“So Long, Farewell” to Haiti
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“So Long, Farewell” to Haiti
VOL. 15 NO. 2 | WINTER 2014 WWW.XAVERIANBROTHERS.ORG | FACEBOOK.COM/XAVERIANBROTHERS | TWITTER@XAVERIANBROS Following the Xaverian Way Brother Harry Eccles Bids “So Long, Farewell” to Haiti A fter 25 years of ministry in Haiti, Brother Harry Eccles recently said farewell (mwen kite nou, “I keep you in my heart”), to the children at Maison Fortuné Orphanage in Hinche on Haiti’s Central Plateau. He, along with Brothers Michael McCarthy and Bill Griffin, left the orphanage last year for other ministries, but they did so with heavy hearts because they will miss the children most of all. I was a celebrity! My morning English club in the computer room attracted an average of twelve students daily. The text of choice was the gospel of the day. Interesting theological conversations filled the sixty-toninety minute class—all in English of course. It’s now 25 years since Bro. Cos Rubencamp guided me and Brother John Mahony to Hinche. At that time, Maison Fortuné Orphanage was still just an idea in God’s heart (it was founded in 2001). In both the longer and shorter time spans there have been more changes there than I could keep up with! The Brother Harry was the unofficial orphanage now has 250 kids, 100 of whom grandfather at the orphanage and he came after the disastrous 2010 earthquake. described a typical day there this way. Almost from the first there was a constant flow of visitors to the orphanage who always Each afternoon I would spend time with the brought extras for the boys and girls. By hostlittlest ones on the back porch of the guesting visitors, we Brothers met many wonderful house. I had a people with lots of straight-back energy and compaschair, a box of sion. “The children at books, and a For myself, after Maison Fortuné Orphanage bag of games 25 years in Haiti, I and cards. Books couldn’t get around loved looking at introducing the as much or as fast as I my light-up watch. alphabet and did in 1989, but I’m numbers were still blessed to have To them I was a celebrity!” very popular. been at Maison The children Fortuné Orphanage never got tired of and to have visited cards and puzzles, or of my “light-up” wristSt. Martin de Porres High School, the Azil (a watch. Even though it’s close-cropped, my refuge for sick and malnourished children), soft hair fascinated them. To the little children and my old stomping ground in Pandiassou.” In this issue •Brother Harry Eccles says mwen kite nou to Haiti •Brothers who keep the Xaverian spirit alive on XBSS school boards •Brother Cosmas Rubencamp’s behind-the-scenes work for Haiti •Introducing Barbara Ives, a Xaverian Brothers Associate and school Collaborator •A “Call Fulfilled” tribute to Brothers Bernard Philpott and Robert Sullivan The Sant Ministry Over the years, Brothers Harry and John centered their activities on the Central Plateau, building on the work and good relationships that Brother Cosmas Rubencamp had started through his ministry in the Diocese of Richmond and the association he began through the Haitian outreach program and twinning. Brother Continued on page 2 Continued from page 1 Philip Eisenhaur focused his attention on the Sant Zaveryen in Port-au-Prince, a program/community house to help poor young men from rural areas who could not afford a university education. When Brother Phil died suddenly the following year, Brother Harry took up direction of the Sant, commuting once a month from Pandiassou. The majority of those first classes of Sant men had been students of Brother Harry and Brother John on the Plateau, so Harry was in a unique position to accompany them. He would sit with each student individually, hear them talk about their studies, guide and counsel them as they spoke about their struggles and their hopes. He prayed with them, laughed with them, and helped them. Through their community life, they were able to embody the spirit of the Xaverian Brothers and share their gifts and talents with one another. So much of Brother Harry’s work was unseen and took place in what the Xaverian Brothers call “the common, ordinary, unspectacular flow of everyday life.” Through his good work, and Brother Michael McCarthy’s after him, over twenty young men have graduated from various universities after living at the Sant. At a celebration hosted by Maison Fortuné Orphanage, Brother Harry had the opportunity to meet with many of the Sant alums who shared their gratitude and their stories about him. The Brothers will continue to accompany these