William Ashley
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William Ashley
Published since 2006 William Ashley His Passion for Photography Turned into Generosity MauMag.com October, November, December 2013 - Volume 8, Issue 2 Seamlessly connect your hearing aids to TV, cell phone, and MP3 music player. from the publisher Quite often I receive email messages and telephone calls from Maumelle residents who have information that they would like to see published in MauMag. Although some of the subject matter is worth publishing, I must sometimes turn it down, sometimes because of space, but often because MauMag is a quarterly publication and the news item(s) or subject matter offered in these communications become quickly outdated and can be classified as ‘old’ news, With this in mind, I am happy to announce the newly developed web magazine “TheMaumellian.com.” Logging onto “themaumellian.com” will bring you up-to-date information that is all about Maumelle. You will be able to learn about local events such as the Maumelle Expo, City Codes, what new books came to the Maumelle Library, how to plan a successful garage sale, listing of City Building Permits, what’s happening with The Arts, adopting a pet, local sports, Chamber of Commerce activities, contacting city officials, personality profiles, featured businesses, community matters, and a lot more. TheMaumellian.com is a MauMag sister publication. Its emphasis is on all matters that are uniquely Maumelle. The web magazine will be updated as fast as the information filters in. Your comments and suggestions are welcome when sent by email to [email protected]. I encourage you to “stay in touch.” Best wishes, Roger A. Frangieh Publisher/Editor MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 Quotes of Note 04 I went to a restaurant that serves “breakfast at any time”. So I ordered French Toast during the Renaissance. Stephen Wright Maybe this world is another planet’s Hell. Aldous Huxley Why do they call it rush hour when nothing moves? Robin Williams (as Mork) There are no facts, only interpretations. Friedrich Nietzsche Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake.” Napoleon Bonaparte I like the dreams of the future better than the history of the past. Thomas Jefferson As a child my family’s menu consisted of two choices: take it or leave it. Buddy Hackett Before I refuse to take your questions, I have an opening statement. Ronald Reagan Procrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday. Don Marquis I buy expensive suits. They just look cheap on me. Warren Buffett My one regret in life is that I am not someone else. Woody Allen Fashions have done more harm than revolutions. Victor Hugo I don’t believe in the after life, although I am bringing a change of underwear. Woody Allen Men are liars. We’ll lie about lying if we have to. I’m an algebra liar. I figure two good lies make a positive. Tim Allen Television has changed the American child from an irresistable force to an immovable object. Laurence J. Peter Since 2006 Publisher/Editor Roger A. Frangieh Publisher/President RAFIMI Publishing LLC RAFIMI Advertising & Strategic Marketing [email protected] Samia M. Frangieh Copy Editor Graphic Design/Photography Roger A. Frangieh To Advertise in MauMag 501.960.6077 By email [email protected] Writers & Contributors Christie Brooks, MS, RD, LD Scott Deaton Ken Forrester Linda Kennedy Cary Maddox Amanda H. Mercer Shannon Odom Austin Pittman Pam Rudkin Marion Scott Harding Stedler Roger A. Frangieh Jonathon Cross Carolyn Drane Dr. Bryson Howard, Au.D. Mary Lester Michelle McCon Candace S. Millwood Kricia Palmer Robyn D. Rektor Dr. Lauren Schluterman Mary Ann Stafford, EdD Kathy Wheeler Inquiries & Subscriptions Subscription is $19.00 for one year. Single issues are available upon request for $5.00 Send address changes to RAFIMI Publishing P O Box 13303 Maumelle, AR 72113 For subscriptions and other inquiries, please call 501.960.6077, or e-mail us at [email protected] MauMag (Maumelle Magazine) is published by RAFIMI Publishing LLC. All contents are copyrighted and cannot be reproduced in any manner - including by electronic means - for any purpose without written permission from the publisher. in this issue From the Publisher Humorous Quotes e.mail to the editor 04 04 Cover Story William Ashley 08 Bryan A. Austin, D.D.S. 14 Family in Harmpny 16 Drawing with Zentangles20 Time Management 22 Pet Obesity 24 Be Careful what You Ask for 25 Interior Design How to Overcome Common Design Dilemmas The Real Stuff That Old Bridge Poetry - Reaping the Rhythms 30 32 32 34 35 Rules of Golf Why Gluten and I Are No Longer on Eating Terms: My Journey to GF36 Fitness & Health 37 Healthy Tips for the Typical Holiday Feast 37 Impact of Hearing Loss on Communication 38 HIIT-High Intensity Interval Training39 He Loves Her 40 Grandpa Comes Home 41 Dear Editor: Acts of kindness often don’t make the news. And frankly, folks, I’m growing weary of TV shows named Bad Girls and news stories about misbehaving youth on spring break! But an act of kindness was given to me recently in Maumelle’s Starbucks. As the young man, the manager, asked for my order I chatted with him about the recent loss of my little doggie, Nilly Dog. She had to be sent to doggie heaven, for she got very sick and her liver was shutting down. A faithful companion for a long time, she was 18 years old. My order at the counter was a vanilla/hazelnut coffee and a slice of lemon icing lemon pound cake. When the handsome young man gave me my order, he said tenderly, in observance of my recent loss and to offer his condolence, the order was on him. I was overwhelmingly touched with the thoughtfulness the young gentleman showed to me. (But don’t scam this folks, okay?__ it could have been done especially for me) Now people, this action of kindness has no bounds. Our current pop culture has a saying, PAY IT FORWARD ... well, you know that’s not original, albeit it is a good way to put it for our current generation ... the saying has been around for centuries ... perhaps you’ve heard it ... DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE THEM DO UNTO YOU ... the Golden Rule, if you will. I challenge you this day to work this kind of thoughtfulness every day you find a chance to do so ... ye, even unto the animals ... This young man sowed seeds of kindness which will PAY FORWARD. Starbucks, hang on to this fellow. Marsha Allen Maumelle 06 Maumelle Photography Club 42 It’sNo Longer Just Prints 44 For the Love of Coffee 45 German Wine Nomenclature46 The Beach Penguin 48 Recipes50 Advertisers Index53 Connections “Market Place.” 53 Book Review with Pam Rudkin The Dinner by Herman Koch 54 54 Cover Photography by William Ashley Design by RogerA. Frangieh www.MauMag.com MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 Photography 07 William Ashley... His Passion for Photography Turned into Generosity By Candace S. Millwood, Communications & Media Director or Arkansas Hospice WilliamAshley 08 ighty-one years ago, an 8-year-old boy by the name of William Ashley worked at a little neighborhood drugstore in Dallas, Texas. Every day he sat on his stool by the front door and watched as people came into the store, grabbed a piece of candy for a penny, and dropped their film off to be developed. When they made their way back in to pick up the prints, the excited young lad would exclaim, “Let me see your pictures!” He always wanted to know what they were photographing. “I remember thinking how great it was,” Ashley said. “And I thought, ‘I ought to do that.’” And that’s when his love of photography began. William Ashley, affectionately referred to as “Mr. Ashley” by his friends at Arkansas Hospice, was honored with a special surprise ceremony on Thursday, August 1, 2013. The Towbin Heritage Society recognizes those who make special provisions in their wills or estate plans to support the organization. Mr. Ashley joined the society after Arkansas Hospice cared for his wife, Alice, in 2001. Since that time, he has helped the organization enhance its mission through various types of gifts, including his photography. His nearly 400 donated prints of flowers and landscapes brighten the walks of all of the Arkansas Hospice inpatient centers and offices. “It was beyond my capability to give Alice the care and treatment she deserved during the final days of her life,” Mr. Ashley said. “Alice was treated with such kindness and love. She was made comfortable and pain free.” Mr. Ashley and Alice met on a blind date during World War II. Both were in the military and, at the time, Mr. Ashley, a bombardier, was being trained on the B-24 Liberator in Walla Walla, Washington, in preparation to go overseas. “My next door neighbor, we called him ‘Pimples,’ came over one night and said, ‘I’m going to meet my girlfriend and she’s bringing a friend. Want to come along?’ And I said, ‘Yeah, I got nothing else to do.’” Little did Mr. Ashley know that on that night, he would meet his future wife. www.MauMag.com MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 E Bill & Alice Ashley Continued on Page 10 09 right up there with the first two.” Mr. Ashley’s second happiest day reignited his love of photography. “I started making pictures of her and all the places we lived and went,” Mr. Ashley said. “I have so many albums of baby pictures … that kind of stuff. You know, growing up.” It wasn’t until later in life – after developing Parkinson’s disease – that Mr. Ashley’s focus in photography switched to flowers, which is what he is most famous for photographing. “I’d never really concentrated on flowers before, but when Parkinson’s set in, I couldn’t hold a camera anymore,” he said. “I had to start using a tripod.” Mr. Ashley’s photos line the halls of Arkansas Hospice’s offices across the state, but none make more of an impact than his canvassed pieces at the organization’s Ottenheimer Inpatient Center at St. Vincent Infirmary Medical Center in Little Rock. The bright, colorful flowers breathe life into the center by giving it a more homelike feel – the opposite of most sterile-looking hospital units. On a daily basis, his artwork helps Continued on Page 12 10 “I remember Fred Waring, an old big band leader, was playing at the dance hall down in Walla Walla that weekend. I didn’t dance, but I loved music,” Mr. Ashley said. “We sat up in the balcony and listened to the music. Come time to close, I walked her back home and asked if I could see her again. She replied, ‘Only on one condition – you don’t talk about Texas anymore. I don’t want to hear another word about Texas.’” He agreed, even though some may have considered Texas his first true love from all of the photographs he had taken throughout the years. “If it moved or were to stand still, I photographed it,” Mr. Ashley said. “Everything. Statues. Buildings. Houses. The High School. Cars. I just went crazy.” It wasn’t long after their first date that Mr. Ashley sold his military overcoat and bought Alice a diamond ring. They decided to wait until the war was over to tie the knot. Mr. Ashley’s love of photography – like his desire to marry Alice – would have to wait until he returned home from battle. During the war, there were no cameras or film allowed. When the war ended, Mr. Ashley was sent to a staging area in Fort Meade, Maryland, located just outside of Washington, D.C., where Alice was stationed at the time. “I went and got a marriage license and then told her that I was back,” Mr. Ashley said. “It was Friday afternoon. I remember telling her that we should get married tomorrow because I already had the marriage license and the preacher lined up.” Believe it or not, she said OK, and the coupled were married the next day – Saturday, June 9, 1945 – a moment Mr. Ashley refers to as the happiest day in his life. “I told them this event they did for me was the third happiest day in my life,” Mr. Ashley said. “The second was when my daughter, Nancy, was born. Third was this one – it ranks www.MauMag.com MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 William Ashley...Continued from Page 9 11 With Allstate life insurance, love wins. MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 patients and families feel more at ease. To pay tribute to his impact on Arkansas Hospice, the organization dedicated its Foundation office suite in honor of the Ashleys. A wall in the office adorned with a recognition plaque and a collection of Mr. Ashley’s floral photography was unveiled during the event. “I love all of you,” a surprised and humbled Mr. Ashley told the crowd gathered to show their gratitude. “I hope I live a long time and keep helping as long as I can.” 12 Candace S. Millwood Communications & Media Director for Arkansas Hospice Matt Black (501) 851-1038 3201 Club Manor Dr., Ste E Maumelle [email protected] Life insurance offered by Allstate Life Insurance Company, Northbrook, IL, Lincoln Benefit Life Co., Lincoln, NE and American Heritage Life Insurance Co., Jacksonville, FL. In New York, Allstate Life Insurance Companyof New York, Hauppauge, NY. © 2009 Allstate Insurance Company www.MauMag.com William Ashley...Continued from Page 11 I can help you protect your growing family at an affordable price. As your family grows, so does your need for life insurance. The right coverage can help keep them financially secure. Call me for affordable options. 13 Bryan A. Austin, D.D.S. Celebrating his Twentieth Anniversary of Service in Maumelle By Marion Scott MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 I 14 t was a lucky day for Maumelle in 1993 when Dr. Bryan Austin set up his dental practice here. Having received his undergraduate degree from UCA, Conway, and graduating from Baylor College of Dentistry in Dallas, he had been visiting in Maumelle off and on with his sister, Debbie Hedden, while he searched Little Rock for a practice to join. Austin had no intention of opening a practice of his own, but fate intervened when his sister mentioned that one of the two local dentists, Dr. Falkoff, was moving out of the area. Falkoff’s office on Edgewood near the existing EZ Mart was set up as a dental office. It was centrally located. It was in a town where he loved the sense of community. His only concern was that the population of 6000 could not support two dental offices. Opportunity was knocking, though, and always looking for a new challenge, Austin borrowed sixty-five thousand dollars from Twin City Bank and jumped in. His sister, a trained medical technologist, offered to work with him until he got on his feet. He feared that so enormous a sum would never be repayable. He lost twenty pounds in six months, but drove on. Just three years later, he purchased the property where his existing office sits and opened his new four-operatory facility. He expanded to six, then to eight. He now has a 9 operatory facility and room for one more. He has a staff of 14. Although his sister has long been convinced that he is firmly on his feet, she has M arion Scott has been a resident of Maumelle since 2006. Retired, she enjoys gardening and running. She finished her eighth marathon this spring. Marion also enjoys volunteering with a special passion for senior education and activities. You may contact Marion at: [email protected] continued to work in his practice, now primarily on the financial end. Sister Debbie was the first in the Austin family to obtain a college degree. Bryan Austin always loved math, biology and chemistry and knew his life’s work would involve those elements. While in college, and during a doctor visit, he asked his physician if he liked his job. The doc answered, “Yes, but if I had it to over again, I’d be a dentist.” A short time later, during a dental appointment, Bryan asked his dentist if he liked his job. The affirmative answer was all it took and the future was set. Dr. Austin chooses to practice general dentistry rather than specializing. Specialists can only work within their specialty, whereas in general dental practice, the doctor is limited only by what he is unwilling to learn. In fact, general dentistry makes up about 70% of Austin’s practice while cosmetic and orthodontics makes up the other 25%. He talks enthusiastically about the love of expanding his knowledge and possibilities available within the craft. Some of his diversification arose from customer requests, such as orthodontics, but others out of a desire to truly help others. He talks about his help for those who have sleep apnea. He cannot diagnose apnea, but he can make and properly fit the appliances that provide relief. The State requires dentists to stay current in their professions with 40-50 hours of continuing education. Austin usually has two to three hundred hours every two years. He enjoys flying his own plane to seminars all over the country. His goal is to practice every element of dentistry available anywhere. He researches diligently and even challenges his staff to discover anything they don’t do. Then they do it. Austin brought in his first associate in 2004, Dr. Clint Fulks, who has since opened his own practice, mirroring his mentor’s in many ways. His current associate, Dr. Julia Gildon, while practicing in Texas, had been to a meeting at Austin’s office in Maumelle. She followed her husband’s work to the Little Rock area and began talking with Austin about an opportunity. He said that everything just fell into place like it was meant to be. Clint left on Friday, Julia started the following Monday like she’d been a member of the team all along. Asked about his business philosophy, Bryan Austin says, “We are a constant beta project, ever-changing, ever-evolving. I am never satisfied with the status quo.” He leads a team