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St. Matthew the Apostle Church
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Issue 2
May 2016
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Pastoral Reflection: Mercy
The Pope gives an Angelus address every Sunday at noon before praying the Angelus
with the crowd gathered. In Pope Francis’ very first Angelus address in 2013 he
said, “Mercy changes everything.” It should come as no surprise then that he has
declared a Jubilee Year of Mercy for the Church which we celebrate until November
20th this year. He desires that we view this year as a new chance to “be steeped in
mercy, so that we can go out to every man and woman, bringing the goodness and
tenderness of God!” (MV,5)
Mercy is nothing new to Christianity. Mercy is Christ Himself. Remember the
Good Thief? After breaking laws and being sentenced to an awful death, he came
face to face with Jesus as they hung together on crosses. This criminal was moved
to confess Him as Lord and ask for His pardon. Remember the woman caught in
adultery? Jesus does not condemn her, but sees her grief and sorrow for her sin.
He teaches those about to stone her that a person can be forgiven, and offered the
opportunity to live a dignified life in the truth of virtue and love. Jesus reveals an
important fact about mercy: it is for all repentant sinners.
We learn from the good thief that humility and courage are important to being able
to receive mercy. It is tempting to live according to our own morality, to justify the
behavior in our life that is not in accord with God’s law. The good thief was given the
incredible opportunity to meet mercy face to face; to meet Jesus and die alongside
Him. We too are able to meet mercy face to face; to meet Jesus so that we can die
to our disordered desires and sinfulness. It takes humility to call Jesus “Lord” and
surrender our lives to His mercy. To grow in humility and love of Jesus takes prayer – every day. One way to meet Jesus face to
face is by making time to visit the Divine Mercy Perpetual Adoration Chapel in the Undercroft of our church.
We learn from the adulterous woman that trust is important. She trusted Jesus in that great moment of fear. She trusted
that He would have an impact on those around her and speak the truth about her situation. As Catholics who embrace the
Sacraments, we want to go to Confession as often as needed to grow in grace. (The Church, out of concern for our spiritual wellbeing, requires us to confess our mortal sins at least once a year.) We can trust that, even if we fear the act of saying our sins
out loud, Jesus redeems and strengthens us to go forth to live in the freedom of His love. Even if we fear other people knowing
our sins and judging us for it, or not forgiving us, ultimately it is Jesus Christ and His response of mercy that matters most.
In addition to the usual weekend times at St. Matthew, Confessions are now heard every Wednesday morning, from 7:00 a.m.7:30 a.m. It is our hope that more and more parishioners will trust in the Divine Mercy of Jesus by seeking His forgiveness and
grace to conquer sin; to steep ourselves in His mercy and to grow in sharing that mercy.
The Annual Parish Festival:
The parish’s annual Festival will be held July 21st, 22nd and 23rd. The
Festival offers great food, games, Monte Carlo, and more! There are
many ways to get involved. We are always looking for members to
join our Festival Committee, which meets monthly through June. We
also need a tremendous amount of help on the days before and of the
Festival. If you are interested in learning more or getting involved in any
capacity, please contact Patrick and Taylor McHale (614-736-1544 or
[email protected]).
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My RCIA Journey: by Andi Arens
The Stepping Stone to an RCIA Journey
The hours after the Easter Vigil were some of the most emotional of my
life. Joyfully recounting the details of the evening with my husband, I would
suddenly dissolve into tears as the significance of what had transpired settled
into my heart. In the span of a few minutes, a lifetime of sin was washed away
in the waters of baptism. I publically confirmed that I believe in Jesus and His
Church. His body, His blood, His soul and His divinity entered into my body
and heart for the very first time. It’s hard, even today, to put into words what
those hours meant to me. My journey of faith, such a twisting and winding
road, had brought me to that night full of gratitude and excitement.
by Claire Bridinger
Except for a few years in the Baptist Church as a child, there was no religious
structure in my life. As I grew older, there were those fleeting moments when
I would feel something, but I would never have acknowledged it as God –
such as the births of my children and watching my grandmother pass away.
However, very gradually, I started believing in and praying to this ambiguous
creation of who and what I thought God was.
I started attending Mass with my husband in 2013. Sitting in the pews I felt
as if there was no way “these people” would ever accept me. I had lived too
hard, made too many mistakes, said terrible things about religion. But God
had cracked open a window in my obstinacy, and I started hearing things in
the homilies. I would find myself humming the hymns days after Mass. I didn’t
need to be able to call it the Holy Spirit; I just felt it.
In the fall of 2014, in a time of great crisis, I was brought to my knees
wounded, terrified and utterly hopeless. I had felt God standing behind me
when I was alone, holding me up and nudging me gently forward when I was
scared but all of the sudden, He grabbed my shoulders and gently turned me
around so I could see His face. It was Him! All along, it was Him! And that was
the moment that my life changed forever.
I went to see Karen Burford and told her that I wanted to become a Catholic.
Unfortunately, I just missed the 2014 RCIA Class. I had to wait almost an
entire year for the next cycle, but I spent that year reading, listening to
AM820, attending Mass every week and asking questions – lots of questions.
When RCIA finally started this
past fall, I was so excited! The
very first night I came in and
met Yvonne, who became my
Sponsor and Tuesdays quickly
became my favorite day of
the week. We were anointed
as Catechumens in the Rite
of Welcoming, and it was so
powerful to have our Sponsors
make the sign of the cross on
our bodies. On Valentine’s Day,
Bishop Campbell welcomed us in
the Rite of Election, and it was on
that evening, that he pointed out
that Jesus had called our names, and we had answered. I had never thought of
it in that way. A few weeks later, I attended the Catholic Women’s Conference
with my Sponsor and other women from St. Matthew, and I felt the powerful
presence of the Lord in the hearts of those thousands of women. The weeks
whizzed by and soon it was Holy Week. Then suddenly, it was Saturday, March
26. The day I had been waiting for. I used to think I waited over a year for that
day to come. I know now that I waited my whole life.