young men, and, of course, continue to monitor and support the new Sant men who are beginning their studies this year. Left to right in the photo with Brother Harry: Sant alum, Kenold, Fanfan Myriel, a friend of the Brothers, and Sant alum Pierre-Louis Joizil. Children, Brother Harry says, mwen kite nou, “I keep you in my heart.” Here Brother Harry at right is pictured with (from left to right), Brothers Vincent Ilunga, Mike McCarthy, and Joseph Ngoie. Memories from Brother Harry... • Walking across the orphanage with a convoy of little boys, all eager to carry my book bag, to take my hands, to unlock the library • Sitting on the back porch with a box of books and games with a dozen little ones busily enjoying themselves...and older boys stopping by with questions or just to practice English, “ordinary, unspectacular things,” but valued by those who have little… • Saying goodbye to so many of our boys who visited or wrote when it was time for me to leave… • Remembering Brothers John Mahoney and Phil Eisenhaur… • Living at the guesthouse at the orphanage (an unexpected bonus) and meeting the stream of visitors who shared our hopes and efforts for Haiti… • Gathering with Brothers Bill Griffin, Joseph Ngoie, and James Nicholas Wesonga, along with alums of the old Sant and the young men now beginning the new Sant… • Happiness that one of our Sant alums chose to name a new orphanage after St. Francis Xavier to express his appreciation to the Brothers… 2 A Brief History of Haiti Ministry Brother Harry’s Bishop p visited Haiti at smas Rubencam d on hm Ric 1984 Brother Co e th of request (Bishop Walter Sullivan’s ). 13 20 in d die came o Diocese wh d Harry Eccles be hn Mahoney an Jo rs he ot tle Br Lit e 89 19 ters of th at the headquar nche. adjuncts (visitors) ndiassou, near Hi Pa in n tio na ar Inc e can th eri of rs Am d he ot ste Br and ho sh and Spanish They taught Engli visitors. ved to the Kay hn and Harry mo 1992 Brothers Jo sou. ias nd Pa an House) in d the Zaveryen (Xaveri rived and founde ar ur ha en Eis ilip Ph r he ot Br 1996 Port-au-Prince. Sant Zaveryen in and Brother Harry il died suddenly 1997 Brother Ph the Sant. of r to ec uting dir n became the comm ndiassou to Maiso Pa rry moved from y rth Ca Mc ke Mi 2007 Brother Ha other age in Hinche. Br minister. Fortuné Orphan became campus d an ar ye xt ne joined him the . 2011 n joined them in e Brother Bill Griffi s destroyed by th wa e nc ide res nt 2010 The Sa ake. disastrous earthqu mes Nicholas ph Ngoie and Ja se Jo rs 2011 Brothe a new Sant en from Africa to op Wesonga arrived men are about to ur fo ere wh e, au Princ Zaveryen in Port rsity studies begin their unive Great Work Behind the Scenes Three Xaverian Brothers Share Their Experiences on XBSS Boards A ll fourteen of our Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools have boards that oversee them, and on these boards are highly-committed people who sustain the values instilled by Theodore James Ryken, founder of the Xaverian Brothers. Board members meet regularly, chair committees, and pledge themselves to grow in their understanding of Catholic education in the Xaverian tradition. Kudos to all those who serve on all our XBSS boards! Many boards have a Xaverian Brother serving on them, and we talked to three of the Brothers who are presently on a board and asked them how they are sustaining the Xaverian Brothers' spirit and values as a board member. Here’s what they said. Brother Thomas Puccio, CFX Our XBSS office has guided the shaping of Boards over the past quarter century, and during this time Brothers have Brother Thomas Puccio, CFX increasingly become symbolic links bridging a distinguished past with a hopeful future. The story we carry is not our own, but an institutional memory, a wonderful congregational story of birth and growth and loving legacy. Because of the Brothers’ care over dozens of years, many of the laymen and women who now serve on XBSS Boards were once educatwith the Cheverus Medal by Cardinal Séan ed by Xaverian Brothers. I am the happy O’Malley at Holy Cross Cathedral in Boston, recipient of respect and affection not perMA. The medal was presented to 95 laypersonally deserved! I am humbled to know sons, deacons, and religious in appreciation that I represent my many Brothers, longfor quiet dedication to the church. The medal gone before me, who mightily shaped is named for Boston’s first bishop, Jean-Louis lives. Anne Magdelaine Lefebvre de Cheverus. Many of my board meetings, most Congratulations Brother Tom! recently at Xaverian Brothers High School and Nazareth