June 2013 - Whitney Center
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June 2013 - Whitney Center
Observer ENLIGHTEN t ENRICH t ENGAGE Inside You & Your Health Doctors Cautious Prescribing OncePopular Hormone Therapies........... 3 Mind Readers Does Fido Know What You’re Thinking? ......... 2 Life At Whitney Center . ................ 4 Exciting Upcoming Events ..................4 Life Clicking Away Photo Buffs Go Digital ...............4 Concentrated Culture Festival Of Arts & Ideas Shakes Up Summer . .....4 June/July 2013 Architect: Home’s True Value Not Measured In Square Feet D uring the late 1990s, buyers now for less tangible but more seeking the biggest house meaningful aspects of design in they could afford fueled a feverish the home that are about beauty, housing market. Architect Sarah self-expression, and the enhanceSusanka took a contrarian view. In ment of life.” her book, The Not So Big House: A Blueprint For the Way We Really Inspiring A Movement Live (1998), she wrote, “Maybe it Sarah now finds herself one of was the 1980s that created what I the leaders of a movement that is call the ‘starter castle’ complex — redefining the American home, the notion that houses should be having written more than a dozen designed books expanding to impress on the philosorather than phy of ‘the not so nurture. big house.’ Her More approach to design rooms, big— “better, not ger spaces, bigger” — is being and vaulted embraced widely ceilings do across the country. not necesHer website (www. sarily give NotSoBigHouse. us what we com) lists a numneed in a ber of resources home.” for people eager to The know more about housing how her approach landscape is being impleSarah Susanka emphasizes qualhas changed mented. Whether ity of living, not space, in her books radically you’re moving and home designs. (Photo by Cheryl since then, from a large home Muhr.) and many to one not so big Americans are welcoming the wis- or moving to an apartment, Sarah dom of Sarah’s words. offers helpful insights on how to “People start out with big ideas, make the change a positive one. big homes, but the ‘feeling’ of a “Our homes can still express home has nothing to do with the our personalities, but also accomsize,” Sarah says today. “Home is modate our changing lifestyles,” about quality, not quantity. Square she points out. “No matter how footage in a home is being traded SEE “HOUSE” ON P. 7 Historic Legacy Resident Helps Preserve Dramatic Exhibits ............. 5 Financial Advisors Help Clients Navigate Turbulent Times W ith the economic downturn of the last couple of years, and with so much more financial complexity and turbulence today than before, the world can be a confusing place for the average retiree trying to make the best of his or her nest egg. Where’s the best place to go for help? “The number one most confusing thing I see seniors trying to deal with is knowing from whom to accept advice,” says Greg Gann, president of the investment firm Gann Partnership. Trust Is Not Enough “I’ve seen a lot of CPAs and accountants who have gotten involved in selling investments to their clients,” he continues. “They have a built-in trust and understanding of their clients’ finances, but many seniors have learned the hard way that accountants are not really investment specialists. They don’t have the systems in place or the time to make changes with their client when the market changes.” True financial advisors offer investment skills to their clients that accountants lack, Greg says. This can be particularly helpful for older people with little experience in financial matters. A wife (and occasionally a husband) may have relied entirely on a spouse to handle the couple’s money matters. They may feel adrift when that spouse passes on. “They’re overwhelmed with the situation,” Greg explains. “They want to rely on someone, but they SEE “ADVISORS” ON P. 2 Messy Is Good Crossword Puzzle .............. 6 Sudoku ............. 7 Discover Whitney Center See Retirement In A Whole New Light ................. 8 H Tradition Vies With Modernity In ‘Wine’s World’ umanity’s love affair with wine began centuries ago. Some seem to enjoy talking about it almost as much as they do drinking it. Here is a roundup of stories about the beloved beverage: In The Beginning, There Was … The Grape? Wine is older than most religions. An Associated Press story noted that the earliest known intact winery has recently been discovered in an Armenian mountain cave, and is estimated to date from 6,000 years ago. Complete with a vat, fermentation jars, drinking bowl and cup, the archeological site provides clear proof that its inhabitants were onto something with long lasting appeal. Wine Goes Hi-Tech Today, some people are so enthralled by the wine-making process that adult camps are offered. On the trendy east end of Long Island, both well-heeled aficionados and novices can enjoy local vintages with gourmet food and discuss the secrets of wine and food pairing. Participants take SEE “WINE” ON P. 2 Lenbrook Whitney Center 3747 Peachtree Road NE 200 Leeder Hill Drive Atlanta,CT. GA06517-2749 30319 Hamden, Cherishing A Mangled Lunch ............... 