The Wedding Issue
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The Wedding Issue
Jun07 1-11-F 7/1/07 11:24 AM Page 1 FASH ION LIFESTYLE ART E NTE RTA I N M E NT JUNE 2007 FREE The Wedding Issue What to Do Before “I Do” City of Love Rings of Romance The Shogun’s Dowry Titan Flexes Its Muscles yellowmags.com Jun07 1-11-F 7/1/07 11:24 AM Page 2 T H E P U B L I S H E R Photo by Debbie Porter F R O M Have you ever wondered why June is considered the prime month for weddings? While June enjoys this reputation, the fact of the matter is that in the United States, more weddings occur in August. Aside from the fact that the weather is more accommodating in June and that there are more flowers in bloom, its reign may have its foundation in ancient Rome. June is named after Juno, the Roman goddess of marriage, fertility and all aspects of pregnancy and childbirth. This month, we feature a number of articles relating to marriage and married people. You can read about the history of marriage that may convince you that – notwithstanding the talk about the divorce rate – we live in the most romantic period in human history. Perhaps that is why more than a third of the 2.25 million marriages that take place in the U.S. are actually remarriages. Yes, we are a society of romantics. And if Paris conjures romantic images in your mind, there are hints of amore on the pages within. We also touch on some practical aspects of weddings that include choices of venues, florists, dress designers, and the bakers of cakes. Or, if you prefer, you can hand over all those decisions to a wedding planner. On that note, I hope you find our Wedding Issue very engaging! Viet Hoang Publisher Jun07 1-11-F 7/1/07 11:24 AM Page 3 The color yellow has played a recurrent symbolic role throughout the history of Asian culture. It symbolizes the earth that sustains all life, yet has been embraced by Buddhist monks as an expression of unchallenged power. Such is the role of yellow: always revered but in different ways under different circumstances. The mission of Yellow Magazine is to introduce our readers to the artistic , fashion, lifestyle and entertainment contributions made by Asian Americans. It is our hope that the depth and breadth of the topics and events we cover do justice to the pride that the color yellow has represented throughout the millennia. As the publisher of the Yellow Magazine, my last name is Hoang, which also means yellow. Just as I am proud of my name, I am proud of my heritage, and proud of Yellow Magazine. Publisher Viet Hoang, President of MV Media Editor Fashion Photographer Henri Merceron Debbie Porter Fashion Editor Stylist Marc Sifuentes Kimberly Delape Arts and Entertainment Director Assistant Stylist Celeste Tammariello Lifestyle Editor Jessica Ritter Travel Editor Matt Sims Contributing Writers Philip Cusimano Vivian Li Creative Director Jeff Martin Social Photographer Edna E. Reyna Hair and Makeup Andrea Schutter Business Manager Karla Montejo Website Leo Sipras Web Marketing Zulu Creative Tina Zulu zulucreative.com Sopheavy Than National Advertising Verve Communications Group 325 N. St. Paul Street Suite 2360 Dallas, TX 75201 214.965.9933 x106 vervecommunications.com Local Advertising 713.528.6000 x103 [email protected] Yellow Magazine 3040 Post Oak Blvd. Suite 1440 Houston, TX 77056 p 713.528.6000 f 713.228.3186 yellowmags.com Yellow Magazine is published monthly. All rights reserved. Reproduction in whole or part of the magazine is strictly prohibited without the permission of the publisher. Yellow Magazine is not responsible for any unsolicited materials submitted. Subscriptions to Yellow Magazine may be purchased for $36/12 issues. Mail check to: Yellow Magazine, 3040 Post Oak Blvd., Suite 1440, Houston, TX 77056. On the cover: Him Armani 3 button suit $1795 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Armani tuxedo shirt $265 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Her Carolina Herrera wedding dress $4490.00 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Vintage gloves @ Saks Fifth Avenue Choker, earrings and bracelet private collection of Kimberly Delape June 2007 Jun07 1-11-F 7/1/07 11:24 AM Page 4 Photos by Sopheavy Than Page Parks’ 25th Anniversary Held at Polo’s Signature Restaurant Yellow Magazine celebrated the May issue release along with Page Parkes’ 26th anniversary. The event was hosted at the new trendy, Polo’s Signature Restaurant located off of HYW59 and Weslayan. Page Parkes introduced their 2007 new faces with a mini fashion show of the latest styles from Muse Boutique and the Factory People. Sephora introduces the new CKN2U cologne by Calvin Klein. Yellow Magazine would like to thank Polo’s Signature Restaurant for providing the delicious food and Lexis Florist for providing all of the beautiful floral arrangements. John Kim, Gordon Quan Paige and Smoot Hull Page Parkes Eveleth, Pamela Tranpark Stephanie Veale, Yolanda Williamson Arnold Vasquez, Kamal Bosamia Tina Hernandez, Sarah Jones Michelle Martinez, Erik Bechtol, Tabitha Garcia Rose Chen, Sally Chen, Phebe Chen Jon Paul, Polo Becerra Ann Cheng, Yuki Rogers Thomas Chen, Julie Nguyen, Willis Chen, Carol Trong Anna Kong, Miya Shay Dikka Afidick, Madelynn Campbell Karla Montejo, Frank Perez Rachel Duran, Viet Hoang, Page Parkes Eveleth Clark Sha, Evelyn Cardenas Mariam and Sue Habib Teresa Mai, Vy Nguyen Jun07 1-11-F 7/1/07 11:24 AM Page 5 Jun07 1-11-F 7/1/07 11:24 AM Page 6 C U LT U R E The Highway to Love and Marriage Vena Amoris b y H E N R I M E RC E RO N We have all seen the depiction of prehistoric marriages where the caveman is carrying a club in one hand while dragging his betrothed behind him by the hair with the other. Did you ever wonder if there was a basis in fact or if cave people even got “married”, for that matter? Perhaps I can shed some light on these questions and other points of interest regarding the institution of marriage throughout the ages. Archaeologists have uncovered evidence showing that cavemen tied grass rings around the ankles of their “wives” as a way of marking their property. Later, the rings were tied around fingers instead of ankles. As you research marriage, you come to the conclusion that our understanding of it is very different from how it actually existed throughout the better part of human history. Whereas, we may be able to excuse the politically incorrect manner by which cavemen laid claim to their women because, after all, they were just cavemen (sorry Geico), the reality is that the very foundation of marriage has centered around political and financial decisions rather than love