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free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable TQC THE QUEER CHRONICLE 2010 NOV Issue 2 . Volume 3 . Pune TQC EXCLUSIVE: THE SILVER BOYS MEX IN THE CITY MUSIC: AND NOT ALL THAT JAZZ PAGE 1 PAGE 6 PAGE 12 In this issue Editorial free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable TQC Exclusive: The Silver Boys 01 Page 3 03 Mex in the City: White‐skinned and brown 06 (Gaysi): Writer’s bloc 08 RJ’s Top 10 09 Queering Saturdays Movie: ‘The Bubble’ 10 Music: And not all that Jazz... 12 Travel: On the tiger trail ‐ 2 13 Leisure: Santé & Bon Appétit 14 Health: Tips for a healthful festive season 15 Art & Soul: Artists ‐ Waswo X. Waswo & Murali Raman 16 Reflections 17 If India wants to take strides with the rest of the developing countries, it will need a broader acceptance for different kinds of people. The real issue in India when it comes to religion, caste or even sexuality, is the battle between the older guardians and the new generation. Readers’ Corner For society to progress as a whole, 18 grassroots mobilization on each front can help raise awareness amongst the people. And this revolution has already begun. Discussion groups, queer movie screenings, film festivals, art festivals, cultural festivals, dance performances, magazines, merchandise, literature, parties, pride marches. And every month we learn of a new initiative TQC. Issue 2. Volume 3. Pune. Cover artwork: “HER SAREE” is a work by Waswo X. Waswo from his well‐known series ‘A Studio in Rajasthan’. This 16”x 24” image is a hand‐colored digital photograph on archival Hahnemuhle fine art paper. This image has has never before been exhibited or seen in print, but is exclusive for TQC launched for and by the LGBT readers. Copyright Waswo X. Waswo. Used with permission of the artist. community in India. Editor & publisher: Keith | Contributors: Ambika Rajgopal, Amey Kolhe, Ankit Chawla, Jayesh India has come a long way, in such a Paranjape, ‘MJ’, Murali Raman, Sagar Dave, Subodh Bodke, Waswo X. Waswo, ‘20 sumthin artiste’ short time. We salute all the pioneers who are making it happen and creating | Layout concept, design & production: Keith TQC (The Queer Chronicle) is a monthly e‐magazine published for and by the queer community in India. This e‐zine is a non‐commercial publication, is not for sale and is exclusively for private a legacy for future generations to look distribution. Views expressed are solely the opinions of the individual authors and do not back on. necessarily represent the opinions of the editorial team of TQC, nor its affiliates. The content of And I ponder to myself, ‘What next?’ this e‐zine may not be suitable for all audiences. The Editor www.facebook.com/tqc.india, www.planetromeo.com/tqc_india, [email protected] Please print this ezine only if you have to. Help save our planet. free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable TQC Exclusive : The Silver Boys TQC - Nov 2010 BY SAGAR DAVE A lot of us know of the gay world to be chatty and before I knew it, his hands your wife a sin? I got married because vibrant and young. Always changing were in mine and it didn’t stop there. I of my parents and how they envisioned colors and super dynamic. don’t know if this is what changed my my life to be. I never knew about this But then, think of this lifestyle after 40. life, but the fact that I didn’t feel guilty side of myself before I got married. Is it still as fabulous as it was when you about it was sufficient for me to How would I have ever known? were in your 20s? Some even say gay venture out. Sagar: Have you ever had a boyfriend? men are like a movie actresses. They Sagar: You have been married for Are you a Sugar Daddy? have a shelf life, after which life dries almost 23 years now. Does it feel Ajay: No, and I never will have a out. But does it really? Remember the wrong? boyfriend. Emotionally I belong to my popular sitcom the ‘Golden Girls’? Well Ajay: I love my wife; she is a good wife family. No one in the world can replace the gay world has its ‘Silver Boys’! and an even better mother. I come that. I wouldn’t say that this thought from a conservative Marwari family hasn’t crossed my mind a million times Sagar Dave (Co‐founder of ‘Birds of a and marriage is inevitable for us. but then I think of the practicality of Feather’) caught up with Ajay, a 55 year Having a family is a beautiful thing even things and the answer stares right back. old businessman, to find out what it is with all its little flaws. I don’t find it I am not a stranger to love though. I to be 50+ and gay in India. wrong may be because I love my life used to have a huge crush on my Sagar: So Ajay how did it all start ? right now. neighbor. Maybe I even loved him, I Ajay: Back in 60’s and 70’s nobody knew Sagar: Does this mean you are don’t really know. Maybe I still do, but what it meant to be gay. Life was family‐ bisexual? do you really think it works? And as for centric. I was 22 when I got married and Ajay: Loving a woman doesn’t make a Sugar Daddy, yeah why not? I get joined my father’s business. However, me attracted to her sexually. I have