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Murrells Inlet Messenger The local newspaper for Murrells Inlet and Garden City Beach DECEMBER VOL. 2 NO. 11 WWW.MURRELLSINLETMESSENGER.COM Seven Seas Seafood: local ‘creek rat’ living his father’s dream “rain or shine.” At 26, Chris is still surrounded by fish and his father, but the double wide for him is long gone. The manager of Seven Seas Seafood Market, Chris works with his dad to provide jobs to fishermen and fish to the community and beyond. They have nine employees in the off-season, 18 in-season, and buy fish from local fishermen, running 12 grouper and snapper fishing boats. Some weeks, he said, he might deal with 20,000 pounds of fish. He sells all over, including to the Canadian market, Fulton, N.Y., Maryland, Charleston and more. Chris Conklin serves up some fresh fish for a local lady while catching up on how she’s doing. And, he provides as much local catch as he can to his customers. By Tim Callahan His “three corner business” - restaurants, fish Chris Conklin started life in a a double wide, store and retail – will be adding a “fourth corliving with two other families. ner” in February, Chris said, an online seafood Growing up in Murrells Inlet, Chris loved to market. fish with his dad, Phil, a commercial fisherman. The economy has been good to him, he said, as Chris, a Waccamaw High School graduate, was people are staying home and cooking fish more a true “creek rat,” he said, practically living there and eating out less. (However, Murrells Inlet res- FREE taurants are still doing great business, he said, because they provide some of the best dining in the state.) “It’s hold on tight. Steady up. No down here,” Chris said. In a sense, Chris is living his dad’s dream. Phil, a Florida native, was doing his patriotic duty with the U.S. Navy in the 1970’s. While on shore leave in Charleston, he wandered up to Murrells Inlet and fell in love with the place. After his military stint was over, Phil worked aboard several of the top charter fishing boats in Miami, spending his days on the water and hobnobbing with the rich and famous, but he never forgot Murrells Inlet. Several years later, opportunity came knocking. Phil and several of the inlet’s commercial fishing boat skippers opened a seafood co-op here, offering fresh off the boat seafood at prices everyone could afford. It was an idea that resonated with the public and within a few years, Seven Seas Seafood went from rented space in the back... Continued on page 8 Broken Hearts Mended - Families Brought Together Marriages Restored - Relationships Healed Faith Strengthened - Decisions for Christ www.HisRadio.com Call the Prayer Line: 800-849-8930 Business Ministry Partner: 864-630-6694 2/Murrells Inlet Messenger/December 2011 Editorial/Opinion: life begins at 57 ½ for author I just picked up a copy of the Murrells Inlet Messenger and must commend you on circulation, a first class local newspaper. My wife and I resided in Murrells Inlet (in Blackmoor) the first five years of living here on the coast, before moving to Pawley’s Island a year and half ago. We moved here in 2005 from Abbeville, S.C., after I lost both my parents three months apart, something tough to endure for an only child. Judy and I are born and raised South Carolinians. We relocated here to be close to the grandkids. I have one of those life after 50 moments I would like to share with you and your readers: In 2003, at the age of 50, doing consultant work, staying in hotels three nights a week, I began writing, pounding the keys on the laptop for something to do. It served as an outlet - somewhat therapeutic - because my wife and I had assumed caregiver duties for both my ailing parents. We had sold our home in Greenwood, S.C., to move in and care for them and my 94-year-old grandmother. We brought my grandmother with us to the beach several months after my parents’ deaths. Granny passed less than two months after the move. She was my mom’s mother. Over the course of 11 months, I had lost all three and, basically, my entire bloodline. I eventually completed a 650-page novel. Over the next eight years, I wrote ten more novels and 100 short stories. No one, including my wife, had ever read any of my novels; my choice. I had shared a couple of short stories with friends Murrells Inlet Messenger and family. I was sort of a closet writer, doing it because I enjoyed it. I thought about one day The local newspaper for Murrells Inlet and Garden City Beach submitting some of them for publishing but never seriously pursued it. I had and still have a full time job working at Metglas, Inc. in Conway. Editor/Publisher: One afternoon in June of this year, after I arTim Callahan rived home from work, a gentleman showed up [email protected] at our door thinking the previous owners of our house