and romance. At least, this was the case for those who occupied the highest echelons of society and, for all intents and purposes, controlled the civilizations in which they lived. The first civilization to recognize marriage from a legal standpoint was the ancient Egyptians. Although Pharaohs entered into incestuous marriages with their sisters and daughters to preserve the purity of their royal bloodlines, the common folk entered into legally enforceable unions. The marriage contract clearly stated the rights of each spouse and their respective duties. Unlike many other societies throughout history, women were accorded more rights, including the right to divorce. Another custom that was contrary to most other cultures was that it was the groom who offered a dowry to the bride’s parents to demonstrate his ability to support their daughter well. It seems that the land of Cleopatra was more sensitive to women’s rights than other societies. The Egyptians introduced the concept of an engagement, allowing the prospective spouses to get to know each other and test their compatibility. It was at this time that the symbolic meaning of the engagement ring came into being. A circle, which has neither a beginning nor an end, is the perfect shape for a ring that represents timeless and endless love. Further, the reason it is worn on the fourth finger of the left hand is because it was believed that the vena amoris (the vein of love) began there and terminated at the heart. Kind of like a highway to love. In perhaps one of the most interesting tales of marital intrigue and drama, Roman Emperor Augustus adopted rules regarding marriage and divorce that shook the very foundation of his empire. And it all began with Egyptian Queen Cleopatra.Augustus was earlier known as Octavian, cousin to Julius Caesar. He, Marcus Lepedus and Mark Anthony avenged the murder of Caesar after which Anthony aspired to become Emperor. In order to defuse his ambition, Octavian engineered the marriage of his sister, Octavia, to Anthony. Anthony’s love for Cleopatra overtook him and he married her while still married to Octavia. When he divorced Octavia, Octavian waged war against Anthony and Cleopatra who committed joint suicide as an alternative to surrender. In essence, a divorce caused a war. The ordeal with Anthony and Cleopatra is considered to be one of the driving forces that led to Augustus’ various decrees in 18 A.D. that were intended to shore up the social ills he believed were threatening Rome’s longevity. Among the upper classes, marriages were less frequent, fertility was low and adultery was high. In response, he made adultery a crime punishable by exile and loss of property; fathers were permitted to kill daughters and their adulterous partners; husbands had to divorce adulterous wives and could kill the adulterous partners. Higher taxes were assessed unmarried persons and rewards were doled out to those who married and produced offspring. Of interest, most of Augustus’ laws were subsequently repealed as a result of Christian opposition. All, that is, except those that dealt with intermarriages….such as between senators and actresses! Augustus is credited with originating the adage, “Women. Can’t live with The Egyptians introduced the concept of an engagement, allowing the prospective spouses to get to know each other and test their compatibility. 6 | June 2007 them. Can’t live without them.” However, he stated it more eloquently in a speech he delivered to the Senate in support of his Julian Marriage Laws, which were intended to encourage marriage. “If we could survive without a wife, citizens of Rome, all of us would do without that nuisance; but since nature has so decreed that we cannot manage comfortably with them nor live in any way without them, we must plan our lasting preservation rather than for our temporary pleasure.” Hmmm. Not exactly a romantic endorsement of marriage. Some vestiges of upper class Roman marriages have reappeared in modern day weddings.Wedding dresses were usually white (although made of wool); brides wore veils that symbolized a commitment to be married until death and to never seek divorce; and a chain of flowers was worn by the bride (a bouquet, today). During the Warring States period (402-201 B.C.), Chinese scholars authored three books that embodied procedures known as the Three Covenants and Six Rites, the essential elements needed to join two families in marriage. Although the weddings themselves may have lasted several weeks, the complicated set of protocols and bargaining meetings often lasted years. Fortunetellers were enlisted to compare the birth dates of the intended bride and groom to affirm a good match before deciding an “auspicious” wedding date. Although the rituals were simplified during the period to gain more consistent adherence, the central purpose – beneficially joining families to ensure a succession of descendants – remained unchanged.The important parties in the endless transactions leading to marriage were the families of the bride and groom, and not the bride and groom themselves. All across the globe, dowries were being gathered by the families of girls to present to the families of prospective husbands to seal marriages that had nothing to do with love or romance. It had the feel of a horse race on a community level in which everyone was jockeying for the best spot within the social order. It was the primary mechanism by which property and family wealth was preserved and enhanced. It was not until the Middle Ages (1066-1500) that laws were enacted barring the payment of a “bride price” in any form including the exchange, barter or sale of women for goods. “Arranged” weddings amongst the aristocracy continued and involved contractual conditions surrounding the treatment of property and inheritance. It was also during this period (1090-1292) that the concept of romance arose. The troubadours, composed of noblemen, knights and kings from southern France boldly challenged the traditional Christian ideals of love, marriage, manhood, virtue, and femininity. Although their ranks only numbered in the hundreds, their influence sparked a fire that gained momentum in the centuries that followed. Chaucer’s The Franklin Tale (part of The Canterbury Tales written in the late 1300’s) may have provided the first written reference that linked marriage and romance. In 1549, England’s King Edward VI, declared the third finger of the left hand as the “ring finger”, officially recognizing what ancient societies had believed thousands of years before. Weddings during Elizabethan times (1558-1603) most