6 The Whitney Center Observer Page 2 The ‘Veritas’ About ‘Vino’ FROM “WINE” ON P. 1 tours of vineyards (getting their hands dirty if they want) and classes on the wine making process. There are even computer applications which use Global Positioning System technology to help plan wine touring adventures and conveniently provide pertinent information on wineries, events, local hotels, inns and restaurants. The Long Island Wine Council sponsors a free Long Island Wine Country smartphone app, which is compatible June/July 2013 The ‘Death’ Of Chardonnay Is Greatly Exaggerated with the iPhone, Blackberry and Android (www.liwines. com). No doubt these clever promotions will spread to other wine producing locals. Wine Is Hip The online newspaper Huffington Post (www.huffingtonpost.com) recently decried all the hoopla sur- rounding the annual predictions of which wines will be a hit in the upcoming year. The article postulated that many recommendations are self serving. Refuting the hypothesis that Chardonnay is dead, the column suggests that this category is merely in a state of experimentation, with many vignerons moving to the unoaked style wine. The dry white wine will still attract new fans. Although Pinot Noir’s popularity was undoubtedly boosted by the movie Sideways a few years ago, credit for its success must largely go to the triumph of relatively young U.S. vintners finally scaling a steep learning curve and producing fine wine from this capricious grape. The Huffington Post article does allow that the movie encouraged more plantings of the grape, which will lower prices, and in turn, increase its popularity. In spite of what naysayers predict, the Huffington Post piece expresses confidence that French and Italian wines’ popularity is secure in the American con- year. “Life’s too short to drink wine you don’t like because someone says that’s the type of wine you should be drinking.” Purity Popular (But sumer’s favor, pointing out that these vintages comprise Potentially Pricey) fully half of the U.S. wine Another trend to watch market. for is the rise of organic Competitive regions have wines. Europe already has emerged. Because of the an Agriculture Biologique economical costs of land logo, indicating that a wine and labor in South America, was made from organic Australia and Portugal, grapes which were grown these regions are able to without chemical fertilizers, offer good wines at excepgenetically modified organtionally low prices. At under isms or synthetic pesticides. $15 a bottle they presSeveral very prestigious ent real European value. At vineyards $25, they French and Italian have sucare comcessfully wines’ popularity peting made the against switch to is secure, though a league competitive regions organic of disgrowing, counted returning have emerged. wine from to the old around practices, the world. such as using compost. Joanne Levengood of Domaine de la RomanéeManatawny Creek Winery Conti (DRC), which sells its in Pennsylvania is skepti2005 vintage for $16,000 a cal of the idea that wine bottle, and has been organic consumers are motivated by since 1985, has even trendiness. reverted to horses instead of “People buy and drink tractors (to keep the ground what wines they like no loose) and applying natural matter what anyone tells products on its crop based them and I think that’s fanon a lunar calendar. Organic tastic,” she says, noting that proponents argue that chemshe doesn’t anticipate any icals have weakened the soil big changes in the coming SEE “CONNOISSEURS” ON P. 7 Financial Advisors Offer Guidance On Prudent Investing FROM “ADVISORS” ON P. 1 don’t know who to rely on. “Many turn to their children, but many of those have been spendthrifts themselves. The widow doesn’t know who to get advice from because someone else has been taking care of things,” he continues. “The husband may have been confused, but now that he’s out of the picture, she feels completely clueless. “I can’t tell you how many people have told me, ‘My spouse has no interest, he or she relies on me. They gloss over it, it bores them.’ “ ‘This is out of my domain,’ they think.” risk of having concentrated assets in a few companies. We put a ‘stop’ in place so if the stock goes down a certain percentage, we sell it off.” Taxes ‘Wagging The Dog’ Clients also have tax-free IRAs that they haven’t Plagued By Lack Of Interest adjusted for fear Today’s markets pose considerable challenges of the tax implicafor seniors who have limited or non-existent tions of doing so. opportunities to increase their income outside of “They’re so their investments. afraid to create a “Seniors today need income, but interest rates protective stratare so low,” says Gann. “The question is, where egy because of taxes, they let the tax tail wag do they get this income, while still having secu- the dog,” he explains. “They don’t make good rity of principal? investment decisions. They should look at the “We seek to mitigate loss by using a variety investment first, then the tax side. If 90 percent of different strategies that create income and of your account goes out the window [due to a also preserve principal, regardless of whether bad investment], the taxes are a very small porthe market trend is up or down,” Gann explains. tion of the game. “We do a lot of individual issues that provide “We are today at very low tax rates, relative fixed interest rates, but to historical rates,” with short term matuGreg reminds us. “They should look at the rity, so that if interest “That’s a good thing. rates do go up, you can investment first, then the tax Tax rates on dividends capture that new rate and capital gains are side. If 90 percent of your and not have a major at historically low negative impact on account goes out the window, levels.” what you own.” Accountants acting the taxes are a very small One situation Greg as financial advisers sees fairly often is a climay overemphasize portion of the game.” ent with a large concenthe focus on taxes, tration of stock in one Greg suspects. company, often a legacy of holdings from where “An accountant is really a historian looking at the client used to work. what happened in the past, and at how to arrange “I had a client who had worked for a comeverything to maximize an account’s return pany and had a large position of company given those taxes. They look very closely at stock,” Greg says. “So we created a strategy to what can be written off,” he points