2013 Gurze Catalogue - Eating Disorders Catalogue
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2013 Gurze Catalogue - Eating Disorders Catalogue
Gürze Books 2013 Eating Disorders R E S O U R C E C A T A L O G U E The most widely-used resource in the eating disorders field since 1980. Family-Based Treatment: New Directions Talking to Kids about Body Image The Art of Eating Again AND MORE… Self-Help Books Professional Resources Therapist Directory Treatment Facilities National Organizations bulimia.com WELCOME Serving the Eating Disorders Community Since 1980 eBooks Online Gürze Books is dedicated to providing quality information on eating disorders recovery, research, education, advocacy and prevention. It is owned by Lindsey Hall and Leigh Cohn, who wrote the first publication on bulimia and have continued to write and publish in the field ever since. bulimia.com eBooks Over 350 books and DVDs with full descriptions Quick Links with select books and free articles Blogs Links to 50 ED organizations More information for parents Links to ED therapists & treatment facilities Special offers EatingDisordersBlogs.com EatingDisordersRecoveryToday.com EatingDisordersReview.com About the Paintings Francesca Droll from Abacus Graphics has designed this catalogue for close to 20 years. In addition to her graphic skills, she is a talented painter, whose soft pastels fill this year’s pages. For more information about her artwork, visit francescadroll.com. Text ©2013 Gürze Books, PO Box 2238, Carlsbad, CA 92018, bulimia.com Artwork ©2013 Francesca Droll, FrancescaDroll.com ABOUT E ating disorders are extreme expressions of a range of weight and food issues experienced by both men and women. Although they currently fall into three distinct diagnostic categories (which are evolving), individuals commonly have symptoms of more than one type of eating disorder at a time. All are serious medical and psychological problems with potentially life-threatening consequences. Anorexia Nervosa is characterized by low weight due to restrictive eating and/or purging and an intense fear of being “fat.” The individual denies the seriousness of their low weight even when emaciation is clear to others. About 1% of women and .3% of men in the general population meet the criteria.* Bulimia (also called bulimia nervosa) typically refers to binge-eating followed by compensatory weight-loss behaviors of a purging (e.g., self-induced vomiting, diuretic or laxative abuse) or non-purging (e.g. restricting, excessive exercise) nature. Although individuals with bulimia are usually within a healthy weight range, they are preoccupied by food, weight, and body concerns. About 1.5% of women and .5% of men have bulimia. Binge Eating Disorder (sometimes called compulsive eating) is characterized by repeated periods of impulsive gorging or continuous eating without regular compensatory behaviors. About 3.5% of women and 2% of men meet the clinical diagnosis of binge eating disorder. Eating Disorders Not Otherwise Specified (EDNOS) is a diagnosis for individuals who meet some—but not all—of the criteria for one of the other eating disorders. Many more people fall into this category than the other three. Other Eating Disorders are quite rare, and they include pica, rumination, and Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder. Causes of eating disorders are multidimensional and include genetics, family background, trauma, and our culture’s idealization of thinness. Symptoms include depression, low self-esteem, poor body image, anxiety, loneliness, problems with relationships, and obsession with food and weight. Disordered Eating Behaviors such as restricting, bingeing, and purging that are initially a method of coping with painful feelings and situations become habitual, undermining physical health, self-esteem, and a sense of competence and control. Professional treatment to understand and overcome the underlying causes, symptoms, and behaviors is usually recommended. * All prevalence figures cited from: Hudson, J., Hiripi, E., Pope, H. & Kessler, R. (2007). The prevalence and correlates of eating disorders in the national comorbidity survey replication. Biological Psychiatry, 61, 348-358. The Body Betrayed A Deeper Understanding of Women, Eating Disorders, and Treatment Kathryn J. Zerbe 447 pg, paper, ’93 (Code: TBB) $18.95 100 Questions & Answers About Eating Disorders Carolyn Costin 160 pg, paper, ’07 (Code: OQA) $24.95 Eating Disorder Sourcebook Third Edition Carolyn Costin 336 pg, paper, ’07 (Code: EDS) $17.95 Do You Have an Eating Disorder? Respond honestly to these questions. Do you: □ Constantly think about your food, weight, or body image? □ Have difficulty concentrating because of those thoughts? □ Worry about what your last meal is doing to your body? □ Experience guilt or shame around eating? □ Count calories or fat grams whenever you eat or drink? □ Feel “out of control” when it comes to food? □ Binge eat twice a week or more? □ Still feel fat when others tell you that you are thin? □ Obsess about the size of specific body parts? □ Weigh yourself several times daily? □ Exercise to lose weight even if you are ill or injured? □ Label foods as “good” and “bad?” □ Vomit after eating? □ Use laxatives or diuretics to keep your weight down? □ Severely limit your food intake? If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, your attitudes and behaviors around food and weight may need to be seriously addressed. An eating disorders professional can give you a thorough assessment, honest feedback, and advice about what you may want to do next. WARNING SIGNS • An obvious increase or decrease in weight not related to a medical condition • Abnormal eating habits such as severe dieting, ritualized mealtime behaviors, fear of dietary fat, secretive bingeing, or lying about food • An intense preoccupation with weight and body image • Mood swings, depression, irritability • Compulsive or excessive exercising, especially without adequate nutritional intake or when injured or ill 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 3 SOURCEBOOKS EATING DISORDERS ANOREXIA NERVOSA The Experience of A norexia colors one’s entire experience of living, not only ravaging the body, but the mind and spirit as well. Although dieting behaviors may have begun as a way to gain self-esteem and feelings of mastery, they insidiously escalate into a prison of painful thoughts and confused emotions. Weight gain is essential for successful recovery, because of the physical, mental, and emotional changes associated with dramatic weight loss. Sufferers cannot think clearly enough to make good decisions, problem-solve, feel motivated, or reap the full benefits of therapy. They are trapped in harmful thought patterns, such as “black and white” thinking, where everything is divided into extreme categories. Foods are labeled either “good” or “bad,” bodies are either “fat” or “thin,” and not being completely in-control means being completely out-of-control. There is no middle ground. Other habitual, negative thought patterns are magnifying problems, magical thinking, and taking remarks or situations too personally. These thinking patterns are rooted in deeply-held beliefs, which make change extremely difficult. Anorexics typically believe that they can only be happy if they are thin, and that self-indulgence is a sign of weakness. Most devastating of all is the underlying belief in their own worthlessness, which is inextricably tied to the size of their bodies. “I am fat and fat is bad,” or, “I am bad if I eat.” These beliefs make it possible for individuals with anorexia to deny their real needs for nourishment and self-nurturing. Not only are thought patterns affected by starvation, but feelings are affected as well. One common assumption is that anorexia “numbs” emotions, but this is not entirely true. It is probably more accurate to say that anorexic symptoms translate painful or unacceptable emotions into thoughts and feelings having to do with food and the body. Unfortunately, anorexia comes with its own share of shame, loneliness, and fears, which are then layered over the original negative feelings. Even the experience of success that accompanies the superhuman willpower to not eat is tempered with selfdoubt. Individuals with anorexia think they can never be thin enough or as good at doing anything other than losing weight. Sometimes, other people complicate this issue by complementing them on their thinness by saying things like, “You look great. I wish I could lose weight like you.” Recovering anorexics must learn that this type of response is typical in a culture that values thinness to such a degree, and that lasting success is not measured by external standards— like the size of one’s body. Real success is based on how one thinks and feels on the inside. from Anorexia Nervosa: A Guide to Recovery by Lindsey Hall & Monica Ostroff Anorexia Nervosa: A Guide to Recovery Lindsey Hall & Monika Ostroff 190 pg, paper, ’98 (Code: ANO) $13.95 Descriptions of more than 350 books at bulimia.com Also Available in Spanish “ Recovering from an eating disorder requires more than simply reading a self-help book. It requires determination, hard work, and the involvement of others. by Hall & Ostroff 4 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue ” THE ART OF After a long, long time being ill with anorexia, one of the Monte Nido clients writes this about how you begin to eat again… “I think you pick up your fork no matter how much your hand is shaking and how many tears are pouring down your face and you put the food in your mouth and chew. Chew as long as it takes, and once you swallow breathe. Take it slow at first, allow yourself to cry, to feel horrible, but remember why you are doing it. Because you are hoping for life, because you want to be at your sisters wedding, because you want to go to the beach with your best friend. Write it down, look at it while you chew, have someone with you to remind you. Keep doing this until it gets easier, and it will, I promise. Eventually you won’t need to write it down or have someone remind you all the time, eventually you’ll be able to stop shaking, to talk, to laugh, to eat with your best friend ON THE WAY to the beach. Soon you will realize the pain that caused you to stop eating can be dealt with and passes, and you learn to move forward, learning from that pain, eating and laughing and living. That’s what I would say.” by Carolyn Costin and Keesha Broome from EatingDisordersBlogs.com This Mean Disease Growing Up in the Shadow of My Mother’s Anorexia Daniel Becker 256 pg, paper, ’05 (Code: TMD) $14.95 Feeding the Starving Mind A Personalized, Comprehensive Approach to Overcoming Anorexia and Other Starvation Eating Disorders Doreen A. Samuelson 208 pg, paper, ’09 (Code: FSM ) $21.95 The Anorexia Workbook How to Accept Yourself, Heal Your Suffering, and Reclaim Your Life Michelle Heffner & Georg H. Eiffert 198 pg, paper, ’04 (Code: AWB) $21.95 100 Questions and Answers about Anorexia 12-Step Approach ANOREXIA NERVOSA Eating Again Anorexics and Bulimics Anonymous The Fellowship Details its Program of Recovery for Anorexia & Bulimia 288 pg, paper, ’02 (Code: ABA) $24.95 DIAGNOSING Anorexia Nervosa Anorexia nervosa (AN) is characterized by self-starvation. It is commonly diagnosed using criteria from the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM ). The definition of AN has evolved over the years, and will again in the DSM-5, which is scheduled for release in Spring, 2013. The most significant upcoming changes include eliminating amenorrhea as a requirement for women and the criterion that the patient be below “85% of recommended body weight.” Some clinicians choose from a variety of multi-question assessment tests to determine an eating disorder, and other countries have their own guidelines. Essentially, the criteria for AN can be generalized as follows: A. The individual has a significantly low weight due to restrictive eating. B. The individual has an intense fear of gaining weight or becoming fat, even though they are underweight. C. The individual has a distorted body image, bases their self-worth on the size and shape of their body, and denies that their low body weight is serious cause for concern. There are two specific types of anorexia nervosa. “Restricting Type” denotes individuals who lose weight primarily by reducing their overall food intake through dieting, fasting and/or exercising excessively. “Binge-Eating/Purging Type” describes those who regularly binge (consume large amounts of food in short periods of time), and purge through self-induced vomiting, excessive exercise, fasting, the abuse of diuretics, laxatives, and enemas, or any combination of these measures. Sari Fine Shepphird 243 pg, paper, ’09 (Code: OHQ) $24.95 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 5 BULIMIA Things To Do Overcoming Bulimia Workbook Randi McCabe, Traci McFarlane & Marion Olmsted 220 pg, paper, ’03 (Code: OBW) $24.95 eBooks Online The Mindfulness & Acceptance Workbook for Bulimia Emily Sandoz, Kelly Wilson, Troy Duprene 137 pg, paper, ’11 (Code: MAW) $21.95 INSTEAD of BINGEING Postpone the binge for 15 minutes. Set a timer. That should k give you enough time to figure out what to do next. k Brush your teeth. Take a shower or a hot bath. List the foods you are fantasizing about, seal the paper in k an envelope, and throw it away or burn it. Leave the environment that’s tempting you to binge. Go to a park, k library, or other safe place. Take a drive. k Call a supportive friend. Get your mind on something else. Surf the web. Turn on some k music or TV. Distract yourself from the cravings long enough to The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook for Bulimia Let out your emotions in an aggressive way. Hit a punching bag or k scream into a pillow. Wrestle with a safe support person. Beat your Ellen Astrachan-Fletcher & Michael Maslar part in physical activity. Go for a walk, jog, swim, or bike ride. k Take Hit golf balls or play tennis. 192 pg, paper, ’09 (CODE: DBW) $21.95 Brain Over Binge Why I Was Bulimic, Why Conventional Therapy Didn’t Work and How I Recovered for Good Kathryn Hansen 307 pg, paper, ’11 (Code: BOB) $16.95 settle down. bed with a tennis racket or baseball bat. in your journal. Be intimate and honest. Look back k Write at earlier entries for patterns or progress. Think about answers to these two questions: What’s the k payoff to this binge? Is it worth it? and use panic cards. Each would include one idea k Create with step-by-step instructions, such as, Work in the Garden: a. Go to the nursery and buy seeds, starter plants, or soil amendment. b. Return home and do planting. c. Offer gratitude and blessings to the garden. d. Show the garden to a friend or neighbor. 12-Step Approach Anorexics and Bulimics Anonymous The Fellowship Details its Program of Recovery for Anorexia & Bulimia 288 pg, paper, ’02 (Code: ABA) $24.95 6 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue E BULIMIA ncouragement: WHY GET BETTER? T he most important thing I can say about the struggle to end bulimia is that it is worth it. Even though it is more of a journey than a goal, and it begins in what feels like total darkness, there is a light that exists within your own self, which will guide you on your path to health and wholeness. It might surprise you to hear that many women who have recovered from an eating disorder believe that they are better off in the long run for having had one. They consider their problems with food and weight to have been their greatest teachers, without which they might never have seriously questioned their beliefs and values, or faced their inner fears. Recovery made them strong enough to resist cultural pressures to be thin, and they stopped judging other people based on size or shape. They learned to respond to old patterns in new ways, enabling them to tackle other problems with confidence and compassion. Although they are not focused on food, they eat well and enjoy the benefits of good nutrition. They are usually healthy, happy people. All these changes might be difficult to fathom now, when you feel caught in the cycle of bingeing and purging, but remember that “eating” disorders are not really about eating. They are evidence of other issues which, when healed, will transform the rest of your life. In time, you will find other things that will fill you up—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. As one person said to me, “Self-love can be delicious.” Inside of you is a creative, worthwhile, loving person. In your heart, you know this is true. Stick to your commitment; continue to participate in life instead of bingeing. Practice love and believe in yourself. Make lists, get support, enter therapy, follow our twoweek program. It takes time for such a big change. Don’t worry! Be willing to try anything to get better. In the words of one woman, “My life has not changed with recovery, it has begun!” by Lindsey Hall & Leigh Cohn from Bulimia: A Guide to Recovery Bulimia: A Guide to Recovery Lindsey Hall & Leigh Cohn 280 pg, paper, ’10 (Code: BUL25) $16.95 Also Available in Spanish NEW 50 Strategies to Sustain Recovery by Jocelyn Golden 221 pg, paper, ‘11 (Code: SSR) $11.99 DIAGNOSING Bulimia Nervosa The DSM criteria (see p. 4) for bulimia, also called bulimia nervosa, has evolved and can be summarized as follows: A. Recurrent episodes of binge eating, with an episode characterized by (1) eating in a discrete period of time, usually less than two hours, an amount of food that is significantly larger than most people would eat during a similar period of time and under similar circumstances; and, (2) a sense of lack of control over eating during the episode, such as a feeling that one cannot stop eating. B. Recurrent inappropriate compensatory behavior in order to prevent weight gain, such as self-induced vomiting, misuse of laxatives, diuretics, enemas, fasting, or excessive exercise. C. Behaviors occur at least once a week for at least three months. Since I have become free from bulimia, I experience happiness on a daily basis and share love, humor, and vulnerability with others. I never knew life could be this way, or that I could be this way. —a reader D. Self-evaluation unduly influenced by body shape and weight. E. Behavior occurs separate from anorexia nervosa. Also, there are many individuals with “subclinical” bulimia, who fulfill only some of the criteria. Whether or not these people technically have bulimia, their behaviors are also life damaging and need to be taken seriously. For example, someone may binge and purge less often than once a week, but still have all the concerns of someone who exhibits this behavior daily. 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 7 FAMILY-BASED TREATMENT PA R E N T S & L O V E D O N E S New Directions T wo decades ago Christopher Dare and Ivan Eisler laid out the principles of their groundbreaking Maudsley method of family based treatment for adolescent anorexia nervosa at the University of London’s Maudsley Hospital. This approach, which disregards the idea that parents are to blame for their child’s self-starvation and instead views them as key players in restoring their child’s weight and health, is now widely used for all types of disordered eating. Walter Kaye, M.D. director of UCSD’s Eating Disorder Research and Treatment Program, says, “Most people don’t have a Maudsley therapist in their backyard.” With this in mind, UCSD’s five-day family therapy program provides tools the family can take home with them and draw from without expert guidance close at hand. The program consists of family-based techniques such as coached family meals and psycho-educational sessions (including the biology of eating disorders and brain imaging studies), CBT, cognitive remediation therapy (to improve memory and cognitive flexibility), and systemic family therapy and nutrition and meal planning advice, which has not traditionally been part of the FBT approach. Nancy Zucker, Ph.D., director of the Duke University Eating Disorder Program, developed a parent skills program called “Off the C.U.F.F. (Calm, Unwavering, Firm and Funny)” at about the same time that Maudsley first came into use, around 2000. The program, influenced by Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, teaches parents skills to help their child manage disordered eating and weight concerns. By tuning into a child’s emotional state, a parent can help distract or soothe him or her before negative emotions take over. By taking care of themselves and each other, staying calm, firm, and retaining their sense of humor, parents model healthy behaviors and counter the lack of joy experienced by a seriously anorexic child. Off the C.U.F.F.’s parent group sessions can be done concurrently with Maudsley, and provide isolated and exhausted parents a safe haven where they can let off steam, compare notes, set goals, and learn healthy coping strategies. A manualized version of Off the C.U.F.F. is also available (see below). Two sites that offer Maudsley information, tips on how to search for a qualified Maudsley practitioner, and a list of family-based practitioners around the world are F.E.A.S.T. (www.feast-ed.org) and Maudsley Parents (www.maudsley parents.org). by Nancy Matsumoto, coauthor of The Parent’s Guide to Eating Disorders Read the entire article at EatingDisordersRecoveryToday.com NEW Family Eating Disorders Manual Guiding Families Through the Maze of Eating Disorders Laura Hill, David Dagg, Michael Levine, Linda Smolak, et al. The Parent’s Guide to Eating Disorders Supporting Self-Esteem, Healthy Eating, and Positive Body Image at Home 227 pg, spiral bound, ’12 (Code FEM) $45.00 Marcia Herrin & Nancy Matsumoto 324 pg, paper, ’07 (Code PGD) $18.95 Off the C.U.F.F. A Parent Skills Book for the Management of Disordered Eating Nancy Zucker 299 pg, spiral bound, ’06 (Code OTC) $35.00 Skills-based Learning for Caring for a Loved One with an Eating Disorder The New Maudsley Method Janet Treasure, Grainne Smith & Anna Crane “ Your focus as parents should not be, “What did we do to cause the eating disorder?” but instead, “What are the factors that are perpetuating it, and how can we change or eliminate them? 228 pg, paper, ’07 (Code: SBL) $24.95 8 • ” from The Parent’s Guide to Eating Disorders Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue Your Emotions B eing in a relationship with someone who has an eating disorder can be many things, including frightening, confusing, frustrating, and maddening. After all, your loved one is endangering (his or) her health and life. You’re going to need maximum strength and patience. Take time for yourself and your needs and make