Alpha Gamma 2015-2016
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Alpha Gamma 2015-2016
The Ralph L. Saroyan Brotherhood Report Alpha Gamma 2015-2016 1 2015-2016 Social and Brotherhood Events Introduction This past year, the Brothers of the Alpha Gamma Chapter of Phi Delta Chi aimed to make the Brotherhood stronger than it’s ever been. Although we have a large Chapter, there are many opportunities for Brothers to get together, have a little fun, and strengthen our Brotherhood. Many events were held this past year to further brotherhood in our fraternity: including those events that allowed us to behold brothers, become brothers, and be brothers. We felt as a fraternity our duty to hold events during rush that would find valuable members, during pledging that would educate them on the meaning of brotherhood, and continuing this brotherhood experience throughout our time in this fraternity. Beholding Brothers... Amazing Race: The Amazing Race event is one of our most popular recruitment events year after year. For the past two years, it has strategicalcurriculum transition changes that were implely been placed as the first recruitment event after mented this year at UNC Eshelman School of Phar- the Information Session for a few reasons. First, it macy, there were a number of necessary changes is a budget friendly event that is normally held to be made with the Phi Delta Chi recruitment around the school, thus making it extremely conschedule. Recruitment was on a delayed schedule venient for everyone involved. Secondly, potential and we felt it best to work closely with the other new members as well as current brothers are ranGreek organizations on campus to ensure that we domized into predetermined groups making introhad the best schedule possible. This is why we ductions less intimidating than a recruitment event chose to have our rush information session as a with a one on one setting. Lastly, the fast pace of collaborative effort with both Kappa Epsilon and the event prevents uncomfortable interactions and Kappa Psi fraternities. At this session, we provided helps form fast bonds between brothers and pizza to the potential new members as they rushees through the team based exercises. This learned about the recruitment process for each event is modeled after the TV show with clues organization as well as the similarities and differleading to areas of the school where a task must be ences between the three Greek groups at the completed before continuing on to the next event. school. It was a great idea to work together to set The first team to complete all of the events is the the stage for the academic school year as these or- winner. Snacks and drinks are provided and it has ganizations worked together instead of competing proven to be a very successful and fun event! against each other. It was beneficial for the potenAppetizer Night: For one of our recruittial new members that had an interest in more than one of these organizations so that they could ment events we headed to a local Chapel Hill esuse their time efficiently by hearing from all three tablishment, Fitzgerald’s, for some appetizers. This organizations at once. This event was a great way event was for brothers and potential new members to kickoff our recruitment for the Fall of 2015 and to come together to socialize and enjoy some food. we are looking forward to continuing this tradition Potential new members were allowed to go through the line first, so that it was emphasized the in the future. event was planned for them. After an hour or so of socializing, one of our brothers who used to emcee Rush Information Session: With the 2 trivia led us in a trivia event. Each table made its own team, and brothers bonded with potential new members as they answered questions about history, sports, and pop culture. Next year we are going to plan for more food because it was such a success! Field Day: Field day was a new recruitment event this year. It was a dreary morning in Chapel Hill, and it looked like it was going to rain that afternoon. Luckily, the clouds cleared out, and it turned into a beautiful afternoon as brothers and potential new members alike made their way to Hooker Fields. We split everyone into four teams at the beginning, and they remained in these teams throughout the day. The first event was kickball, and it was a nice relaxed way for everyone to mingle on their teams. After that, the teams competed in dizzy bat, tug-of-war, and water balloon toss. One potential new member was so into tug-of-war that he even ripped the sole off his shoe. Those who were not participating in the team events and wanted to socialize enjoyed ice cream and cornhole on the side, which allowed something for everyone to do. Everyone had a great time, and it was a great way for the brothers to get to know potential new members. Here brothers socialize with rushing members while enjoying great food during our Cookout! Pinning/Bid Day: Bid Day is a day filled with excitement and nerves as the brothers of the Alpha Gamma chapter eagerly awaited the acceptances of the new pledges. Our publications committee created beautiful bids that were passed out to the rushees that were voted on by the chapter. At the end of the day we ended up having 40 wonderful new members that were eager to begin their pledging process, which began with the formal Pinning Ceremony. The ceremony was held at the school, where each pledge received their pledging pins and a “Pinning Buddy”, who was a current Alpha Gamma brother, to help guide them through the first steps of the pledging process. Often times, these buddies become bigs to these Cookout: The cookout was our final event pledges and