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Volume 3, Issue 12 Serving over 900,000 Catholics In The Diocese of Brownsville Corpus Christi The Holy Eucharist at the center of feast day 3 Raising a family alone A Farewell Oblates of Mary Immaculate to leave Port Isabel Mobile Journalists 6 Single father only dad at Muffins with Mom By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic Those Who Serve Father Gregory T. Labus named pastor of home parish 9 En Español Artículos sobre El Programa de Protección para los Niños de Dios, y de un padre soltero de Weslaco 11-13 “VERBUM MITTITUR SPIRANS AMOREM” (“The WORD is sent breathing love.”) Bishops call for a special period of prayer U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops 4 Diocese spearheads new initiative JUNE 2012 W ESLACO — Francisco Diaz recently attended a Muffins with Mom event at his daugh- ter’s elementary school in honor of Mother’s Day. As usual, he was the only dad present among the sea of moms. For the last four years, Diaz has played the role of mother and father since his wife, Margarita, died from an intracerebral hemorrhage at the age of 37. “My heart sinks every year when the school sends that letter home about Muffins with Mom,” said Diaz, a father of five. “It hurts, but I have to keep my chin up for my kids. So I show up every year, eat my little cake and drink my little cup of juice.” Diaz, 43, is one of an estimated 2.3 million men leading a single parent household in the United States, according to statistics from the U.S. Census Bureau. While women account for the majority of single parent households (82.6 percent), » Please see Single father, p.16 Protecting God’s Children Program marks 10 years of keeping children safe By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic The Protecting God’s Children program in the Diocese of Brownsville is marking its 10th anniversary in June 2012. Since its inception, Protecting God’s Children, which was started in 2002 in response to the national abuse scandal, has evolved into a program where protocols are in place to protect children from all sexual predators given that the evils of sexual abuse are not confined to the Church. “The program has created awareness on the part of the religious education teachers, more awareness on the part of the children and on the part of the parents,” said Walter Lukaszek, coordinator of Protecting God’s Children for the diocese. “It is very clear that if anybody is touched in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable, they should come forward.” Bishop Raymundo J. Peña appointed Lukaszek, a licensed social worker with 27 years of experience with Child Protective Services, as the victim assistance coordinator. Lukaszek serves as a liaison to victims of sexual abuse by clergy or other diocesan employees. “The role of the victim assistance coordinator is to listen to the victims, to let them know that it is not their fault and that the Church is there to help them heal,” Lukaszek said. Lukaszek said there were a number of individuals that came forward to report sexual abuse in 2002, 2003 and 2004, reports that were all 20 years or older. “There have not been any individuals with credible cases of clergy sexual abuse since then, which is a blessing,” Lukaszek said. A safety environment program was established in the Diocese of Brownsville in 2003 for both adults and children to prevent and stop child sex abuse. Anyone 18 or older in the diocese who works with children, such as religious education » Please see Protecting, p.13 The Ad Hoc Committee on Religious Liberty of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) issued a document, “Our First, Most Cherished Liberty,” on April 12, outlining the bishops’ concerns over threats to religious freedom, both at home and abroad. The bishops called for a “Fortnight for Freedom,” a 14day period of prayer, education and action in support of religious freedom, from June 21-July 4. Bishops in their own dioceses are encouraged to arrange special events to highlight the importance of defending religious freedom. Catholic institutions are encouraged to do the same, especially in cooperation with other Christians, Jews, people of other faiths and all who wish to defend our most cherished freedom. The fourteen days from June 21—the vigil of the Feasts of St. John Fisher and St. Thomas More— to July 4, Independence Day, are dedicated to this “fortnight for freedom”—a great hymn of prayer for our country. Our liturgical calendar celebrates a series of great martyrs who remained faithful in the face of persecution by political power—St. John Fisher and St. Thomas More, St. John the Baptist, SS. Peter and Paul, and the First Martyrs of the Church of Rome. Culminating on Independence Day, this special period of prayer, study, catechesis, and public action would emphasize both our Christian and American heritage of liberty. Dioceses and parishes around the country could choose a date in that period for special events that would constitute a great national campaign of teaching and witness for religious liberty. The document can be found at http://www.usccb.org/issues-andaction/religious-liberty/our-firstmost-cherished-liberty.cfm. 2 DIOCESE En agradecimiento a los Oblatos de María Inmaculada San Eugenio Recientemente visité la parroquia San Eugenio de Mazenod en Brownsville para administrar el sacramento de la confirmación. La iglesia de San Eugenio, fundada en 1996, es una de las parroquias más nuevas en la cuidad. Es una parroquia atendida por los Oblatos de María Inmaculada, quienes, como ya saben, tienen una larga y legendaria historia aquí en el Valle del Rio Grande. Hace algunas semanas realicé la colocación de la primera piedra para la construcción de una nueva iglesia en San Eugenio. El ambiente de la celebración fue asombroso ya que el sacrificio que la comunidad ha hecho por más de 16 años con el propósito de construir una iglesia permanente fue todo un logro en la ceremonia. Por lo tanto, la construcción comenzará pronto. La visita me da la oportunidad para animar a aquellos que están interesados en la vida de los santos (y espero que sean casi todos ustedes) a que pongan su mirada en San Eugenio. Él es el santo fundador de los Oblatos de María Inmaculada y fue canonizado por el Beato Juan Pablo II un poco antes de que la parroquia fuera establecida. Pienso que nuestra parroquia de San Eugenio es la primera en el mundo en llevar su nombre. Algo que es muy adecuado ya que fue el mismo San Eugenio quien envió a los primeros misioneros Oblatos al Valle del Rio Grande hace más de 150 años. San Eugenio vivió una vida extraordinaria en tiempos extraordinariamente difíciles. Él y muchos otros buscaban restablecer la vida de la Iglesia después de los devastadores efectos de la Revolución Francesa. San Eugenio fue contemporáneo del Cura de Ars, San Juan Vianney, pero nunca he encontrado dónde se pudieron haberse conocido. De seguro en el cielo, si es que no sucedió en la tierra. Estoy agradecido de que el Obispo Peña haya invitado a los Oblatos a tomar el reto de establecer la parroquia de San Eugenio Mazenod, y de que los Oblatos se hayan dedicado tan generosamente a construir la comunidad. Felicidades al Padre Timothy Paulsen OMI, y a toda la parroquia por el hermoso testimonio de fe, esperanza y caridad que han dado a la Iglesia. The Valley Catholic - June 2012 In gratitude to the Oblates of Mary Immaculate I recently visited Saint Eugene de Mazenod Church in Brownsville for a Confirmation. Saint Eugene, founded in 1996, is one of the newer parishes in the City. It is down a ways on the east side as you head across Paredes Line Road. It is a parish that is staffed by the Oblates of Mary Immaculate, who, as you know, have a long and storied history here in the Rio Grande Valley. I celebrated a groundbreaking for a new and permanent Church some weeks ago at Saint Eugene’s and the celebratory mood was amazing, as over 16 years of community sacrifice for the purpose of building a permanent church passed a mile-stone in the groundbreaking. Construction should begin soon. The visit gives me a chance to encourage those of you who are interested in the lives of the saints (and I hope that is most all of you) to look up Saint Eugene. He is the saintly founder of the Oblates of Mary Immaculate and was canonized by Blessed Pope John Paul II shortly before the parish was established. I think our Saint Eugene parish is the first in the world to bear his name. And that is fitting, since Saint Eugene himself sent the first Oblate missionaries into the Rio Grande Valley over 150 years ago. He lived an extraordinary life in extraordinarily difficult times, as he and so many others sought to re-establish the life of the Church after the devastating effects of the French Revolution. He was a contemporary of the Curé of Ars, Saint John Vianney, but I have never run across where they might have met each other. Surely in heaven, if not on earth. I am grateful that Bishop Peña invited the Oblates to take up the challenge of establishing Saint Eugene de Mazenod parish, and that the OMI’s have so generously dedicated themselves to building up the community. And congratulations to Father Timothy Paulsen OMI, and the whole parish for the beautiful witness they give to the faith, hope and charity of the Church. San Pedro Mission It so happens I was confirming candidates on May 5 at San Pedro Mission, also in Brownsville, off Old Military Highway. It is one of the oldest communities in the sobre la vieja carretera militar. San Pedro es una de las comunidades más antiguas en el área. Recientemente ayudé a celebrar los 100 años de su establecimiento como misión. La iglesia de San Pedro fue parte del camino original de los Oblatos cuando cruzaban por el Valle de Texas desde Brownsville a través de Mission, Río Grande y Roma. En esos viejos tiempos los misioneros Oblatos montaban a caballo para llevar el Evangelio y los Sacramentos a los residentes de los pequeños poblados y comunidades en los dos lados del río. Misión San Pedro Hoy en día, la iglesia de San Sucede que el 5 de mayo tuve Pedro es atendida por un sacerlas confirmaciones en la iglesia de dote diocesano, el Padre Eduardo San Pedro, también en Brownsville, Gómez, quien también sirve como MOST REVEREND DANIEL E. FLORES BISHOP OF BROWNSVILLE area. I recently helped them celebrate their 100-year anniversary as a mission. San Pedro church was part of the original Oblate Trail that stemmed from Brownsville up the Valley through to Mission, Texas and Rio Grande City and Roma. The Oblate missionaries would ride horse-back in the old days to bring the Gospel and the Sacraments to the residents in the small towns and communities up and down the river. Today, San Pedro Mission is staffed by a diocesan priest, Father Eduardo Gómz, who also serves as rector of our diocesan House of Studies next door to the Church. Each year some of our seminarians live and pray and study at the House of Studies, and participate in the life of San Pedro Mission. The community of San Pedro is very hospitable and friendly, and gives to our seminarians a generous community atmosphere to help nurture their vocations to the Priesthood. Again, the life of the Church shows great vitality in the faces of the newly confirmed at San Pedro Mission. Both Saint Eugene parish and San Pedro Mission remind us of how much of our Church life in the Diocese of Brownsville has been and continues to be nourished by the work of the Oblates of Mary Immaculate. Our Lady Star of the Sea, Port Isabel Now, as some of you may have heard, the Oblates recently announced that they are asking the Diocese of Brownsville to take over the pastoral care of Our Lady Star of the Sea Parish in Port Isabel. This parish was also established by the Oblates, and – as you probably know— it is the parish “on the way to South Padre Island”. What you may not know is that the parish was established formally in 1927, rector de la casa de estudios de nuestra diócesis, la cual se ubica a un costado de la Iglesia. Cada año algunos de nuestros seminaristas viven, rezan y estudian en esta casa de estudios, y también participan en la vida de la iglesia de San Pedro. Ya que es una comunidad muy hospitalaria y amistosa, brinda a nuestros seminaristas una generosa atmósfera de comunidad que ayuda a fomentar su vocación al sacerdocio. Una vez más, la vida de la Iglesia muestra una gran vitalidad en las caras de los recién confirmados en la iglesia de San Pedro. Ambas iglesias, San Eugenio y San Pedro, nos recuerdan lo mucho que ha sido y continua siendo alimentada la vida de though there had been a constant presence of pastoral care by the Oblates for residents of Port Isabel long prior to that. What does this request of the Oblate Missionaries mean? It means that the Oblate Community has discerned that for them to focus upon the missionary charism of the Order, it is pastorally best that at this time the Diocese of Brownsville supply the next pastor to the parish. This frees the missionaries to focus upon other commitments that they have in this diocese and other dioceses where they continue to serve. I have accepted their request and recommendation, and urge all of the faithful to pray for vocations to the Oblates of Mary Immaculate, and pray also for the new pastor of Our Lady Star of the Sea Parish. It is never an easy thing for a religious community to leave a parish they have served for generations. And I know it will be difficult for the parishioners to say farewell to the Oblate presence in their parish. I am grateful to God for the work of the Oblates over the years at Port Isabel, and particularly the work most recently begun by Father James Erving, OMI, the current pastor. But, despite the changes necessitated by the current situation, we live in the sure and graceful hope that the Lord will continue to bless the growth of Our Lady Star of the Sea, and that the hard work of the Oblates in building up the life of the Church in Port Isabel will serve as the solid foundation for greater growth in the days and years to come. In the name of all the generations of Catholics here in the Valley, let us all acknowldge gratefully to enduring presence of the Oblate Fathers in the Rio Grande Valle, and let us thank God for for the dedication and generosity He has inspired in them. As bishop of this beautiful diocese, I am particularly thankful for their work in establishing so many parish communities in the Valley, and for the parish communities they continue to serve here. nuestra Iglesia en la Diócesis de Brownsville por el gran trabajo de los Oblatos de María Inmaculada. Nuestra Señora Estrella del Mar, Puerto Isabel Ahora, como ya algunos de ustedes habrán escuchado, recientemente los Oblatos pidieron a la Diócesis de Brownsville que se encargara del cuidado pastoral de Nuestra Señora Estrella del Mar en Puerto Isabel. Ésta parroquia también fue establecida por los Oblatos, y —como ustedes probablemente saben— es la parroquia que se encuentra “camino hacia la Isla del Padre.” Lo que probablemente no sepan es que la parroquia fue establecida formalmente en 1927, aunque ha habido una presencia Bishop Flores’ Schedule 700 N. Virgen de San Juan Blvd., San Juan, TX 78589-3042 Telephone: 956/781-5323 • Fax: 956/784-5082 Bishop Daniel E. Flores Publisher Brenda