Regional in Brooklyn, have been both fun and instructive for me. I Brother Raymond Hoyt am an educator. While other board members must deal with leaking roofs and Having sat through capital campaign fundraising, I can enjoy the teacher-stupresentations, listened to budget proposdent sparks that light up each of our als, and stared at audit reports, I have schools! My hope has been that I can been well schooled in the financial and affirm the good I see taking place at each school, offer occasionally my limited reflection, and model as best as possible the values of humility, simplicity, compassion, trust, and zeal. At Nazareth, where the student population is an array of ethnicities and religious traditions, a Brother is now Brother Ray Hoyt, cantor par excellence! something of a curiosity! There I have been privileged to serve with Brothers We can attest that the heart and soul Leonard Wojtanowski, Tom Cully, and most of Theodore James Ryken’s vision recently Matthew and mission for the congregation is Burke, who as an early principal of alive and well in our XBSS schools. Nazareth, can wonderfully focus on the early alumni of the school and experience the gratitude they feel today for the foundevelopment arenas on each of the dation they received in their youth. boards where I have been a member. To be honest, after twenty-three years of Last November Brother Tom, as Principal of Boards of Trustee meetings—and now on Malden Catholic High School, was presented the Xavier High School board, I can Continued on page 4 3 Continued from page 1 unequivocally state that I still do not understand investment portfolios, fiveyear budget plans, or financing bonds. However I do believe that my participation on XBSS boards has reinforced my belief that the heart and soul of each school is the education and promotion of the Xaverian Brothers congregational mission, vision, and values rooted in the gospel. It’s the duty of all board members to ensure that the Xaverian charism permeates all that a school does in its educational life. All of our board work should find its roots in faithfulness to the school and the congregational mission. It is our role to listen carefully when students present to the board their experiences with Global Encounter, retreats, and other Campus Ministry programs. We must listen carefully when faculty, staff, and administration participate in professional development grounded in their spiritual journeys, and we must listen carefully when stories are told of care and support of members of the school community in times of need. As a member of the Educational Programs committee, I can attest that the heart and soul of Theodore James Ryken’s vision and mission for the congregation is alive and well in our XBSS schools and beyond. Brother Ray is Assistant Principal, Grades 9 and 10, at Xaverian Brothers High School in Westwood, Massachusetts. Brother Robert Flaherty My Board service is a way to continue the presence of the Xaverian Brothers in the schools. Currently, I am serving on the Board of St. John’s in Shrewsbury and there are no longer Brothers who are active at the school. My presence on the board is a link to the Xaverian Brothers for both faculty and students. As an example, I was at St John’s for the Founder's Day liturgy and festivities and I felt it was important to be present as they celebrated the feast of our patron Here Brother Bob Flaherty (at left) is being inducted into the Mount St. Joseph saint, Francis Athletic Hall of Fame by Jody Harris '79, a member of the hall of fame and Xavier. By visiting former student. classes and interacting with the students, I am able to dough.” It is something that is cultivated present the Brothers to the next generaand preserved from one generation to tion of students. In the meetings and the next. If we are able to model our valexchanges with the administration and ues in the present, they will “go forward” faculty as well as the board members, I into the future. can frame the discussions around our Xaverian values. Brother Bob Flaherty is currently on the faculty at St. John’s Prep in Danvers, MA . Other Brothers Who Serve on School Boards Brother Matthew Burke, St. Xavier, Nazareth/ Mother Seton Academy Brother Arthur Caliman, Xaverian High School Brother William Ciganek, Mount St. Joseph Brother Brian Davis, Xavier HS/Xaverian High Brother Edward Driscoll, Nativity Academy, Louisville Brother Lawrence Harvey, St. Bernard School/Xaverian HS Brother Cornelius Hubbuch, St. Mary's Ryken Brother Thomas Klar, Lowell Catholic Brother Richard Lunny, Malden