out. “That’s protect that value and minimize the downside very different than looking to invest in pharma- ceuticals, silver, or commodities! They typically just use a static asset allocation model, generally with mutual funds, that over an 80-100 year span may produce wealth. They’re not set up to move clients nimbly in real time.” Tackling Problems Face To Face Finding a financial advisor you can trust can be a challenge. The Internet does offer clients a relatively easy way to check to see if a particular advisor has had complaints, Greg points out, adding that the FINRA website (www.finra.org) is a particularly good resource for individual investors. “Trust is different than just knowing what kind of results someone’s had,” Greg explains. “So many businesses have moved to the web and have no personal contact. When it comes to your finances, it’s good to have a deep personal connection with the person and sit eyeball to eyeball with them to discuss your account, and determine if your values are in line with the other person’s values. “It’s tough to get trust if you haven’t met the person,” he concludes. June/July 2013 The Whitney Center Observer W idely embraced by doctors HRT regimen was found to increase and their patients in the latter risk of heart attack and breast part of the 20th century, hormone cancer while reducing the risk of replacement therapy (HRT) and colorectal cancer. Studies continue estrogen replacement therapy (ERT) to evaluate the hormones’ other are far more controversial today. potential risks and benefits. Though still considered valuable by The findings complicate the conventional doctors, enthusiasm medical approach to older women for the treatments dimmed consider- facing the risk or reality of osteoably when the National Institutes porosis, a reduction in bone density of Health released the initial results that can lead to increased risk of from its Women’s Health Initiafractures. tive (WHI) studies a few years ago. The onset of osteoporosis is Both therapies were found to pose symptomless to the patient, but can significant risks for patients. be detected with a DEXA scan, a “Forty years ago, the Western dual energy X-ray that measures world thought that medicine had hip and spine bone density (BMD). discovered the Holy Grail in the Any score lower than -2.5 indiform of supplemental estrogen …. cates osteoporosis. This condition By 2001, HRT was the number one can increase the risk of bone fracprescription drug in the world,” tures and breaks, back pain, spine notes Gillian Sanson, a staunch curvature (with resulting protrudcritic of these therapies and author ing abdomen), loss of height, and of The Myth of Osteoporosis: What decreased mobility. Every Woman Should Know About Creating Bone Health. “The prom- Too Good To Be True? ise that a single pill could prevent Many women choose to use age-related chronic diseases had HRT or ERT because of symptoms led vast that may numaccompany Doctors now advocate using bers of perimenohealthy the lowest effective dose for the pause and women menominimum time period. to take pause, such medicaas night tion for diseases they didn’t have, sweats, vaginal dryness, itching, and may never have developed. We burning, discomfort during internow know they also were exposing course, and hot flashes. Since the themselves to serious harm.” hormone therapies were known to have the side benefit of helping Fewer Fractures … But More prevent bone loss, HRT and ERT Strokes were seen as multi-faceted remedies According to the Ohio State Uni- in the past. Doctors and their clients versity Medical Center, the WHI must now wrestle with the quesstudies found that both long term tion of whether their negative side HRT and ERT regimens increased effects outweigh their benefits. participants’ risk of stroke and In response to the WHI findblood clots, while reducing risk of ings, doctors now prescribe reduced fractures. In addition, a long term doses of hormones that still appear Page 3 to be effective, yet lower the risk of therapies may outweigh the risks unwanted side effects. for women who reach menopause ERT is used for women who prematurely. have had a complete hysterectomy The U.S. Food and Drug Admin(removal of the uterus and ovaries) istration recommends that postor an oophorectomy (removal of the menopausal women discuss other ovaries). Because ERT can increase osteoporosis medicines with their a woman’s risk of developing canphysician before taking ERT or cer in the uterus, it is not given to HRT to prevent bone loss. In cases patients who have not had a hysof severe osteoporosis in postmenoterectomy. A doctor may prescribe pausal women when other treatERT for those who have had a hys- ments are unsuccessful, they may terectomy, or for those who will be be the best solution. In other cases, taking estrogen for less than a year. alternative medications may be ERT only replaces estrogen, more appropriate. while HRT Dr. Felicia replaces both Cosman, mediEarly detection can often keep a estrogen and cal director minor physical problem from turnprogesterone. of the clinical ing into a serious medical issue Progesterone research cen… which is why the residents of is added to ter at Helen Whitney Center appreciate the HRT to stem Hayes Hospital many on-site health care programs the rapid and profesgrowth and sor of clinical and resources helping them stay thickening medicine at active and informed. of the uterColumbia Hosine lining pital in New and help reduce the risk of uterine York, notes that “We’re not using cancer. hormone therapy for women in HRT has side effects that should their 60s. That’s where you see be taken under consideration before the increased risk of heart disease, initiating use. Some medical profes- blood clots, and strokes, enough sionals prescribe the estrogen