what I want and he gets what he wants. deep down I always knew I wasn’t lived so long with her that we are closer It works well. attracted to women the way I was to a than I have ever been to any man but I Sagar: I see that you are not on any man's presence. I was returning to Pune don’t crave for her as much as I do for online networking site. How do you after a business trip to Mumbai and this another man. I am a homosexual, may meet other men? gorgeous Australian sat on the seat be not gay, if you really want to Ajay: Just the way people have always beside me in the bus. We got a little differentiate. So what if I am? Is loving been meeting before the internet. I 1 free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable Photograph: Albert wouldn’t call them friends but I have Sagar then caught up with Albert, a 54 acquaintances who introduce me to year old expat and an academician, to boys they have met and I would do the delve more into his life as a ‘Silver Boy’ same for them, and ‘pop goes the Sagar: Albert, South Africa to Pune ‐ is weasel’. It’s more of an underground there a stark difference in gay life? network and it’s much bigger than you Albert: Yes of course. It’s more open can imagine. I don’t understand why there with lots of gay hang‐out places you guys love the internet so much. The and it’s easier to meet like‐minded thrill of meeting someone you have people. One can move around in the never seen or heard of before is kind of circles that he wants to. Here its incomparable. more underground, things happen, but Sagar: You mentioned boys and not its not as easily accessible. South Africa men. has all age‐related places where one Ajay: Yes certainly. A man has the right could go to. I haven’t really still been to have a choice doesn’t he? able to have a circle of friends here in Sagar: But you have a son who is almost Pune of my age and interests. So it’s 20. How do you deal with that? definitely more difficult for a gay man Ajay: I knew this was coming. Yes he is a my age to feel at home here. I am charming boy and has just turned 20. I looking for gay friends my age or at least love him and would only wish the best people I can relate to, you know, to have for him. But if I had to answer what you a couple of drinks with, talk with and are implying to, my answer would be simply hangout with. I am not looking ‘No’. Even though I am sexually attracted for a boyfriend or a partner. to boys or twinks, as your generation Sagar: You have a boyfriend back in calls them, I am not attracted to him. As South Africa? hypocritical as it may sound , I wouldn’t Albert: Oh yes! We are more of soul‐ want anyone to look at him the way I mates and less of boyfriends. We have look at ‘my boys’. As a father, I would been in a relationship for 15 years now want him to adhere to tradition and and it’s excellent. He visits once a year have a healthy normal life, but as a and I fly there once a year. He would be person I would respect any and every happy to move to India with me too. choice he makes. I want to be that Well but that’s a thing of the future. father to him that I never had. With the right job he’d love to move Sagar: Lastly, are you happy? here. Back home we have joint Ajay: Happiness is subjective. I have a accounts. We have a house together, we good life and couldn’t have been more are like a completely married couple. thankful to God. I have made certain Sagar: Is he younger than you? choices that I can’t undo. So either I can Albert: Ha ha ha..Yes!! But just by 6 sulk about them or I could accept them months. He understands me well and with a smiling face! we have very good chemistry going on. I am happy with what I have, it’s my … Ajay’s life isn’t perfect, as no one’s is. choice to be with him. So I’m definitely But he claims it’s perfect for him. Life not looking for a partner even though doesn’t always ask you before changing. it’s a long distance relationship. Sometimes the decision is yours and sometimes you just have to live with it. 2 ‐ Continued on Page 4 TQC - Aug Nov 2010 free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable PAGE 3 Halloween 2010 October 30, Pune By ‘Birds of a Feather’ free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable The Silver Boys. Continued from Page 2 Things happened and I liked it and I still Albert: I am definitely very happy. I Sagar: So when did you ‘come of gay do. wouldn’t call myself lonely but yes, I do age’ and how did it happen? Was it Sagar: Do you think it’s easier for feel a little alone here in India. I really difficult in the 70’s? today’s generation? wish there could more men like me, Albert: Well I guess somewhere in my Albert: Definitely. Opportunities exist who I could simply hangout with. I have mind I always knew I was gay but I came and there are avenues where they can straight friends but sometimes it’s just out only in my late thirties. So it was explore their sexuality. It’s become a lot not the same. I want those giggling gays more like the late 80’s and not 70’s. I easier for them to come out and be around me..the incessant bitching and was married before that to a woman. accepted. There are