sure your other relationships remain healthy. You need to set an example by living a rich, full, and happy life. Put yourself first when it is appropriate! And don’t be shy about asking members of your loved one’s treatment team for ideas or recommendations, as well as comfort. be surprised if you have some pretty strong b Don’t emotions about the situation. This is normal. What’s more, there may be times when you don’t have the energy or patience to be fully present in that moment. That’s normal, too. A full range of reactions is to be expected and can be managed. some help for yourself, such as counseling or b Getting joining a group for parents, is recommended. b There you can ask questions, explore how your loved one’s eating disorder makes you feel, and to learn to confront these emotions in healthy and constructive ways. Groups are particularly helpful because you will hear other parents share their experiences and the ways in which they deal with them, and you can be reminded you aren’t alone in what you going through. Connecting with your emotions has several benefits. For one thing, it allows you to stay connected to your loved one. For example, if you are trying not to feel angry or scared, you won’t be able to pay attention to what she is saying or how you might want to respond. You’ll be distracted and stymied by your efforts to pretend that you are calm when you are not. b Also, you are a crucial role model for your loved one. She needs to see you can experience a wide range of emotions without becoming overwhelmed—something she is much of the time. If you act as though you don’t feel such things as frustration or fear, she’ll follow your lead and try to deny or rid herself of these kinds of emotions. A major aspect of her recovery is learning to believe she can tolerate and survive her feelings. She needs to observe people successfully doing this very thing. “For years we all tiptoed around, like we didn’t feel anything. It took my daughter’s anorexia to break us out of that. Now we feel connected to each other. It doesn’t mean everything’s always happy, but it does mean we always get to be real.” —a parent by Johanna Marie McShane & Tony Paulson, PhD, from Why She Feels Fat Why She Feels Fat Understanding Your Loved One’s Eating Disorder and How You Can Help Johanna Marie McShane & Tony Paulson 152 pg, paper, ’07 (Code: WSF) $14.95 INSURANCE DENIED? Read in-depth article at EatingDisordersReview.com: “Three Experts Outline Strategies to Counteract Insurance Denials” Help Your Teenager Beat an Eating Disorder James Lock & Daniel Le Grange 295 pg, paper, ’04 (Code: HYT) $17.95 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 9 PA R E N T S & L O V E D O N E S Connecting with Confessions of a PA R E N T S & L O V E D O N E S Father Hunger Father Fathers, Daughters, and the Pursuit of Thinness Margo Maine, 317 pg, paper, ’04 (Code: FHR) $15.95 I FAMILY THERAPY A M I LY T H E R A P Y, whether it includes everyone in the family or just those most able to participate, is a perfect opportunity for exploring eating disorders and relationship issues. It a safe place where everyone can express thoughts and feelings, using a trained, objective professional as a middleman. You can all talk about things you might be afraid to say at home on your own. Your family will learn that no one is to blame for the eating disorder, but that everyone is responsible for taking productive steps towards healing. Family therapy, coupled with assertiveness training, is an extremely effective tool for recovery. In some cases, therapists treating adolescents require that the family be treated as a whole. Ideally, all family members would share the goal of improving their relationships, so that not only would the individual with the eating disorder feel supported, but the entire family dynamic would also improve, affecting every member in a positive way. Sometimes multi-family therapy groups, where several families get together in a facilitated meeting, can be beneficial. This type of setting encourages families to share their experiences and get the support that they need, as well. A child with an eating disorder is a scary thing and parents need a place to voice their concerns, ask questions of other families, and find reassurance. F by Hall & Cohn 10 • n the middle of my daughter’s freshman year at college, her eating disorder returned for a repeat visit. From all physical indications, we thought we had successfully helped her overcome her disorder. However, we had not sufficiently addressed the central issues: how she feels about life, the pressures she feels to prove her self-worth to her family and others, the prospects of unattainable perfection, and the destructive behaviors and attitude she employs to try and feel and be seen as valuable. Apparently, the cycle was not complete. For whatever reason, our family was given a challenge and a conflict to face and resolve. We had the choice to work it out or let it continue to fester. Subsequently, we had an opportunity to uncover resources and strengthen our family relationships or retreat from this growth experience. We could continue to sabotage our growth with self-limiting thoughts and emotions, such as fear or resentment, or choose a course of self-fulfillment, forgiveness, and love. Our family chose the latter course. With the help of others and our most competent teacher, our daughter, we navigated a course of possibilities and greater respect for the value each of us contributes toward strengthening our family. Recovering from an eating disorder has empowered our daughter with confidence to express her needs and ask to be recognized as an authentic person. Her experience has provided tools and a voice to enlighten us to create a climate where she is addressed as an equal family member. As a family participating in our daughter's recovery, we made a concerted effort to point our compass toward rays of hope and sunshine. The Universe wants us to learn from the happy occurrences that happen to us. Balance is achieved, however, by learning from painful experiences as well. Our responsibility is to develop awareness, set intentions, and continue to walk toward the sunshine. by John Greaser, PhD, from EatingDisordersRecoveryToday.com “ When Food is Family A Loving Approach to Heal Eating Disorders Judy Scheel 180 pg, paper, ’11 (Code: WFF) $18.00 Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue Adolescent girls who reported more frequent family meals, a positive atmosphere at meals, and more structured meals had less risk for engaging in unhealthy weight control behaviors. ” from EatingDisordersReview.com Perspectives and Strategies for Family & Friends Michelle Siegel, Judith Brisman & Margot Weinshel SUPPORTING Your Loved One THROUGH RECOVERY 222 pg, paper, ’09 (Code: SED) $16.99 Andrea’s Voice: Silenced By Bulimia Her Story and Her Mother’s Journey Through Grief Toward Understanding Doris Smeltzer with Andrea Lynn Smeltzer 256 pg, paper, ’06 (Code: ANV) $15.95 I f you are supporting someone in recovery, I encourage you to learn everything you can about eating disorders. These are complex illnesses, and no two cases will respond to treatment in the same way. Also, discuss with the person you are assisting their expectations for your involvement. At the same time, set boundaries that make it clear that he or she is responsible for their own recovery, affirming that you will do whatever possible to help. Here are more general suggestions: Remember that your loved one has the food problem, and it is up to them to do the work. Make a pact of complete honesty. Be patient, sympathetic, non-judgmental, and a good listener. Let them know that you care and have their best interests at heart. Brave Girl Eating The Inspirational True Story of One Family’s Battle with Anorexia Harriet Brown 268 pg, paper, ’10 (Code: BGE) $14.99 Accept that recovery is a process and does not happen quickly. Help him or her to be patient, as well. When their behavior affects you, express yourself without placing guilt or blame. Try not to take their actions personally. Use “I” messages, explaining your feelings and concerns. You may need to disengage to take care of yourself. Have compassion. Your loved one may be overwhelmed as they gets in touch with the painful issues underlying the behavior. They will need your love and support at these times more than ever. eBooks Online Continually remind yourself that your loved one uses bulimia as a way of coping with life. Encourage them to find healthier ways. Do not try to guess what they wants, but urge them to express their needs and boundaries. Assure them that they can say “No” sometimes! If you have questions, ask. Learn about issues related to eating disorders, such as: societal pressures, the glorification of thinness, physical consequences of starvation, weight prejudice, set point, family dynamics, and self-esteem. Campaign for professional therapy, keeping in mind that no single approach to recovery works for everyone. Be available for joint counseling. Be flexible and open in supporting whatever method is chosen. Don’t comment on appearance. You may think you are offering compliments, but they can sometimes be misinterpreted. Recognize that they need to learn to make their own decisions, and that the direction of recovery is their responsibility. by Lindsey Hall & Leigh Cohn from Bulimia: A Guide to Recovery 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 11 PA R E N T S & L O V E D O N E S Surviving an Eating Disorder H E A LT H Y E AT I N G BY KAREN KOENIG Treasures, Not Trash Read Karen’s blog at EatingDisordersBlogs.com W hether you’re just beginning to address your under- or overeating problems, or have been making steady progress for years or decades, to achieve full recovery there’s one area you’ll have to address: you must learn how to put your emotions to work. This means not dancing around uncomfortable feelings by eating or calorie counting, obsessing about what you can/can’t/should/shouldn’t eat, or focusing on the numbers on the scale. Every time you use food instead of feeling an authentic emotion, you miss an opportunity to discover something about what’s happening in your internal world. Emotions help us decide what is self-threatening—spotting flames across the room and smelling smoke—and what is self-enhancing—sensory delight derived from gazing out over the ocean as gulls soar overhead and the sun dips into the sea. What if emotions aren’t demons after all? What if emotions are your teachers and caretakers? What if they’re not trash but treasures? Recovery means blossoming into a full, emotionally mature person. For that to happen you must (yes, must) learn to experience all of your feelings; you can’t pick and choose. Becoming emotionally healthy is an all or nothing proposition, but one you can achieve over time. If you believe you can’t bear your feelings alone, find a therapist who can guide you through them. Share your feelings with friends, start a journal, hug yourself, cry, holler till you’re hoarse, beat your pillow, sob till you’re exhausted. At some point, you have to choose between food and feeling. You already know where a food obsession will lead you, so why not give feelings a try? The Food & Feelings Workbook A Full Course Meal on Emotional Health 216 pg, paper, ’07 (Code: FAF) $18.95 The Rules of “Normal” Eating A Commonsense Approach for Dieters, Overeaters, Undereaters, Emotional Eaters, and Everyone in Between! 