still lived there. We had been in Pawleys Contributor: for just over a year and half. I had seen the elDebbie Callahan derly man walking through the neighborhood. He introduced himself as Robert O’Brien and then realized I wasn’t the man he had expected to Freelance designer: visit. He apologized, stating he had just dropped Nathan Kirk by to proudly show the previous owner a copy of [email protected] his novel he had just gotten published because the previous owner had also shown interest in Circulation: 4,000 copies available at stores wanting to write a book. in Murrells Inlet and Garden City Beach. I told him that was very interesting and that I do Next edition: January 11 a little writing. Bob asked me if I had a completed P.O. Box 612 manuscript. I told him yes. I had ten. Floored, he Murrells Inlet, S.C. 29576 said you and I need to talk, stating he had started 843-344-3197 his own publishing company, Prose Press. This 843-979-0982 seemed much too coincidental for me. I felt like No subscriptions at this time. I had received a sign, an omen, that this was the push I needed to actually attempt publishing The Murrells Inlet Messenger, LLC, one of my novels. I selected one and began the is a monthly newspaper serving the communities of Murrells Inlet and dream. My wife, Judy, became my proof reader Garden City Beach, S.C. and the book was proofed and edited five times before eventually submitting a final version to Barnes and Noble, etc. my new friend and neighbor, Bob. Who would have ever figured that I would have Two weeks ago, I became an actual author. started writing at age 50 and published my first T. Allen Winn’s “Road Rage” has now been Continued on page 8 published and is available on Amazon.com. December 2011/Murrells Inlet Messenger/3 My first Christmas without mom By Debbie Callahan My mom died to this world June of this year. This will be my first Christmas without her. I found myself saying, “My mom made Christmas.” But, I know that isn’t so – Jesus made Christmas. My mom, however, helped to make it a special time of celebration with all her hard work. Ever since I can remember, she baked, cooked, cleaned and made sure all the presents were ready for the big day -and there were lots of presents the living room was filled with them. She had a lot to buy for, with eight kids of her own, then eventually our spouses, and then add grandkids, their boyfriends/girlfriends or spouses, great grandkids, friends of the family, etc. Our living room went from filled to overflowing. My mom was about family, and it wasn’t just at Christmas. She would do weekly dinners for the family and the extended family, where she would make homemade soups, salad and dinners to feed us all. One flavor always stood out: she added an extra measure of love. My mom loved and served her family. My sister commented at her funeral how we all pulled together to care for mom her last days here, while it took only one mom to care for us all of our days – that’s a testimony as to how God blessed us through our mom. 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Shanks Attorney at Law 238-2694 Conveniently Located in Surfside Beach Serving the Grand Strand since 1982 www.smithlawfirmsc.com Manage your money carefully this holiday season As you know, the holiday season can be joyous, hectic, celebratory — and expensive. While you certainly enjoy hosting family gatherings and giving presents to your loved ones, you’ll find these things even more pleasurable if they don’t add a lot more weight to your debt load. And, that’s why you’ll want to follow some smart moneymanagement techniques over the next few weeks. To begin with, try to establish realistic budgets for both your entertaining and your gift giving. When you host family and friends, don’t go overboard on your expenditures. Your guests will still appreciate your efforts, which, with a little creativity, can create a welcoming and fun experience for everyone. As a guiding principal, keep in mind these words attributed to Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, the famous German poet and philosopher: “What you can do without, do without.” Set a budget and stick to it. And the same rule applies to your gifting. You don’t need to find the most expensive presents, or overwhelm recipients with the sheer volume of your gifts. This is especially true if you, like so many people, have been affected by the tough economy. Everyone you know will understand that gifts don’t have to be lavish to be meaningful. Furthermore, by sticking to a budget, you won’t be tempted to dip into your long-term investments to pay for fabulous parties or mountains of gifts. It’s never a good idea to tap long-term investments for short-term needs, but it can be especially bad when your investment prices are down, as they may well be this