huddle every morning. They talk about what happened yesterday and what is going to happen today. Is there a team member that deserves special recognition? Does anyone need anything? Is everyone doing well? Asking those questions assures that every day starts out on a positive note. He closes the meetings by asking for prayer requests and offering an inspirational word or motivational comment. The meeting ends when he says, “Let’s have fun.” The staff meets again for a group lunch on Wednesdays with a brief business discussion for dessert. The goal of the entire group is to provide a WOW experience for every patient. Dr. Austin shares his craft with those less fortunate. He has never refused to treat a child because of financial hardship. He donates to and participates in many of the service groups in town. He provides free labor to the Maumelle Senior Wellness Center’s dental program for low income seniors. Among his favorite events is the Mission of Mercy, set up by the State Board of Dental Examiners. Penurious individuals line up well before the event. As the dentists arrive, the waiting members of the crowd shake the volunteers’ hands and utter words of thanks. The recipients are so very appreciative of the help and express that appreciation verbally and with many hugs. The entire event is immensely gratifying for Austin. So what will the future bring for this man of seemingly limitless energy? Dr. Austin has a goal of opening other dental facilities, possibly one a year. While there are many excellent dentists, not all possess the acumen or desire to develop the business end of a practice. Austin’s proven business methodology provides an excellent foundation for these new practices. The first such satellite office will open in December or January at 11211 Cantrell Road, just west of the Highway 430/ Highway 10 interchange. Austin hopes to lend a hand to the resident dentist, Dr. Bradley Crossfield, half a day a week until the business gets up and running. Dr. Crossfield has been working here with Austin part time as they anticipate the new venture. Golfer, hunter, fisherman, musician, pilot, philanthropist, and extraordinary dentist, Austin is always looking for the next challenge or opportunity, filling the entire spectrum of current and future dentistry. Truly, it was a lucky day for Maumelle when Dr. Bryan Austin set up his dental practice here exactly twenty years ago. www.MauMag.com His Practice Makes Perfect (Smiles) 15 By Linda Kennedy MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 T 16 here is something truly special and refreshing about families that make music together. In past centuries before the advent of television, computers, and the host of technological gadgets currently available, I imagine families connected with each other in more sociable and creative ways than many do today. This past year at an MMTL (Maumelle Music Teachers League) Weekend Concert we who attended had the pleasure of hearing the Lance family (Steve, Rachel, and Harry) perform in the folk tradition on a lap dulcimer, fiddle, and hammered dulcimer. Not only was I moved by the mesmerizing sound (and sometimes toe-tapping energy) of their ensemble, I was also touched by the artistry in their rendering of some timeless, familiar tunes. I wanted to hear the story behind their musical journey, and I am so glad to have this forum to share it with you. Steve, the father, has been involved in his children’s music education since Rachel, who is entering tenth grade this year, started playing piano at the age of five at the UCA Community School of Music. He says that her first teacher, Donna Jean Glasgow, taught in the Suzuki method, and her early instruction as to regular practicing, thorough preparation for lessons, attention to technique, and performance gave their family the musical foundation they still rely on today. Rachel’s grandmother bought her a lap dulcimer (a McSpadden, made at the Dulcimer Shop in Mountain View) when she was in third grade. Thus began their venture into the musical folk world. Mentoring dad that he is, Steve began Rachel Lance taking dulcimer lessons along with Rachel from David Peterson in the Springhill community. Lessons are held in a log house that David built himself. During the lessons, David would often accompany them on a hammered dulcimer, and it wasn’t long before Rachel’s interest shifted from the lap dulcimer to the hammered dulcimer. Her dulcimer is one of the many he has crafted over the years. (His dulcimers can be viewed each year at the Arkansas Craft Guild Winter Showcase at the Statehouse Convention Center in Little Rock. Rachel and Harry attend each year and play music for the crowd.) L inda Kennedy has taught music through the piano and theory/ composition in her independent piano studio in Maumelle for the past 22 years. She is also organist/accompanist at NLR First United Methodist Church. Linda may be contacted by email at [email protected]. In addition to her dulcimer playing, I was especially enthralled by Rachel’s fiddling and was not surprised to learn how much work has gone into developing her fine intonation and technical skill. I can see how she can be so successful in both the folk and classical genres with her violin/ fiddle! She began Steven Lance playing violin in sixth grade in the Conway Schools Orchestra and has studied violin privately as well since that time. Her current teacher is Drew Irwin of Little Rock who is also a Concert Master for the ASO (AR Symphony Orchestra). She has also studied fiddle and mandolin with Tim Trawick through the UCA Community School of Music. At the moment, she is really enjoying orchestra and plans to spend more of her practice time on the violin. During the summer, she practices her instruments for about two hours a day, but when school is in session and homework beckons, she is lucky to find an hour or 45 minutes. The family’s folk repertoire is now fairly strong, and she can just step in to participate easily. She says she loves the structured nature of classical training, but it is so much fun to play folk, too. She attended a one-week summer session at the Arkansas Craft School in Mountain View this summer and made a ukulele which she will, no doubt, incorporate into the family ensemble. Her favorite tunes on dulcimer are those that are fast and showy, especially those in which the hands cross back and forth. “It’s kind of fun to show off a little that way,” she says. “By the way,” she tells me, “it is much harder to play softly and slowly!” (And, by saying that, she is telling me that she really knows what artistry in music is all about.) Harry, a fourth grader this year, joined the musical bandwagon by Harry Lance beginning piano lessons with Suzuki teacher, Pam Werner of Maumelle, when he was in first grade. Soon he began lap dulcimer lessons and moved quickly on to the hammered dulcimer. His first public performance was on his eighth birthday at the monthly meeting of the Little Rock Rackensack Society at the AR Arts Center. He spends about two hours each day practicing piano and will be starting guitar lessons soon. He loves playing folk music because he says that is just “having fun!” Another nice perk is how easy it is to bring folk instruments to places you want to perform. They’re very portable! I wondered what musical background this patient and Continued on Page 18 www.MauMag.com Family in Harmony 17 MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 Steven Lance at the Lap Dulcimer with daughter Rachel on the Fiddle and son Harry on the Hammer Dulcimer. 18 supportive father brought to the table at the outset. It turns out to have been an ongoing learning experience for him, as well. Other than some piano lessons when he was in his twenties (although he didn’t get very far, he says), his lap dulcimer lessons were really the beginning for him. According to Steve, the lap dulcimer (also known as the mountain dulcimer) is quite easy to learn. A traditional American instrument with a sad sound, it was popular after the Civil War. Steve says that even farmers with rough, calloused hands could get a tune out of it. Two of its three strings were drones, and the third was easy to play by following the frets. A fourth melody string was later added for more sound. There was a resurgence of its popularity in the 1970’s. I’m sure you’re wondering about Mom at this point, as did I. In Mom, Dee, we find the usual support system (often the CEO of a family!), the loving audience with a thoughtful critique when needed, and one who also helps drive the children to lessons! Steve attributes many of their playing opportunities to David Peterson and his wife Donna (who incidentally were also the founders of the Arkansas Country Dance Society a number of years ago). They recently performed with the Petersons and some other dancers at the Faulkner County Library for its Sunday at the Library series. Not only was it a tremendously fun afternoon of singing, hoedowns, classical tunes, clogging, and waltzing, it was also a landmark occasion – Harry’s first paid gig! I wondered if they’d had any gigs that were not remembered quite so fondly (as most musicians do). They had a good time going down memory lane to an engagement at a venue at which they were to play as folks walked or drove by viewing Christmas decorations. They realized quickly that this was a crowd that did not appreciate their style of music, and, to add to the drama of it all, they had been relegated to a metal shed over a dirt floor. On top of all that, it rained steadily, and the roof leaked. With indomitable spirits they played their hearts out to the end and then cleaned up, dried out, and headed home. One of their most memorable experiences was playing for a memorial service at the Episcopal Camp Mitchell on top of Petit Jean Mountain. The deceased had loved folk music, and, as requested, the Lances provided upbeat standard tunes including some from the sacred repertoire. “We were so touched by the spirit of the people at this service, and it meant a lot to us to be able to be part of it through our music,” said Steve. Since the folk tradition for centuries involved the passing down of tunes more by ear and memory rather than notation, I asked how they find and learn new tunes, especially since Harry and Rachel are good readers from their classical training. It turns out that even the folk genre has its own fake book, The Fiddler’s Fake Book, a collection of good standard tunes. Rachel adds that they also learn from sheet music or even by going to YouTube. Their teacher, David, also introduces them to other tunes, some international or more recent such as Farewell to Chernobyl, Ashokan Farewell, Wizard’s Walk, Stone’s Rag, Creole Bells, and Jerusalem Ridge. Steve adds, “Our repertoire of folk tunes has given my children a firm grounding in their American heritage. Most of it is not mainstream music, but much to their credit, the tunes are simple, beautiful, and deeply rooted. If listened to carefully, they help us understand the lives of this country’s settlers. Some great examples are Blackberry Blossoms, Devil’s Dream, Tam Lin, Drowsy Maggie, Childgrove, Trials, Troubles, and Tribulations, There Is a Fountain Filled with Blood, My Own House Waltz, and Redwing.” I asked Steve why he has taken such an active role in his children’s musical experience. He quickly answers, “I treasure the opportunities I have had to play music with my children, strumming background chords as they play. Actually, performing is just the tip of the iceberg since we spend many, many hours practicing together. That is one thing that Suzuki taught me as a parent from our first lessons with Donna Jean Glasgow and her insistence that we, as Suzuki parents, are the musical coaches at home. We don’t just send our children to another room to play; we are part of the practice. As folk musicians we practice a lot, and I can’t think of a better way to spend time together.” The Lances are immensely grateful to their music teachers. Steve says,” Good music teachers are much more than just a ‘music teacher.’ They become our children’s friends, mentors, and extended family. A good music teacher is also a builder of good character, and we have been fortunate to have our children shaped by such devoted teachers and deeply good people.” Steve, Rachel, and Harry have provided audio files of some of their favorite tunes for our listening pleasure. The audio files can be accessed at MauMag website: http://www.maumag.com/the_arts.htm . “They Will Know We Are Christians by Our Love”--Harry “Homage to Dorothea”—Harry and Steve “John Stinson #2”—Harry and Steve “Stone’s Rag”—Harry and Steve “Ashokan Farewell”--Rachel “Back Up and Push”—Rachel and Steve “Cantares de me Tierra”—Rachel and Steve “Blackberry Blossoms”—Rachel and Steve “Ookpik Waltz”—Rachel and Steve “Flowers of Edinburgh”—Harry, Rachel, and Steve “Arkansas Traveler”—Harry, Rachel, and Steve The tunes will remain on the website until December 31, 2013 www.MauMag.com Family in Harmpny..Continued from Page 16 19 Drawing with Zentangles: A Meditative Activity that Anyone Can Do By Mary Ann Stafford, EdD The art of Zentangle was developed in 2005 by Maria Thomas and Rick Roberts. Rick was a former Buddhist monk, and he saw this type of drawing experience as meditative. Maria is a calligrapher and had been doing illuminated manuscript-type drawings. The two of them MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 M 20 ary Ann Stafford taught visual arts, humanities, and English at Pine Bluff High School for many years before becoming an Assistant Principal. She retired from the Arkansas Department of Education in 1993. A teacher and an artist, she exhibits regularly and teaches drawing at the Arkansas Arts Center and the Maumelle Senior Wellness Center. Dr. Stafford holds signature membership in Mid-Southern Watercolorists, the Pastel Society of the Southwest , and the Arkansas League of Artists. Her art can be seen at Eurekan Art in Eureka Springs and Gallery 221 in Little Rock. Web sites are www.staffordart.com, www.fineartamerica. com, and www.arkansasartists.com. Her artists’ blog can be found at www. pastelanne.wordpress.com. perfected a system with official patterns and teaching methods. Certified Zentangle Teachers teach in many countries and the word, Zentangle, is copyrighted. Official drawing kits can be purchased which include “tiles” (240 lb. weight 3 ½” squares of 100 % cotton paper), Micron pens, pencil, and an instruction booklet, but this is not necessary. You can draw on just about anything. I have drawn in my sketchbooks, my journals, and have made greeting cards and bookmarks with scriptural quotations using the method. Some of the books I recommend show using Zentangles for photo frames, scrapbook pages, postcards, Christmas ornaments, pillows, pottery, rocks, and even jewelry. Come with me for a moment while I describe the process. To begin, make several 3 ½” by 3 ½” squares out of heavy weight good quality art paper. You also need a disposable black ink pen like a Pigma Micron 01. I use a .00 Koh–I-Noor Rapidograph pen, but these can be expensive. Drawing pencils (2H and 2B), a pencil sharpener, and a white charcoal pencil (for drawing on black paper) are also useful. When you get ready to try using color, colored pencils and gel pens are handy. If you’re a watercolorist, you can also make watercolor backgrounds. Relax and take some deep breaths before starting your Zentangle. Focus on your materials. Make dots with the 2H pencil at the four corners of the tile about ¼” in from the edge. Then connect the dots with a line that makes a border. This doesn’t have to be straight – don’t use a ruler! Then lightly divide the space within the border quickly and spontaneously. This is called a “string.” This is your map, in a way. Fill in the spaces you’ve made with some of the tangles in the examples below using your pen. EXAMPLES: be found on YouTube. Just search for Zentangles or Zendalas. Happy Zentangling! www.d-originals.com www.zentangle.com www.pastelanne.wordpress.com www.createmixedmedia.com www.quarrybooks.com Bartholomew, Sandy Stein. YOGA FOR THE BRAIN : A ZENTANGLE WORKOUT. Design Originals, 2011. Marie Browning, TIME TO TANGLE WITH COLORS. Design Originals, 2011. Carbonetti, Jeanne. THE ZEN OF CREATIVE PAINTING. New York: Watson-Guptill Publications, 1998. Hall, Kass. ZENTANGLE UNTANGLED: INSPIRATION AND PROMPTS FOR MEDITATIVE DRAWING. Cincinnati, Ohio: Northlight Books, 2012. Beckah Krahula. ONE ZENTANGLE A DAY: A 6 WEEK COURSE IN CREATIVE DRAWING FOR RELAXATION, INSPIRATION, AND FUN, Quarry Books, Beverly, MA, 2012. All these can be found on Amazon. com, of course. AMAZE MOOKA FLUX \ ZENDALA GERMIE CHILLON SQUISH EXAMPLES: BOOK MARK AND GREETING CARDS I recommend the following resources in your study of Zentangles. In addition, numerous demonstrations can www.MauMag.com I’ve always believed that we all are creative if only we can learn to trust ourselves. Non-artists always say to me, “I can’t draw a straight line,” but neither can I without a ruler. Why do I need to draw a straight line, when curved ones are so much more interesting? Most artists will say that the act of drawing is meditative, calming, and relaxing. Making marks on paper with nothing planned in mind can eliminate stress and anxiety, and help one become more focused and thoughtful. In my meager understanding, the art of Zen is being mindful – fully present in the moment. It is a blending of mind, body, and spirit. It is intuitive and creative, not logical; a use of the right brain rather than the left brain. This may be why the art of Zentangles has become so popular with artists and non-artists alike. All one has to do is search the topic on YouTube to find many examples. AND YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE AN ARTIST TO DRAW A ZENTANGLE! Take your time and turn the square as you work. All the spaces do not have to be filled. Use your imagination and your creativity. Use the 2B pencil to shade some of the edges if you want to try a 3D effect. Don’t judge your effort; practice patience. Many different designs can be found in the books I recommend below, or on YouTube. The videos on YouTube are step by step demonstrations. When you get used to the process, try using colored pens, pencils, watercolor pencils, or Inktense Pencils (colored inks in pencil form). Then branch out making scrapbook pages, greeting cards, borders, envelopes – there’s no limit! There are over 100 “Official” Zentangle patterns, but you can always make up a pattern on your own. Look at the patterns you see around you: floor tile, things you cook with, stacks of books, carvings on wood doors, anything that looks interesting. On my recent trip to New England, I found many new decorative designs on the outside of the historic buildings in the towns. Keep a sketchbook of your ideas. You can draw these anywhere and they take little time. Try taking a few supplies with you when you have to wait in the doctor’s office or the airport (but don’t do it in church!) Eventually you might want to try a Zendala, and adaptation of the Mandala. The word means “magic circle” in Sanskrit and represents the universe. Carl Jung, the psychologist used the mandala to represent unity, or wholeness of the individual. Mandalas harmonize our creative, emotional, and personal individuality into one symbolic design. Circles designs are everywhere in nature – the sun, flowers, the earth, the moon, stained glass rose windows – you name it! To begin your Zendala, use a compass or template to draw a circle as your format and find the center. Using a protractor, divide the circle into eight or more sections. You can use either geometrical or biomorphic shapes within each section and fill those shapes with patterns. See my example below. 