organizations to carefreeness which only comes naturally Ironically her name is “GAY”! But she council parents and siblings etc. So to gay men. I guess I am seeking a took the whole thing very well. Today being gay isn’t frowned upon as much balance in life..Yeah BALANCE that’s the my family knows and they have met my now. But where ever, in India or South word! partner. Well, we never say it aloud but Africa, rural areas still exist where being they know. I have told them but we gay is a bad thing and it will take time to … Yes balance is after all what everyone never speak about it. When they visit, change. South Africa has a constitution is looking for. But isn’t the imbalance in he is around and it’s very normal. It’s that allows one to be gay. It’s legal and life that makes us strive to do new like there’s a big white elephant in the that’s the kind of protection that is things? Being gay is one part of our lives room . needed to make one feel comfortable may it be at 20 or at 50! Sagar: Do you think things would have and it helps normalize a lot of things. Ultimately it is the choices you make been drastically different if you would Sagar: Coming from a liberal country, and how happy you are with them that have ditched the closet earlier? have you tried to make a difference m a tte r s . S o m e s u cc u m b to t h e Albert: Well I wouldn’t know but yeah here? trivialities of life while others make an sure! But coming out late wasn’t that Albert: Well honestly no.. effort to go against the tide. Does it bad either you know. I would have may Sagar: So now that you have found your matter? One can never tell. be just known more about it...I knew I soulmate, have a great job and have a Happiness is state of mind and there is felt different but I didn’t know I was gay. fabulous life, are you happy? no right or wrong. When I came out, I just met someone. 4 Photograph: Albert & his partner free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable G N I C N U O ANN SUNDAY 0 1 0 2 • R E B M E C E D • H T • 12 S! IS M A N N A EENINGS | R W C S ’T N M O IL F D | U IC PLAYS | MUS ’S A DAY YO MORE TQC - Nov 2010 IT H ET | SKITS | STREL DISCUSSIONS | AND MUC S E C N A M R O DANCE PERF E | QUEER BOOKS | PANE T.PUNE2010 S MERCHANDIS E F /Q M O .C K O WWW.FACEBO T A N O O S S IL MORE DETA free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable Mex In The City: White-Skinned and Brown BY ALIKA 6 Photograph: Alika “Can I talk to your white‐skinned Pe r p l exe d , I re a d e a c h b o tt l e , Recently, I went on a date with a friend?” He whispered in my buddy’s scrutinizing the words that to me handsome Goan. There was a boyish ear as he clutched a drink, swaying to appeared grotesquely inappropriate. “I charm about him as he delicately held the beats pouring onto the dance floor. don’t want to be whiter,” I thought to the shisha pipe between his fingers, In the US, I am brown. My mother myself. lightly touching it to his lush lips. In the moved to California from Mexico at the Currently, there is a face wash dimly lit café, he intimately watched me ripe age of 16 to pick fruit in the fields. commercial that you have most likely w i t h h i s p i e rc i n g l y d a r k e ye s . Standing at four feet and eleven inches, seen. A man waits outside of a club. Laughingly, he taunted me with she embodies the spirit of the small, but Another man exits, clad with beautiful flirtations, sneaking jokes through his feisty Latina. Conversely, my father women clinging to his arms. The man pearly grin brilliantly juxtaposed against towers at six feet and five inches— outside longingly gazes at the fantasy his dark skin. peering over my mother with his blue standing before him. Gleefully, the As I reached over to touch him, he put eyes. other throws him a bottle. my arm next to his. “You are so much Over there, being brown is like a cup of Then comes a series of scientific charts, whiter. I wish I were white like you.” I coffee. No matter how much milk you indicating how the lotion has been told him that he should be proud of pour into the cup, it will never be white. proven to epidermal whitening. The being brown. He did not seem Yet here, I am white. I am the fair end result: the man who once longingly convinced. foreigner. stared into the club with hesitation now So, India. Here I am. A proud Upon arriving to India, I stumbled into a bursts forth with women, confidence, contradiction of a white‐looking store to buy basic essentials. Among and whiter skin. brownish gay Mexican‐American expat the items on my shopping list was face Why would anyone want to erase the living in Pune. wash. After questioning a few clerks brown that is within me? I may not be Whether white or brown, local or who squinted at me as they tried to fully brown. I may not even appear to foreign, I look forward to sharing my make sense of my American accent, be a little brown in the eyes of India. thoughts and stories with you as a Mex they led me to a neat line of bottles. But I am proud of that brown, however in the City. “ W h i t e n i n g . E x t r a ‐ w h i t e n i n g . minimal it may be. I own that brown. Until next time, be