year. So, if you want to stick to a budget but you don’t want to raid your investments, how can you pay for your holiday season expenses? If you can spread out your purchases, you may be able to pay for them from your normal cash flow. But if that’s not possible, you might want to consider “plastic” — your credit card. Using your credit card does not, by itself, need to amount to a financial setback, especially if you’ve chosen a card that offers favorable terms and you’ve already shown the discipline not to over-use that card. Just try to minimize your credit card usage over the holidays and pay off your card as soon as you can. Of course, you can make your holiday season much easier, financially speaking, if you’ve set up a holiday fund to cover your various expenses. While it’s too late to set up such a fund this year, why not get an early start on the 2012 holiday season? All you need to do is put away some money each month into an easily accessible account, separate from your everyday accounts. You don’t have to put in a great deal, but you do need to be consistent, which is why you may want to have the money moved automatically, once a month, from your checking or savings account to your holiday fund. When next year’s holiday season rolls around, you might be pleasantly surprised by how much you’ve accumulated. But for now, following some common-sense money management practices can help you get through the holiday season in financial shape — and that type of result can get your new year off to a positive start. This article was written by Edward Jones for use by your local Edward Jones financial advisor, Brenda J Varnum, 843-651-9473. HAPPY HOLIDAYS December 2011/Murrells Inlet Messenger/5 Foreclosures, Santee Cooper rate increase, topics you missed By Tim Callahan Editor/Publisher With an estimated 20,000 people in the Burgess Community, Doug Maschin said that the number of people who attended a recent Greater Burgess Community Association quarterly community association meeting was “pathetic.” “There are only 35 to 40 people here,” Maschin said. “That is pathetic.” If more people had of attended, they would have learned that: • Sen. Ray Cleary said that Santee Cooper plans to increase rates 15 percent in the next two years. • Seven thousand properties in the Horry County area started the foreclosure process since 2007, according to county senior planner John Danford. • The SELL (Southern Evacuation Lifeline) probably won’t be completed in County Councilman Paul Price’s lifetime. • Activist groups have helped hold up several major road projects needed to ease transportation in this section of the state, according to Cleary and Rep. Nelson Hardwick. And, these groups have held up a possible solution to the gas crisis, a natural gas and oil pipeline from Canada to Louisiana and Texas, according to Cleary and Hardwick. People would have also learned that there is power in numbers. Just 30-40 emails led Bojangles’ to withdraw its proposal to build a “stick sign,” said GBCA president Al Jordan. Who knows? Maybe Santee Cooper would re- consider if they got hundreds and thousands of emails protesting another major increase. Paraphrasing the representatives, if people don’t get involved, they won’t. They represent you and, if you don’t tell them anything, they can’t represent your interests. The GBCA is offering you an opportunity to speak out, let your concerns be known, and to get them in front of your representatives. The Burgess Community, spreading out on both sides of Route 707 in Horry County, could be a large force for good in the area of the state. The GBCA also has a neighborhood network of 30 developments and a business network. The GBCA meeting reminded me why I got into newspapers in the first place. I am only one person, but I can make a difference. Here were four politicians begging people to call them, to write them, to tell them what was on their minds. What if I was one of those people? What if you were? Your neighbor? Your friend? Your brother? Your co-worker? And what if they recruited their neighbors, friends, co-workers and siblings? Just 30-40 emails changed a sign. What would 300 to 400 emails, or 3,000 to 4,000 emails, do for our homes, roads and gas and electric bills? What would joining the GBCA do? What could it hurt? The GBCA’s Web site is: www.greaterburgesscommunity.org To contact your local representatives: State Sen. Ray Cleary, www.senatorcleary.com State Rep. Nelson Hardwick, Dist. 106, 238-1142 Horry Councilman Paul Price, Dist. 5, [email protected] Horry Councilman Gary Loftus, Dist. 4, [email protected] Horry County government, www.horrycounty.org Georgetown County, www.georgetowncountysc.org ANDERSON LAW, LLC Hope CALL TO SCHEDULE YOUR FREE CONSULTATION: when it seems hopeless... www.Soteriallc.com Bankruptcy, Debt Relief, Family Court Matters 843-979-0529 Attorney Jay G. 