who died. Every life that is lost, is a commitment thats true, They did it for us, and the RED, WHITE and BLUE. ~submitted by SrA Kandis Boot 21 "Spouses/Family Members serve Army, too." I would like to say something about those who have been "drafted" into the military by a spouse or parent. Our sacrifices frequently go unnoticed, and the importance of our contribution is often overlooked or taken for granted. Family support of the military member is critical to his or her performance. Contrary to the belief that soldiers are only as good as their leaders, the truth of the matter is that the soldier is only as good as the people who support him or her in their everyday life. We live on an Army post. Every morning at 0700 we are awakened to the sound of reveille. At 1700 hours every day a cannon fires which signals the end of the work day. At 2300 hours every evening we are serenaded by Taps. Every house on our street flies an American flag, not just on flag day, but every day. Patriotism isn't something we celebrate only on the Fourth of July, it is a way of life for us. In every house on post lives the spouse and family members of a soldier, but the soldiers aren't always there. They are in Bosnia, Saudi, Korea or any one of a hundred other countries throughout the world where they might be needed, and we are left to "hold down the fort". I have a plaque that says, "Army wife - toughest job in the Army." This is an accurate description of ALL military family members of all branches. I am not just speculating on this, I speak from experience. I am a military spouse who is also an Army veteran. It was much easier being a soldier than it is being the family member of a soldier. I volunteered to be in the Army. It was what I wanted to do. I was drafted as a military dependant, and there are times when it is not what I want at all. Soldiers choose to live this lifestyle, but the family members don't. This fact does not diminish the sacrifices they are required to make for the sake of their country. They must be resourceful, capable, independent, and if you don't have at least a little bit of gypsy in your soul, the nomadic lifestyle you are forced to live can be devastating. Military dependents are anything but dependent. We are a uniquely adaptable group of talented individuals from diverse cultural and ethnic backgrounds. We are required to be ambassadors to the world in the truest sense of the word, and we do, as a whole, represent our country well. We may be reluctant patriots, but we serve judiciously, and we serve with pride. ©Cheryl Harvey Hill Veteran, WAC/ARNG/USArmy UNKNOWN cries of joy and tears of love shouts of anger whisper me home. so near yet so far so close and i cry i love and i lose please don't say goodbye. i have felt the hardship, I know the tug in my gut. no matter how little time, no matter how long, the separation is anguish, the days and nights so long. we made it through and climbed back up, through all the memories, one time i see. i see how you looked at me when you said you would always be there for me. you will be home soon, now i can let out a big sigh, for the love of my heart is coming back to me. ~by gigi a. sofia 22 ACRONYMS You asked me how my day was. Well sit down, dear. Let me see. The baby threw her squash at me. But that's just SOP. Your great aunt's coming to visit for her annual TDY. She sure asks a lot of questions. Do you think she's MI? I'm sure the dog's gone AWOL, I can't find him anywhere. And I bleached your OD T-shirt, Now it's lime green underwear. I've had my fill of KP. Can I change my MOS? Better kiss me ASAP Or I'm gonna PCS. ~by Pam Greer, Army Wife submitted by Melissa Trefault 23 Crest of the Military Wife Shape The shape is that of the human heart, symbolic of her endless capacity for love, caring, and devotion. Background The background is of red and white stripes joined by a field of royal blue, upon which is set a single white star. This represents the flag and the nation, which she so proudly serves through her tireless efforts and endless sacrifices. The single star remembers the countless hours of loneliness she endures; yet, through it all, she shines with warmth and brilliance. Major Image The major image is that of a tree, the symbol of life, for that she is to the military community. The trunk of the tree is of sturdy stock but without roots, a consequence of her nomadic life. The main body of the tree is five conjoined circles upon which are set symbols capturing but a few of her many contributions to community and family. From left to right the symbols show that: she provides mobility and flexibility to a family on the move; she fixes and mends everything from broken toys to broken hearts; she is a teacher sharing her knowledge and imparting her values; she is a doctor, nurse, and minister, ensuring the physical and spiritual health of those in her care; finally, she is the lawyer, judge, and arbitrator who maintains peace and harmony at home. Minor Images The minor images are of children nestled safely beneath the sheltering branches of the tree. She provides them the nourishment and protection they need to grow healthy and strong. Border The border is formed by a ribbon of black and white squares. These represent the ominous and ubiquitous boxes which punctuate her life during each of her many moves and mark the transition from one phase of her life to the next. Banner The banner, at the base of the crest, displays the latin words Virtus, Caritas, Vires (Courage, Love, Strength) the values she most personifies. The Crest of the Military Wife The crest is prominently worn upon chest or lapel on any occasion when the wearer would have it known that she is proud to be a Military Wife. 24 The Coin Of The Military Brat Boldness... ...to bravely go where others dare not ~ (Represented by the eagle and shield at the center) Responsibility... ... to live in service and honor of God, Family and Country ~ (Captured along with truth and integrity by the blue banner) Adaptability... ...to be at home anywhere ~ (The stars at the base of the coin symbolize the seven continents of the Earth) Tolerance... ...to love and respect all mankind ~ (Portrayed in the harmony, strength and beauty of the red and white striped banner) The History of the Challenge Coin: During World War I, American volunteers from all parts of the country filled the newly formed flying squadrons. Some were wealthy scions attending colleges such as Yale and Harvard who quit in mid-term to join the war. In one squadron, a wealthy lieutenant ordered medallions struck in bronze carrying the squadron emblem for every member of his squadron. He himself carried his medallion in a small leather sack about his neck. Shortly after acquiring the medallions, the pilot's aircraft was severely damaged by ground fire. He was forced to land behind enemy lines and was immediately captured by a German patrol. In order to discourage his escape, the Germans took all of his personal identification except for the small leather pouch around his neck. In the meantime, he was taken to a French town near the front. Taking advantage of a bombardment that night, he donned civilian clothes and escaped. However, he was without personal identification. He Succeeded in avoiding German patrols and reached the front lines. With great difficulty, he crossed no-mans-land. Eventually, he stumbled into a French outpost. Unfortunately, the French in the sector of the front had been plagued by saboteurs. They sometimes masqueraded as civilians and wore civilian clothes. Not recognizing the young pilot's American accent, the French thought him to be a German saboteur, and made ready to execute him. Just in time, he remembered his leather pouch containing the medallion. He showed the medallion to his would be executioners. His French captors recognized the squadron insignia on the medallion and delayed long enough for him to confirm his identity. Instead of shooting him, they gave him a bottle of wine. Back at his squadron, it became a tradition to insure that all members carried their medallion or coin at all times. This was accomplished through a challenge in the following manner: a challenger would ask to see the coin. If the challenged member could not produce his coin, he was required to purchase a drink for the member who had challenged him. If the challenged member produced his coin, then the challenging member was required to pay for the drink. This tradition continued throughout the war and for many years after while surviving members of the squadron were still alive. 25 Distinguishing Made Easy... Deli Food Kits Thanks For Raisin' The Tough Standard No One Holds A Candle To You You Are A Lifesaver Your Vision Is Our Guiding Light You Take The Cake! Thanks For Working Your Buns Off A Noteworthy Accomplishment You Are Berry Special Hugs and Kisses I'll Stick With You You're Worth a Mint Thanks for all the Great Ideas That You Have Planted to Grow and Bloom Thanks For Holding Things Together Thanks For Stretching Your Limits, Your Patience And Your Endurance You Can Soar to Whatever Heights You Choose Thanks for Not Letting Things Fall Apart You Licked the Challenge, Just Like I Knew You Would You Keep Us on an Upwards Roll to Success You Measure Up to a Fantastic Leader Here’s The Scoop, You’re Doing a Wonderful Job We Are So Fortunate To Have You as a Volunteer No One Matches Your Volunteer Contribution You’re #1 In Our Book You’re Worth a 100 Grand to Our Organization Your Creative Juices have Really Made a Big Difference Thanks for Energizing our Organization 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. -mini box of raisins - scented votive candle, birthday candles - package of lifesavers with a note - mini-flashlight - cupcakes - hot cinnamon buns - package of post-it notes - fresh berries or jam - Hershey's candies - stick of gum - package of peppermints -seeds - paper clip -rubber band -kite string -safety pin -lollipop -tootsie roll -ruler or measuring tape -ice cream scoop -fortune cookie -book of matches -book -100 grand bar -box of juice -electric wire or a battery 7-UP: 7-UPlifting ideas for a wonderful holiday season. (include seven uplifting thoughts/ideas) 7-UP:7-UPlifting thoughts for a good week. (include seven uplifting thoughts/ideas) A bar of soap with a note: Just a little visit with you washes away the blues. A bundle of anything (towels, scrapbook supplies, cookies): Just a bundle of thanks A dishcloth or gloves: Thanks for the handy work Job well done A juice pitcher filled with candy canes- We pitcher you raising a little cane during the holidays! Have a merry Christmas!! A package of seeds: My love for you just keeps growing! A picture of a clown with a wrapped fireball candy glued to the nose: No clowning around, we love being your _____________. A plate of cookies: Wishing you ____________ from your "Crummy" neighbors. 1 10. A rope with a knot in it: When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on we'll come runnin'! 11. A small bunch of bananas: We just went bananas when we heard you were sick!. 12. A spool of thread with a note attached: Friendship is the thread used to weave the material of life. 13. A sucker: A visit with you makes our life sweeter. 14. An Apple: You're such a polished person 15. Any Angel: Hoping you have a Heavenly Christmas! 16. Any gift: Bundled up with warm wishes! 17. Any gift: Just a Little Christmas Cheer from Happy Hearts this time of year!! Merry Christmas! 18. Any homemade food: Seasoned with Love 19. Any homemade treat: Wishing you a scrumptious Christmas! 20. Any kind of rolls: Here's a sweet treat Rolled up with warm Holiday Wishes! Merry Christmas! 21. Any soda: We're soda-lighted for have you for a friend. 22. Any soda: We're soda-lighted to wish you _______________. 23. Any soda: We're soda-lighted"to get to know you better. 24. Any sweet treat mix: Wishing you a rich _______! 25. Any sweet treat: A sweet treat for a sweet friend! 26. Any sweet treat: Hoping you have a Rich and wonderful Holiday ! 27. Any sweet treat: Wishing you a ______ filled with sweetness! 28. Any sweet treat: Wishing you a day full of sweetness 29. Any Sweet Treat: Wishing you a season filled with sweetness! 30. Any sweet treat: You're so Sweet...having you as neighbors is really a treat! Have a Heavenly Holiday Season! 31. Anything Angel: Hoping you have a Heavenly __________ 32. Anything Angel: Thanks for being such an Angel! 33. Anything Santa: HO-HO-Hoping your Christmas is heavenly! 34. Apple anything (Pie, cobbler, crisp, muffins): Sending you a Bushel of love! 35. Apple Anything: You are the apple of my eye, ________! 36. Apple Cider w/wassail mix: A little something to spice up a cold winter day! 37. Apple Cider w/wassail mix: A little something to spice up Your Christmas! 38. Apples and Hershey's Hugs: A teacher can't live by apples alone... She needs Hugs too!! 39. Bag/box of Whoppers: Hope you have a Whopper of a ____________. 40. Banana Bread: Banana Bread just for you, because we love you a whole Bunch, too! 41. Bananas: If we could choose our friends, and we searched the whole world through, we'd go "bananas" trying to find a better bunch than you! 42. Bananas: We miss you / love you / hope you get well a whole bunch! 43. Barq's Root Beer: Wishing you a wonderful ____________, it shows you're "Barq-ing" up the right tree. 44. Basket of Bath Items: When you feel like a basket case, take a break...and slow your pace. 45. Basket of rolls and bear shaped honey: Have a honey of a day! 46. Bath oils, bubbles, salts: Some days can be a strain on our body and brain, so when you feel stressed, a hot bath is best, it truly will help keep you sane! 47. Bear shaped honey or stuffed bear: Hoping our honey of a friend has a beary _______________ 48. Bear shaped honey or stuffed bear: You are Beary Special 49. Bear shaped honey: Have a Bear-y Sweet ________! 2 50. Bell : With each chime of this festive bell, may a Christmas wish come true, and bring you peace and happiness to last the whole year through! 51. Bell : With each chime of this festive bell, may a Christmas wish come true. And bring you peace and happiness to last the whole year through! Merry Christmas! 52. Box of light bulbs, candle, battery-operated candle: Have a bright and radiant Christmas! 53. Box of light bulbs, candle, battery-operated candle: Hope your Christmas is full of the light of Christ 54. Box of light bulbs, candle, battery-operated candle: May the light of Christ be with you always. 55. Box of light bulbs, candle, battery-operated candle: May your days be happy, your heart be light, your Christmas merry and the New Year Bright!! 56. Box of light bulbs, candle, battery-operated candle: Thanks for letting your light shine! 57. Broom or Feather Duster: You're dust the finest __________ we know! 58. Broom: You're "dust" the finest neighbors we know! Merry Christmas! 59. Bubble gum or bubble bath: May your holidays bubble over with fun! 60. Bubble gum or bubble bath: You have a bubbling personality. 61. Cake or Cupcakes: You take the Cake ________, We think you're first rate! 62. Cake with frosting: When it comes to _______, you're the icing on the cake. 63. Calendar: Keep Christ in your heart the whole year through! 64. Calendar: Keep Christmas in your heart the whole year through! 65. Candle: May your days be happy, your heart be light, your Christmas merry and the New Year bright! 66. Candy Canes: Hope you enjoy raising a little "cane" during the Holidays! 67. Caramel corn or popped popcorn: Just popped by to wish you well! 68. Caramels: Hoping you have a rich and wonderful day! 69. Carrot Cake: I really "carrota" lot about you! 70. Cheese ball and crackers: Spreading a little cheer 71. Cheese ball and crackers: We don't mean to sound "cheesy", but we hope you have a "ball" this Holiday Season! 72. Chex Party Mix: Remember Santa Chex his list twice to see who's been naughty or nice..so be good for goodness sake!! Merry Christmas!! 73. Chex Party Mix: Santa "Chex" his list twice to see who's been naughty or nice... so be good for goodness sake! 74. Chocolate Mousse Mix: Merry "Christmousse"! 75. Chocolate Orange : Orange you glad it's Christmas? Hope your Christmas is a Sweet one! 76. Christmas music or church music: May the sweet songs of Christmas make your heart rejoice! 77. Christmas music or church music: May this music bring the spirit of Christ into your home. 78. Christmas music: May the sweet song of Christmas make your heart rejoice! 79. Christmas music:May the merry sounds of Christmas bring a joyful melody to your holiday season 80. Christmas stocking or filled jar: Have a fun filled Christmas this year 81. Christmas stocking or filled jar: May your days be filled with joy 82. Cinnamon Rolls: Here's a sweet treat Rolled up with warm wishes! 83. Cinnamon Sugar for toast: May your Christmas be sprinkled with sweetness, laughter, and love! 84. Cleaners or sparkling cider: You add sparkle and make our life brighter! 85. Cleansers or sparkling white toothpaste: You add sparkle and make our lives brighter! 86. Cocoa Mix: Just something to keep you warm on thse cold winter days 3 87. 88. 89. 90. 91. 92. 93. 94. 95. 96. 97. 98. 99. 100. 101. 102. 103. 104. 105. 106. 107. 108. 109. 110. 111. 112. 113. 114. 115. 116. 117. 118. 119. 120. 121. 122. 123. 124. 125. 126. 127. 