This is just the beginning of my Catholic life. I know that the real work starts
now. My prayers of asking to that ambiguous concept of God have evolved
into sincere prayers of praise and gratitude to our Lord Jesus. Revealing
Himself to me ultimately led me to finding myself in His eyes.
My RCIA journey began over 10 years ago with what I
perceived to be just a stepping stone in my career.
I grew up in several Protestant Churches, and I drifted
away in my college years. Sundays were for sleeping in,
as it was the only day my college softball coach wasn’t
allowed to schedule practice. During my second year of
college, I met my husband and on our second date, he
invited me to attend Mass with him. I was impressed
with his openness about his faith, but told him that
I hope he didn’t expect me to convert because that
wasn’t going to happen. I will never forget his gentle
response: “I will never ask you, but I will always support
you in faith.” I didn’t realize the impact this event and
his careful words would have on my life.
Two years later, I was a new graduate applying for what
seemed like nonexistent PE teaching jobs. I was thrilled
to get a call from Mrs. Carole Marsh at a place called
St. Matthew School, and I was even more excited
to get the job. From my perspective, at the time,
this was a great stepping stone. I gain a few years of
experience and move on to bigger and better things.
I was welcomed by a wonderful, caring faculty and staff,
as well as a vibrant and thriving community of students,
parents, and parishioners. I felt so lucky to have been
led here. Two years passed, then five, then seven, and
every spring when the job postings appeared, I never
looked. I was happy, content, and not interested in
leaving what had surprisingly come to feel like home.
During my 8th year of teaching, I began to notice
something was absent in my life. I had a steadfast,
loving, and hard-working husband, a beautiful daughter,
a job I love going to every day, yet there was emptiness.
In October, I decided I needed to go to Church. I wasn’t
sure where to go. My husband suggested I go to St.
Matthew; at least I’d know some parishioners. The
following week, a colleague and friend invited me to
sit with her family. I felt this is exactly where I needed
to be every Sunday. In the next two months, I realized
that my commitment to this community wasn’t just
about my teaching job. I no longer wanted to marvel
at this loving community, I wanted be a part of it! On
Christmas Day, I asked that same colleague and friend
to be my RCIA Sponsor.
Without
hesitation,
she joyfully replied,
“Absolutley!” It seems
that
the
“stepping
stone,” from a decade
ago, has actually become
the foundation on which
I
confidently
stand,
ready to receive the
sacraments of initiation,
and become one of the
faithful that helped draw
me to this place.
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A Reflection by Father Mike Hartge
I was walking to the door of the Fayette County Memorial Hospital one Monday afternoon in February, and I said to myself, “I love my
job.” This was the second of five stops to anoint homebound parishioners as I crisscrossed a frigid Fayette County amidst falling snow that
looked more like cotton balls than flakes. I knew immediately that those unexpected words I murmured to myself were sincere. Although
I was going to visit someone in the ICU unit, I had a consolation unique and powerful to bring with me, namely in the Blessed Sacrament,
the Sacrament of Anointing, and in the presence of the Priesthood of Jesus Christ. Before May 30, 2015, that wouldn’t have been the case.
Priesthood is of course so much more than a job, and I couldn’t be happier and more content with the way I spend my days. However, the
contrast is stark. In the years before seminary, I spent my days in my office calling record representatives or in the radio studio. Now, I
travel regularly to four different parishes. From pilgrimages to potlucks, from Baptisms to burials, from Misa en Español to English, I enjoy
the adventure of this vocation to the priesthood immensely.
Fr. Hahn has been an exceptional pastor to assist and learn from. It’s been rewarding, right out of seminary, to have the three of us priests, Fr.
Hahn, Fr. Dooley and myself, living together and spending time together. Upon ordination, I expected to be assigned as a parochial vicar to a
large, suburban parish as has often been the case in recent years. This assignment to a new consortium of parishes has allowed me to experience
priesthood in a unique way from what I observed while growing up in St. Matthew Parish and in my summer seminarian assignments.
Just over a year ago, three Franciscan sisters of the Immaculate Heart of Mary (FIH) came to the convent at St. Peter to assist St. Peter,
St. Mary, and Waverly Parishes with outreach. (This was before St. Colman and St. Sylvester came on board.) Along with the kindness
and encouragement I have received from the parishioners in the Consortium these past months, Sr. Amelia Mary, Sr. Shani Mary, and Sr.
Leonard Mary, have been a wonderful source of support for me. They are always ready to be of assistance, and are frequently concerned
with my well-being, asking such things as, “Father, have you had your lunch?” They encourage me to give more of myself as I spend time
with them traveling to our homebound and nursing home parishioners around Chillicothe and to the patients at the VA hospital. They
are helping to shape these nascent days of my priesthood in such an unexpectedly positive way. I’m very grateful to be working in the
vineyard of the Lord with all three of them.
I think often and fondly of my home parish. I’m grateful for the good work for the Lord that continues to increase at St. Matthew, most
especially at this time in the Divine Mercy Chapel. Perpetual Adoration is such a gift to the east side of Franklin County. Consider in your
prayer how you can spend time with Our Lord in that chapel. Our Lord is patient as He calls us to conversion, but we must respond quickly
to that invitation.
And, while you’re in there, pray for more priests for our diocese. This “small town” assignment of mine covers four counties for heaven’s sake!