21 By: Amanda H. Mercer id I really agree to write an article on Time Management? What was I thinking? As I am sitting here and the deadline looms, I have waited to the last minute to write about a subject that helps us keep from doing that very thing! Nevertheless, in the different stages of my life, I have learned a few things about time management when it comes to myself, my family, and my job. I am a wife to a husband that has a demanding job and requires lots of travel. I have two very active boys who are passionate about sports. If you have ever been involved in youth sports, you know what a time commitment it is for the family. I also work part-time while the boys are in school. When I went back to work part-time a year ago, I didn’t think working during school hours would be that difficult to manage. However, it has presented many of the same MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 D 22 Cozi Calendar Cozi To-Do List problems and I have learned to juggle it all. Some days better than others! At different stages of my life, I have struggled to manage my time. First as a college student, then as a career focused newlywed without kids, a Stay-at-home Mom, and now a part-time working mom with both children in school. All of those stages presented their problems and time wasters. At each of those points in my life, I remember feeling like the todo list was never finished and I was always exhausted. My mother has often told me that our generation puts unrealistic expectations on ourselves every day. We make a long to-do list that is impossible to achieve. Ultimately, you go to bed at night feeling like a failure because you didn’t get it all done. It’s not a healthy way to live. I think first that we need to establish the importance of our time. Your time is one of the most valuable things you can commit and sacrifice to a person, hobby, a job, etc. Furthermore, “quality time” is even more valuable. Whatever stage of life you are in, quality time is what you need to make sure is always a priority. I try to remind myself that 20 years from now, I want my family to feel like they were my top priority, not the house or a career. A manda Mercer lives in West Little Rock and moved to Arkansas from Orlando, Florida in 2010. A wife to her college sweetheart and mom to two young sports crazed boys, she enjoys everything fashion, antiques, decorating, Bravo TV, puzzles, reading and writing. She has a Creative Writing degree from Florida State University and has enjoyed exploring Arkansas with her family. Amanda can be reached at [email protected]. Motivated Moms Daily Tasks Motivated Moms Today Chores paying the bills, cleaning the house and cooking dinner Mom. It’s hard to get all of those things accomplished in one day. I know from experience! When my youngest child was a newborn, I stumbled across a choreplanning site called Motivated Moms. (www.motivatedmoms.com) this site changed my life. For a small fee each year, I received a detailed plan of weekly household chores that I followed for an entire yearand it was great! Chores included as simple as changing sheets, cleaning bathrooms, cleaning out the fridge, and included spring cleaning and odd chores you would not normally think to take on without a reminder, like cleaning light switches. The best part is that most days the chores only took 30-45 minutes so they were very manageable even with small children or working full-time. At the time that I started, you downloaded a PDF file with all 52 weeks of the year. Now, they have an app of course! For around $8.00, you can have a full year’s worth of chores sent to your smartphone. If you are old school like me, the PDF version is still available. Ultimately, no matter how you choose to do it, the best part of the program is that at the end of each day you can feel as though you accomplished something. It may have been small but I knew that by the end of the week, everything was done. I did not feel overwhelmed at the “whole picture” and just did it piece by piece, day by day! BUSY, BUSY, BUSY: As my children have grown, our calendar has taken on a life of its own. With school, sports, church activities, birthday parties, travel- it is FULL. I find that I am good at getting big things on the calendar but it is the small things I tend to forget. I generally keep a running list of small tasks (call doctor, dry cleaning, pay cell phone) in the Notes section of my smartphone. I can quickly access it and erase things once they are completed. I’ve recently been introduced to a great app called Cozi. It came HIGHLY recommended to me by a friend in a similar situation and lifestyle as me. It is a free app that includes a calendar with multiple viewing options, to-do lists that can be separated by business and personal, and a journal to name a few. You can share your calendar with anyone who also has the app. Cozi is the new “day planner” from the good old days just in a digital format. I am in the process of transitioning to this new app as a means to go completely digital with my daily scheduling. Another option is to share calendars with family members. My husband and I both use Gmail as our email provider. We take advantage of the useful calendar feature that allows us to share our calendars with each other as well as our far flung family all across the country. That allows me to see all of his appointments, his trips and any potential scheduling conflicts prior to planning something. Another strategy to manage your time efficiently is to prioritize your activitiesclubs, hobbies, church activities, school activities, sports, etc. At some point, you have to stop and realize you cannot do everything! As our kids have gotten older, the opportunity to participate in fun programs is widely available. Everything sounds like a great activity you would want your child to experience, however, at some point, you have to stop and really evaluate what is important. My husband and I have decided that each child can participate in one sport at a time to go along with church activities. We try to make these activities a family experience. If we are going to spend Saturday at the ball field, we are going to do it as a family cheering each other on! However, if you are not careful, your calendar will start to look more like your child’s calendar rather than the family’s, leaving little time for what the parents have planned. One of the lessons I have learned from this is the importance of making sure there is time on the schedule for me, quality time with my husband, as well as my children. Time management looks different for each family and person. Depending on what stage of life you are in, you will have different issues and struggles with managing your time. If you establish your priorities and ultimate goals for your lifestyle, it will allow you the chance to plan your time to succeed and feel fulfilled. Have I mastered this? No, but I am working every day to make sure I feel like I have managed my time to get the important things done. The rest can wait for another day! www.MauMag.com Time Management I want our time together to focus on us as a family and not be distracted by the other things that aren’t getting crossed off my list. BEFORE KIDS! I will be honest, there are many days I look back before I had kids and ask myself, “What did I do with all of my time?” I was newly married, had a career and we owned a fixer-upper starter home. We lived this way for almost 5 years before our first child was born. Back before iphones and technology to keep us organized, we actually mailed our bills every month and owned cell phones that only functioned as phones! No texting, photos, etc. At that time, I had a paper system organizer, or a “planner” as we called them, that kept me relatively organized. Most of the time we had a central calendar in the kitchen that held our important dates so that we knew what each other had planned. With the advancement of today’s technology, like the sharing of online calendars and apps built to organize our lives, staying connected and organized is much easier than it was even 10 years ago. STARTING A FAMILY: Nothing can prepare you for having a child. The changes in your daily life are not something you can learn to adapt to or try to plan for. You just do it. That being said, it is easy to get sucked in each day to the daily grind and go to bed every night feeling like you didn’t get anything accomplished. I often found it hard to manage my time between being a hands on, playing on the floor, making lunches Mom to also 23 Pet Obesity MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 24 I By Dr. Lauren Schluterman ccording to the Association of Pet Obesity Prevention, 52.5% of U.S. dogs are overweight. Dogs become obese when they consume more calories (energy) than they expend, resulting in too much body fat. Pet obesity is the leading health threat to our pets in the U.S. An overweight pet, cat or dog, has many additional stresses placed on their body and is at increased risk for many diseases, including diabetes, arthritis, cancer, heart disease, and liver disease. Symptoms of obesity include: • A large body relative to legs • Excessive fat around the neck and under the belly • When viewed from above, the pet has no defined waist Owners may also notice their pet has decreased activity level, excessive panting with minimal physical exertion and difficulty climbing stairs or rising off the floor. Any breed of dog can easily become overweight with too much food and too little exercise, but there are certain breeds that are more prone to obesity including: Labrador retrievers, golden retrievers, beagles, dachshunds, and boxers. Other factors that play a role in canine obesity include certain endocrine diseases, including hypothyroidism and Cushing’s disease. The single greatest factor resulting in obesity in By Robyn D. Rektor our pets is overfeeding. “Pet obesity is plainly a people problem, not a pet problem. The most important decision pet owners make each day regarding their pet’s health is what they choose to feed it” says Dr. Ernie Ward, founder of Association for Pet Obesity Prevention. 45% of pet owners believe their pet is at a normal weight, even when their veterinarian determines the pet is overweight. I have seen this many times in my own practice; clients are shocked to learn that their pet is obese because they do not believe their pet eats very much. Factors that are consistent among these clients include free choice dry food all day and multiple treats throughout the day as a reward for good behavior or treats given as part of a daily routine. What owner’s do not realize is the caloric equivalence these treats represent. For example a premium pig ear (240 calories) fed to a 40 pound dog is equivalent to a human adult drinking six 12 ounce Coke Classic (840 calories). A few treats a day can easily add up to an entire days’ worth of caloric requirements. With this in mind, pets that receive daily caloric needs in treats, while in addition to dry dog food, especially when given free choice, are going to be obese. I tell my clients to think of this feeding routine as a daily buffet - when the food is available 24 hours a day, 99% percent of dogs, and people alike, are going to overeat, resulting in obesity. The best way to determine whether or not your pet is obese is to use a body condition scoring chart. Usually represented as a 1 - 9 scale, the middle numbers reflect optimum body condition, lower numbers represent low body condition, and the high numbers represent over condition or too much body fat. Veterinarians routinely use this scoring chart to keep track of pet’s overall body condition by using corresponding numbers to describe the fat overlying the ribs, neck, back, and abdomen with four or five being the ideal body score number. Nestle Purina’s Body Condition System chart is an excellent visual and r. Lauren Schluterman is a veterinarian at The Boulevard D Veterinary Clinic. She is originally from West Virginia and received her Doctorate of Veterinary Medicine from Tuskegee University in Alabama. Dr. Schluterman and her husband Craig, a native Arkansan and veterinarian, live on a few acres on the outskirts of Little Rock with their two dogs, two cows, and two sheep. When she is not at the clinic you can find Dr. Schluterman outdoors gardening, hiking, jogging or collecting farm animals. descriptive aid to determine your pet’s overall condition (a body scoring chart for cats is also available at www. purinaveterinarydiets.com) Treatment for obesity involves decreasing daily calories fed while increasing energy expenditure through exercise. Reducing or eliminating treats fed throughout the day is a great start to reducing daily calories fed. Substituting low calorie treats or vegetables (green beans make an excellent snack for dogs!) for high calorie treats: milk bones, sausage like treats, pig ears, etc, can make a hug difference in your pet’s weight. Additionally, I frequently encourage people to use a measuring cup when feeding their pet - too often owners misjudge the amount they feed their pet and over feed. Feed the predetermined amount twice daily (three times daily for a puppy or kitten). This is especially helpful in a multi pet household when free feeding usually results in one dog or cat eating much more than the rest of the household. Knowing how many calories your pet consumes in a day goes a long way in monitoring your pet’s weight gain and loss over time. If your pet currently receives very little exercise, increasing activity level is a fun way to help your pet lose weight. Walking, running, swimming, and fetching are great ways for your dog to lose weight especially if performed daily. For cats, who enjoy their sedentary lifestyle quite a bit, will usually exercise more if given something they can hunt and chase. Hiding cat toys around the house and in vertical spaces can greatly increase your cat’s daily activity level. If you are concerned your pet is overweight please schedule an appointment with your veterinarian to discuss your pet’s body condition, diet and exercise schedule. Your veterinarian is an excellent resource to help teach you what you should be feeding your pet, and how much exercise your pet needs based on his overall physical condition. Keeping your pet at a healthy weight can result in many additional years of health with your beloved cat or dog. love basketball. Not playing, mind you, but **spectating**. My fave teams are Oklahoma City Thunder, Boston Celtics, and Memphis Grizzlies, pretty much in that order. For the past half-dozen years, I have tried to catch at least one NBA game every year. This year's planned pilgrimage was to watch the Griz and OKC go head-to-head on Beale Street near the season's end but a last-minute change in plans benched the trip. Enter my always-to-the-rescue best bud Josh with an invitation to Boston. The agenda we concocted would make any sports fan salivate. I would fly in on Tuesday for the last Celtics home game of the season and on Saturday we would catch the Red Sox season opener at Fenway. Throw in a stop at the North End for ginormous homemade cannoli and a daily run to the corner cafe for crepes and it quickly had the potential to be The Best Trip Ever. But then the unimaginable happened. Late Monday afternoon, as I was wrapping up at work and bragging about my sixth-row Celtic tickets, a coworker told me there was breaking news in Boston. I couldn't believe my ears--a terrorist bombing at the marathon finish line. It was simply shocking. After making sure