128. Cocoa Mix: Wishing you a warm and wonderful Christmas! Cookie Dough: Everyone Needs a little extra Dough for Christmas! Cookie dough: Here's a little extra dough for Christmas! Cookie dough: Your a smart Cookie! Cookies with sprinkles: May your Christmas be sprinkled with joy and laughter this holiday season! Cornbread or corn muffin mix: We're not trying to be "Corny", we just want you have a ___________! Crayons and coloring book: May your days be colorful and filled with joy! Divinity: May your Christmas be Divine and your holidays so fine! Divinity: May your Christmas be Divine and your Holidays so Fine! Sweet Christmas Wishes! Donuts: "Donut" you know we love you? Eggbeater: Have an "eggstra" special ____________ Eggbeater: Have an Eggstra Special Holiday ! Eggnog: Have an Udderly Moovalous Holiday! Filled Basket: Wishing you a basket full of blessings Filled Basket: Wishing you a basket full of Christmas blessings Flower: If friends were flowers, we'd pick you! Flower:You make friendship bloom all year round! Frozen or ready-to-eat pizza: Warm up to a wonderful holiday season topped with Christmas cheer. Frozen or ready-to-eat pizza:Your the Topps! Or You have Pizza-z! Fruit Basket: May your _________ be festive and fruitful! Fudge: Fudge a little on the calories and enjoy a day off from your diet! Gallon of milk: Have an "udderly moovalous" day! Gift certificates from a fast food place: Lunch is on me! Gift certificates from a fast food place: Man can not live by bread alone. Gift Certificates of your time: Make gift certificates that say things like: Good for one scrapbooking session-with my supplies! Good for ___ hours of babysitting! Ginger bread House: Nibble, Nibble like a mouse, We hope you'll nibble at this house! Grater and cheese: To a grate neighbor Grands Cinnamon Rolls (Pillsbury): Have a grand holiday! Grands Cinnamon Rolls (Pillsbury): We think you're grand! Grands Cinnamon Rolls (Pillsbury): Happy Grandparents' Day! Gum: By Gum, You're a great ___________! Gummy bears: You're Beary Important Heart Ornament: May the joy and love you give away, come back to you on Christmas Day Heart: Make a cute woven heart and insert the story Love's Best When You Give It Away Hersheys Hugs: A friend always knows when you need a little hug! Hershey's Hugs: Here's a hug for when you need it. Hershey's Kisses in a wire wisk: We "whisk" you a Merry "Kissmas". Hershey's Kisses in a wire whisk tied to a bottle of root beer: We whisk you a Merry Kissmas and a Happy Root Beer! Holly wreath: Happy Holly-days! Homemade Chocolates: You're so sweet... having you as _______ is a real treat! Homemade Frozen Rolls: Here's a little holiday treat. Rise and bake, it can't be beat! Warm fresh rolls just for you. Top with butter that's all you do! Warm Holiday Greetings to you, Homemade Ice cream of a Frozen Treat: Here's the Scoop: Hoping your Holidays are a Blizzard of fun! 4 129. Hostess Ho-Hos: Hope a merry HO HO HO fills your heart the whole year through! (Put a santa sticker on the label) 130. Ice Cream Snowballs and Hot Fudge: Here's some packaged snowball treats: Just Drizzle Hot Fudge and its ready to eat!...Enjoy!! 131. Ice Cream: Have a Cool Yule!! 132. Ice cream: Instead of "I scream", have some "ice cream!" Hope your week goes better. 133. Jar of jam: Hoping your Christmas is jam-packed with cheer. 134. Jar of Jelly: A copy of the story of 'Twas the Night Before Christmas" with the words "And it shook when he laughed like a bowl full of jelly" underlined! Merry Christmas! 135. Jar of Jelly: Jelly is like love: you can't spread it around without getting some on yourself! Merry Christmas! 136. Jar of Pickles: Just in brine, Our wish for a ___________! 137. Jolly Ranchers: Have a Holly Jolly Christmas 138. Jolly Ranchers: Have a Jolly day! 139. Juice pitcher filled with candy canes: We pitcher you raising a little cane during the holidays. 140. Lamb: Have "eweself" a Merry little Chistmas! 141. Lamb: We miss / love ewe! 142. Life savers: You've been a life saver! 143. Lifesavers: You've been a life saver! Have a great Christmas! 144. Loaf of bread: For being there when you were "kneaded", for "rising" to the occasion, large or small. For never "loafing" on the job for helping others "heel" with TLC. Not matter how you "slice" it, you do a terrific job loving others. 145. M&Ms: Have a Merry & Most wonderful Holiday Season! 146. M&Ms: Give a bag with the M&M Christmas poem. 147. M&Ms: Have a merry and most wonderful holiday season! 148. Matches: No one Matches you as _______! 149. Matches: To our matchless friends. 150. Measuring cup or spoons: Wishing you a joy beyond measure! 151. Measuring Cup or tape measure: Wishing you Joy Beyond Measure! 152. Microwave popcorn and sodas: Pop, pop, fizz, fizz, oh what a good friend you is! 153. Mints: Our friendship was mint to be! 154. Mints: Your kindness mint so much to me! 155. Mints: You're worth a mint! 156. Mints: We really mint to tell you we love you! 157. Mints: Friends like you are worth a mint! 158. Mints: That mint so much! Thank you. 159. Mints: We mint to wish you a Merry Christmas 160. Muffins or muffin mix: You're gettin' muffin for Christmas! 161. Mug filled with Hershey's Hugs mix: Sending you a hug in a mug. 162. Mug with hot chocolate mix: Just sending a chocolate hug in a mug. 163. Mugs with hot chocolate mix: To our special friends who are so Dear; We wish you all a cup of Cheer! 164. Mugs: To a Special Teacher dear, wishing you a Cup of Cheer! 165. Mugs: To our special friends who are so Dear, We wish you all a cup of Cheer! 166. Nail polish: Just to put a little color into your life 167. Now & Later: We thought we should get our Visiting Teaching done Now rather than Later. 168. Nuts, peanut butter, brownies with nuts, or nutty candy bar: It's the nutty time of the year again, so please don't lose your cool! Relax, and munch this little treat and have a Happy Yule! 5 169. Nuts: We're nuts about you! 170. Orange or chocolate orange: "Orange" you glad we're friends? 171. Ornament: Gift of Myself - Print out this gift-box shaped ornament, and place a picture of you, your child, or the Savior in it. 172. Oven mitt filled w/treats: We have to ad-mitt you're a great neighbor! 173. Paper towels: Blot out your troubles, absorb the Christmas spirit. 174. Paper Towels: Blot out your troubles; absorb the Christmas Spirit! 175. Pasta and spaghetti sauce: Have a pasta-tively easy dinner night. 176. Pasta: Have a pasta-tively happy holiday! 177. Pencil and notepad: Hope your Christmas is something to write home about! 178. Pencil and notepad: Just a note of Thanks! 179. Pencil and Notepad: Merry Christmas from our pad to yours! 180. Pencil and Notepad: Merry Christmas to a note-worthy friend! 181. Pie: Just a little hi and a slice of tasty pie! 182. Pie: Wishing you a scrumptious Holiday 183. Pie:No matter how you slice it you're a great dish. 184. Pitcher with Kool-aid: Thanks for being a "Kool-aid" when things were tough 185. Plant: The kindness you show makes our friendship grow and grow! 186. Plant: The kindness you show makes our friendship grow and grow! 187. Popcorn Balls: Hope you have a ball 188. Popcorn Balls: Hoping you have a Ball this Holiday Season! 189. Popcorn or Carmel Corn: May your Holidays be Poppin'! 190. Popcorn: Just "popped" by just to say Hi! 191. Popcorn: We just popped by to see how you are. 192. Potpourri: May this sweet scent bring back thoughts of warm Christmases long ago! 193. Puzzle: We were puzzled over what to get such great neighbors like you, so we hope this fits together to wish you a Merry Christmas! 194. Recipe: Just like you friend... it's tried and true, just for you! Happy Baking! or Happy Holiday Baking! or Merry Christmas Cooking! 195. Rice Krispie treats: Snap, Crackle, Pop! We think you're tops! 196. Root beer: We're "Root"-ing for you to have a great ___________ 197. Root beer: We're "rooting" for you. 198. Salsa and tortilla chips: Have a hot and spicy ____________! 199. Salsa: Add a little spice to your life 200. Scouring pad/sponge: I'd scour the earth for a friend like you! 201. Snickers bar: Don't snicker; just be glad you got something. 202. Socks: You're the pair I'd pick! 203. Socks: Fill with chocolate coins and the Legend of the Christmas stocking poem. 204. Soup mix: 'You're souper' 205. Soup or soup mix: Wishing you a Souper ________! 206. Sparklers: I love to see your sparkling smile it makes me want to smile 207. Sparkling Cider: Wishing you a sparkling holiday season! 208. Spices or Seasoning mix: Seasoned with love: Happy Holidays 209. Spices or Spiced Cider Drink Mixes: Hoping your Holidays are Spiced Just right! 210. Sprite: May your Christmas be Merry and Sprite! 211. Sprite: May your Christmas be Merry and Sprite! 212. Squeeze-it Juice drink & Hershey's Kiss: Here's a squeeze and a kiss, to remind you you're loved and missed. 213. Star ornament: Remember the reason for the season! 6 214. 215. 216. 217. 218. 219. 220. 221. 222. 223. 224. 225. 226. 227. 228. 229. 230. 231. 232. 233. 234. 235. Star ornament: Christmas Star Poem Stocking or filled jar: Have a fun filled christmas this year! Stocking: Fill with chocolate coins and the Legend of the Christmas stocking poem. Strainer: We couldn't restrain ourselves from wishing you a very Merry Christmas! Stuffed animal: "Pawsing" to wish you a Merry Christmas! Stuffed animal: Pawsing just to say _________ Sugar Cookies: Rolling out a batch of cheer, for someone we think is very dear! Sugar Cookies: Rolling out a batch of Christmas cheer, for someone we think is very dear! Swedish fish: Catch the Spirit Swedish fish: To a missionary: Congratulations on your call to become a "fisher of men"! Tape Measure or ruler: with By the yard it's hard, by the inch it's a cinch and together we can do it. Toffee or peanut brittle: Doesn't matter how you break it, you're the greatest! Tray of goodies: We tray-sure your friendship. Tray of treats: We "traysure" your friendship! Treat mix or bread mix: Whip up this mix for a quick holiday fix! Veggies and Dip: Dip into the holidays and a healthy New Year! Veggies and Dip: Dip into the visiting teaching message. Warm casserole or bread: Bundled up with warm wishes Whisk Broom: Take a break from a busy day, and sweep all your cares away! Wooden spoon w/favorite drink or baking mix: Not a creature was stirring... Wooden Spoon: Whether stirring up cakes, cookies, soups or souffles, you'll find this spoon useful in so many ways, but whatever it's used for it says, Merry Christmas from us to you! Yule Log: We send you warm greetings this Christmas Season!! http://www.jennysmith.net/ideas-for-small-gifts.php Volunteer Caring Kit Paper Clips: Paper clips have many uses, just like each volunteer has many talents. Paper clips are also used to hold the 4-H program together and provide guidance to youth. Rubber Bands: Rubber bands represent the flexibility that all volunteers need to have. You can adapt to any different situation. As volunteers, you can also stretch your own abilities to have new opportunities. Band Aids: Band aids help others and are sensitive to others feelings, just as volunteers have to be keyed-in to the feelings of those they work with. Coin: This coin represents a quarter to call and ask for help and to remind you that you are not alone. Paper Bill: This money calculates the contribution that volunteers make to the 4-H program through their donation of time. Balloon: This balloon expands and grows as you learn from others. Heart Sticker: This heart represents the ability to reach out to youth. You care about our youth and what they are doing. Mint: This mint represents the fact that each of you is worth a mint. You are very special and really make a difference. 7 Lifesavers: Lifesavers represent the special contribution to the 4-H program that each of you makes and emphasized that each of us are unique and different just like the rainbow color of lifesavers and that there is a place in 4-H for everyone. Hershey Kiss: This kiss represents a big thank-you from the many kids whose lives you have touched over the years. I compiled all of these items in ziploc bags and photocopied the "instructions of the caring kit" and each volunteer received a small token. Submitted by Tina Veal, Extension Assistant, Youth Development/4-H, University of Illinois McLean County Extension Unit Care Kit for all Occasions In the kit please find... A PAPER CLIP: To help keep things together when they seem to be slipping out of control. A RUBBER BAND: To remind you that there is always someone to offer a hug or to be close when you need it. A TISSUE: To wipe away a tear - yours or somebody else’s. A CANDY KISS: To say “I love you” in a sweet way. A SMALL SMOOTH STONE: To remind you that rough times help refine and polish us for smoother tomorrows. AN ERASER: To erase any mistakes or misunderstandings that are troubling you. A NOTE CARD: To send a long-overdue greeting to a friend or relative or to someone who is lonely. A RECIPE: To make when you want to do something special for someone. AN ADHESIVE BANDAGE: To remind you of healing, perhaps of hurt feelings - your own or someone else’s. A Survival Kit for Parents Because you're so important in the journey of your child's life, I give you apiece of the "puzzle".( spray paint a puzzle piece gold (You get a "safety pin" for little emergencies and "lifesavers" for those big ones. The "cotton balls" are for when you can't hear yourself think, the "rubber band" to remind you to be flexible. You get a "lollipop" to help you lick your problems, a "Dumdum" for when you feel that way. A "tootsie roll" will help you roll with the punches, a "penny" so you'll never be broke. You'll need a "starburst" for energy, a "fireball" for when you're burned out. A "crayon" will help to color your days, a "paper clip" to hold things together. A "piece of golden cord" will help tie things together when it seems everything is falling apart. The "rope" will remind you if you get to the end of yours, just tie a knot and hang on. Most of all you need "marbles" to replace the ones you've lost and a "jewel" because you're as valuable as any precious stone! 8 Band Teacher Sour balls - for the sour notes they play Toothpick - so you can “pick” out the best qualities in each musician Pack of gum - so they “stick” together on every song Band-Aid - for when they splice a note Mounds bar - for the mounds of confidence you give them Puzzle piece - without you the band wouldn't be complete Button - to remind you to sometimes "button your lip" Paper clip - to hold it all together Shiny penny - to remind you, each will shine in hi/her own special way Ear plugs - when you just can't take anymore starburst- to give you a "burst" of energy at the end of a performance Eraser - so you can start each new day with a "clean" slate Marbles - to replace the ones you've lost (extra - for the teachers near your room) Mint - to remind you that you are worth a "mint" to your students Tissues - to wipe tears of joy when they finally hit all the notes (When they all mix well, harmonize?) Blues Candle- light up the darkest hour Confetti add sparkle to your life Cotton ball cushion the bumpy road ahead Cotton ball seek the support of family and friends Eraser we all make mistakes but we can wipe the slate clean and start again Hug & Kiss Candy remind you that people care about you Lifesaver remind you that you need others and others need you Marble keep you rolling along Paper clip hold everything together when your life feels like it's falling apart Penny Save this and you will never be broke Polished Rock all things in life 'polish' off our rough edges so we can shine Rainbow (prism) after a storm, the sun appears and rainbows happen Ribbon tie a knot and hang on to Rubber band keep you bouncing back and flexible Tissue to dry yours or someone else's tears Toothpick pick out the good in yourself. or someone else Christmas Tylenol - to take away the headache of overdoing Tea - To calm, relax, and soothe away the tension Peppermints - to settle the tummy from over-indulging Slim fast - to kick off the diet you will need to start Pocket date book - to track all of the must do's cassette tape or CD - soothing quiet music to listen to while wrapping gifts tape – You can never have enough Package of gift tags- hand made for that special touch Cookie Recipe- quick easy yummy to keep everyone happy Bath oil or bubble bath to soothe the weary body 9 Dad Candy Gram Dear (Sugar) Daddy, You are the best dad in the whole Milky Way, even though you are from Mars and I'm from Venus. You Skor high points as a dad....don't Snicker(s). When you were born there was a Symphony in heaven! Your Hot Tamale(s), Mom, still thinks you are a Big Hunk. I wish I could take you on a shopping Spree on 5th Avenue in New York (Peppermint Patty), but they don't have Builders Square there because they're Nerds. Love you Mounds, Your Nut (Roll) Band-Aid heal hurt feelings Candle share your light Cottontail cushioned support of/from friends on a rough road Gold thread friendship is a golden thread that unites the all hearts Hug & Kiss Candy we all need them sometimes Lifesaver many times you need help or helped Marble help you keep rolling Paper clip hold it all together Rubber band stay flexible Girl Scout Leaders Mounds- for the mounds of information you learn. Crayon to color your day bright and cheerful Nuts to be a little nutty sometimes, and have a good laugh Puzzle piece without you, things wouldn't be complete Band aid for healing hurt feelings, Yours or someone else's marbles to replace those we loose from time to time. Rope to remind you that when you reach the end of yours, just tie a knot and hang on! Cup for when yours is