Spring, 2015
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Spring, 2015
SPRING 2015 A Birthright Story of Three Generations BIRTHRIGHT — Is a ministry treating all women and babies as sacred.. BIRTHRIGHT — Loves babies to life, one mother and baby at a time.. BIRTHRIGHT — Gives it’s services free of charge, a tax-exempt, charitable organization. BIRTHRIGHT accepts no government funding. IN THIS ISSUE: Page 2 Current Volunteers Board of Directors Alice Sebra Crochets for Birthright Spring Wish List Page 3 Ghana Update Request for Volunteers Mission Statement Special Request Page 4 Tribute to Kath McCartney Page 5 Memorials and Honorariums Gift-Matching Corporations Page 6 Help Form Office Hours The phone rang in the Birthright Office; the caller had a strange question. She wondered if when I look out the window, I saw a bus stop. I said no, but years ago, our office was on the eighth floor, and we could see a bus stop then. She then told me: she was only 16, thirty years ago, when she found herself pregnant. She lived in Edmonton, but not wanting too tell her family, she took a bus to Vancouver (750 miles), to stay with a friend. However, the wild partying atmosphere at her friend’s made her uncomfortable. So, the next day, after leaving a thank you note, she called a taxi and left. She had nowhere to go, so she directed the driver to take her downtown. Then she asked the driver to leave her at a random bus stop. By amazing ‘coincidence,’ it was the bus stop across from our Birthright office. As she sat there with her suitcase, pondering what to do, the volunteer, looking out the window, saw her and thought she was a runaway. After she finished her shift, the volunteer went to the bus stop and spoke to the girl, offering to take her home. There after a warm meal, the girl told the volunteer her dilemma. The next day, the volunteer took the girl to a home run by the Salvation Army. Soon after, she was transferred to Calgary (600 miles). She had a baby boy whom she placed for adoption. Fast forward thirty years: the caller, Nancy, is 46, married, and has two teenage sons. She had spent the summer bonding with them, and for the first time, told them of their older brother. It was then she realized she had not thanked the volunteer— hence the phone call. Nancy could not remember the volunteer’s name. A week later, Nancy called again. She had redeemed some airline points, and was coming to our annual Birthright Conference to tell her story. Another amazing ‘coincidence’ was, a long-lost address book surfaced this week. In it was the volunteer’s name. Sarah, the volunteer had retired because of poor health, but was going to attend the Conference. The day of the Conference, Nancy appeared. She told her story to the visibly touched audience. Then she went to Sarah, gave her a big hug and a kiss, and thanked her. There was not a dry eye in the room. Postscript: Nancy emailed me: she found her son. He was married, had a daughter, and they were expecting a second child. He was studying to be a doctor. Another email arrived weeks later: a photo of Nancy reunited with her son and granddaughter. BIRTHRIGHT of West Chester is an entirely volunteer organization with no paid staff. All of the help we are able to offer our mothers comes from our amazing volunteers and our wonderful donors. Page 2 CURRENT VOLUNTEERS Sally Austin Therese Bentley Kathleen Bradlee Anne Callahan Dawn Dawson Joanne Dearlove Mary Ann Dignen Ann Downs Rosemarie Duane Carol Falgiano Linda Fantom Kerry Farrell Peggy Gottschall Anne Hall Peg Harsh Mary Lou Higgins Suzanne Kitz Laurie Koehn Christine Mackrell Elaine Merhar Patty Obrecht Ann Pohl Kristi Russell Emily Scarola Kay Shaw Mila Solanet Laura Stevenson Mary Ellen Tighe Maggie Vazquez Barbara Wilson Alice Sebra is a retired school teacher who taught for 39 years. She taught math, science, and religion at St. Anastasia’s School in Newtown Square for 19 of those years. She and her husband, now deceased, had five children, four boys and one girl. The children and their families all live in the area with their 13 grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. Alice and her husband were avid Eagles football fans, and enjoyed watching all of their children’s activities. Alice likes to read books for herself and to read to her grandchildren. What is amazing about Alice is that she learned to crochet at the age of nine and has never stopped. She crochets blankets, baby sweaters, hats, booties and many other items. Recently she donated many blankets, baby outfits, and children’s books to Birthright of West Chester. She has also donated baby items to other