proud! Lightening. PowerLight.” It’s my brown. TQC - Nov 2010 free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable (GAYSI): Writer’s bloc free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable BY MJ Photograph by Ankit Chawla 8 Ek myan mein do talwar nahi reh sakti, a Ruswa’s story is action packed. I met English speaking, internet savvy queer very popular phrase you have heard of, for sure. Now one can only imagine the Broom through her, so technically I have known her for much longer. But, community, whereas with Writer’s Bloc we have to dig deep, go regional and be intensity of a given situation, if a teesari that’s as good as a lie. Ruswa and I the voices of those handicapped by talwar is introduced in the very same myan. Stretch a little further and replace were once really thick. Then there was a fall out. And that too, a painful one. language, communication and the technological barriers. the myan with Gaysi’s Admin house. I’m not sure if you all know, Gaysi’s And the funny bit is that the fallout happened time and again. You know Support wise, like any other new venture, it has been a curvy graph. original caretakers are Broom (Talwar how it is, don’t you? You want someone Commitment came from the quarters No. 1) and I (Talwar No. 2). With the commencement of Writer’s Bloc, came to be in your life but find a billion reasons not to. least expected. Those we counted on have a “Do not disturb” signboard up in in Talwar No. 3, aka. Ruswa. This further compounded by the fact that all of us So while on one hand Broom’s and my friendship grew stronger, on the other, place. Some couldn’t be bothered and others were only concerned with are women, doesn’t really help the Ruswa and I wished each other well but what’s to gain. And can we blame cause, and I am certain all men (gay or otherwise) would agree. Yes yes, I can stopped feeling the need to express it. One fine evening, Ruswa called and them? Nope. After all time doesn’t come for free. see that “O” shape forming lips of yours, very soon to be followed by words, mentioned three words; Passion, Literature & Community. And it was But here we are, a few months into our quest, torturing everyone on our “WTF!”. slam dunk for me (& Broom) then & contact list and being proud of it. On I have known Broom for almost three years now. She has been an amazing there. To tell you the truth, working on the good side, we haven’t killed each other just yet. Though there have been friend, an inspiration, super fun and at times an almost perfect replica of an Writer’s Bloc hasn’t been an easy task. And so wasn’t Gaysi when we started times, when the desire has been strong and I will admit my (Hitler possessed) Auntyji, with her “MJ! I told you so”… out two years ago. But the hurdles are To‐Do‐List is to be blamed. (P.S.: My zakham pe namak lagaooing line. But then, we have seen each other’s rough very different. With Gaysi, we needed an audience whereas with Writer’s apologies ladies, sorry for that anti‐ climatic let down. No cat fight for now edges too, especially in the matters related to Gaysi (me going the Nazi way Bloc, we require participation. With Gaysi, we were happy with one‐way but stay tuned). On a similar note, a wise girl once told and mailing out ‘To Do Lists’ Monday ka flow of content, whereas with Writer’s m e – “A l l w e n e e d i s a n e w Monday). Bloc, two‐way flow is its basic essence. With Gaysi, we concentrated on the conversation”, I guess Ruswa and I have just begun ours. www.gaysifamily.com RJ’s Top 10 “This one was long pending… Consider the situation: You have been talking (or say, flirting) with this guy on the phone for last 2 months. You are in love with his husky voice, his sense of humour is directly from laughter challenge shows free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable 2. 1. Just say “Hi”… (no hugging,no handshakes… make sure he feels he’s suffering from the Swine Flu…!!!) 4. and the best part is, he’s reciprocating…!!! Now you just can’t wait to meet him. So one fine day you both decide to meet up and take things forward… You are dressed in your best casuals with an overspray of your favorite perfume and , and a glutton Order like a single don’t pay ! Rupee…!! Tell him you are into 3. Start behaving as ansypansy as you can (Overdo it…make sure he’s EMBARRASSED…!!!) BDSM…(it will scare him out of his wits…or vice versa if HE likes it.) suddenly you notice a man/uncle/dadaji/ zombie/wateva u wanna call him 6. approaching …. You pray with all your heart that he’s not the one…And then as usual, your nightmares turn TRUE…!! HE IS THE ONE…!!! Now there are two things you can do, RUN AWAY or BEAR HIM…and I am damn sure most of us opt for the later option… (I ponder why…???) So here’s a list of 10 things that you can do 5. Tell him you are COMMITTED…!!! e e BEST tim PJs…(Its th those Santa to crack all de s which ma Banta joke of st because you mad, ju us on-humoro the sheer n ey had) character th 7. If the situation becomes unbearable use this “My to insinuate that you’re not interested”. mom just called, I need to 8. ‐ RJ leave”…(It always works, Talk about career, goals, not in the sense that he long term plans….