Nettles Riojas Editor Rose Ybarra Assistant Editor ZBG Studio/Graphic Design Terry De Leon Circulation The Valley Catholic e-mail: [email protected] The Valley Catholic, a publication of the Diocese of Brownsville, is published monthly. Subscription rate: $15 per year • $17 outside of Texas $25 out of U.S. May God Bless the Oblates. Saint Eugene de Mazenod, pray for us. June 4 2 p.m. Brownsville Administrative Council Meeting June 5 6 p.m. Harlingen KMBH Board Meeting June 7 All Day Chicago Catholic Extension Board Meeting June 8 6:30 p.m. Basilica, San Juan Diaconate Ordinations June 9 9 a.m. Hidalgo Confirmations at Sacred Heart June 9 5 p.m. Progreso Confirmations at Holy Spirit June 10 6 p.m. Brownsville Feast of Corpus Christi Mass June 11-15 All Day Atlanta USCCB Spring Meeting June 17 12 p.m. Rio Grande City Monastery Closing Mass for Seminarian Retreat June 18 9 a.m. IW Convent, Corpus Christi Mass of the Holy Spirit (to open Chapter of Affairs) constante de cuidado pastoral de los Oblatos para los residentes de Puerto Isabel desde mucho tiempo antes. ¿Qué significa ésta petición que hicieron los Misioneros Oblatos? Significa que la comunidad Oblata ha discernido que para poder enfocarse en el carisma misionero de la orden, es pastoralmente necesario que en este momento la Diócesis de Brownsville asigne el próximo pastor de la parroquia. Esto libera a los misioneros de sus responsabilidades para así enfocarse en otros compromisos que tienen en la diócesis y otras diócesis en las que siguen sirviendo. Por lo tanto, yo acepté su petición y su recomendación, y les pido a todos » Por favor lea Agradecimiento, p.15 June June 19 7 p.m. Confirmations at Christ the King June 20 9:30 am Presbyteral Council Meeting June 20 6:30 p.m. Finance Council Meeting June 21 6 p.m. Brownsville San Juan San Juan Mission Opening Prayer & Keynote Speaker at “The Golden Years” Gala Dinner June 23 4 p.m. St. Joseph, Edinburg Sr. Kathleen Murray’s 50th Anniversary Mass June 23 6 p.m. San Juan Mass & Talk for Valley Awakening June 24 11 a.m. Rio Grande City Mass for Natural Family Planning Training Weekend June 26 7 p.m. Edinburg Mass Segovia Unit Prison June 30 11 a.m. Brownsville Mass for Villa Maria - Incarnate Word Academy Super Reunion DIOCESE June 2012 - The Valley Catholic Corpus Christi Sunday Father-son time scheduled We are reminded that Christ lives among us still The Valley Catholic Catholic News Agency The Solemnity of the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ is also known as the Solemnity of Corpus Christi, which translates from Latin to “Body of Christ.” This feast originated in France in the mid-thirteenth century and was extended to the whole Church by Pope Urban IV in 1264. This feast is celebrated on the Thursday following the Trinity Sunday or, as in the USA, on the Sunday following that feast. This feast calls us to focus on two manifestations of the Body of Christ, the Holy Eucharist and the Church. The primary purpose of this feast is to focus our attention on the Eucharist. The opening prayer at Mass calls our attention to Jesus’ suffering and death and our worship of Him, especially in the Eucharist. At every Mass our attention is called to the Eucharist and the Real Presence of Christ in it. The secondary focus of this feast upon the Body of Christ as it is present in the Church. The Church called 3 The Valley Catholic Bishop Daniel E. Flores will lead a Eucharistic procession through downtown Brownsville and celebrate Mass at the Immaculate Conception Cathedral at 6 p.m. on Corpus Christi Sunday, which falls on June 10 this year. the Body of Christ because of the intimate communion which Jesus shares with his disciples. He expresses this in the gospels by using the metaphor of a body where He is the head. This image helps keep in focus both the unity and the diversity of the Church. The Feast of Corpus Christi is commonly used as an opportunity for public Eucharistic processions, which serves as a sign of common faith and adoration. Our worship of Jesus in His Body and Blood calls us to offer to God our Father a pledge of undivided love and an offering of ourselves to the service of others. A Father-Son Program for fathers and their 10, 11, or 12 year old sons will be held on Saturday, June 16, the day before Father’s Day, from 8:30 a.m. to noon at the Bishop Adolph Marx Conference Center in San Juan. The conference center is located east of the Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del Valle-National Shrine, across the street from the Pizza Hut on N. Nebraska Ave. in San Juan. Dads are invited to spend a morning with their son(s) reflecting on what it means to be a man with Christian values, the move into manhood, and on God’s plan for the role of men in today’s world. Topics include trust, respect, the father and son bond and communication. The cost is $10 per family and the registration deadline is Friday, June 8. To register or for more information, please contact the Family Life Office at (956) 784-5012 or (956) 542-2501 ext.412. Priest assignments announced The Valley Catholic Effective April 18 -Rev. Msgr. Gustavo Barrera, Member of RGV Educational Broadcasting, Inc. Board Effective April 19 -Rev. (Joseph) Bikoula Ateba, Chaplain for Hospital Ministry program -Rev. Daniel Hervé Oyama, Chaplain for Hospital Ministry program New home for Divine Mercy Parish Courtesy photos The Parish of the Lord of Divine Mercy in Brownsville, the newest church in the Diocese of Brownsville, celebrated its first Masses on Sunday, May 13, in its newly completed Place of Worship located at 650 E. Alton Gloor Blvd. Bishop Daniel E. Flores and church pastor, Father Rodolfo Franco, celebrated the first Mass at 8 a.m., a bilingual service. The opening of the Place of Worship begins a new chapter for this growing community in North Brownsville. Other Masses on Mother’s Day included an English Mass at 10 a.m. and a Spanish Mass celebrated by Bishop Emeritus Raymundo J. Peña and Father Franco. This Parish held its first Mass September 18, 2005 with about 100 people in the Burns Elementary School cafeteria. Today, more than 700 families are registered, accounting for about 2,000 parishioners who attend four Masses each Saturday and Sunday. Effective May 1 -Rev. Msgr. Heberto M. Diaz, Jr., Member of the Grants Review and Oversight Board -Rev. Gerald W. Frank, Member of the Grants Review and Oversight Board -Rev. Alfonso M. Guevara, Member of the Grants Review and Oversight Board Effective May 8 -Rev. Roy Lee Snipes, OMI, Member of the San Juan Diego Catholic Regional High School Board (dba: Juan Diego Academy) Effective May 18 -Rev. Gregory T. Labus, Pastor of Saint Joseph Parish in Edinburg -Rev. Cesar Uriel Partida, Chaplain for the Serra Club in Harlingen Effective June 1 -Rev. Martin de la Cruz, Pastor of Saint Joan of Arc Parish in Weslaco Effective July -Rev. Jean Olivier M. Sambu, Pastor of Our Lady of Mercy Parish in Mercedes -Rev. Patrick K. Seitz, Pastor of Our Lady, Star of the Sea Parish in Port Isabel and its mission Laguna Heights Chapel in Laguna Heights 4 DIOCESE »Making Sense Out of Bioethics Tadeusz Pacholczyk Priest of the Diocese of Fall River Powerlessness, or the hidden power in our suffering? I n a 1999 study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association, patients with serious illness were asked to identify what was most important to them during the dying process. Many indicated they wanted to achieve a “sense of control.” This is understandable. Most of us fear our powerlessness in the face of illness and death. We would like to retain an element of control, even though we realize that dying often involves the very opposite: a total loss of control, over our muscles, our emotions, our minds, our bowels and our very lives, as our human framework succumbs to powerful disintegrative forces. Even when those disintegrative forces become extreme and our suffering may seem overwhelming, however, a singularly important spiritual journey always remains open for us. This path is a “road less traveled,” a path that, unexpectedly, enables us to achieve genuine control in the face of death. The hallmark of this path is the personal decision to accept our sufferings, actively laying down our life on behalf of others by embracing the particular kind of death God has ordained for us, patterning our choice on the choice consciously made by Jesus Christ. When asked about the “why” of human suffering, Pope John Paul II once stated, with piercing simplicity, that the answer has “been given by God to man in the cross of Jesus Christ.” He stressed that Jesus went toward his own suffering, “aware of its saving power.” The Pope also observed that in some way, each of us is called to “share in that suffering through which the Redemption was accomplished.” He concluded that through his only-begotten Son, God “has confirmed His desire to act especially through suffering, which is man’s weakness and emptying of self, and He wishes to make His power known precisely in this weakness and emptying of self.” The Holy Father echoes St. Paul’s famous passage: “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” The greatest possibility we have for achieving control, then, is to align ourselves in our suffering The Valley Catholic - June 2012 and weakness with God and his redemptive designs. This oblation of radically embracing our particular path to death, actively offered on behalf of others and in union with Christ, manifests our concern for the spiritual welfare of others, especially our friends and those closest to us. We are inwardly marked by a profound need to sacrifice and give of ourselves, a need that manifests our inner capacity to love and be loved. As no one had ever done before, Jesus charted the path of love-driven sacrifice, choosing to lay down his life for his friends. He was no mere victim in the sense of being a passive and unwilling participant in his own suffering and death. He was in control. He emphasized, with otherworldly authority, that, “nobody takes my life from me: I lay it down, and I take it up again.” Yet we see that his life was, in fact, taken from him by those various individuals and groups who plotted his death and sought his execution. His life was taken from him by evil men, even though, paradoxically, nobody took his life from him, because nobody had power over his being, unless granted from above. We experience a similar paradox in our own deaths: while it may seem that our life is being taken from us through the evil of a particular ailment or the ravages of a particular disease, we can reply that nothing takes away our life, because nothing has power over our being, except what is ordained from above. In his providence and omniscience, years before the fact, God already knows and foresees that unique confluence of events that will constitute our death, whether it be by stroke or cardiac arrest, liver failure or Alzheimers, or any other means. By spiritually embracing in God that specific path to death, our freedom is elevated to new heights; indeed, we “achieve control” in the most important way possible, through willed surrender and radical gift in our innermost depths. Jesus foresaw that his greatest work lay ahead as he ascended Calvary to embrace his own powerlessness and self-emptying. Although we may feel condemned to our powerlessness as we receive help from others in our sickness, and although we may feel supremely useless as we are “nailed” to our hospital bed, our active, inward embrace of the cross unleashes important graces for ourselves and others, and reveals a refulgent light beyond the obscurity of every suffering. Jesus’ radical embracing of his Passion - and our radical embracing of our own - marks the supreme moment of a person who achieves control over his or her destiny through immersion into the hope-filled and redemptive designs of God. --Rev. Tadeusz Pacholczyk, Ph.D. earned his doctorate in neuroscience from Yale and did post-doctoral work at Harvard. He is a priest of the diocese of Fall River, MA, and serves as the Director of Education at The National Catholic Bioethics Center in Philadelphia. See www.ncbcenter.org Oblates say goodbye to parish in Port Isabel Shortage of priests leads to religious order’s decision The Valley Catholic PORT ISABEL — After more than 150 years of service to the community, the Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate order of priests has decided to leave Our Lady Star of the Sea Parish in Port Isabel. “The reason for this decision is simply that we do not have enough Oblates to fulfill our commitments,” said Father William M. Antone, provincial of the Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate United States Province in a later dated April 26, 2012. There are only 320 Oblate priests in the United States Province, 205 of which are over 70 years old, Antone noted. Seventyfour Oblates are between 50 and 70 years of age and 41 Oblates are under the age of 50, including the seminarians in vows. Oblate Father Jim Erving, who currently serves as pastor of Our Lady Star of the Sea Church, will be assigned to Our Lady of Refuge Church in Roma to relieve temporary parish administrator, Oblate Father Bob Wright, who must return to full-time work as a professor at the Oblate School of Theology in San Antonio by August. Bishop Daniel E. Flores assigned Father Patrick K. Seitz, a diocesan priest, as pastor of Our Lady Star of the Sea Church, The Valley Catholic Father Patrick K. Seitz, a diocesan priest, will be the new pastor of Our Lady Star of the Sea Church in Port Isabel, effective July 1. The Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate are leaving the parish due to diminishing numbers. Based in France, the Oblates arrived in Port Isabel in 1849, establishing one of the religious community’s first overseas missions. effective July 1. Father Seitz is currently the pastor of St. Pius X Church in Weslaco. “We are grateful to the Oblates of Mary Immaculate for their long care of Our Lady Star of the Sea Parish, and are grateful they remain in several other parishes in the diocese,” Bishop Flores said. Oblate priests remain at the Immaculate Conception Cathedral and at St. Eugene de Mazenod Church in Brownsville, Our Lady of Guadalupe Church in Mission and at Our Lady of Refuge Church in Roma. Founded by Eugene de Mazenod in France in 1816, the first wave of Oblates landed in Port Isabel on Dec. 3, 1849, sent to the area by the founder himself. The presence in Texas was one of the first overseas missions ordered by de Mazenod, who was declared a saint in 1995. Our Lady Star of the Sea Church began as a small chapel built by Oblate Father Jean Verdet in 1854. A mission of Brownsville, a priest visited twice a month for weddings, baptisms and funerals. In 1927, it was established as a parish. The Oblates went on to establish more than half of the churches in the Rio Grande Valley, according to the book, A Journey of Faith: The Catholic Church in the Rio Grande Valley. The number of Oblate priests serving in the Valley has dropped in recent years. Citing diminishing numbers and an aging membership, the Oblates also opted to leave St. John the Baptist Church in the Fall of 2010. Transitional deacons to be ordained The Valley Catholic Bishop Daniel E. Flores will ordain three seminarians