pregnancy care centers. While Alice is confined to a wheelchair due to a stroke, she still likes to give back to her community. She crochets whenever she can, and she will crochet as long as there is yarn available. She asks that anyone who has extra skeins or part skeins of pastel color yarn, please give them to our Birthright Office at 112 S. High Street in West Chester. We will make sure Alice gets them so she can continue this generous work of hers. Some of the wonderful baby items Alice crocheted for Birthright Director Peggy Gottschall Medical Director Dr. A. Joseph Woodring, MD Board of Directors Therese Bentley Joanne Dearlove Ann Downs Jack Finley Cathy Samoylo Mike Squyres Our Spring Wish List Spring and Summer Baby Clothes 0-12 months Spring and Summer Maternity Clothes, all sizes Yoga-type Pants Size 2 and 3 Diapers Wipes Crib Sheets *** Ourbirthright - Ghana We bring you greetings from Ghana in West Africa. Our doors are open to women and teenagers to help them choose life for their unborn babies. We recently received a call from the Birthright hotline located in Atlanta, GA. A young woman living in Ghana emailed them for help. She was unsure if she could have her baby because she was facing so many obstacles. We immediately took the information from the Hotline staff and called the young woman. This young lady lived 6 hours from our office and had no transportation. She had no medical care and no support from her family. Over the next few weeks we were able to get her prenatal care and working on safe housing. We will continue to stay in touch with her for as long as she needs our friendship and help. The entire country of Ghana has only one pregnancy care office. As a developing nation with no social services, there is tremendous need. When women contact us, we offer them all the same services as a Birthright Office in the US does: free pregnancy tests, medical information, maternity clothes, parenting materials, and such. All of this is necessary, but it is usually our love and concern for them that makes the biggest difference in their lives. All our services are free so we must rely on donations to support our work. When you give to Ourbirthright – Ghana, you offer each of our volunteer staff a healthy dose of encouragement. It tells us that you are in this work with us. This speaks volumes when the days are difficult, and we wonder how we will reach the women who need our support. Thank you; you are appreciated. Your labor in the Lord is not in vain. Doris Asante, Director of Ourbirthright - Ghana Financial gifts may be sent to the West Chester Birthright office designated for Ghana, 112 S. High Street West Chester, PA 19382. Please send clothing donations to Doris 75 Freedom Trail Road New Castle, DE 19720 BIRTHRIGHT needs volunteers who are committed to the spirit of nurturing life, dedicated to the belief that women and babies are important, able to be a friend without passing judgment, and caring and helpful in a positive tangible way. BIRTHRIGHT needs YOU!!! Birthright’s mission is to offer non-judgmental, compassionate support to encourage women to continue their pregnancies. Birthright treats each woman as an individual who deserves kindness and respect, as well as gives personal attention to her unique situation. Birthright is an interfaith, all-volunteer, non-profit agency—one of 500 chapters worldwide. It is completely dependent on donations for support. Birthright is a recognized IRS C(3) Charity. **** We have a special need at the moment: Your used shopping bags and baby shower bags. **** Page 3 Page 4 Kath McCartney- Tribute to a Dedicated Volunteer Kath McCartney was a committed and wonderful volunteer at Birthright of West Chester. We mourn her passing this past September 27th. We would like to honor her with a few words about the kind of person she was and the loving qualities she exemplified. Kath’s sister-in-law, Kay Shaw, had started volunteering at Birthright in 2003. (Kay is also a great volunteer!) In 2006, Kath told Kay that she was going to volunteer at Birthright. Kay recalls that Kath didn’t really discuss her decision. Kath’s way was not to elaborate on things in great detail. Kath tended to listen, state her opinion simply and, then just proceed to get the job done. This was her way at Birthright as well. Kath’s motivation to participate in the work at Birthright came from her immense love of family and children. Told as a young woman that she could not have children, she proceeded to have six and loved being a mother to all. Her pride in her family, including 7 grandchildren, was tremendous. Kath’s dedication to children continued with