(in the believes you, but in the midst of all these talks sense that he will I’m sure he’ll use one of understand u r not the above mentioned interested) ways to get rid of you) 9. Ask him for Fraaaandshipppp…(he will TQC - Nov 2010 vanish without leaving a trail…!!!) 10. crap…Just Cut the above tings and exchange gree de I’m NOT say “Sor ry du his will save interested”(T a lot of time) 9 free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable The Bubble ‘QUEERING SATURDAYS’ MOVIE REPORT BY AMEY KOLHE 10 free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable The movie follows a group of young Palestinian relationship that is not friends in the city of Tel Aviv and is as viewed favorably by pretty much almost much a love song to the city as it is an everyone in the couple’s immediate exploration of the claim that people in environment. Tel Aviv are isolated from the rest of the The title of the film refers to the bubble country and the turmoil it's going that is Tel‐Aviv set against the through. The movie looks at young background of the political realities of people's lives in Tel Aviv through the Israel. The country's cosmopolitan and point of view of gays and straights, Jews unofficial capital city doesn't have much and Arabs, men and women. in common with Nablus, a city in the It all begins when Noam (Ohad Knoller), Palestinian West Bank which also a young Israeli soldier, serves in the features in the film. reserve forces and meets at a check It doesn't have much in common with point a Palestinian young man called the tense and hateful atmosphere at the Ashraf(Yousef Sweid). Following an Palestinian checkpoints. Actually, it incident during which Noam misplaces doesn't seem to have much in common his ID card at the check point, Ashraf with anything surrounding it. shows up at the apartment that Noam The bubble of Tel‐Aviv allows people to shares with his two roommates, Lulu have a lifestyle which isn't much (Daniela Virtzer) and Yehali (Alon different from what you may expect in Friedman). any Western city. Teenage girls looking The three friends decide to 'stowaway' for Britney Spears' records, a lifestyle the illegally present Ashraf (whom they magazine editor looking for a sexy cover nickname with an Israeli name) and for his next issue, trendy people sitting while Ashraf and Noam settle into a love in trendy cafés discussing trendy things relationship, Yali hires Ashraf at his café, over cups of cappuccino, while those at and Yali and Lulu both proceed to find home are watching the local edition of love interests, too. Pop Idol. It is this bubble that also has All goes well until Ashraf must return the potential to lull one's mind into a home for his sister's wedding. Though in false sense of reality. Tel Aviv, Ashraf has been able to be The Bubble is a political statement about openly gay with Noam, life is far the bubble that bursts when confronted different in Jerusalem: Ashraf is told he with the political realities of today's must marry his sister's to‐be sister‐in‐ Israel set against the background of an law. In an attempt to rescue Ashraf from impossible love story in a divided world his fate, Noam and Lulu disguise where no such things as compromise or themselves as French reporters to gain other colors than black and white exist. access to Ashraf. In a moment of Release: 2006. Language: Hebrew, with supposed seclusion, Noam and Ashraf English subtitles. Duration: 117 mins. are discovered kissing by the groom‐to‐ TQC - Nov 2010 be, and this act gives cause for blackmail ‘The Bubble’ was one of the two in order for Ashraf to remain in the m o v i e s s c r e e n e d a t ‘ Q u e e r i n g closet. Saturdays’ organized by Open Space in The romance between Ashraf and Noam October 2010, the other being ‘If These is doubly taboo. A gay, mixed Israel‐ Walls Could Talk 2’. Open Space is an independent creative public space that allows you to interact, debate and initate change. Open Space hosts queer movie screenings at its ‘Queering Saturdays’, 4.00 pm on the 2nd and 4th Saturdays of every month. For more information visit www.openspaceindia. org or visit us at 301, Kanchanjung Building, Kanchan Lane (Near Krishna Dining Hall) Off Law College Road, Pune. Phone: +91.20.25457371. free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable And Not All That Jazz ... BY AMBIKA RAJGOPAL A brand new column that features music and artists; in definitely not ‘run-of-the-mill’ genres! Portishead P J Harvey Portishead is a trip hop band from Britain, which is the absolute embodiment of Sopor Aeternus in Latin literally translates into eternal sleep and it diffuses it’s listener into a sort PJ Harvey has distorted the gender boundaries and paved way to create a sexual explosion electrification of human emotions. After the success of their debut album Dummy, Portishead of languid slumber, where the music leads you to explore the darkest areas of your being. Anna-Varney Cantodea bares her on the musical front. Her voice exudes raw sensuality, which permeates the emotional boundaries of the listeners. released their self-titled album and the newest one Third, which