Obituaries • Lectionary • Calendar
Transcription
Obituaries • Lectionary • Calendar
Find Us On The Web www.cdom.org • Obituaries • Lectionary • Calendar a digital Publication of the Diocese of Memphis Volume 2 • Number 3 • week OF January 23, 2014 Winterfest 2014 a big success for Catholic Schools and Ave Maria Home By Mary Helen Carmack Tony Barrasso, Joe Birch, and Michael Spano entertain the crowd at the Italian Winterfest. Additonal photos on page 12. Tony Barraso, Joe Birch, and Michael Spano entertained the crowd with traditional Italian music at the fourth annual Italian Winterfest which was held on Sunday, January 12th. Tony, along with the late, Sam Bomarito and Angelo Lucchesi, created Italian Winterfest in which local Memphis restaurants and beverage distributors come together to benefit the Catholic schools and Ave Maria Home. This year a recordbreaking 14 restaurants showcased their delicious specialties from steak, to soup to Italian spinach, to cannoli including: Coletta’s, Elfo’s Restaurant, Folk’s Folly, Garibaldi’s, Grawemeyer’s, The Italian Rebel, Lucchesi’s Pasta, Lynchburg Legends, T.J. Mulligan’s, Pesces’s Authentic Italian Sausage, Pete & Sam’s, The Racquet Club of Memphis, The Rendezvous, and Rizzo’s Diner. Beverage donors made the fare complete. Lucchesi’s - Delta Wholesale, Jackie Aaron - Athen’s Distributing, Ruffino Wines, John & Wanda Barzizza, Philip Spinosa - A. S. Barboro, Coca-Cola, and the Hammond Family - Buster’s Liquors & Wines added to the festivities with their contributions of wine, Italian beer, and soft drinks. Proceeds from the event provide scholarships for students in the Catholic schools through the Catholic Education Scholarship Fund and assistance for Ave Maria residents who are outliving their resources. Organizers owe a debt of gratitude to the many guests, the restaurants, beverage donors and to the Title Sponsor, Gatti, Keltner, Bienvenu & Montesi; Gold sponsor, Sam’s Town-Tunica; and sponsors Coca-Cola, Tom Cooper Insurance, Cordova Automotive, and Wings of Ave Maria. The evening included good food, good wine, good music, good fun, dancing and an auction with Action News 5 Anchor, Joe Birch, emceeing. Tony Barrasso, Co-Founder; Janet Donato, Superintendent of Catholic Schools; and Frank Gattuso, Executive Director of Ave Maria Home dedicated Italian Winterfest 2014 to the memory of Co-Founder Angelo Lucchesi. A plaque presented to the Lucchesi family reads, “Angelo A. Lucchesi - Because of his endless love, sincere caring and generosity, his spirit will live forever as the heart and soul of The Italian Winterfest.” In addition, new this year, the first inaugural, Honored Guest of Winterfest was recognized: Brother Joel McGraw, F.S.C., Assistant Principal, Christian Brothers High School. quick links Catholic Schools Week Jan. 26-Feb. 1 United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (For more information on the Catholic Schools in the Memphis Diocese, go to http://www.cdom.org/ CatholicDiocese.php?op=DE_ Prospective_Families) National Catholic Schools Week 2014 will be observed in dioceses around the country January 26 – February 1. This year’s theme, “Catholic Schools: Communities of Faith, Knowledge and Service,” focuses on the principles of a Catholic education. “Our schools have educated millions of young people over the years by providing them a superior academic background, always pointing the way to eternal life,” said Archbishop George Lucas of Omaha, Nebraska, chairman of the U. S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) Committee on Education. “The success of Catholic schools in handing on the faith, generation after generation, is a bright light in the history of the Church in the United States.” About 2.1 million students are currently educated in more than 6,600 Catholic schools in cities, suburbs, small towns and rural communities around the country. Students receive an excellent, faith-filled education that prepares them for the challenges of higher education and a competitive world. An estimated 99 percent of students graduate from high school and 85 percent of Catholic school graduates attend college. “The heart of the apostolate of Catholic education is the mission to proclaim the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Catholic schools provide a rich environment of faith and learning where students experience how much God loves them in Christ. They are free to express their own love for God in prayer and the celebration of the sacraments and to express love of neighbor in a community where each is respected as a gift from God,” Archbishop Lucas said. “Our students hear Jesus inviting them to be his followers and friends, and they learn how to respond to him with generosity and faith.” The observance of Catholic Schools Week began in 1974. This year marks the 40th anniversary of this annual event. Schools and parishes around the country will hold activities such as Masses, open houses, and pot luck gatherings to celebrate the community they represent. MARRIAGE MOMENTS © By Susan Vogt, www.SusanVogt.net “I urge you, brothers and sisters... that there be no divisions among you, but that you be united in the same mind and in the same purpose.” (1 Cor. 1:10) Being united doesn’t mean you have to have the same favorite ice cream, but the same ultimate purpose in life. What’s important to agree on and what doesn’t matter today? - The West Tennessee Catholic Week of January 23, 2014 2014 Catholic Social Ministry Gathering: Pope-‘a Poor Church for the Poor’ Attorney General Holder acts contrary to Supreme Court decision The 2014 Catholic Social Ministry Gathering will focus on the message and vision of Pope Francis: “Becoming ‘a Poor Church for the Poor.’” The gathering will be in Washington, February 25, 2014. In his first audience, March 16, 2013 Pope Francis told members of the media, “How I would like a Church which is poor and for the poor.” The Gathering will include an opening plenary address by John L. Allen Jr., former senior correspondent for National Catholic Reporter, associate editor at the Boston Globe and Vatican expert for CNN and National Public Radio, February 2. Michael Naughton, professor of Catholic studies at the University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, Minnesota, will give the Monday morning keynote. Naughton coordinated the 2012 reflection by the Pontifical Council for Justice and Peace, “Vocation of the Business Leader.” Michel Roy, secretary general of Caritas Internationalis, will offer brief comments following Naughton’s keynote. The Social Ministry Gathering is sponsored by the U.S. Conference Attorney General Eric Holder recently