With love,
Fr. Mike Hartge
CONGRATULATIONS to those who received the Sacrament of Baptism
Zoey Rose Panda, Elaina Diane Smith, Domenico David Madrid, Carter Jean Bendoff, Olivia Rose Doyle-Wenger, Jaileen Cricel
Gutierrez, Isaac Kolbe Ryan, Mackenzie Grace Stutzman, Wyatt Emerson Hall, Nolan Edward Pyzik, Caroline Frances Rudolph, Evelyn
Mary Boyden, Daniela Gamino, August William Schmitt, Rebecca Ann Dodaro, Brandon Miles Fuentes, Penelope Marie Tilson,
Brennan Edwards, Annabelle Tayem, Cody Tayem, Jackson August Baer, Micah Phillip Hess, Hudson Michael Jackowshi, William
Kenneth James, Ethan Sanchez, Evan Atriz Sanchez, Aubrey Paige Thompson, Evelyn Lee Dishong, Simon Gabriel Rush, Alexander
James Stepp, Madeleine Mary Loveman, Alexander James Stepp and Madeleine Mary Loveman.
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CONGRATULATIONS to our First Communicants
Albree Aaron, Mariane Abbey, Elizabeth Abel, Areli Allen, Marisol Arent, Luke Ball, Jaylee Basten, Kyle Baumann, Katherine Bechtel,
Oliver Bentivegna, Rowan Bickel, Bailey Buerger, Evelyn Cahill, Abbie Canter, Leah Carter, Katelyn Caswell, Caedmon Clark, Kael Clous,
Ethan Collins, Samuel Couhig, Reagan Crosier, Seth Crouch, Brynn Cyre, Christopher Davis, Isabella Delisio, Cole Ditmer, Grace Eiselstein,
Joseph Falzone, Jamison Fanell, Jocelyn Fanell, Charlotte Felter, Natalie Ference, Jeffrey Fields, Micah Frazier, Noah Frazier, Sam Gabrielli,
Elaina Gatch, Rebecca Gebhart, Liam Gemzer, Eva Godbout, William Gray, Emma Hahn, Dawson Harber, Alan “Quinn” Harr, Katherine
Hast, Gavin Hastings, Larkin Hatton, Ashley Helgerson, Tyler Henry, Weston Hewit, Mariana Hoops, Rachel Ille, William James, William Jett,
Kathryn Jordan, Nicholas Keglewitsch, Nicolle Kirlangitis, Jamie Kruse, Nicholas Lacey, Catherine Loveman, Ava Manfresca, Allison Mann,
Madeline McComb, Steven McGann, Donovan McGovern, Josilyn McVicker, Gabrielle Merrill, Vincenzo Migliozzi, Brenden Miller, James
Minic, Emma Minser, Reagan Miracle, Natalia Miranda, Kovi Mitchell, Kathleen Motter, Ava Navarro, Owen Neary, Aubrie O’Donnell,
Jackson Oliveri, James Partlow, Matthew Peck, Rowan Price, Maria (Mia) Puorro, Dominic Raimondo, Kathryn Ratliff, Bryce Reynolds, Tessa
Richards, Declan Richardson, Raegan Rickman, Jack Root, Ellie Rotthoff, Carter Russell, Mila Saveski, August Schmitt, Braden Schrein, Lyla
Scott, Meredith Scott, Jack Slutsky, Abigail Smith, Leah Stacklin, Paige Stygler, Bryanna Treadway, Allyson Truitt, Maxwell Vellani, Dylan Vo,
Luke Voelker, Sophia Warner, Alaina Webb, Dominic Yosick, Sophia Zarcone, and Cynthia Zornes
Preparing for Holy Communion Contributors Christina Amweg, Sherry Schoenstein, Jackson Oliveri
During the month of April, Saint Matthew Parish, along with teachers, families, and friends, witnessed 109 children grow in their
participation in the Church family and assembly at Mass through the sacrament of Holy Communion.
Student and families had their choice of four Masses in April (held on the 16th, 17th, 23rd and 24th) to make their First Communion.
Approximately, 30 students of the Saint Matthew School and the Parish School of Religion received their sacrament together at each of the
four Masses.
As one can imagine there was much to do to prepare for receiving this very important sacrament. At the Saint Matthew School, students
attended Mass every week with their teacher. “In class, we studied the parts of the Mass, as well as the vessels and vestments used during
the Mass,” said Ms. Christina Amweg, 2nd Grade Teacher. Saint Matthew and PSR students also learned the correct hand positions when
receiving Jesus and how to be respectful of the Blessed Sacrament during Mass and Adoration.
The children were also hard at work practicing the Table prayer song, which they sang at the First Communion Retreat held on April 10th.
This retreat was led by Sherry Schoenstein, PSR Coordinator. Both students and parents from PSR and the Saint Matthew School came
together to attend. At the retreat students and parents took part in various activities to assist in preparing for First Communion. “One of
these activities included making the banners that adorn their pews on First Communion Day,” said Ms. Amweg. Another activity was a
reflection. Parents sat down and talked with their child one on one about their own First Communion Day.
Throughout the year, students also journaled their thoughts and feelings about receiving the Sacrament of Holy Communion.
Jackson Oliveri, 2nd grader at the Parish School of Religion, explained some of his thoughts and feelings about preparing for and
receiving his First Communion:
I prepared by practicing and praying. My teachers helped me a lot. The retreat was fun. My favorite part was learning about my
mom’s First Communion. I learned a few new things from playing First Communion Bingo!
On Thursday night at practice, when I tried the wine, I did not like it. I was a little nervous about walking in. Practicing was
helpful, so I would know what to do on Sunday.