240 pg, paper, ’05 (Code: RUL) $14.95 COMING IN OCTOBER by Karen R. Koenig from EatingDisordersRecoveryToday.com Seven Keys to a Permanent, Positive Relationship with Food and Your Body A HEALTHY EATING RITUAL Before eating, create an intention for your meal and light a candle as a symbol. If you’re dining with family or friends, share your intention out loud. This can be a beautiful ritual that allows each person to be heard and honored for exactly where they are today. A caregiver’s intention might be, “I will keep the focus on myself and enjoy each bite of food.” For someone in recovery it might be, “I am willing to nourish my body with this food,” or “I am committed to stop eating when I feel full.” Then take some time to be together in gratitude for yourself, each other, and the food that you are about to eat. NEW Reinventing the Meal how mindfulness can help you slow down, savor the moment & reconnect with the ritual of eating Pavel G. Somov 203 pg, paper, ’12 (Code: RTM) $17.95 by Dawn Copeland & Joanna Lindenbaum from EatingDisordersRecoveryToday.com 12 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue Journey Toward Freedom Rediscovering the Pleasure of Normal Eating Kate Butitta & Marna M. Canterbury 91 pg, paper, ’06 (Code: JTF) $9.95 I N T U I T I V E E AT I N G I ntuitive eating means having a positive relationship with food of all kinds. For intuitive eaters, meals are not a moral dilemma resulting in feelings of guilt and shame, but rather a place to practice tuning into one’s inner needs and fulfilling those needs in a healthy, nurturing way. While there are many ways of incorporating intuitive eating, three core characteristics stand out: 1. Unconditional permission to eat. 2. Reliance on internal hunger and satiety cues. 3. Eating for physical, rather than emotional reasons. Although most chronic dieters and disordered eaters have lost touch with these skills, the good news is that they can be relearned through attunement—a process of listening and responding to your body cues, rather than focusing on rigid food rules. This means making decisions about eating based on what your body is experiencing. For example, if you have a grumbling stomach (one of many hunger cues), you might respond by eating a snack, rather than sticking to a rigid rule like, “It’s not okay to eat between meals.” Without considering your internal body cues of what would best satisfy hunger, you can easily feel deprived. This in turn may increase cravings and thoughts of food, overeating, dieting, and heighten anxiety around snacks and meals. NEW eBooks Online Intuitive Eating A Revolutionary Program that Works Fully Revised Evelyn Tribole & Elyse Resch Studies show that trusting and satisfying one’s physical hunger causes an increase in well-being, both physically and mentally. One study looked at the relationship between intuitive eating and the quality of the diet in 343 college students. The results showed that the intuitive eaters did not make poor nutritional choices. Rather, these students had a greater diversity in eating, more satisfaction, and healthier body weights. Another study of 1,300 college women found intuitive eaters were more optimistic, had better self-esteem, a lower body mass index (BMI), and were less likely to internalize our culture’s unrealistic thin ideal.* APPLYING INTUITIVE EATING TO YOUR LIFE So, how do you balance creating a positive relationship with food, while also considering nutrition? Several factors come to mind: 1. Getting in touch with your internal satiety cues of hunger and fullness. 2. Discovering satisfaction in eating. 3. Using nutrition information without judgment. When you can enjoy food with unconditional permission, the process of eating becomes emotionally neutral: you do not feel good or bad based on what you eat. You also understand that one meal will not make or break your health— or your weight. Ultimately, intuitive eating feels good, which is self-reinforcing. Remember, when you can truly eat intuitively, it doesn’t take much chocolate to satisfy a sweet tooth. by Evelyn Tribole, MS, RD 344 pg, paper, ’12, (Code: INE) $15.99 *Read the entire article, including references, at EatingDisordersRecoveryToday.com Eat, Drink, and Be Mindful (Workbook) Mindful & Mindless Eating (Audio CD) Susan Albers 65 min. (Code: MFE) $18.00 Guided Meditations to Become Lighter with Food Robin Maynard-Dobbs 200 pg, paper, ’09 (Code: ETD) $19.95 NEW Food to Eat Eating Mindfully Susan Albers 168 pg, paper, ’03 (Code: EMF) $16.95 50 Ways to Soothe Yourself Without Food Susan Albers 218 pg, paper, ’09 (Code: WTS) $16.95 Guided, Hopeful & Trusted Recipes for Eating Disorder Recovery Lori Lieberman & Cate Sangster 127 pg, paper, ’12 (Code: FTE) $24.99 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 13 H E A LT H Y E AT I N G Can You Be Healthy and Eat Anything? Recovery from B I N G E E AT I N G Anatomy of a Food Addiction The Brain Chemistry of Overeating Anne Katherine BINGE EATING 241 pg, paper, ’91 (Code: AFA) $14.95 DISORDER NEW End Emotional Eating Using DBT Skills to Cope with Difficult Emotions and Develop and Healthy Relationship to Food Jennifer L. Taitz 240 pg, paper, ’12 (Code EEE) $17.95 NEW Stop Eating Your Heart Out The 21-Day Program to Free Yourself from Emotional Eating Meryl Hersey Beck 235 pg, paper, ’12 (Code SEH) $16.95 B inge eating seems to meet some need for those who suffer. Eating is comforting—it can help us push unpleasant feelings away, deal with boredom, allow us to feel satisfied and taken care of, and distract us from stress or pain. Food also tastes good and provides satisfaction. Compulsive overeaters can have all sorts of reasons for bingeing, but their condition takes on a life of its own and transforms from a source of comfort to a monumental, self-destructive condition that negatively impacts quality of life. The key to recovery is combining the motivation to get well and live differently with a good primary treatment experience, followed by a solid continuing care program that helps avoid relapse. Each compulsive overeater must make their recovery the top priority in their life and simultaneously be willing to change. Recovery, then, is dependent upon adopting new coping strategies, finding new ways to deal with feelings, identifying “high risk situations” and avoiding them whenever possible, and engaging in the routine use of new tools to get through life’s daily difficulties. To accomplish this, compulsive overeaters need to utilize a support system that maximizes a proactive response to healthy living and minimizes the isolation and self-delusion that accompany the disorder. Being able to avoid a relapse is the ultimate goal for all those who suffer from eating disorders. This is equally true for binge eaters. by Mark Cohen, DSW, MPH Read the entire article at EatingDisordersRecoveryToday.com The CompassionateMind Guide to Ending Overeating Ken Goss 235 pg, paper, ’11 (Code: TCG) $24.95 Crave Why You Binge Eat and How to Stop Cynthia M. Bulik 288 pg, paper, ’09 (Code: CRV) $16.00 The Binge Eating & Compulsive Overeating Workbook Carolyn Coker Ross 200 pg, paper, ’09 (Code: BCO) $21.95 14 • DIAGNOSING Binge Eating Disorder Beginning in 2013, Binge Eating Disorder (BED) has its own classification in the DSM-5 (see page 5). Note, BED does not have a weight criterion and should not be confused with obesity, which is a medical condition rather than an eating disorder. Other terms sometimes used to describe BED include compulsive overeating, emotional eating, or food addiction. The DSM-5 criteria can be summarized as: A. Recurrent episodes of binge eating, which are characterized by (1) eating in a discrete period of time, usually less than two hours, an amount of food that is significantly larger than most people would eat during a similar period of time and under similar circumstances; and, (2) a sense of lack of control during the episode. B. The binge-eating episodes are associated with 3 (or more) of the following: (1) eating more rapidly than normal, (2) eating until feeling uncomfortably full, (3) eating large amounts of food when not feeling physically hungry, (4) eating alone because of feeling embarrassed; and, (5) feeling disgusted with oneself, depressed, or guilty after overeating. C. Marked distress regarding binge eating is present. D. The binge eating occurs, on average, at least once a week for 3 months. E. The binge eating is not associated with the recurrent use of inappropriate compensatory behavior and occurs separate from either bulimia nervosa or anorexia nervosa. Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue Have compassion for yourself. Be honest and kind to yourself as you examine your beliefs, thought patterns, and assumptions about your body and the bodies of other people. Expand your idea of beauty. Expand your concept of what is beautiful. View art. Observe different cultures. Spend time in nature. Constantly remind yourself that everyone is beautiful in his or her own way. Think about people you admire. In what ways are they beautiful? Let go of perfectionism. In the same way that you are learning to accept yourself—flaws and all—you will also be learning to accept your unique body. Striving to reach an arbitrary idea of physical perfection is a form of self-sabotage, and is not possible anyway. Talk back to harmful body thoughts. When you hear yourself being self-disparaging, talk back. Use positive affirmations and rational, rather than emotional, language. Process body trauma with support. Sometimes, body image issues are symptoms of past trauma, such as teasing, abuse, rejection, or abandonment. Healing the pain of trauma is a challenging and intimate process. Working with a qualified therapist is recommended. Love Your Body Body Image Workbook Change the Way You Feel About the Body You Have Tami Brannon-Quan & Lisa Licavoli An 8-Step Program for Learning to Like Your Looks —Second Edition Thomas Cash 88 pg, paper, ’07 (Code: LBO) $19.95 221 pg, paper, ’08 (Code: BIW) $21.95 BODY IMAGE Ways to Improve BODY IMAGE Tolerate negative body talk without acting on it. You don’t go from bulimia to loving your body in one day. Acknowledge that it’s a process, and that negative body talk is inevitable. But don’t act on the thoughts by turning to old habits. Instead, learn to talk back, or decide that you just aren’t going to listen right now. Understand the deeper meanings of negative body talk. Negative body talk is a symptom of an eating disorder, just like bingeing and purging. There can be deeper meaning behind the phrases “I feel fat” (I feel worthless) or “I have to lose weight” (My life lacks meaning). When you have these thoughts, recognize that they are code for deeper issues, and investigate. Reconnect your mind and body. Certain activities—yoga, stretching, dancing, Pilates, Tai Chi—bring the mind and body together by focusing on the physical experience of the moment. These are wonderful practices for both quieting the mind and building a friendship with the body. Write a love letter to your body. Thank your body for all the good things it does for you. Appreciate it for giving you a life. Tell it the kinds of things you would say to a soul mate, because, after all, your body is your soul’s companion! The