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Rams Insider Magazine
By Marshall Klein The first time I saw Georgia she was kneeling in prayer in a Catholic Church in Huntington Beach, California. The occasion was a re-stating of wedding vows between her football coach, Ray Malavasi, and his wife, Mary. I was struck with how serene she looked, almost angelic. The second time I saw Georgia was at a black-tie banquet honoring inductees into the Orange County (Ca.) Sports Hall of Fame. Maybe 1,500 people were there and I was roving through the crowd doing interviews. When I spotted Georgia, I thrust a microphone toward her and said, “How lovely you look tonight….” She took the mic from my hand, looked up, smiled and said, “And how handsome you are, sir.” Interview over. The third time I saw Georgia, she was hiring me away from a major metropolitan newspaper. “You’re going to be my Director of Community Relations. We’re going to do great things.” Some in her organization questioned that decision. “What’s a community relations director? And why do we need one?” one member of her inner-circle asked me. I didn’t know. Twenty years later, I still hadn’t seen a job description and we did remarkable things. Georgia F ro ntiere & Marshall K lein During those years, Georgia touched thousands of people’s lives and uplifted dozens of communities. She would bring Rams Insider Magazine | 49 49-80 Rams 9-14_CS3final.indd 49 9/11/08 3:02:09 PM treach Community Ou s id Bikes for K her team and her resources wherever needed to improve the lives of others, but all the publicity they generated was never her objective. It was all about enriching and improving the human condition. knew the potential reach of the game, and how it could affect the lives of countless millions. Georgia wanted to do good things, but she often exceeded herself. In fact, she did great things. Throwing out the first pitch Georgia was an American original. She looked like one and acted like one. To her, life was theatre and she was the star performer. And what an ensemble cast—from captains of industry to political giants to sporting legends. Georgia moved seamlessly among these headliners, leading with her smile and graciousness, always well-mannered and well-bred. And very, very determined. Her greatest assets were her vision and endurance. It almost seemed, at times, as if she could see into the future. As the owner of a professional football team, she understood the value of international play years before the NFL chose to have overseas games. She Her generosity is legendary. As a humanitarian and international philanthropist, her charity knew no geographical boundary. A list of her beneficiaries would fill volumes. To her, almost every cause was a good one. But the word that best describes this force of nature is “influential.” Everyone Georgia met, she influenced. Once you met her, you never forgot her. You walked away knowing exactly what she thought and what she believed. She didn’t pull punches, and her honesty won C`]\C\jjfejC\Xie\[ By Lucia Rodriguez and Chip Rosenbloom It doesn’t matter if it doesn’t happen…but, it doesn’t happen if it doesn’t matter. You can be tough, smart and feminine—all at the same time. You can do everything you want to do in life…just not all at the same time! Learn from your mistakes and move forward. What do you do when you lose your best friend and your mother at the same time? What if they are the same person? Giving feels better than taking. Never hold a grudge. We miss our mother terribly. We realize there is so much we won’t share together. Her first grandchild’s wedding (which took place in the church where she was baptized). Her becoming a greatgrandmother. We learned so much from her about life, love, trust, giving back and always doing your best. She is with us in every breath we take and everything we do. We’re so grateful for what we did share and all the experiences we had as her children. Stories, stories and more stories. Mom had a million of them and we’d like to share these Georgia-isms with you: Don’t read the sports section of the L.A. Times…EVER! Remember where you came from and be proud of your history (she provided a suite at the home games for her elementary school classmates). It’s OK to let the boys win, or let them think they did! Make sure you are better than any man at what you do…just don’t let them know it. 50 | Rams Insider Magazine 49-80 Rams 9-14_CS3final.indd 50 9/11/08 3:02:12 PM >\fi^`XFe FliD`e[j shall Faulk ar Georgia & M her the admiration of those who agreed with her, and those who didn’t. St. Lou is Georgia was deeply religious and found great comfort in her faith. It got her through difficult times and carried her through her final months. To those who knew her, she was a role model for how faith works. Georgia had faith in many things, and paramount was her belief that she would accomplish her goals, however challenging. The world saw this in play when she chose to bring her beloved Rams back to her St. Louis birthplace and proceeded to overcome countless obstacles placed before her to prevent that from happening. When her business partners tried to block her from moving the team to St. Louis, Georgia held a press conference Stay out of the sun. Never wear pointed shoes. Variety Club and the Rams did relocate to St. Louis, just as their owner promised. That move has since been hailed as one of the most seamless relocations in professional sports history. It was well-planned and brilliantly executed and the team has become a vital part of the community it serves. announcing that she certainly intended to move, and that stopping it from happening was not an option. Think “trying to prevent a tidal wave,” and you get the idea. When her mind was made up, Georgia was unstoppable. But Georgia’s most enduring legacy goes beyond football and lands squarely on her family. Her children, Chip Rosenbloom and Lucia Rodriguez and grandchildren, William, Stuart, Andrew, Lauren, Alexander and Olivia are all inheritors of a life welllived and a job well done. In fact, she announced to the world that “the Los Angeles Rams will be the St. Louis Rams,” standing just a few feet from where the NFL leaders had told her, in no uncertain terms, ‘Hell, no…you can’t go.’ History will note that hell did freeze over Marshall Klein is a former Los Angeles Times sports editor who served many years as a close advisor to Georgia and the Rams as vice president, media and community relations. as a Disney princess (which is what we thought she was during our early years) and as strong as a warrior (which our mom certainly was for all the days of her life).” Don’t let anyone see you cry. Experience life…do everything you want to do. You don’t have to have a bachelor’s degree to have a Ph.D in life! There is not much in life that a long, hot bath can’t make better. Don’t smother or overprotect your children…let them live their lives. They will come back to you. Smile through the pain. Nothing made her happier than knowing that the three of us were friends and that we love and respect each other. She beamed when she talked about this–and she talked about it all the time. She was especially proud of all her grandchildren. One treasured note from her simply says, “Darling, thank you for giving me such wonderful children. Love, Mommy.” With mom, little things went a long, long way. Probably our favorite mom quote came after the Super Bowl in New Orleans. You know, the one we lost. The two of us went to the locker room after the game to console her. We were concerned she would be upset. She approached with arms outstretched to embrace us both and said, “It’s OK, kids, we’re still alive.” Just like you will always be in our hearts and souls. Being our mom’s children taught us so much about life and living as well as the ability to appreciate all the beautiful things that surround us. “You can be as pretty Rams Insider ns Magazine | 51 49-80 Rams 9-14_CS3final.indd 51 9/11/08 3:02:14 PM