the bid day allows them to have a of the recruitment process and was held at a club- unique first interaction that welcomes these new house and pool area at a nearby apartment com- brothers to the organization. plex. At this point in the recruitment process, many brothers had formed friendships and special Becoming Brothers… bonds with rushees that had attended the previous Friday on the Front Porch: The first recruitment events. The event this year was special event of a new pleducation initiative titled “Pledge as it was the same night as the South Carolina/UNC -Brother events” was Friday on the Front Porch at football game and the location where we had the the Carolina Inn on Friday, September 11th. The event had TVs where we could watch the first event was incredibly well attended by both new game of the season. Food was provided for all of members and active brothers. The Carolina Inn those in attendance and our “Sailing” recruitment provides a great environment for socializing and it theme became extremely appropriate as people sits in perhaps one of the most picturesque parts swam and lounged around the pool. We were for- of campus. There was live music, food, and drinks, tunate enough to have been blessed with excellent all while everyone bonded during a beautiful lateweather and the event went off without a hitch. summer afternoon. Even Ramses, our University’s The brothers were excited to welcome the new mascot, stopped by long enough for our brothers members after the completion of recruitment. and new members to snag a quick photo! 3 -48 win for the 2015 ACC Coastal Division Champipleducation meeting on Thursday, September 17th, on Tar Heels. both brothers and pledges were encouraged to Monterrey’s Dinner: The fourth Pledgeattend an ice cream social event at Maple View Ice Brother event was a group dinner at Monterrey Cream. Dozens of brothers and new members alike Mexican Restaurant in Carrboro on October 1st. came to taste some delicious hand-dipped ice This event provided everyone the chance to sit cream and socialize amongst each other. Everyone down and talk to get to know each other a little enjoyed the best ice cream in town while taking in better while enjoying one of everyone’s favorite the gorgeous farmland scenery. There was much meals. It was easy to see how many brothers and bonding to be had while sitting out watching the new members had bonded with each other over sunset, relaxing in the rocking chairs on the porch the previous weeks with how easily conversation that evening. This event not only helped brothers followed and the amount of laughter that filled the get to know their new members, but also helped to room. Overall, this was a hugely successful event perpetuate a growing comradery between new that showcased the brotherhood of the Alpha members. Gamma chapter at its finest. Maple View Ice Cream: After the Soccer Tournament: The final PledgeBrother event was a soccer tournament for new members and brothers. A hurricane forced the Pleducation committee to postpone the event but we were able to squeeze the event into the later part of the pledge process on October 25th. The participants signed up ahead of time and were divided into three teams to compete. The tournament had two teams playing each other with one team on the side-lines. As soon as one team Brothers posing with our University’s mascot, Ramses, scored, the losing team would sit out and the team at Friday on the Front Porch. on the side lines would come in and play. This alTailgate: As part of the new member edu- lowed some time for bonding while the other the cation process, the Pleducation Committee decided two teams engaged in the game. Despite the wide range in skill level, everyone had fun being outside to host a tailgate to the UNC vs. Illinois football game for both the new members and the brothers and kicking the ball around for a while. side-lines. As soon as one team scored, the losing team would on September 19th. Despite a last minute audible on the tailgate location, the committee was able to sit out and the team on the side lines would come put together a fun and successful event. Both new in and play. This allowed some time for bonding while the other the two teams engaged in the members and current brothers attended and game. Despite the wide range in skill level, everybrought breakfast items to share. For many of the one had fun being outside and kicking the ball PY1 new members, this was their first opportunity around for a while. to see a Carolina sporting event and engage in the Big/Little Reveal: The Big-Little Reveal Tar Heel spirit! Many brothers engaged in friendly this past semester was an incredible success. The competition by playing corn hole while bonding weeks prior to the event, both new members and over breakfast foods.After the tailgate, the group attended the game and got to see an impressive 14 brothers submitted preferences for who they 4 would want to be their big and little, respectively. On October 29th, the reveal took place in Kerr Hall. After the pleducation meeting had concluded, the Big brothers handed the pleducation committee members a puzzle piece they made that had written on it their little’s name and clues for the little to follow to find their big somewhere around the pharmacy school. These puzzle pieces were distributed to the littles and they were asked to follow the clues to find their big who would be waiting for them with their own puzzle piece that would fit perfectly with their little’s. Afterwards, everyone returned to Kerr 2001 where each big presented a slide for their little and gave them their pledge name. Once that concluded, everyone attended a local restaurant