to the JUDE NJUMBE, 32, is the son of Godfred transitional diaconate at 6:30 p.m. Njumbe Ngome and Odilia Ebude Njumbe and on Friday, June 8 at the Basilica of has five siblings. He is currently completing a Our Lady of San Juan del Vallepastoral year at St. Joseph Church in BrownsNational Shrine. ville. The seminarians are Jude NJUMBE Njumbe of Yaounde, Cameroon; Arturo Cardenas of Tuxpan, Jalisco, Mexico and Arturo Castillo of Madero, Tamaulipas, Mexico. ARTURO CARDENAS, 33, is the son of Ordination to the transitional Arturo Cardenas Sanchez and Maria Merdiaconate marks the final stage of cedes Avalos and has two siblings, a brother preparation for the priesthood. A and a sister. He is completing a pastoral year transitional deacon may proclaim at Mary, Mother of the Church Parish in the Gospel, preach at Mass, minBrownsville. ister at the altar, distribute ComCARDENAS munion and assist the bishops and priests in the pastoral care of the community. During the ordination Mass, the men will kneel before Bishop ARTURO CASTILLO, 28, is the son of Jose Flores, pledging obedience to him Noe Castillo (deceased) and Isabel Jimenez. He and his successors. They will also has three siblings, two brothers and a sister. He be vested with the stole and a dalis currently completing his third year of theolmatic, which the deacon wears ogy at Mundelein Seminary in the Archdiocese during liturgical services. of Chicago. Bishop Flores will also place CASTILLO the book of the Gospels in the hands of the newly ordained deacon and proclaim, “Receive the Gospel of Christ, whose herald you read, teach what you believe, you have become. Believe what and practice what you teach.” DIOCESE June 2012 - The Valley Catholic »Sunday Readings The Word of God in the Life and Mission of the Church JUNE 3 ( The Solemnity of the Most Holy Trinity) Reading I DT 4:32-34, 39-40 Responsorial Psalm PS 33:4-5, 6, 9, 18-19, 20, 22 Reading II ROM 8:14-17 Gospel MT 28:16-20 JUNE 10 (The Solemnity of the Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ) Reading I EX 24:3-8 Responsorial Psalm PS 116:12-13, 15-16, 17-18 Reading II HEB 9:11-15 Gospel MK 14:12-16, 22-26 JUNE 17 (Eleventh Sunday in Ordinary Time) Reading I EZ 17:22-24 Responsorial Psalm PS 92:2-3, 13-14, 15-16 Reading II Gospel 2 COR 5:6-10 MK 4:26-34 JUNE 24 (Solemnity of the Nativity of Saint John the Baptist Mass during the Day) Reading I IS 49:1-6 L Living in the Divine Will iving in the Divine Will is a reality that came into my life not too long ago. A few years ago a parishioner came from Florida where she had attended a retreat on the Divine Will. She gave me a book entitled “Be Faithful and Attentive – A Handbook for Living in the Divine Will,” compiled by Robert T. Hart. A year later Father Robert Young, a Franciscan priest, came to the Valley to direct a Divine Will retreat in Rio Grande City at the St. Benedictine Monastery. I had wanted to attend this retreat but was unable to do so because of my parish commitments. However the day after the retreat Father Young came to the McAllen Pregnancy Center to speak about Divine Will and I attended. He admitted that this Divine Will spiritually had changed his life. I remember him saying that it took him several years to understand and accept the power of the writings of Luisa Piccarreta on living in the Divine Will. Her writings were based on her personal experiences of conversing with Jesus and the Blessed Mother. Her writings fall under the category of private revelations. The faithful are not required to accept private revelations. But if they are approved by the Church they may be read for their own edification. (Luisa Piccarreta’s writings are in the tradition of St. Therese of Lixieux, Venerable Conchita of Mexico, St. Maximilian Kolbe, and St. Faustina.) In January of this year, I got an invitation to make a retreat for priests at Gethsemane Monastery Responsorial Psalm PS 139:1B-3, 13-14AB, 14C-15 Reading II Gospel ACTS 13:22-26 LK 1:57-66, 80 The word of the lord abides for ever. This word is the Gospel which was preached to you” (1 Pet 1:25; cf. Is 40:8). With this assertion from the First Letter of Saint Peter, which takes up the words of the Prophet Isaiah, we find ourselves before the mystery of God, who has made himself known through the gift of his word. This word, which abides for ever, entered into time. God spoke his eternal Word humanly; his Word “became flesh” (Jn 1:14). This is the good news. This is the proclamation which has come down the centuries to us today. Disciples in Mission: Six Weeks with the Bible 5 T Father Alfonso Guevarra Vicar General for the Diocese of Brownsville in Kentucky. It was a retreat on living in the Divine Will. I immediately accepted this invitation because I felt that God was calling me to learn more about living in the Divine Will. Before I knew it I was on a plane flying to Kentucky. What a treat! The place was so conducive for prayer. The fifteen priests who were on this wonderful retreat came from all over, including priests from South American, Mexico, Canada, and of course several parts of the U.S. What was so wonderful was these priests’ deep faith. Most of them had been involved in spreading the Divine Will message according to the writings of the Servant of God Louisa Peccarreta. Since then I have started two groups of Divine Will. On Fridays, we meet at the McAllen Pregnancy Center at 4:30 p.m. On Wednesdays we have a class in Spanish at 10 a.m. St. Joseph the Worker, McAllen. There are several other Divine Will groups in the Valley. Let me share some thoughts about “living in the Divine Will” as found in the writings of Louis Peccarreta. The Lord wants all of us to be holy. He wants to teach us to remain in Him so that all our acts and thoughts are fused with Jesus’ humanity. While he was on earth Jesus lived out the Father’s will. Now, Jesus continues to live out His Father’s will in and through us. The following prayer helps me understand living in the Divine Will. “Lord Jesus, let my heart be Your heart, let my thoughts be Your thoughts, let my eyes be Your eyes, let my ears be Your ears, let my mouth be Your mouth, let my hands be Your hands, and let my feet be Your feet.” Living in the Divine Will is to believe that there are continuous moments in which God has prepared us to act in Divine Volition. Jesus’ humanity is therefore made manifest in our acting in His Divine Volition. Living in the Divine Will is fusing our wills to the human will of Jesus. Living in the Divine Will is also uniting our sufferings to the life and passion of Jesus in reparation for sins. It requires that we be faithful and attentive to God’s will. Jesus wants everyone to share in His divine life. Pope John Paul II said “that we are living in what has been called a “fullness of time”. Although everywhere we turn we see violence and corruption St. Paul assures us that “where sin abounds, grace abounds all the more. (Romans 5:20). The unprecedented evils of our time must be swallowed up in an unprecedented outpouring of the Holy Spirit.” _ Father Alfonso Guevarra is Vicar General of the Diocese of Brownsville and pastor of St. Joseph the Worker Parish in McAllen. TV: Friend and Foe he USCC Committee for Communications United States Catholic Conference in Washington D.C. published a “Family Guide for Using Media.” In it they state: “The Second Vatican Council called communication media “marvels” and “gifts” from God, but it also recognized that these gifts can be mixed blessings, depending on how they are used. The media’s impact continues to grow, as computer networks and the Internet add powerful and easily accessible means to the familiar forms of mass communication- print, television, radio, film, video, telephone and cable services.” TV and all the other forms of media can indeed be both friend and foe. The rapid means of communication allows us to receive important information that impacts our lives such as informing us of impending natural disasters or information which can assist families to find assistance for immediate needs following such a disaster. And many of us use TV, Internet, or other social media as a form of recreation or relaxation. According to a recent study by the University of Pennsylvania’s Annenburg School for Communication, children in the United States are being exposed to nearly four hours of background television each day and there is a strong correlation between TV watching with poor performance in cognitive and reading related tasks. Another study finds that 20 percent of third graders have cell phones and 90 percent, are Lydia Pesina Director, Family Life Office online while 83 percent of middle schoolers own cell phones. A Pew study found that “63 percent of all teens say they exchange text messages every day with people in their lives, including their parents.” Television is still America’s number one pastime, with an average of four hours and 39 minutes consumed by every person every day. The authors at the research firm eMarketer state that between TV and mobile devices, the overall time spent on major media comes to 693 minutes per day which translates to over 11 hours of media. There is no doubt that the messages, whether positive or negative, which we receive via any of these forms of media impact how we view the world, how we form our values, how we make decisions, and ultimately how we treat one another. Perhaps a question that we can ask ourselves as family members is “How many minutes a day do we spend sharing our values with others in our family, especially children, youth and young adults?” I encourage you to write that number down (number of minutes) and compare it to the above mentioned 693 minutes. I believe that one of the challenges for each of us is to find ways to systematically articulate and share our gospel values. Perhaps this can be done through family meals (without TV, phones, etc...) through daily family prayer and/ or faith sharing, night time book reading or book sharing and by asking questions while watching a TV program or viewing something online. I have named this monthly column “The Remember Series” because I truly believe that one of our major roles in life is to “remind” one another about what is truly important in order to live our life as Our Heavenly Father has ordained us to live it. I believe that God has written in our hearts all that we need to be the best person He has created us to be and to help build up His Kingdom here on earth; but we need to remind one another of those truths. In some ways we are the “commercials” that advertise the Good News. Just as we are reminded of some product we had forgotten we needed or desired until we see or hear the advertisement; so too we need to remind one another of what is truly important. If we do not lower the number of minutes spent on major media and raise the number of minutes of one to one; eye to eye; nose to nose time with one another, especially our children and youth, then we cannot blame the media for being the primary teachers of values of our children and we are » Please see TV, p.15 Courtesy photo A depiction of the saints from the Church of Sts. Marcellinus and Peter in Imbersago, Italy. »Feast Day - June 2 Spotlight on Saints Marcellinus and Peter Catholic News Agency/EWTN Marcellinus was a priest, and Peter an exorcist, both of the clergy of Rome, and eminent for their zeal and piety. In the persecution of Dioclesian, about the year 304, they were condemned to die for their faith. By a secret order of the judge, the executioner led them into a forest so that they would be executed privately and no Christians might be acquainted with the place of their sepulcher. The judge feared that their martyrdom would encourage the faith of the other Christians. When they were brought into a thicket overgrown with thorns and briers three miles from Rome, the executioner declared to them his sanguinary commission. The saints cheerfully fell to work themselves, grubbed up the brambles, and cleared a spot fit for their sepulcher. After they were beheaded, their bodies were buried in the same place. Some time after, Lucilla, a pious lady, being informed by revelation, and assisted by another devout lady named Firmina, took up their bodies and honorably interred them near that of St. Tiburtius on the Lavican road in the Catacombs. Pope Damasus assures us, that, when a child, he learned all these particulars from the mouth of the executioner himself, and he has inserted them in a Latin epitaph with which he adorned their tomb. According to legend, Marcellinus and Peter viewed their time in captivity as an opportunity to witness to the executioner, as a chance to convert him and his family to Christianity. The executioner ultimately repented of the killings and became a Christian. Sts. Marcellinus and Peter share a feast day on June 2. They were widely honored by the early Christians. The feast of these two martyrs was first included in the Roman Calendar of the Saints in the year 555 by Pope Vigilius. 6 DIOCESE The Valley Catholic - June 2012 Diocese launches Mobile Journalist Project New initiative trains teens as field reporters By SUE GROVES The Valley Catholic Pope Benedict XVI in his Message for World Youth Day 2008 encouraged young people to “be the bearers of the Good News.” He said, “Those who allow themselves to be led by the Spirit understand that placing oneself at the service of the Gospel is not an optional extra, because they are aware of the urgency of transmitting this Good News to others...I assure you that the Spirit of Jesus today is inviting you young people to be bearers of the good news of Jesus to your contemporaries.” Inspired by the message of Pope Benedict, the Diocese of Brownsville’s Diocesan Relations Office is launching a new initiative to train teens and young adults as mobile journalists. Brenda Nettles Riojas, Director of Diocesan Relations and Editor of The Valley Catholic newspaper for the Diocese of Brownsville, first introduced the idea for a Mobile Journalists Project a year ago. “The concept for the Mobile Journalist Project comes from a need to engage teens and young The Valley Catholic These budding reporters and photographers from Our Lady of Guadalupe Parish in Raymondville are pioneers for the Diocese of Brownsville’s mobile journalist project. Through the project, youths in the diocese will serve their parish and hone their journalism skills as they share the Good News of Jesus. From left to right, Jacob C. Solorio, Ralia Cortinas, Estrellita Lopez, Florinda Guzman, Celyna Vasquez, Elena R. Vasquez, Rosa Angelica Barrera, Jose F. Treviño, Chelsi Tristan and Victor Villarreal. adults in the life of the Church, and to broaden our reach and coverage of the Good News throughout the Diocese,” Riojas said. “The Holy Spirit is guiding us as we develop the training and collaborate with the different ministries and parishes.” The diocese is starting the collaborative initiative with pilot projects at six parishes in the diocese and hopes to expand as resources allow. Eight students and two adult leaders from Our Lady of Guadalupe Church in Raymondville are among the first to complete the initial training. The students were “pinned” with their press credentials by Riojas on May 1. Training sessions are being scheduled as well in Mercedes, Brownsville, and McAllen. This