announced that the federal government will recognize so-called “marriages” performed in Utah between persons of the same sex that even Utah itself does not recognize as marriage. Presently, Utah defines marriage as the union of one man and one woman. On December 20, 2013, a federal district judge struck down that definition, but on January 6 of this year, the United States Supreme Court stayed that decision while the case is on appeal. However, Attorney General Holder is ignoring Utah law and imposing a contrary federal definition of marriage in that state. In this, General Holder’s decision is actually contrary to the Supreme Court’s decision last year in United States v. Windsor. Windsor unfortunately struck down a uniform federal definition of marriage, but it made clear that the federal government is to respect a state’s definition of marriage. In particular, the Court said that the federal government is to defer to “state sovereign choices about who may be married” and furthermore criticized federal actions – like General Holder’s – that “put a thumb on the scales and influence a state’s decision as to how to shape its own marriage laws.” The Utah Attorney General, who (unlike General Holder) is responsible for enforcing Utah law, has declared that the validity of any same-sex “marriages” performed in Utah between December 20 and January 6 “will depend on the result of the appeal process.” In other words, out of respect for the legal process, Utah will wait for the federal courts to decide. But not the Attorney General of the United States, who has already ruled that same-sex “marriages” performed between December 20 and January 6 are valid for purposes of federal law. If the federal government is legally obliged to defer to the marriage United States Conference of Catholic Bishops of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) and 15 national Catholic partner organizations, including Catholic Relief Services (CRS), Catholic Charities USA, the Society of St. Vincent de Paul, Catholic Rural Life and the Association of Catholic Colleges and Universities. On February 4, attendees will participate in Capitol Hill visits, during which state delegations will advocate several issues with members of Congress. Legislative priorities will include challenges for families, the minimum wage, the impact of migration on children, technological warfare, peace in the Holy Land, criminal justice, human trafficking and economic inequality. The registration form and more information is available online: http://www.usccb.org/ about/justice-peace-and-humandevelopment/catholic-socialministry-gathering/ Women’s Morning of Spirituality Until God Opens the Next Door, Praise Him in the Hallway! February 22, 2014 8:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. Catholic Church of the Incarnation 360 Bray Station Road, Collierville, TN Doors open 7:15 with Continental Breakfast Mass with Bishop J. Terry Steib Keynote Speaker: Kelly Wahlquist Witness Speaker: Karen Lewis Bobbitt Register at womensmorning.com By Archbishop Salvatore J. Cordileone Archbishop Salvatore J. Cordileone is the Archbishop of San Francisco and Chairman of the USCCB Subcommittee for the Promotion and Defense of Marriage. law of the state, as Windsor itself holds, then how can the federal government recognize as valid – even if only for federal purposes – marriages which a state has not deemed valid? This logically opens the door for the federal government to recognize any type of relationship (and with any number of partners) as valid marriages in contradiction to state law. Events over these past several months (the most recent being the January 14 decision by a federal court in Oklahoma ruling that state’s marriage amendment unconstitutional) have made it clearer than ever that the marriage debate we are having in this country is not about access to the right of marriage, but the very meaning of marriage: what it is, and what it is for. I encourage all those who know and believe the timeless truth about marriage, as well as all those who believe in following the established judicial procedures to address such issues, to not remain silent, but to exercise their constitutional rights as citizens of this great nation and to stand up for the truth. Week of January 23, 2014 The West Tennessee Catholic - Catholic Charities of West Tennessee launches ‘Aspire’ - Young Professionals Initiative ‘Aspire’ - an initiative specifically focused on young professionals in West Tennessee - is launching through Catholic Charities of West Tennessee (CCWTN). Aspire is committed to cultivating and engaging young professionals who are dedicated to supporting the anti-poverty work of Catholic Charities of West Tennessee. Its focus is three-fold: • Connecting young adults who share the desire to be active in the work of CCWTN • Encouraging participation in small acts of service that benefit the clients of CCWTN • Providing networking opportunities in social settings with leaders of the Memphis community The inaugural gathering of Aspire will be on the evening of Thursday, February 27th from 5:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. at Local Gastropub; 2126 Madison Ave (Mid-town). The featured networking guest will be Chris Wallace, long time National Basketball Association (NBA) executive and currently General Manager and Vice President of Basketball Operations for the Memphis Grizzlies. There is no cost to attend; however guests are requested to bring an item or two in support of Operation Bare Necessities (Men’s new underwear, heavy socks, t-shirts, ‘hoodie’ sweatshirts or jackets sizes M - XXL). Complimentary appetizers will be served along with a cash bar. To RSVP please contact Alie Lifsey at (901) 722-4750 or [email protected]. Follow #InspiredToAspire for current info. Patrons enjoyed a colorful and tasteful evening at Ave Maria Home’s annual wine and art show Nearly 175 patrons of Ave Maria Home enjoyed an evening of wine and art as the facility hosted its annual Wine & Art Show. Numerous local artists presented their paintings for sale with proceeds benefitting Ave Maria residents. Pictured is Diocesan Deacon Jack Chitwood (assisgned to Ave Maria Home) along with his wife (l) Mary Louise and his daughter (r) Rose Biggs and his grandson Steven Biggs. Steven is an artists who also had some of his paintings on display. - The West Tennessee Catholic Week of January 23, 2014 Archbishop: Holy See committed to defense of children Vatican Information Service Archbishop Silvano Tomasi, C.S., Permanent Observer of the Holy See to the United Nations in Geneva, recently presented the Holy See’s periodic report on this issue. “The