and negative side effects that you don’t progesterone separately or in variwant to start women in their 60s ous forms (such as cream, patch or and 70s on hormones anymore.” pill) in order to allow for fine tuning It is recommended that only dosages depending on effectiveness women who need relief from menoand side effects. pausal symptoms take HRT or ERT, in the smallest dose possible and for Looking For Alternatives the shortest time necessary. To reduce added risks, doctors There are alternatives to combat advocate using the lowest effecosteoporosis: Eat a healthy diet, do tive dose for the the minimum time regular weight bearing exercises, period. Dosage can be kept lower and take calcium and vitamin D by choosing the most direct delivsupplements. Refrain from smokery method. For example, estrogen ing and excessive drinking. If you applied directly to the vagina is do have osteoporosis, be sure to more effective for vaginal-only get your doctor’s recommendations symptoms than a lower dose of for the most effective medical and estrogen in pill or skin patch form. lifestyle approach. The protective benefits of these Dogs ‘Talk’ To Their Owners Without Barking, Survey Says (ARA) – Ever get the feeling that your dog knows what you’re thinking? According to a new survey, it’s the wags, not the words that tell the story when it comes to canine communication. The survey, conducted by Kelton Research for Pup-Peroni dog snacks, revealed that most canine source of comfort and companionto ‘read’ humans like few other ship as their human friends — or animals can,” said body language maybe even more so. With a smile expert Patti Wood. “Even someand a wag, dogs just know. How thing as minute as a glance from their owner has meaning for a dog.” many people can say that about Wood also points out that our their best friend or significant Canine Body Language modern dogs’ ability to communiother? cate with us seems to be a product Courtesy of ARAcontent Pet owners feel confident that of millennia of interacthey know what’s on their pups’ Answer to Sudoku tion. “Research shows minds, even without the benefit that, over time, there of words. Almost three in four has been a deliberate (74 percent) respondents believe selection of dogs with their dog’s body language or facial the ability to pick up on expressions better indicate how cues from humans,” she their pet is truly feeling than barks or other sounds. They also estimate said. “It shows just how important nonverbal that they know what their dog is thinking nearly half (49 percent) of communication between dogs and people has the time. Seven in 10 (70 percent) respon- always been.” Maybe it’s because dents say there have been times when they shared a meaningful look of that unspoken connection between with their canine companions. canines and humans “Dogs have an uncanny ability to pick up on even the subtlest cues that people feel their dogs are just as good a from their owners, enabling them pet parents believe that they can communicate with their dogs even though they don’t speak the same language — giving a new twist to the old adage, “silence is golden.” The Whitney Center Observer Page 4 June/July 2013 The Whitney Center Observer June/July 2013 Page 5 T he International Festival of Arts and Ideas is a small explosion of concentrated culture in Whitney Center’s backyard. For two weeks in June, the festival showcases enough thrilling theater, daring dancers, masterful musicians, and the intriguing insights of a full slate of scholarly speakers to make New York jealous. “We’re really excited that Whitney Center finds us a valued cultural partner for their residents,” says Art Priromprintr, director of marketing and communications for the Festival. “We’re grateful that Whitney Center is interested in partnering with us to bring residents here and to support the Festival.” explains. “More than 80,000 people attend these concerts More than 140,000 people attended last year’s events. over the five nights of the series.” “Our most popular events are our free headline conAmong this year’s headliners are the Grammy-winning certs on the New Haven Green, which take place on Aaron Neville and the innovative Kronos Quartet. In Saturday and Sunday evenings during the Festival,” Art addition, the popular country musician Roseanne Cash returns this year as a speaker to close out the Ideas programming. Whitney Center “One of the biggest events we’re really excited about is Midsummer Night’s Dream, which premiered in the Christian McBride UK in March,” Art adds. Roseanne Cash Returns The unusual puppet “We just find Rosanne to be an incredibly engaging production is an international collaboration between a and inspiring performer,” says Art. “We had an opportuBritish and a South African theater company. nity to presThe performances at the Festival are the proent her as our duction’s only appearance in the Northeast. “We’re grateful that Whitney closing night “The puppets and people interact with each headliner last Center is interested in other in really interesting ways,” Art explains. year, and we “It’s an intriguing process to see partnering with us to bring thought at brought to life in a spectacular way the time that residents here and to support … their imagination really brings the that would life out of these things.” the Festival.” be that. But we ran into Thrilling Athletic Performances her again at the annual conference for performing arts The Festival brings a number of superb presenters in New York City and were inspired by a physical performers to New Haven, including powerful keynote speech that she gave, based on her two ‘circus’ acts, one by the Montreal-based life experiences and making music. circus company Les 7 doigts de la main (7 “Many of us in the room didn’t realize she