For my First Communion, my whole family was there. I liked sitting in the front row, but we could not fit our entire family in
the one pew. I did not like wearing fancy clothes, but it was worth it. I was nervous about dropping the host, but I felt happy to take
Jesus into my body! Now I won’t have to sit and wait for my parents to come back from Communion. Afterwards, people took a lot
of pictures of me. I am grateful for the gift I got from the church. It will help me pray better. I got presents from my family after First
Communion. Now, I feel closer to Jesus!
The Saint Matthew Community is certainly excited to welcome these children into further participation of the Church and witness them
receiving God in the Sacrament of the Eucharist.
CONGRATULATIONS to those who
received the Sacraments of Baptism,
Confirmation, and Eucharist at the Easter Vigil
Melanie Adams, Andrea Arens, Josh Edwards, John Edwards, Ashley
Krichbaum, Kimberly Tayem, Ryan Tayem, Ateawung Tememu,
Chelsea Temenu, and Beza Temenu. We also congratulate those who
were received into Full Communion with the Catholic Church through
the Sacraments of Confirmation and Eucharist: Steven Blausey, Claire Bridinger, Ruth Floyd, Grace Folly, Abbey Morante, Jim Ripke, Kelsey
Ryan, and Lydia Ratinaud. It is with great joy that we welcome you to the Catholic Church and the Community of Saint Matthew Parish!
Congratulations to Robert Evans and Chinechereme Ejikeme, who completed their Sacraments of Initiation with Bishop Campbell at
St. Joseph Cathedral on February 25th.
Catholic Inquiry Sessions to be Held this Summer
Are you or your spouse a non-Catholic who has married into a Catholic family and want to know more about the faith? Do you
have family members or friends who are curious about Catholicism? Our no-pressure, no-commitment inquiry sessions will be
held from 7:00-8:00 p.m. on June 14, June 28, July 12, July 26 and August 9 for those who simply want to explore the teachings
of Catholicism. Topics will be based on the questions of those present. Attend one or all of the sessions with no obligation to
become a member of RCIA. If you would like more information about the Inquiry Series or about RCIA, please contact Jennifer
Cabe at 614-532-0626 or [email protected].
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Friends Across Time Contributors Judeen Hartge, Mary Lager, Thomas Dougherty
In 2004 while visiting my home state of Wisconsin, I reconnected with an old friend, Sherry Power, also a primary grades teacher.
As we chatted, I was fascinated by the program she had devised, Forever Friends, connecting her second grade students with the
residents of a nursing home. Once a month, her students did activities with the older “buddies” in the nursing facility. As noted
on the Forever Friends website, “Our organization believes strongly in the benefits of intergenerational relationships to the entire
community. The wisdom of our elders provides our youngsters with a solid foundation upon which to build their future. At the
same time, the enthusiasm of our youngsters gives a sense of well-being and hope to our elders.”
This inspired me to create a similar program, connecting my Third Grade Class with retired St. Matthew parishioners. I chose this
group because many of these retirees were once very involved with the school through their own children, and this offered a fun
way for them to once again participate in a school activity and enrich the experience of the students. We call our program Friends
Across Time.
Throughout the school year, we meet once a month for an hour in the St. Anthony Room. The group has evolved over the years.
From our start eleven years ago with a small group of older “buddies,” we have grown to a one-to-one match of retirees to
students. Sherry and I kept in touch, sharing ideas and results, and I learned that she had cultivated benefactors, and offered
grants to assist the development of similar programs. For the last four years, St. Matthew has been awarded small grants from
Forever Friends which have enabled us to create support materials such as buttons, posters, letterhead and cover some of the
costs of the program.
As participant, Mary Lager shared her reflection of the program.
“Third Grade Teacher, Mrs. Hartge, plans fun activities that the adults and children can do together. In the past, we have
done various activities including making crafts for Children’s Hospital, played Bingo, shared heritages and customs of ancestors
and enjoyed a spring Carnival. For the children, it expands their horizons as they learn concepts, practice teamwork, share
supplies and activities with each other and do research on projects for a fun episode of learning. It allows us [as adults] to see
what this current, smart, and technology-savvy generation is involved in, and how their childhood is unfolding through their
sports and extracurricular activities.
The “Friends Across Time” program is a great way to unite retired adults and school children in a bond of friendship and
love. I hope to be a part of this program for as long as it exists!”
Thomas Dougherty, Third Grader at St. Matthew, also shares his reflection.
“Friends Across Time is a lot more than just a normal program. Together, the 3rd Graders and the senior citizens get to
choose who their buddies are, and their buddies are their buddies for the rest of the year. The 3rd Graders and their buddies play
games, eat snacks, and sometimes sing a goodbye song at the end of the day. We pray at the beginning of every meeting. I like
talking to Mrs. Lager because she is funny. She likes doing the activities with me. My favorite activity was right before Christmas
when we made door hangers. I feel like Friends Across Time is a very awesome program.”
For more information about the program, please contact Mrs. Judeen Hartge at [email protected].
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A Catechist Story by Heather and Jeff Bernard
My husband Jeff and I never thought we’d be teachers and
certainly never trained for it. It happened out of a need to
help our kids, and that was all the motivation we needed.
We have two children with Autism. We’ve learned a few
things about Autism and education over the years. We send
our kids to a special school and know that they’re in good
hands during the day. Our kids require assistance, so we
were nervous when considering entering PSR. Their regular
school teachers are very highly trained to deal with their
disabilities, but we didn’t know how St. Matthew would
respond.
I decided to become a PSR Classroom Aide and eventually
Catechist for the kids’ First and Second Grade levels. I
worked through the weekly program and helped get the kids
prepared for their First Communion. We were blown away
by the loving attitudes of the Catechists and the Staff, who
bent over backward to help our children learn the faith. We
admired them and moved forward through the Sacraments.