her service at Birthright. The women who came to the office responded well to her caring manner. Children, in particular, found her easy to approach. Kath also enjoyed her work at Birthright for the friendships she made with the other volunteers. Kath’s dedication to Birthright was truly remarkable. After breaking her hip, not once but twice, all her friends at Birthright were amazed to find her just showing up at the office , with no fan-fare or notice, after only four weeks. Nothing kept Kath down; she never wanted anyone to fuss about her. And after a serious illness with great complications, Kath continued to volunteer at Birthright despite being in a wheel chair. She was happy to come and provide a smiling face and supportive voice to all – clients and volunteers. She celebrated one’s good news and never forgot to ask in her quiet, calm way about a concern heavy on one’s heart. Everyone at Birthright is grateful to have known Kath. She is truly missed. Our sympathy to Kath’s beautiful family, particularly as this first Mother’s Day approaches. There were many memorial donations made in Kath’s honor including: Mike & Pat Markowski Mr. & Mrs.John Naber Linda Fantom Mrs. E. Buckley Sue Kitz Mr. & Mrs. Michael Miles Mr.& Mrs. Kevin Burke & Family Mr. Richard Bernstein Villa Maria Academy Michelle & Jim Mattson Ann Downs Bob & Peg Gottschall Ms. Kathleen Barrett Joan Brown Mr. & Mrs. John Samoylo Mr. & Mrs. Leo Parsons Villa Maria Academy High School Jason Bologna & Maria Carrillo John Reilly Katayoun Copeland Karen S. Marston Sally Austin Elaine Merhar Floyd & Elizabeth Pachella Mr. & Mrs. Jerry Sturman Mr. & Mrs. James Maguire Jennifer Hussey Mrs. Rosemarie Fritz Diane Gallagher Mr. & Mrs. Charles Pearson American Auto Wash Inc. Mr. & Mrs. Joseph Harkins Kay Shaw Bill & Laura Bauer Terri, Jay, Patrick, Colleen & Megh Gerald Makoid Bea Witzler Therese Bentley Mr. & Mrs. Timothy Rice Mr. & Mrs. James Connell Carole Hussey MEMORIALS for Loved Ones With sincere gratitude we acknowledge the family and friends who have made a gift in memory of their deceased loved ones. Birthright is able to give love and hope to mothers in need because of the generosity of our friends. In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of In Memory of Gianna Mashett Henry Tenaglio Sean McCormick Msgr. Thomas Scanlon Joan Golub Fred & Rita Bachman Frank Christenson Nicholas Casaccio Miriam Keon Staten Santiago Monge Jack Manning Joseph & Virginia Shea Marilyn Dixon Joan Golub Sr. Betty Ann Meade by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: St. Patrick’s Knight of Columbus Council 13490 Albert Golub Albert Golub Albert Golub Albert Golub Mr. & Mrs. Clemens Arlinghaus Madeline Christenson Albert Golub Kathleen Jordan (her aunt) Judith Bonifacino (her son-in-law) Margaret Manning (her husband) Rev. James Shea (his parents) Richard R. Dixon(his wife) Albert Golub (his wife) Albert Golub HONORARIUMS Birthright & Joan Herald Jody Lawrence James & Jane Dukovic Mr. & Mrs. John D. Whalen Carol Pfeifle Ann Downs The Malinowski Family Dr. John Gottschall Elaine Merhar Ann Downs Group Beth Hallanan Beth Hallanan Beth Hallanan Rich & Mary Colsher William Mark Schachinger by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: by: Ms. Carol Clark Anonymous Nancy Seeberger & Tom (in honor of 6o years of memories) Ms. Beatrice Lock Pat & Kim Henry (her sister) The Allen Family Charitable Trust Peg & Bob Gottschall Peg & Bob Gottschall Mr. & Mrs. David Wascak Michael Downs (his mother) Ms. Jane Petner Mr. & Mrs. Robert Manley Mr. & Mrs. Andrew Fow (on her 50th birthday) Mr. & Mrs. Joseph Torchiana (on her 50th Birthday) Al & Mary Liz Heumann (on their 50th Wedding Anniversary) Mr. & Mrs. Wade Stallard (to honor his birth) GIFT-MATCHING CORPORATIONS American Charities Boeing EC Fund Combined Federal Campaign Microsoft Corporation General Electric GSK Merck Partnership for Giving Pfizer Prudential Foundation PSEG Birthright of West Chester has been Encouraging Moms to Have Their Babies for 30 years! United Way Verizon Foundation Page 5 Non-Profit Org U.S. Postage PAID West Chester, PA Permit No. 378 112 S. High Street West Chester, PA 19382 610-436-0773 RETURN SERVICE REQUESTED “It is the right of every pregnant woman to give birth, and the right of every child to be born.” ……...Birthright Charter www.facebook.com/BirthrightWCPA www.youtube.com/BirthrightWCPA BIRTHRIGHT of West Chester is an entirely volunteer organization with no paid staff. All of the help we are able to offer our mothers comes from our amazing volunteers and our wonderful donors. 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