protection of children remains a major concern for contemporary society and for the Holy See,” the prelate said. “... Abusers are found among members of the world’s most respected professions, most regrettably, including members of the clergy and other church personnel. …” “Confronted with this reality, the Holy See has carefully delineated policies and procedures designed to help eliminate such abuse and to collaborate with respective State authorities to fight against this crime. The Holy See is also committed to listen carefully to victims of abuse and to address the impact such situations have on survivors of abuse and on their families. The vast majority of church personnel and institutions on the local level have provided, and continue to provide, a wide variety of services to children by educating them, and by supporting their families, and by responding to their physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. Egregious crimes of abuse committed against children have rightly been adjudicated and punished by the competent civil authorities in the respective countries.” “Therefore, the response of the Holy See to the sad phenomenon of the sexual abuse of minors has been articulated in different ambits. On the level of the Holy See, as the Sovereign of Vatican City State, the response to sexual abuse has been in accord with its direct responsibility over the territory of Vatican City State. In this regard, special legislation has been enacted to implement international legal obligations, and covers the State, and its tiny population.” “On the international level, the Holy See has taken concrete Camp Marymount 75th Anniversary Reconnect. Remember. Rekindle. Marymount in May • May 2, 2014 An adult-only gala highlighting 75 years of camp memories with dinner and a silent auction featuring one-of-a-kind Marymount items. n i o J us! Reunion Camp Weekend • August 8-10, 2014 Camp out or rent a cabin. All ages are welcome. Hog ‘n Jog Trail Run - Smoked BBQ - Mass - Activities MOSS Golf Tournament • October 2014 The Marymount Open Scholarship Scramble Your participation in the tournament will ensure that children in need will continue to experience the wonder of Camp Marymount. action by the ratification of the Convention on the Rights of the Child in 1990. In 2000, the Holy See acceded to the Optional Protocol on the Sale of Children, Child Prostitution, and Child Pornography, as well as the Optional Protocol on the Involvement of Children in Armed Conflict. The Holy See then promotes and encourages these international instruments.” “At the same time, the Holy See as the central organ of the Catholic Church has formulated guidelines to facilitate the work of the local Churches to develop effective measures within their jurisdiction and in conformity with canonical legislation.” “Local Churches, taking into account the domestic law in their respective countries, have developed guidelines and monitored their implementation with the aim of preventing any additional abuse and dealing promptly with it, in accordance with national law whenever it occurs. The result of the combined action taken by local Churches and by the Holy See presents a framework that, when properly applied, will help eliminate the occurrence of child sexual abuse by clergy and other church personnel.” The Permanent Observer explained that “the Holy See’s ‘Periodic Report on the CRC’ is divided into four Parts: Part I deals with general considerations, including the nature of the Holy See as a subject of international law. Part II responds to the concluding observations of the Committee to the Holy See’s Initial Report, and, in particular, questions concerning reservations; the Committee’s four principles and the duties and rights of parents, the education of girls, education about health, and education on the CRC. The Holy See also discusses the principles it promotes concerning the rights and duties of the child within the context of the family. Part III presents the international contributions of the Holy See in advancing and promoting basic principles recognized in the CRC on a full range of issues pertaining to children (e.g., the family, adoption, children with disabilities; health and welfare; leisure and culture; and special measures to protect children, including questions pertaining to sexual abuse, drug addiction, children living on the streets and minority groups). Finally, Part IV addresses the implementation of the Convention in Vatican City State.” www.campmarymount.com • Fairview, TN Call for more information (615) 799-0410. “In the end, there is no excuse,” the prelate repeated, “for any form of violence or exploitation of children. Such crimes can never be justified, whether committed in the home, in schools, in community and sports programs, or in religious organizations and structures. This is the long-standing policy of the Holy See. For this reason, the Holy See, and local Church structures in all parts of the world, are committed to holding inviolable the dignity and entire person of every child—body, mind, and spirit.” “Pope Benedict XVI,” the prelate concluded, “speaking to the Bishops of Ireland in 2006 had these important words to say: ‘In the exercise of your pastoral ministry, you have had to respond in recent years to many heart-rending cases of sexual abuse of minors. These are all the more tragic when the abuser is a cleric.’ Likewise, Pope Francis clearly undertook new action and has announced the creation of a Commission for the Protection of Minors, with the aim of proposing new initiatives for the development of safe environment programs for children and improving efforts for the pastoral care for victims of abuse around the world.” The West Tennessee Catholic - Week of January 23, 2014 DEACON JIM PIATCHEK CLU, CHFC, CMFC, CTM Known Nationally as “The Senior Retirement Coach” is MEMPHIS MAGAZINE’S 2011 “5 STAR WEALTH MANAGER OF THE YEAR!” Request a FREE copy of Deacon Jim’s book “Mistakes Retirees Make With Their Finances How To Avoid Them.” Attend a complimentar y dinner retirement seminar, or call today for a “FREE” Retirement Consultation, (901) 482-4357. Email: [email protected] Website: www.JPMemphis.com Ask about his new book, The Catholic Bucket List. Mission Statement of The West Tennessee Catholic - Digital Edition The West Tennessee Catholic is a digital news publication dedicated to sharing the Good News of Jesus Christ primarily with the people of the Diocese of Memphis in Tennessee and, secondarily, with the world at large. The West Tennessee Catholic focuses on presenting material which instructs the faithful in church teaching as expressed by the Pope and the