closely resemble what we have today. They included bridesmaids, wedding rings, bouquets of herbs or flowers and the exchange of vows. Beyond this veneer of romance, however, the unions were still arranged and driven by the provision of a dowry, which was considered a wedding “gift” versus an illegal “bride price”. It was not until the Victorian era (1837-1901) that some semblance of choice entered the spousal selection process. When women completed their education at the age of seventeen or eighteen, they were provided new clothes to make them as attractive as possible for their public debuts as eligible prospective wives.Whereas, the upper class mingled in social settings, the lower classes did so at church events. While most weddings were still arranged, women were permitted to refuse their prospective husbands, if they wished. For the most part, the men considered the affair to be one of financial importance because the property of the women they married would attach to them. Again, the overriding focus was financial rather than romantic. It would seem that the institution of marriage as it has come to be known has not existed in the form with which we are familiar until fairly recently from an historical perspective. Notwithstanding the vestiges of the superstitions and rituals that remain a part of such ceremonies throughout many parts of the world, it is safe to say that we live in perhaps the romantic era in human history. Civilization and technology have provided us with many luxuries that our forefathers would have found unfathomable. Whereas, in centuries past, the gifts defined a marriage, today, marriages are defined by love. And that is the gift. Yellow Magazine Jun07 1-11-F 7/1/07 11:24 AM Page 7 Jun07 1-11-F 7/1/07 11:24 AM Page 8 T R AV E L When in Paris Say Je T’aime Paris, France b y M ATT SI M S How can one think about love without thinking of Paris? Imagine strolling the tree-lined streets past quaint cafes on your way to the Eiffel Tower with that special someone. Everything about Paris echoes “romance.” What other city has the same combination of beautiful public spaces, grand fountains, amazing art, and delicious food? And, of course, who wants to buy perfume that was made in Munich or New Delhi? While island vacations are a great honeymoon getaway, sooner or later you have to go to Paris with someone you love. This 2,000 year-old city on the Seine River is the perfect setting to start a new romance or to rekindle an old one. Paris is also one of those rare places that faithfully capture your interest, whether it’s your first visit or your 50th. It’s a vibrant, stimulating city that reaches out to awaken and excite all of your senses, sometimes all at the same time. I suggest you find a nice hotel with the aim of either spoiling yourself rotten or digging into the real Paris that tourists don’t often see. If you want to spoil yourself, check into the Four Seasons Hotel George V or Hotel Le Bristol. Both of these offer luxurious surroundings which would even make Louis XVI envious. One factor that must be considered beforehand, of course, There are far too many interesting places to see and is that a room at one of these bastions of opulence great restaurants in which to dine in this great city, can set you back about $1,300.00 a night. For much less, you can ensconce yourself in a very nice authentic but if it is romance you are after, the following places French neighborhood away from the tourists and should be on your sunset itinerary: get a taste of the real Paris. I like the Hotel Leveque in the Rue Cler neighborhood, as it allows you to • Pont des Arts – Embrace here on the oldest take up residence in a quiet area complete with pedestrian bridge in Paris under which boats rush bakeries, a couple of decent cafés, wine shop, cheese shop, bank, post office, and a place to buy fresh fruits by on the river below while the Louvre and the and vegetables. Absent are long lines of loud-talking French Academy stand illuminated on either end. tourists to disturb your experience. Wake up late in the morning and venture out • Medeci Fountain – Hold hands and make plans in search of the perfect croissant to enjoy with your with the rush of water as your soundtrack in coffee. Don’t forget to greet the shopkeepers with a pleasant “bonjour” before you buy something. this corner of the Luxembourg Garden replete Parisians (Parisiens if you’re French) are very with Greek statues and reflecting ponds. courteous and do not immediately approach the • George V Cafe – Gaze into each other’s eyes at counter to place their order without first offering a friendly greeting.Then, explore the neighborhood this rooftop cafe above a modern art museum at your own pace. This is Europe, after all, and you in the Pompidou Center. A captivating view of need to downshift from the fast American pace to be able to savor the experience waiting for you at the Paris skyline is yours. every turn. Sharpen your eyes and ears to catch • Saint Chapelle – Stand side by side at the the sound and sights that envelop you. Enjoy the occasional musician who plays amongst the soaring stained glass windows and vaulted pedestrians on the sidewalks. I stopped to watch a ceilings of this chapel built by order of Louis the young man and woman playing Bach on the cello 9th and listen to an evening performance of a and violin as the street came to life around them. “This is what I came here for,” I thought to myself. nearby symphony. Within minutes, at least three little old French ladies • The Eiffel Tower – Kiss at sunset and watch as passed me as they walked their poodles. “How French can you get!” I thought. the “City of Light” comes alive as it is lit in a Later, I sat at an outdoor table at Café Du clockwise spiral pattern. Marche and watched people walking. Ready for some inspiration? You should walk from here to the Eiffel Tower, even if you plan to return to view it in the evening.This towering icon known throughout the world as a place for lovers to meet offers different perspectives during the day and at night. Are you ready for even more inspiration? Catch the Metro to the Louvre. Trying to see all 35,000 works of art in one trip is futile so, I would plan on making multiple trips. No matter what time of the day you go, there will be a crowd of people around the Mona Lisa. Ogle her briefly and then enjoy Notre Dame Cathedral 8 | June 2007 Arc de Triomphe the rest of the museum. Linger among the giant sculptures in Marly’s Courtyard, an expansive area lit by natural sunlight through a glass roof in the Richelieu Wing. People will filter in and out, but