Josh and his family were okay, I started fretting about my trip. Friends and family pleaded with me not to go. The Celtics game had already cancelled, we didn't know yet if the Red Sox would, and while I didn't want to put myself in danger, I also didn't want to lose my plane ride money. I went to bed still unsure whether or not to go and prayed for a sign in my dreams to tell me if I shouldn't. When the alarm went off at 5:00 a.m. for my early flight, I stumbled to the back door to let dogs out, not cognizant enough yet to ponder what my dreams had revealed. I crept back into the bedroom and flipped on a light. Confusion erupted. The really, really confused kind in which you hear your heart pounding in your ears and you think you are either dying or already dead. I squeezed my eyes shut and when I reopened them, the sight was unchanged. My bedroom looked like a crime scene. Wherever my eyes darted, I saw the same thing--drops of blood everywhere. Right to left. North to South. Floor to ceiling. I followed the trail into the living room and looked around in a daze. Then it hit me what had happened. "Oh Continued on Page 26 R obyn D. Rektor is an educator, writer, and editor. A centralArkansas native, she loves the amenities of living in Maumelle, like having a very close emergency vet. You can reach her at [email protected]. www.MauMag.com A Be Careful what You Ask for 25 my God!" the faraway voice in my head screamed, "I was stabbed in my sleep!" I ran to the bathroom tearing my clothes off as I went. To my utter surprise, the mirror did not reveal blood dripping down my abdomen or any visible wounds. The adrenalin that I had thought was fueling my ability to stand upright despite being injured suddenly departed and I went limp against the wall. I was again disarmingly confused as I surveyed the red splatters. Suddenly a second light bulb went off: Dog! I raced to the porch and let in a critter. Little Maggie exhibited no signs of trauma. I opened the door again for 90-pound Old English Sheepdog BenBen, a rescue who had a rough start in life. As sweet as he is not bright, my big guy looked bewildered as blood dripped down his huge head and neck. I rooted around his wet fur looking for a wound but only managed to get my hands bloody without locating a source. One thing was clear--we needed serious help. I shepherded Ben out the front door and into the car and drove quickly to the emergency vet clinic in Maumelle, grateful we lived so near. I spent a fretful hour waiting for a prognosis. The only other customer was a worried woman whose dog was hit by a car during their morning jog through Hillcrest when he broke loose in hot pursuit of a bunny rabbit. We were both relieved to get good news when the vet appeared. The hare chaser had only a few scrapes and bruises and was free to go. Ben had a tiny puncture on his ear, perhaps inflicted by Howie the cat in an overnight game of chase or wrestling. The wound was totally innocuous, but because dog ears bleed profusely, it had become an instrument of havoc. While I slept Ben had paced, shaking his ears the whole way, splattering red drops from one end of the house to the other with impressive range and complete You’re invited to our 2nd Annual 'Howloween Pawty’ MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 on Saturday, October 26, 2013 2:00 p.m. until ??? 26 Mention seeing this ad in MauMag and get 1 free gourmet treat from our bakery case! coverage. For his troubles he would be going home with a souvenir blue bandage around his wounded ear, which now looked more like a blue horn. We left the clinic about the same time I should have been boarding my plane. I got Ben home and put him outside while I called the airline to inquire about rebooking options. When I hung up the phone and opened the door, what I saw made me nearly pass out for the second time that morning. Ben's bandage had come off, reopening his wound, which was now gushing with an alarming velocity. The porch walls were literally dripping with red rivulets. I called the overnight emergency vet, but they had already closed for the day. I threw a blanket on the backseat, reloaded Ben into it, and beelined for our vet in west Little Rock. Amid the chaos, it never occurred to me to try to wrap his ear to contain the bleeding. As I drove down Maumelle Boulevard in morning rush hour traffic, Ben sat in the backseat shaking his ears against the discomfort. And every time Ben shook, blood flew. I could feel it splatter against the back of my neck, and I watched it dot the windshield. When I turned around to check on him, I saw blood dripping down the back windows. It's a total wonder that no one called the police to report a murder taking place in the backseat of a car in broad daylight. The good people at our vet's office could not believe the red mess of a dog I brought in had sustained only a tiny ear wound. They wanted to keep him overnight to make sure the bleeding stopped this time. I was grateful as I could not have endured a third doggie bloodbath. Driving home, I seized the opportunity to stop at my favorite donut shop on Highway 10. As I got back into the car, I noticed my redbrown spotted clothes and hands and decided stopping might not have been the best idea. Needing caffeine as bad as I ever had, I wisely chose to utilize the drive-thru at the Starbucks in Maumelle. But my good intentions were foiled; my gold Starbucks card was a few cents shy of my total. I was so tired and drained that I had misplaced my wallet after the donut shop. As I opened the car door to search for the wallet or loose change under the seats, the barista at the window glanced at me and my car, a funny look crossing her face. She said, "Don't worry about it, you can just go." "No, it's here somewhere," I assured her. "Ma'am," she said as nicely as she could but nearly pleading, "Please, just go." I fully expected her to alert the local boys in blue to suspicious activity. The whole way home as I sipped my venti soy hazelnut latte, I also checked my rearview mirror for blue lights. The scene awaiting me at home was beyond overwhelming. My special ed dog had managed to do a completely thorough job--every room was a disaster. I called my friend Tootie for backup. She arrived quickly and surveyed the splattered floors, walls, curtains, furniture, porch, patio, sidewalk, and car, and declared the clean-up job too big for us. The three cleaning companies that came by to give estimates wanted between $800$10,000 to erase Ben's handiwork. Apparently blood removal is a big and serious business. I decided to do most of the cleanup myself, postponing my trip so I could take care of everything. Recounting the grueling day to my friend Michelle that evening, she made a request, "Please tell me you will never ask for a sign again." I had to admit that what I got wasn't exactly what I had in mind the previous night. Fortunately, by the week's end the trauma had subsided, our home was cleaned up, and our lives were mostly back to normal. Ben's ear was healing nicely and by Friday evening I was headed to Boston, my plane landing shortly after the Boston Marathon bombing suspect was captured. Although I didn't get to see my annual NBA game, we felt lucky to witness a very special game at Fenway Park. The Red Sox season opener on Saturday afternoon paid tribute to the bombing victims, marathon volunteers, and first responders. The crowd went absolutely crazy when Neil Diamond serenaded us--of his own accord and on his own dime-with an electric Sweet Caroline during the eighth inning. It was an incredible experience we will never forget. Poor BenBen on the other hand was in need of some forgetting. Still edgy from his ordeal, he was put on doggie Valium to try to erase his shortterm memory of the bloody trauma. And occasionally--just in case I feel tempted--Michelle reminds me that I am no longer allowed to ask for signs. www.MauMag.com Be Careful What You Ask for.. Continued from Page 25 27 MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 www.MauMag.com 28 29 How to Overcome Common Design Dilemmas W Kricia Palmer, Interior Stylist Photography by Kricia Palmer hen it comes to design and decorating, I have observed two different personality types: those that readily make decisions and are ready to put a plan into action and those that are more cautious, requiring much more time to mull over options before committing. There is nothing wrong with either of these types...they are simply different approaches to the creative process, and it is these differences that make my work even more interesting and challenging. That being said, I'm sure we have all (myself included!) had a time when we have been paralyzed with indecision regarding a design choice. I know I want to use a white, but which white? Which rug? Which fabric? Sometimes the more we think about it, the harder the decision becomes. And then... we do... NOTHING. We become paralyzed with fear that we are going to make the "wrong" choice! Has this ever happened to you? When designing for myself, I must admit that it has happened to me! Here are a few things you might try the next time you are overcome with indecision: MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 1. Step away from it. Take a week and clear your mind. Completely put it out of your mind, and then come back to the decision later. 2. Take a break from Pinterest and design publications. While resources like these can be helpful, excessive use can create limitations. I know this may sound somewhat counterintuitive, but I believe that excessively looking for ideas and inspiration in this way has a way of stifling individual creativity! In other words, if you are already overwhelmed with a design decision, looking at hundreds of additional options on Pinterest probably isn't going to help! Take a break for a while, and then return to limited browsing. 30 K ricia Palmer is a “retired” physician who is fulfilling a lifelong dream of becoming an interior designer. Her interior design business, Palmer Home, specializes in residential design, and her blog, http://kriciapalmerhome.blogspot.com, features her design projects, musings on design, and DIY tips and tutorials. She is the mother of two rambunctious boys and is beginning the renovation of her newly purchased 100-year old home in Historic Hillcrest. Kricia may be reached at 501-551-1221, or via email [email protected]. While many types of design decisions can be difficult, there are two in particular that I often see lead to this type of decision paralysis: 1) selecting paint color, and 2) selecting an area rug. 1. Approach to selecting paint color: The first thing most people think about when decorating a room is wall paint color. However, I've found that it's often better to save paint color selection for last. Why? I think that too often, if a paint color is chosen first, the tendency is to try to find fabrics and accents for the room that match the paint color exactly. When this happens, the result often looks forced and one-dimensional instead of interesting and natural. That's not to say you have to choose paint last every single time. In fact, you may even be working with a room that has already been painted. If you have a choice, though, it's often easier to save the paint color decision until last. I try to select furniture, fabrics, and accents first, and then I go back and ask myself, "What paint color would look best with this?" This simplifies things significantly and often leads to a more pleasing result. It is also much less stressful! Another important thing is to know how to approach paint swatches. Staring at hundreds of them is daunting for everyone so it’s important to approach it systematically. Always start by looking at paint swatches in context – in other words, look at them next to the surrounding swatches. They are arranged by color families with different shades and intensities for each hue. The key is using a process of elimination. Rather than trying to immediately zone in on the “blue” that you want, start by looking at all the colors in context. There are usually several groups of “blues.” First, pick which group is closest to the color you have in mind. Then closely study that group of blues in context to the colors on each side of it. For example, on one end the blues may have more green in them, and on the other end, they may have more violet. Eliminate swatches one at a time until you have 2 or 3 that you think might work. From here, I suggest buying samples and painting them on the wall you intend to use them in. Lighting can change colors significantly so this is probably the most important step. I never commit to a paint color unless I have seen a sample on the wall in the room. 2. Approach to selecting rugs: On so many occasions, clients have told me, “Picking out rugs is so hard for me!” If you have felt this way in the past, you are definitely not alone. Ideally, it's best to choose your rug first and then build your room around it. This way, you can pull colors and inspiration from your rug to the rest of the room. However, in many cases you will be working with a room that has already been completed and needs a rug. In these situations, there are a few things you can think about that will simplify the process. First, think about what rug material will best suit your needs. Rugs are made in a variety of materials including wool, cotton, silk, olefin, jute and sisal among others. Make sure when searching that you take note of the material. I’ve had many clients fall in love with a rug for a living room or dining room online only to realize later that it was an indoor/outdoor rug. If you are looking for a rug that will stand the test of time, choose one made of wool. However, there are other great options depending on the look and durability you want. Natural fiber rugs are a great less expensive option – sisal, jute and seagrass. Polypropylene and olefin are best for outdoor use or in special indoor situations like sunrooms and kids rooms. After selecting rug material, decide which rug style works best with your room: Traditional? Contemporary? Transitional? Then narrow down your color palette. Make sure that you look for a rug that includes one or more of the colors in your room. The rug can certainly include other colors as well, but at least one or more of the colors should also be in your room. Last, think about pattern. Rug patterns can be overwhelming for most people. If you don't already have a lot of pattern in your room, then a rug is the perfect place to bring in this element of design. If you do have several patterns, If possible, take the rug home on approval so you can see how it looks in the room before you commit to buying it. The same design principles to mixing patterns in fabrics (which I discussed in the last issue) also apply to mixing patterns in rugs with patterns in the rest of the room. If you follow this stepwise approach, rug selection can be much less daunting. Design dilemmas are common to everyone. Don’t get too discouraged when you have a difficult time with a particular decision. By stepping away and then approaching things systematically, you can tackle the problem successfully. Gateway Self Storage Individual Door Alarms • Climate Controlled Resident Manager • Propane Refills Computerized Gate Access Sizes: 5x5 to 12x45 Moving and Storage Supplies Commercial Deliveries 24-Hour Access Available 758-STOR (7867) 7101 Vestal Court Off Maumelle Blvd. (1/4 mile west of I-430) PROPANE REFILLS www.MauMag.com Interior Design 3. Take advantage of checking out items on approval. Many places will let you take items home "on approval" for a short time period (usually 3 days or so). This way, you can look at that lamp, rug, or chest in your space for a few days before deciding if it’s the one for you. 4. Ask a few friends. Your perspective can change when you stare at something too long. Sometimes it just takes a fresh set of eyes to point out things you may not have thought of before. 5. Ask a designer. Designers offer many different types of services (It's not all like Million Dollar Decorators!) I frequently have clients who hire me for my opinion... For example, I had a client recently who consulted me for an hour to give on the spot advice on paint color for trim and kitchen cabinets. So the next time you need help deciding which hardwood floor stain to use or which white to use on kitchen cabinets, consider a simple consult with a designer. 31 The Real Stuff I By Scott Deaton for Heroes program. Scott is a graduate of the University of Arkansas, plus received a MBA from University of Central Arkansas. He currently serves on the Maumelle Area Chamber of Commerce Board of Directors, previously served on the Little Rock REALTORS Association Board of Directors, and the Arkansas REALTORS Association Board of Directors. He has been married to his wife, Lora, for 22 years. They have three children. His hobbies include serving his church, hunting, and playing golf. every month the cost of purchasing a home decreased. So why can I say that now? Because with the recent, and consistent, increase in market strength, jumps in interest rates, and increasing home prices, I believe home ownership is currently at its cheapest point. From now on, it will only cost you more to purchase a home. Homeownership is still the best investment in history, will always be a great investment over the long term, and much cheaper than renting, but the cost of homeownership will increase. Have you noticed interest rates lately? They are still awesome! Still below 5%, hovering around 4.5%. Yes, that is still awesome. Just ask your parents about the interest rates on their previous home purchases. Our current rates are great….but they are significantly higher than they were anytime during 2012. On January 7, 2013, the interest rate for a 30 year fixed rate mortgage was as low as 3.25%, with 0% origination fees (1% origination = 1% of sales price). Today, interest rates are around 4.5%, with some lenders requiring a 1% origination payment just to get that rate. Sources of data: www.MauMag.com CARMLS (Cooperative Arkansas Multiple Listing Service) ARA (Arkansas REALTORS Association) MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 n my last column we discussed the real estate trends for Maumelle, and throughout Central Arkansas, for 2012. We saw positive numbers in all areas of real estate for the first time since 2008. The market is truly experiencing a recovery, but we don’t have clear sailing just yet. Good news! At the point of writing this article, we are just over half way through 2013, and all real estate activity seems to be improving over 2012 throughout Arkansas for the first 6 months. Remember that 2011 was the worst real estate year in 15 years for the Arkansas market. 