Conference of Catholic Bishops, all in accord with the Magisterium. The goal is to teach, encourage, aid in faith formation, and support Catholics who seek the truth of Christ and are working toward personal sanctity. The message is shared in a positive, family-oriented, pro-life, nonpartisan, and encouraging manner. In addition, news articles emphasize local events and interests specific to our schools, parishes, and diocese which show how Catholics are answering the call to be Good Samaritans in the Diocese of Memphis in Tennessee. Enter to Learn. Leave to Serve. PREPARE YOURSELF FOR ONE OF THE TOP SEVEN GROWTH PROFESSIONS IN THE US! THE PHYSICIAN ASSISTANT PROGRAM at CBU is a cohort-based, graduate level curriculum offered over seven consecutive semesters. It is delivered through traditional campus-based methods plus clinical rotations in healthcare organizations located throughout the Memphis area. www.cbu.edu/PAS (901) 321-3388 The program has received provisional accreditation from the Accreditation Review Commission on Education for the Physician Assistant (ARC-PA). - The West Tennessee Catholic Reflections On Sunday's Readings By Jeff Hedglen, Catholic News Service January 26, Third Sunday in Ordinary Time Cycle A. Readings: (1) Isaiah 8:23-9:3, Psalm 27:1, 4, 13-14 (2) 1 Corinthians 1:10-13, 17 (Gospel) Matthew 4:12-23 Two years ago my life changed. In some ways it was a very common change, one that happens to people all the time. In other ways it was a meteoric shift. In short, I changed jobs, but the story is more involved than that. Changing jobs meant leaving what had been my dream job back in 1986. I had longed to be a youth minister at my home parish and, at the age of 21, I had my dream come true. I stayed in that job for 25 years. I suspected the change was coming. For a few years, I had been feeling a tug in my heart for a new challenge and a call to the mission field of young adult ministry. But when the call came, I was not “all in” at the beginning. Saying yes to this call would mean leaving, in many ways, all I had known. It would mean leaving a place that was very much home, a team of individuals who had labored beside me for years, a church family that loved and supported me beyond belief and, most of all, I would be leaving a very comfortable place and going off into unfamiliar surroundings. After much prayer and conversation with my ever-encouraging wife, I decided to take the plunge and answer the call of the Lord to minister to the young adult church. After all, for 25 years I had been sending youth into young adulthood where there is slim pickings when it comes to opportunities for faith growth. Two years into this ministry, I not only have no regrets, I feel like I am exactly where I need to be. I imagine the disciples in this week’s Gospel were in a similar situation. They had a comfortable life as fishermen, family men and faith-filled men. But then Jesus offered them a new way to fish, a new kind of family and a mind-blowing expansion of what they understood as faith. To be sure, not every call carries such drastically life-changing circumstances, but every call entails some risk. As the saying goes: God does not call the qualified; he qualifies the called. Our part is to say yes to the prompting of the Spirit, knowing that God will be faithful to do his part as we answer the call. Marriage, Family & Individual Counseling From A Christian Perspective James B. Latta, D.Min. Licensed Professional Counselor Pastoral Counseling 5210 Poplar Avenue, Suite 120 Memphis, TN 38119 • (901) 821-9084 Week of January 23, 2014 Lectionary Readings Year A of the Sunday Cycle • Jan. 26-Feb. 1, 2014 Psalter Week III Sunday, January 26 THIRD SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME Isaiah 8:23-9:3 Psalm 27:1, 4, 13-14 1 Corinthians 1:10-13, 17 Matthew 4:12-23 or 4:12-17 Monday, January 27 Weekday; Saint Angela Merici, virgin 2 Samuel 5:1-7, 10 Psalm 89:20-22, 25-26 Mark 3:22-30 Tuesday, January 28 Saint Thomas Aquinas, priest, doctor of the Church 2 Samuel 6:12b-15, 17-19 Psalm 24:7-10 Mark 3:31-35 Thursday, January 30 Weekday 2 Samuel 7:18-19, 24-29 Psalm 132:1-5, 11-14 Mark 4:21-25 Friday, January 31 Saint John Bosco, priest 2 Samuel 11:1-4a, 5-10a, 13-17 Psalm 51:3-7, 10-11 Mark 4:26-34 Saturday, February 1 Weekday; BVM on Saturday 2 Samuel 12:1-7a, 10-17 Psalm 51:12-17 Mark 4:35-41 Wednesday, January 29 Weekday 2 Samuel 7:4-17 Psalm 89:4-5, 27-30 Mark 4:1-20 Rev. Enrique Garcia Rev. Juan Romo-Romo Rev. Richard Cortese Rev. Jolly Sebastian 1/14 1/16 1/27 1/31 Trips to Scotland, France, Ireland, Shrines of Europe and much more... ranging from $3,599—$4,699 for 2013. Prices are ALL-INCLUSIVE w/Airfare from anywhere in the continental USA Italy/Switzerland: Apr. 5-17, Apr. 12-24, Apr. 19-May 1 Italy Regular: Apr. 5-13, Apr. 12-20, Apr. 19-27 … Italy South: Apr. 26-May 8, May 3-15, May 10-22 … Holy Land/Italy: Mar. 31-Apr. 13, Apr. 7-20, Apr. 14-27 Ireland/Scotland: Apr. 26-May 8, May 3-15, May 10-22 France: Apr. 26-May 8, May 3-15, May 10-22 ... www.proximotravel.com 855-842-8001 | 508-340-9370 email: [email protected] Carmela A. Manago—Executive Director The West Tennessee Catholic - Week of January 23, 2014 PROTECTING GOD’S CHILDREN In order to prevent abuse and the devastating consequences for all involved, the Diocese of Memphis is providing information for anyone who needs help. Tennessee Child Abuse Hot Line 1-877-237-0004 St. Francis of Assisi Catholic School PreK-Eighth Grade Where to get help in the Diocese of Memphis: Shari Lee, LCSW, DCSW - Victim Assistance Coordinator 901-652-4066 or Dr. Jim Latta, Office of Child and Youth Protection and Professional Responsibility 901-652-4353 Natural Family Planning The Billings Ovulation Method Totally moral, healthy & steroid free Class Series Begins Monday, February 3, 2014 at 6:30 p.m. Catholic Center - Pre-Registration Required Register online at www.cdom.org or call (901) 373-1285. Next class series begins March 4, 2014. Achieving Academic Excellence *URZLQJLQ)DLWK6HUYLQJWKH&RPPXQLW\ 2100 N. Germantown Pkwy. Cordova, TN 38016 901.388.7321 www.sfawolves.org a different kind of private school… Immaculate Conception C AT H E D R A L SCHOOL For more information Pre-K3–8th Coed 9–12th All-girl MyICCS.org (901) 435-5344 - The West Tennessee Catholic The Diocese of Memphis publishes obituaries provided by the individual parishes. If you have a question concerning an obit please contact the parish directly. Week of January 23, 2014 Calendar JANUARY 2014 23 Obituaries DHUY A funeral home service was conducted November 22 for Marjorie LaVerne Dhuy, 94, at Canale Funeral Chapel, Memphis by Rev. Msgr. J. Edwin