We soon learned that God had a bigger plan for us, and
gifted us with more children. While we started the program with three, we soon had five and needed to find a way to get them involved in
PSR. Since Jeff has a history of studying Scripture, the Catechism and spiritual material, he decided to help me out at PSR.
We’re able to do this, since St. Matthew has been gracious enough to help us with our younger kids, while we teach. As far as the
teaching goes, we plan and execute each week. We get to know the families as friends and are very happy to see the students move on to
Confirmation.
Reflecting, we’ve always worried about the quality of catechesis that our children would receive. Jeff and I both received Catholic
educations, but had mixed results in the quality we received. We were determined to do better for our kids.
We have been teaching for three years now and are always excited to work. The program is simple and we are regularly trained by
diocesan-approved Master Catechists. We learn so much and find brilliant ways to bring the beauty of our Holy Church and the Holy
Family to our students. We no longer fear about the quality of their catechism, as we are deeply engaged in the program that is teaching
them. Our little effort is turning into a huge blessing for our family, and hopefully the same for the families of our students.
We, who know our faith, have found the “pearl of great price,” but happy are we who can share the wealth that we have found! We know
that as Christians the more we pour out, the more we harvest. Jeff and I have found so much joy from this ministry that we have gained
more than we’ve given. The “harvest is abundant, but the laborers are few.”
If you can help this important ministry by sharing your faith, please strongly pray and consider it. If you find that you cannot do it, please
pray for our present catechists and students. Please also pray “the master of the harvest to send out laborers for his harvest.”
PSR an Unexpected Blessing by Patrick McHale, first year Catechist of the 6th Grade
“Even when the task seems too much, the resources too few, the obstacles too great, it should never be forgotten that yours
is a holy work. The Holy Spirit is present wherever the name of Christ is proclaimed.” Pope Francis addressing Catechists and
Teachers (November 27, 2015)
Many thoughts crossed my mind as I considered becoming a Catechist such as, “I don’t know enough or teaching middle school
kids would be hard.” Therefore, I was not eager to teach. In fact, I was fairly uncomfortable with the idea. However, after
much prayerful consideration, I decided to take a chance. I am so glad I did. Creating a lesson plan for my class provided me an
opportunity to learn more about our faith. I became a sponge trying to learn all I could, and I believe it brought me closer in my
relationship with Christ and with my students. The staff was a joy to work with and eager to assist whenever possible.
Working with the students, answering questions, and engaging in discussions and activities was more fun than I could have
imagined. My students have been so great to get to know and they have taught me in our time together. Teaching PSR, like
most ministries, is very rewarding. I believe the experience was good for my family, especially my children. They expressed to
me the pride and joy of witnessing their father’s involvement with our Church. I am thankful for my students, our faculty, and
the many families I met this year.
For more information about the Parish School of Religion, please contact Sherry Schoenstein at [email protected].
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The Daniel Arnold Memorial Foundation by Kevin Arnold
The Daniel Arnold Memorial Foundation (DAMF) was created by a group of supportive friends
after the death of our son on June 5, 2012. It serves the St. Matthew and greater Gahanna
community through charitable works and awarding scholarships to deserving 8th and 12th
Grade students. The genesis of the DAMF began when Lisa Ruth and Teresa Baird suggested
a day of service, Danny’s Day, to be held on the fourth Saturday in June of every year. The first
event was a very successful blood drive held at St. Matthew and was expanded in the following
years to a long list of service activities ranging from cleaning up around the church and school
to serving meals at the Ronald McDonald House.
Luke 12:48 can be paraphrased as “To whom much is given, much is expected.” This was
Daniel’s favorite Bible verse and one he lived by in his final years. It’s even engraved on the
bench marking his grave. Danny’s Day provides members of the St. Matthew community, in
addition to anyone who wishes to join us, a day to do service work for a project they create or with one that has been organized
and needs helpers. Danny’s Day events have brought together hundreds of people giving their time and talents to those in need.
In 2014 and 2015, we saw Danny’s Day events held in Ireland, Italy and Greece. Danny’s Day recognizes that we all have an
abundance of God-given riches, and allows us to pay back with acts of kindness and to live Luke 12:48.
Scholarships is another facet of DAMF. Daniel was an outstanding student from grade school through the Pre-Med Honors
program at the University of Dayton. In honor of his legacy of scholastic achievement and service to his community, the DAMF
invites students with exceptional grades, service, as well as proven leadership and well-rounded extracurricular activities to
submit an essay on how they will live up to Luke 12:48. Selecting the winners is one of the most challenging things the team does
as there are many outstanding students at St. Matt’s, Bishop Hartley, and St. Francis DeSales. To date, over $20,000.00 has been
awarded to students at these schools. At least $7,000.00 will be awarded this year.
To raise funds for the scholarships and the activities during Danny’s Day, Tom Lefever, Tom Eckl, Amy Rees, and Lisa Dawes
stepped forward to start a Golf Outing held each May. Daniel was on the Hartley Golf Team for three years. The 2016 Danny’s
Open Golf Scramble is May 21st, and is open to anyone of any skill level to join us for what has proven to be a fun time at
St. Albans Golf Course in Alexandria. We have felt his spirit at the Danny’s Open through the great weather we attribute to him
each year and through the laughs and good times we share.
In 2014, Kristen Fox, whose son was awarded a scholarship at his Eighth Grade Graduation, proposed a Monte Carlo Fund
Raiser. This aligned well with Danny’s keen interest in Poker and the Science of gaming. Dealing for Danny (D4D) has been very
successful, with the 2015 and 2016 events raising over $13,000.00 for DAMF activities. The 2016 D4D event had 130 participants
and we are planning for many more in 2017!