Catholic Brother Richard Mazza, Malden Catholic Brother Paul Murray, Malden Catholic Brother Timothy Paul, Xavier High Brother Daniel Skala, Lowell Catholic/ Xaverian HS/Xaverian Brothers HS Brother Leonard Wojtanowski. Nazareth 4 As Pope Francis has recently said, we need to be “the leaven going forward.” To use a metaphor from the world of cooking, we Brothers on boards are now serving the role of the “starter to the sour- Quiet But Extraordinary Service B rother Cosmas Rubencamp is an ordinary man, no pretensions, no desire to be over others, happy to offer quiet service. He lives a totally unspectacular life. He truly epitomizes founder Theodore James Ryken’s image of a Brother who is “formed by God through the common, ordinary, flow of everyday life”. Brother Cos was recently diagnosed with metastatic bone cancer and he has accepted this with dignity and grace. He now lives at Xaverian House in Danvers, MA, where he is receiving more coordinated care. Before moving he had lived in Richmond, VA, for forty-five years and has been involved in the Richmond diocese’s Haiti outreach since 1984. In quiet but extraordinary ways he has helped the people of Haiti and in particular the 250 boys and girls at Maison Fortuné Orphanage in Hinche on Haiti’s central plateau. We recently sat down with Brother Cos to see how he’s doing and to get his impressions of the time he has spent helping the people of Haiti. Q. How many times have you been to Haiti, and what was your most memorable trip? A. My most recent trip was my seventy-first! I suppose they were all memorable for one reason or another, and I can say I enjoyed each one. The longest trip was the twelve hours we spent on a bus with one group: the bus broke down, we had to get another one, and then we were held up waiting for a swollen river to recede. We left the airport at 5:00 p.m. and arrived at the orphanage at 5:00 a.m.—and then we had the dinner they had saved for us! (Today it takes about two hours to get from the airport to Hinche.) Q. What about your ministry in Haiti has given you the greatest joy and satisfaction? A. It is a constant source of amazement to me that so much has been accomplished in only thirty years! Maison Fortuné Orphanage is just one example. Brother Cos has been “formed by God through the common, ordinary, unspectacular flow of everyday life.” about one hundred and fifty poor kids who otherwise would not have the opportunity to go to school. There are thirteen former residents now in seven different universities, studying to be agronomists, computer experts, engineers, physicians, and business people. Q. What are your hopes for the orphanage now that you’re no longer as fully involved with it? A. I hope that it will be able to continue to provide a home and an education for these children without losing the family atmosphere that characterizes it now. Q. How do you feel about “retiring” from this ministry? A. Reluctant… only because health issues make it impossible for me to continue with all the aspects of the Haiti outreach (by no means confined to the orphanage). I plan to stay electronically connected with two of the Foundation’s committees (Marketing and Development and Higher Education) but I am no longer serving as a Board member. Q. After being in Richmond so long, how do you feel about leaving there? A. Well, I am not looking forward to the long New England winters. Even though Jesus advised us to “pray that your flight be not in winter” (Mt 24:20), that prayer has not been answered for me! Virginia has wonderfully long springs and falls! I am looking forward to getting back to living in community with the Brothers at Xaverian House, though after forty-five years in Virginia, I will miss all the friends I’ll be leaving there. In addition to his work for Haiti, Brother Cos recently served as Co-Director (along with Gwen and Richard Costello) of “Thanks, the Xaverian Brothers Brother Cos; Associate program, and he is presently Regional you did Coordinator for the good!” Southern MD/VA Associates. Q. How would you briefly describe the Orphanage and the Foundation that supports it? A. The Orphanage was founded in 2001 and is home to almost 250 boys and girls. There are two campuses, a short distance apart, one for boys the other for girls. Each has its own director. The MFO Foundation is a not-for-profit organization set up to support the orphanage, financially as well as with whatever expertise we can provide. Q. What are your impressions of the orphanage and the work being done there? A. As any visitor can tell, Maison Fortuné