was an Fingers), and another by the one-man circus engaging speaker as well as a fantastic performer, so artist, David Dimitri. we asked her to come back to the Festival as part of “We also have a marvelous classical Indian our Ideas program of lectures and conversations,” dancer appearing, Shantala Shivalingappa,” he adds. “We think she has great things to say and to Art adds. “She actually lives and works in share with our audience, and it’s a nice bridge between Paris, but she’s trained in the classical Indian our Arts programming and our Ideas programming.” style. She’s beautiful and such a master with Other speakers are discussing such topics as what her form.” traditional hunter-gatherer societies have to tell us The Festival began on June 15 and runs about the way we live now, the politics of food, and through June 29. For a complete schedule of how global innovation in business is sparked right events and locations, visit ArtIdea.org. here at home. 7 Fingers performs Sequence 8. Artist Aspasia Patti Anos stands by two of her pieces exhibited in the “On Nature” show which runs through June 30 at Whitney Center’s Perspectives Gallery. Babe Ruth’s granddaughters Linda Ruth Tosetti and Ellen Ruth Hourigan — seen here with Whitney Center staff member Sam Roman — recently gave a talk at the community. Upcoming Events At Whitney Center Resident Barbara Stanley talks with a vendor at the recent Wellness Health Fair. Here are a few upcom- Whitney Brewers Club: Tuesday, ing events scheduled at August 6 the area’s best retirement community! Company: Specticast of Stephen Sondheim’s Whitney Brewers Club: comedic musical Tuesday, July 2 about modern relaManon Lescaut: Spectitionships features cast of Puccini’s popua star-studded cast lar opera masterpiece. which includes Neil Friday, July 26 Patrick Harris and Storytelling Slam: Christina Hendricks. Thursday, August 1 Friday, August 23. Above, Shantala Shivalingappa is giving three performances of classical Indian dance at this year’s Festival. Left, the unusual human/puppet production of A MIDSUMMER NIGHT’S DREAM produces some haunting images. Preservation Of The Past Is Resident’s Gift To The Future by Mary Beth Congdon Deputy Director, Yale’s Office of Planned Giving actually moved. Rudolph Zallinger’s famous mural, The chamber music concerts at Sprague Hall, and from the Age of Reptiles, will also be more dramatic. Thanks to a concert series at the Collection of Musical Instruments. ramp repositioning, visitors will be able to look directly Yale plays a significant role in Victoria DePalma’s hat would you do if the director of the Peabody into the eyes of the dinosaurs. It is an ambitious project life today, just as it did in her past. She is excited to Museum and Victoria is delighted to be a part of it ensure that it becomes a part of her future, as well. Her of Natural and to support an institution she loves. charitable gift annuity allows Victoria to contribute to History asked Victoria has deep connections to Yale. the Peabody Great Hall renovation — a decision she When Victoria learned of plans you to build a Her grandfather, Frederic William Keator, feels her father would applaud. to renovate the Great Hall where steel structure earned his bachelor’s degree in 1880 and his For more information about the museum, go to http:// strong enough Yale Law degree in 1882. After her father Peabody.Yale.edu/. her father’s construction still to support six came to New Haven for his graduate work, A version of this article first appeared in the pubstands, she jumped at the chance tons of dinohe subsequently taught at the University for lication for Yale’s Office of Planned Giving, PARTNERS to participate. THROUGH GIVING, Spring 2013 edition. saur fossils in almost 40 years. The Office of Planned Giving welcomes any quesa realistic forA self described “life-long learner,” Victions you may have about their programs. Contact them mation? What toria took summer courses at Yale in addiif you were asked in 1928, when something like it had tion to her fine arts courses at Albertus Magnus College. at [email protected] or (800) 445-6086. never been done before? Later, at Wesleyan University, she earned a master’s That was exactly the proposition made to Yale’s degree in Art and Art History. mechanical engineering department. Frederic William Keator, Jr., then a graduate student in his early twenties, Enjoying University Life volunteered. “I’ll try it,” he quickly replied. The result was the Peabody’s largest mounted skeleton, the ApatoToday, Vicsaurus. The steel structure and the dinosaur fossils exca- toria is a volunvated by archeologist O.C. Marsh remain on display in teer and docent the Great Hall of Dinosaurs today, as they did in 1928, a at the Peabody. testimony to Keator’s engineering skill and talent. She also participates in many Helping Preserve The Past of the cultural When Keator’s daughter (and current Whitney Center and educational resident) Victoria DePalma learned of plans to renoopportunities vate the Great Hall where her father’s construction still that Yale has to stands, she jumped at the chance to participate — just as offer. In addition her father did so many years earlier — and established to the Peabody, a charitable gift annuity to help fund the project. Vicshe has included toria’s generosity not only benefits Yale, but also gives a bequest for her the financial security that comes with fixed quarterly Yale music in payments for her lifetime, backed by all of the Univerher estate plans, Resident Victoria DePalma stands amidst the worldsity’s assets. thanks, in part, famous dinosaur skeleton displays that her father, The renovation will restore the dinosaur fossils, the for the enjoyment Frederic Keator Jr., helped build nearly a century ago. museum’s centerpiece, and