The Daniel Arnold Memorial Foundation hopes to see you at Danny’s Day or one of our fund-raising events. Even if you cannot
participate, we hope you’ll consider the gifts you have been given and live up to the verse from Luke, just like Daniel did during
his 21 years here with us.
To learn more about our activities, please go to www.danielarnoldfoundation.org.
Banquet of Christ by Joseph Thomas
Have you ever sat in a crowded room but felt so at home or at ease? Have you ever been surrounded by people from such diverse
backgrounds but with the same heart? Being alone can provide one with the solitude to become more involved in a relationship with God.
Still, being with others of shared experience can create a bond even more lasting. For example, stories are shared and the day is recalled
as we sit around the table at dinner with loved ones. We too, as a community, get together at the same table, God’s table, during Mass on
Sunday.
Such an encounter occurred for me at the Men’s Conference this past February. The Catholic Men’s Conference held February 27th was
held at the Voinovich Building at the Expo Center.
I was able to talk to so many of the men attending. Some shared how they came to be there and how their faith had been challenged this
past year. They said it was a true blessing to them and that they became better fathers, sons, uncles and friends to those they knew. Their
motivation came from the inspirational words they heard, the sights, the sounds and their interactions with each other.
Our speakers, Father Larry Richards, Hector Molina, Doug Karam and Bishop Campbell, brought together this unity of spirit and were
dynamic in bringing this audience together. They talked about hope, action, promise and of ways men can contribute in their ordinary
lives. It was a day for fellowship, for seeing what organizations one could become involved with and there was certainly an opportunity for
making good Confession.
We invite a conversation that lasts a lifetime by allowing ourselves to be humbled by Christ. Some of these men came expecting a simple
grouping of community; what many left with, what I personally left with, was the endearing talent for mercy each and every one of us
can have, and do have, for the works of our hands and in the true spirit of giving. They say that releasing your burdens, at least for a
moment, is good for the soul. I tell you now, that I was made better by the experience. I wanted a meal and what I was offered was a true,
unforgettable banquet, Christ’s banquet, kneeling at the foot of the cross.
For more information about the Catholic Men’s Conference, please visit http://columbuscatholicmen.com/.
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Women’s Conference
Contributors Yvonne Diebel, Laura Navarro
and Lauren Shiman
On February 20, 2016, hundreds of women, mothers,
daughters, nieces, wives, and grandmothers, joined
together from 8:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m., at the Ohio Expo
Center for the Annual Catholic Women’s conference.
“From the moment you walked through the door
every minute was filled,” said Yvonne Diebel, St.
Matthew parishioner who attended the conference.
“It always amazes me how the Expo Center is
transformed to a beautiful place of worship,” she
continues.
The day began with the Rosary. Then there was
morning Mass with Bishop Campbell. During the day
there was music, the opportunity for Confession,
Adoration of our Lord, and speakers who shared
stories and testimonies including Jennifer Fulwiler,
Fr. Nathan Cromly, Sonja Corbitt, and singer and
songwriter Sarah Kroger.
For many women the conference had them reflecting
on their journey in their faith. Laura Navarro,
parishioner here at St. Matthew, shares what her
experience at the Conference has meant to her over
time.
“I attended my first Catholic Women’s
Conference in 2014 after my sister asked me to
join her several years in a row. I think I had always
been “too busy” in the past to go, but I had run
out of excuses. Reflecting upon my journey as a
Catholic which began when I was baptized as a
baby, continued through Catholic school and my
adult life, I have to say that my journey was ignited
by that conference in 2014. After listening to the
most motivational speakers, I stood in adoration
that afternoon singing along with the music. Since
then, my heart has been on fire, burning for the
Lord, desiring and seeking more knowledge, truth,
and love from Him. Each year that I attend, my heart
grows even more!”
The date for next year’s conference is already set.
It will be held on Saturday, February 18, 2017. This
will mark the 10th Anniversary of the Conference.
According to the Women’s Catholic Conference
website, speakers scheduled include Magnus
MacFarlane-Barrow, Jeff Cavins, Kerri Caviezel, and
music by Taylor Tripodi.
As Yvonne Diebel said, “What a blessing we have in
Columbus that brings 3,000 women together for a
day of worship and community.”
For more information about the 2017 Catholic
Women’s Conference, please go to http://www.
columbuscatholicwomen.com/.
May 2016
Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion
Contributors Max Maksimoski and Theresa Moore
Extraordinary, adjective
1. Beyond what is usual, ordinary, regular, or established
2. Exceptional in character, amount, extent, degree,
etc.; noteworthy; remarkable” (Dictionary.com).
Three “Liturgical Ministers” play a prominent role in the
celebration of the Mass in addition to the Priest: the Altar
Servers who assist the Priest, the Lectors who do the readings,
and the Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion (EMHC)
who assist in the Distribution of the Precious Body and
Blood. Technically speaking, the reason EMHC’s are called
“extraordinary” is due to the first definition. Priests and
deacons are “ordinary” Ministers. The Laity who assist the
Ordinary Ministers in the Distribution of Communion are,
therefore, Extraordinary.
At least six EMHC’s are needed to assist the Ordinary
Ministers in distributing Communion at each of five regular
weekend Masses. We have nearly 200 EMHC’s at St.
Matthew with each person scheduled to serve in this role
about once every four to six weeks.
As the Coordinator for the EMHC, I would like to say the
parishioners who participate in this ministry fit the second
definition above. However, there is one group within EMHC’s
that shares a unique responsibility. These EMHC’s, called
InHome EMHC’s, bring Communion to the homebound
of our parish who cannot make it to weekend Mass. This
ministry contains five groups. Two groups go to people’s
homes and three groups go to assisted living facilities. For
some to whom they minister, they will be the only person
who visits them for the weekend or longer. The InHome
EMHC’s distribute Communion, but they also distribute love,
friendship, and mercy and attend to the needs of the “least
of our brothers and sisters.”