Creary. Burial was at Calvary Cemetery. Survivors include daughter, Sharon D. Matthews; son, George A. Dhuy, Jr.; four grandchildren and six great -grandchildren. HOWINGTON A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated January 13 for Carmon Dunn Howington, 88, at Church of the Resurrection by Rev. Ernie DeBlasio. Burial was at Memphis Memory Gardens. Survivors include daughters Denise Howington, Delores Joyner and DeAnn (Dee) Martin; sons, William Derrick and Steve McCormick; six grandchildren and nine greatgrandchildren. IRWIN A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated January 14 for Dorothy Barnett Irwin, 86, at St. Francis of Assisi Church by Rev. Jolly Sebastian. Burial was at Memorial Park Cemetery. Survivors include daughters, Gail Loflin, Dottie Jordan, Christy Loflin and step-daughter Patty Irwin; step-son, Sidney Irwin; sister, Jeanne Clasgens Arnold; eight grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren. LASER A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated January 17 for Silvana Rosaria Russo Laser, 63, at St. Francis of Assisi Church by Rev. Robert W. Marshall. Burial was at Fayette County Memorial Park Cemetery. Survivors include spouse, Jack Laser; daughter, Monica Tillman; son, Marco Laser; and five grandchildren. MARTIN A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated January 16 for Flora Mary Martin, 90, at Holy Rosary Church by Rev. James Clark, assisted by Rev. Mr. Richmond Quinton. Burial was at Memorial Garden, Memphis. Survivors include sisters, Labora Harrison and Grace Poindexter; brother, Vincent Ciaramitaro. RIVALTO A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated December 23 for Deborah Katherine Rivalto, 55, at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church by Rev. Michael Stewart, concelebrants, Rev. Msgr. J. Edwin Creary, Rev. Msgr. John McArthur, Rev. Bruce Cinquegrani, Rev. Gary E. Lamb, Rev. Johnnie B. Smith, assisted by Rev. Mr. David Lucchesi. Burial was at Calvary Cemetery. Survivors include sisters, Susan Palazola and Lisa Pirani; brother, Trey Rivalto; and mother, Marie Stewart Rivalto. ROEMER A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated December 27 for Lorene Johnson Roemer, 91, at Church of the Resurrection by Rev. Ernie DeBlasio. Burial was at All Saints Cemetery. Survivors include daughters, Ruth Shelton and Liz Roemer; three grandchildren and one great-grandchild. 24-25 25 25 26 26 “Parental Choice in K-12 Education: A Straightforward Matter of Justice.” Presentation by John Schoenig from Notre Dame’s Alliance for Catholic Education. 7-8:30 p.m., St. Louis Catholic Church in the Clunan Center. Participating also the Q & A session will be TN State Sen. Brian Kelsey, TN State Rep. John DeBerry and Mr. Michael Benjamin, Director of Grassroots Advocacy for the American Federation for Children. Holy Rosary Church Eucharistic Conference. Friday evening, January 24, 6-9 p.m.; Saturday January 25, 8 a.m.-1 p.m. Theme: “Keeping a Eucharistic Presence in the Family” and will feature various speakers presenting their ideas on how best to keep the family Christ-centered and keep the Real Presence of Christ inside the family. Holy Rosary welcomes and invites all interested Catholics to attend this event. Pre-registration is required and will be limited to 250 people. For additional information please contact Deacon Rich Quinton at Holy Rosary Parish. (901) 767-6949, (901) 488-1898, [email protected]. To register go to midsouthcatholic.com. St. Anne School Alumni Dinner Dance. 7-10 P.M., St. Sebastian Hall. Dancing to tunes from the ‘50s to the ‘80s. A $20 donation at the door will include dinner, dessert, wine, beer and set-ups. Happy hour from 5-6 p.m., dinner at 5:30-8:00 p.m. The Oliveus cooking team will prepare a delicious dinner. All school alumni, parishioners and friends are invited to join us for this fun evening. 9th annual Lisa Lassandrello 5K Remembrance Race. 9 a.m., St. Agnes Academy-St. Dominic School, 4830 Walnut Grove Road. Race registration is $20 or $19 for MRTC members, and the fee includes a t-shirt. All proceeds benefit Wings Foundation at West Clinic, St. Agnes Academy-St. Dominic School and Grace-St. Luke’s School. Register online at www.racesonline. com. On-line registration deadline is January 22. Registration is $25 on the day of the race. For more information contact 4355841. Ravioli-Spaghetti Dinner. 11 a.m.-2 p.m., St. Therese Church, 1644 Jackson Avenue. Spaghetti plate $6; Ravioli plate $8; Combo plate $8. Children under 5 free spaghetti. Take elevator to Leppert Center. Take out: frozen ravioli $4/dozen; gravy $3/pint. Scouting Celebration. 4 p.m., Church of the Incarnation, Collierville. For more information, find us on Facebook at Diocese of Memphis Catholic Scouting. Men’s Retreat Jan. 31-Feb. 2 CLICK HERE FOR MORE RETREAT INFORMATION. SHARPE A Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated on December 16 for Mary Ann Sharpe, 71, at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church by Rev. Patrick Hirtz, concelebrant, Rev. Gary E. Lamb assisted by Rev. Mr. Dave Lucchesi. Burial was at Memphis Funeral Home Memorial Gardens. Survivors include daughters, Jacqueline Trobee and Janice Lacy; son, James Daniel Sharpe; and sister, Joanie McCormick. The West Tennessee Catholic - Week of January 23, 2014 Calendar FEBRUARY 2014 1 1 4 4 8 15 15 18 St. Benedict Trivia Night. 7:30 p.m., school dining hall. $15 per player or gold sponsor tables at $20 per person. Expert Trivia Master, Brother Ignatius Brown provides questions. For reservations, contact St. Benedict High School, 260-2840 or email [email protected]. All proceeds benefit the senior class Project Graduation Lock-in after commencement ceremonies. Incarnation Preschool and Mother’s Day Out 15th Annual Spaghetti Dinner and Silent/Live Auction. 5:30-10 p.m., 360 Bray Station Road. Homemade spaghetti gravy and Italian spinach, a live and silent auction, plus a Kids’ Corner with games to entertain children. Tickets available at the Preschool Office and at the door the night of the event. The cost is $10 Adults, $5 children and $5 wristbands for Kids’ Corner. Ministry for Gay and Lesbian Persons Meeting. Share hospitality, potluck, prayer and education. 