project, funded by a grant from The Kenedy Memorial Foundation, provides teens and young adults with training via different levels and tracks specific to each area of communication – reporting, photography, graphic design, radio, podcasting, video and television. “Mobilizing this demographic to help evangelize by reporting on the life of the Church will result in multifold benefits,” Riojas said. “Teens and young adults will witness to their faith while shining a light on what the secular media often ignores. By reporting on the life of the Church and different ministries, teens and young adults will gain a deeper understanding of the work of the Church.” “In reporting,” Riojas said, “they become teachers.” The training concentrates on teaching the basic journalistic skills of storytelling, as well as the technical aspects of shooting, editing and uploading stories for both the Diocese of Brownsville website and The Valley Catholic. These “mobile journalists” will receive a small stipend and byline when their photos and/or articles are used. Courses are led by local media professionals who lend their expertise and mentorship to the program, and they will continue to guide the MJP students in their story development.and production. CYAM hosts new young adult retreat By MIGUEL SANTOS The Valley Catholic The office of Campus and Young Adult Ministry (CYAM) will host Valley Awakening, a diocesan retreat for young adults ages 21 to 35 who are not currently attending college or university. The retreat will take place June 22-24 at the Diocesan Pastoral Center in San Juan. Bishop Daniel E. Flores, Bishop Emeritus Raymundo J. Peña, Father Jorge A. Gomez, and Lydia Pesina are among those scheduled to participate in Valley Awakening. What is Awakening? Awakening is a Catholic retreat held at many colleges and universities across the country, as well as in a number of dioceses. It is a weekend retreat where young adults grow closer to God, make new friends, and experience spiritual renewal. The retreat, though focused on Catholic teachings, is open to people of different denominations who wish to experience the Christian message of hope and love. Awakening invites young adults to experience God’s unconditional love through a variety of talks, prayers, songs, fellowship, and group discussions. How did Awakening begin and how did it come to our Diocese? The very first Awakening was held in 1974 at McNeese State University in Lake Charles, LA. The chaplain at the time, now Bishop Sam Jacobs, felt the need for a different type of retreat. In the words of Bishop Jacobs: “We felt we had to first provide them with a ‘conversion’ experience before attempting a ‘catechesis’ experience.” As per the Diocese of Brownsville, students from UTPA travelled to Our Lady of the Lake University in San Antonio in 2004 to experience Dillo Awakening first-hand. They returned to the Valley to organize and host the first Bronc Awakening at UTPA later that year. Currently, Bronc Awakening, which is held biannually, is on its seventeenth edition. Scorpion Awakening, which is hosted by UTB has completed its eighth. Why Valley Awakening? The Awakening retreat has been a life-changing experience for many young adults. CYAM would like to offer a similar opportunity for all young adults who do not have access to a college-based Awakening. Ruby Fuentes, one of the rectors for Valley Awakening comments, “We are aware that college may not be an option or a choice for everyone, or perhaps some folks missed the opportunity back in their college years - but still wish to experience a retreat with other young adults... here’s a wonderful opportunity.” --For more information regarding young adult activities in the diocese, please contact Miguel Santos: msantos@ cdob.org DIOCESE June 2012 - The Valley Catholic Gearing up for faith filled summer fun 7 First place softball team Office of Youth Ministry offers full slate of activities By J.D. LARIOS The Valley Catholic From sports to leadership camp programs to service opportunities, the Office of Youth Ministry has some great programs for Rio Grande Valley youth and parish youth ministries this summer. Summer Softball This year promises to be a great one for Summer Softball programs. Games will take place on Sundays during the month of July. A final two-day tournament will take place on Saturday and Sunday, July 28-29. The registration fee is $100 per middle school or high school team and $125 per adult team. Catholic Youth Renovation Project: Catholic Youth Renovation Project (CYRP) is sponsored by St.Paul’s Catholic Church and was established to help repair the homes of needy families in the Mission area. The project is a weeklong event that will take place June 23-29. This event is a life-changing experience for youth and adults alike. Team members will be asked to perform such tasks as building walls, sheet rocking, constructing steps, hanging doors, and painting. YouthLeader: A Five-Day youth leadership training program Courtesy photo The Valley Catholic The Office of Youth Ministry has a full schedule for July. In this file photo, youths spend time in prayer during a retreat in Weslaco. YouthLeader scheduled July 23-27 offers a Monday through Friday leadership experience in a summer camp setting. YouthLeader focuses on helping young people learn skills, gain insight into Christian leadership, and connect their values to their leadership roles. The cost for YouthLeader is $100 per person. This cost includes the program content, meals and lodging at Cone Oasis Baptist Camp in La Feria. Parishes are encouraged to send at least one to two youth and at least one adult to represent their church. YouthServe: A Young Adolescent Adventure in Christian Service YouthServe, a service-learning program designed for teams of adults and young adolescents in the 7th and 8th grades in Catholic parishes and schools, will be offered July 13-14. Teams must include one adult for every five youth. The adult can be a youth minister, teacher, junior high catechist or involved parent. As with any ministry to youth, the three goals for the summer programs align with those in Renewing the Vision: A Framework for Catholic Youth Ministry: •To empower young people to live as disciples of Jesus Christ in our world today. •To draw young people to responsible participation in the life, mission and work of the Catholic faith community. •To foster the total personal and spiritual growth of each young person. For more information about specific programs please contact the Office of Youth Ministry at (956) 781-5323. You can also email Angel Barrera at [email protected] with any questions or visit the webpage at http:// cdobym.org for more information. The St. Anthony Catholic School Eagles Varsity softball team completed an undefeated season and finished in 1st place among private schools in the Valley for Valley Interscholastic Association (VISA) competition. St. Anthony team members are, from left, front row: Mathew Vasquez, Luis Daniel Muñoz, Jeremiah Gonzalez, Matthew Swartz, and John Ramirez; middle row: Aniza Lazo, Mariel Calara, Andres Ibarra, Al Castillo, Gerard Cardenas, and Arvin Noble; back row: St. Anthony Assistant Coaches Greg Rustico and Adam Barajas (Alliance for Catholic Education teachers at St. Anthony’s, from the University of Notre Dame), and Head Coach Manuel De La Cerda. Mexican Consulate donates books to Juan Diego Academy Courtesy photo Juan Diego Academy received more than 70 boxes of Spanish language readers, resource books, and novels for use by students in developing their Spanish language proficiency. Students will have access to the books through both the school library, and their Spanish classroom. The selections include everything from basic readers for beginning language students to complex literature for advanced students. Officials from the Mexican Consulate in McAllen attended a ceremony at Juan Diego Academy on May 9 to officially present the books to the school. Juan Diego Academy is a Catholic high school located near La Lomita in Mission. The school is accepting both freshmen and sophomores for the 2012-2013 school year. For more information, call (956) 583-2752 or visit JuanDiegoAcademy.org. Sister Clara Amelia Pineda April 13, 1921 – April 19, 2012 The Valley Catholic ALAMO — Sister Clara Amelia Pineda, of the religious community Misioneras Eucaristicas Franciscanas (Missionary Eucharistic Franciscans), died Thursday, April 19, 2012 at McAllen Nursing Center. She was 91. Sister Pineda was born in Zirandaro, Guerrero, Mexico and was the youngest of 14 children. She entered religious life on April 13, 1946 and was instructor of novices of the religious congregation. She joined the Diocese of Brownsville in 1980 and served parishes in La Feria, Harlingen and Alamo. While in Harlingen she founded the Missionary Auxiliary Eucharistic Franciscans (MAEF), and visited the sick in hospitals and at home. She was an Extra-ordinary Minister of Holy Communion and was actively involved in comunidades de base. She was preceded in death by her parents, Pedro Pineda and Altagracia Pineda; six brothers; and seven sisters. Sister Pineda is survived by her fellow religious sisters at the Alamo convent, Sister Maria Inez Trejo, Sister Ana Maria de la Torre and Sister Margarita Vargas. A rosary was held Friday, April 20, 2012, at Memorial Funeral Home in San Juan. Funeral Mass was celebrated April 21, 2012, at Resurrection Catholic Church in Alamo with interment at St. Joseph Cemetery in Alamo. 8 DIOCESE The Valley Catholic - June 2012 Class of 2012 Oratory Athenaeum motto: “Ex Umbris Et Imaginibus Ad Lucem” The Valley Catholic congratulates the 190 graduating seniors of the two Catholic high schools in the Diocese of Brownsville with senior classes. The Oratory Athenaeum for University Preparation of Pharr will graduate 51 students at its commencement ceremonies on June 1 at the Student Union Auditorium at the University of Texas-Pan American in Edinburg. Valedictorian is Antonio Jose Vielma (pictured, left). St. Joseph Academy in Brownsville graduated 139 students in its Class of 2012. Commencement exercises were held on May 23 at the Jacob Brown Auditorium in Brownsville. Valedictorian is Angelica Carrillo and Salutatorian is Duncan Sudarshan (pictured, right.) Graduates from St. Joseph Academy earned almost $10 million in merit scholarships. Both Catholic high schools have 100% graduation, college acceptance rates St. Joseph Academy motto: “Ad Astra, Per Astra” Courtesy Photos DIOCESE June 2012 - The Valley Catholic Those Who Serve: Father Gregory T. Labus 9 »Birthday Wishes The list of birthdays and ordination anniversaries is provided so that parishioners may remember the priests, deacons and religious in their prayers and send them a note or a card. JUNE » Birthdays Priest returns to home parish, alma mater Home Again By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic E DINBURG — Father Gregory T. Labus attended St. Joseph Catholic School in Edinburg for eight years, from kindergarten until he graduated from the eighth grade in 1970. He was also a parishioner at St. Joseph Church from birth until he graduated from Edinburg High School. “I grew up in this parish,” he said. “I was an altar server here, I was in the choir, I played the organ here.” On May 18, Father Labus returned to St. Joseph as pastor of the parish and school. “Did I ever imagine that I would be returning here as pastor?” he said. “Absolutely not. Never, in my wildest dreams.” In an interview conducted from the principal’s office, Father Labus commented on how much the school has changed and grown. “The school was run by the Holy Ghost Sisters, now the Sisters of the Holy Spirit and Mary Immaculate,” he said. “But this was the principal’s office, even back then.” Father Labus, 56, is the first new pastor at St. Joseph Parish and School in more than 16 years. Msgr. Robert Maher was the pastor there from Nov. 16, 1995 until his death on Feb. 29. “Msgr. Maher obviously laid a very fine foundation in the faith here at St. Joseph and I want to Courtesy Photos Father Gregory T. Labus began his service as pastor of St. Joseph Church and School on May 18. In the family photos above, from left: the day of his First Holy Communion on Dec. 8, 1963, outside of St. Joseph School in Edinburg; center: on his 11th birthday; and right: as an altar server with his siblings Cynthia Brandt, Joe Labus and Joan McDonald. continue to build on that foundation,” said Father Labus, who also serves as the director of the Office of Liturgy & Worship for the diocese. Father Labus was ordained a priest for service in the Diocese of Brownsville on May 27, 2006. He was serving as associate director of music at the Corpus Christi Cathedral when God called him to the priesthood. Father Labus had considered the priesthood before but the call was more intense and enduring than ever. “It was before the Jubilee Year (2000),” said Father Labus, a composer, organist and pianist. “We were planning a bunch of activities at the cathedral and the thought came to me again. What really triggered it was that I had read, Witness to Hope — Pope John Paul II’s biography — and that is what really pushed me over the edge.” Father Labus was at a priest ordination, sitting opposite of a stained glass window depicting Holy Orders, when he had a defining moment about becoming a priest. “I remember thinking to myself, ‘All right, you win, I’m going to do it,’” he said. The next question was where he would serve. In the Diocese of Corpus Christi, where he had lived and served as a music minister for 17 years or in his home diocese? “So I had to discern and pray about it and blood is thicker than water,” he said, “All my family is here. My friends were not happy in Corpus Christi, but it became clear that this is where I need to be.” Father Labus served as assistant to the rector at the Basilica of Our Lady of San Juan del ValleNational Shrine, parochial vicar of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Harlingen, parish administrator of St. Mary Church in Santa Rosa and pastor of Our Mother of Mercy Church in Mercedes before being assigned to St. » Please see Father Labus, p.15 Consecration to Jesus through Mary classes begin July 9 The Valley Catholic Classes for Total Consecration to Jesus through Mary begin the week of July 9 at parishes in Harlingen, Mercedes, McAllen and Mission. Real Men Pray the Rosary (RMPTR) has teamed up with experienced consecration leaders who will coordinate classes throughout the Rio Grande Valley to the Marian devotion known as “Total Consecration” according to the writings of St. Louis de Mont- fort. Parishes who will be hosting the classes include St. Pius X Church in Weslaco, Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Harlingen, Our Lady of Mercy Church in Mercedes, Our Lady of Sorrows Church, Holy Spirit Church and St. Joseph the Worker Church in McAllen and St. Paul Church in Mission. The 33-day preparation process will culminate on Aug. 15, the Marian Feast day of The Feast of the Assumption. A communal Mass of Consecration will be held at 2 p.m. on Sunday, Aug. 19 at San Martin de Porres Catholic Church in Weslaco. Montfort Priest, Father Hugh Gillespie, SMM from New York, will celebrate the Mass. David and Valerie Calvillo, founders of RMPTR, along with