at times you can feel as if you have the space all to yourself. You will marvel at the incredible detail carved into the stone, especially the musculature of the figures. Search for the Sully Wing of the museum in which you will find the famous armless statue of Venus de Milo. You can expect a crowd parked around it, as well. Although not as old or large, I prefer Falconet’s “The Bather,” another exquisite representation of the goddess. You should still have time for a brief visit to Napoleon’s lavish apartments before you begin to suffer from “museum fatigue.” Whatever you do, take your time and don’t rush. You can always come back. Far too many visitors to Paris make the mistake of trying to run past all the major sites without ever pausing to enjoy them and to reflect. Just like romance, appreciation for a place takes time to develop. Perhaps on another day you’ll want to visit Notre-Dame Cathedral and climb to the top for a great view of the city and the gargoyle statues which guard the roof. It took 180 years to build, and you might feel like the line to climb to the top takes you slightly longer than that, so if you are not prepared for a long wait, just go inside and see the incredible stained-glass windows, ornate sculptures, and other features of this Gothic masterwork. If you still have not seen enough art, make sure you visit the Musée d'Orsay to view the works of artists like Monet, Van Gogh, Cézanne and Gauguin.The ground floor sculpture gallery also houses incredible sculptures by Rodin surrounded by thousands of rose bushes.The Picasso Museum and the National Museum of Modern Art are also fantastic places to spend an afternoon after you have loaded up on fruit tarts and espresso from local cafés. When you feel the need for a taste of authentic Asian food, take the Metro to the 13th Arondissement and sample some of the busy Vietnamese and Chinese restaurants in this distinctive neighborhood. The buildings, shops, and stores are not particularly noteworthy, but when you are hungry for pho, rice, or noodles instead of coq au vin, steak au poivre, and soufflé, you’ll be glad you ventured away from the pretty sites for a taste of something different. At least one day should be reserved for a short excursion to the palace at Versailles to see how even kings can live beyond their means. Take the train and try to arrive by 9:00 a.m. to enjoy the best of the palace interior and the outer gardens. Wandering through the opulently decorated halls and the enormous gardens, you can imagine how Louis the XVI and Marie Antoinette must have felt when they had to leave. Back in Paris by the late afternoon, you’ll probably be planning a nighttime walk down the Champs-Elysées past some of the most famous shops anywhere in the world. Start at the Arc de Triomphe, the monument built in honor of France’s armies, where speedy Citroens now race tour buses around the traffic circle.Then, walk past all the shops including Cartier, Mont Blanc, Bally, and Luis Vuitton. As you continue toward the Louvre, you will enjoy a romantic stroll around the glass pyramid designed by Chinese-American architect I.M. Pei. The courtyard is stunning at night, like so many sites in Paris. If you aren’t feeling the romance of Paris by now, it might be time to take a night cruise down the Seine River. From April to November, a sightseeing cruise leaves Quai de Montebello (at the foot of Notre-Dame) every 30 minutes. There is also a dinner cruise, which departs at 8:30 p.m. for a little over $100 Euros, including the wine. So are you ready to live life to the fullest? Are you ready for romance? Then whisper those five little words that no one can resist, “Come to Paris with me.” Fountain and gardens at Versailles I.M. Pei’s iconic glass pyramid at the Louvre Jun07 1-11-F 7/1/07 10:46 AM Page 9 Jun07 1-11-F 7/1/07 10:46 AM Page 10 C U LT U R E The Shogun’s Wedding Gift Lacquered to Perfection b y VI VI AN LI Until recently, no lacquer cosmetic or dressing set from the Tokugawa royal family existed outside of Japan. The Museum of Fine Arts, Houston has acquired the Shogun’s Wedding Gift, a brilliant 18th century chodo lacquer set. The distinctive aoi Tokugawa crest (the trifoliate pattern enclosed by a circle) marks each piece. During Japan’s Tokugawa period (1603-1867), also known as the Edo period, exquisite lacquer cosmetic and dressing sets were commissioned as bridal trousseaux for women who married into the Tokugawa clan. It was considered the highest honor to become a member of the Tokugawa clan (even by marriage) since the ruling shoguns (generals) were drawn from it. Since the dawn of Japanese history, lustrous lacquerware has been greatly esteemed for its artistry. Floral designs created via the maki-e (“sprinkled picture”) technique, in which gold and silver particles or leaf are applied to lacquer while still damp, richly enhances the grandeur of the Shogun’s Wedding Gift. The set includes numerous components, such as a dressing table, washing basin, mirror stand, cosmetic boxes, brushes and combs. All are in amazingly perfect condition. The lacquer dowry was often nothing more than a means by which wealth and social status were displayed and was not intended for regular use. The set also includes what was an essential component of any 17th to 19th century Japanese cosmetic set – a tooth blackening set. Since ancient times, Japanese aristocrats of both genders blackened their teeth because it was believed to be healthy and deemed attractive. The practice, referred to as ohaguro, became so popular by the Tokugawa period that all married women, regardless of social status, blackened their teeth. The gilt bronze tooth blackening set in the Shogun’s Wedding Gift consists of a long, thin brass plate (watashikane), basin with handles, spouted ewer, and small bowl. A dark liquid made from oxidized iron would be placed in the ewer and set on the plate positioned on top of the basin. It would then be poured into the bowl, mixed with an adhesive powder, and applied to the teeth with a brush. The basin would be filled with water to rinse the mouth afterwards. Much can be learned about what was considered to be ideal feminine beauty during Tokugawa Japan simply by studying this stunning dressing and cosmetic ensemble. Dr. Laura Allen, a reputed scholar in Edo period art, will deliver the 14th Annual Asia Society/MFAH Asian Art Lecture on the Shogun’s Wedding Gift on Sunday, June 3, 2007, at 2:00 p.m. at the Museum of Fine Arts, Houston. Her talk, “Talented and Beautiful, Virtuous and Sexy: Picturing Women in Edo Period Japan” will elaborate on the use of