was received by starry acclaim soul and lets one look into her web of darkness, that is her mind. Her music has been described as PJ Harvey combines old school angst with subtle versatile lyrics. The Eurostar has become a force by one and all. Beth Gibbon’s hauntingly mesmerizing air resonates a darkwave music with a neoclassical bent. The music of Sopor has its roots in Renaissance and to reckon with amongst those who crave to hear perfection within human imperfection. fierce significance and makes the music crawl up your spine and long for more. Gibbon’s smooth fluid vocals and Geoff Baroque music. Cantodea’s tormented music speaks for her and is essentially written for herself and anybody Her lyrics emanate an understated poise that is both sublime and inspiring. PJ Harvey’s music stands for what Barrow’s magic with the turntable makes Portishead weave golden strings of electric else willing to empathize with her. There are recurring themes of death, unrequited love, every thing independent rock strives to be; unusual, confident and individualistic. symphonic brilliance. Portishead draws the listeners into a hypnotic daze, built up by karmatic pain, and spirituality. Cantodea’s cathartic voice pins down and directs the listener to PJ Harvey is straightforward, sassy and sinister in her sexually charged persona. an ethereal atmosphere and magnetic melodies. explore their unseen side, the side that is the most vulnerable. www.youtube.com/ watch?v=W5hpnLIswbQ 12 Sopor Aeternus www.youtube.com/ watch?v=IER0WL65VFA www.youtube.com/ watch?v=BSf2Kznpj4Q free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable Travel : On The Tiger Trail - 2 BY JAYESH PARANJAPE An increasing number of people are Bandhavgarh also offers a chance to waking up to this amazing forest in view wildlife from the back of an Madhya Pradesh and Bandhavgadh elephant. While on a jeep safari, make seems THE place to be to see tigers sure you visit the Rajbhera grasslands The Ranthambhore Tiger Reserve in among so many other attractions in the which is an often frequented spot by reserve. tigers and other animals like Sambar, The place is steeped in history and is Chital and jackals. full of legends. The landscape is filled The park closes from July 1 to October with alternating bamboo and sal 31 for the rains. Alternatively, winters Safaris inside the park are always rewarding. Safaris during early forests, rugged hilly terrain with gorges (November to February) are good, but and steep ridges, grasslands, flowing tend to get crowded. The nearest streams, making it a wildlife heaven. airports are Jabalpur and Khajuraho The history behind the the Bandhavgarh from where jeeps can be hired to drive Fort is still unclear and researchers are to Bandhavgarh. Katni is the most three lakes inside the park – Padam Talao, Raj Talao and Milak Talao are the still trying to find out the mystery convenient rail station which is 95 km behind the lost empires and the battles from Tala. Your hotel can arrange for a fought among the ruins of the fort. pick up from Katni, Jabalpur or Nagpur. Another such legend is the story of www.bandhavgarh.net Shesh Shaiya, a reclining statue of Another tiger reserve worth visiting is Rajasthan is the western‐most refuge of the tiger. The reserve gets its name from the Ranthambhore Fort. mornings and late evenings will guarantee you the sightings and scenic beauty that brochures promise. The perfect spots for bird watching. Another fascinating feature of the park is the banyan trees, some believed to be more than 800 years old. One particular tree near Jogi Mahal (a hunting lodge built by Maharaja of Jaipur) is the second largest banyan tree in India. For s o m e p e o p l e R a n t h a m b h o re i s Vishnu on the Shesh Naag – the seven Ranthambhore. The place starts synonymous to seeing the tiger and hooded serpent. Believed to be carved weaving its magic from the moment truly the park seldom lets you down around the 10th century, the statue is you get down at the historically when it comes to tiger sightings. situated in a water pool which is the significant Sawai Madhopur train Jaipur is the closest airport, and you can TQC - Nov 2010 source for the Charanganga river, a station. rent a car to Ranthambhore which is vital water source for the park. Ranthambhore is one of those few 132 km away by road. But the best way As the water originates from the feet of destinations which offer a chance to to travel is by rail. Sawai Madhopur is Lord Vishnu it is considered sacred and experience culture, history, religion and the closest railway station about 14 km has been undisturbed for hundreds of of course a chance to encounter some away from the park gates. years. exciting wildlife moments. www.ranthambhore.com 13 Santé And Bon Appétit free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable BY CHEF SUBODH BODKE A series in cocktail recipes to help you unwind. Palate tickling delectables for the time-pressed gourmet home entertainer. THAI SWIZZLE Ingredients T ha i le tt uc e sa la d 2 oz Mekhong Thai Rice Rum (or Ingredients substitute for another golden rum) 1 head fresh iceberg lettuce 0.5 oz orange juice 0.5 oz pineapple juice 3 cloves garlic, minced 0.25 oz lemon juice 1 thumb-size piece galangal (or ginger), grated 2 dashes Angostura bitters 1 red chilli, deseeded and fine Splash of grenadine 2 shallots, sliced finely Method Combine ingredients in a cocktail shaker, shake and serve in a tall glass over ice. ly sliced 1/2 cup firm tofu, cut into "matchsticks" OR 1/2 cup coo ked chicken, shredded, OR 1/2 cup cooked baby shrimp 1 carrot, grated or cut into thin strips 4-5 shiitake mushrooms, thin 1 egg ly sliced 1/2 cup shredded red cabbag e 2 Tbsp. fish sauce OR 2+1/2 Tbsp. soy sauce 1 Tbsp. oyster sauce TOPPINGS: 3 spring onions, sliced lengthw ise into matchstick-like pieces 1 cup fresh basil, roughly cho pped if leaves are large Approx. 