many others, have gone through the consecration process together as a couple and find that it has strengthened their marriage and family. “We encourage individuals, couples and families to join the classes to learn about and experience True Devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary,” David Calvillo said. He added, “This is for those who wish to consecrate themselves for the first time or renew their consecration.” For additional information call (956) 664-1000, email valerie@ rmptr.org, or visit realmenpraytherosary.org. Information about Total Consecration devotion is also available on www.montfortspirituality.org and www.montfortmissionaries.org. 2 Rev. Michael Gnanaraj 3 Rev. Issac Erondu 8 Rev. Armando Escobedo-Retired 13 Rev. Felix Casarez 22 Rev. Albert Trevino 27 Rev. Fernando Gonzalez 28 Rev. Msgr. Pedro Briseno 29 Rev. Lee Dacosta 11 Deacon Ruben Lopez 23 Deacon Antonio M. Arteaga » Anniversaries 3 Rev. Jose Villalon 4 Rev. Joaquin Zermeño 4 Rev. Manuel Alfredo Razo 5 Rev. Leo Francis Daniels 5 Rev. Msgr. Pat Doherty - Retired 6 Rev. Armando Escobedo-Retired 7 Rev. Eusebio Martinez 7 Rev. Felix Casarez 7 Rev. William Penderghest 8 Rev. Craig Carolan 8 Rev. Edouard Atangana 8 Rev. Jean Olivier M. Sambu 16 Rev. Lawrence J. Klein 16 Rev. Richard L. Lifrak 21 Rev. Eduardo Villa 22 Rev. Efiri Matthias Selembri 28 Rev. Msgr. Pedro Briseno 29 Rev. Fernando Gonzalez 30 Rev. Rigobert Poulang Mot 6 Deacon Guillermo G. Castañeda Jr. 18 Deacon Gilberto Perez 27 Deacon Jesus Reyes July » Birthdays 2 Rev. Genaro Henriquez 4 Rev. Jose Luis Garcia 4 Rev. Gabriel Ezeh 8 Rev. Juan Pablo Davalos 9 Rev. Emmanuel Bialonik 18 Rev. Ernesto Magallon 19 Rev. Joaquin Zermeno 20 Rev. Amador Garza 21 Rev. Francisco Castillo 22 Rev. Terrence Gorski 27 Rev. Jose R. Torres, III 29 Rev. Richard Philion 2 Deacon Jose Luis Mendoza 3 Deacon Armandi Villarreal 6 Deacon Nicolas E. Trujillo 10 Deacon Augusto Chapa, Jr. 10 Deacon Rodolfo C. Salinas 17 Deacon Gilbert Guardiola, Jr 19 Deacon Peter Requeñez 23 Deacon Rene Villalon 1 Sister Norma Pimentel, MJ 1 Sister Maureen Crosby, SSD 31 Sister Ninfa Garza, MJ » Anniversaries 5 Rev. Julian Becerril 9 Rev. Horacio Chavarria » Please see Anniversaries, p.15 10 IN THE NEWS Pope outlines power of the Holy Spirit in prayer CNA/EWTN News VATICAN CITY — Pope Benedict XVI says Christians should avail themselves to the Holy Spirit in prayer – particularly when they cannot find the words or inspiration to pray. “St. Paul teaches us that in our prayer we must open ourselves to the presence and action of the Holy Spirit, who prays in us with inexpressible groanings, to bring us to adhere to God with our whole heart and with all our being,” the Pope said May 16. “The Spirit of Christ becomes the strength of our ‘weak’ prayer, the light of our ‘dimmed’ prayer, the focus of our ‘dry’ prayer, giving us true inner freedom, teaching us to live by facing our trials, in the certainty we are not alone.” Continuing his weekly catechesis on Christian prayer, Pope Benedict XVI used this week’s General Audience to explore the theme of prayer in the Letters of St. Paul, the Apostle to the Gentiles, in the New Testament. He told over 11,000 pilgrims in St. Peter’s Square to take on board the advice of St. Paul to turn to the Holy Spirit when “we want to pray, but God is far away, we do not have the words, the language to talk with God, not even the thought.” It is then, said the Pope, that “we can only open ourselves up, make time available for God” knowing that this mere desire to get in touch with God “is prayer that the Holy Spirit not only understands, but it brings, interprets before God.” “In prayer we experience, more than in other dimensions of existence, our weakness, our poverty, our being creatures, because we are faced with the omnipotence and transcendence of God,” said Pope Benedict. The Valley Catholic - June 2012 We are family Pope to give Catholic families hope in troubled times By CAROL GLATZ Catholic News Service VATICAN CITY — Pope Benedict XVI will meet with the world’s families at a time when the institution of the family is under threat and many are still struggling with a worldwide economic crisis and a lack of cultural and societal support. As a sign of his deep concern for bolstering the family based on the lifelong union between a man and a woman, the pope will travel to Milan to meet with those attending the May 30-June 3 World Meeting of Families. The pope will arrive June 1 and will close the event with an outdoor Mass. His three-day visit is an extraordinary sign of how much the pope wants to reaffirm the importance of families built on Christian values, Bishop Jean Laffitte, secretary of the Pontifical Council for the Family, told Catholic News Service. “It’s as if the pope wants to say ‘I am giving the maximum importance to what you families live out and I want to be near you; I believe in what you are experiencing and want to renew this hope,’” the bishop said. The Milan gathering will be the second world family meeting that Pope Benedict has attended in his pontificate. The meetings, held every three years, are hosted by different dioceses around the world and are sponsored by the Vatican’s council for the family as a way for families to meet, discuss critical issues and grow in the faith. CNS photo/Mic Smith The Tuncap family of Charleston, S.C., is hoping to catch a ride on a military cargo flight to attend the World Meeting of Families May 30-June 3 in Milan, Italy. Pope Benedict XVI will celebrate the closing Mass of the Catholic gathering, which has been held every three years since 1997. Allen and Janell Tuncap are pictured at a park in Charleston with their children, clockwise from top left: Aveah, 6; Tobey, 3; Ethan, 10; Madden, 6 months, and Elyjah, 2. Even though the pope missed the sixth world meeting in Mexico City in 2009, he has always been a vocal advocate of families. Almost all of his speeches to visiting diplomats, heads of state and the world’s bishops address the need for governments and the church to support this fundamental building block of society. It’s the family where future generations are formed to be members of a constructive, generous, hopeful and peaceful world, the pope has said. The pope’s message “will certainly be a message of hope, that, yes, it is worthwhile to live the fullness of the meaning of the family” as God designed and intended, as an indissoluble union between a man and a woman, Bishop Laffitte said. The pope will meet with young people at San Siro Stadium, attend an evening celebration where he will hear people’s testimonies of faith, lead a Sunday morning out- door Mass and have lunch with event organizers and families. He will pray with priests and religious at Milan’s Duomo cathedral and venerate the relics of St. Charles Borromeo, patron saint of catechists, seminarians, learning and the arts, and co-patron saint of Milan. The pope will also attend a concert held in his honor at the La Scala opera house, featuring Beethoven’s 9th Symphony conducted by Daniel Barenboim. The pope will have a chance to get his message out to the wider world when he meets with the people of Milan and civilian authorities. It may be an opportunity for him to weigh in on a major issue facing states in different parts of the world: the ongoing push to legalize or recognize same-sex unions and marriage. The pope has repeatedly called on governments to respect and defend the traditional definition of marriage and urged the church to promote the natural order in the institution of the family. Marriage between a man and a woman “is not a simple social convention,” the pope told the world’s ambassadors to the Vatican this year. The family is the basic unit of society and “policies which undermine the family threaten human dignity and the future of humanity itself,” he said. The pope’s approach has been to win over people’s hearts and minds, in part by having Catholics themselves serve as credible witnesses to the joy and love that come from living in accordance with natural law. The church needs to help people discover that its teaching not only makes sense, but also protects human dignity and creates a stable society, he has said. In fact, on his way to his first World Meeting of Families in Valencia, Spain, the pope told reporters he was more interested in highlighting what works and makes families thrive than in lambasting opponents. He said that stressing what is positive about Christian living can help people see “why the church cannot accept certain things, but at the same time wants to respect people and help them.” Bishop Laffitte agreed that the church always tries its best to explain its position and to reach out with pastoral concern to people of good will, even if they cannot or do not want to live a life founded on natural law. However, he said, when it comes to people who are openly hostile to the church’s contribution and propose changing laws in regard to the traditional definition of marriage, then the church must “be very precise, firm and strong in reiterating the principles” of natural law. June 2012 - The Valley Catholic L TV: Amiga y enemiga a Conferencia Católica en Estados Unidos del Comité para las Comunicaciones en Washington D.C. publicó la “Guía familiar para usar los medios de comunicacion.” En ella señalan: “El Segundo Concejo Vaticano llamó a los medios de comunicación “maravillas” y “regalos” de Dios, pero también reconoció que estos regalos pueden ser bendiciones mixtas, dependiendo en cómo son usadas. El impacto de los medios sigue creciendo, mientras las redes de computación y el internet aporten un poderoso y fácil acceso a las formas familiares de comunicación- escrita, televisión, radio, cine, video, teléfono y servicios de cable.” La TV y todas las otras formas mediáticas pueden ser tanto amigas como enemigas. Las formas rápidas de comunicación nos permiten recibir información importante que impacta nuestras vidas, así como informarnos de un desastre natural cercano o información que pueda ayudar a las familias a encontrar asistencia para las necesidades inmediatas después de un desastre. Muchos de nosotros usamos la TV, internet u otros medios sociales a manera recreativa y de relajación. De acuerdo con un reciente estudio por el departamento de comunicaciones de la Universidad de Pennsylvania, los niños en los Estados Unidos están siendo expuestos a casi cuatro horas de televisión de fondo a diario, y hay una fuerte correlación entre ver TV y el bajo desempeño en labores cognitivas y de lectura. Otro estudio encuentra que 20 por ciento de los niños en tercer año tienen celulares y 90 por ciento están en línea mientras que 83 por ciento de los niños en secundaria tienen celulares. Una encuesta hecha por la Iglesia encontró que “63 por ciento de todos los estudiantes dicen que han intercambiado mensajes todos los días con las personas en sus vidas, incluyendo sus padres.” La televisión todavía es el pasatiempo numero uno de América, con un promedio de cuatro horas y 39 minutos consumidos por cada persona todos los días. Los autores de la empresa de investigaciones eMarketer dijeron que entre TV y dispositivos móviles, el tiempo total utilizado en los medios resulta ser 693 minutos al día lo que se traduce a 11 horas. No hay duda que los mensajes, ya sea positivos o negativos, que recibimos a través de cualquiera de estas formas de comunicación tienen un impacto en cómo vemos el mundo, cómo formamos nuestros valores, cómo hacemos decisiones, y cómo nos tratamos unos a otros. Tal vez la pregunta que nos tenemos que hacer como miembros de familia es “¿Cuántos minutos al día pasamos compartiendo nuestros valores con los demás, especialmente niños, jóvenes y Lydia Pesina Directora, Oficina de Vida Familiar adultos jóvenes?” Te animo a que escribas ese número (de minutos) y lo compares con el antes mencionado de 693 minutos. Yo creo que uno de los retos para nosotros es el encontrar formas de sistemáticamente articular y compartir nuestros valores evangélicos. Tal vez esto puede lograrse a través de las comidas familiares (sin TV, teléfonos, etc.) a través de la oración familiar diaria y/o la fe compartida, lectura en la noche o el intercambio de libros y al hacer preguntas mientras ven la televisión o están viendo algo en línea. He llamado a esta columna mensual “Las Series para Recordar” porque en realidad creo que uno de nuestros mayores papeles en la vida es el recordarnos mutuamente sobre lo que es realmente importante para poder vivir nuestras vidas como nuestro Padre Celestial nos ha dispuesto hacer. Yo creo que Dios ha escrito en nuestros corazones todo lo que necesitamos para ser las mejores personas que Él nos ha creado para ser y para ayudar a construir su Reino aquí en la tierra; pero tenemos que recordarnos esas verdades unos a otros. De algún modo nosotros somos los “comerciales” que anuncian las Buenas Nuevas. Así como recordamos algún producto que habíamos olvidado que necesitábamos o deseábamos hasta que vemos o escuchamos el anuncio; así necesitamos recordarnos unos a otros de lo que es realmente importante. Si no reducimos el numero de minutos que pasamos en los medios e incrementamos el numero de minutos unos con otros; ojo con ojo, nariz con nariz, especialmente con nuestros niños y jóvenes, entonces no podemos culpar a los medios por ser los educadores primordiales de valores para nuestros hijos y estamos delejando nuestra responsabilidad como maestros y ejemplo a seguir. Cuando nuestra hija, ahora adulta joven, estaba en la escuela hasta 8º grado, nuestra TV se mantenía apagada de lunes a jueves. Esta era nuestra regla familiar y cada familia crea sus propias reglas y rituales. Una sugerencia de familia es el apagar la TV por una noche a la semana y reemplazarlo con tiempo familiar o noche de juego (no Ipad, no celular, no teléfono; solamente conversación y/o silencio). Hay un filósofo que señala que “la cultura es como el agua en la que nada el pez.” Nuestros niños y juventud solamente saben lo que les rodea. ¿En qué tipo de agua están nadando? NOTICIAS EN ESPAÑOL 11 Criando a una familia Padre soltero único padre en celebración a Mamá Por ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic W ESLACO — Francisco Díaz asistió recientemente al evento Panecitos con Mamá en la escuela primaria de su hija en honor al día de las madres. Como siempre, él fue el único padre presente entre un mar de mamás. Por los últimos cuatro años, Díaz ha desempeñado el papel de madre y padre desde que su esposa, Margarita, murió de una hemorragia intracerebral a la edad de 37. “Mi corazón se hunde cada año cuando la escuela manda la carta para el evento Panecillos con Mamá,” dice Díaz, padre de cinco. “Me duele, pero tengo que mantener la cabeza en alto por mis hijos. Así que asisto cada año para comerme el panecillo y tomarme la tacita de jugo.” Díaz, 43, es uno de los estimados 2.3 millones de hombres guiando un hogar con un solo padre en Estados Unidos, de acuerdo con las estadísticas del Censo. Mientras las mujeres cuentan con la mayoría de hogares de madres solteras (82.6 por ciento), los hogares de padres solteros están creciendo como situaciones familiares, con un incremento de 60 por ciento en los últimos 10 años. Dos de los hijos adultos de Díaz, un hijo y una hija, se casaron y dejaron el nido. Christian, 