the lacquer chodo and the majesty of its owner as reflected in the set. This important acquisition was made possible by the generous support of Mitsubishi Caterpillar Forklift America, Inc., as well as a number of other distinguished patrons, including Dale and Nanako Tingleaf, the Japan Business Association of Houston, Stephen Hamilton, Dr. Ninan and Sushila Mathew, Keiji Asakura, and Mr. and Mrs. Jesse Lee Dunn III. For more information about the lecture contact [email protected]. Top: Teeth blackening set,part of the Shogun’s Wedding Gift Japanese, Tokugawa period (1603-1868), 18th century Gilt bronze Gift of Mitsubishi Caterpillar Forklift America Inc. in honor of its 15th anniversary; Nanako and Dale Tingleaf; the Japan Business Association of Houston; Stephen Hamilton; Dr. Ninan and Sushila Mathew; Barbara E. Butler; Keiji Asakura; and Mr. and Mrs. Jesse Lee Dunn III Middle: Te-arai [hand wash basin], part of the Shogun’s Wedding Gift Japanese, Tokugawa period (1603-1868), 18th century Wood with gold and silver maki-e designs on lacquer ground Gift of Mitsubishi Caterpillar Forklift America Inc. in honor of its 15th anniversary; Nanako and Dale Tingleaf; the Japan Business Association of Houston; Stephen Hamilton; Dr. Ninan and Sushila Mathew; Barbara E. Butler; Keiji Asakura; and Mr. and Mrs. Jesse Lee Dunn III Bottom: Mirror Box, part of the Shogun’s Wedding Gift Japanese, Tokugawa period (1603-1868), 18th century Wood with gold and silver maki-e designs on lacquer ground Gift of Mitsubishi Caterpillar Forklift America Inc. in honor of its 15th anniversary; Nanako and Dale Tingleaf; the Japan Business Association of Houston; Stephen Hamilton; Dr. Ninan and Sushila Mathew; Barbara E. Butler; Keiji Asakura; and Mr. and Mrs. Jesse Lee Dunn III The Museum of Fine Arts, Houston; Gift of Mitsubishi Caterpillar Forklift America Inc. in honor of its 15th anniversary; Nanako and Dale Tingleaf; the Japan Business Association of Houston; Stephen Hamilton; Dr. Ninan and Sushila Mathew; Barbara E. Butler; Keiji Asakura; and Mr. and Mrs. Jesse Lee Dunn III Jun07 1-11-F 7/1/07 10:46 AM Page 11 Jun07 12-15-F 7/1/07 11:45 AM Page 1 A N T IC I PAT IO N Photographer Debbie Porter Hair and Makeup Andrea Schutter Him Armani 3 button suit $1795 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Armani tuxedo shirt $265 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Her Carolina Herrera wedding dress $4490 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Vintage gloves @ Saks Fifth Avenue Choker, earrings and bracelet private collection of Kimberly Delape Stylist Kimberly Delape Assistant Stylist Edna E. Reyna Location Hotel Derek | Houston Models Sixia Wang Scott Kondziela 12 | June 2007 Yellow Magazine Jun07 12-15-F 7/1/07 11:45 AM Page 2 Him Etro Shirt $340 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Gucci pants $455 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Her Marc Bouwer dress $550 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Vanessa Riley earrings $298 @ Vanessa Riley of London June 2007 | 13 Jun07 12-15-F 7/1/07 11:45 AM Page 3 Him Armani suit pants @ Saks Fifth Avenue Her Slip by Hanky Panky $96 @ Top Drawer 14 | June 2007 Yellow Magazine Jun07 12-15-F 7/1/07 11:45 AM Page 4 Him DG top $895 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Etro pants $360 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Her Pucci top $690 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Pucci skirt $495 @ Saks Fifth Avenue Yellow patent shoes by Christian Louboutin $640 @ Saks Fifth Avenue June 2007 | 15 Jun07 16-24-F 7/1/07 11:42 AM Page 1 E S S E N T I A LS We’ve Searched So You Don’t Have To! 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From creating and altering stunning wedding gowns to ring pillows and accessories, Jenny provides a wide variety of fine fabrics and classic detailing at a location that is easy to find that has an ambiance in which you just know “love is in the air”. Misora Bridal 10613 Bellaire Blvd. Suite A-120 Houston, TX 77072 281.564.7270 misorabridal.com Misora is one of Houston's newest full service bridal boutiques. Nestled just off of the Sam Houston Parkway, it offers a touch of fun and sophistication to Bellaire Boulevard. The boutique is a splash of feminine pink walls in a boudoir atmosphere. Misora prides itself on providing a friendly and pressure free experience. Come let owner Jeannie Truong help you find the gown to wear as you walk down that aisle of matrimony! flowers 16 | Hand Tied Bouquet Elegant Cascading Bridal Bouquet Fragrant Bouquet Designed with blue hydrangeas, pink calla lilies, and sparkling stones to create a stunning bouquet with an abundance of color. 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Available at Gems by Chao. gemsbychao.com 713.626.0431 Hotel Derek photos The Corinthium Kim Son kimson.com Best known for traditional wedding receptions, Kim Son offers five different locations in Houston from which to choose. With more than 25 years of experience, it is safe to say that your wedding reception will be stress free. Kim Son offers you a choice of a traditional 9-course meal or plated meal, full bar service, complimentary valet parking, ice sculpture and champagne for the bride and groom. Food selection determines price range. Space is included. You are advised to make your reservations early. For more information call Tao La at 713.875.4918. Hotel Derek Kim Son Photos by John Ly The joy, the tears, the excitement, the anticipation, the finishing touches and the final moment, how do you capture it all? Wedding photographers vary drastically, so finding the right one could be a big hassle. We have found some of the best wedding photographers in the Houston area to take the load off of your shoulders. These photographers are devoted artists who will make sure that every aspect of your wedding is captured beautifully, so that you and your loved ones can relive those moments again and again. venues hotelderek.com If a fashionable wedding is what you seek, Hotel Derek’s stylish ambiance can seat up to 350 guests or 500 standing guests for receptions. Hotel Derek will be happy to coordinate all the details involved in producing a flawless event, from the ceremony to the reception. Complimentary bridal suite with a bottle of champagne for the bride and groom are provided. Prices range from $2,000 to $14,000. Valet parking only. For more information call 713.961.3000. The Corinthian Photo by John Ly thecorinthianhouston.com For those couples interested in a classic wedding accented by hints of drama, The Corinthian is a full