align them more accurately she obtains from — employing new knowledge about how the dinosaur the piano and W For a full calendar of events please contact the Marketing Office at 203-848-2641. Photography Classes Help Residents See The World With Fresh Eyes he advent of the computer age over the past two decades has “I focus on letting them know that the camera is very smart, it radically changed photography. will give you good results,” he explained. “You don’t have to worry To help residents learn more about digital photography, Whitney about anything, just trust the camera and you’ll probably get a Center brought in instructor Craig Norton, who works with the non- pretty good shot.” profit Arts for Learning Connecticut. He Gerald Anderson enjoyed the class. taught two courses, one for beginners and “It was time well spent,” he com“You don’t have to worry about mented. “It caused me to get better one for more advanced residents. “About three fourths of my work is about my camera. I wish we anything, just trust the camera informed teaching the arts with Arts for Learning,” had more sessions. Maybe they’ll have and you’ll probably get a pretty Part II for Beginners in the future.” Craig says. “That work puts me everywhere from schools to museums, comHarry Wexler also got a great deal out good shot. ” munity centers” and elsewhere. of the beginners course. The organization has been focusing “I enjoyed it very much,” he says. “It more on reaching out to seniors. Working with residents was a natu- began with people who were novices bringing their cameras into ral fit. class.” There were a few sessions which dealt with students familiarizThe Art Of Technology ing themselves with their cameras. Craig explained that seniors often find the latest computer gad“It then switched from the mechanics of taking pictures to the getry confusing to work with, having not had the experience of artistry of framing and choosing your subjects,” Harry added. “That growing up with constantly changing electronic technology. The was quite rewarding.” first challenge is getting someone comfortable with the camera, and then focusing on the device’s many features. Photo by Robert DeSanto, Yale University T Not Your Childhood Puppets The Whitney Center Observer Page 6 June/July 2013 GRANDparents Corner O ne rainy day my three young granddaughters, Bailey, 5; Kaylee, 4; and Eloise, 2, were dropped off for an impromptu visit. Before I was free to spend time with them, however, I had office work to do. “You’ll need to entertain yourselves for a bit,” I told them. Within a few minutes the girls popped into my office. “Are you done yet?” “No, not yet.” This scene repeated itself several more times until, just before noon, Bailey and Kaylee came in with an offer: “We’re going to make lunch so you can work!” announced in the high pitch that only excited little girls can reach. Love Is Messy Hold The Mustard by Judyann Ackerman Grant More Than A Meal While I cleaned up the kitchen, the girls lingered over their lunches, their voices filling the living room with happy chatter. Back in the living room, I picked up the pretzel sticks that Eloise hadn’t yet ground into oblivion. Twenty years earlier, when I was the mother of two girls, the floor picnic—and its king-sized mess from pint-sized princesses—would have sent me into a tizzy. No longer. “Nice lunch,” I told my granddaughters, as I hauled out the vacuum. “Thank you,” they chorused. “Thank you for making it,” I said, without the least hint of sarcasm, overwhelmed with the feeling of being loved. Taking The Order I agreed, thinking it would buy me a few uninterrupted minutes. “What can we make?” “How about sandwiches?” I suggested, thinking that would be simple enough for their 4rattling and the refrigerator door and 5-year-old hands to handle. open and close. And open and close. “There’s salami, bologna, cheese And open and close. and jelly in the fridge and peanut Not wanting to spoil the surprise, butter in the cupboard.” I stayed in the office. Their eyes lit up. They looked at About 20 minutes later the girls each other. They squealed. charged in. “Lunch!” I panicked. Lunch Is Served Maybe I should have just suggested My prized Heavy dinner cheese. Or bologna. hand-knit afghan, plates, adorned Bailey grabbed stitches stretched the notepad I keep to the breaking with an array next to the compoint, lay across of misshapen puter. In true waitone end of the ress fashion, she living room floor. sandwiches, scribbled down the Heavy dinner anchored each lunch orders. Mine plates, adorned corner. was: with an array of “Do you want misshapen sandyour sandwich whole or cut in wiches, anchored each corner. half?” Bailey asked, pencil poised Forks, spoons, napkins and opened above the notepad. bags of pretzels and party mix were “Half,” I mumbled piled in the middle. absent-mindedly. I spied what must have been my They disappeared down the hall. sandwich. “I’ll make the salami and bolo“It’s hard to rip salami,” Bailey gna,” Bailey decided. said. “I’ll make Eloise a peanut butter Without the benefit of a sharp and jelly,” Kaylee said. knife, she had torn the salami in I tried to concentrate as I heard half. Thick mustard oozed out every chairs scrape across the kitchen side of the tattered bread. When I floor, drawers pulled open, utensils saw the mangled mess, complete CROSSWORD PUZZLE ACROSS 1 Bath (Fr.) 5 Explode 8 Of the kind of (suf.) 12 She (Fr.) 13 Jap. apricot 14 Para-aminobenzoic acid 15 Differ 17 Arabian chieftain 18 Greek letter 19 Tree 21 Asbestos (abbr.) 22 Burmese knife 23 Incessantly 25 It. marble 29 Tilled land 32 Common man 33 Siesta 35 Adjective-forming (suf.) 36 Agave fiber 38 Daw 40 Soft mineral 42 Guido’s note (2 words) 43 Noun-forming (suf.) 45 Yarn 47 Hawaiian frigate bird 50 House (Sp.) 52 Ern (2 