2010 was the 2nd worst. We definitely hit bottom for our local market during those years, and activity is definitely improving, but we are not back to the ‘good ole days’ of 2003-2007. Doesn’t that seem like ages ago? From January – June, 2013, the number of units sold throughout the state has increased almost 9% compared to 2012. The average sales price has increased almost 4% over 2012. These are great numbers. We will have to see what the second half of the year holds for us, but it looks like it will be another positive year of growth for real estate. As with the rest of the state, Maumelle has experienced positive activity during 2013 as well. YTD, Maumelle has sold 260 homes which is a 3% increase over the same period of 2012. The average sales price during this time is also 3% higher, sitting at $223,569.00. The average price per sf has increased 1.89% to $100.17. The only negative we have experienced in Maumelle is in the increased ‘Days on Market’, which is 17% higher at 74 days. Remember, positive numbers are always better than the alternative. Maumelle has an improving market overall, and selling your home in 2.5 months is pretty good. Maumelle still has a slight disconnect between sellers and buyer though. Maumelle currently has 169 homes on the market for sale. These homes have an average list price of $292,016.00, with an average of $109.53 per sf. These 169 homes also have an average ‘Days on Market’ currently sitting at 74 days and increasing each day. See the potential problem? Buyers are paying the above paragraph’s numbers ($223,569 and $100.17), but current sellers are greatly higher than what the market will pay, resulting in higher than average time needed to sell their home. I tell my agents, and every buyer I come across, that “I don’t expect it will ever be cheaper, in their lifetime, to purchase a home than it is right now.” Think about that statement. At various points over the past 5 years, that statement could not be true. Interest rates dropped. Home prices dropped. Tax incentives were available. Foreclosures, short sale, and other distressed properties increased. It seemed that cott Deaton is Owner/Broker of Deaton Group S Realty, and a Maumelle resident for 21 years. He is the Little Rock area affiliate for the national Homes 32 33 O n retiring from teaching in 1995, Harding Stedler was named the first Professor Emeritus of Shawnee State University in Portsmouth, Ohio. Spending his retirement in Arkansas, he is an active member of the Poets’ Roundtable of Arkansas and the River Market Poets in Little Rock. Reaping the Rhythms Harding Stedler Poetry Editor the low moan howled and roared THE LOOK and with a shriek left the teary apple blossom in its wake its ancient roots plucked from the earth --Eileen Krause Cabot, AR My eyes look at you and seem to say, “I want you to know I love you.” But because I am shy, all I say is “Hello” and walk away. Rules Of Golf --Ike Anthony Maumelle, AR MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 WHEN ALL ELSE FAILS 34 If there is nothing else we can do, we can pray, and it doesn’t have to be profoundly spoken before a capacity audience; it can be given up in silence, in the spirit of benevolence. There are so many who can talk the talk, but how many walk the walk? There are so many caught up in an institution, trying to maintain a certain standing in that institution, but how many are a part of the revolution? How many are willing to walk out, stand up, sit in for some elevation of the mind where we find out who we really are? Beyond all the transgressions, experiencing spiritual ascensions? There is no need to boast of the power we hold, for it can simply be bought and sold. From now on, we should be discussing the showers of blessings, and here we stay; here we pray. --Jeff Dyer West Helena, AR GIVE ME THE WOODS I don’t care for city life or living in a town. Just give me the woods where trees grow tall and nature is all around. Instead of the roar of traffic, I’d rather hear birds in the trees and not be restricted by city streets but free to go where I please. Some folks like the city. Some folks like the towns. But I like the woods where trees grow tall and nature is all around. caddie, etc.). Know your condition where the incident occurred (green, bunker, water hazard, etc.). Some other facts to find out are a) what actually happened, what where the player’s intentions, and what was the timing of the incident. A lot of fact finding goes into understanding the situation. After the fact finding mission refer back to the book. Use the Rules of Play Index in the Rule book. The Index covers the 34 Rules of Golf. After you find out the information you should be able to look at the Names of each Rule and decide which Rule Minute With Maddox applies. Another great reference is the Rules of Golf App for your Smartphone. This allows you to click through and even search certain By Cary Maddox things. Now that we have an idea on he USGA Rules of Golf how to read through and somewhat book can be a little understand the Rules of Golf book, intimidating at first glance. let’s look at some common situations There is a lot of information you might encounter in a round of and you feel like you have golf. to be a lawyer to sort through it to I’m sure anyone who has ever figure something out. Yes there are played golf has hit a ball into the a lot of procedures and penalties, but water. You probably know that it is a knowing and understanding the rules one shot penalty for doing so. How can benefit you when you play. to proceed is always a good topic First let’s try and go about of discussion. First you must know understanding the rules, then we will if it is a Water Hazard (defined by look at some basic rules that you see yellow stakes and lines) or a Lateral quite a bit over 18-holes. Water Hazard (defined by red stakes To best understand the Rules and lines). Both water hazards have of Golf you must have a good the same options; however a Lateral understanding of the definitions. Water Hazard has an additional two Understanding the definitions will options. Let’s start with a Water help you as you begin to read each Hazard. Will call it a “Regular Water rule. There are over fifty terms and Hazard.” If you hit your ball into a they form the foundation around Regular Water Hazard you have 3 which the Rules of Play are written. A options. A) play it as it lies (which good knowledge of the terms is very can obviously be difficult), B) go important to the correct application of back to the point where you hit it into the Rules. the water from, or C) take the point Once you have a good where it last crossed the yellow line understanding of the definitions, you and the flag and go back as far as you must consider the facts of the case in want to and drop it. The last option some detail. First identify the form of is always debated because some play, match or stroke. Then identify people will incorrectly think that it is who is involved (player, partner, the point where it crossed and the place where you hit ary Maddox is the PGA Head Golf it from. It is always Professional at the Maumelle the point and the flag. Country Club. Now to the Lateral Cary has over 15 years of teaching experiWater Hazard. If ence working with men, women, seniors, and juniors. your ball goes into a For more information on lessons contact water hazard marked him at by a red line then [email protected]. you have the same T C --R. G. Copenhaver Leslie, AR options as a Regular Water Hazard, and also a few additional options. D) take the point where it last crossed and take a drop within two clublengths of that point no closer to the hole, E) another option rarely used is to take the same approach as option D, but take it from the other side of the hazard equidistant from the hole. The only other option for both would be if the committee has an established drop area that would be marked by a white circle and noted as a drop area. Another common situation that requires some knowledge to proceed under would be a cart path. Well we know have read the definitions so we know that a cart path is an Obstruction. To take relief from the Obstruction (cart path) you will need to determine your nearest point of relief where the ball does not lie in or on the Obstruction. Once that is determined you have one club-length (not nearer the hole) to drop your ball in. There is no penalty for taking this relief. The last Rule I would like to discuss is play a Wrong Ball. The Rules of Golf state that it is the responsibility of the player to put an identification mark on his/her ball. This way you can identify your ball. If you play a wrong ball in stroke play you will incur a penalty of two strokes. That is a severe penalty so make sure to check to make sure you are about to hit your ball, not someone else’s. If you do hit a wrong ball you will incur the two stroke penalty, however the actual strokes with the wrong ball do not count. So must go and find your ball and proceed. Knowing the Rules of Golf can help you through a round of golf. I encourage all golfers to have a basic understanding of the Rules. If you have any questions please contact your local PGA Golf Professional or reach out to the ASGA (Arkansas State Golf Association). Good luck!. . www.MauMag.com Poetry 35 L By Michelle McCon ong ago, gluten and I shared a love like no other. It hung out in aaaall my favorite foods—pizza, spaghetti, Pop Tarts, chocolate chip cookies—and we developed an undeniable bond (mostly on my thighs, but that’s beside the point), one that I had no interest in breaking. Ever. Then one day it turned on me. I don’t remember when it happened, and don’t ask me why, but my once happy-go-lucky, eat-whatever-it-wants belly became a violent pit of gastrological warfare. And my energy level? Gone. I hadn’t the slightest clue what could be causing all the belly hullabaloo. Nowadays, people near and far would shout, “Gluten!” in unison because everybody’s got a friend or neighbor or Great Aunt Mabel with a nogluten belly, and restaurants now offer actual gluten-free menus, and it’s almost hip to go GF. But, alas, all my tummy troubles started back in the day when going gluten free was anything but cool, back before mainstream America even knew what it meant to be GF (Gorilla freak? Garbanzo fanatic?), and before my jacked-up gut and I could just head on over to a certain pizza place on Maumelle Boulevard like normalbellied folks and order up a slice (six, actually) of gluten-free heaven. And so my love affair with this sneaky substance came to a screeching, oh-so-sad halt…once I figured out the problem, that is, which would be several years after my issues initially began, and after I learned that I had a cousin with celiac, an evil autoimmune disease that allows gluten to wreak havoc on the small intestine. A blood test and scope of my belly showed no signs of celiac, so I received nada in the way of a diagnosis. But I found that a gluten-free diet tamed my angry abdominals nonetheless. And any time I dare invite my former friend back into my diet to test my gut (I’m convinced I have magical self-healing powers. I don’t.), the belly combat starts all over again. I’ve considered visiting another gastro specialist, now a whole decade later. These days, doctors are more experienced with the multitude of gluten-induced belly woes, so maybe I could finally get a diagnosis of some sort? Truth be told, I think that’s what I crave: a medical label, a definitive name for my stomach problems. But ultimately I know what works for me, and it’s what’s worked flawlessly for the last ten years of my life. MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 I call myself gluten intolerant. 36 M ichelle McCon is a stayat-home mom and writer. Hobbies include scuba diving, blogging, geocaching, and watching trashy reality TV. Have a question or comment? Please feel free to email her at: [email protected]. I’VE HEARD OF GLUTEN, BUT WHAT IS IT EXACTLY? Okay, so you’ve heard the term for years, and your uncle’s dentist’s brother suffers from a gluten-related issue, but, really, what IS the stuff? Well, it’s a protein, a sly little protein that’s found in wheat, barley, and rye. And watch out for oats too because there’s a good chance they were contaminated during processing and even back in the field where they got their humble beginnings alongside a wheat crop. Gluten is what gives breads and cakes their puffy perfection, and it’s what makes pizza dough all stretchy and marvelous. Without it (trust me on this one), nothing is the same. And gluten’s in darn near everything: pasta, crackers, cereals, cookies. And it’s in lots of less obvious places too, like soy sauce and soups and beer and certain marinades and salad dressings and candy (Twizzlers, anyone?) and even shampoo and toothpaste. Sly indeed. WHY IS IT SUDDENLY SUCH AN ISSUE? We’ve been eating gluten for years and years and years. And years. Our great-grandparents consumed it with no belly blahs whatsoever. But, see, the grain our ancestors ate was much lower in gluten than what we eat today, and they harvested it only once per year, according to Alessio Fasano, M.D., head of the Center for Celiac Research and Treatment at MassGeneral Hospital for Children in Boston. We’ve engineered our grains to increase crop yields, and with that has come a higher concentration of gluten. Our world is a-changing, and our bellies are having a tough time keeping up. SO WHAT REALLY HAPPENS TO YOU WHEN YOU EAT IT? I’ll spare you the bulk of the gastro details, but suffice it to say that it’s not pretty, and my belly swells all up until I look forty (thousand) weeks pregnant. I also get headaches, have difficulty thinking clearly, and feel ridiculously weak and tired. And anxious. And perhaps the worst part (for my husband and kids, that is) is that my normally docile demeanor turns fierce and fiery, and my patience level shrivels to a mere whisper of its former self, and my normally long fuse is suddenly shorter than short. I get MAD, and there’s little I can do to control it. My poor family. HERE’S THE UPLIFTING PART On a happy note, I’m lucky in that I can eat traces of gluten (e.g., oats and a little soy sauce here and there) without feeling the effects. And I’m thankful that M&M’s contain no gluten whatsoever! And I’m grateful that GF pastas and baked goods taste approximately five billion times better than they did back in the day, and they’re certainly more readily available. And I’m ecstatic that I can go to local restaurants with my gluten-eating family and friends and order myself a pizza or spaghetti or a sloppy cheeseburger on an actual bun. And I’m relieved that product labeling is infinitely better than it was in 2003. A decade later, it’s so much easier to be me. Medical diagnosis or no, the war in my belly is over. Gluten waved its white flag, surrendered, and broke ties with me a long time ago, and I’ve got nothing but peace in my gut. And a handful of M&M’s on my computer desk. Life is delicious. Source: Woodward, Alicia. “Q & A with Alessio Fasano, MD.” Living Without. Living Without, Inc., Aug./Sept. 2011. Web. 29 August 2013. Fitness & Health Healthy Tips for the Typical Holiday Feast T he holidays are fast upon us. Many times we tend to relax about our food choices and amounts at the end of the year but kill ourselves at the beginning of the year to lose the 5-10 pounds we gained during those couple of months! This really wreaks havoc on our bodies & metabolism. Go into the holidays mentally prepared for “the battle”… the battle of a huge spread of Thanksgiving feast for lunch and then another huge spread for dinner just a few hours later. Or the battle of work Christmas parties, the social parties, the family gatherings with EVERYTHING being centered around food! Knowing this WILL come is the first step but what to do with that information makes the next step the most critical one! Preparedness is the key! Planning ahead! 1) You don’t HAVE to eat it all 2) You can have just a spoonful to make your Aunt June happy that you tried it. 3) Explain to family & friends that you are trying to pay more attention to your HEALTH (emphasis on “health” and not “dieting” because you have a higher chance of being ridiculed if you use that ‘dieting’ word). 