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The sale will take place in the conference room on December 8, from 5 p.m. to 8 p.m., and December 9 from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. There will be a selection of popular fiction, nonfiction, cook books, humor, stocking stuffers and much more…. Hardcover books are $3 each or 2 for $5. Paperbacks are 50 cents; trade paperbacks, $1.50; and small books, $1. In addition you can purchase raffles, 3 for $5, for a chance to win a Nook. Camellia Show coming in January The Grand Strand Camellia Society, in association with the American Camellia Society and the Mid-Carolina Camellia Society, will sponsor their annual Camellia Show, January 7-8. The community and surrounding areas will be able to view, enjoy and, by so doing, will add to the culture of camellias in the community. As in the past, exhibitors from all over the Southeast will be attending and showing their camellias. All local camellia growers are cordially invited to exhibit their blooms. This year’s show is January 7 and 8, from 1p.m. to 5 p.m., at the Tara Conference Center, Litchfield Beach and Golf Resort, 14276 Ocean Hwy., Celebrate the season with dance Litchfield Beach. Admission to the show is free. Lighten up your holidays by attending one of For further details, please contact Mack McKintwo dance performances presented by Litchfield non at 843-995-1256. Dance Arts Academy in Pawleys Island. On Sat., Dec. 10 at 3 p.m. and 7 p.m., talented Theater presents ‘A Christmas Story’ dance students of all ages take to the LDAA the- Atlantic Stage presents: “A Christmas Story,” ater stage for solo and group numbers offering by Jean Shepard. Dec. 1 - Dec. 18, Thurs. - Sat. sentiments of the season. 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Spanish speakers available. The church is located at 8901 Hwy. 17 Bypass, Surfside. Phone: 215-4500. Santa at Lee’s Apothecary Santa will be at Lee’s Inlet Apothecary on Dec. 15 at 4 p.m. Free scoop of ice cream, free cookies. Get 25 percent off gifts. Lee’s is located on Business 17 in Murrells Inlet. Moveable Feast 13th season concert On Fri., Dec. 16, Philip Powell, Coastal Carolina University music professor, will close the 13th season of the Moveable Feast with a concert featuring the romantic and revolutionary works of Liszt, whose 200th birthday is celebrated this year. Powell will perform “Consolation #3 in D-flat Major,” “Sonetto 104 del Petrarca” and “Rhapsodie Espagnole” by Franz Liszt. Amy Hardison Tully, flutist from Coastal Carolina University, will accompany him on “Achat Sha’alti” and “Ufaratsta” by Paul Schoenfield and “Sonata for Flute and Piano” by Lowell Liebermann. Held at Capt. Dave’s Dockside in Murrells Inlet, the program begins with an hour of music at 11 a.m., followed by a delicious lunch. Tickets are $35. For reservations, call 843-2359600, stop by the Chocolate & Coffee House in the Litchfield Exchange, or visit www.ClassAtPawleys.com. By Joe Scanlon Christmas becomes a more multifaceted holiday with each passing year. I was watching Miracle on 34th Street with my grandchildren over Thanksgiving and the movie’s big dilemma was: is Santa Clause real? On Black Friday, I saw a video of people using pepper spray to protect their bargains from fellow shoppers. Is Christmas about Santa or modern urban retail warfare? Is it a religious celebration of the birth of Christ? Is it a hybrid Christian-Celtic celebration of renewal and rebirth? Is it an economic indicator of the state of the economy? Is it a time for functional families to get together and celebrate, and dysfunctional families to get together and make each other miserable? 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His goal was maritime lo- www.sevenseasseafood.com) gistics. He was all lined up with an internship, Author...continued from page 2 and planned graduate school at SUNY Maritime novel at age 58? Things happen for a reason; College. He was taking a week break after unmy urge to write prompted by a tragic period dergraduate school graduation in 2008 when the in my life and Bob O’Brien showing up at my family business burned to the ground. front door. I have indeed begun an incredible His fallback plan, the family business, has bejourney. Ironically, in January, I began keeping come his life. a journal on my laptop entitled “Life Begins at His father never asked him to help after the fire, 57 ½.” Yup, a diary of sorts. I would have never Chris said, “but it was the honorable thing to do. thought in my wildest dreams that it would inMy dad and mom provided a way to grow up that clude me being a published author. No one can made college and my plans possible.” ever take this away from me. My only wish is In June of 2008, he joined the