“I have been visiting the residents at Sunrise for several
years and after each visit I am just as humbled as I was the
very first time I shadowed an associate for training. I have
always felt that we have so much to learn from our elders
and this would be my golden opportunity to gain that
wisdom that they so graciously want to share. I have been
introduced to other family members, have walked down
memory lanes sharing stories and pictures, and have even
met family pets,” said Theresa Moore, InHome EMHC.
If interested in becoming an EMHC (in church or to the
homebound), contact me at [email protected].
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What the Adoration Chapel Means to Me
It was quiet and peaceful. The dim lights glowed on my face. People were praying to the amazing Lord. I was in the greatest place
on Earth, the Adoration Chapel. When I was in the Adoration Chapel, I felt that Jesus was telling me to come and pray to Him more
often. It felt as if the whole world finally had color in it. His grace was so soothing in my heart. It felt as if my heart had been sick
from sin and His grace was the only cure. It’s so awesome just to be able to go. I feel blessed with everything I have, but when I’m
there I feel that the awesome Lord is telling me to give whatever I can to help those who don’t have what they need. That little
Adoration Chapel helps me to be close to the Lord our God. The Lord doesn’t care what you look like, He just wants you there.
– By Anna Sergio, Grade 4
My heart was pounding and my stomach had butterflies. I was so nervous, but at the same time, joyful. I walked into the one and
only Perpetual Adoration Chapel. I saw the eyes of Jesus Christ. I heard the whispers of forgiveness. When I sat down the first
thing I prayed for was my forgiveness and how sorry I was for my sins. Next, I prayed for family and friends. Finally, I just talked to
God about my great day. I thanked Him so much for helping me with everything I was having trouble with. I am so thankful and
delighted that the Church made an Adoration Chapel for the parish to spend time in.
– Carmen Lacey, Grade 4
Recently, St. Matthew has been taking a step further in our faith. We’ve been going to Adoration! Adoration means deep love
and respect. Our Church teaches that going to Adoration is a way to show respect to Christ.
– An excerpt of a reflection by Grace Ettenhofer, Grade 7
The first time I went, I really did not feel anything special. It still felt peaceful and prayerful, but it just felt like normal praying.
Now that I have gone a few times, my view on it has completely changed. I feel like Jesus is standing right next to me and praying
with me whenever I enter the chapel. Now I understand that Jesus’ body is present in the Eucharist. The last time that I went, I
felt a deep connection and full of Christ. It helps me realize that Jesus is the answer to everything. Whenever I go in there, a huge
weight is lifted off my shoulders.
– An excerpt of a reflection by Grace Nordmoe, Grade 7
Adoration is really a gift in which we can grow closer to God. I recommend you go and try it.
– An excerpt of a reflection by Mikey Roach, Grade 7
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May 2016
Continuing Catechism Opportunities for St. Matthew Parishioners
Sometimes finding opportunities to continue learning the Bible beyond Confirmation can be challenging. However, in a Q and A
with Lorraine Curtin, coordinator of Bible Study classes here at St. Matthew, we get an inside look at the classes and opportunities
available for adults to continue growing their education and faith.
Q: What is the mission of the Bible Study classes?
A: Our mission is to provide the opportunity for each adult parishioner to make sense of the Bible and experience the lifechanging power of God’s Word.
Q: How often are classes held, and how many participants are there?
A: Studies are usually held weekly from 4 to 24 weeks in length. Longer studies begin in the fall while shorter studies start at any
time. There are small discussion group sizes from 6-15 participants based on location and type of study. Classes can be offered
in the morning, afternoon or evening to accommodate a wide array of schedules.
Q: Are there any trainings or classes scheduled over the summer?
A: A Facilitator Training Session was held in the summer of 2015 for 27 participants using the study Walking Toward Eternity:
Daring to Walk the Walk.
Q: Where are classes held?
A: Starting in the summer of 2015, studies were able to be offered in the home, as well as in the Undercroft at church. The
videos for the lessons are streamed to the home computer or TV and can be accessed on a computer, tablet or smartphone,
as well.
Q: What have been some of the most recent lessons covered?
A: Because of the content from Ascension Press (evangelization.com), Formed (formed.org) and Word on Fire (wordonfire.org),
we have been able to offer a variety of lessons and topics, such as The Bible Timeline: The Story of Salvation, The Mystery of
God: Who God is and Why He Matters, and Peter: Cornerstone of Catholicism, to name just three. This past year, we offered
18 studies with over 350 participants.
To learn more about classes or training opportunities, please visit the church website at stmatthew.net, and click the Bible
Study link to see the list of our current offerings. Please check the site often as updates are made frequently.
Testimonials from past participants:
From Kellie –
“I have attended studies at St. Matthew since 2007. My journey began purely academic and apologetic, but has grown
into such a love for my faith, the Mass, and all the other treasures that were hidden to my eyes and heart. God clearly
allows each of us to learn about him and his love for us at our own pace. Each session, each year has brought new friends to
share with and learn from. The joy on the faces of each participant as we share our thoughts is amazing. We could talk for
hours!”
From Marlene –
“The Foot Steps of God – Moses has helped me deepen my awareness, heighten my curiosity, and expanded my focus on the
Bible; and fire up my initiative to become more studious of the Bible. It walks you through the steps, the symbolism of the
early sacraments and rituals that we can see being celebrated at Mass every day and in the sacraments. Steve Ray makes this
Bible study come to life in a fun and entertaining way; you will feel that he takes you on a private and exotic trip to forbidden
places.”
If you have any questions or would like to facilitate a study in your home or at church, please contact Lorraine Curtin at 614-9467585 or [email protected].