6:30 p.m., Marion Hall, the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception on the first Tuesday of every month unless otherwise noted. All are welcome to share in a meal and fellowship followed by a brief presentation. To contact the ministry call the rectory at IC at (901) 725-2700. Fourth Annual Mid-South Farm to Table Conference. Christian Brothers University. The conference is designed to provide a forum for farmers, consumers, entrepreneurs and other interested groups to discuss ideas for developing the local food system of Memphis and the Mid-South. If you would like more information or to schedule an interview with a conference coordinator, please call Chris Peterson at (901) 233-8734 or email him at [email protected]. World Day of the Sick 7th Annual Divine Mercy Healing Mass. 10:30 a.m., St. Ann Bartlett, 6529 Stage Rd., Bartlett. Celebrated By The Most Reverend J. Terry Steib S.V.D. concelebrants Fr Russell Harbaugh, Msgr Victor Ciaramitaro, Fr Francis Chiawa, Fr Mike Morgera, Fr Richard Coy, Fr Elbert Callis, Fr Jolly Sebastian, Fr Martin Orjianioke, assisted by Deacons Chip Jones, Bob Skinner, and Wayne Morton. Several Priests will be available for confessions from 9-10:15 a.m. English and Spanish. Rosary to our Lady of Lourdes begins at 10 a.m. Reception following in Trinity Hall. Music by John Angotti, Mary Champion and the St Ann Choir. www.stfaustinashrine.org, www.stfaustinasociety.org, [email protected] Diocesan Ministry to the Sick Training. 8:30 a.m.-1 p.m. at the Catholic Center, 5825 Shelby Oaks Drive. This training includes sessions that will be helpful in becoming an effective minister. As a minister you are trained to bring compassion, communion and become a sacramental presence of Christ for those sick and homebound. Candidates are required to send completed registration form signed by the pastor or representative by February 10th. Registration forms are available at your parish office or on line, http://www.cdom.org/commhealth/sick.htm. For more information call the office of Pastoral Services at 373-1237. St. Anne Trivia Night. 7 p.m., St. Anne - St. Sebastian Hall, 670 S. Highland Ave. “Memphis at the Movies” and Father David Graham, emcee. Prizes will be awarded to the first and second place teams and best decorated table with the movie theme. Cost is $120 per team with a maximum of 8 persons per team. Proceeds will help support the ministry of the St. Anne Altar Society. For registration and details go to stannehighland.net or call Jane Mascari at 832-3642. Adult Catholic Day on the Hill. Registration $20 includes lunch. A day of prayer, advocacy, and education. Call Therese Gustaitis for information (901) 722-4794. Save the Date: Women’s Morning of Spirituality. 8:30 a.m.1 p.m., Church of the Incarnation. Continental breakfast at 7:15. Keynote Speaker is Kelly Wahlquist and Witness Speaker is Karen Lewis Bobbitt. Mass will be celebrated with Bishop J. Terry Steib. Please plan to spend a Saturday morning with over a thousand women from throughout the Memphis Diocese. 27 Catholic Charities Hosts Aspire. 5-7 p.m., Local Gastropub, 2126 Madison Ave (Mid-town). Guest is Chris Wallace, currently general manager and vice president of basketball operations for the Memphis Grizzlies. No cost to attend; however guests are requested to bring an item or two in support of Operation Bare Necessities (Men’s new underwear, heavy socks, t-shirts, ‘hoodie’ sweatshirts or jackets sizes M - XXL). Complimentary appetizers will be served along with a cash bar. To RSVP please contact Alie Lifsey at (901) 722-4750 or [email protected]. org. Follow #InspiredToAspire for current info. 28-Mar Diocesan Youth Celebration. St. Benedict at Auburndale High 1 School, Cordova, TN. More details will be posted online closer to the date. 22 Calendar MARCH 2014 1 4 8 & 13 The New Evangelization: The Spirituality of Volunteers. 8:30 a.m.-2 p.m., St. Francis of Assisi Church. Featuring Fr. Robert Favazza and Therese Gustaitis. Offered in English and Spanish. Call Therese Gustaitis for information (901) 722-4794. Ministry for Gay and Lesbian Persons Meeting. Share hospitality, potluck, prayer and education. 6:30 p.m., Marion Hall, the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception on the first Tuesday of every month unless otherwise noted. All are welcome to share in a meal and fellowship followed by a brief presentation. To contact the ministry call the rectory at IC at (901) 725-2700. Bereavement Ministry Training – “Walking With Those Coping With Loss” Part I Companion: Saturday, March 8, 8:15 a.m.-4 p.m., St. Ann Catholic Church-Family Life Center. This training will provide the participants a better understanding of the grieving process and theories on loss and also skills to effectively reach out and to accompany their fellow parish-ioners through the journey of grief. The training also provides tools needed to start Bereavement Ministry in your own parish. Part II Facilitator for Bereavement Support Groups Thursday, March 13, 5:30 -8:30 p.m., Catholic Center This training is intended for people who plan to form and faciliatate self-help support group sharing sessions. Candidates must complete Part 1 in order to attend Part II. The training will cover communication, listening skill, support group ground rules, handling difficult situations and practice. Training is free. All candidates must have the approval of their pastor or his representative. For more information please call the Office of Pastoral Services at (901) 373-1237. Registration form is available at www.cdom.org or at your parish. Deadline for registration: March 3, 2014. 10 - The West Tennessee Catholic Week of January 23, 2014 ‘Great misunderstanding’ seen on church’s teachings on end of life By Nancy Frazier O’Brien, Catholic News Service There is “great misunderstanding” among Catholics and others about the church’s teachings on whether and when life-sustaining medical treatment can be withdrawn when death is near, according to a leading Catholic bioethicist. Marie T. Hilliard, director of bioethics and public policy and a staff ethicist at the National Catholic Bioethics Center, said the Philadelphia-based center conducts about 2,000 consultations a year with “families in distress” who want to talk with an ethicist “about the church’s teaching in light of their (family) situation.” Staff members hear from people who believe that “dialysis can never be discontinued,” for example, or that a feeding tube is obligatory “even when it is doing more harm than good,” she said. “Persons who are dealing with crises need to be helped to understand in that situation what is the natural moral law,” Hilliard said. “The church always deals with the good and trying to reach the good,” even when that means accepting the natural process of dying, she added. As outlined in the U.S. bishops’ “Ethical and Religious Directives for Catholic Health Care Services,” the church teaches that patients “may forgo extraordinary or disproportionate means of preserving life,” defined as “those that in the patient’s judgment do not offer a