business and that my parents would have been here to witagain worked alongside his father. ness it. But, then again, I’m sure they are smilHe married Jean Allen of Florence recently, so ing proudly. his dream plans are further back on the burner. Best regards, “I have added responsibility,” Chris said, “to Tom Winn provide for my own family.” Pawley’s Island But, Chris is not crying the blues. “I have a good family, a wonderful wife, and Got News or Ads? I am doing something I enjoy and am good at.” Call the Murrells Inlet Messenger at It is a fast paced business that can mean 12-14 344-3197 or email hour days, especially during tourist season. [email protected] The winter months they sell a lot of oysters, Visit us online at clams, shell fish. Summertime, Chris said, “we www.murrellsinletmessenger.com sell anything, but flounder and grouper are our niche.” Chris is a member of the South Atlantic Fishergard1-24403 Christmas 3x8_Layout 1 11/28/11 6:06 PM Page 1 man’s Association, South Carolina Seafood Alli- Soteria gives social outlet My mother in law is 92-years-old. She has a sister who is 94 and keeps in touch with her as much as possible. Her sister and husband still commute between Arizona and New Jersey each spring and fall. Longevity and good health runs in the family. When my mother-in-law moved in with us, our biggest worry was how to keep her occupied. She likes to do puzzles and watch game shows in the evening. She reads the daily newspaper as part of her breakfast routine, checking out the obituaries. We sometimes tease her, asking if she has found her name yet. But, the highlight of her week are the days she goes to what we call “the club.” Soteria gives her the social outlet and camaraderie that we are not able to provide. She looks forward to each day that she can attend. When she returns home she tells of games and bingo she played, and the places they visited. She knows each of the other members by name and tells of time in conversation with them. But, the most important benefit comes from knowing she is in a place that is both safe and loving. We, too, benefit by having some time apart and come back renewed both in mind and spirit. We are grateful and fortunate to have this resource right within our own community. Mary Jo and Hartmut Fege Pawleys Island For over 50 years it’s been our mission to offer our customers quality home furnishings at an excellent value and to provide personalized service that is second to none. 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Daniel Harrell 2050 Corporate Centre Drive, Suite 120 Myrtle Beach, SC 29577 [email protected] Direct (843) 445-2002 www.wfadvisors.com/daniel.harrell Investment and Insurance Products: NOT FDIC Insured NO Bank Guarantee MAY Lose Value Wells Fargo Advisors, LLC, Member SIPC, is a registered broker-dealer and a separate non-bank affiliate of Wells Fargo & Company. ©2010 Wells Fargo Advisors, LLC. All rights reserved. 0910-3528 [74018-v2] A1287 newspaper publisher. He also became an alcoholic who couldn’t hold a job. We moved 12 times in my first 18 years of life. Oddly, he never had booze in the house. All we knew was that he would leave for work reasonably sane for an insane guy and come home a monster, who found fault and then started hitting. He broke my mom’s nose once and laughed because my brother Pat and I, ages 8 and 10 at the time, yelled at him for doing it. Meanwhile, mom was passed out in a pool of blood. There was no trip to the hospital. No one was as good as dad, just ask him. Praise was not found on his lips except for himself. Biting, sarcastic humor made the words hurt more than any blows he landed on mom and my older brother, Mike, his punching bags. I escaped his wrath because I was both the athlete and the academic in the house, who he could point at and tell his very few friends, “See, look at Tim, what a great dad I am.” He tried to kill Mike once and then told the cops Mike had tried to kill him. Thankfully, my dad left not too long after that incident to shack up with someone. I was 35 years old when a friend made me realize he was much more than a drunk. He was certifiably psychotic. I won’t shock you with more hideous proofs. For those of you who think this is the blaming the parent game, I turned out to be not much different. I didn’t hit, but I drank, and I could not stop. Not without major league help: from the Boss (God); the coach (the Twelve Steps); and fellow players (AA members). Dad was a man who lived in an age when AA and psychiatrists were young, and asking for help was a sign of weakness, something a real man would never do. And, underneath all that garbage that was passed on down from his father, was a man with a terrible disease who had a few wonderful moments. Christmas day was his biggest moment. He not only stayed home Christmas