16, Samantha, 13 y Erika, 11, continúan en la casa. La familia Díaz sigue una rutina diaria que incluye quehaceres para todos. Después de hacer el desayudo y mandar a sus hijos a la escuela, Díaz va a trabajar. Su fuente primaria de ingreso es vender artículos en el mercado local. También ha hecho otros trabajos. “Tengo que haber terminado de trabajar para cuando salen los niños de la escuela,” dice Díaz. “Ellos son mi prioridad.” Díaz era un padre involucrado y atento desde antes de la muerte de su esposa, dice su hija Samantha, 13, pero ahora lo es más. “Es un buen hombre y un gran padre,” dijo Samantha Díaz. “Siempre ha estado ahí para nosotros pero ahora nos pone aun más atención. Nos dice, ‘si necesitan algo, si necesitan hablar de cualquier cosa, díganme. Soy su mamá y su papá.” Samantha Díaz añadió que su padre les habla de manera franca, abierta y honesta sobre todo, incluso, “cosas de niñas.” “Él quiere saber qué es lo que está pasando en nuestras vidas,” dijo ella. “Nos protege mucho. Quiere saber con quién estamos y The Valley Catholic Francisco Díaz, der., ha fungido como padre y madre de sus hijos durante cuatro años. En la imágen, sus hijos Erika, 11, Christian, 16 y Samantha, 13. qué estamos haciendo.” Hoy en día, Díaz maneja su casa con facilidad, pero eso no fue siempre el caso. “A principio fue una transición difícil,” el dijo. “Mi esposa fue tan maravillosa. Hizo un gran trabajo con los niños, un gran trabajo manteniendo todo en orden. He podido encargarme de mi familia pero no es fácil. Incluso ahora, tengo días en los que me siento tan abrumado, días en los que lloro y lloro cuando estoy solo.” Díaz fue a la oficina Caridades Católicas del Valle del Rio Grande en San Juan para pedir ayuda para pagar su cuenta de electricidad el 26 de abril. “Mi primera impresión fue que es un buen padre,” dijo Yesenia Guzmán, una trabajadora social en las Caridades Católicas del Valle del Rio Grande. “Menciono que su madre le ofrece hacerse cargo de sus hijos cuando va a trabajar al mercado los fines de semana, pero prefiere tenerlos con él. Con forme hablábamos mas, supe que él y sus hijos han pasado por muchas cosas. Me rompe el corazón. … Es raro para nosotros ver a un padre soltero pero es bueno saber que hay padres como él en el mundo.” El mundo de la familia Díaz se volteó por completo cuando Margarita, aparentemente saludable, sufrió una hemorragia. Ella sobrevivió la operación pero los doctores le dijeron a Díaz que tenía muerte cerebral y que no podían hacer nada más. Díaz dijo que fue muy difícil dejar ir al amor de su infancia y de su vida. Ella tenía 14 y el 15 cuando empezaron a enamorarse. “Estuvo en el hospital por algún tiempo,” dijo él. “Yo no la quería dejar ir. Los doctores le dieron transfusiones de sangre; intentaron darle hipotermia terapéutica para bajar su temperatura…” Mientras tanto, los doctores presionaban a Díaz para que retiraran el soporte artificial. Díaz dice que le pidió y rogó a Dios, pidiéndole al Señor que mejor se lo llevara a él. “Ella es su madre, nuestros hijos la necesitan a ella más que a mí,” recuerda haberle dicho a Dios. Un día, mientras rezaba en la parroquia del hospital, Díaz se puso de rodillas y con lágrimas le dio su esposa a Dios. “Finalmente me entregue a la voluntad de Dios,” dijo él. A Díaz le reconforta saber que Margarita dio su vida para otros, incluyendo un niño de 13 años, ya que sus fueron donados. Con forme pasa el tiempo, Díaz dice que extraña a Margarita mas y mas, especialmente cuando sus hijos celebran momentos importantes. Los recuerdos del tiempo que pasaron juntos y la promesa de verla de nuevo algún día, dijo, son lo que lo hacen seguir. “Cuando huelo su perfume o escucho una canción que me recuerda a ella, me pone una sonrisa en el rostro,” dijo. “Siento que está conmigo… Camino con el Señor todos los días porque quiero irme al cielo para verla de nuevo.” 12 NOTICIAS EN ESPAÑOL Protegiendo a los niños de Dios Por ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic El Programa de Protección para los Niños de Dios en la Diócesis de Brownsville celebra su décimo aniversario en junio 2012. Desde su comienzo, el Programa de Protección para los Niños de Dios, el cual empezó en el 2002 como respuesta al escándalo nacional sobre el abuso, ha evolucionado a un programa donde los protocolos son establecidos para proteger a los niños de todos los predadores sexuales dado a que la maldad del abuso sexual no habita solamente en la iglesia. “El programa ha creado conciencia de parte de los maestros de educación religiosa, más conciencia de parte de los niños y de parte de los padres,” según Walter Lukaszek, coordinador del Programa de Protección para los Niños de Dios para la diócesis. “Está muy claro que si cualquier persona es tocado/a de alguna manera que lo/la haga sentir incomodo, deben reportarlo. “ El Obispo Raymundo J. Peña nombro a Lukaszek, un trabajador social con licencia y 27 años de experiencia en los Servicios de Protección para Menores, como coordinador de asistencia para victimas. Lukaszek como vínculo para las víctimas de abuso sexual por cleros o empleados diocesanos. “El rol del coordinador para la asistencia de victimas es el escuchar a las víctimas, explicarles que no es su culpa y que la Iglesia está allí para ayudarles sanar,” según Luzkaszek. Lukaszek dijo que hubo un número de individuos que reportaron abuso sexual en el 2002, 2003 y 2004, estos reportes fueron de personas de veinte años o mayores. “No han habido individuos con casos creíbles de abuso sexual por el clero desde entonces, lo cual es una bendición, dijo Lukaszek. Un programa de seguridad ambiental fue establecido en la Diócesis de Brownsville en el 2003 para adultos y niños para prevenir y parar el abuso sexual de menores. Cualquier persona de 18 años o mayor que trabaja con niños en la Diócesis, tal como maestros de educación religiosa, líderes o ministros de jóvenes, son requeridos someterse a una verificación de antecedentes, llevar a cabo el programa de Protección para los Niños de Dios y firmar un código de ética para una conducta responsable en el ministro. El programa incluye una serie de DVD de dos partes. La primer parte enseña testimonios de niños que han sido abusados que hablan sobre su sufrimiento y el porqué no habían querido hablar. También enseñan a predadores que hablan sobre cómo se acercan a su víctima y obtienen su confianza. “Los predadores no tienen conciencia, ni remordimiento,” dijo Lukaszek. “La única manera que podemos proteger a los niños es manteniendo ese tipo de gente lejos de nuestros niños.” La segunda parte del programa subraya cinco pasos para proteger a niños del abuso sexual. Más de 12,000 adultos en la diócesis han completado el entrenamiento de Protección para los Niños de Dios. Los estudiantes en las clases de educación religiosa, desde kínder a doceavo grado, llevan a cabo un conmovedor programa de seguridad adecuado a su edad cada año. “La conmovedora sesión de seguridad es muy importante y útil para los niños,” dijo Oscar Dayaon, director de educación religiosa de la Iglesia San Martín de Porres en Weslaco. “Les enseña como protegerse y como decir ‘no’ si se llegaran a encontrar en esa predicamento.” El programa anima a que los niños reporten los abusos sexuales a un adulto de confianza. Los padres de los estudiantes de la Primera Santa Comunión y Confirmación también son invitados a formar parte de las sesiones informacionales de cómo mantener a sus hijos a salvo de predadores. “A los padres, les abre los ojos de que esto es un problema y que es algo en que tenemos que tener mucho cuidado,” dijo Mary Kyser, directora de la educación religiosa en Iglesia de San Antonio en Harlingen. “Le enseña a los niños y padres a tener más cuidado, no sólo en el territorio de la iglesia, sino también en su vecindad, internet, escuela, conciertos, la playa y cualquier otro lugar. Kyser mencionó que en años recientes, las pautas de seguridad de internet también han sido incluidas en el programa. “Los predadores en internet también son otro peligro para la seguridad de nuestros niños,” dijo ella. “Tenemos que educarnos sobre el internet para mantener a nuestros niños a salvo.” Desde que los protocolos de seguridad fueron implementados en la diócesis, Lukaszek dijo que recibe de 10 a 12 reportes al año de niños que están siendo abusados sexualmente en sus hogares. “Nuestro mensaje para los niños que hacen estos reportes es, ‘Confió que tu y yo te daremos ayuda.’” Lukaszek también es responsable de compilar el reporte anual para la Conferencia de Obispos Católicos en E.E.U.U (USCCB) Secretaria de Protección de Niños y Jóvenes. Un proceso de auditoría es usado para determinar si la diócesis está implementando las prácticas requerido por el Estatuto para la Protección de Niños y Jóvenes. El estatuto es un set de procedimientos comprensivos establecidos por el USCCB en Junio 2002, el cual incluye lineamientos para la reconciliación, alivio, responsabilidad y prevención para futuros actos de abuso. Lukaszek confía de que la mejor manera para prevenir el abuso sexual de menores es el mantener programas como Protegiendo a los Niños de Dios y el tener conversaciones frecuentes sobre la seguridad con nuestros niños en casa. “Si no es algo continuo, empezara a quedarse en el olvido,” dijo él. “Veo mi rol en mantener esta red de seguridad firme para que así sepan nuestros niños que los vamos proteger de cualquier daño.” The Valley Catholic - June 2012 La Fiesta del Corpus Celebramos al misterio de la verdadera y real presencia del Señor Jesús dentro de su Iglesia The Valley Catholic La solemnidad del Santísimo Cuerpo y Sangre de Cristo también se conoce como la Fiesta del Corpus, lo que se traduce al latín como “Cuerpo de Cristo.” Esta celebración se origino en Francia a mediados del siglo trece y se extendió a toda la Iglesia por el Papa Urban IV en 1264. Esta celebración tiene lugar el jueves después del Sábado de la Trinidad, o como en los Estados Unidos, el domingo seguido de la celebración. Esta celebración nos llama a enfocarnos en dos manifestaciones del Cuerpo de Cristo, la Santa Eucaristía y la Iglesia. El propósito principal de esta celebración es enfocar la atención en la Eucaristía. La oración de entrada en la Misa llama nuestra atención al sufrimiento y muerte de Jesús y nuestra adoración hacia a Él, especialmente en la Eucaristía. En cada Misa nuestra atención es dirigida hacia la Eucaristía y la Presencia Real de Cristo en ella. El enfoque secundario es el festejo del cuerpo presente de Cristo en la Iglesia. La Iglesia lo llamó Cuerpo de Cristo por la cercana comunión que Jesús comparte con sus discípulos. Él la expresa en los evangelios al The Valley Catholic El día del Corpus que se celebra este año el 10 de junio el Obispo Daniel E. Flores encabezara una procesión por las calles de Brownsville y celebrara una Misa en la Catedral de la Inmaculada Concepción a las 6 p.m. usar la metáfora de un cuerpo en el cual Él es la cabeza. Esta imagen nos ayuda a mantener el enfoque en la unidad y la diversidad de la Iglesia. La celebración del Corpus es usada comúnmente como una oportunidad para procesiones Eucarísticas públicas, las cuales sirven como un símbolo de fe en común y adoración. Nuestra alabanza a Jesús en Su Cuerpo y Sangre nos llama a ofrecer a Dios nuestro Padre un juramento de amor integro y nuestra ofrenda al servicio de los demás. Algunos mensajeros de esperanza y paz todavía se enfrentan a persecuciones, dice el Papa Por Catholic News Service CIUDAD DEL VATICANO – Algunas personas que difunden el Evangelio todavía se ven sujetas a persecuciones, a pesar de que llevan un mensaje de paz y esperanza a un mundo marcado por crisis, ansiedad y desesperación, dijo el papa Benedicto XVI. “Sin embargo, a pesar de problemas y realidades trágicas de persecuciones, la iglesia no se desanima y permanece fiel al mandato del Señor”, a sabiendas que los que presentan testimonio y son mártires siempre han sido numerosos e indispensables para la evangelización, dijo. El Papa habló el 11 de mayo ante funcionarios de las Socie- dades de Misiones Pontificias que se reunieron en Roma. El mensaje de Cristo “nunca se rinde ante la forma de interpretación hecha por el mundo, pues está compuesto de profecía y de liberación; es la semilla de una nueva humanidad que aumenta; y solamente al final de los tiempos llegará a su completa realización”, dijo el Papa. NOTICIAS EN ESPAÑOL 13 June 2012 - The Valley Catholic Misa ofrecida a los migrantes Especial para The Valley Catholic La parroquia La Resurrección en la ciudad de Álamo celebro una Misa el 29 de abril en honor a todos los migrantes que trabajan en la labor en diferentes regiones del país. Esta Misa se llevo a cabo para despedir a todas aquellas personas que durante la temporada del invierno y la primavera vinieron al Valle de Texas a trabajar en la recolección de frutas v vegetales como la cebolla, pepino, chile jalapeño, naranja, toronja, repollo y lechuga; que día a día son consumidas en nuestra nación. Sin embargo, ya les ha llegado el momento de partir a otros lugares del norte de los Estados Unidos como California, Michigan, Idaho, Washington, entre otros; en busca de nuevos trabajos, y es por ello que nuestra iglesia ha celebrado esta misa para encomendarle a nuestro Señor la protección y la ayuda que todas estas personas en su mayorías familias enteras necesitan por el gran trabajo que realizan. Para llevar a cabo esta Eucaristía, la organización y la participación de la comunidad fue resaltante y excelente. Durante de la celebración de la Misa, se resaltaron varios momentos importante como la danza de matachines “Guadalupana,” quienes después de la bendición del padre al iniciar la Misa ofrecieron su música y Protecting, continued from pg. 1 teachers, scout leaders and youth ministers, is required to submit to a background check, undergo the Protecting God’s Children program and sign the code of ethics for responsible conduct in ministry. The program includes a twopart DVD series. The first part fea- Foto de cortesía Durante una Misa en la Iglesia Resurrección en honor a todos los migrantes, parejas de matrimonios de la comunidad ofrendaron además del pan y el vino, canastas de frutas y verduras como representación de lo que los migrantes recolectan durante su trabajo en las labores. baile a nuestra Señora la Virgen de Guadalupe como señal de amor y agradecimiento por su divina intercesión ante nuestro Señor. Seguidamente, al momento de las ofrendas, el coro de la Iglesia interpreto la Danza del Ofertorio, con la cual parejas de matrimonios de la comunidad ofrendaron además del pan y el vino, canastas de frutas y verduras como representación de los que nuestros migrantes recolectan durante su trabajo en las labores. Después de la bendición final el padre Emmanuel Bialoncik bendi- jo todas las llaves de los carros de todas las personas migrantes y de la comunidad. Por todo esto, la parroquia Resurrección se siente muy orgullosa de contar con tantas personas que sin condición alguna regalan parte de su tiempo a servirle a nuestro Señor uniendo de esta manera a todas la comunidad en el corazón de la Iglesia. Por esta razón, exhortamos a todas las comunidades de la Diócesis de Brownsville a conocer nuestra parroquia y formar parte de una comunidad de Amor y servicio a nuestro Señor Jesucristo. tures testimonials