service venue located downtown in a magnificent neoclassical historic building. They provide everything needed to orchestrate the perfect wedding ceremony and reception. The renowned caterers, Jackson and Company, will prepare and serve the food at the reception. The Corinthian recognizes that wedding preparations may be overwhelming so they offer additional services related to assisting you with invitations, floral arrangements, entertainment, wedding cakes, and limousines. The facility can seat up to 550 guests and accommodate up to 1500 standing guests for receptions. Price range is based upon the day, time and date. For more information contact Boyd Bryan at 713.222.2002. planners Have you considered hiring a wedding planner? If not, you may want to reconsider. All you need do is consult family members and friends who have actually planned a wedding. Invariably, they will tell you that it was one of the most stressful times they have ever endured. It is not uncommon for that stress to spread to all involved. Wedding planners, such as Audrey Hu Gonzalez, are experts in preparing for that big day. She knows what works best and what should be avoided. What may take you a hundred hours to prepare will take her much less time. She can direct you to the best place to get the dress you want, the best venue for the reception you want, the ideal caterer or florist, and help with countless other decisions that will be in keeping with your budget and personality. She can help you with the design and theme of your wedding, act as liaison between you and other parties, and even get discounts not available to you on your own. It is so unfortunate when someone is paying large sums of money for a party that they cannot enjoy. Audrey can serve as the person you designate to whom all problems are referred during the wedding, leaving you to be included in all those memorable pictures (with a genuine smile on your face!). The fees charged by wedding planners range from $2,000 to $5,000, not an unreasonable amount to preserve your sanity while allowing you to enjoy the occasion as you should. John Ly Photography Ky Signature 7141 Thrush Dr. Houston, TX 77087 Phone: 832.830.8836 [email protected] johnlyphotography.com 3400 Fannin Houston, TX 77004 Phone: 713.647.8505 [email protected] kysignature.com Mark Chen Photography Sam Yuan Phone: 281.208.MARK(6275) [email protected] markchengphotography.com Phone: 832.309.8026 [email protected] yuanphotography.com toasts Bouquet of Liquid Gold This month, Martell launches its new cognac “Martell Creation Grand Extra”. It is a marriage of fifty and one hundred year old brandies from the renowned Borderies and Grande Champagne regions of France. The resulting bouquet that is formed slowly releases a succession of aromas that have developed over the course of years - dry fruits (figs, prunes, raisins) and oranges, with hints of walnut, pepper and cedar. The taste simply improves with every sip. $299 Available at fine liquor stores. Events by Audrey 281.261.8421 eventsbyaudrey.com June 2007 | 17 Jun07 16-24-F 7/1/07 11:42 AM Page 3 Photos by Sopheavy Than ACC Gala Held at the Westin Galleria “Reach for a Magical Dream”, the 12th Annual Asian Chamber of Commerce Gala, was held at the Westin Galleria Ballroom with over 900 guests. Dr. Paul Chu, the president of The Hong Kong University of Science and Technology and the executive director of Texas Center for Superconductivity at the University of Houston was the keynote speaker. Many guest celebrities were honored, including Yul Kwon, Brian Ching, and Lauren Anderson. Na Li, Yul Kwon Andrea and Tony La Yuki Rogers, Chairperson Jean Wilson, Michael Alvarez Diana Wong, Elsie Huang, Betty and Kim Gee Etsuko Kamo, Consul General Kamo Glen Gondo, Congressman Al Green Ken Chang, Brian Ching, Gordon Quan, CC Huang, Faisal Amin Jun07 16-24-F 7/1/07 11:42 AM Page 4 Jun07 16-24-F 7/1/07 11:42 AM Page 5 P E O P L E Managing the Titan in Property and Philanthropy by H EN R I MERC ERO N Mandy and William Kao William and Mandy Kao are the twin engines that have thrust their real estate investment, development and property management company, Titan Management, to the pinnacle of success. They have achieved a happy balance that dovetails their business interests with their charitable ones. Whereas, William’s passion is in real estate, Mandy’s is in Photographer: Debbie Porter philanthropy. This mix has proven to be a successful model for the couple. Mandy and William Kao William, your passion for real estate ignited at the age of sixteen when you acquired your first rental property. How did this come about? I saw a “For Sale” sign in front of a fourplex adjoining one of my father’s rental properties. I asked him to buy it and he said he did not want any more “headaches”.Then, perhaps half-seriously, he encouraged me to buy it. The down payment was $45,000 and I only had $8,000 from working at the family’s supermarket and shopping center. So, I asked my sister and my father to come in as investors. Having watched my father for many years negotiate with bankers and realtors, I was prepared for the hardball negotiations with the seller. My offer was finally accepted. I shopped for the best mortgage rate but since I had no credit history, my Dad had to cosign.While we owned the property, I handled maintenance, tenant issues and rent collection. After a few years, we sold it at a hefty profit. Mandy, your philanthropic passion also ignited at a very young age. In my teens, I started sponsoring children from third world countries with my Mom’s credit card. I also got my friends to sell our clothes to one another and donated the proceeds to the charity of our choice. Another activity that was particularly gratifying was visiting seniors at nursing homes where I sang karaoke. Community service, whether big or small, has always been a part of my life. Last year, you won an award from ACORN for helping Katrina evacuees living in your apartments. In May, you helped coordinate a “clean-up” in Chinatown with the Asian American Business Council as part of the Keep Houston Beautiful program. What or who inspired your philanthropic spirit? My Mom was my role model for community service as she dedicated her life to serving others. While my Dad was the president of his own company, my mom became the president of a number of non-profit groups and raised a lot of money for the needy. Even today, she continues to be a regular volunteer. Are you working on anything else that is new this year? I just joined the board of the Asian American Family Services, which is the only agency dedicated to