really is more a home than an institution—a real sense of family characterizes the place. The kids genuinely love and care for each other. I have never seen a fight there! The campus elementary school is probably the best in town, and in addition to the residents it serves 5 Meet Associate Barbara Ives B arbara Ives, mother of three grown sons (all in the military) wife of Glen Ives, and a retired U.S. Navy Captain with 27 years of service, is a Xaverian Brothers Associate as well as an XBSS Collaborator. She is Dean of Academics at St. Mary's Ryken High School in Leonardtown, MD, and a member of the Southern MD/VA regional group of Associates. It’s a small group but Barbara loves the warmth and energy that comes from praying with and meeting with Brothers Dan Doherty, Cosmas Rubencamp, Gwen and Richard Costello, Barbara and Glen Ives at a recent hospital gala. and new Associate Brooke Schaab. She says, I’m very happy to brag about our wonderful group.” Barbara made her commitment as an Associate in 2010 and was thus in the first group of Xaverian “Being in communion with my beloved Xaverian Brothers is an honor. I have deep respect for their mission and charism.” Brothers Associates. She’s used to being among “firsts,” since she was in the first class of women graduates of the U.S. 6 Naval Academy! Barbara feels that her commitment to daily prayer has enriched her life in many ways. She says, “When I became a Xaverian Associate I pledged to take time each day to pray. I have taken this pledge very seriously and have learned to pray not only once a day, but many times a day, even if it is just to say, ‘thank you God’! In these past two years with my son Matthew in Afghanistan, I especially relied on prayer for comfort and support. Prayer provides me a sense of balance and helps me reflect on what is really important in my life. It is now an essential part of my every day routine.” Barbara lives out her commitment to the poor and marginalized first of all through her work at St. Mary's Ryken High School. About that she says, “Opportunities for outreach happen each day at school because I believe that dealing with young people today calls for being a role model, coach, and mentor—all with love, care, and concern. In other words, I have to walk the walk. My deeper relationship with God through prayer has given me the means to better share and communicate my Xaverian ideals with the students.” Barbara also serves in the greater community through the Rotary Club (which raises funds to eradicate global polio), the Armed Forces Communication and Electronics Association (which provides funds to needy high school seniors who want to pursue careers in math, science, technology, or engineering), and CARENET (an association that give medical care to unwed pregnant women). Barbara feels that her commitment to be in “communion” with the Brothers is an honor. She says, “I have such deep respect for the mission and charism of my beloved Xaverian Brothers. Through my work at St. Mary's Ryken and on the Xaverian High School Board, I have had the good fortune to become friends with a number of Brothers and feel a deep kinship with them. I have become particularly close to two Brothers, Cos Rubencamp and Dan Doherty, both of whom are in my Xaverian Associate group, and for them I have profound respect and admiration.” Co-Associate Gwen Costello says of Barbara: “It’s a joy to be around her. She’s a very loving and caring person. Whenever we gather in our Associate group, I get spiritual energy from Barbara and her strong commitments to prayer, service, and communion with the Brothers. It’s a two-hour-plus trip for us to get to Leonardtown and a two-hour-plus trip for Barbara to Virginia, but we love our time together, and it’s worth it.” Kudos to Barbara for all she does in living out her commitment as a Xaverian Brothers Associate. Q Q A Call Fulfilled Complete text of eulogies for some of the Brothers are accessible on our website: www.xaverianbrothers.org Brother Bernard (Sylvester) Philpott, CFX, died at the age of 81 after a long illness on October 31, 2013 at Maristhill Nursing Center in Waltham, MA. Xaverian House chaplain Father Bill Ventura served as the celebrant of the funeral Mass attended by fifty relatives, Brothers, and friends. Brother James Boyle prepared a heartfelt eulogy, but was unable to attend the Mass, so Brother John Hamilton, Vicar General, delivered the eulogy, adding some personal reflections from Brother Jean de la Croix KalumbaYena in Bungoma, Kenya. Brother Bernard was buried in the Brothers' cemetery