reasonable hope of benefit or entail an excessive burden, or impose excessive expense on the family or the community.” Survey results recently released by the Pew Research Religion & Public Life Project found that 57 percent of Americans would tell their doctors to stop medical treatment if they had a disease with no hope of improvement and were suffering a great deal of pain, while 35 percent said they would tell the doctors to do everything possible to save their lives. Eight percent said it depends or they did not know. But opinions varied greatly according to religion and ethnic group. Nearly two-thirds of white Catholics (65 percent) said they would stop medical treatment under those circumstances, but only 38 percent of Hispanic Catholics agreed. Most likely to stop medical treatment were white mainline Protestants (72 percent); black Protestants were least likely at 32 percent. The margin of error for the Pew survey was plus or minus 2.9 percentage points. The survey also found that only 37 percent of adult Americans had given “a great deal of thought” to their own wishes for end-oflife medical treatment, while 35 percent had given “some thought” and 27 percent had given “not very much” or no thought to the matter. Diocesan Youth Ministries Calendar January 24-26 26 2014 VOYAGE Retreat at St. Benedict at Auburndale Scouting Celebration, Church of the Incarnation, 4 p.m. February 21-23 28-March 1 2014 SEARCH Retreat,Memphis Catholic High School (MCHS) DYC at St. Benedict at Auburndale High School March 15 21-23 28-30 2014 Diocesan Confirmation Retreat at OLQP, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. QUEST Retreat at St. Mary’s Church/School in Jackson, TN SEARCH Retreat, Memphis Catholic High School (MCHS) April 25-27 2014 Friar Fest at Holy Rosary Church A photograph of 13-year-old Jahi McMath, who doctors had declared brain dead following complications after routine surgery for sleep apnea, is seen in late December 2013 on a necklace in Oakland, Calif. Recent conflicts in California and Texas between ph ysicians and the families of patients considered to be brain dead have prompted new questions about end-of-life decision-making. (CNS photo/Stephen Lam, Reuters) (Jan. 13, 2014) Even among those 75 and older, only 47 percent said they had given their end-of-life wishes a great deal of thought, while more than half said they’d given some, little or no thought to those decisions. Hilliard said the recent attention given to the cases of Jahi McMath, a 13-year-old girl from Oakland, Calif., who has been declared brain dead but remains on life support at an undisclosed location, and Marlise Munoz, a 33-year-old pregnant woman who is being kept on life support against her family’s wishes, point up the importance of every person having “a good conversation” with a family member or friend about his or her wishes in a medical crisis. A simple checklist of possible medical scenarios is no substitute for the designation of a health care proxy and a thorough discussion of one’s beliefs with that person, she added. “Because, as we ethicists often say, when you’ve seen one case, you’ve seen one case,” Hilliard said. PARENTING POINTERS © By Susan Vogt, www.SusanVogt. net Babies are usually cute and lovable - but there are times when an unplanned pregnancy can be a crisis for the whole family. Talk to your children about the sanctity of human life, no matter how invisible. Make it real by supporting both pregnant mothers and those struggling to raise a young child - perhaps alone. Week of January 23, 2014 WTC News Delivered To Your Email The West Tennessee Catholic - 11 Catholic Cemeteries Memorial Tree Program The Memorial Tree Program offers families an opportunity to remember and honor their loved ones while enhancing the beauty of Historic Calvary and All Saints Cemeteries. NEW Plantings Plant–A–Tree Option A - For a donation of $400 a new tree will be planted in memory of your loved one, and a memorial plaque will be displayed by the tree for a period of ten years. In addition your loved one’s name will be engraved on the Remembrance Plaque on display in Calvary’s Office indefinitely. Plant-A-Tree Option B - For a donation of $250 Plant a Crepe Myrtle, Red Bud, Dog Wood and other Ornamental Trees in memory of a loved one. A memorial plaque will be displayed by the tree for the period of five years. In addition your loved one’s name will be engraved on the remembrance plaque on display in Calvary’s Office indefinitely. EXISTING Planting Adopt-A-Tree - For a donation of $150 an established tree already planted on the grounds may be selected in memory of a loved one. A memorial plaque will be displayed by the tree for a period of three years. How the Money is Used Your money is used for the conservation and enhancement of the Catholic Cemeteries. Not only will your donation offset the purchases of new tree’s and plants for the grounds, your contribution helps maintain the beautiful, natural environment of the Catholic Cemeteries. Sign up for The West Tennessee Catholic Email News. A colorful html email will be delivered to your inbox each week with a summary of the latest stories and information. A link to the complete online PDF newspaper is also provided. Go to www.cdom.org and on the bottom of the page click “Subscribe to our mailing list.” You’ll be asked for your email and can choose which publications you would like to receive. Your Donation is Tax-Deductible Your contribution is tax deductible. You will receive a written acknowledgement of your donation from the Catholic Cemeteries. For further details, you may wish to contact your tax advisor. Call (901) 948-1529 for more information. Plant a tree today for a loved one! If you would like to receive inspirational emails from Bishop J. Terry Steib, SVD and other periodicals such as our Foundations in Faith newsletter, please sign up at www.cdom.org, go to the bottom of the page and click Subscribe to our mailing list. You’ll be asked for your email and can choose which publications you would like to receive. Visit our web sponsors. www.cdom.org If you would like to find out more information about our web site sponsors please either (1) click the sponsor box ad in this issue (teal rectangle), or (2) if you print this publication then type the web address shown below in your web browser. The Athena Project http://www.memphis.edu/psychology/athena/index.php Women’s Morning of Spirituality http://womensmorning.com/ 12 - The West Tennessee Catholic Week of January 23, 2014 Italian Winterfest . . . MORE PHOTOS Special honoree Br. Joel McGraw with Catholic Schools Superintendent Janet Donato. Angela Capocaccia, Tish Montesi and Denise