4) Modify your recipes to a healthier version 5) Stop eating when you are barely full 6) Slow down on your eating because it takes a good 12-15 minutes for the stomach signal to travel up your spine & into your brain to shoot of the “I’m full” hormone. Sip that water between each bite. 7) Focus on the company and not so much the food 8) Limit the carbohydrates 9) Never skip lunch because a feast is taking place for dinner! Going more than 6 hours without eating during the day slows the metabolism down and when you DO eat that feast, you will most likely over-consume because you are starving. Over-consuming brings on weight gain, diabetes, and heart disease. C hristie Brooks is a Registered Dietitian and a CrossFit Level 1 Trainer. She and her family live in Searcy. She has taught at Harding University, worked at several hospitals, a dialysis clinic, and a gym. She has also worked under a childhood obesity grant, diabetes and HIV clinics, and has owned a restaurant. She started the Why Weight Lifestyle Program, which comprises of an individualized meal plan, and weekly one hour consults targeting hormone balancing, detoxing, clean eating, exercise, and disease prevention. By Christie Brooks 10)And as the old saying goes… “You are what you eat” so fuel up the body properly & wisely to prevent that 5-10 pound weight gain! Here are some ways to healthy tips for the typical Holiday Feast: Turkey: • Control portions. Eat about the size of the palm of your hand. • Self-basted birds have more calories per ounce • Avoid the skin Stuffing: • Stuffing is loaded with invisible fat (1/2 cup contains about 19gms Fat and 200 calories) • If hard to resist, take just a taste – about 2 Tablespoons Cranberry Sauce: • Loaded in sugar and sugar increases calories and insulin (which increases weight gain) • 1/8 cup is 80 calories and 15gms carbs (that’s 1 full carb for people with diabetes!) Salads: • Choose dark green over iceburg and have dressing on the side, dipping your fork into that dressing before dipping into the salad • Use translucent type dressings such as Italian, vinaigrette, or oil & vinegar Gravy: • An average ladle holds about 2 Tbs, so giblet gravy=64 calories; regular gravy=45 calories • Volunteer to make the gravy and skim off the extra fat by making it the night before. The fat will rise to the top and harden by morning. Skimming of the fat saves you 100 calories per tablespoon. Vegetables: • Choose plain ones – avoid sauces, butter, or creams • Limit the higher caloric/ carb content vegetables such as peas, beans, potatoes, and corn Dessert: • One piece pumpkin pie (1/8 of 9” pie)=250 calories • Fruit is a healthier alternative, especially if it’s not canned in syrup • Limit the nuts – they are great plant fats to too much can pack on the calories quick (1/8 cup provides an average of 45-90 calories) • Use less sugar, and if you MUST use a sugar, try coconut sugar or turbinado sugar for a vitamin/mineral packed punch. A good sugar substitute is Stevia. www.MauMag.com Why Gluten and I Are No Longer on Eating Terms: My Journey to GF 37 (continued) Impact of Hearing Loss on Communication MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 T 38 By Dr. Bryson Howard Au.D. he capacity to carry out successful communication depends on many factors. First, an individual’s hearing ability will influence how well you converse with someone. Hearing loss makes communication difficult, stressful, and fatiguing. However, there are also many other situational factors that influence successful communication such as background noise, room acoustics, context, and familiarity with the speaker. These factors are important to everyone but are often critical to people with hearing loss. First I would like to talk about what causes the problems then give tips to create a better listening environment. Background noise is just one obstacle for successful communication for people with hearing loss. Even those with normal hearing, including myself, struggle to hear at some of the noisier restaurants. Many people with hearing loss can function quite well in a quiet one-on-one situation. However, the presence of background noise can make it difficult even when the speaker is close and addressing you directly. It all comes down to how sound works, how the ear is designed, and the type of hearing loss present. High frequency hearing loss typically presents the most trouble in background noise. High frequency hearing loss is impairment in the high tones and is present in close to 20% of adults. However, with the prevalence of MP3 players that number is also steadily rising in teenagers and young adults. Below are the most common indicators of a possible high frequency hearing loss: 1. As mentioned previously, trouble understanding in background noise is the number one complaint that I receive as an audiologist. Background noise is usually low frequency and speech is more high frequency. With a high frequency hearing loss you hear the background noise better than you do speech. 2. “I can hear you, but I don’t always understand you.” With high frequency loss you are essentially missing certain sounds of the alphabet like “s”, “f”, and “th.” When you miss these letters it can lead to misunderstandings. Some people cope with this through lip-reading and context of conversation but this makes communication, as mentioned earlier, stressful and fatiguing. 3. Often times you will hear men’s voices better than females and small children. Men have lower tones whereas females and small children tend to be higher frequency which is often where the hearing impairment is. If any of these sound familiar, I recommend setting up an appointment with an ENT physician and audiologist r. Bryson Howard Au.D. graduated high school in Russellville, AR. He received his bachelor of arts in communication disorders from Harding University in Searcy, AR in 2007. In 2011 he graduated with his Doctor of Audiology from UAMS in Little Rock, AR. He is a proud member of the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association and local Kiwanis chapter. He is married to Alicia Howard and has a beautiful daughter named Leela. He enjoys hunting, fishing, sports, and playing guitar and drums. D to detect if a hearing loss is present and to develop the most appropriate treatment plan. In the meantime, I would like to leave you with some recommendations to create an optimal listening environment. These are the same recommendations that we give to schools for creating effective listening environments in the classroom; decrease the distance, minimize the background noise, and reduce reverberation. Some specific suggestions below: 1. Decreasing the distance – the closer you are to the source the better you will hear. a. Sit on the front row or close to the front. b. Face the speaker. Even when close, if you aren’t facing the speaker you may have difficulties. This also allows us to read lips which are just one more enhancement to communication. c.Remove barriers between you and the speaker. Even though you may be just one room over the walls reduce the intensity of speech. 2. Minimizing Background Noise a. Turn off the TV at mealtime. If you are at a restaurant ask for a table or booth in the corner or to where you can situate yourself with your back to a wall. This will eliminate some of the ambient noise behind you. b. Choose quiet meeting places. c. Schedule meetings before or after rush hour. 3. Reducing Reverberation – reverb is the persistence of sound after the original source sound has stopped and is most affected by the size of the room and surface materials used. To reduce reverb and increase speech intelligibility we can: a. Use soft furnishings – carpets and curtains are better at absorbing sounds than hard floors and bare windows. b. Place a rug in the room if carpet not an option. c. Other sound absorbing materials such as acoustical panels and tiles can be used on the wall. In addition to the environment changes we make, there are things the speaker can do to make it easier for people with hearing loss. As a speaker, it is important to maintain eye contact, keep our hands away from our face, speak slowly, and speak distinctly. As the listener, never say yes if you do not understand what the question was. This often times lead to awkward social situations and embarrassing outcomes. I hope some of the things we talked about can improve listening environments and create better communication skills. Hear better…live better. HIIT High Intensity Interval Training By Kathy Wheeler Do you enjoy spending hours on the treadmill or in the gym to lose weight and get in shape? What would you say if I told you I have a method that will allow you to lose weight and spend less time in the gym? You’re probably thinking, what’s the catch? Here’s a little secret….there is no catch!!!! Let me introduce you to high intensity interval training or HIIT. HIIT alternates intervals of high-intensity exercise (such as sprinting, treadmill, elliptical, or even weights) with intervals of either low-intensity exercise (such as walking at a slow pace) or complete rest. While you are pushing yourself beyond the upper end of your aerobic exercise zone or “comfort zone”, HIIT offers several advantages that steady-state exercise (where you keep your heart rate within your aerobic zone) can’t provide: • HIIT increases the amount of calories burned during your exercise session as well as continues to burn calories for up to 1.5-24 hours post exercise session. • HIIT causes metabolic adaptations that enable you to use more fat as fuel. Therefore, reducing abdominal and subcutaneous (just under the skin) fat. • HIIT also significantly improves aerobic and anaerobic fitness. • HIIT can also limit muscle loss that can occur with weight loss, compared to traditional steady-state cardio exercise of longer duration. By including HIIT in your exercise plan, you can realize remarkable results in a short amount of time, which is good news for busy people. able to exercise for at least 20-30 minutes at 70-85% of your estimated maximum heart rate. (To estimate max HR, subtract your age from 220) How does one get started? HIIT is physically demanding, so it is important to gradually build up your training program so you don’t overdo it. Always warm up and cool down for at least five minutes before and after your exercise session. Work as hard as you can during the high intensity intervals (you will feel a burning sensation indicating you have entered the anaerobic zone). If you experience any chest pain or difficulty breathing during your HIIT workout, cool down immediately! Don’t just stop, walk it out, or else your blood will pool in your extremities and lightheadedness or fainting can occur. Here is a sample program from the American Council on Exercise® (ACE): Time Interval Exertion Level (0-10) 5 min. Warm-up 3-4 1 min. Speed 7-9 2 min. Recovery 5-6 1 min. Speed 7-9 2 min. Recovery 5-6 1 min. Speed 7-9 2 min. Recovery 5-6 1 min. Speed 7-9 2 min. Recovery 5-6 5 min. Cool-down 22 min. Total Time (4 min. total speed) 3-4 HIIT is designed for people whose primary concerns are boosting overall cardiovascular fitness, endurance, and fat loss, without losing the muscle mass they already have. Before starting any HIIT program, you should be If you find that this sample program is either too difficult or too easy for your current fitness level, make adjustments to the duration and/or number of high intensity intervals as necessary. Always maintain an intensity level of 60-70% of your maximum heart rate. K You will not need to swap all of your aerobic exercise sessions for HIIT to gain the benefits. Perform HIIT 1-2 times per week, along with 1-2 sessions of steady-state aerobic exercise. Also, this high-intensity training method is best used periodically for up to 6 weeks or so to enhance regular training rather than as year-round. athy Wheeler is the creator and instructor of FitGirlz, a circuit-training small group fitness class especially for Women. She is an ACE-certified Personal Fitness Trainer, Cooper Institute Master Fitness Specialist, IDEA Professional Member, SCW Yoga and mat Pilates certified and CPR/ AED certified. To learn more about FitGirlz or Personal Training call 501-519-1746. As usual, moderation is key to long-term success. So challenge yourself! Don’t drive yourself into the ground and get ready to see major changes in your body and your fitness level! www.MauMag.com Fitness & Health 39 By Mary Lester W MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 hen the producer is serving the salads it is not a good time to share. Yes, I wrote almost a whole poem and a complete song before my delicious crepes arrived. I wrote the song about the couple sitting across from me. They looked so in love. I wanted to remember them and their love. I often wind up at The Starving Artist Café on a Tuesday. That’s the night The Starving Artist hosts Tales from the South, a radio show featuring southern writers reading their own true stories. I have had the privilege of sharing some of my tales there. Just being at The Starving Artist Café inspires me. The entertainment is topnotch and the food is fabulous. What southerner doesn’t like to eat and hear some good yarns! So I savor delicious food, share a story, or soak in inspiration and put new words to paper, and—the icing on the cake— hear some great storytelling. Before heading home, after a perfect evening, I decided to go to the powder room. When I opened 40 M ary Elaine Lester is a career mathematics instructor, currently teaching at the Distance Learning Center in Maumelle. Her hobbies include gardening, treasure shopping, decorating her Hillcrest home, collecting seashells and traveling. Mary loves life, people, and telling their stories. She enjoys C-Span , documentaries, as well as, classic black-and-white movies. Today her favorite quote is: Carpe Diem. “Yes. He's my husband,” she answered. “You wrote a song about me?” She asked and I would imagine not sure what to say next. I filled in, “Yes, I wrote a song about you and your husband. I will sing it for you, if want me to.” “Uh...sure.” Southern politeness took over. “No one has ever written a song about me.” I hoped I had not misread the body language “okay…” and quickly stepped out into the hallway, before she could bar me in, and started singing as I looked at both of them. Her husband put his arm around her, probably to protect her from the crazy woman. Words, brand new melody and all, I started singing, reading the lyrics from my journal. He loves her. He's holding her hand. He loves her. She smiles back at him. Casting my glances— Across and to the right Such a strong man— Tattooed and suntanned. He loves her. Then I introduced myself. And the dam broke. “Oh, that is so sweet! That is so sweet! No one has ever done anything like that for me before!” She couldn't keep from smiling now. By Carolyn Drane R “I want to take a picture of the song,” she squealed, not wanting the moment to end. I signed my name with hers at the end of the lyrics to make it official. Flash. Flash. Picture taken. I forgot to take a picture myself, I was so caught up. Still dizzy from the exuberant reception but trying to capture the amazing event, I got out, “You have one of those fancy phones. I bet you could record the song. I wouldn't mind singing it again.” “Would you?” “Of course, I just don't want to end up on You-tube. I am brave but not that brave. You promise I won’t end up on You-tube.” So, we had an encore right there in the hallway across from the silverware tray. In the next few minutes, the back story poured out. Jennifer and Abel were married three years ago. Abel is in the military and when he got his orders to be deployed he and Jennifer only had three weeks. So they were married at the courthouse down the street. They celebrated their nuptials with a dinner at The Starving Artist Café. They sat at the magical table where I wrote, "He Loves Her." All we need is love. Jennifer and Abel have it and now they have their own song. Who needs the Beatles?.. . egardless of which part of the country you may be from, dear reader, just about everyone can identify with the terms “garage sale, yard sale or tag sale.” Whatever you choose to call it, it nets out to being a synonym for “We are about to witness a feeding frenzy and we are nowhere near a shark tank.” Or, even more graphically, “It’s VERY early on a Saturday morning and there’s already been to fights over an old lamp!” Grandpa, inadvertently became a part of this happening sixty-five years after his untimely demise. Our house had simply become too big for my husband and myself. To big and WAY too expensive and difficult to keep up with its pool, spa, large yard and many fruit trees. Our kids were all grown and gone and we are just rattling around in a too-big home which now longer made any practical or financial sense. The time had come to face the obvious solution; we needed to sell the house. When one is confronted with downsizing, usually the next thought (close on the heels of “We’re Moving!) is GARAGE SALE! Since we had been in our home nearly eight years and had come from a much larger place prior to that, we had managed to accumulate tons of “stuff.” It was stashed in every closet, the garage, and the attic. We were the ideal candidates for a garage sale. Dutifully, we threw ourselves into the sorting, trips to Goodwill, preparation and pricing for a truly monumental sale which would be held not only in our garage but also in several rooms of our house. (You cannot drag a refrigerator into the garage just so someone can get a good look at it!) The morning of our sale dawned clear and sunny. At least an hour before our advertised opening time, a line of people stretched from our front door, down our driveway and out to the street. “Oh Good!”, I thought, “What a truly awesome turnout.” Please allow me to condense the next several hours into saying that we had a frenetic, wonderful, raucous