Exercise Balance The Woman in the Mirror How to Stop Confusing What You Look Like with Who You Are Cynthia M. Bulik 252 pg, paper, ’12 (Code: WIM) $16.00 What’s Too Much, What’s Too Little, and What’s Just Right for You! Pauline Powers & Ron Thompson 300 pg, paper, ’08 (Code: EXB) $17.95 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 15 RECOVERY THE LOG Metaphor Eating in the Light of the Moon How women can transform their relationships with food through myths, metaphors & storytelling Anita Johnston 224 pg, paper, ’00 (Code: EIL) $16.95 I magine yourself standing in the rain on the bank of a raging river. Suddenly, the water-swollen bank gives way. You fall in and find yourself being tossed around in the rapids. Your efforts to keep afloat are futile and you are drowning. By chance, along comes a huge log and you grab it and hold on tight. The log keeps your head above water and saves your life. Clinging to the log you are swept downstream and eventually come to a place where the water is calm. There, in the distance, you see the riverbank and attempt to swim to shore. You are unable to do so, however, because you are still clinging to the huge log with one arm as you stroke with the other. How ironic. The very thing that saved your life is now getting in the way of your getting where you want to go. There are people on shore who see you struggle and yell, “Let go of the log!” But you are unable to do so because you have no confidence in your ability to make it to shore. And so, very slowly and carefully, you let go of the log and practice floating. When you start to sink, you grab back on. Then you let go of the log and practice treading water, and when you get tired, hold on once again. After awhile, you practice swimming around the log once, twice, ten times, twenty times, a hundred times, until you gain the strength and confidence you need to swim to shore. Only then do you completely let go of the log. BY JENNI SCHAEFER Read Jenni’s blog at EatingDisordersBlogs.com by Anita Johnston from Eating in the Light of the Moon NEW in JUNE by Jenni Schaefer Almost Anorexic Is My (or My Loved One’s) Relationship with Food a Problem? Jennifer J. Thomas & Jenni Schaefer 287 pg, paper, ’10 (Code: ALA) $14.99 Life Without Ed How One Woman Declared Independence from Her Eating Disorder & How You Can Too Jenni Schaefer with Thom Rutledge 188 pg, paper, ’04 (Code: LWE) $16.95 Goodbye Ed, Hello Me Recovery is a marathon, not a sprint. We must give ourselves time to fully heal. by Jenni Schaefer 16 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue Recover from Your Eating Disorder and Fall in Love with Life 249 pg, paper, ’09 (Code: GEH) $16.95 phoenix, Tennessee (Music CD) 7 songs, ’10 (Code: PNX) $15.00 CONNECT WITH fter leaving residential treatment I stayed in touch with the friends I had made there. I used those connections to aid me in my daily struggles. They knew how challenging recovery could be, and we shared many of the same goals. Having someone on the other end of the phone who understood my feelings was a tremendous help. We brainstormed and cried with each other and sometimes met for coffee or just to hang out. Sometimes, I emailed someone or picked up the phone to get words of encouragement. Those connections kept me moving forward so that I could redirect my negative thoughts into positive ones and have a reality check. My attitude always improved when they would say, “I believe in you, I am proud of you, and you aren’t alone.” and other practical tools to conquer your eating disorder and find freedom Cheryl Kerrigan 189 pg, paper, ’10 (Code: TEO) $16.95 Self-Esteem Tools for Recovery Lindsey Hall & Leigh Cohn 128 pg, paper, ’90 (Code: SET) $12.95 by Cheryl Kerrigan from Telling Ed No! eBooks Online 8 Keys to Recovery from an Eating Disorder Effective Strategies from Therapeutic Practice and Personal Experience Carolyn Costin & Gwen Schubert Grabb 278 pg, paper, ’12 (Code: KTR) $19.95 Life Beyond Your Eating Disorder Reclaim Yourself, Regain Your Health, Recover for Good Johanna S. Kandel 219 pg, paper, ’10, (Code: LBE) $16.95 Healing Your Hungry Heart Stories, Meditations, and Exercises for Health and Freedom Joanna Poppink 245 pg, paper, ’11 (Code: HYH) $16.95 FIND A THERAPIST at bulimia.com THE BENCH I know the journey is hard. There’s a bench just up ahead Under some trees. Let’s sit down, Stop for a while. We don’t have to talk Unless you want to. We can listen to the birds sing, Feel the wind, Enjoy the view, And see, Really see The life that’s out there for us. Then, When we are both ready, We can continue Our journey of recovery. I know it has its bumps And steep hills, But it also has its Easier, smoother valleys and vistas. The most important thing, My friend, Is that we not travel it alone. It is a journey meant to be taken Hand in hand. Take mine. by Anne Edwards from EatingDisordersRecoveryToday.com 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 17 RECOVERY A Supports Telling Ed No! RECOVERY IDEAS for Making Weight Healing Men’s Conflicts with Food, Weight, Shape & Appearance Arnold Andersen, Leigh Cohn, & Thomas Holbrook CULTIVATING Healthy Relationships 256 pg, paper, ’00 (Code: MEN) $17.95 NEW Group ➺ Be honest at all times. ➺ Assert yourself; say what’s on your mind. Reach out to long-distance friends with letters, calls, ➺ and e-mail. Voices Within the Journey of Eating Disorder Recovery Annette Aberdale-Kendra 229 pg, paper, ’12 (Code: GRP) $20.00 ➺ Make eye contact when you talk in person. ➺ Ask questions, listen, and be supportive. Seek out a long-lost friend, who knew and liked you ➺ before you had bulimia. Volunteer at a retirement home and “adopt” someone ➺ who is lonely. The Body Myth Adult Women and the Pressure to be Perfect Margo Maine & Joe Kelly 279 pg, hard, ’05 (Code: BMY) $24.95 Spend time with small children or animals—they will ➺ accept you unconditionally. Restoring Our Bodies, Reclaiming Our Lives If you anticipate a conversation to be difficult or confronta➺ tional, try role playing it first with a friend or therapist. Guidance and Reflections on Recovery from Eating Disorders Aimee Liu ➺ ➺ Keep good company! See the best in everyone, especially yourself. 240 pg, paper, ’11 (Code: ROB) $14.95 by Lindsey Hall & Leigh Cohn from Bulimia: A Guide to Recovery Beating ANA How to Outsmart Your Eating Disorder and Take Your Life Back Shannon Cutts NEDAwareness Week February 24– March 2, 2013 NEDAwareness Week is a collective effort of primary volunteers, including eating disorder professionals, health care providers, students, educators, social workers, and individuals committed to raising awareness of the dangers surrounding eating disorders and the need for early intervention and treatment. See NEDA on the back page. NEDA Logo 18” Sterling Silver Necklace 236 pg, paper, ’09 (Code: BTA) $14.95 Visit Shannon’s recovery blog at EatingDisordersBlogs.com I too can safely and wisely choose the relationships, situations, and experiences that are best for me, and boldly say ‘no’ when I mean no, and ‘yes’ when I mean yes. #30130 $65.00 Shop for more NEDA jewelry, promotional items, and clothing at bulimia.com. 18 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue by Shannon Cutts from Beating Ana Healing Food, Weight and Body Issues Andrea Wachter & Marsea Marcus W 256 pg, paper, ’99 (Code: DDL) $18.95 e encourage you to discover that you are worthy of experiencing yourself and your life as joyful and loving. This is not about appearances; it’s about being the person you are and appreciating your place in the world. How do you get there? By listening to and honoring your inner voice, by acknowledging your unique gifts, and by attending to your needs—whether physical, spiritual, or emotional. As you become more self-accepting, you will begin to experience yourself in a more loving way. The need to use disordered eating behaviors to hide from your feelings and lived experiences will seem far less essential. And most importantly, you will be motivated to care for your body because it is the “form” in which you get to experience love—both with others and for yourself. The Food & Feelings Workbook A Full Course Meal on Emotional Health Karen R. Koenig 216 pg, paper, ’07 (Code: FAF) $18.95 by Mindy Jacobson-Levy & Maureen Foy-Tornay from Finding Your Voice through Creativity The Slender Trap A Food and Body Workbook Lauren Lazar Stern Finding Your Voice through Creativity 259 pg, spiral, ’10 (Code: SLT) $34.95 The Art and Journaling Workbook for Disordered Eating Mindy Jacobson-Levy & Maureen Foy-Tornay • 192 pg, soft, ’09 (Code: FYV) $18.95 Overcoming Your Eating Disorder EXERCISE A Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy Approach for Bulimia Nervosa and Binge-Eating Disorder Robin F. Apple & W. Stewart Agras T ake an entire day to accept everything about yourself. You may feel that this is ridiculous, but do it anyway. It is just one day. After your morning shower, for example, as you towel off and are getting dressed, take a moment to look in the mirror. If a voice wants to point out flaws, tell it to go away. You are having a self-acceptance day. Repeat affirmative statements, both written and verbal—this act rewrites your internal script. Feel the energy of the words as they sink in! by Lindsey Hall & Monika Ostroff from Anorexia Nervosa: A Guide to Recovery See Therapist’s Guide on pg. 27 197 pg, paper, ’08 (Code: OEC) $27.95 The Relaxation & Stress Reduction Workbook Sixth Edition Martha Davis, Elizabeth Eshelman & Matthew McKay 207 pg, paper, ’00 (Code: RSW) $21.95 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 19 RECOVERY WORKBOOKS Self Acceptance The Don’t Diet, Live-It! Workbook SPIRITUALITY CHRISTIAN NEW Chasing Silhouettes Emily T. Wierenga 201 pg, paper, ’12 (Code: CHS) $14.99 Hope, Help, & Healing for Eating Disorders Revised and Expanded Gregory L. Jantz 200 pg, paper, ’10 (Code: HHH) $14.99 & M Mindfulness Recovery indfulness is a practice of stilling the mind by purposefully paying attention to the present moment in a completely nonjudgmental manner. Here in this place of acceptance, where we acknowledge that being human means having ups and downs, strengths and weaknesses, we discover a connection to our inner selves. This connection, which we strengthen by practicing mindfulness, can be a foundation for our journey to wholeness and healing. When practicing mindfulness, we become an observer of our experience. Thoughts about food, body preoccupation, stress, and relationships float through our mind as softly as leaves floating down a river. As we gather more mindfulness skills we become the stable boulder in the middle of the river. The obsessive thoughts slip by as we remain a grounded observer of our experience. Ultimately, we move from relying on harmful behaviors as a means to cope, to feeling nurtured by a sense of deep relaxation and the realization of personal insights. by Danielle Beck-Ellsworth from EatingDisordersRecoveryToday.com I’m Beautiful? Why Can’t I See It? NEW Love Your Body, Love Your Life Daily Encouragement to Promote Healthy Eating & Positive Self-Esteem Kimberly Davidson 5 Steps to End Negative Body Obsession and Start Living Happily and Confidently Sarah Maria 332 pg, paper, ’06 (Code: IBW) $18.99 Desperately Seeking Self 240 pg, paper, ’12 (Code: LYB) $14.95 An Inner Guidebook for People with Eating Problems Viola