Lucchesi accept a plaque on behalf of their father Angelo Lucchehi, who was honored at the Winterfest. Bishop J. Terry Steib visits with Catholic school principal Di Aur and his wife Kelley Aur. The West Tennessee Catholic - 13 Week of January 23, 2014 Diocese celebrates Martin Luther King Jr. day “Anointing of the Sick and Blessings for all” Veneration of our 1st Class Relic of St. Faustina and Icon of “The Divine Mercy” Celebrated by: The Most Reverend J. Terry Steib. S.V.D. When? Saturday, February 8, 2014 at 10:30 am Several Priests will concelebrate and be available for: Confessions: 9-10:15 am English & Spanish Where? St Ann Bartlett 6529 Stage Rd, Bartlett, TN Martin Luther King Day was marked at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception on January 20 in a prayer and praise celebration titled “Carrying the Torch, Sharing the Story.” Bishop J. Terry Steib presided over the occasion. The main speaker for the event was Fr. Kenneth Hamilton, SVD, PhD, who belongs to the same order as Bishop Steib. The St. Augustine Liturgical Dancers and the Bantaba Drummers performed. Two awards were given during the ceremony. Congratulations to Al Hudson for being named for the honor of receiving the Dr. James W. Hose Evangelization Award and to Claudette Seymour for the honor of receiving the Sr. Thea Bowman Ministry Award. Music: John Angotti & the St Ann Choir Spread the word: to all in need of God’s Graces & Mercy, especially those in need of healing: Physically, Emotionally, Spiritually and Financially. Come support His Divine Mercy Join the Liturgy of the Holy Mass in honor of Our Lady of Lourdes, St Bernadette and St Faustina and through their intercession receive the many graces from the Mass. By: St Ann, St Faustina Shrine/Society & Diocesan Office of Pastoral Services. Questions: Call Jay 438-7772 Listen to The Catholic Cafe® Saturdays 3:30 p.m. on WWGM FM 93.1 in the Jackson area and on WSIB FM 93.9 in the Selmer area; and on Sundays at 8:30 a.m. on WYVY FM 104.9 in Union City and at 10 a.m. on KWAM AM 990 in Memphis. Daniel Newell blows away seeds of collected milkweed pods, near sculpture of Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. in Washington, which he said represented the “seeds of change” to him, in front of 30-foot sculpture of the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. in Washington Jan. 19. The nation honors the legacy of the slain civil rights leader and Nobel Peace Prize laureate with a national holiday, which this year was Jan. 20. (CNS photo/Jonathan Ernst, Reuters) (Jan. 21, 2014) Livestock, pets flock to St. Peter’s Square for feast day blessing By Carol Glatz, Catholic News Service Bleats, barks and honks accompanied the “Our Father” as Cardinal Angelo Comastri blessed farm animals and pets gathered outside St. Peter’s Square. Hundreds of local residents and tourists gathered for the Jan. 17 blessing to mark the feast of St. Anthony the Abbot, patron saint of animals and farmers. Members of an Italian association of farmers and ranchers brought their donkeys, cows, horses, rabbits, hens, geese, sheep, goats and pigs, who munched on hay or feed in their wooden pens. Many Rome residents brought their pets -- ranging from a giant Neapolitan Mastiff to a tiny kitten named Birba, who got a special caress from the cardinal, the papal vicar for Vatican City. Cats and dogs could enjoy a free veterinary checkup at two tents nearby. Italian police mounted on horseback paraded up the wide boulevard leading to the square and two police dogs, with their agents, circled and sniffed pedestrians enthusiastically -- unaware they were off-duty to get a blessing. Before the blessing, Cardinal Comastri celebrated a Mass in St. Peter’s Basilica with members of the livestock association and their families. Standing near the animals’ pens, he thanked Italian farmers for helping care for nature and providing communities with healthy, wholesome food. He said Pope Francis has reminded people of their duty to protect creation. The cardinal said the recent Cardinal Angelo Comastri greets riders on horseback as he blesses farm animals and pets outside St. Peter’s Square. (CNS/Paul Haring) cleaning and restoration of Bernini’s colonnade surrounding St. Peter’s Square revealed the extent and seriousness of urban pollution. Workers spent the past five years scrubbing and sandblasting off black grime, showing just how much pollution is ending up in people’s lungs, he said. He said he hoped the farmers’ example of being ethical and honest stewards of God’s gifts would “become contagious” and influence everyone. 14 - The West Tennessee Catholic Week of January 23, 2014 USCCB subcommittee chairman strongly endorses State Marriage Defense Act Archbishop Salvatore Cordileone of San Francisco, chairman of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops’ Subcommittee for the Promotion and Defense of Marriage, applauded the January 9 introduction of the bipartisan State Marriage Defense Act of 2014 (H.R. 3829) in the U.S. House of Representatives by Representative Randy Weber (R-TX). “The State Marriage Defense Act is a necessary piece of legislation that will prevent the federal government from unjustly disregarding, in certain instances, state marriage laws concerning the definition of marriage,” said Archbishop Cordileone. In a letter of support to Rep. Weber, Archbishop Cordileone noted that various agencies of the federal government have begun using a “place of celebration” rule to determine whether persons are validly married for purposes of federal law. He went on to say, “The Supreme Court’s decision last year in United States v. Windsor, however, requires the federal government to defer to state marriage law, not disregard it.” He therefore concluded that this bill is necessary because it “would remedy this problem by requiring the federal government, consistent with Windsor, to defer to the marriage law of the state in which people actually reside when determining whether they are married for purposes of federal law.” Urging the U.S. House of Representatives to pass the Act, Archbishop Cordileone said, “State marriage laws defining marriage as the union of one man and one woman deserve respect by the federal government. This bill does that. I, therefore, strongly encourage the House of Representatives to pass the State Marriage Defense Act.” Archbishop Cordileone’s letter of support to Rep. Randy Weber can be found at http://www.usccb.org/ issues-and-action/marriage-andfamily/marriage/promotion-anddefense-of-marriage/upload/Ltrto-Weber-re-SMDA.pdf. Where matter. ENROLLMENT OPEN FOR THE 2014/2015 SCHOOL YEAR PreK-8th Grade goICS.org 901.853.7804