from children who have been abused talking about the pain they have suffered and why they had not talked about it previously. It also features perpetrators who talk about how they target the victim and gain their trust. “The perpetrators have no conscience, no remorse,” Lukaszek said. “The only way we can protect children is to keep those kind of people away from our kids.” The second part of the program outlines five steps to protect children from sexual abuse. More than 12,000 adults in the diocese have completed the Protecting God’s Children training. Students in religious education classes, from kindergarten to 12th grade, complete an age-appropriate touching safety program each school year. “The touching safety session is very important and very helpful for the kids,” said Oscar Dayaon, director of religious education at San Católico dice que nación necesita oración, por lo que crea ‘Rosary for the USA’ Por JOYCE CORONEL Catholic News Service PHOENIX — Mientras Manny Yrique oraba ante el Santísimo Sacramento su corazón estaba cargado de preocupaciones acerca de Estados Unidos y el nivel de la animosidad en el discurso estadounidense. “Me arrodillé a orar y me sentí abrumado por la sensación de que Nuestro Señor quería que rezara el rosario”, dijo Yrique. “Sentí que me decía: ‘Llévaselo a mi madre’”. Él sacó sus cuentas del rosario y mientras comenzaba a orar fue impactado por la consciencia de que cada una de las 50 oraciones Ave María del rosario podían ser ofrecidas por uno de los 50 Estados Unidos. Yrique dijo que siempre ha tenido una fuerte devoción por María. Él recuerda tener 8 años de edad, arrodillado con su hermana de 6 años para rezar el rosario mientras su madre era sometida a cirugía. “No sabíamos si nuestra madre regresaría a casa, así que sacamos nuestros rosarios plásticos, nos arrodillamos ante la estatua de la Virgen de Guadalupe que estaba sobre la cama de mi madre y rezamos un rosario”, dijo Yrique a The Catholic Sun, periódico de la Diócesis de Phoenix. “Fue como ‘nada pasará mientras María esté con ustedes”. Martin de Porres Church in Weslaco. “It teaches them how to protect themselves and how to say ‘no’ if they are ever in that predicament.” The program also encourages children to report sexual abuse to a trusted adult. Parents of First Holy Communion and Confirmation students are also invited to attend informational sessions about keeping their children safe from predators. “For the parents, it really opens their eyes that this is an issue and Yrique dijo que diseñó el Rosario por los Estados Unidos de América a través de la oración, frecuentemente despertando en medio de la noche para componer las intenciones. Él ya ha regalado o vendido 3,000 rosarios de cuentas rojas, blancas y azul y ha ordenado otras 2.000. Él tiene una sede de Internet, www.magnalitecatholic. com/usa_rosary.html. Junto con el rosario las personas pueden ordenar un folleto de oración o una tarjeta de oración que enumera todas las intenciones, así como los nombres de los 50 estados. Cada una de las cinco décadas tiene una intención designada. Las tres primeras décadas son rezadas por las ramas ejecutiva, legislativa y judicial del gobierno. La cuarta década está dedicada a los gobiernos estatales y locales, así como a los policías y los bomberos. La quinta década está dedicada al personal militar estadounidense. La convicción de Yrique sobre el amor de la madre de Dios es algo que él dijo que puede ser explicado parcialmente por la inquebrantable devoción de su propia madre por sus hijos. “Creo que una madre tiene un impacto tremendo en su familia, lo vi en mi madre”, dijo Yrique. “Sabíamos que no nos pasaría nada mientras mamá estuviera allí. that it is something that we need to be very careful about,” said Mary Kyser, director of religious education at St. Anthony Church in Harlingen. “It teaches children and parents to be more aware, not just on the church grounds, but in their neighborhoods, online, at school, at concerts, the beach, everywhere.” Kyser noted that in recent years, Internet safety guidelines have also been included in the program. “Online predators are yet another threat to the safety of our children,” she said. “We have to be educated about the Internet so we can keep our children safe.” Since the safety protocols were implemented in the diocese, Lukaszek said he receives 10-12 reports a year from children being sexually abused at home. “Our message to the children who come forward is, ‘I believe you and I will get you help.’” Lukaszek is also responsible for compiling an annual report for the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) Secretariat of Child and Youth Protection. An audit process is used to determine if a diocese is implementing the practices required by the Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People. The charter is a comprehensive set of procedures established by the USCCB in June 2002, which includes guidelines for reconciliation, healing, accountability, and prevention of future acts of abuse. Lukaszek believes that the best way to prevent child sexual abuse is to keep enforcing programs like Protecting God’s Children and to have regular conversations about safety with our children at home. “If it’s not an ongoing thing, it will start falling off to the wayside,” he said. “I see my role as keeping this safety net in place so that our children know that we will protect them from harm.” 14 DIOCESE The Valley Catholic - June 2012 Movies worth watching or not The Valley Catholic Going to the movies is a favorite summer activity year in and year out but before heading out to the theater, know that there is a credible resource to help Catholics discern whether a movie is worth watching or not. The U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops has been providing movie reviews for almost 100 years. In the past, the reviews came from the National Legion of Decency and the Office for Film and Broadcasting. Today, the reviews are produced by Catholic News Service, which reviews the artistic and moral content of films. Each film is also given a rating. “The films are rated based on what we believe as Catholics is appropriate,” said Tony Spence, director and editor-in-chief for Catholic News Service, in a telephone interview from his Washington, D.C. office. “Generally, the movies we target for review are movies that you will find in your neighborhood Cineplex, movies that people have on their radar, whether they are romantic comedies, action films or dramas.” Catholic News Service especially focuses on films whose target audience is children and teenagers, Spence added. “Parents are the ultimate guides to their children’s media consumption and they want to know if a film is appropriate for their kids to see,” he said. The latest movie reviews from Catholic News Service can be found at www.catholicnews.com/movies The Motion Picture Association of America (MPAA) also provides most films with a rating — G, PG, PG-13, R and NC-17 — but those ratings may not, and often do not, reflect the views of Catholics. “I think that there certainly is a role for a staff of reviewers who, from a specifically Catholic point of CNS photo/ARC Andy Garcia stars in a scene from the movie “For Greater Glory.” Garcia, a Catholic, plays a Mexican Revolution-era general lured out of retirement a decade later to fight his own government’s severe curbing of religious freedoms. view, are looking for what parents would be concerned about and also answering the question, ‘how does this relate to Judeo-Christian faith and values?’” said John Mulderig, a media reviewer for Catholic News Service based in New York City. Mulderig pointed to the 2009 film, “The Invention of Lying” as an example. “This movie had a very strong — certainly the strongest of any mainstream that I’ve ever seen — message about atheism,” he said. “The premise of the film is that the existence of God and heaven was a comforting lie that people had made up.” The MPAA gave, “The Invention of Lying” a PG-13 rating. Catholic News Service rated it morally offensive for, “despicably belittling core Judeo-Christian beliefs and mocking both the person and the teaching of Jesus Christ” and “pervasive blasphemy.” Sister Maureen Crosby of the Sisters of St. Dorothy and coordina- CATHOLIC NEWS SErVICE rATING SYSTEM The media reviewing division of Catholic News Service evaluates films for artistic merit and moral suitability. The reviews include the CNS rating, the Motion Picture Association of America rating, and a brief synopsis of the movie. A large database of reviews is available on the CNS website, www.catholicnews.com/movies The CNS classifications are as follows: A-I — general patronage; A-II — adults and adolescents; A-III — adults; L — limited adult audience, films whose problematic content many adults would find troubling. L replaces the previous classification, A-IV. O — morally offensive. Note: Some movies previously were designated A-IV. Older films with this classification should be regarded as classified L. »Review tor of the Diocese of Brownsville’s Media Resource Center agrees that there is a need for reviews and ratings above and beyond the MPAA. Sister Crosby manages a large collection of media, including religious and secular material, reviewing each piece for content before adding it to the diocesan library. “They (the MPAA ratings) are not a good measuring stick for what an acceptable film is and what is not,” Sister Crosby said. “The MPAA has lowered their standards because our morals as a society have gone down. What’s acceptable to them (the MPAA) may not be acceptable to me and other Catholics.” Ratings, she added, are a good starting point but they don’t tell the whole story. “The reviews are important because they give people a broader perspective of what the movie is all about instead of just looking for the trash,” she said. Mulderig said that the role of a Catholic film reviewer has evolved beyond guiding the faithful about making choices about film. “There is a new catechetical dimension to our work, of explaining, upholding and defending the Church’s teachings,” he said. “We have a generation of so many Catholics who have been badly catechized so you have to explain to them why the Church teaches ‘x’ and why, therefore the film, which opposes ‘x’ is wrong and why.” Though Catholic News Service’s movie reviews are sanctioned by the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, the reviewers never condemn films. “It’s ultimately up to the person to see the film or whether to allow their child to see the film,” Spence said. “We’re not telling anyone that they can or cannot go to a particular movie. What we are doing is giving information about that film so that they can make informed decisions on their own.” 902West Harrison Av. (956) 425 7018 Harlingen, Tx. 78550 Catholic News Service NEW YORK — A powerful historical drama, “For Greater Glory,” recounts the persecution of the Catholic Church in Mexico during the 1920s under the presidency of Plutarco Calles (Ruben Blades) and the popular reactions — both peaceful (led by Eduardo Verastegui) and violent (led by Andy Garcia) — it provoked. As Garcia’s character, a religious skeptic, becomes the unlikely commander of an army of the devout, he gains inspiration from a saintly adolescent volunteer (impressive newcomer Mauricio Kuri). Director Dean Wright’s epic — which also features a brief turn from Peter O’Toole as a wise and venerable priest — gets off to a slow start. But once the initially varied story lines laid out in Michael Love’s script converge, their outcome packs an emotional wallop. The Mexican government’s tyrannical interference with religious liberty, while obviously far more extreme than anything taking place north of the border today, nonetheless carries a sobering resonance with current events. If the film can be taken as a cautionary tale about where excessively zealous, overweening secularism can lead a nation, the warning is a stark one. The fact-based, faith-quickening tale the movie tells is sufficiently valuable to warrant a younger viewership than would normally be advisable for fare of this kind. Probably acceptable for mature adolescents. Considerable action violence with some gore, the torture of a child and at least one mildly vulgar term. The Catholic News Service classification is A-III — adults. The Motion Picture Association of America rating is R — restricted. The U.S. premiere date for the film is Friday, June 1. LMMM Valley No. 2 LMMM Valley No. 1 806 S. 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Elizabeth St. (956) 544 4806 Brownsville, Tx. 78520 “ La original y auténtica de las carnes marinadas” DIOCESE 15 June 2012 - The Valley Catholic »Media Resource Center » Calendar of Events Recommended by SISTER MAUREEN CROSBY, SSD Coordinator of the Media Resource Center - Diocese of Brownsville »Worth Watching We Are Catholic: Sacramentals You Will See Format:DVD Year of production: EWTN (2008) Length:30 minutes Format:DVD Year of production: Family Rosary Inc (2011) The facts: Manuel, Phillip and Anita Executive producer: Father Wilfred learn about the power of sacramentals such as the scapular and holy water. I like this one because there’s not too much material available about sacramentals. Many children (and even some adults) don’t know what sacramentals are or that there is a name for them. »From the Bookshelf Length:29 minutes Raymond, CSC The facts: A modern drama depicting the Presentation in the Temple (the Fourth Joyful Mystery), this is an inspiring story about a belligerent and rebellious teen who is required to perform community service at a nursing home to avoid jail time. A nursing home resident challenges the teen to be Christ to others. Touches upon the issue of peer pressure. Personal Space Camp Length: 32 pages, paperback Author: Susan Sprague Illustrator: Carrie Hartman Publisher:National Center for Youth Issues (2007) The facts: Written with style and humor, this book teaches children the concepts privacy and personal space. It addresses the complex issue of respect for another person’s property and physical boundaries. Includes a teacher’s guide. June Making Peace with Yourself: 15 Steps to Spiritual Healing Length:145 pages Authors:Sister Kathryn J. Hermes, FSP Publisher: Pauline Media (2007) The facts: This book doesn’t take the place of a spiritual counselor but it sure can help those who are searching for inner peace. It reminds us that God is present, even in life’s most challenging moments. Life isn’t easy. We all face disaster but can be sure that our best interests are always at the heart of God’s designs. The author provides real-life narratives that offer hope and direction. Poetry, prayer, and Scripture passages provide a solid base for further reflection and contemplation. 