Fodor 173 pg, paper, ’97 (Code: DSS) $12.95 The Religion of Thinness Satisfying the Spiritual Hungers behind Women’s Obsession with Food and Weight Michelle Lelwica 173 pg, paper, ’09 (Code: ROT) $18.95 Seeing Yourself in God’s Image Overcoming Anorexia and Bulimia Martha Homme Facilitator’s Guide 105 pg, paper, ’99 (Code: SYF) $15.95 Group Member’s Guide 96 pg, paper, ’99 (Code: SYG) $12.95 20 • Meal by Meal 365 Daily Meditations for Finding Balance through Mindful Eating Donald Altman 365 pg, paper, ’04 (Code: MBM) $16.95 Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue IMPERFECTION E arlier this year, I was invited to spend three days at a resort in Florida. On the beach, I was amazed by what I saw. There were hundreds of almost naked bodies and no two of them were alike. There were old men, young men, bikini-clad teenage girls in baseball caps, old women in big straw hats—it was all there, and all incredibly and uncomfortably exposed. The part of me that struggles with my own body shame wanted to scream, “Put some clothes on, people! Cover up!” The other part of me wanted to strip naked and roll in the sand (and I hate sand). I felt this incredibly strong and uncomfortable tension inside me. Part of me was ashamed by what I saw and the other part of me was liberated. One voice within me was small and apologetic; the other wanted to shout with joy. As I sank deeper and deeper into my own struggle looking from person to person, I realized there was only one thing that all of these people had in common: imperfection. Everyone was too naked, too exposed, too real. Everyone was imperfect, and I was both drawn to the imperfection and repelled by it. A few months have passed since that day on the beach, and I haven’t stopped thinking and writing about imperfection and my experience that day. Two questions that emerged were: 1) Why do we believe that being imperfect is the same as being inadequate? 2) As totally imperfect beings, how do we move past the idea that our imperfections make us unworthy of belonging and connection? I believe that it is essential for each of us to not just answer these questions, but also live our way into the answer. For me, I believe that our imperfections are what connect us to each other and to our humanity. Yes, our imperfect bodies, lives, careers and families can cause us tremendous grief and suffering; however, our greatest moments of courage, compassion and connection are also created from these difficult experiences. I know for me that it is only when I understand and embrace my vulnerabilities and imperfections that I start to experience the resilience I need to be my best, most authentic self. by Brené Brown from EatingDisordersRecoveryToday.com NEW NEW Eating to Lose Ten Mile Morning Healing from a Life of Diabulimia Maryjeanne Hunt My Journey Through Anorexia Nervosa Adam Lamparello 1651pg, paper, ’12 (Code: ETL) $16.95 A Starving Madness Tales of Hunger, Hope & Healing in Psychotherapy Judith Ruskay Rabinor 163 pg, paper, ’12 (Code: TMM) $28.99 212 pg, paper, ’02 (Code: ASM) $14.95 NEW Just Tell Her to Stop Family Stories of Eating Disorders Becky Henry Something Spectacular The True Story of One Rockette’s Battle with Bulimia Greta Gleissner 248 pg, paper, ’12 (Code: SMS) $16.00 277 pg, paper, ’11 (Code: JTH) $15.95 PERSONAL STORIES More than 30 memoirs and many free recovery stories at bulimia.com 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 21 AE P NR OSRO EN XA I AL NSETR OVRO I ESSA Embracing NEW F O R K I D S / T E E N S / Y O U N G A D U LT S No “Body” is Perfect But They are all Beautiful Denise Folcik Illustrated by Lily Weber Ages 3–6 Shapesville 32 pg, paper, ’12 (Code: NBP) $7.95 Andy Mills & Becky Osborn Illustrated by Erica Neitz Children ages 3–8 32 pg, ’03 hard (Code: SHV) $14.95 paper (Code: SHP) $7.95 Full Mouse Empty Mouse A Tale of Food and Feelings Dina Zeckhausen Ages 7–12 Includes a note to educators and parents with discussion questions. 40 pg, paper, ’08 (Code: FME) $9.95 NEW NEW Girl Zone Body Talk The Straight Facts on Fitness, Nutrition & Feeling Great about Yourself Ann Douglas & Julie Douglas Girls ages 9–13 64 pg, paper, ’02 (Code: GLZ) $9.95 The Ultimate Tween Survival Guide Girl Lost: Dina Zeckhausen Girls ages 9–13 Finding Your Voice Through Eating Disorder Recovery Lynn Moore Girls ages 9–13 87 pg, paper, ’12 (Code: TSG) $19.99 62 pg, paper, ’11 (Code: GRL) $10.95 You Grow Girl A Self-Empowering Workbook for Tweens & Teens Gina Scarano-Osika & Kim Dever-Johnson Girls ages 9–14 116 pg, paper, ’08 (Code: YGG) $15.95 eBooks Online What’s Eating You? 22 A Workbook for Teens with Anorexia, Bulimia and Other Eating Disorders Tammy Nelson Teens The Beginner’s Guide to Eating Disorders Recovery 105 pg, paper, ’05 (Code: WEY) $16.95 224 pg, paper, ’04 (Code: BGD) $14.95 • Nancy Kolodny Teen and College-aged readers Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue How I Look Journal Molly & Nan Dellheim Middle and HS girls 134 pg, paper, ’07 (Code: HOW) $18.95 Talking to More curricula at bulimia.com NEW Teaching Kids What They Need to Know Kathy J. Kater about 260 pg, paper, ’12 (Code: HBC) $65.00 BODY IMAGE with your kids about the nutritional value R Talk and variety of different foods, the art of cooking, R R R R R R R R R and the fun and pleasure of eating. Try not to label food as “good” or “bad.” Some foods are more nutrient dense than others, but morally all food is equal—it’s fuel! Discuss the difference between emotional and physical hunger and how the two often get mixed up. Physical hunger is a feeling in the belly that the body needs fuel. Emotional hunger is usually a need to express feelings or have feelings acknowledged. Along these same lines, talk about the role of feelings: that they are signposts for living, and not to be “stuffed” or “starved” away. DVDs More hand-picked, non-triggering movies at bulimia.com Someday Melissa NEW NEW With Guided Discussions for Recovery 42 min, ’11 (Code: SMD) $75.00 Recovering: Anorexia Nervosa and Bulimia Nervosa 42 min, ’11 (Code: REC) $79.95 NEW Do not comment about other people’s bodies. This sets up a comparison mentality that is harmful and hard to give up. Talk about how everyone is beautiful in their own way, and that beauty is an inner quality. ED101 The Facts About Eating Disorders 30 min, ’12 (Code: EON) $29.99 Speaking Out About ED 42 min, ’11 (Code: SOE) $29.99 Make a list of all the things that our bodies do for us. Help kids appreciate their various body parts rather than criticize them. Watch TV together and discuss the emphasis our culture places on looks, image, and thinness. Explain how marketing and advertising use idealized images to sell products. Look at family photos and talk about where your size and shape came from. Encourage your kids to exercise for the joy of movement, not for how many calories they might burn. Talk about what makes a good role model. Ask for an example of a person who seems to be a healthy, balanced eater with a positive body image. Discuss what qualities that person has that demonstrate good health. Teach your child that weight fluctuations are normal and healthy and that we all have a natural weight range just like we have a natural eye and hair color. Help them prepare for weight changes, especially girls approaching puberty. from “Fat Chat is No Light Matter” by Andrea Wachter at EatingDisordersRecoveryToday.com NEDA BROCHURES $12.00 for a pack of 50 of each Do I…Am I…Dangers of Dieting Do I weigh myself every day? Skip at least one meal a day? These questions and others are raised to help evaluate eating and exercise habits, which can quickly spin out of control and become life-threatening eating disorders. #10117 How to Help a Friend Covers eating disorders and warning signs, provides suggestions for communicating with a friend that may have an eating disorder and also provides prevention tips. #10118 What is an Eating Disorder? Describes anorexia, bulimia, and binge eating disorder: their causes and warning signs as well as information on treatment, prevention, and the difference between eating disorders and disordered eating. #10115 NEDA Navigators NEW Navigators are “trained friends” who serve as an informal source of knowledge, support, and guidance to those who are new to eating disorders recovery. #10116 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 23 PREVENTION KIDS Healthy Bodies (curriculum) P R O F E S S I O N A L T R E AT M E N T EatingDisordersReview.com Current clinical information for professionals treating eating disorders 24th year in publication Searchable archives with hundreds of articles Free subscription to bimonthly e-newsletter Current issue Contributions from leading experts Joel Yager, MD, editor-in-chief Suggested articles for patients and families There are over a 1,400 free articles for professionals, including: — Facing the Challenge of Persistent Anorexia Nervosa — Posttraumatic Stress Disorder and Eating Disorders — What Patients Expect from Treatment — Bariatric Surgery for Patients with and without Eating Disorders — Bipolar Disease and Eating Disorders — Ethical Conflicts in the Care of Anorexia Nervosa Patients — Caring for the Caregivers: Focusing on the Family in Treatment — How Effective are Internet-Based Programs? — A Genetic Counterpart to the Pressure to be Thin — Eating Disorders at Middle Age — Binge Eating Disorder and Metabolic Syndrome — Nutrition Care for Clients with Diabetes and an Eating Disorder 2013 Conferences for Eating Disorders Professionals March 8–10 • BEDA Binge Eating Disorder Association BED in the spotlight: Focus on Treatment, Research & Stories of Hope Bethesda, MD March 21–24 • IAEDP International Association of Eating Disorder Professionals What’s New Under the Sun: Innovative Approaches to Treatment Las Vegas, NV May 1–4 • ICED International Conference on Eating Disorders Academy for Eating Disorders Montreal, Quebec October 10–12 • NEDA National Eating Disorders Association Directing the National Spotlight on Prevention, Treatment, Research & Policy Washington, DC November 8–10 • The Renfrew Foundation Feminist Perspectives and Beyond: Exploring Controversy, Building Collaboration Philadelphia, PA — Roadblocks to Restoring Healthy Weight — Disordered Eating and Pregnancy — Couples Therapy: A New Approach to Treating Anorexia Nervosa 24 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue T he Academy for Eating Disorders (AED) conducted informal surveys, focus group discussions, and interviews of its members to gain a clearer picture of the factors perpetuating the research-practice gap. The responses indicated a lack of shared respect for the mutual contributions of both researchers and practitioners to the field. Perhaps the most salient attitudinal factor contributing to this divide is the difference in views about what constitutes valid evidence. Clinicians tend to place greater value on evidence born from clinical observation and experience. Conversely, researchers tend to value the evidence derived from structured research trials. We propose that fostering communication, collaboration and partnership between researchers and practitioners will produce substantive, longstanding improvements in the quality of not only clinical practice, but also in the quality of research. Building on the directions outlined in the AED initiative, we suggest practical steps that individual treatment professionals and treatment facilities can take to begin bridging the gap in their own practice settings. PRACTICAL STEPS Step 1: Join research-practice networks through AED. Step 2: Gain access to treatment research to expand and improve clinical treatment tools and to stay abreast of key findings. Step 3: Translate practice to research by sharing case studies. Step 4: Incorporate simple research methods and treatment outcome measures into everyday practice. by Judith D. Banker, PhD and Kelly L. Klump, PhD • Read the entire article at EatingDisordersReview.com Treatment of Eating Disorders Bridging the Research-Practice Gap Margo Maine, Beth Hartman McGilley, Douglas W. Bunnell 499 pg, hard, ’10, (Code: TMT) $99.95 The Treatment of Eating Disorders A Clinical Handbook Carlos M. Grilo & James E. Mitchell 606 pg, hardcover, ’09 (Code: TRT) $75.00 Treatment Plans and Interventions for Bulimia and Binge-Eating Disorder Effective Clinical Practice: The Heart of the Matter Margo Maine, William Davis, & Jane Shure Rene D. Zweig & Robert L. 