which PDC had reserved to watch the Tar Heels take on the Pitt Panthers in football. Big brothers and their new littles were excited for the chance to unwind outside of the pharmacy school and have some fun. was a perfect way to strengthen the brotherhood before the school year. Design Night: A group of our brothers ventured to an art class on a Friday night to explore our hidden artistic talent. We had all decided to paint a picture of the Old Well, the most iconic and beloved symbol of our University. The canvases were already sketched out with the structure of the old well, but we still had the chance to add our own individual touch with the background and colors. While laughing all night with our brothers was by far the most entertaining part of the night, the most rewarding was watching all of us embrace our creativity with no abandonment. What does it mean to be a brother? It could be considered encouraging and promoting each other to color outside the lines. In this situation, we did this figuratively and literally. So many of us rarely use all of our creativity when approaching problems, whether for fear of being judged or that the ultimate outcome will fail. This night allowed us to embrace our creativity and embrace our brothers as they Being Brothers… embarked on creating their own idea of a masterRetreat: Before the start of another hectic piece. All of our paintings turned out different, a subtle reminder each and every one of us can bring school year, the Alpha Gamma chapter made its annual retreat to Boone, NC, a small town nestled a different outlook to the table. It is nice to remind ourselves that we have the opportunity daily to in the Appalachian Mountains. Over half of the brotherhood made the three hour drive to partici- embrace this type of creativity without judgment pate in a weekend of bonding and preparation for within our brotherhood. the new semester. Faced with transition to a new Durham Bulls: The recruitment process is curriculum, a day was dedicated to planning for one of the most stressful times of the Fall semesrush and playing minigames that emphasized build- ter, so the brotherhood jumped at the chance to ing leadership and trust. When not in meetings, take a night off and head to the ballpark to watch brothers took the opportunity to partake in two the Durham Bulls, a local minor league baseball famous Boone activities: hiking and touring brew- team. With over 40 brothers in attendance, the eries. Taking advantage of perfect weather, broth- game was one of the most successful events of the ers reunited with a long hike at the beautiful Linyear! Brothers took advantage of a College Night ville Falls and braved the rocky paths to take in special to enjoy cheap hot dogs, popcorn, and soda some stunning views. Another group of brothers as they sat in a big outfield section hoping to catch went to Blowing Rock Brewery, where they were a homerun. Since this was the first social event of able to learn about the craft beers that the area is the semester, brothers took the chance to catch up known for. As in years past, the night was ended in and bond with some people they hadn’t seen since “candle time”, where a candle was passed around the summer. Unfortunately, the Bulls were unable the circle as each brother shared and remembered to get the victory, but perfect weather and a great what Phi Delta Chi means to each. The weekend bonding experience made it a successful night! 5 Semi-Formal: One of the highlights of fall group of brothers was able to score seats near censemester is Phi Delta Chi’s Semi-Formal. On Friday, November 13th, we all put down the books, dolled ourselves up, and treated ourselves to a night of dancing and singing with our brothers. Semi-formal was held at R&R Bar and Grill, an old Chapel Hill favorite, so it was fun to go back and reminisce on all of our glory days from undergrad. We had over 70 brothers and their guests there showing off their dance moves, which was truly an entertaining sight. Many fourth year brothers came back from rotation, and it was so good to catch up with them all. Being the first big event after initiation, there were also a lot of new brothers there. It was so encouraging having so many new brothers there, which gave us insight on how fun and successful Alpha Gamma will be in the years to come. It was great to have both the old and the new together, and it was amazing to see how much has changed and how far we have come over the past few years. Thurston Thursday’s: This past year, the Alpha Gamma Chapter continued their commitment to brotherhood by developing a new event termed “Thurston Thursday”. The ultimate goal of this new event was to further develop brother relationships and connections. This event brought brothers together at a local restaurant of the chapter’s choice for an evening of entertainment, relaxation, and brotherly bonding. Thurston Thursdays were held immediately following every chapter meeting, and provided brothers with the opportunity to unwind after a difficult week of coursework and other obligations. In addition to dinner and brother interaction, brothers were also quizzed on national, regional, and local Phi Delta Chi trivia and history. The highest scoring Brother received baked goods of their choosing for displaying continued effort and commitment to fraternal knowledge. Crazy for the Canes: Despite being in the midst of UNC basketball madness, a group of 15 hockey-loving Alpha Gamma brothers took a trip over to Raleigh, NC, to watch the Carolina Hurricanes take on the Philadelphia Flyers. It was College Night at the PNC Arena, meaning that this ter-ice, even though they were in the upper level. Not phased by