Eve but could be found on the roof when we were young. Of course, we thought it was Santa. Some years he would dress as Santa and let us catch him, belly laughing downstairs and telling us to go back to bed and be good. The outfit and act was so good, we didn’t know it was dad - until the Christmas we caught Santa kissing mom. We were poor for two reasons: his chosen profession paid a pittance for a man with seven kids, and his drinking cut into the profits. Hunger was a familiar rumbling in our bellies. But, Christmas day we ate like bandits, and came downstairs in the morning to Christmas presents that filled the living room. But, much more than that, my dad was happy that day. My mom was happy. We were happy. After some coffee and aspirin for dad/Santa’s egg nog headache, he would pass out the presents. He would smile and laugh and joke, and his sarcasm and cuts took a holiday. Something else I remember about Christmas time with dad: “Charlie Brown’s Christmas.” He loved that cartoon. Snoopy and Charlie had him Continued on page 11 Counseling Center Of Georgetown Palmetto Bay Jewelz his girlfriend said. But, drunks are habitual liars so we don’t know 4450 HWY 17 BYPASS AT WOODSIDE VILLAGE • MURRELLS INLET, SC www.pbjewelz.com IAL… C E P S TAL N E D Y LIDA O H 1 1 20 149 AXELROD & ASSOCIATES, P.A. 843-916-9300 MEDICAL DIRECTOR 906 PRINCE ST • GEORGETOWN, SC Denver. for sure. Tell me there is no God. I choose to believe this Christmas that Linus The dad I met in the hospital had not changed. and me, and many others, over the years planted He was the greatest; he had no drinking problem; seeds that dad plucked on death’s door and that he threw out all the old barbs. he asked the God/man born in a manger to forBut, I was different. I visited him daily, took give him and to be his Lord and Savior. what he dished out and smiled, and tried to help If so, there will be no yellings, beatings, cuts the doctors convince dad he needed help. And, and barbs when I meet him in heaven. Nor will after three weeks off booze, my dad started to act there be any tears. human again. He even asked me how I stopped Maybe we will roll around on the floor laughdrinking. ing, remembering Christmas, remembering I gave him my testimony, my story, my drunk-a- Charlie Brown, remembering we always loved log, whatever you want to call it, and he listened. each other no matter how badly we showed it. A week later, he went AWOL from the hospital, And forgetting everything else. convincing a cabbie - with $100 - to sneak him out of the hospital. He started drinking again. He called and told me and my wife off. He ~Affordable Elegance~ was angry that we had tried to get him com(843) 651-0297 mitted to a mental hosHappy Holidays from Palmetto Bay Jewelz! pital/treatment center. He had no problem. We offer unique sparkling designs at very affordable prices! We moved back East NOTHING IN THE STORE IS OVER $50!! a few months later to Many items are one of a kind. be closer to family and Fashion Jewelry & Accessories, didn’t hear from my Decorative Home Items & Gifts, dad again. Fenton Art Glass. He died a year after Come in and browse... we came home. He was FREE GIFT just for stopping by! sober when he died, Got Axelrod? ALL FOR JAMES F. GRAHAM, JR., MD 527-8118 rolling on the floor laughing. And, one year, I swore I saw some tears from a man who never cried in front of us. Ever. He locked himself in the bathroom for two days after his mom died and ran water so we wouldn’t hear him crying. But, we did. And we saw the water in his eyes when Linus stepped on stage and began reading: “I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people.Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger...” The Boss is stronger than any man, any drink, any disease. His words, spoken by a cartoon character, chilled us and made a grown man who never cried cry. Some 20 years after those Christmases, I gave my life to the author of those words: Jesus Christ. He helped me stop drinking by providing the power, and a fellowship of fellow sufferers to hold me accountable and share their experience, strength and hope. Some 30 years after those Christmases, God provided me the opportunity to help my dad. I hadn’t seen him in 15 years. We thought he was dead. But, a call out of the blue came and we were told he was in the hospital after falling while drunk and puncturing a lung. Due to his already pathetic physical condition from a half century of drinking, he was in danger of dying. He was only 64. “Where is he?” I asked. “Denver,” his girlfriend said. Where was I living at the time? $ FELLOW, AMERICAN ACADEMY OF PAIN MANAGEMENT B/C & BS & MAJOR INSURANCES ACCEPTED Editorial/Opinion...continued from page 10 WILL, LIVING WILL AND POWER OF ATTORNEY JOSEPH E. 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