words) 54 Monad 55 Feline 56 South African 57 Senior (Fr.) 58 Donkey (Fr.) 59 Salver DOWN 1 “Venerable” monk 2 Settled 3 “Casablanca” characters 4 Nat’l Endowment for the Arts (abbr.) 5 Steal across the room. She sauntered to the television and pressed jelly-covered fingers against the screen. After lunch I ventured into the kitchen with my plate—and saw the real mess. The girls had pawed through the bread bag looking for perfect slices. Hunks of bread, cheese wrappers, butter smears, jelly globs and pieces of bologna— riddled with bite marks—littered the table. On the floor, smashed party mix mingled with chunks of cheese. with embedded fingerprints, I prayed that she had remembered to wash her hands first. After I settled on my corner of the afghan, the girls bounded into their respective places. They watched in rapt attention as I picked up half of the smashed salami and, with a weak smile, began eating. Thoughts raced through my mind…. Judyann Ackerman Grant is the Had any part of my sandwich author of CHICKEN SAID, “CLUCK,” a been on the floor? Had the girls coughed or sneezed Dr. Seuss Honor Book. This article originally appeared in the August on it? 2009 issue of GRAND Magazine. What was that lump I just Reprinted with permission of chewed? GRAND Media, LLC, copyright © Two-year-old Eloise, normally 2010. All rights reserved. confined to a high chair at mealtime, loved the freedom to forage. She held the pretzel bag upside down, dumping sticks and salt all over the afghan To receive a complimentary that I had never subscription to GRAND used on (a $19.95 value for 12 issues), visit the floor. http://TinyURL.com/FreeGrandSub. Her trail of sticky breadcrumbs stretched 6 Buddhist sacred mountain 7 Picque 8 Amazon tributary 9 N.A. tree 10 Wading bird 11 Carbon (pref.) 16 Objective 20 Stowe character 22 Old Sp. gold coin 24 Heath evergreen 25 Consumer price index (abbr.) 26 They (Fr.) 27 Peccadillo (2 words) 28 Horse 30 Arabic letter 31 Cheer 34 Bishop 37 Sprite 39 Away from the wind 41 Slayer of Caesar 43 Ecuador (abbr.) 44 Hindu queen 46 Hit on the head 47 Frankenstein’s assistant 48 Olive genus 49 Eagle’s nest 51 Daughter of Zeus 53 Amer. Ballet Theatre (abbr.) Answers on page 7 The Whitney Center Observer June/July 2013 Page 7 Scientists Join Wine Connoisseurs In Search For The Perfect Grape vineyard like Domaine de la Romanée Conti is not proand depleted it of natural ducing world-class wines minerals — elements that are critical to a grape’s taste. and it has been organic for decades.” In Connexion, a French Some areas in the U.S., news journal in English, while not required to be Gault Millau director organic, have local restricBertrand Clavières says, tions on pesticides. Charles “Organic wine had a bad Moussand, who owns and reputation in the early days — it was unstable and manages the award winning Paumanok Vineyards did not keep well — but on Long Island, asserts that as vignerons have learned more about what is needed, “Long Island is already perhaps the most restricted the wine has become much place on earth for pesticide better. You cannot say a FROM “CONNOISSEURS” ON P. 2 A N S W E R S has also created genomic maps of over 1,000 samples, indicating which genetic markers link to a trait (such as disease resistance, acidity, etc.), according to the National Academy of Sciences. Instead of waiting three to four years for hybrids to mature, harvest the grapes, make wine, and then sample and analyze the results, scientists can now test the first sprouting leaf and determine if it has the qualities they are looking for by studying its DNA. use. “Today we have new classes of pesticides ... known as ‘low risk, fast track pesticides’ that are far more environmentally friendly than even some organic treatments,” he adds. “We like to use these in preference to any others.” Another manifestation of this trend is the sustainable farming practices utilized at Manatawny Creek Winery. The winery uses composting, improved canopy management, a solar energy system, postemergent herbicides, and natural phosphorous acid products in an attempt to reduce its environmental impact. Science To The Rescue? There is also ongoing scientific research into the possibility of developing a naturally disease resistant grape, one that would be pleasing to the wine drinker’s palette. A Toast The Economist noted that Riccardo Velasco and his team at the Agricultural Institute of San Michele all’Adige, in Italy, recently published the first full genetic sequence of a grape variety (Pinot Noir) in the Public Library of Science. A Cornell/Stanford team Italian artist and genius, Leonardo da Vinci, (14521519) presciently noted, “The discovery of a good wine is increasingly better for mankind than the discovery of a new star.” While wineries innovate, connoisseurs will no doubt continue to expound the virtues and pitfalls of certain vintages, and wine lovers will continue imbibing. Cheers! Forward-Thinking Author Vindicated By Recent Housing Trends allows you not to worry about the large or small you make your home, home, giving you the freedom to it will not truly be a ‘home’ unless carry on with the rest of your life. you tailor it to the way you live, That’s what really matters — the filled with upsizing of your the things life, not the downthat have “Just be sure that what sizing of your meaning to belongings.” you keep is meaningful you.” Sarah encourages The goal people to look at to you.” is to just the useful beauty of keep the their belongings. things that really give your life meaning — the items that bring you Making Comfort A Priority the most joy, which you have the “What do you love, what things best associations with. The objects bring you pleasure, and is it useful you hang on to should be a reflecto you?” she says. “Keep in mind tion