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Parish Staff Spotlight: Father James Ogurchock
Q: Where are you from? What is your educational background?
A: I grew up in Akron, OH. I graduated from St. Mary, now known as St. Vincent St.
Mary. When I was 17 years old, I came to Columbus for college and have been here
ever since. I attended St. Charles, and I earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Philosophy.
Q: What did you do after you graduated?
A: I attended Mount St. Mary’s Seminary in Cincinnati for my post-graduate and
Teaching Degree. I taught at Bishop Hartley until 1965. Next, I went to Bishop Ready
to do a principal internship. I then went to Bishop Rosecrans (Zanesville) to be
principal for five years. Afterwards, I then became the Assistant Superintendent of
the 12 diocese high schools. This job involved administrative work, and I did this for
nine years. Afterwards, I knew I needed to get back into contact with the people.
After completing my Chaplaincy Training at Children’s Hospital, I served as Chaplain
at Mt. Carmel East Hospital for 28 years.
Q: How did you become active at St. Matthew?
A: I did not live in a Rectory while at Mt. Carmel East, since working weekends there precluded also helping in a parish on
weekends, so I bought a condo in Gahanna, and have lived there now for 23 years. After retiring from the hospital eight years
ago, I began assisting here at St. Matthew, along with several other places in the area. However, I consider our parish my
primary responsibility.
Q: What might surprise people about you?
A: People (along with myself) were surprised that I became a priest as I was very interested in medicine, law and architecture.
Some might not know that I have two older sisters who became Sisters of St. Joseph in Cleveland and a brother, Fr. John, a
Maryknoll Priest in Bolivia for 51 years. All three are deceased.
Q: What are your hobbies?
A: I love golf. I also enjoy music. I have a CD player that can hold 51 CDs! I have it full of CDs like Glen Miller, Sammy K, the
Dorsey Brothers, light classical and opera. I also used to travel every year to Bolivia to see my brother.
Q: Is there a charity that is close to your heart?
A: A parishioner is working on compiling my homilies into a book. All royalties will go to an organization in Bolivia called DAVOSAN
(www.facebook.com/davosanbolivia). Bolivia is a 3rd world country and hospital pharmacies have very few drugs on hand. Also,
all medical expenses and medications must be paid for up front. DAVOSAN buys meds wholesale and makes sure that those who
are desperately poor in the community can get the medicine they need. This charity was dear to my brother.
Q: Anything else you would like to share with the parishioners at St. Matthew?
A: In April 1, 2013, I hurt my arm and ended up with a blood clot and pneumonia. My heart, kidneys and lungs were failing,
and I was on life support. We were told that it would be impossible for me to survive. My Brother would fax Fr. Sill and keep
everyone aware of my condition. I think it is a miracle that I was healed and believe it was because of prayers of this parish.
Upcoming Events
St. Matthew Confirmation Mass
May 20, 2016
St. Matthew School Commissioning
June 6, 2016
St. Matthew School Baccalaureate Mass
June 7, 2016
Graduation
Graduation Dinner and 8th Grade Dance following in Noble Center and Hutta, respectively
Catholic Inquiry Series
June 14 & 28, July 12 & 26, August 9, 2016
Danny’s Day
June 25, 2016
Catholic Kidz Camp
June 27 to July 1, 2016
Camp KRIC
June 10-July 15, 2016
Protecting God’s Children Class
June 27, 2016
St. Matthew Festival
July 21-23, 2016
Please refer to the website or bulletins for further details on times and locations.
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Parish Office and Clergy:
614-471-0212,
http://www.stmatthew.net/about-us/our-staff
Fr. Theodore K. Sill, Pastor
Fr. Ryan M. Schmit, Parochial Vicar
Fr. Michael Nimocks, In Holy Service
Fr. James Ogurchock, In Holy Service
Deacons:
Rev. Mr. Joseph Meyer
Rev. Mr. Larry Koebel
St. Matthew the Apostle
Catholic Church
807 Havens Corners Road, Gahanna, OH 43230
614-471-0212
www.stmatthew.net
Parish Staff:
614-471-0212
Business Manager, Leo Grimes
Director of Evangelization, Jenna Zins
Director of Athletics, Eileen Buzenski
614-478-8533
Director of Information, Robert Buzenski
Director of Music, Dawn Shininger
ext. 1117
Parish Administrative Assistant,
Darlene Rotella
Parish Administrative Associate,
Hillarie Michaels
Parish Secretary, Mary Otting
Parish Operations Coordinator, Beth Vonau
Pastoral Associate, Mary Thompson
RCIA, Jennifer Cabe
Stewardship and Safe Environment Coordinator,
Karen Lackey
Youth Minister, Travis Burtch
614-471-7556
School Principal, Susan Maloy
614-471-4930
Parish School Of Religion,
Coordinator: Sherry Schoenstein
614-471-2067
Secretary, Malinda Moloney
Preschool Coordinator, Julie Ratliff
Charitable Works:
614-471-5320
Next Issue Info:
We plan to have our third issue available
to the parish by the middle of August
2016. If you have a story you would
like to share or if you want us to cover a
story or event for you, please contact
Karen Lackey at [email protected].
Feedback is welcome!
Our Parish
Mission...
St. Matthew Mission Statement:
In Baptism,
we are committed to follow and imitate Jesus Christ,
to hear and proclaim the Word of God,
to participate in the liturgical
and sacramental life of the Church,
to nurture a life of prayer, to hunger and thirst for justice,
and to practice the commandment of Love.
One Parish. One Family. One Journey.​
One parish committed to Jesus Christ,
His teachings, His Church.
One family seeking to support each other
in faith, hope, and love.
One journey towards eternal life in heaven.