overflowing Rubber band: a reminder to stay flexible Aspirin when all else fails, take 2 and find a quiet corner String to tie things together when everything falls apart Eraser to remind you that everyone makes mistakes, and that's okay. Sweet and sour candy to help you accept and appreciate the differences in others Hugs and Kisses to remind you that someone cares for you penny so you'll never be broke Paper clip to help you hold it all together Candle to remind you to share your light with others 10 Golfer Aspirin for the headache the game causes Bandaid for blisters Chaps tick keeps your lips moist Cleat Cleaner to keep from tracking dirt/grass into car, truck Egg (wood or plastic) ...something about birdies Eraser each golf game starts off with a clean slate Lifesaver when ball is in sand trap, or water Pencil to write the correct scores (or maybe cheat a little) Quarter may be the only 'eagle' you get Rubber band stay flexible when you swing Sunscreen to keep you safe from the sun Sweet & Sour Candy to prevent any harsh words slipping out Tee ...in case you need one Towel wipe off the sweat from swinging Gummie Pills Blue barely hold back tears Blue hope Green make sadness fade away Green barely control your envy Orange make wishes come true Orange never bear a grudge Red energy to get through the day Red to bear a HOT day Red hot under the collar White/clear love White/clear help you see clearly Yellow brighten your day Yellow barely any sunshine Hair Stylist Tissues-for customers when they see their haircut: Band-Aid-or tape (masking/clear) to try and put their hair back on after they change their mind: Button-same: Puzzle-same Crayon- to fix the bad color job they did at home. Lifesaver-for the times they needed your help in an emergency: Rubber band: sameMounds-for the mounds of hair you sweep, hug & kisses- same : Marbles-for the ones you've lost (extra for your customer) Doorstop-to block you door on Prom day: Dollar-tip you didn't get: Cotton-to block out the gossip: 11 Hand cream-for wrinkled hands from all the shampooing Leaving Home Hug & Kiss Candy remind you that we love you Milky way remember the way home Paper Moon remind you not to take everything at face value PayDay call me on pay day when you have the $$ Pen, stamp, envy to write home Ribbon tie a knot and hang on to Starburst you'll always be a star Sugar Baby you'll always be my sugar baby Toothpick pick your friends carefully Motherhood Band-Aid fix hurt feelings Button button lips and count to 10 when angry Cotton swab clean out little ears - for better listening Flower remind you that the dandelion your child offers you is to any bouquet Glitter glimpse of how the world looks through the eyes of a child Hug&Kiss Candy make everything all right Lifesaver one of those days Marble when you've lost yours Rubber band when you are stretched beyond your limits Star as mother, you are a star Sweet/Sour Tarts help you find the sweet in the bitter times Tissue drying alligator tears Toothpick to pick out the good in difficult situations New Mother Lots of Hugs and Kisses: You both deserve them. A Penny: For your thoughts Pen and Journal: To write down those thoughts Tissues: To wipe those tears (Yours and baby’s) A Diaper: In case of emergency run out. A Clock: To remind you that time will pass by quickly, so enjoy the tender years! A Lullaby Tape: To calm you both down when needed. A Mirror: To remind you that you are important, too! A Rubber band: Flexibility will be priority Marbles: To replace the one's you are going to lose. Lifesavers: For when you do lose your marbles. My Phone#: Babysitting available, just a phone call away. A Jewel: Now that you are a mother, you are even more valuable. I put all this into a diaper bag, and attached the printed out "New Mommy Kit" and attached to handles with lots of ribbon Old Age Jelly Bean Pills Black JB Senility Green JB constipation Orange JB Deafness Pink JB Wrinkles Purple JB Arthritis Red JB sex White JB Baldness 12 Yellow JB gas Chaplains Wife A golden thread - to remind you that friendship is the golden thread that ties together the hearts of everyone. Hugs & Kisses - when you need a hug Toothpick - to help pick out the good qualities in others and yourself Lifesaver candy- for the times others need your help and you theirs Marbles- to replace the ones you've lost Mounds bar- for the "mounds" of love and support in your congregation tissues - to wipe the tears of joy and sadness doorstop- so your door is always open Candle- to help light your path to God Cotton ball- for cushioned support of your husband for the rough roads ahead Button- to remind you to sometimes "button your lip". Band aid-to heal the pain and suffering within your church Pack of gum- so that your church can "stick together". Crayon-to color your day bright and cheerful Sponge-for when your love overflows Penny-so you'll never be broke Rubber band-to remind you to be flexible Puzzle piece-without you, things wouldn't be complete and a jewel-because you are as valuable as any precious stone! Redneck Jeff Foxworthy tape You must be a redneck if.... Match redneck flashlight Red beans Redneck bubble bath: cook and eat 1 hour before bath time red beans Redneck bubble bath: for Jacuzzi, cook and eat 2 Redneck Flashlight craft stick, box of matches (extra bulbs) and clothespin glued together. Wood shavings jigsaw puzzle Reminders of why I Love You Jolly Rancher for all the times you make me laugh Sweet Escapes for those times we spend alone Candle remember you are the light of my life Peppermint Patty for the cool sensations you give me Stick of gum for all the times you've stuck by me Matches we are a perfect match Charmin Tissue you are too irresistible NOT to squeeze Mounds for the mounds of love I feel for you.... 13 Sick Friend Kit Deck of cards and a book of solitaire games a small craft kit of choice Basket of books - Poetry to soothe Mystery to keep hanging on the side of the bed Tapes -music to relax books on tape game to keep fingers busy "Get well" Bear - stuffed toy to have many conversations with Magazines- Reader's Digest is good. Stamper Glitter ... all your creations Match warm your inspiration Milky way find your way through any computer problem Mint pepped up for PA and card making Paper clip hold all of your creative ideas together Payday for that day when someone pays you for your 'hobby' Peanuts for those days when nothing seems to work Penny so you'll never be broke even after buying all the necessities of card making String remember swap deadlines Students Band-Aid heal your wounds Candle- when you are up late studying (2 wicks/ both ends) Cottontail- when you can't hear yourself think Eraser start each day with a clean slate Lollipop- lick your problems Mounds Bar- mounds of info you'll learn Pack of Gum- friends stick together Paper clip- hold everything together Pencil 'write' your wrongs Sponge- soak up knowledge String- tie up loose ends Tissue wipe the sleep out of your eyes Tootsie Roll- roll with the punches Teacher Band-Aid- heal hurt feelings Band-Aid when things get a little rough Bath Salts- to 'take you away' when you need quiet break Candy Kiss everyone needs a treat sometimes Crayon color your day Cup/Mug when yours is overflowing Eraser everyone makes mistakes Gold thread friendship is a golden thread that unites the all hearts Hug & Kiss Candy make everything worthwhile Lifesaver when you have 'one of those days' Lifesavers You may be the one to save the bright light in a child 14 Marbles replace the ones you lose Mint you are worth a mint Mounds Bar mounds of stuff you teach Peanuts go a little nutty Puzzle Piece without you things wouldn't be complete Rubber band be flexible Sponge- soak up the overflow of knowledge Tissue- dry a tear Toothpick pick out the good in everyone Teacher's Aide Mounds bar - for the mounds of help you are to the teacher Button- to remind you to sometimes "button your lip” Rubber band - so you always stay flexible Tootsie Roll - so you can roll with the punches Tissues - to wipe the tears from joy and happiness Marbles - to replace the ones you've lost (extra included, you'll need once you become a teacher Mint - to remind you, that you are worth a "mint" to the class Candle - for when you stay up late working on assignments Penny - so you'll never be broke Toothpick - so you can "pick" out the qualities that make a great teacher paper clip - to hold your busy life together Cotton - for when you can't hear yourself think Hugs & Kisses - when you need a hug Pencil - to:"write your wrongs" Lollipop - to lick your problems Pack of gum - so you all can "stick" together Band-Aid - to heal hurt feelings, yours or theirs A jewel - because you are as valuable as any precious stone! Traveler Band-Aid in case you need some TLC handprint/string cutout hand, tie string around finger, "Don't forget, I am thinking of you." Heart remind you that I care Milky Way remember the way home Note Paper Stamped envelopes to write home Paper clip can never find one when you need one Phone card to call home Photo (of giver) remind you that I am thinking of you Quarter so you can ride a pony at a grocery store Quarter to call home Rubber band can never find one when you need one Safety pin can never find one when you need one tack can never find one when you need one single use camera - to capture a moment in time forever; a toothpick - To help you "pick" out the best to see & do; 15 Starburst - for energy when you feel you can't take another step Trucker Button- button your lip and stay out of trouble Cotton Ball don't hear the highway noise when you sleep Hug & Kiss Candy when you need one Jeff Foxworthy cassette for listening on the road, for a laugh Marbles in case you lose yours Match (redneck Flashlight) so you are never in the dark Mounds Bar mounds of miles you drive Paper clip hold it all together Penny you'll never be broke Phone card so you are never out of touch Soap Clean off the road dust Sponge- soak up all the rain so you don't have to drive in it Starburst burst of energy for those last miles one Tootsie Roll- roll down the highway Tums for all the truck stop food you'll eat Puzzle piece-without you, things wouldn't be complete and a Jewel-because you are as valuable as any precious stone! Valentine Jolly Rancher - all the times you've made me laugh Sweet Escapes - the special times we spend alone Hugs & Kisses - yours are simply the best! 100,000 Dollar Bar- worth more than a grand to me. Peppermint Patty- for the cool "SENSATIONS" you give me Skittles- for the rainbow of excitement we share A balloon- that you remind me to always reach for the sky Cotton ball- to help soften the rough times. Charmin Tissue- you are to irresistible NOT to squeeze Popcorn- cause you keep popping in to my thoughts Small glasses {like used on dolls}= to always help me to SEE clearly Needle and thread- that binds us together a Match- we are a perfect "match" pom-pom ball- for the warm fuzzies you create. a rose {real or silk}= hand picked for perfection as I picked you-if silk so it will last forever like us- a box of RED HOTS... for my body gets hot when I'm with you! LIGHTER- in it for you light up my life Baby Shower Guest Kit A sucker..’cuz everyone’s a sucker for a baby! Jelly Bean…cuz the belly that holds Baby Bean A Mint…cuz the parents were “mint” to be! A Candle…to light when the stork makes its flight… Submitted by Donna Innis 16 Spirit Kit In a Zip-Lock Bag add a cotton ball, 5 pennies, a rubber band, a band-aid, 2 tissues, a safety pin, a balloon, and a Hershey's Hug and a Hershey's Kiss, along with this note: There may be times when we might find ourselves feeling a little "dis-spirited". This SPIRIT KIT is designed to help us all keep a focus on the small-but-so-very-important things. In your SPRIT KIT you will find: A soft fuzzy cotton ball to rub when you need to remember the gentleness of the human heart. A rubber band to remind you that you are flexible and can stretch to fit just about any demand or challenge. A band-aid to remind you that, even though there may be times when you feel hurt for what you are trying to do, you will heal and be even stronger. Two tissues, one for you and one for a colleague when you have faced a tough time together and need some mutual support. A safety pin to remind you that you are bright and sharp and utterly indispensable. Five pennies to remind you of the song by Danny Kaye called "Five Little Pennies". If you know the song, you will remember that one penny was to dream on, one was to wish on, one was for dancing, one was to love on. The song ends with these words, "There's just five little pennies, but with these five pennies you'll be a millionaire". How very true! A balloon to celebrate your accomplishments! And last but not least, Hershey's Hugs and Kisses - for when you need them! Submitted by Elliott Pitts, Make-A-Wish Foundation of Maine Care Package Themes and Ideas From www.mwrhawaii.com Below are some ideas for care packages. A shoe box size is recommendable to allow for timely delivery. Use the accurate APO address and do not write the name of the country (i.e. Iraq or Afghanistan) as that can delay delivery. "Surviving the Sandstorms" Eye wash, nasal spray, Chapstick, Bandana, etc. "Laundry Load" Laundry soap (sample size or Tide tablets) to pack in with their clothes...in case there are no washers or dryers; fabric softener sheets, clean socks and undershirts "Lotta Java" Tea, cocoa, coffee singles, creamer, sugar, International coffee tins, cookies, for dunking in coffee "Thanks a Million!!" 17 Things that may "seem" expensive such as Grey Poupon, small amount of cash, wrap items in green tissue paper, or an electronic game of who wants to be a Millionaire?" "Hang In There!" Stuffed animal monkey, banana bread, banana chips, banana pudding, Monkey's in a Barrel game, card with a monkey on it. "A Day at the Beach!" Sunscreen, beach towel, beach snacks, flip flop sandals (shower shoes), Aloe Vera gel "Medicine Cabinet" Aspirin, band-aids, Neosporin cream, A&D ointment, cold medicine, Alka Seltzer, Rolaids, etc. "Staying Healthy" Nutrition/health bars (ex: Powerbar, Tigers Milk, Myoplex), vitamins, Nutri-grain bars, Gatorade or other sports drink (to stay hydrated)) "To Be A Kid Again" Silly string, bubbles, small bouncy balls, hacky sacks, brain teaser toys (Rubix Cube, etc.), deck of cards, dominoes, etc. "MRE/Mess Hall Survival Kit" Restaurant size condiment packs of BBQ sauce, mustard, ketchup, mayo, relish, salt, pepper, taco sauce, ranch, cheese in a can, dip, etc. "Correspondence Carton" Notebook paper, stationary, pens, pencils, stickers (who knows they may even play with these!), envelopes, address book (filled out already, of course), camera with a note to send back once it is full "Action Heroes" Powerbars, squirt guns, Red Bull drinks, small Army figurines, comic books, etc. "Bathroom in a Box" TOILET PAPER!!! (the soft stuff), razor refills, foot powder, bars of soap, washcloths, travel size shampoo/conditioner, toothpaste, toothbrush, etc. "Tube O Tasties" Just as something different...send a package in a tube instead of a square box. Make sure the parameters are acceptable. "Stress Reliever" Back scratcher, bubble wrap, yo-yo's, bubbles, squeezy tension ball 18 "Sloppy Kisses" Since we know chocolate melts over there...send a bunch of Hershey's kisses. Bound to be "sloppy kisses!" "I'm Nuts About You" Peanuts, cashes, pistachios, peanut butter cookies, any candy or cookies with nuts in them "Rocks On" Pop Rocks, music CDs. "And this little piggy went to the sandbox" - (foot care kit) Foot powder, Dr. Scholl's boot inserts, foot lotion, foot file, fresh socks, toe nail clippers. "Chili Today, Hot Tamale" Hot Tamales (candy), small cans of chili, red pepper flakes, salsa sunflower seeds, Cajun flavor Pringles, Spicy Chex mix, Boston Red Hots, peppered beef jerky, Taco Bell hot sauce packets, Extreme Doritos, chili powder, Nacho cheese sauce in a can. "How do you eat your OREOS??!!" Regular Oreos, peanut butter Oreos, double stuff Oreos, low fat Oreos, chocolate filled Oreos, chocolate covered Oreos. 