2 cups bean sprouts 1/2 cup fresh dry roasted pea nuts, roughly chopped or ground 2 Tbsp. lime juice 2 Tbsp. regular soy sauce Method n k or large frying pa Drizzle oil into a wo heat. 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Who can in your diet, the food won't hang resist splurging out on festive foods, around in your digestive system for as enjoying the celebrations while taking a long, which means less of it will be break for a few days? absorbed to eventually find its way This is also the time of year where it is onto your waist or thighs. easy to fall out of your normal exercise 4. Pace yourself routine or eat more than your fair share This applies to the festive season as a of festive treats. So, here are a few tips whole and to each of the big meals you to help you stay healthy (and keep encounter over this period. When those calories in control) during the presented with a table groaning with all festive season. manner of mouth‐watering feasts, the 1. Eat a good breakfast natural response is to heap your plate This may seem counter‐productive, but high with as much of everything you this advice applies to everyday life, so can fit on it. Go instead for more, but why change it over the holidays? Many smaller helpings. Chew slowly and talk people sleep in and skip breakfast to your friends and family. Feasts are by during the holidays. By the time lunch their nature leisurely affairs. Use this to or dinner comes along they're ravenous your advantage and take your time. and cram far more into their mouths This way your stomach will have plenty than they would normally. Kick start of time to register that it's full, which is your day with a sensible and healthy not the case when you scoff down a breakfast. huge plate of food. The bonus is that 2. Drink eight glasses of water a day you'll actually get to enjoy dessert, You should be drinking plenty of water rather than forcing it down out of sense each day anyway. Over the holidays this of obligation. is even more important. We all tend to 5. Exercise drink more alcohol or sugary sodas over The holidays do offer more culinary holiday periods. Of course, don’t deny temptations. But they also offer more yourself these indulgences, but try to opportunities for fun, fat‐burning alternate each ‘bad’ drink with a glass activities. Go for a leisurely swim or of water. If it's a glass of sparkling walk or a relaxing hike. mineral water, with a slice of lime in it, These are just a few tips to help you you won't look or feel out of place. Your stay healthy in the festive season. The head and stomach will thank you the important thing to remember though is next morning. to have fun and enjoy the time no 3. Fill up on fiber matter what you are doing. This is a TQC - Nov 2010 Drink one of your eight or more glasses great time to connect with your loved of water half an hour to forty minutes ones, which can have an amazing before the main meal, along with a benefit for your well being. fiber supplement. You'll feel fuller by Adapted from an article published the time the food arrives, so you'll eat online at www.obesitycures.com 15 free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable Art & Soul COMPILED BY KEITH TQC is committed to encouraging and promoting the creativity of queer & queerfriendly talent. Waswo X. Waswo and Murali Raman, the featured artists, have pledged that 15% of the proceeds on sale of this artwork through TQC, would be donated to ‘Voices Against 377’, a coalition of NGOs and progressive groups working together as a united voice to fight against Article 377 of the Indian Penal Code. www.voicesagainst377.org HER SAREE Waswo X Waswo MALE NUDE 4 Murali Raman “Her Saree” by Waswo X. Waswo is from his wellknown series ‘A Studio in Rajasthan’. This 16”x 24” image is a hand-colored digital photograph on archival Hahnemuhle fine art paper. Waswo X. Waswo has signed the front of this photograph as well as embossed his initials "W.X.W." in the lower right margin. The reverse has been signed and numbered in pencil. The hand colorist, Rajesh Soni, has also signed. Price: Rs 65,000 (Unframed) , Rs 75,000 (Framed). 