of you, rather than things you it’s your home — don’t worry about feel obligated to keep. offending people when you need to “It’s better to spend money on downsize or get rid of things. Just tailoring your home like you would be sure that what you keep is meana ‘well-tailored suit,’ ” she explains. ingful to you. “We sometimes make a mistake “Just as a well tailored suit allows you not to fuss with the way it feels when we think that we’re movon your body, a well-tailored home ing and buying the last place we’re FROM “HOUSE” ON P. 1 going to live, and we don’t invest in it properly — meaning even if you live there for a year, or two or 15, make it the best place you can. It’s your home, make it comfortable. If you have the option to paint, upgrade the trim, or add build-ins and you have the resources to do so, then do it. You’ll be happier and have more time to focus on other things and people who really matter.” When Sarah talks with seniors who are planning moves, she explains that sometimes they want to get rid of nothing when they plan a move to a smaller space; other times they want to get rid of everything and purchase all new things. Your Home, Your Identity Answers on page 3 “My advice is not to get rid of all the things you love,” she says. “Rather, keep a favorite connection to the past, so you still ‘see yourself’ in your new space. For example, you may keep the roll top desk you’ve used everyday for the past 30 years. It’s a part of who you are. You’d feel at home seeing it everyday, and it would be important to keep a piece like that. “Your home should appeal to you. Comfort is a quality that doesn’t just come from the furniture you’re using,” she continues. “It’s about expressing yourself in a way that makes a house a home. We have a greater sense of well-being when we have a sense of ourselves in our home.” Sarah notes that this new approach seems to resonate with many retirees. “Seniors want to find a ‘connection’ to their homes,” she says. “Quality of life is so important, which is why I like designing a home for an increase in life — one that allows comfort and freedom and time to do the things in life that really matter, instead of caring for a large space.” Your new home can help you live a richer, less complicated life, have more time to enjoy with others making intangible memories, and upsizing your life. The Whitney Center Observer Page 8 W June/July 2013 Expert Chef Embraces Challenge Of Pleasing A Panoply Of Palettes hitney Center’s new chef, Alastair Revell, moved from San Diego to Connecticut a little over a year ago. Though Alastair is originally from London, the move represents a homecoming of sorts for the Revell household. “I love California. It was beautiful in San Diego, living on the beach,” he says. “But my wife’s from Milford, and moving back to the East Coast is a natural change for us. It puts us closer to England and my parents.” Alastair met his wife in San Diego, where he spent more Whitney Center Chef than two Alastair Revell decades tantalizing the taste buds of tourists at a small group of exquisite resort hotels. 5 Star French Cuisine He began his career in London. Britain isn’t known for its cuisine. “We’re famous for boiling things and boiling them well,” Alastair chuckles, “but I actually worked in French kitchens in London, getting a training in classic French cuisine in London’s 5 star resorts. “When I moved to Texas in 1980, we brought cuisine nouvelle to Dallas,” he says. “I loved Dallas, and learned a lot about American culture there.” cheese steak; and other dishes such as a warm Alastair was later recruited by Wolfgang quinoa pilaf or roasted mushroom and root Puck to be a chef in one of his Colorado restau- vegetable with white beans served over puff rants. Eventually his career brought him to San pastry. Diego, where he oversaw kitchens serving both Alastair loves getting feedback from the Asian fusion and American cuisine. community about how well his kitchen is “Since I’ve been living in America, I’ve diver- doing. sified my cooking style quite a lot, and focus on Meeting ‘The Family’ incorporating fresh regional ingredients,” “I certainly enjoy getting out and meeting he says. with the guests,” he says. “I spend time talking Alastair is looking forward to spicwith them and learning about what they like ing up the selections served at Whitney and what they don’t like. Center. “We have a “I enjoy getting to very diverse group know the residents. They’re of people here,” he Alastair was later family,” he continues. explains. “Plus, there’s recruited by Wolfgang like “There’s actually a lady a younger generation Puck to be a chef in from Wales here; it’s nice to coming in, the leadconverse with her. Another one of his Colorado ing edge of the baby resident’s mother was boomers. They want a restaurants. English, so we always chat different style of food.” a little bit.” Philly Cheese The lifestyle enjoyed by those at Whitney Steak Or Warm Quinoa Pilaf? Center continues to impress its new chef. “There’s so much to do here,” he says. “It’s an The menus Alastair has put together amazing place that offers so much on a weekly reflect that desire to appeal to a wide basis. It’s phenomenal.” variety of tastes. Residents can choose from such tempting fare as a salad of beets, Whether you’re enjoying delicious dining in goat cheese, and the Center Stage Restaurant, casual fare in toasted walnuts The Bistro or joining your friends in The Pub, over a bed of you’ll appreciate Whitney Center’s convivial arugula; entrees atmosphere and gracious staff. such as apricot ginger chutney, herb-crusted see bass with lemon caper burre blanc, or a delicious oldfashioned Philly Call Today To Receive Your Free Information Kit! Indulge Yourself! 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