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For adolescents and adults in both individual and group settings. 24 Cards, ’09 (Code: INV) $38.00 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 27 P R O F E S S I O N A L T R E AT M E N T Eating Disorders in Children and Adolescents FINDING TREATMENT HOW TO CHOOSE A Treatment Provider M ost individuals with bulimia should consider professional therapy. First and foremost, find someone who specializes in eating disorders. These are complex and multidimensional problems, and particular knowledge and experience is needed—not all professionals are trained in this field. Put in time and effort to find a therapist or treatment facility that is a good fit for you. Call their office and perhaps schedule an initial session or phone interview. Be prepared with a list of questions, and sense whether you feel good about their answers and you communicated well with each other. When you investigate therapy options, consider the following: • How much experience do they have treating eating disorders? • Do they work with other members of a treatment team? • How will the team members be coordinated, and who will be the leader or point person for questions? • What if you need medication? • How often will you have sessions? • Will there be a support group? • How soon does the therapist expect to see results? • How long would they expect therapy to last? • What will the charges be, and will they accept your insurance? • Do they have a comfortable office? • What is their clinical approach? • Does the therapist seem kind and nonjudgmental? • Do they focus on changing thought patterns and expressing feelings? • Does the therapist answer you directly and invite you to express yourself? by Lindsey Hall & Leigh Cohn from Bulimia: A Guide to Recovery • Do they give homework to keep clients engaged between sessions? Find a Therapist at bulimia.com Browse our Therapist Directory to find a specialist in eating disorders. Sorted geographically so you can locate someone locally, there are listings for hundreds of treatment facilities and licensed professionals, including psychiatrists, psychologists, dietitians, life coaches, and more. Each listing has: • Complete contact information • Areas of expertise • Treatment approach • Years of experience 28 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue STATE PG STATE PG TREATMENT FACILITY A New Journey ED Center CA 40 • • • • Mirasol ACUTE Center for ED at Denver Health CO 46 • • • • Monte Nido Residential Treatment Ai Pono Maui HI 47 • • • Avalon Hills Residential Eating Disorder Treatment Program UT 53 • • • BALANCE E.D. Treatment Center NY 50 • • • Brandywine Hospital PA 52 • • • • Cambridge E.D. Center MA 49 • • • Canopy Cove FL 46 • • • Carolina House NC 51 • • CA, MO 36 • • • • Cedar Springs TX 34 • • • • Center for Change UT 54 • • • Center for Counseling and Health WA 30 • • • • • River Oaks Hospital CA, CT, WA 32 • • • • • Center for E.D. at Sheppard Pratt MD 48 • • • • Center for Hope of the Sierras NV 50 • • 35 • 45 • AZ 39 • • • CA, OR 33 • • • Montecatini CA 41 • • • Moore Center WA 54 • • • • New Dawn Treatment Centers CA 43 • • • • CA, OK 33 • • • Ranch 2300 TX 53 • • The Ranch TN 52 • • Reasons Eating Disorders Center CA 42 • • • Rebecca’s House CA 41 • • • Remuda Ranch AZ 37 • • • 30 • • • LA 48 • • • • Rosewood AZ 38 • • • • • Selah House IN 47 • • • • • Shoreline Eating Disorders CA 42 • • • • • • • Sierra Tucson AZ 39 • • • Somerset Medical Center E.D. Program NJ 49 • • • • • • • • Summit E.D. Program CA 43 • • • • • • • • Tapestry E.D. Program NC 51 • • • • • • Timberline Knolls IL 47 • • • • • • • Torrance Memorial Med Center CA 42 • • • • • • • UCSD Eating Disorders Program CA 41 • • • • • • • • • • Rader Corporate Office Castlewood Treatment Center Center for Discovery CRC Eating Disorders Programs AZ, CA, NC, NV Eating Disorder Center of Denver Eating Recovery Center CO CA, CO, WA 31, 44 • Fairwinds Treatment Center FL 47 HEAL Program at GenPsych NJ, SC 36 Klarman Eating Disorders Center at McLean Hospital MA 48 Laureate Psychiatric Clinic OK 52 Loma Linda Univ. Behavioral Med Ctr CA 42 • • McCallum Place MO, TX 34 • • Melrose Institute MN 50 • • • CH ILD TE REN EN AD S UL FE TS M A M LES AL ES TREATMENT FACILITY CH ILD TE REN EN AD S UL FE TS M A M LES AL ES TREATMENT FACILITIES INDEX • • • • Renfrew Center CT, FL, MD, NJ, NY, NC, PA, TN, TX • • • • • • Univ. Med. Ctr of Princeton, Plainsboro NJ 50 • • Veritas Collaborative NC 51 • • • • • • • The Victory Program MO 34 • • • • • • • Walden Behavioral Care MA 49 • • • • Links to these and other treatment facilities at bulimia.com 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 29 MULTIPLE LOCATIONS 30 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue TREATMENT FACILITIES TREATMENT FACILITIES MULTIPLE LOCATIONS 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 31 TREATMENT FACILITIES MULTIPLE LOCATIONS 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 33 MULTIPLE LOCATIONS 34 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue TREATMENT FACILITIES TREATMENT FACILITIES MULTIPLE LOCATIONS 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 35 TREATMENT FACILITIES MULTIPLE LOCATIONS How Long Does It Take to Recover? R ecovery means different things to different people. I like to look at it as a process that begins by stopping the behaviors and balancing one’s chemistry, moves through an examination of the underlying mental, emotional, and spiritual issues, and evolves into feelings of integration, connection, and purpose. First, though, must come the motivation and readiness to change. People often ask whether I believe in full recovery. I say I do, because that term works for me. I haven’t binged in over thirty years, and don’t expect to ever again. Is this a guarantee? No, it’s not. What’s more, people who have practiced the abstinence approach might have the same successful track record, yet still call themselves, “recovering.” Perhaps this is just a case of semantics. If someone believes in their heart that they have made peace with food, that they love and appreciate their body, and they are comfortable with the hard-won “freedom” from obsession they have earned by whatever method, then they can call themselves anything they want! by Lindsey Hall & Leigh Cohn from Bulimia: A Guide to Recovery 36 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue TREATMENT FACILITIES ARIZONA 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 37 ARIZONA 38 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue TREATMENT FACILITIES TREATMENT FACILITIES ARIZONA 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 39 ARIZONA / CALIFORNIA 40 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue TREATMENT FACILITIES TREATMENT FACILITIES CALIFORNIA 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 41 CALIFORNIA 42 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue TREATMENT FACILITIES TREATMENT FACILITIES CALIFORNIA 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 43 COLORADO 44 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue TREATMENT FACILITIES TREATMENT FACILITIES COLORADO Seven C’s in Choosing a Therapist 1. Connection Therapy can take many paths, but no matter which one you take, the relationship you form with your therapist is a steppingstone to healing your disconnections from yourself, from other people, and from your ability to take risks and grow. So, it is important that you feel comfortable and safe with the professional you choose. 2. Competence Don't be afraid to ask about the therapist's experience. Many professionals have a broad range of skills, especially if they have been practicing for many years. It is appropriate to ask questions. 3. Collaboration Therapy is a collaborative relationship, but therapists are not mind readers. It is your responsibility to convey what you are feeling and thinking and to let the professional into your private world. Despite the difficultly of disclosing personal information, try not to censor yourself. Openness is key. 4. Care Therapy is above all a personal relationship. It is important to feel that the person you are working with cares about your life, your well-being, and your progress. A good therapist will check in with you and discuss the pace of the work you are doing together. 5. Challenge While it is key to find a professional who is caring and a good listener, it is also smart to find someone who will challenge you to some degree—and in a caring way. Through experiencing some discomfort, we are often able to make the most meaningful changes. 