31-3 3 St Joseph, Edinburg ACTS Retreat - (RGC) Trinity Sunday 7-9 Summer Study Days (Office of Catechesis) 7-10 St Joseph the Worker ACTS Retreat - (RGC) 8–9 Catholic Youth Conference (YA – Holy Spirit, McAllen) 9-10 New Life Retreat (Family Life Office) 10 Corpus Christi Sunday 14 Flag Day 14 Advisory Team Meeting (Office of Catechesis) 15 Catholic Youth Conference (Youth Ministry) 15-17 Diocesan Discernment Retreat for Men - (RGC) Father Labus, continued from pg. 9 Joseph Church in Edinburg. The son of Emil John (deceased) and Cecilia Labus, Father Labus is the oldest of five children. His mother and all of his siblings, Joan, Joe, Cynthia and Daniel, all live in the Edinburg area. “There was always the sense, that when the time was right, he might be a priest,” said his sister, Cynthia Brandt. “When we were kids, our grandparents had a little sidewalk that led to a statue of the Blessed Virgin Mary. He would dress up as a priest and right there on that little sidewalk, he would give us (his brothers and sisters and cousins) ‘Holy Communion.’ For the longest time, we used to say he ought to be a priest.” After graduating from high school, Father Labus majored in music at Texas Christian University in Fort Worth with an emphasis on liturgical music. He was a parish musician at Holy Family Church in Fort Worth before Bishop Rene Gracida of the Diocese of Corpus Christi invited him to develop a music program at the Corpus Christi Cathedral in 1984. At one time, the cathedral had six choirs and more than 200 people in the choral program. Sister Dorothy Carey of the Sisters of the Holy Spirit and Mary Immaculate, who was the director of religious education at St. Joseph Church when Father Labus was in high school, remembers that, “he was outstanding in his love of music, even way back then.” Bishop Emeritus Raymundo J. Peña’s June 1 5:30 p.m. Graduation Mass – GRMS Brownsville June 3 4 p.m. Confirmations – Queen of Peace Harlingen June 5 7 p.m. Confirmations – St. Francis Xavier Cabrini Pharr June 7 7 p.m. Confirmations – Our Lady of Guadalupe Mission June 9 10 a.m. Confirmations – Our Lady of the Holy Rosary Mission June 9 4:30 p.m. Confirmations – St. Margaret Mary Pharr June 13 7 p.m. Lyford June 15 6:30 p.m. Confirmations – Sacred Heart Escobares June 17 10:30 a.m. Mass – Sacred Heart Edinburg June 20 7 p.m. Confirmations – St. Theresa Edcouch June 22 2 p.m. Confessions/Mass - Valley Awakening Team San Juan June 24 2 p.m. Confirmations – Sacred Heart Confirmations – Prince of Peace On going: Mass at St. Joseph Chapel of Perpetual Adoration, 727 Bowie St., Alamo 8 a.m. & 4 p.m. Mass at St. Joseph Chapel of Perpetual Adoration, 727 Bowie St., Alamo Every Thursday 11:30 am – 6 p.m Mass at UTPA Every Sunday 7 pm. Mass at UTPA Holy Hour will be held Weekly every Thursday at 7 p.m., 727 Bowie St., Alamo Mercedes 1st: Vocations to the Consecrated Life (active and contemplative) and for the Sisters and Brothers in our diocese and the success of their mission 2nd: Vocations to the Permanent Diaconate the deacons (permanent and transitional) of the diocese and their families 3rd : Vocation to Married Life: for the welfare and sanctification of all the families in the diocese and for building up the Kingdom in our domestic churches 4th: Vocations to the priesthood and the priests of the diocese for the success of their ministry 5th: Vocations to the Pro-Life Intentions “When nobody was in the church, he would be there playing the organ on his own initiative,” Sister Carey said. “He was already a beautiful organist, very adept even then.” As pastor of St. Joseph Church and School, Father Labus plans to continue to the highlight the importance of music to the liturgy, which is sustained by a strong level of participation by the people. TV, continued from pg. 5 voluntarily abdicating our responsibility as teachers and role models. When our now young adult daughter was in school up to 8th grade, our TV set was off Monday through Thursday. This was our family rule and every family creates their own rules and rituals. Agradecimiento, continued from pg. 2 los fieles que recen por vocaciones para los Oblatos de María Inmaculada, y también que recen por el nuevo pastor de la parroquia de Nuestra Señora Estrella del Mar. Nunca ha sido fácil para una comunidad religiosa tener que dejar una parroquia a la que han servido por generaciones. Sé que será difícil para los parroquianos decir adiós a la presencia de los Oblatos en su parroquia. Estoy agradecido con Dios por el trabajo que los Oblatos han hecho a través de los años en Puerto Isabel, y particularmente el trabajo recién comenzado por el Padre James Erving, OMI, el actual párroco. Pero, a pesar de los cambios que han sido necesarios debido a la situación actual, vivimos en la segura y agraciada esperanza de que el Señor continuará bendiciendo el crecimiento de Anniversaries, continued from pg. 9 16 Rev. Franciscus Yuantoro 16 Rev. Hector J. Cruz 17 Rev. Isaac Erondu 21 Rev. Mario Aviles 23 Rev. Gabriel Ezeh 27 Rev. Emmanuel Kowfie 17 Father’s Day 18-21 LOVE Teens Retreat La Joya (Rio Grande City) 20 First day of summer 22-25 BOMA NFP Training (Rio Grande City) 23 CMD Course #1 - San Antonio 3 Deacon Juan Barbosa 23-29 Catholic Youth Renovation Project (St Paul, Mission) One family’s suggestion is to turn the TV off for one night a week and replace it with family time or game night (no Ipad, no cell phone, no land line; just conversation and/or silence). There is a philosopher that states that “culture is like the water the fish swims in.” Our children and young people only know what surrounds them. What kind or water do we want them to swim in? 23 Oldie and Opera Meal Fundraiser - (RGC) Nuestra Señora Estrella del Mar, y que el arduo trabajo que los Oblatos han realizado al construir la vida de la Iglesia en Puerto Isabel servirá como una fundación sólida para un mayor crecimiento en los días y en los años venideros. En nombre de todas las generaciones de Católicos aquí en el Valle, reconozcamos llenos de agradecimiento la duradera presencia de los Padres Oblatos en el Valle del Rio Grande, y demos gracias a Dios por la dedicación y la generosidad que ha inspirado en ellos. Como obispo de ésta hermosa diócesis, yo estoy particularmente muy agradecido por todo el trabajo que los Oblatos han realizado al establecer tantas comunidades parroquiales en el Valle, y por las comunidades parroquiales a las que siguen sirviendo. Que Dios Bendiga a los Oblatos. San Eugenio de Mazenod ruega por nosotros. “En Pocas Palabras” To read the bishop’s blog visit http://bishopflores.blogspot.com 23 - 24 CMD Course #1 - San Antonio 28- 1 Roma Men’s ACTS Retreat (RGC) July 1 Softball Game, Mission 4 Independence Day (DiocesanOffices Closed) 5-8 Queen of Angels Men’s ACTS Retreat - (RGC) 6-8 Catholic Engaged Encounter (Family Life Office) 8 Softball Game, Mission 9-12 SJDMI YM Level 1 San Juan 12-15 San Martin de Porres Mens’ ACTS Retreat (Rio Grande City) 14 Convalidation Conference 15 Softball Game, Mission 20-22 Vocations Discernment for Women (RGCity) 22 Softball Game, Mission 26-29 Rio Grande City Men’s ACTS Retreat (RGC) 28-29 Youth Summer Softball Tournament, Mission Please submit your schedule to be published in The Valley Catholic by the first Friday of each month by email at [email protected] or fax: (956) 784-5082. 16 DIOCESE Our Catholic Family The Valley Catholic - June 2012 From a patient’s perspective Time as nursing home resident motivates grant writer By ROSE YBARRA The Valley Catholic SAN JUAN — “I felt like the wounded soldier in that episode of MASH, where the show was taped from his point of view.” That is how Nelly Dominguez describes her time as a patient at San Juan Nursing Home. After a near-fatal car accident in 2007, Dominguez spent part of her recovery time at the nursing home, where she was employed as a grant writer. Dominguez, 44, said her journey from nursing home employee to patient and back again has given her a fresh perspective on what it is like to live in a nursing home. “To not sleep in your own bed; to be in a wheelchair; to not be able to bathe yourself, it’s humbling,” she said. Dominguez has made a full recovery from the accident and recently returned to work at San Juan Nursing Home, where she writes grants and organizes fundraisers for the Catholic facility, which operates under the guidance of the Diocese of Brownsville. “I was very passionate about the work the nursing home does before the accident but now, multiply that by 10, by 100,” Dominguez said. “My past experience as a resident motivates me to do ev- Single father, continued from pg. 1 single father households are the fastest growing type of family situation, with a 60 percent increase in the last 10 years. Two of Diaz’s adult children, a son and a daughter, have married and left the nest. Christian, 16, Samantha, 13 and Erika, 11, remain at home. The Diaz family follows a daily routine that includes chores for everyone. After making breakfast and sending his children off to school, Diaz gets to work. His primary source of income is selling items at local flea markets. He also does odd jobs. “I have to be done working by the time my kids get out of school,” Diaz said. “They are my top priority.” The Valley Catholic Nelly Dominguez, a grant writer at San Juan Nursing Home, with her son, Mateo, 6. Dominguez, 44, was a resident of the facility after she was critically injured in a 2007 car accident in San Luis Potosí. erything I can to support this ministry, everything I can to improve the residents’ quality of life.” The nursing home is hosting a gala on Thursday, June 21 at Mario’s Banquet and Conference Center in Mission. Bishop Daniel E. Flores will deliver the keynote address. The proceeds from the fundraiser will go towards a new sprinkler system, which the nursing home is required to install by August 2013. The project will cost about $130,000. In the early morning hours of Dec. 28, 2007, Dominguez and her husband, Miguel and their twoyear-old son, Mateo, were traveling to San Luis Potosí in Mexico to visit a priest friend. “We went off a cliff and dropped about 17 feet,” Dominguez said. “The accident happened at about 2:15 a.m. and we were not found until about 6 a.m., when a passenger bus stopped to give us aid.” Her husband and son walked away from the accident with minor injuries but Dominguez broke her back, maxilla (upper jaw), arm, ribs and her foot. She was taken to a hospital in Mexico where she was told that her chances of survival were slim. “They advised me to say my goodbyes to my son and my husband,” she said. Dominguez’s heart stopped twice but the doctors were able to revive her and she was returned to the U.S. and hospitalized. Diaz was an involved and attentive father before his wife died, said his daughter Samantha, 13, but is even more so now. “He’s a nice guy and a great dad,” Samantha Diaz said. “He’s always been there for us but he pays even more attention to us now. He tells us, ‘if you need something, if you want to talk about anything at all, tell me. I’m your mom and your dad.’” Samantha Diaz added that her father talks to her and her siblings very frankly, openly and honestly about everything, even, “girl stuff.” “He wants to know what’s going on in our lives,” she said. “He’s very protective of us. He wants to know who we’re with, what we’re doing.” Today, Diaz runs his busy household with ease but that wasn’t always the case. “It was a hard transition at first,” he said. “My wife was so wonderful. She did such a great job with the kids, a great job keeping everything in order. I’ve managed to take of my family but it’s not easy. Even now, I have days when I feel so overwhelmed, days when I cry and cry when I’m alone.” Diaz went to the Catholic Charities of the Rio Grande Valley office in San Juan to ask for assistance to pay his electricity bill on April 26. “My first impressions were that he is a good father,” said Yesenia Guzman, a case worker at Catholic Charities of the Rio Grande Valley. “He mentioned that his mother offers to take care of his children when he goes to work at the flea market on the weekends but he prefers to have them with him. As we talked more, I learned that he and his children have been through a lot. It breaks your heart. … It’s rare for us to see a single father but it’s good to know that there are fathers like him in the world.” The Diaz family’s world was turned upside down when a seemingly healthy Margarita suffered the hemorrhage. She survived surgery but the doctors told Diaz that she was brain dead and that there was nothing more that could be done for her. Diaz said he had a hard time letting go of his childhood sweetheart and the love of his life. She was 14 and he was 15-years-old when they began their courtship. “She was in the hospital for quite a while,” he said. “I didn’t want to give up on her. The doctors gave her blood transfusions; they tried therapeutic hypothermia to lower her body temperature … .” Meanwhile, doctors were pressuring Diaz to withdraw life support. Diaz said he begged and pleaded with God, asking the To subscribe Name __________________________________ Address _________________________________ City _____________ State ________Zip ________ E-mail address ____________________________ For more information call (956) 781-5323 To receive a copy at home each month mail your payment with your contact information to: 700 N. Virgen de San Juan Blvd. San Juan, TX 78589-3042 $15 per year / $17 outside of Texas Once she was stabilized, she was released from the hospital and sent to San Juan Nursing Home where she lived for six weeks. “She was very sick and in a lot of pain, but she was always very optimistic,” said Isaura Garcia, a certified nursing assistant at San Juan Nursing Home. “She was never in a bad mood and I think that helped her recovery.” Garcia said seeing a young coworker admitted into the nursing home made her more aware of her own health and mortality. “It made me realize that young or old, none of us are immune from ending up here,” she said. Dominguez’s sister, Eloisa Fernandez helped care for little Mateo, while she recovered. “It was hard to see my little sister in a nursing home,” Fernandez said. “It’s not something you ever expect or want to see but she was in very good hands. She was also able to visit and bond with her son. He was just a baby at the time.” Mateo, who is now six years old, stopped by to visit his mom at work one day after school recently, peppering her with kisses. “To see her walk again, to see her play with her son, it’s like a miracle,” Garcia said. “In her, we see in vivid detail that that work we do does make a difference in people’s lives.” For more information on San Juan Nursing Home or the gala, please call (956) 787-1771. Sponsorships and silent auction items are still needed for the gala. Lord to take him instead. “She’s their mother, our children need her more than they need me,” he recalls telling God. One day, while praying in the hospital chapel, Diaz fell to his knees and tearfully gave his wife to God. “I finally surrendered to God’s will,” he said. Diaz takes some comfort in knowing that Margarita gave life to others, including a 13-year-old boy, as her organs were donated. As time passes, Diaz said he misses Margarita more and more, especially when their children celebrate important moments. Memories of the time they spent together and the promise of seeing her again someday, he said, keep him going. “When I smell her perfume or hear a song that reminds me of her, it brings a smile to my face,” he said. “I feel that she is with me. … I walk with the Lord every day because I want to go to heaven so I can see her again.” ONLINE For videos and photos of some of the milestones in the life of the Church in the Rio Grande Valley, visit the Diocese of Brownsville website. www.cdob.org