the upper level, the brothers cheered every hit and shot as the Canes skated hard the whole game. The group mostly consisted of major hockey fans, so everyone had a great time watching an exciting game with fellow brothers. All of the great support from the brothers paid off as the Canes managed to pull out a big 3-1 victory over the Flyers. This is the second year in a row that the brotherhood has taken a trip to see the Canes play, and this looks like a tradition that will continue for years to come! Friends-giving: Thanksgiving is such a special time of year. It’s a time to relax, stuff your face, and reminisce on all there is in life for which to be thankful. This year, we decided who better to do these things with than with our brothers! As we all stood around the table waiting to gobble down the feast before our eyes, you couldn’t help but look around the room at all the people laughing and loving one another and be overwhelmed with thankfulness. It’s an awesome feeling to be surrounded by fifty people packed in one house who you know you can always count on, and who would do absolutely anything to help you out. At such a high stress point in the semester, it was an amazing opportunity to sit back, relax, and enjoy the people around (and the turkey, stuffing, and chocolate chess pie). One of the highlights of the night was watching the guys gobble around in the turkey feathers one of the brothers had made out of construction paper. They were such a hit, they even made an appearance in class the next Monday! We also spent hours engaging in some friendly competition games like “Ninja” and “Wop,” which were absolutely necessary to burn off all of the calories we had consumed. At the end of it all, there was a house filled with crumbs, cats eating leftovers off the porch, and a car that smelled like turkey juice for months, but it was worth it to remind us of how grateful we should be to be a part of such an amazing organization like Phi Delta Chi, with the best friends and brothers anyone could ask for. 6 Jordan Lake: Even though the beach is a few hours away from Chapel Hill, the Alpha Gamma had its own beach cookout on the shores of nearby Jordan Lake. Despite the threat of rain looming overhead, brothers found some picnic tables, a charcoal grill, and plenty of beach space to have a good time. It didn’t take long to get the grill fired up as brothers indulged on hot dogs, hamburgers, and plenty of chips and desserts. While some brothers enjoyed the food, others took part in a variety of beach games. The biggest attraction was Spikeball, a variation of volleyball in which teams try to spike the ball off a mini trampoline to get the ball past the other team. It didn’t take long for the competitive spirit to kick in, as brothers were diving left and right to keep up the rallies. Rain ended up cutting the event short, but not before the present brothers had a great time. Some PY4’s even took time away from their rotations to make a surprise visit and come join the fun. End of Year Banquet: At the end of every school year, the Alpha Gamma brothers come together to celebrate the year’s accomplishments and send off our third year brothers on to their year of rotations. This year, our chapter developed a point system based on splitting the fraternity into four different houses. At this event, we awarded the house that accumulated the most points with a beautifully designed house cup, made by one of our brothers. It not only recognized these brothers for their dedication to the fraternity throughout the year, but also celebrated their ability to succeed when working together. The third year brothers were also recognized with superlatives and parting gifts as we sent them off with the best of wishes while hoping to see them in some of next year’s events. We will surely miss having these brothers so close by, but look forward to seeing the great things they will do! Outcomes of Brotherhood Number of Brothers Location Brothers who visited other Chapters 3 Beta Kappa Brothers who hosted other Chapters 12 Beta Kappa Alpha 5 Grand Council 2015 4 Mid-Atlantic Regional Gathering 2015 14 interested LDS 2016 Brothers that attended Phi Delta Chi meetings There is no better way to further brotherhood than by taking the opportunity to travel to Phi Delta Chi meetings and to other Chapters. Five of our brothers came back from Grand Council filled with passion to better our fraternity. Brothers from other chapters, such as Beta Kappa and Alpha, visited for rush events and also during our Initiation. Brothers from Alpha Gamma also attended Beta Kappa’s, a buddy chapter’s, initiation. Brothers also socialized with our other buddy chapter, Beta Omega, at the SNPhA hiking social. “It was my first time meeting brothers from this chapter. We had a great time discussing the different activities that makes our chapters unique. I hope to meet up with them again at future PDC or SNPhA events!” - Brother Seyram Fudzie 7 BY: ROBERT CRAWFORD III A Brother’s Reflection I could define my Phi Delta Chi experience in the following three words: brotherhood, foundation, opportunity. Growing up with a little brother, I was never able to truly appreciate our relationship until I went to college. The distance and time away from him compelled me to try to find a similar relationship among my friends. I found this easily in PDC. Anyone coming to pharmacy school can appreciate the culture shock going from undergraduate studies to a graduate level program, whether that change is in the classroom setting, change in level of difficulty in the classroom, or change in geographic location. I was blessed enough to be able to stay on the same campus from undergraduate to