6. Comfort In choosing a professional, be an informed consumer. Become acquainted with the many orientations and styles of psychotherapy and feel free to shop around and set up more than one consultation. Therapists differ. Above all, trust your own judgment. No one style works for everyone. Find your own comfort zone. 7. Confidentiality Trust is at the foundation of any healing relationship. It is the therapist's responsibility to maintain the focus on treatment, your well-being, and uphold professional boundaries and confidentiality. by Judith Ruskay Rabinor, PhD from EatingDisordersRecoveryToday.com 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 45 COLORADO / FLORIDA 46 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue TREATMENT FACILITIES TREATMENT FACILITIES FLORIDA / HAWAII / ILLINOIS / INDIANA 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 47 LOUISIANA / MARYLAND / MASSACHUSETTS 48 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue TREATMENT FACILITIES TREATMENT FACILITIES MASSACHUSETTS 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 49 MINNESOTA / NEVADA / NEW JERSEY / NEW YORK 50 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue TREATMENT FACILITIES TREATMENT FACILITIES NORTH CAROLINA 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 51 OKLAHOMA / PENNSYLVANIA / TENNESSEE 52 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue TREATMENT FACILITIES TREATMENT FACILITIES TEXAS / UTAH 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 53 UTAH / WASHINGTON 54 • Request free copies of the 2013 Gürze Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue TREATMENT FACILITIES BOOK INDEX Title Primary Author Code Price 100 Questions and Answers About Anorexia 100 Questions and Answers About ED 50 Strategies to Sustain Recovery 50 Ways to Soothe Yourself Without Food 8 Keys to Recovery from an ED A Starving Madness Acceptance & Committment Therapy for EDs ACT for Body Image Dissatisfaction ADA Pocket Guide to Eating Disorders Almost Anorexic Anatomy of a Food Addiction Andrea’s Voice...Silenced by Bulimia Anorexia Nervosa: A Guide to Recovery Anorexia Workbook Anorexics and Bulimics Anonymous Beating Ana Beginner’s Guide to ED Recovery Binge Eating & Comp Overeating Wkbk Binge Eating Disorder Body Betrayed Body Image Workbook (2nd Edition) Body Myth Body Project Facilitator’s Guide Body Project Workbook (set of 10) Brain Over Binge Brave Girl Eating Bulimia: A Guide to Recovery Chasing Silhouettes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and EDs Compassionate Guide to Ending Overeating Comprehensive Learning Teaching Handouts Crave Desperately Seeking Self Dialectical Behavior Therapy for BED Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Wkbk Do I…Am I—Dangers of Dieting Brochure Don’t Diet Live-it! Eat, Drink and Be Mindful Eating Disorders and the Brain Eating in the Light of the Moon Eating Mindfully Eating to Lose ED 101 ED Sourcebook (3rd Edition) EDs in Children and Adolescents EDs: A Guide to Medical Care Effective Clinical Practice End Emotional Eating Exercise Balance Family Eating Disorders Manual Father Hunger Feeding the Starving Mind Finding Your Voice through Creativity Food and Feelings Workbook Food To Eat Full Mouse Empty Mouse Girl Lost Girl Zone Body Talk Goodbye Ed, Hello Me Healing Your Hungry Heart Healthy Bodies Curriculum Help Your Teenager Beat an ED Hope, Help & Healing Shepphird Costin Golden Albers Costin Rabinor Sandoz Pearson setnick Schaefer Katherine Smeltzer Hall Heffner ABA Cutts Kolodny Coker Ross Mitchell Zerbe Cash Maine Stice Stice Hansen Brown Hall Wierenga Fairburn Goss Kronberg Bulik Fodor Safer Astrachan-Fletcher NEDA Wachter Albers Lask Johnston Albers Hunt NORMAL in Schools Costin Le Grange Mehler Maine Taitz Powers Hill Maine Samelson Jacobson-Levy Koenig Lieberman Zeckhausen Moore Douglas Schaefer Poppink Kater Lock Jantz 24.95 5 24.95 3 11.99 7 16.95 13 19.95 17 14.95 21 59.95 26 49.95 26 32.95 27 14.95 16 14.95 14 15.95 11 13.95 4 21.95 5 24.95 5, 6 14.95 18 14.95 22 21.95 14 30.00 26 18.95 3 21.95 15 24.95 18 37.95 27 45.00 27 16.95 6 14.99 11 16.95 7 14.99 20 45.00 26 24.95 14 89.95 27 16.00 14 12.95 20 35.00 26 21.95 6 12.00 23 18.95 19 19.95 13 92.95 26 16.95 16 16.95 13 16.95 21 29.99 23 17.95 3 70.00 27 30.00 26 44.95 25 17.95 14 17.95 15 45.00 8 15.95 10 21.95 5 18.95 19 18.95 12,19 24.99 13 9.95 22 10.95 22 9.95 22 16.95 16 16.95 17 65.00 23 17.95 9 14.99 20 OHQ OQA SSR WTS KTR ASM ACE ACT PGE ALA AFA ANV ANO AWB ABA BTA BGD BCO BEC TBB BIW BMY BPR BPW BOB BGE BUL25 CHS CBT TOG CLT CRV DSS DBB DBW 10117 DDL ETD EAB EIL EMF ETL EON EDS ECA GMC ECP EEE EXB FEM FHR FSM FYV FAF FTE FME GRL GLZ GEH HYH HBC HYT HHH Pg Title Primary Author Code Price Pg How I Look Journal How to Help a Friend Brochure I’m Beautiful? Why Can’t I See It? Integrated Treatment of Eating Disorders Intuitive Eating InVision Concept Cards Journey Toward Freedom Just Tell Her to Stop Life Beyond Your Eating Disorder Life Without Ed Love Your Body Love Your Body, Love Your Life Making Weight Meal by Meal Mindful and Mindless Eating CD Mindfulness & Acceptance Wbk for Bulimia NEDA Logo Silver Necklace—18” NEDA Navigators Brochure Night Eating Syndrome No Body is Perfect Nutrition Counseling in the Trtmt of EDs Off the C.U.F.F. Overcoming Bulimia Workbook Overcoming EDs: Therapist Guide Overcoming Your ED: Client Workbook Parent’s Guide to Eating Disorders phoenix, Tennessee CD Recovering Reflections of Body Image in Art Therapy Reinventing the Meal Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook Religion of Thinness Restoring Our Bodies Rules of ”Normal” Eating Seeing Yourself: Facilitator’s Guide Seeing Yourself: Group Member’s Guide Self-Esteem Tools for Recovery Shapesville, hardcover Shapesville, paperback Skills-based Learning Slender Trap Someday Melissa DVD & Guidebook Something Spectacular Speaking Out About Ed Stop Eating Your Heart Out Surviving an Eating Disorder Telling Ed No! Ten-Mile Morning The Ultimate Tween Survival Guide This Mean Disease Treating Bulimia in Adolescents Treatment Manual for Anorexia (2nd Edition) Treatment of Eating Disorders Treatment of Eating Disorders Treatment Plans and Interventions What is an Eating Disorder? Brochure What’s Eating You? When Food is Family Why She Feels Fat Winning the War Within (3-ring binder) Woman in the Mirror Working With Groups: Food & Body You Grow Girl! Dellheim HOW NEDA 10118 Davidson IBW Zerbe BBT Tribole INE Ricklin INV Butitta JTF Henry JTH Kandel LBE Schaefer LWE Brannon-Quan LBO Maria LYB Andersen MEN Altman MBM Maynard-Dobbs MFE Sandoz MAW NEDA 30130 NEDA 10116 Lundgren NES Folcik NBP Herrin NCT Zucker OTC McCabe OBW Agras OET Agras OEC Herrin PGD Schaefer PNX Learning ZoneXpress REC Hunter RBI Somov RTM Davis RSW Lelwica ROT Liu ROB Koenig RUL Homme SYF Homme SYG Hall SET Mills SHV Mills SHP Treasure SBL Stern SLT Good For You Prod. SMD Gleissner SMS NORMAL in Schools SOE Beck SEH Siegel SED Kerrigan TEO Lamparello TMM Zeckhausen TSG Becker TMD le Grange TBA Lock TMP Maine TMT Grilo TRT Zweig TPI NEDA 10115 Nelson WEY Scheel WFF McShane WSF Stellefson Myers WIN Bulik WIM Christian WWG Scarano-Osika YGG 18.95 22 12.00 23 18.99 20 35.00 26 15.99 13 38.00 27 9.95 12 15.95 21 16.95 17 16.95 16 19.95 15 14.95 20 17.95 18 16.95 20 18.00 13 21.95 6 65.00 18 12.00 23 45.00 26 7.95 22 59.95 27 35.00 8 24.95 6 37.95 27 27.95 19, 27 18.95 8 15.00 16 79.95 23 32.95 26 17.95 12 21.95 19 18.95 20 14.95 18 14.95 12 15.95 20 12.95 20 12.95 17 14.95 22 7.95 22 24.95 8 34.95 19 75.00 23 16.00 21 29.99 23 16.95 14 16.95 11 16.95 17 28.99 21 19.99 22 14.95 5 45.00 27 40.00 27 99.95 25 75.00 25 35.00 25 12.00 23 16.95 22 18.00 10 14.95 9 69.00 27 16.00 15 29.95 26 15.95 22 Books listed in blue are published by Gürze Books. ARTICLE INDEX A Healthy Eating Ritual . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 About Eating Disorders . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Confessions of a Father . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Connect with Supports . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17 Connecting with Your Emotions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9 Do You Have an Eating Disorder? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 3 Embracing Imperfection . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21 Emotions: Treasures, Not Trash . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12 Encouragement: Why Get Better . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7 Family-Based Treatment: New Directions . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8 How Long Does It Take to Recover? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36 Ideas for Cultivating Healthy Relationships . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18 Intuitive Eating: Can You Be Healthy and Eat Anything? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13 Mindfulness & Recovery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20 Recovery from Binge Eating Disorder . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14 Self Acceptance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19 Seven C’s in Choosing a Therapist . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45 Strategies for Bridging the Research-Practice Gap . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25 Supporting Your Loved One through Recovery . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Talking to Kids about Body Image . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23 The Art of Eating Again . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 The Bench . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17 The Experience of Anorexia . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4 The Log Metaphor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Things to Do Instead of Bingeing . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6 Ways to Improve Body Image . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 55 NATIONAL EATING DISORDERS ORGANIZATIONS Internet links for these organizations and others are at bulimia.com aedweb.org • (847) 498-4274 For ED professionals; promotes effective treatment, develops prevention initiatives, stimulates research, sponsors international conference and regional workshops. iaedp.com • (800) 800-8126 A non-profit membership organization for professionals; provides certification, education, local chapters, newsletter, annual symposium. Binge Eating Disorder Association—BEDA maudsleyparents.org Volunteer organization of parents who have used family-based treatment to help their children recover. bedaonline.com • (855) 855-2332 Education, annual conference, resources, research, and best-practice guidelines for preventing and treating BED. Eating Disorders Anonymous—EDA eatingdisordersanonymous.org A Fellowship of individuals interested in pursuing recovery and helping others do the same. Meetings, materials, and online chatroom. Maudsley Parents Multi-Service Eating Disorders Association, Inc.—MEDA medainc.org • (617) 558-1881 • Toll-free: (866) 343-MEDA Newsletter, referral network, local support groups, educational seminars and trainings, speaker series. ❋ National Association of Anorexia Nervosa & Associated Disorders— Eating Disorders Coalition for Research, Policy and Action—EDC ANAD eatingdisorderscoalition.org • (202) 543-9570 Advances the federal recognition of ED as a public health priority. ANAD.org • (630) 577-1333 • Helpline: (630) 577-1330 Listings of therapists and hospitals; informative materials; sponsors support groups, conference, research, and a crisis hotline. Eating Disorders Information Network—EDIN myedin.org • (404) 816-EDIN Resource and referrals. Speakers bureau, curriculums, school outreach programs, EDAW events. The National Eating Disorders Screening Program—NEDSP mentalhealthscreening.org • (781) 239-0071 Eating disorders screening, education, & outreach programs. ❋ National Eating Disorders Association—NEDA The Elisa Project theelisaproject.org • (214) 369-5222 Listing of therapists, treatment centers and informative materials. Annual symposium, newsletter, support groups. Families Empowered and Supporting Treatment of Eating Disorders—F.E.A.S.T. Feast-ed.org • (540) 227-8518 International organization for parents and caregivers. Information and support for evidence-based treatment and advocacy. nationaleatingdisorders.org (212) 575-6200 • Helpline: (800) 931-2237 Sponsors National Eating Disorders Awareness Week in February with a network of volunteers. Annual conference, Parents, Family & Friends Network, helpline, and media watchdog program. Overeaters Anonymous—OA oa.org • (505) 891-2664 A 12-step, self-help fellowship. Free local meetings and support. ❋ Online bookstores powered by Gürze Books. bulimia.com 800-756-7533 Artwork: FrancescaDroll.com This catalogue is printed on recycled paper with at least 10% post-consumer waste. 800-756-7533 • bulimia.com • 29 ANOREXIA NERVOSA ❋ International Association of Eating Disorders Professionals—IAEDP Academy for Eating Disorders—AED