19 Special Entrees for all Seasons Awards from Other Organizations Some communities give out service awards to volunteers. I recently became aware that in Pierce County, WA, the United Way gives out "Green Feather Awards" to individuals who volunteer over 100 hours a year. Several of our regular volunteers received a certificate (complete with the number of hours they volunteered) and a nice lapel pin. I thought this was a great idea for regular volunteers! Try the United Way, the local parks administration, the city offices, established service clubs (Rotary, Lions, and Kiwanis), etc. to find out if such an award is available in your community. It's really suitable for volunteer interns (who often rack up hundreds of hours over several months) and for college students, who can list the community award on their resumes! Submitted by Shaundar Bradbury, Methamphetamine Family Services,y Alliance WA Snowflakes This works well for organizations where large numbers of volunteers come to a single location. Using 4 inch white paper doilies, we put the name of every volunteer on their own "Snowflake" and hung them from the ceiling of the volunteer lounge. We added a poster that said "Just as every snowflake can add up to a blizzard, so every volunteer's contribution adds up to a storm of activity here. Thank you for your dedication". This created a lot of fun as each volunteer looked for their snowflake and also impressed staff and visitors with the extent of volunteer involvement here. This could be adapted for other seasons. Submitted on 2April2004 by Shelley Malyk, Volunteer Services Coordinator, St. Amant Centre, Manitoba We Mint to say Thanks! I bought a package of Lifesaver Mints and put them in a bowl on the table where most of the volunteers eat lunch. On the bowl I put the sign: "We Mint to Say Thanks!" It was well received and was an easy way to show appreciation for our volunteers. Submitted on by Rosie Van Cleave, Volunteer Coordinator, La Plata County Humane Society CO USA 1 Volunteer Tree We created a Volunteer Tree. Every year we hold a Festival of Trees, which takes an incredible amount of volunteers to put on. So before we kick off the Festival, we hold a Volunteer Appreciation night. To recognize our volunteers, we took a picture of each one of them with a digital camera. We then printed them out with a color printed and cut them out into different shapes for the Christmas tree. We put a little glitter around the edges and then hung the pictures on a 9' Christmas tree for all visitors to see at the Festival to see. We called it our Volunteer Tree. It was a big hit with the volunteers and you would catch them looking for their pictures and sometimes even moving them to a more prominent spot on the tree. Submitted by Janice Sander, Executive Director, Battlefords Union Hospital Foundation, North Battleford, Saskatchewan, Canada Volunteer Hall of Fame Honorees include founders of local nonprofit organizations in 12 distinct categories of voluntary activity. The L.I. Volunteer Hall of Fame was created by a coalition of local agencies and grew out of local efforts to celebrate IYV2001. Submitted on 14Oct2003 by Frank Pomata. Contact: Diana O'Neill at Long Island Volunteer Center, NY 516-564-5482 Volunteer of the Month We have a "Volunteer of the Month" as a way to recognize our volunteers all year versus at the end of the year. We ask the school families to send in nominations of volunteers that are going above and beyond or a person that is a behind the scenes person for that month. They get recognized in the area that they volunteer in be it a classroom etc. They are honored in front of the people that they volunteer for. We take their picture and it goes into a frame on the wall and then they are recognized in the school weekly newsletter. We find we can recognize more people this way and in a more timely matter. Next year we are thinking of having grade level recognitions as well to include more volunteers. Submitted by B Schick, PTA Pres., Hollywood Hill Elem., Washington USA Celebrating Volunteers Down Under The Royal Australian Mint has released a series of 2003 commemorative coins to celebrate the work of Australia's volunteers. They can be viewed at the Mint's web site at http://mintissue.ramint.gov.au/mintissue/product.asp?code=80 0180. As the Mint says: "Brimming with the spirit of mateship and goodwill, this wonderful memento is a fitting tribute to the many unsung Australians who do credit to us all." 2 Get Caught Smiling During the month of November, every time a staff member catches a volunteer smiling and enjoying what they are doing, they congratulate them, and give them a "Happy Face Sticker," for their nametag. As an added bonus, the volunteer is entered into a drawing for a dinner for four donated by a local restaurant. The volunteer with the winning ticket will be drawn at our annual Holiday Appreciation Dessert Buffet in early December. Submitted by Brian Probst, Manager of Volunteer Services, Peninsula Humane Society & SPCA, California, USA Asking Their Pastor to Present Award For a recent volunteer planning council (for a regional church's youth event), I sent the volunteer's Certificate of Appreciation to their senior pastor asking the pastor to publicly present the certificate during a worship service or board meeting. That way, the volunteer is recognized in their home community AND their church then knows about their involvement AND the event receives a "good-will" announcement to be remembered the next time volunteers are needed! Submitted by Kirsten D. Nelson, Director of Leadership Development, Central Conference of the Evangelical Covenant Church, Illinois Row of Honor Originally our "Service in Excellence" award which is given to an individual who contributed above and beyond regular service duties was recognized at our annual celebration with a special pin and notice in the local media. But an even greater recognition was offered by one of our local banks. They offered to plant a tree on the hospital grounds for each of the awardees. The first year eight trees were planted for the first recipients. Now, each year another tree is planted in the "Row of Honor" which is becoming a lovely garden next to the hospital. Each tree has a plaque with the volunteer's name and year of recognition. This business recognition of our volunteers now highlights our program to the community on an ongoing basis. Submitted by Wanda Llewellyn, Director of Volunteer Resources and Patient Relations, O'Bleness Memorial Hospital Kudos Korner Our Kudos Korner is one of the most prominent and inexpensive ways for which we recognize staff and volunteers. These forms are available at each event and are filled out by someone who notices another's outstanding achievement. Some include: "Making Festival a joy to volunteer for," "Consistently being available for any type of work," "Smiling on the phone on the busiest day of Auction." Kudos are displayed at the event and are listed in our quarterly volunteer newsletter. Submitted by Victoria Evangelista, Volunteer Coordinator, Rocky Mountain PBS 3 Outstanding Service Award This award was the idea of one of our volunteers who chooses not take sole credit. Each year around January, volunteers and staff are asked to submit nominations for this award, which is presented on or near Valentine's Day. The award, now in its fifth year, is given to a staff member and volunteer who give outstanding service to Rocky Mountain PBS, give unselfishly of time and energy and are always there to help; those who give "from the Heart." These are people who are not highly visible, such as Committee Chairs, etc. Flowers, heart-shaped cookies, red and white balloons and a card (embedded in a plaque-new this year) are presented. A photo and brief history of each person is read to the group and is front-page news in the March issue of Volunteer Vision (our quarterly volunteer newsletter) and is included in Promo (our member program guide). In 2001 the ceremony was videotaped to produce an on-air spot. Nominations are open to all Rocky Mountain PBS staff and volunteers. As Jane Owen put it last year, it is a very short, sweet and touching ceremony and it will be must do on James' calendar. It truly is a very wonderful honor for all involved! Submitted by Victoria Evangelista, Volunteer Coordinator, Rocky Mountain PBS Namesake Awards In our all-volunteer organization, one of our more special methods of recognition is to name awards after long-standing, stellar volunteer role models. Additionally, we have a 'batch' of volunteers that enter our organization together, during specific times in the year. These groups are usually 'named' after an extraordinary volunteer; a namesake, if you will. Part of this groups orientation then includes information about this individual, and if possible, the honoree also addresses the group. Submitted by Tanya K. Refshauge, Region IX Director, Alpha Phi Omega, National Service Fraternity (collegiate, co-educational, community service organization) Honoring Those Very Special Volunteers We tried to send a response to this e-mail but received an "address unknown." So it occurred to us, why not post it! I really appreciated your recognition ideas, and am hoping you can help me a little further. I work in the Minnesota Zoo's volunteer department and several of our volunteers are about to pass the 20 year milestone. We're looking for a great gift item for them for under $40. Do you have any ideas? What do other agencies do? Any ideas would be helpful. Here are some responses: Can you dedicate an exhibit that started when they did? Or make a "Walk of Fame" and put their names on bricks? How about choosing 20 long-lived animals and naming them for the volunteers? Plant a tree in an exhibit and create a "Grove of Volunteering". Dedicate part of your re-education area in their honor and put up a plaque with their names listed. It's SO EASY when you start looking inside the organization - after all, they've spent 20 years working for the zoo, what better way to reward them than to make them truly a "part of it" by dedicating something in their honor? (P.S. Also cheaper than finding a gift that's appropriate, cheap, and suits the organization's mission too!) It's always easier thinking up ideas for someone else's programs! S Out-of-the-Ordinary Gifts 4 Volunteer Christmas Tree This year we made a volunteer Christmas tree. We took a picture of each one of our 200 volunteers and scrap booked the pictures onto a 3" x 6" strip of stiff paper. We punched holes at the top for string and hung them on the tree. The tree was present for our Christmas recognition event and then transferred to the main lobby of our facility for the rest of the Christmas season. It drew a LOT of attention and was quite the conversation piece. It was a beautiful tree and quite awe-inspiring. We will make this an annual project, so kept the pictures on file to be used again. Taking the pictures was a huge project and that is why we will go through the photos every year to update as needed. Submitted on 20 January 2005 by Nita Dueck Calculators with Special Message We do an annual recognition event for our board and commission members. One year we provided calculators with the City's logo and the saying "We count on you" printed on it.Submitted on 4 January 2005 by Karla Stovall Unique "Thank You" Chocolate Bars I obtain flat chocolate bars and design individual candy bar covers with our logo and/or a design with a "thank you" for your contributions...etc. These can be given out as individual recognitions, or at group events. The designs can be easily changed so they are always unique. A variety of software packages can be used. I then just cut them to size on a paper cutter and tape them around the candy bars. Flat bars are easiest to use. When they are distributed, they generate smiles. Another idea: we ordered an embosser with our logo and a "thank you" message on it that can be embossed on seals or used on envelopes and paper directly. It's an investment that's worth it, and adds class to recognition efforts. Submitted on 2 December 2004 by Laurie Eytel, CVA, Volunteer Manager, Children, Youth and Family, Fairfax County Dept. of Family Services, Virginia, USA Totally Chocolate For a few years I've ordered recognition items from Totally Chocolate - a company in Washington state. Volunteers are very pleased to receive an item that is consumable (rather than an item to collect dust) and is of very high quality. The company has superb 100% Premium Belgian chocolate items....the "You're A Star" (dark chocolate star individually wrapped in bright blue Mylar with a big star on the front) is my favorite as it is just two bites. (Webmaster Note: This company is listed along with other volunteer recognition companies in our Compare and Buy area.) Submitted on 25 May 2004 by Kristine Poelzer, Manager, Volunteer/Community Partnership, Hennepin County Human Services Department, Minneapolis, Minnesota 5 Goblets I have VERY little budget to do an annual volunteer recognition event. (I like to do a classy event!) This year I did A Night on the Town! I like to give each volunteer a special gift to take home with them. For one whole year I collected crystal goblets. I went to yard sales, thrift stores, called all my friends and had them looking. Most people donated the goblets. I had 136 by the time I was finished. I bought charms at the dollar store… six for a dollar. I washed each goblet and put a charm on it. Some of the crystal I had collected was just beautiful. When I gave my talk at the party, I had a goblet on the podium. I explained that each guest that evening would go home with a special goblet. It wouldn't match anything else they had in the house. It was special. Each goblet was different than the others. Some were elegant and made beautiful music, some were more durable, but still beautiful. Each goblet brings its own uniqueness to the table. We had all sizes and colors of goblets. I told the volunteers, "when you sit and relax with your goblet filled with wine, tea, or special beverage, think of just how important you are to us. You too bring a special uniqueness and beauty to us. And when you look at the charm on your goblet, remember how we feel about the "charm" you have brought to our organization". I had all the goblets filled with champagne colored punch and there wasn't a single goblet left! They all looked so beautiful filled and they were a huge hit! I've had several comments since the event regarding their special gift...and it cost practically nothing but the time to wash and fill them! Submitted on 20 May 2004 by Diane L. Hennessy, Director of Volunteers, South Florida Science Museum, Florida – USA Digital Photo of Volunteer Whenever we have a function where we give out certificates and awards, we always take a digital photo of the volunteer with their award. Invariably, the volunteers then follow up asking for a copy of the photo, so what we now do is create a simple card using publisher. An A4 piece of paper is folded into 4, and on the front cover we print our logo and the words 'thank you'. We then print the digital photo of the volunteer inside the card and write a hand written personal note and send it off to each volunteer as a follow up to the more formal celebration. The feedback has been amazing - the volunteers get their photo, and we gain an extra chance to say thanks in a very personal way! Submitted on 17 May 2004 by Andy Fryar, Executive Officer, Lyell McEwin Regional Volunteers Inc. Adelaide, South Australia Seeds of Kindness Our theme to recognize our senior volunteers is "Volunteers Plant Seeds of Kindness" and we are giving each volunteer a packet of flower seeds at the recognition banquet....where they are to wear their favorite garden hat. Submitted on 15Apr03 by Patty Dreiman, Director, Knox County RSVP, Indiana, USA 6 Framed Quotes We had a very simple but meaningful volunteer recognition gift. Each volunteer received a quote relating to volunteerism that was framed so they can put it on their desk or hang on the wall. Many volunteers have expressed thanks for the gift because every time they look at it they can reflect on the service they have been providing. Submitted by Renee Richie, Volunteer Director, Simpson Housing Services Angels Several years ago at Mercy Hospital we decided to use Angels as our theme for Volunteer Recognition. We worked with our Gift Shop to order musical angel figurines and had a different large angel as the centerpiece for each table. We based our recognition on "Angels of Mercy". Each volunteer took home a small musical angel (cost about $5 each) and each table had a raffle for the centerpiece (cost about $25 each). We covered the tables with white linen and used silver or gold accents to compliment the centerpiece. This was the most popular banquet we had. Submitted by Diana Case, Regional Director, Volunteer Services, Mercy Health Partners Placemats Since 2001 was International Year of the Volunteer, we decided in 2000 to take random photos of our volunteers while doing their various volunteer works. We then downloaded 6 pictures on legal size paper to make "placemats". We were able to make 4 different placements, which we laminated and will use at each place setting. These and the other photos not used we made into a PowerPoint presentation which we will show at the ceremony. Submitted by Judy Gaby, Secretary, Logansport State Hospital A Penny Saved... We have a volunteer who has been with us for quite a while. Looking back over her hours, I noticed she had worked over 1000 hours. My coworker, Betty Baker, thought it would be a neat idea to collect pennies -- one to represent each hour she had worked. We presented them to our volunteer in a clear flower vase that we had around the office and tied a red ribbon around it (our organization color). It was a very inexpensive way to show how much we appreciate what she has done. It also helped present the number of hours she has dedicated in a tangible way. It's amazing how much longer 1000 hours seems when you look at it this way. If the volunteer doesn't want to keep the pennies, it might be a nice gesture to donate that amount of money to a charity of the volunteer's choosing in his or her name. Submitted by Jessica Brown, Tourism Sales Manager, Austin Convention & Visitors Bureau 7 Framed Photographs Our agency got a large donation of flat Lucite frames that we have had on hand for ages, without knowing what to use them for. I found large, inexpensive letters at a party store that we strung together saying "BBI Loves Volunteers," and our entire staff assembled, holding this banner, for a photograph. We had several copies made, which I labeled on the back with each staff member's name and title. We framed them in the donated frames and made them into magnets (you can purchase an inexpensive roll of stick-on magnetic material at craft stores, which can