time. The interesting thing about garage sales is that you really “get into it.” A couple of hours into it we were selling things we had no intention of selling for prices we’d have sneered at the night before. Soo. . . It didn’t seem odd at all to me that this pleasantlooking lady asked me if I’d take five dollars for that “old picture standing over there by the workbench.” (We had decided that the end of the workbench was the end of C arolyn Drane has had two careers in the past. She was, for many years a Registered Nurse and then sold Real Estate for twenty years in California, where she was also a member of a writer’s club. She is currently a part-time staff member at the Maumelle Senior Wellness Center and loves her job. Carolyn has five children plus their spouses and nineteen grandkids. the “sell/no-sell” zones.) “Sure, you can have that for five dollars,” I said in a distracted way (I was in a hot negotiation on a big ticket item at the time.) barely looking over my shoulder to see what picture I’d placed there. The sale went happily rolling along, we made a lot of money, sold a LOT of stuff And ended that day going out for a celebration dinner with a bit of our new-found wealth. A couple of weeks later, I was shopping in one of the quaint antique shops that had sprung up in our town like so like so many wildflowers. There was a really lovely display in one corner of the store that had an end table with Victorian knick-knacks on it, a really pretty hand painted lamp with a picture hanging behind it. As I leaned over to read the price tag hanging on the lamp, I found myself staring “eyeball-to-eyeball” with my Grandpa. . . And he didn’t look happy!! OMIGOSH! That was the “old picture” the lady had asked me about! When we had closed up my Grandparent’s home in northern Ohio, we had brought to California a number of large, framed family pictures. Most of these had somehow never made it into our house, but sat for years in one corner of our garage. Somehow, I had accepted the fact that we had never actually hung these pictures, but the fact that I had “sold Grandpa” was little more tan even I can take, and I am usually fairly impervious to guilt. Do you have any idea what it feels like to stand in front of a cash register, portrait of your Grandpa in your arms, about to pay four times the amount you sold it for from your garage, hoping that your name has not already mysteriously disappeared from the “Births” column of the old family BIBLE?? I should tell you, before I go any further, that I have been properly chastised and paid my debt to the family. The two children that I chose to tell about the incident (the two I that are least likely to be blabber-mouths) have heaped enough grief and guilt on my head to last me a lifetime. “Geeze, Mom, you sold GRANDPA??!! How could you do something like that? What were you thinking?” Also, after years of living in the garage is now prominently displayed in the Guest Room of our new, smaller house. He gazes out on the antique furniture as if to say, “You know, you wouldn’t even have this room furnished if it wasn’t for me. It’s MY darn furniture, you know!” My husband gave Grandpa a long, searching look on the day we ensconced him in that back bedroom, turned to me and said, “He STILL doesn’t look happy! I agree, he doesn’t and it’s making me nervous! www.MauMag.com He Loves Her Grandpa Comes Home the door, the next occupant was the woman I wrote the song for! I gasped, but characteristic of me, I just went for it. Off the high dive, scared to death, but afraid of missing this surely oncein-a-lifetime opportunity I blurted out. “I know this is really going to sound weird, but I wrote a song about you.” I peeked around the door and into the hallway. Standing next to her, as I opened the door a smidge more, I could see the other person in the song. I winced, still trying to read her face. “Really, the song is about you and ...is that your...husband?” 41 Photographs courtesy of members of the Maumelle Photography Club. - 501.960.6077 By Larry Egger By John Schwankhaus By Max Baker By Larry Egger By Roger A. Frangieh By Angela Wiser 42 By Desmond Walls Allen By Harvey (Bill) Durham www.MauMag.com MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 By Roger A. Frangieh 43 By Austin Pittman ifteen years ago when I started working in the photo industry there was basically one thing that you could do with your photographs. You shot a roll of film, brought it in for developing, and got your prints. You could enlarge the prints and frame them to put them on your wall, but that was about the extent of the choices that you had. With the advance of digital photography however, all of that has changed. Although there are far more images being captured today than ever before, fewer and fewer are being printed in the traditional 4X6, 5X7, and 8X10 format. So what are people doing with all of these images? There are some really cool new things out there that you can now do. Photo gifts are becoming a very popular way to display your pictures, and they allow you to see your best shots every day while working, playing, and living your lives. You can have your pictures put on mouse pads, coffee mugs, t-shirts, iPad/ MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 F 44 iPhone cases, puzzles, cutting boards, aprons, golf towels, koozies, Christmas tree ornaments, and just about anything else you can think of. They make great gifts for parents or grandparents. Who wouldn’t want to look at their adorable grandkids every day while drinking their morning coffee? Custom-made photo books are another very popular choice. You can take images from your summer vacation and build a hardbacked photo book, complete with custom photo layouts and text on each page. Or how about a photo calendar? With custom images, birthdays, anniversaries, and other important dates, you build it how you want it. As you can see, there is an almost unlimited variety of ways to show off your favorite images, going way beyond your standard 4X6 print. The popularity of canvas gallery wraps has exploded over the last few years. These canvas prints, mounted and stretched on boards, are beautiful, easy to hang, and a great way to display your photographs. They are available in multiple sizes, as small as 8X10 inches and as large as 24X36 inches. Because they are mounted on the boards, they ustin Pittman is the Vice Presi- stick out a few inches dent of Operations for Bedford’s from your wall when Camera and Video stores in the Little Rock area. Austin has been a Certified Photographic Consultant since 2000. He lives in Maumelle with his wife Shannon and son Andrew. Austin may be reached by email at [email protected]. A For the Love of Coffee By Shannon Odom mounted, giving it a cool three dimensional look. Also the texture of the canvas material gives the print a very unique look. The wave of the future is going to be pictures printed on metal. The photos are sublimated directly on to a sheet of brushed aluminum, and they look incredible. “Stacking” these metal prints is a brand new concept, and gives you a really cool look. You print a background image on a large piece of metal, then put smaller metal prints on top of the larger one. Spacers in between the images help to distinguish and separate the foreground images from the background. What you get is a customizable t h r e e dimensional print that looks great as a piece of wall art. I believe that we are on the cusp of an explosion in the popularity of metal prints similar to what we have seen the last few years with canvas gallery wraps. As you can see, there are some really cool new ways to show off your photography. Don’t leave your great pictures on your camera, computer, tablet or phone! All of these ideas are easy to do, either in a store using kiosks or online. Give it a try, and amaze your friends and family with your creativity! all along! I t’s no secret to anyone who knows me- I am an addict. From the wee age of two, I can remember holding that warm cup between my small hands, and carefully sipping the brown liquid. Granny would prepare it for me, and put my cup on a saucer, with a spoon on the side, so I could stir it. It wasn’t hot, just lukewarm, filled with milk and sugar, as if the coffee itself were only a side note. Still, it was the best thing to me; it made me feel grown up and I loved the special attention. As a mischievous toddler, I would inevitably get caught by my mother, who would chastise not only fter careers in the real estate and A hospitality industries, and raising one beautiful daughter, Allie, Shannon Odom devotes her time to working in the family business. Her hobbies include cooking, writing and being a home body. She and her elderly dog, Dayzi, live in North Little Rock. me, but her own mother as well. Coffee is a tradition in my family. Everything about it – the smell of fresh ground, the sound of an old percolator, the taste of that first sip – gives me pleasure and brings back memories. Raised in the South, I was always prepared when I had a home of my own to offer someone coffee and dessert on a moment’s notice. Over the years, I’ve owned every kind of coffee maker, taker and contraption on the market. I have roasted my own coffee beans, and even eaten a few roasted beans when I was in a crunch, with no brewed coffee in sight. I broke the glass carafe of my first three French presses before I received a large stainless steel press one Christmas. I still have that one. It bounces. According to StatisticBrain.com, 54% of Americans over the age of 18 drink coffee every day, which equates to approximately 100 million of us. We, as a country, spend $4 billion per year importing coffee to the US, 30% of which comes from Brazil. On average, 60% of us claim we “need” coffee to start our day, whether it’s black (35% of us prefer it) or a specially blended coffee beverage, such as lattes, cappuccinos, or mochas. Americans spend around $18 billion per year on specialty coffee- whether blended into a beverage or not- yet on average each person in America spends only $164.71 per year. I’d like to think I’m one of those people, but that statistic blew my mind. If that were my coffee budget, I would only make it through the first quarter of each year! And no, that’s not a fact, because the fact is I don’t want to know how much I spend on coffee. I love it so much I would gladly give up a meal for a perfectly prepared latte. It’s a good thing I’m willing, since it often costs as much as a meal, and has as many or more calories. Incidentally, thirty percent of coffee is consumed between meals, though sixty-eight percent of us have it within the first hour of waking up. If you’re like me, it’s probably best to table all discussions until an appropriate amount is ingested. As a superpower, the United States is the biggest consumer of coffee in the world. Earlier this year, Bloomberg, one of the largest data compilation companies in the world, reported that 83% of adults in America drink coffee, up from 78% last year, according to the National Coffee Association online survey that included 2,840 respondents. The survey also showed daily consumption decreased in ages 18 to 24, and 25 to 39, but increased in ages 40 to 59, and 60 and over. We now know who is running our countryother addicts like me. Many quotes in our society verify our feelings on the subject. Everyone from Abraham Lincoln to Charlie Sheen commented on it, and here are a few of the more interesting quips: “I have measured out my life with coffee spoons.” –T. S. Eliot “Television is not real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.’ – Bill Gates “To me, the smell of freshmade coffee is one of the greatest inventions.” –Hugh Jackman “Although oil is a commodity, it’s still not a commodity like coffee, which, thank God, we will have with us always. At some point the oil will www.MauMag.com Photography It’s No Longer Just Prints Continued on Page 47 45 MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 O 46 ne of the puzzling, sometimes amusing, aspects of American wine writing is the reliance by far too many writers on imagined language skills that sound impressive but fail to communicate. Instead of straightforward, plain-spoken, descriptive wine words, they use terms that have no reasonable connection to wine. In a five line wine review, a writer might report flavors of oyster shell, lemon, white peach, and vanilla, together with a mineral aspect, combined with a briny seashore element on the middle palate. So, what does such a wine taste like? I don’t have a clue. I’m fond of oysters but have never tasted (and have no intention of tasting) oyster shells. I would be at a loss to describe in a way that could be understood how the taste of a white peach differs from other colors, or if such tastes actually exist in wine. I have not the vaguest idea of how a briny seashore element fits into wine tasting, since brine is salty and salt is not an element of drinking wines (although it is sometimes added to drinking wine to turn it into “cooking” wine so that the wine can be sold for cooking in areas where the sale is otherwise unlawful). Then I would question just how a “briny seashore element” tastes or how it differs from one farther out at sea away from the seashore or, conversely, even a bit inland. I have no idea how wine tastes on the middle-palate or on whatever other palates may exist nor what the mineral might be that the taster found in wine. Many years ago when I started writing about wine an experienced wine writer wrote a book in which he listed descriptive tasting terms. There were only a few dozen such terms, K perhaps sixty. Today, you may find several hundred wine adjectives in one issue of one wine magazine, few Except for the amusement they provide, I am totally turned off by such nonsense. I even have a word that describes it. Yes, that’s the correct word, “nonsense.” I am happy that such writing is almost totally absent from the writing Germans do about their wines. Take my word, you will never find a German wine described by its maker as having a startling resemblance to (I’m making these descriptions up, of course, but actual examples abound), “the sterile yet flinty end taste of immature Yucca plants from an arid American desert.” Instead, on German wine labels you will find amazingly helpful, understandable descriptions. These usually include the name of the person who produced the wine, the vintage, the village which is nearby, the region surrounding that village, the name of the grape variety, the alcoholic strength of the wine and the size of the bottle. And that’s just the basic information which starts the emphasis on standardization and completeness. The German wine scale starts with the inexpensive, everyday wines which are quaffed in Germany but which, for obvious reasons, are seldom brought into the United States. Upscale a bit from these most basic wines are the more superior wines of higher sugar content, each with its own Germanic description and quality. These start at the lower end with Kabinett (English:cabinet) wines which, originally the owner put aside for his own use. These wines usually have few negatives but their superiority may rest mostly in the mind of the owner and the price he asks for it. Most often, Kabinetts though are sound, well made and worth exploring. A bit higher on the quality scale of German wine is Spatlese which is made from late harvested grapes and is usually (but not always) sweet. en Forrester, a retired administrative law judge, is the published author of numerous articles and columns on wine. Ken is a member of the Authors League, the American Wine Society and the Society of Wine Educators. The required later (7 day minimum) harvest exposes the grapes to rain, insects, fungus and other negative factors, causing the somewhat higher quality Spatlese to cost more. Auslese (select harvest) wine is made from selected, very ripe hand-picked bunches of grapes with an expected increase in quality, sweetness and price. While Auslese wines are made from selected bunches of grapes. Beerenauslese wines are made not from selected bunches but from selected, individual grapes, picked from those bunches, so it’s easy to guess what happens to quality and price. At the upper end of quality, taste and price are the trockenberrenausles (no, it won’t be on the spelling test) which may be translated as “select dry berry harvest” or something similar. These wines are made from selected overripe, shriveled, raisin-like grapes, which makes them extremely rich. As used here “Trocken” (dry) means the grapes are dried on the vine, not that the resulting wine is dry (non-sweet). Before we leave our truncated discussion of trockenberrenauslese we must mention “noble rot,” which is generally known as botrytis cinerea and more specifically is edelfaule in Germany and pourriture noble in France. This is a mold that forms on the skins of ripening grapes, bringing a concentration of sugar and flavor and an unbelievable price increase. You may recall that it is a mainstay in the production of some Sauternes in France where it reaches its peak in Chateau d’Yquem. Then there is Tokay wine. Not the cheap American version beloved by winos but the Hungarian wine, Tokaj Aszu, which starts as resembling somewhat an Auslese and increases in sweetness as additional baskets of over-ripe grapes which have been attacked by the noble rot are added to the basic grapes. These baskets are called puttonyos. A wine indicated on the label to be five puttonyos or higher and called Eszencia is rare, full bodied, expensive and delightful In a class by itself among German wines is Eiswein (Ice wine), made from