16 “Male Nude 4” by Murali Raman is a 11.5”x 11” oil painting on wooden board. It is part of a series of seven male nude figuratives. Three of these are larger in size, with full-length figures. For a private review of t h e f u ll s e r i e s, p le a s e co ntact T h e Q u e e r Chronicle. Price: Rs 5,000 (unframed). If you would like to purchase these works of art and would like to connect with the artists, email us at [email protected] Reflections BE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY By ‘20 sumthin artiste’ I’ve seen people so comfortable in their own skin That sometimes I think why people are always fake To this fact even I have been akin But it’s important to be yourself no matter what they say There will be times when you feel lonely Times when you think each eye is looking at you Times when someone in the crowd laughs You feel like he's laughing at you There’ll be times when you over analyze a situation Times when you think ‘Am I doing this the wrong way’ Times when you’ll want to take some measures of caution Find your own way and don’t tell me what to say TQC - Nov 2010 Tell yourself not to listen to them who sense lack Don’t think that he's laughing at you They stare at you and you stare at them back Be yourself, just be YOU. free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable Readers’ Corner Here is what we heard from you on TQC’s October 2010 issue. free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable morning and (I may have said this earlier) it’s refreshing. To have come across what you guys are doing has just made my day. It’s comforting to see that such community building efforts are on. Kudos guys!!!! Keep up the good work.” ‐ Vivek, Delhi “I am delighted to see your magazine. It’s heart warming and inspiring. I am British, but I have many Indian friends, would like to welcome everyone. In a way, TQC as an ezine has worked for us as we now have readers in 20+ countries, which would never have been possible if we were a print magazine, where the logistics of circulation would take way too much effort. So I guess we will continue as an online, for a while at least. We hope that you will continue to remain especially gay friends. It’s so hard in an avid supporter of TQC! India right now, things will change but Jack, India: I am proudly queer and it takes time. Your efforts are part of that positive change. Thank you, I have passed your site on to many lonely gay live in India half of the year and would like to subscribe to TQC India. friends in India. They feel some sense Sameer, USA: Just wanted to know of community from your magazine.” ‐ how can I get access to the e‐ Mr E, United Kingdom m a ga z i n e e ve r y m o nt h . I a m Dear Editor originally from Pune but now settled in US and am thrilled that this is happening in Pune. Let me know more info. ‘TheContradiction’, Mumbai: Do you guys take anonymous posts / entries? The Editor: Hi Jack and Sameer, You I am not out and would love to could join the Facebook page contribute articles and my thoughts www.facebook.com/tqc.india or if you on being gay / bi / curious and speak would like something a bit more it didn't look like it was just the 8th out for the greater good. discrete, you could join the club at one to hit the online shelves. What I The Editor: Absolutely! We publish a “With increasing fascination, I thumbed through this months handsomely designed issue of TQC and like is the featured strong visuals and even stronger writing. This is one of the few e‐magazines for the queer that I find intelligent, focused, lively ‐ and above all, informative. Really appreciate the effort.” ‐ Anand, Pune “TQC is a classy and very readable magazine. The best part is its not this serious liberation screaming mag. It’s like a rainbow with different features, each to his own kind.” ‐ Rehan, Pune “Its so refreshing to see an initiative like this happening here in India. And I am not surprised at the success it is turning out to be. The whole does hold out a ray of hope. I have been going through the issues since 18 lot of our articles under pseudonyms and other than myself, not even the www.planetromeo.com/tqc_india. We send the magazine link out to members every month, once the issue gets published. rest of the team know the true identity of these writers. Privacy is our biggest commitment. So do email us at [email protected] _______________________________ CLARIFICATION: Reference the review of the book ‘Hostel Room 131’, that we ‘Handstohold’, Delhi: I know its an published in the October 2010 issue of online magazine, but would love it if TQC. We would like to clarify that we they were actual printed issues... definitely respect the author as an would love to keep copies in a individual (and will continue to do so) collection! for the pioneering work he has done The Editor: We would love to see TQC in print too someday. However, since for the community. The review was intended as a constructive critique on his current book and was never TQC is 100% non‐funded, financial intended as a personal attack in any economics does not allow us to do so way. On behalf of the magazine I at this point. We do not even charge for advertising in our magazines, as we apologize for any pain this may have caused him. ‐ Keith, Editor ‐ TQC TQC - Nov 2010 free e-books at www.QueerInk.com e-zine copyright applicable
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