serving the mental health needs of Asian Americans in greater Houston and the southwestern U.S. If a client qualifies, he can see a licensed counselor for as little as $20 per session. The agency provides prevention oriented programs as well as ones developed for crisis intervention. In addition, they provide youth, senior and marriage counseling programs. William, tell me a little about Titan Management. We are a privately held real estate investment, management and development firm based in Houston with a portfolio that consists of multi-family, retail and office properties. In the multi-family market, we seek underperforming and under-managed assets in key markets such as Las Vegas, Phoenix, and Houston that we can acquire at attractive prices. We invest our resources to improve landscaping, curb appeal, security lighting, signage and the interior of the units. In other words, we give the property a cosmetic facelift with a new office and attractive models. Mandy is in charge of operations such as human resources, tenant relations, collections, leasing, marketing and promotions. Our most recent projects include developments of Class A office buildings and retail shopping centers which have yielded attractive returns. Therefore, we plan to continue to expand our commercial developments by working with our investors and partners and creating win-win opportunities for everyone involved. Mandy, where did you develop your business skills? In college, I started a real estate investment company and an image consultant firm called Image Etc. The image consulting firm was fun. In addition to helping men and women improve their image, I helped small clothing and jewelry stores increase their sales through customized marketing and promotional campaigns. Irrespective of the business you are in, you have to manage the “4Ps” – product, price, place and promotion. Adjusting a few variables can “make or break” your business. Is your business centered around the Asian community? William: No, we do not own any properties in the New Chinatown. But with an influx of new development along Bellaire, we decided to join the Asian American Business Council to help address safety concerns and to also promote this area, which has such great potential. I am the chairman for the AABC Beautification Committee and we are going to have a contest where the public can help design a landmark Eventually, we hope to have a gateway entrance like the landmark in San Francisco to make Chinatown a hot spot for visitors and Houstonians. Mandy, you offer an array of socially responsible programs/classes to tenants at the apartment complexes you manage such as financial management, job training/placement, GED preparation, ESL (English as a second language), after school and summer lunch programs, and provide information about rent assistance resources. Why? We want to make a difference in each apartment property that we manage. I like to work with tenants who can benefit from the programs we offer, which can literally be life changing. Even if one person improves his or her life from something they learn, it is worth it. Tell us about the “Giving Circle.” It sounds interesting. According to The Foundation Center, 2006 Giving Trends, Asian American/Pacific Islanders (AAPI) represent 4% or 12 million people. However, this group only receives .4% of funding support from mainstream foundations. I have joined with Rogene Calvert of the Mayor’s Office to explore ways to engage the Asian community to effect change within the AAPI community. We are currently looking at a model called a “Giving Circle” that mirrors a social investment club in which individuals combine resources to give to Asian non-profit organizations. We are hoping to increase the number of younger Asians who join this effort by keeping the donation amount affordable. 20 | June 2007 monument for Southwest Chinatown along the Bellaire corridor between South Gessner Road and Beltway 8. Eventually, we hope to have a gateway entrance like the landmark in San Francisco to make Chinatown a hot spot for visitors and Houstonians. Last year, our group, which is comprised of banks, developers and apartment owners on Bellaire, donated more than $100,000 to fund our projects. We have made huge strides with help and support from the public, the City and HPD. Conventional wisdom suggests that spouses should carefully consider working together, lest conflict at the office crossover into the marriage.What are your thoughts about the conventional wisdom? Do you have any sage advice for other couples? William and I have been working together ever since we got married ten years ago.We work well together because, first, we are very compatible. I read a study in college which stated that the number one factor that determines if a couple is going to stay together is not love, but rather, compatibility. Second, we complement each other. Fortunately, we are able to share different responsibilities because my strength is William’s weakness and vice versa. Although I know I am a capable, independent woman, I also know that one household cannot have two heads.Therefore, I have always placed my husband first. The final word is always his and I never nag him or tell him “I told you so”. As a result, our marriage has literally been quarrel free. William: No argument there! Yellow Magazine Jun07 16-24-F 7/1/07 11:42 AM Page 6 The Asian American Business Council (AABC) is holding a design competition to create a Landmark Monument to promote the new Houston Southwest Chinatown. The goal of the monument is to create JUDGING PANEL AWARDS Viet Hoang Yellow Magazine James Chen E-bao Magazine Kenneth Li Chairman AABC, President Century 21 South West William Kao Chairman AABC - Beautification Committee, President Titan Management Edward I. Tsao AABC Beautification Committee a new landmark image that will better define the entrance to the new Houston Southwest Chinatown. Jackson Chang AABC Beautification Committee This will help enhance quality of life and improve Wind Huang AABC Beautification Committee Ken Chang AABC Beautification Committee, City Bank Texas the pedestrian experience along Bellaire Boulevard between Beltway 8 and S. Gessner Rd., while also generating increased public awareness and promoting the interests within the community to provide an environment to attract more businesses and customers to the area. Kevin Yu AABC Beautification Committee, Dreampod Winning entries will be selected based on the quality, creativity and feasibility of presented projects, and clarity in communicating and reflecting the Asian culture. 