be cut into strips of any size). We gave them to our volunteers during national volunteer recognition week. People loved them and thought it was really great to have a picture of their friends on the staff. They really appreciated the gesture, and it was very inexpensive. Submitted by Cathy Theodore, Volunteer Program Supervisor, Brother to Brother International Discount Card This past year, we wrote a letter to all the merchants at a near-by shopping center, asking them to join with us and offer a one-time special discount on some part of their services or products. This included restaurants, a lingerie store, greeting card/gift shops, and a gas station. Some offered a discount on products - others, a free item when another item was purchased. We designed a "Volunteer Appreciation Card", which listed the merchants on the back, and specified the benefit. After the retailers approved the card, we distributed them at our annual volunteer recognition event. We hope that response from the merchants will be even stronger next year, as we intend to do this again. It is a "win-win" for our community and a good marketing tool for the shop owners. Our volunteers loved it, and appreciated the effort that went into its creation! Submitted by LouAnne Smith, Volunteer Coordinator, Doctors Hospital of Dallas Donation I have frequently done volunteer work at churches. I still remember the time I was called to the front of the service and presented a small inexpensive lapel pin ... coupled with an announcement that a donation was made on my behalf for mission work. I was delighted about the donation. When I look at the pin in my jewelry box, I think of that donation. It's about the only recognition pins that I have kept over the years. Submitted by Michele D. Newhouse, Owner, COVENANT Professional Services Student Art I am a Volunteer Coordinator with a long-term, tutoring/mentoring program that works with inner-city youth called A.C.E.S. The majority of our volunteer tutor/mentors are undergraduate students and even a few medical/graduate students. We adore the students in our agency, and we also love their art or "kid art.' As part of our volunteer recognition work plan, we make sure each volunteer receives a work of student art at least once a 8 year - sometimes twice. This ranges from really cool thank you cards (not just marker and paper) and we also discovered that kids love to make buttons. We had our students make buttons for tutors this year and actually had the button maker at an event. One can either rent a maker or just cut out the appropriate size circles on white paper and have a button maker do the rest of the work. The volunteers loved these. It was meaningful, creative, customer-generated and inexpensive. Submitted by Stacy Gustafson, Volunteer Coordinator, A.C.E.S. (Athletes Committed to Educating Students) Hand-made Cards One of the best ways to give a volunteer recognition is through hand-made cards. Cut a plain piece of colored paper with pinking shears or decorative scissors. With a colored stamp pad and stamps, send a message (i.e., "Keep smiling'" or "Keep up the good work") Volunteers love the personalized touch and it really means a great deal to them when they know you have spent some time on them! Submitted by Cindy Fairs, Consultant , Okanagan Volunteer Management Services Thanks Booklet We asked the patients (& staff) in our mental health facility to write a brief note of thanks to the individual & groups that come in to provide parties/entertainment, etc. for them; then we typed them all up to be put in a booklet with the center fold pages signatures of many patients expressing in their own handwriting, their own thanks. These were placed at the place settings of each volunteer at our recognition luncheon/reception. They all loved them. Entertainment during this was provided by the patient choir. Submitted by Judy Gaby, Secretary, Logansport State Hospital Recognizing our Volunteer Bookkeepers A few years ago while working for a community organization, it wasn't long before I realized we needed a great deal of help with book keeping. I recruited volunteers, with those skills, from the local accounting school. They did an excellent job. As a way of saying "Thanks" I bought a bunch of fat pencils for each person, tied them with raffia and placed a "thank you" note on them. They loved them and many still have them sitting on their desks today. Submitted by Marian Wilkins, Regional Coordinator Volunteer Resources, BC Cancer Agency Photo Scrapbook While managing a volunteer program for a social service agency, I worked with many corporate volunteer groups. Our agency had a set of standards that all of our children memorized. I created a thank you certificate with the standards written as an outside border. Thank you and the event name was in the center along with our logo. I left a big space in the middle. Throughout the event we'd capture Polaroid pictures of the 9 volunteers doing their job. Afterwards, I'd use my circle cutter to make a hole in the center where I taped the Polaroid of the volunteer. These thank you certificates were always gratefully accepted as a special token of the event. For one particularly large event where we had the help of a very dedicated corporate team I created a photo scrapbook of their time with us. I'm an avid scrap booker so I used fun papers, die cuts, and special lettering to tell the story of this group's involvement. It takes a little bit of time, but when you stack it up against the huge contribution of these volunteers, it's well worth it! Submitted by Marcia Hale, Manager, Volunteer Services, Chabot Observatory and Science Center For Volunteers in the Arts At Women & Their Work years ago, we ordered paper fans (the type that were used in air-conditioned churches and funeral homes in the South) and one of our artists silkscreened a design that said "Art Fan"... it was a huge hit. She is now famous, and everyone who got one has kept it! Mine hangs on the wall in my den... I could never afford another piece by this woman! I don't know where you can get the fans, but you could get door hangers from Papers Direct and have an artist design something that said "Do not disturb... visiting with the muses." or something like that. I think having an artist involved would be more meaningful than anything you could buy for these volunteers. If your program works with kids, why not have the kids design refrigerator magnets? Submitted by Ann Stafford, Austin (TX) Public Library Tote bags Designed by the Students Thank you gifts for our volunteer tutors last year were natural colored tote bags with logo and school name on one side. The other side was decorated by individual students saying "thank you" and drawings with permanent markers in red, green, blue, and black. Great advertising and conversation starter! Submitted by Trudy Bouligny, Coordinator of Volunteer Tutors, Project Makes Sense, Calistoga JUSD CA Teen Readers Recognition The Library world held its first Teen Read Week from October 19-25. In conjunction with this we decided to have a special recognition for our young adult volunteers. This was the idea of one of our branch managers, Lisa Costich. (Her branch utilizes the skills of many YA volunteers.) In September, two authors who write books that are read primarily by young adult women, Beatrice Sparks and Lurlene McDaniel were at an Indiana Library Federation conference. We purchased a number of their books. We asked them to autograph the books with, "To a Great ACPL Volunteer". They were delighted to do so. We gave these to our YA women volunteers along with a letter of recognition to 10 celebrate them and the week. For the YA men volunteers, we bought Pizza Hut gift certificates and sent a letter celebrating Teen Read Week and them by saying "devour a pizza and a good book". Our Friends of the Library group covered the cost. The staff working with our YA volunteers were very excited about this special recognition. It was a neat tie-in to Teen Read Week! We mailed the books and certificates to our YA volunteers during that week. In all, about 75 YA volunteers received this special recognition. We have heard very positive feedback. One YA women read "Go Ask Alice" in one sitting and loved it! Submitted by Georgean C. Johnson-Coffey, Volunteer Services Manager, Allen County Public Library, Thank You for Helping Us Grow! For our annual volunteer recognition gift, we had the children in our after-school tutoring program, in which a majority of our volunteers work, paint terra-cotta pots. On the rim we wrote in gold paint "Thank you for helping us grow!" Inside we put a packet of flower seeds and a certificate. At the recognition (held as a part of our annual meeting) we had the children present the pots to the volunteers. The children put such care into painting the pots. They were so colorful and expressive. The volunteers said it was the best recognition gift they had ever received. Submitted by Natalie Elwell, Volunteer Coordinator, El Barrio, Inc., Saying Goodbye to Volunteers with a Care Package Our volunteers are youth 15-29 years old. Many of our volunteers resign their positions to go onto school or full time work. In order to recognize these volunteers and to say "thank you" for their work during their time with us, we send them off with a care package. The items are "wrapped" in a reusable plastic container. The items within are tailored to the journey the volunteer will be pursuing. For example, one volunteer was leaving us to go to the West Coast. In her container, we included a small clay pot and forget-me-not seeds to plant in her new home, a wooden spoon to help her make nutritious meals, a scented candle to light her way in her new path, and the container itself to carry valuables in from one home to another. Writing small notes on each gift explained the meaning behind each one. All this for under $10; and her smile and appreciation was priceless. Submitted by Louise Elliott, Community Program Coordinator, YMCA-YWCA Career Contact Centre for Youth Thanks for "Raisin" All Those Funds I took a small box of raisins, attached a strip of magnetic tape to the back and attached a small note saying "Thanks for raisin all those funds" This was given out to our MS Super Cities Walk committee to put on their refrigerators or filing cabinets at work. Submitted by Patricia Salberg, Volunteer Resources Coordinator, Multiple Sclerosis Society of Canada, Ottawa/Carleton Chapter 11 Here are a few other versions of this idea: We gave our county board officials bags of mixed nuts. A note was attached stating, "We would go 'nuts' without your support!" This was a great, but simple, recognition for volunteers. We used "Yankee" votive candles for National Volunteer Week. We wrapped them in cellophane and tied them with a note stating,"You light up the lives of so many!" We also used notes stating, "You lighten our load by volunteering." Our 4-H Leaders loved the candles! Submitted by Debra Hoyer-Denson, 4-H Extension Assistant, University of Illinois, Unique Bookmarks Use children's drawings to make a bookmark. Laminate it and include a message on the back. It's a wonderful token and also inexpensive! Submitted by Cathy Dennen, Volunteer Coordinator, Lutheran Family Services Thank You Posters by Children Our United Way does the usual recognition dinner, certificates, plaques, personally signed letters, etc. However, our most popular recognition program are "Thank You Posters" created by children from our local agencies. These hand-drawn posters are so popular-- they hang in the main lobby of several large companies. They don't cost much to produce just some poster board and crayons/markers. Plus, the children enjoy creating them and often create more than one. We have been doing this for five years now and it gets more popular each year. If we fall behind schedule in getting them out I often get phone calls from loyal volunteers wondering when they can expect their new poster to hang in the lobby. Submitted by Joe Delmar, Director of Marketing & Communication, United Way of Gloucester County (Southern New Jersey) Personal Notes from Recipients The best one I ever heard was for an agency that serves the deaf as readers and interpreters. The volunteers didn't usually interact with the clients, since the reading was done over the radio. At the recognition event, each volunteer had a letter at his/her plate that was dictated by a listener of the show for which the volunteer read. The letter spoke about the reader and how his/her tone of voice made the listener feel and how it helped the listener to hear the piece of the newspaper that was read (or whatever). The letters were typed on special paper and framed nicely. The coordination of it was work, of course, but the recognition didn't take any time away from the event, which already had a full agenda. The volunteers reported it was the most impactful recognition they had ever received. They heard directly from their listeners and learned how important they were personally. Submitted by Sarah Elliston, Professional Development Associate, United Way Volunteer Resource Center 12 Hershey Kisses--An Old Time Favorite Because we have so many wonderful volunteers who do so much for the Center's clients, I try to have "hugs" and "kisses" to show my appreciation. These are, of course, the Hershey variety, put in a cellophane bag (or one that is decorated with "Thank You" messages), and tied with a variety of bright curling ribbons. They aren't expensive, look very festive, and, although they're not the real thing, these hugs and kisses are enjoyed a lot! Submitted by Katherine Scoggins, Executive Director, Shepherd Center of Kingsport Another Hershey Kisses Idea A champagne glass filled with Hershey's kisses -- write on the glass "A toast to a job well done!" It looks elegant. I have used it successfully several times. Submitted by Mari Levitt Boltz, Adult Education Coordinator/AmeriCorps*VISTA member, Delaware Technical & Community College These ideas prompted the following response from England: "Maybe it's because we're so reserved on this side of the water, but I don't think we have Hershey kisses here. Since they are, apparently, so essential a part of Volunteer Recognition, could you tell me what they are" Hershey Kisses are single pieces of chocolate drops wrapped in silver paper -- not essential but a fun touch! On-the-Job Photos For two months before the annual recognition event, the director of volunteers of a mental health center began to take photographs of volunteers while they were "on the job." They thought this was for p.r. purposes. At the event, each volunteer received a photo of him/herself in a matte frame imprinted with a thank you message. It certainly showed "we see you" as a volunteer! Submitted by Susan J. Ellis, Energize, Inc. submitted by Lacretia Bacon, Volunteer Coordinator, City of Phoenix - Human Services Dept. Banquets and Parties with a Twist Mardi-Gras Any state bordering Louisiana seems to celebrate Mardi Gras--so for my volunteer recognition lunch we did a Mardi Gras theme. This is fabulously inexpensive--beads, coins and masks are really cheap decorations that can be bought in bulk on-line. I made centerpieces by planting pansies (which are conveniently Mardi Gras colored) in hand-painted green and purple terra cotta pots (which took me only one afternoon to do) and then displaying coins and masks on the tables. Each volunteer got beads as they walked in the door and we had zydeco music playing in the background. The volunteers loved it! We "raffled" off the centerpieces to a person at each table by asking an organization-related trivia question to each group. The person with the closest answer took home the planter. This helped 13 the volunteers learn about our nation-wide program as well as how important their service is to our organization. For gifts, I took iron-on transfers and placed a volunteer related design on tote bags bought in bulk inexpensively. We filled these bags with donated goodies from area merchants (e.g. note pads from a printing company, pens and key chains from an insurance company and sweets donated by a distributor). Hand-making things really doesn't take that much time and can save you tons of money. I also think the volunteers were touched by the hard work put in to recognizing them. Submitted by Susan, Director, RSVP, Arkansas My Volunteer Valentine We host several recognition events each year, but one of the favorites is our annual "My Volunteer Valentine" Tea Party which began last year. This year, I started out by sending nomination forms to all staff in the medical center asking them to submit the name of a volunteer who exemplifies extraordinary caring and commitment, along with a brief explanation of why this person is deserving of this "Volunteer Valentine" honor. I designed the invitation on Microsoft Publisher, and sent it to all our volunteers, as well as to our Hospital Executive Team, and everyone who nominated a volunteer. We hosted the event in our main auditorium, complete with assorted finger sandwiches and mini desserts, as well as several types of hot and cold teas. At each table we placed a special gift: we purchased sets of demitasse cups with saucers at our local 99 cent store and filled each cup with three different flavored tea bags, and valentine candy. We wrapped them in pink cellophane tied with ribbon. We covered our tables with white table cloths and used pink and red runners. Red and pink Valentine stuffed Teddy Bears (purchased at our local Big Lots store) were our centerpieces, and pink and red paper hearts of all sizes filled the room. When the guests arrived, they were given a "Volunteer Word Search" game to play just for fun. The completed games were collected by one of our staff members, and served as their entry into the prize drawing which took place later in the event. We had music playing overhead (including Frank Sinatra's "My Funny Valentine") and topped it off with entertainment by a harpist who was an employee. After all the food and socializing, we awarded the "My Volunteer Valentine" honorees with certificates and a gift, by reading the words that had been submitted by employees during the nomination process. We also drew names for the several prizes that we had, and the stuffed Valentine Bears at each table were won by those at each table who's birthday was closest to Valentine's Day. It was a great event! Submitted on 27Feb2004 by Liz Mirzaian, Director, Volunteer and Senior Resources, Glendale Adventist Medical Center, California 14 "Our Volunteers Rock" Our theme was the 1950's. From decorations of black and white checkered tablecloth, fold out ice cream floats, and pink place mats and plates. We traditionally have a breakfast. Staff that helped was encouraged to wear their poodle skirts and 50's garb. We also invited volunteers to do the same. We had a guitarist and vocalist play and sing music of the era. Our certificates kept the theme with "You Rock". Submitted on 20Jan2004 by Betty Coyle, Hiawatha Care Center, Iowa, USA Shining Stars Deciding on a theme can be a treat for a Volunteer Coordinator. One year we decided to recognize our volunteers with a late luncheon titled, "Our Volunteers are Shining Stars". The theme took on a Hollywood/Academy Awards motif. The colors chosen were black, gold and white. A long red carpet (a remnant) was laid out for our stars to walk on as they entered the event. We even had a "paparazzi" there taking pictures (staff simply taking pictures to record the event). Bouquets of black, white, and gold latex balloons were placed everywhere. Black tablecloths with gold overlays (gold lame cloth purchased from a remnant store) decorated each table. For the backdrop, a "hill" was cut-out of donated ply-wood and painted black, white letters cutout of foam board were placed on the hill spelling out "HOLLYWOOD". Our Christmas lights were strung out to resemble twinkling stars. Each of our volunteers was given a T-shirt with a star shooting across the front stating "I am a Shining Star Volunteer of the Costa Mesa Senior Center". They all seemed to enjoy the shirt. We chose a shirt as that year's gift so that they could be recognized in an everyday setting. Those being specially honored for their services were given a certificate and an "Oscar" statuette, inexpensively purchased from a local party store. All in all this was a gala affair that has yet to be forgotten. Submitted on 16Nov2003 by Karyn Canett, Senior Center/Volunteer Coordinator, Costa Mesa Senior Center, CA/USA Volunteers are Gems For our Volunteer Recognition Dinner last spring, we used the theme, "Our Volunteers are Gems!" We used jewel tone colors to decorate. The centerpieces were jewel toned candle holders with the battery operated candle lights inside. At each place setting, we decorated with a bookmark that had plastic jewels glued to it and read: "Our Volunteers are Like Gems!" Amethyst-Volunteers are like amethyst because they are vivid and sincere. They create stability, calmness and tranquility, even in the midst of a rowdy group of children. Diamond-Volunteers are like diamonds because they are brilliant, courageous and tough. Volunteers are highly prized and loved. Emerald-Volunteers are like emeralds because they are intense and soothing. They reflect growth, remove weariness and soothe the soul-they are highly valued. Ruby-Volunteers are like rubies because they are glowing and intense. They are wise, creative and peaceful. 15 Sapphire-Volunteers are like sapphires because they are clear and precious. They are brilliant, precise, happy and bring blessings. Above all, our volunteers are valuable, beautiful, tough, priceless and truly treasured. It was a huge success as the volunteers truly felt valued and appreciated. Submitted on 14Oct03 by Bethany Swickrath, Membership and Community Education Manager, Girl Scouts of Appleseed Ridge, Inc., OH, USA Beach Party We used a beach party theme for our annual meeting and decorated beach pails with the names of each out-going board member, along with the agency's name. We filled them with bright, inexpensive sunglasses, candy bars, bottles of bubbles, and a water gun with a note that said "Thanks for all your hard work! Now it's time to play!" Submitted on 20Jun2003 by Katherine Scoggins, Executive Director, Shepherd Center of Kingsport TN, USA Treasures in the Sand Our theme this year was "Treasures in the Sand." We handmade the invitations which are always a hit. Volunteers appreciate a personal invitation. The tables were decorated with blue paper, as the ocean. In the middle, brown sugar spread out with all the treasures (peanuts, gummy worms, frog candy, hard rock candy--for the gems,) We made treasure boxes out of cakes… spilling out were candy necklaces and gold coins. This was also on the tables. We made personalized placemats (tan color with a sea shell and waves on, scalloped edging) and we wrote the theme on the mat. Staff and students wrote their thanks on them and we laminated the mats. We also made little bottles of bath salts to go by their place settings. The school staff donated a dish for the luncheon. Every year I give out a "life saver award." The principal buys a plant for each one of the volunteers. We have a couple kids come in and read a poem; choir comes in and sings a few songs. We invite the Volunteer Coordinators from the District Administration, as well as a School Board Member. Submitted on 27May03 by D Nevala, Volunteer Coordinator, Roosevelt Elementary, Washington, USA Magic of Volunteering A few years ago you may remember that a popular theme for volunteer recognition was "The Magic of Volunteers". To use the theme in decorating we bought black plastic top hats and fanned red, black and white paper out of them. We always need to name the groups of children and the volunteers to be seated at a particular table. The table markers were in the shape of a white-gloved hand where the name was written and from the hand came a magic wand. Red table clothes and black placemats set off the room. This was one of my favorites. Submitted by Lynn Guerra, Volunteer Coordinator, Holy Family Institute 16 Picturing Volunteers This past year at our Volunteer Banquet, I created a PowerPoint program (which is similar to a slide show except you use a computer) with pictures of our volunteers. I began by searching and locating many old photos of our volunteers and ran around the hospital taking new ones. I also took pictures of staff members holding signs up that said "Thank You Volunteers". We had enough pictures to go along with three songs. The songs used were POINTS OF LIGHT by Randy Travis, HEAL THE WORLD by Michael Jackson and YOUR SIMPLY THE BEST by Tina Turner The presentation basically three parts. The first part had pictures then a slide came up that said, We couldn't do it without you. Then we had several pictures that we had created as if we didn't have volunteers. We had the gift shop closed with a person peering in. We had the adult day center closed. We piled up mail. Showed empty escort seats. Things like that. Next slide was We Couldn't do it without REALLY! Then we went on to more pictures. The last section of pictures was for the song "You’re simply the best". While this song played, pictures of employees ran with them holding up the sign "thank you volunteers". The last said, Thank you Volunteers for all you do. And then this was the end. Submitted by Susan Senglaub, Manager of Volunteer Services, Holy Family Memorial Four Goals When I plan my yearly Volunteer Recognition Breakfast I keep four points in mind that must happen: 1.Educate 2. Inspire 3. Recognize 4.Have fun. Each year this event is the most successful! Submitted by Dee Martin, Director of Volunteer Services, Bedford, NH A Royal Thank You Each year, we honor our dedicated volunteers with a dinner, hence the "Volunteer Recognition Dinner." This year I really struggled for a theme. I came up with "A Royal Thank You." A bit hokey, I know, but it really turned out great. I stuck with royal colors, red, blue, purple, gold, & green. Centerpieces were crowns, beads, tiaras, and large cracked glass vases with royal colored Betta Fish and gemstones. I would have liked to find a "Court Jester" as entertainment but settled for Period music. Lovely royal beads also added a rich touch. In addition I recognized volunteers that were exceptional "Knights in Shining Armor!" Submitted by Crystal Lybarger, Youth & Volunteer Director, American Red Cross Volunteer Tea This year, for the first time ever, our school district held a volunteer tea. All district volunteers were invited, and we had enough special mugs and book bags on hand for everyone. We assumed a maximum attendance of 100, but only really expected about 30 people or so. Each elementary, junior high and administrative department selected two "extra special" volunteers to receive additional recognition at the tea. The high school was allowed to select four people due to their much larger volunteer population. We 17 called the additional recognition the "Starfish Award", presenting each of those volunteers with a personalized certificate (featuring the "Starfish Story") and a starfish pin. The event was held in our school district's board room and we decorated using a beach theme, playing Jimmy Buffet music in the background. As each person was called up to receive their award, I read a brief bio about them, submitted by the school or department that nominated that person. Our superintendent gave them their certificate and pin, and another person took a picture of them. We had a very good turnout (over 60 people), everyone enjoyed the "heavy hors d'ouevres", and people were thrilled to be recognized. Submitted by Therese Caldwell, Volunteer Services Liaison, North Kitsap School District, Poulsbo, WA Video As part of the annual luncheon, we developed a video showing pictures of all the volunteers. We included short interviews with new, working, and senior and youth volunteers. The video opened with wonderful music showing areas of the hospital affected by volunteers. We closed with pictures of our volunteers in the chapel. It was very moving. The volunteers loved the new idea. Submitted by Patricia A. Chambers, Director of Volunteer Services, St. Mary's Hospital, Huntington, WV Goals for Successful Recognition Event This isn't a success story but rather a way to look at "success." I think there ought to be SEVERAL goals for a "successful" recognition event, especially since we are busy people and can't afford for our time to be spent on an activity that accomplishes only one thing! So, how about these for a start? A successful recognition event needs to: 1. Say thank you for anything and everything volunteered to the organization during the past year (the organization's obligation). 2. Have everyone volunteering the above feel appreciated (the volunteers' perspective). 3. Recommit (re-enthuse) volunteers to the coming year of work and, potentially, to recruit new volunteers for vacant positions. 4. Educate everyone attending--frontline volunteers, paid staff, executives, board-level volunteers--about the scope, meaning and value of volunteer services to the organization, and about the diversity and skills of who volunteers. 5. Acknowledge the contributions of (some) paid staff supervisors to the success of volunteers. 6. Report the outcomes of volunteer effort (not just to proclaim the hours spent in effort). 7. Challenge all volunteers through recognition of the special accomplishments of a selected few. 8. Gain publicity for the organization and for the volunteer program. 9. Allow volunteers a chance to have fun and meet one another (something they do otherwise only with people on their shift). 10. Gain respect for the volunteer program and the director of it. Submitted by Susan J. Ellis, President, Energize, Inc. 18 Court Capers One of the most unique volunteer recognition events I attended was "Court Capers". Volunteers were arrested for "giving freely of their time, talents, and treasures." The invitation was a warrant for their arrest; the event took place in a court room. There was a judge, a jury (of staff), a police officer (with a wonderful voice who sang a personalized song to the tune of "Thanks for the memories") and a baliff who sang "Here come the judge - Here come the judge". There were a few outstanding volunteers who were asked to stand and the volunteer coordinator (in the witness stand) would state how they were guilty of the crime. The jury then voted "guilty" and the judge sentenced them to a free dinner with door prizes. (The banquet room was right next door decorated with police hats, badges, etc. on the tables.) It was very different but very comical and enjoyable. Submitted by Debra Cheek, Volunteer Coordinator, Moffitt Cancer Center Potluck For the past several years, we have conducted a volunteer potluck supper for our volunteers. The theatre provides beverages and paper utensils and each volunteer contributes a dish. It's a "stand-up" meal so everybody mingles and tries lots of new things. We publish the favorite recipes in the theatre's newsletter. Submitted by Jill Rafferty, Education & Volunteer Coordinator, Capital Repertory Theatre The ABC's of Volunteerism The first volunteer recognition dinner I planned had the theme of 'The ABC's of Volunteerism' (Appreciation, Benevolence, and Chocolate!) I had a chalkboard in the room with the ABC's written on it and an apple drawn on with chalk. Used as centerpieces on the tables were small school slates, a wooden ruler, pencils, and bottles of glue and crayons. At each place setting were two pieces of chocolate candy--a Hershey Kiss and a Hershey Hug. I told the volunteers that 'A' stood for the Appreciation we felt for their wonderful service; 'B' represented Benevolence (an inclination to do charitable or kind acts--what they gave with their donation of time); and 'C' represented Chocolate, the sweetness of their contributions and we were giving them a hug and a kiss. With a theme of ABC's and school, I told the volunteers their assignment for the evening was a quiz entitled 'Getting to Know You'. I gave them 10 minutes of Mix and Mingle time to gather signatures from fellow volunteers to fill in the spaces on their quizzes. The quiz had 20 items listed and each person had to find someone who...is an only child, had a fried egg for breakfast this morning, is allergic to penicillin, volunteers for more than three organizations, was born in the same month as you, uses the same brand of deodorant as you, has been a volunteer for more than 10 years, likes grits and fried okra, 19 has had their picture on the front page of a newspaper, always twists an Oreo apart and eats the icing first, etc, etc, etc. It was a bit zany, but was a good ice breaker and many didn't want to stop when I said time was up. I gave a shiny red apple to the volunteer who had the most lines filled in. Volunteers were then recognized and thanked for their valued gift of time in serving others. One volunteer's name was drawn to receive our grand prize of the evening--'a brand new washer and dryer' (washcloth and towel!). The evening was lighthearted and fun for the group. Submitted by Jayne Rice, Director of Community Programming and Volunteers, Honeywell Center Photo from "Younger Years" I asked volunteers to provide a photo of themselves in "younger years" and had photos made into slides. I wrote a little "hint poem" about each slide, relating the hint to the volunteer's service position, and we played a guessing game at the National Volunteer Week Recognition Luncheon. Big-band music played in the background as each slide was shown and the "hint poem" read. Prizes were given for the most correct guesses. Our volunteers had such fun seeing themselves and others in the slides and enjoyed guessing "who's who". The photos were returned. Submitted by Kelley Perkins, CDVS, Volunteer Coordinator, Seven Rivers Community Hospital, Crystal River, Florida Theme for Recognition Dinner We select a theme for our annual volunteer recognition banquet for our Senior Center and Meal site volunteers. This year our theme is “Volunteers are worth a million." In keeping with the "so you want to be a Millionaire" craze we are going to have our own version of the game show, with the questions relating to volunteerism, nutrition or aging. Our placemats, nut cups, table decorations, program covers and volunteer certificates will all have a “money" motif. And of course we'll decorate with the color of money--green! Submitted by K. Schutte, Mealsite Manager, Marinette County Elderly Services, (Wisconsin) Invitations Colored by Kindergarten Students We were looking for a way to invite our volunteers to our annual Volunteer Recognition. We wanted something special but not expensive. We enlarged some graphics with simple designs from our computer. We used the computer and copy machine to put the text on the invitation with "colored by...in Mrs.....'s kindergarten class" at the bottom. They