pharmacy school; however, that didn’t make the transition much easier. I had to leave my undergraduate fraternity brothers due to the strain of school and also due to the financial and time burden associated with the fraternity. I was nervous to let go, and I was also nervous to jump into something right after having developed such a tight bond. Stuck in limbo, I almost didn’t reach out to create those similar relationships. Luckily the time I spent with students ahead of me in the program, such as Ben Ahlers, helped me overcome my hesitation and I began to immerse myself in the pharmacy school culture by joining Phi Delta Chi. The relationships developed faster than I could have imagined. When I reflect on my bond with Ben, it began when he would take time out of his day to check up on how I was doing, whether it be about school or things going on outside of the classroom. Although calling him my brother didn’t happen overnight, we slowly started spending time out of school day dreaming about the years to come in our pharmacy careers. Those nights developed into us playing pool, meeting up for dinner habitually, and now he is one of my closest friends from pharmacy school. All I can think about is how appreciative I am of him as a brother because he fostered the kind of relationship that helped me grow as a pharmacy student and within Phi Delta Chi’s brotherhood. 8 Without a good foundation, the world’s largest and strongest buildings cannot stand. Although there were countless all-night study sessions spent with my fellow PDC pledge brothers (and later brothers), I will remember most the nights out de-stressing after a tough week or our meetings to gather and bond while reflecting on our excitement to join PDC. I cherish consistently this change from friendship to brotherhood. As I mentioned above, everyone experiences a form of culture shock leaving the undergraduate level and mine revolved around confidence. It’s tough going from top dog in a room, to a top dog amongst 150 other top dogs. I wasn’t the smartest anymore, I wasn’t the center of attention anymore, and I had to work much harder than ever just to keep up. But throughout all of those experiences, I grew. I matured and allowed the new relationships to build on one another. I was building myself up in PDC, and that developed into something I could depend on. This foundation helped me stand up through the adversity associated with leadership, reflecting on philanthropy, and maintaining the highest academic standards. All these things are pillars of focus in PDC which created a foundation that pushed me to become a better person, a better brother. I know I would not have been as successful in pharmacy school had I been without my new family. What a better way to describe pharmacy school than by opportunity. Every decision is an opportunity and deciding whether to take them defines your experience. I almost didn’t take the opportunity to join PDC and I would have regretted that for the rest of my life. Within PDC, I not only had the opportunity to grow as a leader, serve my community by raising money for St. Jude’s, but also the opportunity to find mentors, life-long friends, and more importantly family. The selflessness I see daily amongst this group of individuals is astounding. Whether it is a ride from the airport at 4:00am, providing guidance on decisions to what leadership and organizations to seek out, or simply grabbing dinner to catch up on what has happened amongst a hectic week. I see it every day. The closer I get to my fourth year, the more nostalgic I get. I am sad that I will not be wandering the halls of Kerr and Beard looking for a PDC brother to accompany my study session. However, it makes it easier because I am happy to know that these friends I now call brothers will not fade away. They will always be there supporting me and helping me. The opportunities do not stop here as this fraternity is a nationwide brotherhood that is constantly at work. It is exciting to know that there are people out there who would stand up for me just because we share the same core values of PDC. Regardless of any decisions I have made to date, I’ve appreciated that PDC has given me a brotherhood that helped build the foundation for my pharmacy career and expanded my opportunities and, for that, I will forever be grateful. Alpha Gamma Brother since November, 2013 9 Appendix Field Day Rushing members pictured with current brothers during one of Field Day, one of our rush events. On far right, Brother Tiffany visits from one of our Buddy chapters—Beta Kappa at Campbell. Big/Little Reveal Big/little reveal traditionally involves revealing your little by presenting their pledge name and the reason behind your choice (to the right.) This year, we added a new part to the event by using clues on your puzzle piece to find your big at their hidden location (to the left.) 10 Gatlinburg Retreat Ice Skating Brothers embrace the cold on our Gatlinburg retreat and also at home at the local skating rink. Crazy for the Canes Nothing like a selfie to capture how much our Brothers love to support the nearby hockey team—the Hurricanes. Jordan Lake Brothers participate in “Spikeball” during our cook out at nearby Jordan Lake. Durham Bulls Game This was one of our first times heading over to the city next door, Durham, to watch the Durham Bulls play some baseball and it ended up being one of our biggest events of the year! 11 Formal To the left, first year brothers enjoy their first formal while, to the right, fourth year brothers enjoy their last formal as a collegiate student. End of Year Banquet Brothers join together to take a silly picture and celebrate another amazing year! 12