grapes that are partially frozen by the combination of late harvest and the low temperatures that are common to Germany. The grapes are harvested and pressed and the juice is made into Eiswein which is enjoyed as a rarity rather than as a necessarily top wine. Ice wine is sometimes produced in Arkansas but weather conditions rarely favor its production. The German-type wine with which Americans are likely the most familiar is Liebfaumilch, a catch-all name for a white wine. This is one of the best known wine names and the wine ranges in quality from poorest to the best. Its enjoyment depends more on the expertise and ethics of its maker than on far-out adjectives. This column is a start but only a start toward the enjoyment of German wines. For greater enjoyment, experiment a bit, find one (or several) that suit your individual taste, enjoy some today, then lay down bottles or cases for future enjoyment. The rewards can be great. For the Love of Coffee...Continued on Page 45 run out.” –James Surowiecki “Coffee is a language in itself.” –Jackie Chan “If it wasn’t for the coffee, I’d have no identifiable personality whatsoever.” –David Letterman “I am a coffee fanatic. Once you go to proper coffee, you can’t go back. You cannot go back.” –Hugh Laurie “I judge a restaurant by the bread and by the coffee.” –Burt Lancaster “I make a mean cup of coffee, if you give me the right ingredients.” –Ice Cube Many of us have memories that involve coffee, like mine with my grandparents, but it seems that coffee, as a subject, and a product, and a beverage, means different things. If that is your industry, it is how you make a living, and that is certainly a major part of life. I as a writer use it as a subject matter, but also it is a need, a want, a wish. Just as a beverage, it can bring you up when you’re down, and not just from the caffeine. Coffee gives, especially when enjoyed with others, a feeling of well-being and camaraderie. When you visit your favorite coffee shop, no matter what time of day, the sights and smells welcome you. Whether there is a logo of a multi-billion dollar organization above the door, or it’s just a local café where you hang out with others from your neck of the woods, they share an absolute truth: no matter what time, what day or who you came with, there is someone behind the counter waiting to pour you a cup. They might offer you a pastry, listen to you complain about your day, or simply take your money, but they all participate in the experience that is coffee. It is a love affair like no other, and most assuredly a longterm relationship, encompassing many different events in our life. Surely a heart to heart talk with your best friend wouldn’t be the same without it, nor would bonding with that child who so wants to be grown up. It is served at churches, at AA meetings, and at parties. I’m thinking I’ll have a cup now. Why don’t you join me? www.MauMag.com German Wine Nomenclature By Ken Forrester 47 An Original Children’s Story P By Jonathon Cross MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 eaches the penguin broke out of his shell and waddled into the Land of Sand. The Great Penguin had only blessed his parents with one egg but by nature Beach Penguins are humble, and count their blessings. Their Peaches was the first of his generation. He was the pride of his entire family, named after the fruit of the Great Harvest that came each Leaf Down and fed the village all the rest of the year. The High Penguin of the order of Emperors gave him a necklace as his birth-right and from it hung the Seed of Life, a great peach pit which had been inside the first peach to fall during the first Great Harvest in their new village. Penguin legend said that the first seed from the first harvest held within it the magic not just one tree, but a whole field of trees, and that Peaches could be Emperor of his own village someday. He had many cousins, nieces and nephews, but with him came hope for a bright future and a new village in his name. Nothing would make his parents more proud. As Peaches grew older his parents told him stories of the Great 48 J onathon Cross has his B.A. in English Literature yet he works in the banking industry. Writing by night and reading in-between, he shares a home in Maumelle with his loving wife, Lindsay, and playful puppy, Raji. He can be reached at [email protected]. White North and the sacrifices his ancestors made to travel out of the Land of Ice. He wished his family would take a trip to visit that magical place but his parents were too old to make such a journey again. He had a difficult choice to make. He loved his parents very much and knew he would miss them dearly, but he knew he had to go while he had the chance. So, on his third Egg Day, he ventured out of the hills and toward the Great Water. His parents cried as he waddled away, wondering if they’d ever see him again. Peaches was sad, too, but he had to see the world his parents had seen, to make his own choices and decide for himself what was the best life to live. Peaches took a deep breath, dove into the cool water, and began his long journey. He saw the Big Fire come and go many times, and the Big Ice melted into a hook and froze back whole again before he finally made it to the frozen beaches of the Great White North. A small group of penguins huddled together for warmth, their backs turned to the cold, while here and there he could see huddles of Fin Feet dotting the horizon. There were only a few Big Teeth scattered across the Land of Ice and from this distance Peaches thought they were sleeping. He shuffled to the huddle and worked his way towards the middle. “I am grateful for the warmth of your huddle, kind penguins,” he started, “but where are all the others?” “What others?” replied a tall, unhappy looking penguin standing next to him. “The other penguins,” he said. “We are the other penguins, kid,” another said. “All those who could leave left with the fish.” “You mean you’re the only penguins left?” Peaches asked, shocked. “This far north, yes, little one, but not by choice,” a third penguin said. “This is no place for a southern penguin like you. There’s not enough food to go around and you’re not wanted, in any case. No one invited you,” the first penguin said. Peaches didn’t want to be the reason the other penguins were hungry, and he had never thought he would find a place where he wasn’t wanted. Discouraged, he squeezed his way back outside of the huddle and waddled across the ice towards the Great Water. Head hung low, staring at his feet he noticed the necklace he had been given by the High Penguin. The first seed of the first fruit of the first harvest, so too was he the first of his generation and according to penguin legend it held magic. Peaches waddled back to the huddle, took off his necklace and handed it to the bitter penguin. “Here,” he said, “I want you to have this. It seems you need it more than I do. I now know I belong on the beach where I have a home where everyone loves me. It is my hope that one day this too can be said for you,” he finished, once again turning to waddle away. “What’s your name, kid?” the bitter penguin asked, now from the outer edge of the huddle. “Peaches,” he said, before he dove back into the Great Water and began his long journey back to the small village on the beach. Peaches was welcomed by the entire village. Everyone was happy to have him back and was sad to hear of the news from the North until they asked what had happened to his necklace. “I gave them their village back,” Peaches said, and Penguin Legend grew in the years that followed, as more and more penguins made the journey south to tell tale of a seed that was planted in snow and a Great Peach Tree that grew right out of the ice to feed those who remained in the village. Every penguin who made the journey tried to convince Peaches to come back and be their High Penguin Emperor but by this time he had his own family, Penny and their baby penguin, Polly, and his decision to stay was final. Many new villages were founded in his name and all the baby penguins were told the Legend of the Peach Tree Penguin who saved the village in the Land of Ice. That village once again became an empire and every High Emperor was named after their savior. A whole orchard of Peach trees now grows across a field of ice, an everlasting gift from the beach penguin. www.MauMag.com The Beach Penguin 49 Recipes Curried Eggplant Soup Ingredients • Two large Eggplants • 2 Garlic Cloves • One Cup Clear Vegetable or Chicken Broth - divided in two half cups. • One Cup Heavy Cream (or Half & Half). • 1 teaspoon Curry Powder • 1 teaspoon Grated Fresh Ginger • 1/2 teaspoon Freshly Ground Black Pepper • 1/2 teaspoon Sea Salt. Preparation Method MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 Pre-heat oven to 400 degrees. With the tip of a knife, slit three to four small punctures in each eggplant. Place eggplant side by side in an oven tray (Pyrex dish is ideal). Roast eggplants until they completely collapse (about one to one and a half hours). Checking periodically. 50 After eggplants cool down, scrape the eggplant from the skin and put in blender. Add half a cup of the Broth, Heavy Cream and mix thoroughly. Add the remaining ingredients and blend well until very smooth. (You may add a little more broth as needed for consistency). The soup should have a semi-thick consistency. Transfer the soup to a pot and heat on stove top (Medium Setting) until you detect small bubbles at the top. It is important to keep stirring during the heating process to prevent scorching. Adjust seasoning to taste. Paella With Chicken and Seafood Sea Bream (Bass) Spanish Totrilla (alla Veneziano) (omelette) “Andalusian Region” Ingredients This is an Andalusian version. It differs from a traditional Valencia Paella. Ingredients • 1 dozen mussels, scrubbed, steamed open • 1 lb / 1/2 kilo jumbo shrimp (prawns) • 6 tbsp olive oil • 2 lbs / 1 kilo chicken or rabbit, cut into small pieces • 1/4 lb / 100 grams pork, cut in cubes • 1 green bell pepper, cut in pieces • 2 cloves garlic • 1 medium squid, cleaned and cut in rings • 1 large tomato, peeled and chopped • 1/2 cup shelled peas (or green beans, broad beans or artichokes) • 6-7 cups water or stock • 2 1/2 cups medium-short grained Spanish rice • 1/2 tsp saffron, crushed • 1/2 tsp paprika • 2 tsp salt • freshly ground black pepper • 1 red pimiento, cut in strips • 1 lemon, cut in wedges Preparation Method Discard empty half-shells of the mussels. Strain and reserve the liquid. Peel most of the shrimp (shells can be boiled to make a stock). Cook a few unpeeled ones to garnish the paella. Drain and save the liquid. Heat the oil in a paella pan, large frying pan or flat-bottomed wok and slowly brown the pieces of chicken or rabbit and pork. Add the green pepper, garlic and squid, then the tomatoes and peas. (If using beans or quartered artichokes, parboil them first.) Measure out 6 cups of reserved mussel, shrimp broth and water or stock. Add it to the pan and bring to a boil. Stir in the rice with the peeled shrimp. Combine the crushed saffron, paprika, salt and pepper in a cup and dissolve in a little water. Stir into the rice. Cook briskly for 10 minutes, then reduce the heat. Garnish the rice with the cooked mussels and cooked whole shrimp. Top with strips of red pimiento. Cook for a further 8-10 minutes, without stirring. Add a little additional liquid to prevent the rice from scorching. Allow to rest 5 minutes before serving. Garnish with lemon wedges. Ingredients • 1 sea bream (about 1 lb.) • 10 cherry tomatoes, chopped • 1/2 to 1 cup white wine • 10 olives, pitted • 1 Tbs. fresh parsley • 1 Tbs. capers • 2 anchovy filets • 4 cloves of garlic • 1 large lemon • 1 peperoncino, chopped • salt, to taste 6 Tbs. olive oil Preparation Method 1. Preheat the oven to 400 degrees Fahrenheit. 2. Squeeze the juice of one lemon onto a plate. 3. Clean the fish, and place it into the lemon juice. 4. Finely chop the garlic, capers, parsley and anchovies, then saute them in the olive oil until the garlic is a light golden color, using low to medium heat. 5. Add the salt and chopped peperoncino according to personal preference, and saute for about two minutes more. 6. Add the white wine and cook until wine has evaporated, then add the chopped tomatoes and cook for about 10 minutes. 7. Spread the remaining olive oil into the bottom of a baking dish and transfer the fish from the lemon juice to the baking pan. 8. Pour the sautéed ingredients on top of the fish. Add another 1/2 cup white wine, and then bake for 60 minutes. • 125 ml olive oil • 4 large waxy potatoes, peeled and finely sliced • 1 onion, sliced • 4 eggs, lightly beaten • salt and pepper to taste • 1 teaspoon chopped flat leaf parsley (optional) Preparation Method 1. Heat some of the olive in a 20 cm skillet. Add some of the potato slices so that you cover the skillet with a layer of the potatoes. Next, add some of the onions and season with salt. Alternate the potatoes and onions, adding olive oil as you go. Cook this over medium heat, turning the mixture once in a while until the potatoes are tender but not browned. This will take around 15 minutes but cooking times can vary. 2. When the potatoes are done, they should be tender enough to be pricked with a fork without any resistance, drain them in a colander, reserving the olive oil to use for cooking the rest of the omelette. 3. Cool the potato mixture slightly, around 10 minutes and place this in a bowl with the beaten eggs. Allow the mixture to rest for around 10 minutes more. Season with salt and pepper. 4. Clean the skillet and heat 2 tablespoons of the olive in the large skillet until very hot and add the potato mixture, rapidly spreading it out in the skillet. Lower the heat to medium and shake the pan often to prevent sticking. Use a thin spatula to run along the sides of the skillet so that some of the egg can run under and cook more evenly. This takes around 6 to 8 minutes. 5. When the mixture begins to brown and just before you flip the tortilla, loosen it by sliding a thin spatula between the egg and the side of the skillet walls. Place a plate slightly larger than the skillet over the skillet. Remove the skillet from the heat and flip the omelet on to the plate so you can brown the other side. 6. Add about 2 tablespoons of oil more to the skillet, and then slide the flipped omelet back on to the skillet so that the cooked side is facing the top. Cook the omelet for another 5 minutes over medium heat. 7. Flip the omelet 2 or 3 more times (this helps to give a good shape), cooking briefly on each side. 8. Transfer to a plate; use some kitchen paper to drain the excess oil. 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Community. by Pam Rudkin The Dinner By Herman Koch T he Dinner was first recommended to me by a friend, and I have to say: I probably would have passed it right on by otherwise. But this plot and somewhat deviant story is as fascinating a read as I’ve had in a long time. (I owe many thanks to my friend Barbara.) The story is narrated by the main character, Paul Lohman, and the reader is privately introduced to all his most jealous, self-righteous, and loving thoughts, all wrapped up in the mind of a terrified parent. Paul’s only son and his two nephews have taken part in a hideous crime, and he and his wife (first separately, then together) plot to conceal the crime. They find themselves willing to implicate their adopted nephew and go to practically any lengths to protect their own child’s future—willfully overlooking the fact that their son, Michel, has shown no remorse and has even perpetuated similar crimes since their gruesome discovery. Paul’s brother is a rising politician, on his way to becoming the next Prime Minister of the Netherlands. The two sets of parents are all finally aware of the horrific crimes of their children, and they meet to have dinner and discuss how to deal with their crisis. The dinner is the entire setting for the unfolding story. Koch manages to keep you completely bug-eyed to turn the page as he weaves this plot and sad tale…to its shocking end. The reader is empathizing and revolted all at the same time. As a parent, so many thoughts race through your mind as you follow Paul’s thought process. And MauMag | Oct-Nov-Dec 2013 P 54 am Rudkin is the librarian for the Maumelle Library, a branch of the Central Arkansas Library System. She is a graduate of Texas Woman’s University, where she earned her Master of Library Science degree. Rudkin grew up in Harrison, Arkansas and continued her education at the University of Central Arkansas where she earned her bachelor’s degree in journalism. Pam is married and is the mother of three children. Her interests include reading and music composition. Lee Tuxhorn, Agent 11605 Maumelle Blvd Maumelle, AR 72113 Bus: 501-851-0875 [email protected] 1211007 while you never really respect Paul, you can somehow understand him. Paul’s rich, popular, politician brother, of whom he is immensely jealous, offer a “martyr’s” solution, willing to expose the young boys to the authorities as a public relations gesture, hoping to ultimately further his own career. This book has an unexpected and surprise ending that leaves you wondering what the future holds for these characters, and whether or not you could have taken such a road as they chose. The characters in this book are genuinely interesting, and you simply can’t wait to turn the page to find out what horrible (or hopeful) decisions they’ve made. This book is available through the Central Arkansas Library System in print, eBook, and downloadable audio book. 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