were then sent to the schools to be colored by the children and then they were mailed to the volunteers. They were a huge hit and now our volunteers look forward to receiving one each year. Submitted by Ruth Anne Bleakney, Senior Center Director, Milford Senior Center 20 Ice Cream Sundaes Show How Volunteers Help a Program I work for a Community Action Agency and we rely on volunteers for everything from filing to riding school buses. We celebrated an event two weeks ago, where each of the program directors discussed how volunteers helped to run the programs. While each director talked, their staff helped to build brownie sundaes. One program started with the foundation (plates), the next put on the brownies, then the whipped topping, cherries and nuts until we had 150 sundaes. It symbolized visually how our volunteers affect each part of our organization and by working together we can accomplish great things! It was very well received and the brownies even tasted great! Contribution from Teresa Miller Keck Trips and Outings Movies During National Volunteer Week we recognized our volunteers by taking them to the movies. We rented out the local movie theatre for an afternoon. We had our recognition awards program before the movie started down front of the theatre. After all the awards were given out we had a 15 minute intermission break. The volunteers were instructed to go to the refreshment counter and they had a bag of popcorn and a drink waiting for them. I also had small bags of chocolate treats for them. The cost for each volunteer was $9.00; much less than providing a banquet for them. They also had their choice of 2 movies. I chose ahead of time a PG and a PG-13. It was very well received and we will do it again next year. Submitted on 26 Sept 2004 by Linda Bacon, CAVS, Volunteer Coordinator, Major Hospital IN Bus Trips A large component of our volunteer program is the social aspect; many of our volunteers, young and old, love to get together in a social setting, ideally when there's an opportunity for more learning. Twice a year, we offer recognition in the form of bus trips to other museums, art galleries and cultural and science-based organizations throughout Alberta. When space permits, we invite our volunteers to bring along a guest. It's always a special time when volunteers can introduce family and friends to staff and other volunteers. They share stories of their volunteer roles, the tasks they complete, and the good times they have. As a bonus, we often arrange a "behind the scenes" tour with our peers in volunteer management, so 21 family and friends get to see and learn about cultural and collection management that very few experience. After a full day of laughing and learning, our volunteer family is usually expanded, as we often have family and friends clamoring to sign up and volunteer with us! Submitted on 10Jan2004 by Lynn McShane, Manager, Volunteer Programs, Glenbow Museum, Calgary, Alberta, Canada Seeds of Success Last June, we had a wonderfully successful volunteer appreciation night. A local theater group donated a free performance for our organization to share with volunteers. The night at the Center, with food (all donated) and drinks to start. Next, there were two buses (donated) that transported all of the volunteers over to the show. During intermission, we had two of our participants who use our services talk about their experience with the Center (Cancer Support Center) and how much they personally appreciate individuals who so kindly give of their time. Following the show, as the volunteers were getting off the bus, staff members handed terra cotta pots with a packet of seeds that read :"volunteers plant the seeds of success" to each volunteer. The pots were decorated by staff in a very simple manner, with ribbon, and dirt was also included so everything was ready to go! The event received RAVE reviews! Submitted by Jeanne Jablonski, Special Events & Volunteer Coordinator, Cancer Support Center, Volunteer Recognition Ice Cream Social A new Gazebo was built right behind our library as part of our Rail-ToTrails park, so it seemed perfect to hold an ice cream social for our recognition event in August. We used red, white, and blue colors to make it old fashioned and all American. It was really fun to get some of the staff involved doing a skit and singing songs that we adapted for the event. Serving sundaes and having the program in the middle made it move along and 2 hours was just about right. For favors, we contacted a few local merchants for little premiums, like a piece of fudge or a flower, and listed them on a "Thank You" bookmark. We also honored our "Golden Volunteers" who've given 50 hours or more this past year with a special bookplate to put into a book of their choice that will go into the library's permanent collection. Submitted by Heidi Walker, Natrona County Library, Wyoming 22 Gardening Theme This year we used a gardening theme for our volunteer appreciation event. We invited Master Gardeners to do a demonstration and called it "All the Dirt on Container Gardening". It was an evening event with refreshments and desserts (also cheese, crackers and fruit for those with dietary limitations). At the end of the demonstration we raffled the 3 containers as door prizes. We also had small gifts for each volunteer - Herb starter kits. They were small plant containers with herb seeds, fertilizer sticks, soil and growing instructions. They had an small ornamental bird in the pot and a sign that said: "Volunteers love to share their Thyme". Submitted by Jerrie McLean, Administrative Assistant, Woolwich Community Health Centre, Ontario, Canada Taking Volunteers to Court Every year we plan a tour of our county courthouse and a luncheon with our county commissioners. Many of our volunteers love the tour, we visit places like the 911 center, the sheriff's office and recorder of deeds. When these volunteers see how the court house is run they are so amazed. Their favorite department is security. The chief of security always shows them weapons that people have brought into the court house. Submitted by Edward Callahan, Coordinator Volunteer Services, Children's Cultural Center Chips and Chat Each year before our busy season starts we host a feedback session where we invite all our volunteers to our office for dinner and discussion. In the past we have called these sessions "chips and chat" and "pizza and parley". These evenings are a chance for our volunteers to share what they think about how we are doing as an organization and where we should be moving to in the future. It gives them a sense of ownership and stake in the organization. It also lets them know that we as managers are interested and listening to what they have to say and that we care about their opinions. Submitted by Drew Gulyas, Assistant Camp Director, Camp Oochigeas Gifts Galore We have a speaker that gives a mini-seminar about the ten gifts that each of us have. Our tables are decorated with gifts (wrapped empty packages). We ask that each volunteer bring a non-perishable food item to donate to the local food pantry and a gift to pass on to another. Submitted by Desiree Larson, Volunteer Coordinator, Women’s Way, North Dakota 23 Ask Your Volunteers This year, we asked our 25 volunteers what they would like to do for a recognition event. The general consensus was we do something fun (go to a museum or gallery) or have the opportunity to learn something new. The Volunteer Connection is hosting a staff prepared lunch. One of our staff is an art gallery director and photographer. She will teach us the art of creating Polaroid transfers from a picture we take or a colored slide we bring. We are also having a guest poet teach us the art of writing poetry which we will share with each other. The entire event is scheduled over a four hour period. Submitted by Charlotte Smith Neyland, Director of Services, Volunteer Connection East of Longmont Giving Back to Yourself I had done a survey on what volunteers thought about our volunteer program and many of the surveys indicated that park volunteers really enjoyed what they do but they would like more training. I was determined to use volunteer recognition as a means to kick-off volunteer training opportunities throughout the year. As a result, I developed my own workshop-Giving Back to Yourself. This was a one day motivational workshop put on during National Volunteer Week. It opened with a Board of Park Commissioner and Executive Director giving park wide updates, followed by a short film and two great motivational speakers. Volunteers asked questions, got some answers, meditated and left feeling a renewed sense of commitment to the parks and to themselves. It was one of the best recognitions we have had. Submitted by Merle Walker, Volunteer Program Manager, Lake Metroparks Resume Writing In my volunteer program at the Philadelphia Family Court, we recognized graduating student volunteers with a special seminar on resume writing, with emphasis on how they could describe their volunteer work as a credential that would impress prospective employers or university admissions officers. Submitted by Susan J. Ellis, Energize, Inc. Ongoing and Informal Ways to Say Thank You Recognition Doesn't Have to Be Expensive Over the years, I've tried to come up with no- or low-cost ways to say thank you to the volunteers and staff that made my programs function effectively. Most of these were the day-to-day "thanks for helping" I believe that recognition is one of the most important parts of working with volunteers. These have included simple yet meaningful things such as writing a brief "thanks for being an angel by helping with XYZ project" on angel-shaped note paper. 24 Like most administrators, I send birthday and get well cards. But I believe that treating my volunteers as part of the staff is one of the most effective ways to recognize their value. I acknowledge my volunteers by always saying hello and goodbye each day, even if they work in a different part of the building. I let them know if I will be out of the office or need to leave early when they're scheduled to be in. I also provide each volunteer with his or her own in-box. I distribute copies of appropriate memos, include volunteers in meetings and trainings when I can, and make sure each is informed of new policies, procedures, or activities in the organization. One low-cost thank you gift that I gave was a small booklet of quotes about volunteering that I did on the computer and ran off on the copier. I received a number of calls and notes thanking me and saying how much the booklet was appreciated. I also gave these to staff at collaborative agencies as a small way to show how much I appreciated how they and their volunteers helped my program. Recognition doesn't have to be expensive. It does have to be sincere. Submitted 20 November 2004 by Sherry Leigh Mitchell, The Greater Kalamazoo Area Holiday Food Drive, Michigan Online Volunteer "Notes" There are lots of ways to use a Web site to recognize volunteers. Thanks to Catherine Jackson for her posting on CyberVPM, directing others to the way the Walter & Connie Payton Foundation gives Web space to volunteers at http://www.payton34.com/volunteernotes.html. This "Notes" section not only allows volunteers to feel a part of the organization, but serves as a great introduction to the work of the Foundation for visitors to the site. Posted 11 Aug. 2003 by Susan J. Ellis, Energize, Inc. "Pat on the Back" Here's an idea for a very inexpensive recognition idea that should work for any type of organization. I simply drew around my hand on a plain piece of paper, printed "Here's a pat on the back for ________ for all the hard work and effort you've made here at First UU" on it, then copied it on to colored paper (2 on each page). The teens at our church helped me cut them out. We invited anyone who wished to give a public "pat on the back" to someone special to write their name on the handprint and tape it on a wall we had decorated. We had over 450 pats once we were finished. It was a very visible, but inexpensive way to recognize a large group of volunteers. Submitted on 25May03 by Karol Haynes, Volunteer Coordinator, First Unitarian Universalist Society of Syracuse, New York/USA 25 Note and Candy Our volunteers are basically college-age students and we understand that they have busy lives with classes, tests, jobs and other activities. Every so often I like to send via mail a card with a thank you as well as some candy. I just recently sent chocolate coins and confetti to make them smile. They all appreciate this thought and thank us constantly for our recognition of them! Submitted on 16May03 by Becky Degnon, Volunteer Coordinator, Sexual Harassment and Rape Prevention Program (SHARPP) at the University of New Hampshire, New Hampshire, United States Volunteers - Wall of Fame! When volunteers come into our facility, they enter into our break room where they can put their coats down and get a name tag. The most important thing a group does before they start working, is go to the Wall of Fame to find their picture. If it's a groups first time, they will remind me to make sure they will be added. The wall is completely covered with photos. It's a constant reminder of how we value and appreciate each and every one of our 100 groups represented. Our volunteer groups come from grade school to retirees, but one thing that they have in common, getting their picture taken. Some groups will even plan out where and how they want their group photo. I use a digital camera, and print the photo onto a picture of a box, using the top part of the box to fill in the groups name and date. The box looks like one that they use to repack the donated products. The next time the volunteer group is here, they look for their picture! A picture says it all. Submitted by Laura Fronko, Volunteer Coordinator, World Vision Thanks Online I found a great way to say thanks to a volunteer, friend, co-worker when you have no time. Send a thank you email through this website, www.baudville.com (click on epraise). Click on a category of thanks, recognition or celebrations, personalize it and the company will send you a copy. It's great! Submitted by Kim Gube, Volunteer Coordinator, American Red Cross, National Capital Chapter Our Brightest Stars In our facility, the Volunteer Manager and I (coordinator of Volunteer Services) worked on a bulletin board. We cut out blue stars and in them we printed each volunteer's name and, in the center of the board, we posted their pictures with a slogan that read "Volunteers Our Brightest Stars." It was a hit. The bulletin board was hard to miss and the staff and volunteers loved it! Submitted by Mirna Alberto, Coordinator, Volunteer Services, Misericordia Health Centre, Canada 26 Thank You Notes to Volunteers' Workplace Many of our volunteers have full time jobs and busy careers. We began sending letters of recognition to their places of work either directly to their superior or through the Human Resources office. These letters often find their way directly into the personnel files and in many cases reflect well on an employee to their employer. What has been really interesting is that our organization has actually received donations from companies whose employees have been our volunteers. A letter from our organization has often prompted an inquiry from a company to the employee about who we are and what we do. This method of recognition has become greatly appreciated by our volunteers. Submitted by Christine Cooper, Volunteer Coordinator, Citizens for a Clean Caledon Free Motivational Messages Here's a free service to send motivational messages/cards via e-mail at http://www.motivationalquotes.com/servicequotes.shtml. Most of the messages relate to serving others. Submitted by Steve McCurley, consultant/trainer Honors for Volunteers and Staff Our hospital launched a new recognition program whereby ANYONE can nominate a person for service above and beyond. As recognitions are added, staff reaches built in "levels". This program includes employees, physicians AND volunteers. Volunteers are part of program, rather than having their own separate "volunteer of the month" that may be perceived as lesser than staff programs. It is great to see their names posted on the bulletin board along with physicians and staff that are recognized! Submitted by Marcia Ferguson, Director, Volunteer Services and Telecom, Mercy Medical Center A Personal Note from You It's not earth-shattering, but our volunteers really appreciate and respond to the personal notes I send out periodically. On our organization's note-card or a card especially chosen for the individual volunteer, I remind him/her how important his/her efforts are to me and the organization. I usually emphasize a recently accomplished task or project and point out how it affected our operation. When I host a volunteer group, I multiply the number of volunteers by the number of hours they've worked, and then divide it all out to let them know how many (non-stop!) eight hour days it would have taken our tiny staff to complete the same volume of work. It's often quite staggering! Submitted by Ms. De Jenkins Lambing, Program Manager, Wheelchair Recycling Project 27 More than a Plaque or Certificate How can you recognize outstanding staff or volunteers without relying on the typical plaque or certificate? Try these creative ideas: Attach the following note to a box of candles: "No one holds a candle to you." · Send a "thought-you'd-like-to-know" letter to the volunteer's employer, acknowledging his or her positive contribution to your organization. Ask volunteers or staff members to train other volunteers or staff members, to lead meetings, to give presentations, etc. Forget separate luncheons for deserving staff and volunteers. Bring them together for a joint recognition lunch in their honor. Send an anniversary card to volunteers or staff, highlighting their year(s) of service. Note how they made a difference in your organization over the past year. From the Non-Profit Nuts & Bolts newsletter, August 1997 "What Does My Mentor Mean to Me?" I coordinate an AmeriCorps Program in Texas and our members/volunteers tutor and mentor at-risk. For National Volunteer Week we are sponsoring an essay contest. The theme is "What Does My Mentor Mean To Me" We are going to post these essays on the program listserv and prizes will be awarded for the top three essays. Submitted by Leslie, Special Programs Coordinator, AmeriCorps-UTA, TX Volunteer Appreciation Luncheon Every April during Volunteer Appreciation Week we hold a Volunteer Appreciation Luncheon to recognize the efforts of our volunteers. This past year we served 700 free lunches to say thanks to our volunteers. Other activities take place this week as well including a button program that recognizes our volunteers with special discounts from local merchants. Submitted by Volunteer Centre of the Blue Sky Region, Canada A Personal Moment We are celebrating National Volunteer Week in our High School with an assembly that will recognize 3 volunteers that have always been there for so many of our school, community and veterans events. While we only recognize 3 with awards there are countless others, parents, grandparents and friends that are there working in the background in so many ways. It only takes a minute to recognize them on a personal level when you see them. Bring them to a stop (they are usually very busy); look them in the eye with your best smile and say "Thank you for all the help you give!” Submitted by Becky Dirks, Post Adjutant VFW Post 4077, Anamosa Iowa 28 Volunteers are Gold This year for our Volunteer Recognition Event during National Volunteer Week, we are having an Olympic theme. We are having various staff members speak to recognize each group of volunteers as to why "Volunteers Are Our Gold"! We ordered volunteerdesigned water bottles and filled with candy with our logo imprinted on the back with our theme "You Are Our Gold". We are greeting each volunteer at the event by hanging gold medals around their necks. We are decorating in red, white, and blue and having the Olympic ring display at the front of the room. Lastly, we are having a Power Point presentation of events and volunteer pictures from the last year with a gold medal design. We will play the Olympic theme during the presentation. Submitted by Heather Melton, Volunteer Coordinator, The Elizabeth Hospice, Escondido, CA 92025 Hats off to Volunteers Our theme last year for Volunteer Recognition was "Hats Off to You". All the staff came wearing outrageous hats of all kinds, the potted plants as centerpieces were in hats turned upside down. But the most fun was that all 100 of those present made newspaper hats the kind that it takes at least 3 people to make - one as model, one to hold 3 or 4 sheets of newspaper down on model's head, one to wrap tape around the model's head and paper, and many hands to roll the paper up as the hat's brim. Volunteers met and worked with all sorts of new people, decorated the hats with flowers and balloons and whatever else they could find and had so much fun. I have never seen a room full of people who did not know each other have so much fun working together. Everyone left with a totally unique hat and a great memory. Their sense of commitment to our organization for another year was sealed by newspaper hats. Submitted by Catherine Graham, Volunteer Services Manager, IHS, The Institute for Human Services How about a "Hats Off to Volunteers Day?' Just have the staff wear a hat (any kind) on that day and tip their hat to each volunteer they meet. Now I need some ideas. We still have the big luncheon to recognize volunteers during National Volunteer Week. Our theme next year will be "Celebrate the Magic of Volunteering." Of course we'll have a magician; centerpieces will be black top hats with rabbits in them. Submitted by Jean Anton, Director of Volunteer Services, Shriners Hospital for Children - St. Louis 29 Chocolate Bars We always have our volunteer recognition event in June but this year, because it is International Year of Volunteers, I did not want National Volunteer Week to go by without some special acknowledgment. During April, I sent all our volunteers a chocolate bar in the mail with a special card inviting them to our BBQ in June and telling them all the scientific reasons why chocolate is good for you, plus a funny list all about chocolate I found on the Internet. It was such a small and simple gesture but I have never had so much feedback. The neat thing is that I have 200 volunteers and I only get about 60 individuals out to our official volunteer recognition event. This way even the volunteers who never come to events received a treat and they were surprised and thrilled. Submitted by Linda Sunderland, Coordinator of Volunteers and Education, Hospice Peterborough Jeopardy At a recent Volunteer Recognition night for our agency, we played a game of "Jeopardy" with topics relating to our volunteers and our agency's work. Those who answered questions correctly received a chocolate truffle. We also did a take of Dave Letterman's "Top Ten" by coming up with our own list of "Top Ten" reasons to Volunteer with our agency. At various points throughout the evening, we revealed one of the reasons. We also read little poems we had written about certain volunteers we were highlighting with special recognition, and then presented them with the poem. Submitted by Robin Albert, Volunteer Coordinator, Sexual Assault Support Service National Volunteer Week Packet A great National Volunteer Week packet is located on the University of Nebraska - 4-H website at http://www.ianr.unl.edu/ianr/4h/volun/packet.htm. It has a lots of general recognition ideas! Submitted by Tina Veal Holiday Events as Recognition Opportunities Thanks into Thanksgiving This fall I decided to put the Thanks into Thanksgiving by sending out handmade notes to each active volunteer. A very artistic volunteer helped me to make the notes - no two were the same! Then I wrote short Thanks inside making sure to mention specific things that they had helped with. In addition, I had people from the departments they had volunteered in add something - at the least signing it. They went out right at Thanksgiving and the response has been lovely, with volunteers coming in specially to thank us for making their day! A Win-win, I think! Submitted by Heidi Walker, Coordinator of Volunteers, Natrona County Public Library, Wyoming 30 Volunteers are the Recipe for Success Every year we have a potluck holiday party and our volunteers have asked us to print up the recipes from their various co-workers who brought dishes. This year, we created a blank recipe form and mailed it to each volunteer asking for their best recipe. We then compiled the recipes into a cookbook that would be given to each volunteer as a gift at the recognition event. The theme was centered on cooking so we held it at a rustic venue in the country and printed awards on paper designed to look like a picnic. Instead of the generic thank you speeches from the volunteer coordinators, the Executive Director and members of the Board, we created a skit on "What is the recipe that makes up an ideal volunteer" and each official stood up and told the crowd what they think that recipe would be (a cup of smiles mixed with a teaspoon of wit...etc). The message at the end of the skit was that there is not just one recipe that makes up an ideal volunteer. Instead there are many recipes that include the different traits, personalities and styles that make the volunteers so necessary and unique. In the end, we concluded that each volunteer and his/her unique traits are equally valuable in ensuring a successful volunteer program. Kind of like a big, gourmet potluck... Submitted by Miranda Prescott & Rachael Park, Volunteer Coordinators, Snohomish County Tourism Bureau, Washington, USA Volunteer Luck Our volunteer dinner last year was held on March 13 using a St. Patrick's Day Theme because we feel 'lucky' to have our volunteers. We used green derbies planted with green and white carnations for centerpieces. Planning ahead we planted shamrock bulbs in green spray painted peat pots as favors at each place setting. We had prints of different Irish Blessings rolled and tied with green ribbon by each plate. Our menu was corned beef and cabbage with potatoes, green salad, and grasshopper pie. For entertainment we had a local clogging group perform. Awards and recognitions were given. Two staff members then sang 'Oh, Danny Boy". To give away the centerpieces we had some silly questions and trivia questions that we asked...such as whom: 1. has 13 pennies in their pocket 2. Has visited Ireland 3. has an Irish Setter at home 4. Knows the legend of St. Patrick 5. Showered with Irish Spring today etc, etc. I closed with the Irish Blessing: May the road rise up to meet you... It was another successful program suggested by the words of praise and thank you notes we received. Submitted by Jayne Rice, Director of Community Programming and Volunteers, Honeywell Center Low-Cost, High-Impact Life-Changing Recognition This past year, our program lost one of its most beloved volunteers. One month shy of her 90th birthday, she worked two days a week in our laboratory and at one of the hospital information desks. Though frailer in the past few months, she was still at the hospital working the week before she died. At word of her passing, I called the family, to inquire about funeral arrangements. The daughter-in-law informed me that there would likely be no memorial service, because, in her words, "she (the volunteer) didn’t really have any 31 friends here." I assured her that the volunteer circle of friends was sizeable, and included many fellow volunteers and hospital staff. The family eventually decided to have a service. Other than family and a few other attendees, the pews were filled exclusively with volunteers and hospital staff. The family was shocked that so many people knew and loved their quiet little mom, and that they had never known about this support system of friends, despite her seven years of involvement as a volunteer at our hospital! Something about this experience troubled me greatly. I fear that many children and spouses, especially of our older volunteers, see their volunteer activities as just something for them to do to keep busy. They really have no idea that their loved ones are doing important, valuable work with our patients. I wanted to find a way to avoid a scene like this with others in our program, if at all possible. Volunteers were asked for the names and addresses of their immediately family - spouses, children, or close friends. They were not told the exact reason for the information - ironically, many assumed we were gathering next of kin info, in the event of their death on the job! With those names, we created a family database. At Christmas, instead of the usual inspirational letter to volunteers, talking about the meaning of the season and their wonderful deeds throughout the year, I wrote letters to each of these on the mailing list. I told them about what their wife, mother, brother, etc. did at our hospital, and how important they were in the lives of our staff, patients and families. Many of those who received letters have called, and told very touching stories of how they read the tributes to "their" volunteer at a family gathering during the holidays. Several said they had the letter framed, and gave it as a gift to their loved one. The volunteers had no idea this was happening, and were moved beyond words. In over 25 years of managing volunteers, I have never done any recognition activity that has had a more profound impact on the timbre of our program, and on the lives of our volunteers! Obviously, this was quite time-consuming (I wrote about 150+ letters), but extremely high-impact on the recipients and, as a bonus, on the author. It really made my holiday season very meaningful. I will continue to look for opportunities to communicate the countless ways our volunteers make a difference to the other people who care so much about them - their families. Submitted by LouAnne Smith, Volunteer Coordinator, Doctors Hospital of Dallas Staff-Made Dinner I work for an AIDS Service organization where volunteers give their time in a variety of programs and services. Every year we have an annual holiday party for volunteers which has always been an open house style event. This year I asked the staff to help plan something a bit more ambitious - we cooked and served a full course meal! The menu was a choice of turkey dinner with all the trimmings, or a vegetarian pasta dish. Staff volunteered to cook the various dishes, turkeys, mashed potatoes, stuffing, salads, etc., or contributed buns, cranberry sauce, salad dressing, etc. The staff were all assigned jobs; cooks, plate fillers, servers, etc., and all of the staff wore black pants, white shirts and colorful name tags. We had a Christmas tree with donated gifts underneath and drew 32 names for a chance to pick a gift. We utilized space in our multi-purpose room and set beautiful places using rented cutlery and plates. Everyone contributed decorations and we had plenty of candlelight and twinkle lights strung up. Our physicians offered grace and a toast to the volunteers that reaffirmed their value within our organization. All in all, it was a tremendous gift of caring by the staff, and a wonderful experience in feeling appreciated by the volunteers! Submitted by Corrie McGibney, Coordinator of Volunteer Services, Village Clinic Thanks at Thanksgiving The week before Thanksgiving, the Center always recognizes the volunteers with a catered meal and music as a way to show our appreciation and thanks. This year the theme was "Handful of Thanks" with decorations, centerpieces and even the certificates adorned with cookie cutter dough hands. I gave a speech incorporating hands as the theme (right hand men and women, hand you can rely on, etc). The highlight though was the many frail older clients (the receivers of the volunteerism) giving testimonials as to how there lives are better because of these wonderful volunteers. Submitted by M. Judith Nortman, Director, Westside Senior Adult Day Center Personal Note from Board Our Board of Directors has a Volunteer Services Committee. These members write a personal, handwritten note to each volunteer who donates anything over four hours during a year. The committee members are given enough information to let them know what work the volunteer has done. The notes are written around Thanksgiving and around Valentine's Day, for those who started volunteering after Thanksgiving. We have recently added a printed note to all our one-time volunteers with the personal signature of the committee chair. This wonderful tradition, which is above and beyond the annual Volunteer Recognition Party, wasn't started by me, but I am happy to be apart of an agency with such caring board members. Submitted by Marty Atherton, Coordinator of Volunteer Services, Families First Thanksgiving Day Cards Thanksgiving Day cards to the families of volunteers. The response from the volunteers was terrific. Submitted by Mike Corbin, Director of Volunteer Services, Lutheran Social Services of Michigan 33 Key Ingredients & Whine List Thank you to Alane Bray for giving me so much material. The U.S. Flag Template was borrowed from Microsoft Office Online. Chapter II contains ideas gathered from years of gifts I have received from friends as well as the many websites I explore when I am looking for old or new ideas. One of the sites that many of these ideas, templates and pictures came from is familycrafts.com and Many of the poems in chapter IV you can find in http://www.militaryspousesupport.net/ Many of the items from chapter V came from the following website. http://papertidbits.com/TipBagToppers.html Chapter VI can be contributed to http://energizeinc.com/ You will find many articles and tools designed to assist volunteer leaders. Many thanks to all the contributors not mentioned in this book. I never expected the use of this book by any one. I would have liked to give credit to the many friends who gave me the ideas and concept contained in this book. You know who you are, if you would like to be mentioned please contact me so you can be acknowledged. Whine List Please fill out the following comment card. We look forward to assisting you. Whining is encouraged. "Volunteer's Creed" - Tom Krause Though my troubles and my worries are sometimes all that I see still I always must remember life's not only about me. Other souls are also hurting and I know that it's in God's plan to reach out to help another to extend to them my hand. With this purpose as my focus to be a comfort to a friend all my troubles and my worries seem to fade out in the end. It is one of God's true lessons how my walk is meant to be true happiness I find when life's not only about me. Fort Bragg, NC February 2005