1st place: $500 cash + Yao Ming autographed basketball 2nd place: $200 cash 3rd place: $100 cash In addition, the winning entries will be featured in Yellow Magazine and E-bao Magazine HOW TO ENTER Rules and regulations, along with the downloadable entry form, are available at www.aabctx.com or www.yellowmags.com/aabc. There are no experience requirements – whether you are a student, architect, artist, or just a creative person with a great idea – you can enter your design. Jun07 16-24-F 7/1/07 11:42 AM Page 7 Photos by Sopheavy Than Shogun’s Wedding Gift Reception Held at The Museum of Fine Arts, Houston The Museum of Fine Arts, Houston, hosted a small intimate sake and sushi gathering in the Asian Art Galleries of the Caroline Weiss Law Building, to thank the donors of the Shogun’s Wedding Gift, an 18th century chodo lacquer set. The acquisition was made possible by the generous support of Mitsubishi Caterpillar Forklift America, Dale and Nanako Tingleaf, the Japan Business Association of Houston, Stephen Hamilton, D r. N i n a n a n d Sushila Mathew, Keiji Asakura, and Mr. and Mrs. Jesse Lee Dunn III. Kazuyuki Oshiro, Keiji Asakura Maeda Yuji, Shibata Masato, Mitsuru Murase Hideaki Ninomiya, Consul General Kamo Miho and Hitoshi Hasegawa Toshi Koseki, Tina Tan Sayoko and Yasuo Kuriyama Sushila Mathew, Susan Rutherford 22 | June 2007 Peter Marzio Steve Hamilton, Linda and John Barrett Yoko Ninomiya, Dale and Nanako Tingleaf Yuki Rogers, Christine Starkman Jun07 16-24-F 7/1/07 11:42 AM Page 8 W I N E You Should Be Seeing Red This Summer The Spanish are Coming! b y P H I LI P C U SIM ANO As I recently poked around the wine market with my antenna ever keen, I noticed an influx of Spanish table wines onto the American scene, an apparent quest to capture a larger share of our wine purchases. Internationally, there is an overabundance of wine and the size of the U.S. wine consuming population makes it a very Some key terms you might find helpful in desirable market in which selecting a wine include the following: to participate. Tinto.... red wine First, some history. Spain is a prodig ious wine Blanca.... white wine producer and has always Crianza.... aged two years, at been a major player, least 6 months in wood i n t e r n a t i o n a l l y. T h e Reserva.... aged 3 years, at least country’s most renowned 1 year in wood export and its best wine Gran reserva.... aged at least 2 years (arguably, one the world’s in wood and 3 years greatest) is Sherry, a fortified in the bottle wine. Unfortunately, the Bodega.... winery best Sherries are rare and difficult to find. On the Cosecha, vendimia.... vintage year other hand, Spanish sparkling wines known as “Cava” are plentiful and have been a major marketing success story in the U.S. as evidenced by the sales volume of major brands such as Cordorniu and Frexinet. Now, it appears that Spain is making a concentrated effort to attain a greater share of the table wine market. I say, “bring it on!” There can never be too much good table wine from which to choose. Some tips to remember: Spanish wines are organized into regions that are defined by specific geographical boundaries where winemaking techniques are regulated. This system is known as the Denoiminacion de Origen, or D.O., and is similar to the Italian D.O.C. and the French A.O.C.The D.O. operates as a quality control mechanism. As you shop Spanish table wine labels you will note the name of the producer followed by a D.O. designation.The most famous and perhaps highest quality D.O. is Rioja. Other registered areas include Calatayud, Campo de Borja, La Mancha, Penedes, Priorato, Rias Baixas, Ribera del Duero, Rueda,Valencia, and Ribeiro to list a few. Each D.O. designation will use the grape types indigenous to its own area to produce the wines. The grape varieties are typically listed somewhere on the front or back labels. The strength of Spanish table wines lies in their red grape varieties, and the best of the lot is Tempranillo. Other red grape varieties include Graciano, Garnacha, Mazuelo, Carinena, Mencia, and Monstrell. The white grape with the greatest availability is Albarino. The governing body of the respective D.O. (the Consejo Regulador) not only determines the grape types to be used but also regulates winemaking techniques such as blending and aging. There is a large selection of these wines on retail shelves with prices ranging from $5.00 to $100.00 per bottle. Spanish wines are also becoming more prevalent on restaurant wine lists. The wines are interesting and many of the reds offer fine quality. Marques del Puerto, Rioja 02 This Spanish red is a Rioja (D.O.) from the Bodega, Marques del Puerto, and is primarily made with the Tempranillo grape. The wine is Crianza meaning it has been aged for two years of which at least 6 months was in oak. This particular cuvee spent a year in Bordeaux type wood containers. The wine offers a bouquet of violets, a teasing hint of red berries with a seductive trace of sweetness. The body is medium with soft tannins. You can taste the soil of Spain as you sip and are left with a soft quick finish that entices your palate to want more. Serve with red meats and medium weight dishes. $12.00 Columbia Crest Merlot Grand Estates 04 Washington state has always produced elegant easy to drink merlot. The climate is just right with warm days and cool nights. The range in temperature from day to night can be as great as 40 degrees. Columbia Crest, whose parent company is American Tobacco, has been producing quality wines at great prices since the early eighties and is a major force in the Pacific Northwest. This offering is very nice, presenting an inviting bouquet of fresh flowers and a well balanced easy to consume body of blackberry fruit with a note of underlying sweetness, “A cool breeze”. Serve with lighter red meats or grilled chicken or simply “chill” by the pool. $9.00 Palandri Chardonnay Western Australia 04 This winery is located in the highly regarded western region of Australia where many believe the best wines are found. And, of course, in the “Down Under”, Aussie winemakers are well known for their craft and craftiness. They do what it takes to get the best out of each and every vintage. This chardonnay presents tropical fruits with a whisper of cream bulked up by pervasive notes of French oak. The wine is medium bodied, with a mouthfilling taste that is quite substantive. A very good wine that should pair well with seafood $12.99 Wines available at Spec's Wines, Spirits, & Finer Foods, various locations. Visit specsonline.com for the store nearest you. Jun07 16-24-F 7/1/07 11:42 AM Page 9