at St. John's in Danvers with Brothers Larry Nyhan on one side and John Hickey on the other. Both had lived with him at Maristhill Nursing Center. A Mass was also celebrated for Brother Bernard at Xaverian College in Manchester, England. Born in Brighton, England, on June 26, 1932, Bernard received his education at Xaverian College, Brighton (19401948) and at Brighton Technical College (1948-1950). He entered the “Brother Bernard taught all of us what it means to live for God and God alone.” Congregation on September 11, 1950. In 1951, he received his Xaverian habit and was given the name Bernard. On March 19, 1956, he professed his perpetual vows. Brother Bernard’s teaching ministry spanned three countries: England, Leonardtown, Maryland and Likasi, Congo. He taught Latin, English, catechesis, and various spirituality courses in our formation programs. Brother Edward Driscoll said of him: “More important than the subject matter is that Bernard taught as Jesus. Humble and unassuming in his manner, he invited his students to examine their experiences, ask questions, and thus come to understand deeper realities in life. Bernard loved the Xaverian way of life and was a wonderful steward of our Founder’s charism. He taught all of us what it means to live for God and God alone. In the eulogy Brother James Boyle reflected on the variety of experiences he shared with Brother Bernard over the years, and he pointed out that Brother Bernard had to face two great difficulties in his last twenty years. He suffered from Parkinson’s disease and had to leave England for Xaverian House in the U.S., both hard to accept but he accepted them with grace. Brother Robert (Robert Jerome) Sullivan died at the age of 85 on November 9, 2013 in Melrose, MA. For his Mass of Christian Burial at St. Richard’s Church in Danvers, MA, over thirty Brothers were in attendance with about three hundred other people. Robert’s exceptional school ministry was evidenced by the presence of colleagues and alumni from Malden Catholic, Xavier in Middletown, and St. John’s Prep, and six of his Prep students were pallbearers. Burial followed in the Xaverian Brothers Cemetery in Danvers. Born in Somerville, MA, on December 14, 1927, Robert commenced 68 years as a Xaverian Brother on September 19, 1945 after graduation from Malden Catholic High School. In 1951 he started teaching at Flaget High School in Louisville, KY. From 1955 to 1958 he served as Prefect of Studies there. He moved to Sacred Heart Novitiate and Ryken High School for one year. In 1960, he served as Prefect of Studies at St. John’s Preparatory School in Danvers, MA. After three years there, he became the first Headmaster of Xavier High School in Middletown, CT. In 1967, he moved to Newton Highlands, MA, and served in the roles of Novice Master, Brother Robert challenged his students to pursue excellence and never be ‘dull, lugubrious, and crass.’ Director of the Scholasticate, and teacher. In the eulogy, delivered by Brother Timothy Hoey, Brother Edward Bozzo began by reflecting on Brother Robert’s service as a Xaverian Brother, but singled out one aspect. “What he considered his most important role was being a teacher. He was good at it, humorous, creative, and sensitive to the students. He challenged them to take a hand in their own education, to pursue excellence, and not to be ‘dull, lugubrious, and crass.’ One measure of his success was that his students remembered and valued his teaching and his influence on them.” He also pointed out that Brother Robert took an interest in students who struggled in class. “He taught those students with skill, understanding, kindness, and compassion.” Brother Edward concluded, “The call to friendship influenced Robert’s approach to everything as an educator, administrator, confrere, and family member. He attended to the other person’s interests and concerns, taking the path of friendship to awaken and encourage reciprocal reaction.” He closed by saying, “We love him, we will miss him, but we wish him Godspeed to that distant shore till we meet again.” 7 Xaverian Brothers Generalate 4409 Frederick Avenue Baltimore, MD 21229 All Are Welcome Those of you who have been faithful and generous supporters of the Xaverian Brothers over the years are invited to join the Xaverian Brothers Concordia Society. This Society and its benefits acknowledge those who have remembered the Brothers in their estate plans. When you remember the Brothers in this way, you automatically become a member of the Concordia Society. 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