WHAT THE DYING DEAD REALLY REGRET FROM DAN’S DESK
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WHAT THE DYING DEAD REALLY REGRET FROM DAN’S DESK
FROM DAN’S DESK October 26, 2014 Volume 43 WHAT THE DYING DEAD REALLY REGRET A few days ago I was going through my normal morning ritual of browsing the headlines on a variety of news websites when I saw this headline: “What the Dying Really Regret.” Naturally the headline did what it was designed to do—pique my interest—so I clicked on to check it out. Frankly, the angle of the story was a little different than I expected, but one thing about it made me think, and that was the title. I’m sure that most people, if not all, as they’re nearing the end of life, look back and have at least a few regrets. Obviously those regrets will differ from person to person. And, of course, some regrets will be somewhat trivial (e.g., “I regret never visiting the Grand Canyon”) while others will be pretty heavy (e.g., “I regret not spending enough time with my kids when they were little,” or “I regret not working harder to have a great marriage”). But then I thought, “What if the word ‘dying’ in that headline were replaced with the word ‘dead’?” What the dead really regret. Well, the answer to that question is much easier. When it comes to the dead, regrets won’t differ from person to person, and there won’t be a mix of trivial and heavy regrets either. Actually, let me tweak that last statement just a tad. In one sense the regrets among the dead won’t differ from person to person, but in another sense those regrets will differ. Here’s what I mean. Every human being ever conceived will spend eternity in either heaven or hell, and the population of those two eternal states will most definitely have different regrets. But among the population in each of those places, the regrets won’t differ at all. For those who, in this life, surrendered themselves to Jesus in an obedient faith, there won’t be the first regret. Not a single one. All the failures, frustrations, hurts, and disappointments of this present life will forever be wiped from our memories by a gracious God, and we’ll enjoy physical, emotional, and spiritual perfection throughout eternity. It will be an eternal existence as God originally intended it to be— perfect people in a perfect world in perfect fellowship with Him (Rev 21:1-4). On the other hand, those who chose to put the cares and pleasures of this life first will have one regret. Just one. And that regret will haunt them for all eternity. It will never end—what a chilling thought. That regret will have nothing to do with where they lived, how much money they made, how well traveled they were, their job satisfaction, their earthly fame and popularity, the kind of vehicles they owned, the name of the college on their degree, their body image, and the list goes on. That one regret will be either that they never accepted God’s grace-filled offer of salvation through Jesus by obeying the gospel, or that, after obeying the gospel, they allowed themselves to be separated from God (either through intimidation, the seduction of worldly cares and pleasures, or false teaching). I’m not really that interested in your living such a life so that you won’t have any regrets as a dying person. I’m far more interested in your living such a life so that you won’t have any regrets as a dead person. YOUTH CORNER with Paddy Flanagan Breathtaking And when the queen of Sheba had seen all the wisdom of Solomon, the house that he had built, the food of his table, the seating of his officials, and the attendance of his servants, their clothing, his cupbearers, and his burnt offerings that he offered at the house of the Lord, there was no more breath in her. (I Kings 10.4-5) Solomon’s flawless court and astounding wealth were overwhelming. So overwhelming that a queen was stopped midsentence, and left breathless. There was no mistaking wealth like Solomon’s: tables laden with food in a masterfully crafted palace, beautiful tapestries cascading down the walls as servants and cupbearers attended his court and its guests. His treasure was immediately recognizable, he was physically prominent, and his intellect was unsurpassed. What do God’s people have today? Is our treasure to be like Solomon’s, with wealth so great it draws people from far off lands to witness our majesty? Not for most of us; though the treasure God intends for us all is truly great. Our spiritual wealth, just as Solomon’s riches, should leave those who witness it breathless. As followers of Christ, our love and service for one another should be unmatched! Our grace, holiness, and humility we have should be unparalleled! Our treasure is still very much God-given, it is by his Holy Spirit that we are led and equipped to live for God’s glory and others’ good. Our treasure, our delight, is in Jesus Christ, the one who gave himself up on our behalf. We are intended to be like “a city set on a hill [that] cannot be hidden” (Matthew 5.14), a light, a beacon of true wealth not printed on paper or stamped on coin. Our glory is Christ; are you living in a way that seeks to display Him as your great wealth and treasure? Calendar of Events Tonight: High School Devotional after evening services at the building. Tonight: Middle School Devotional after evening services at the home of Shane & Becky Austin. Bring $5 for food. October 31-November 2: YG Fall Retreat December 27-30: Exposure Youth Camp-$85 due by November 9. ____________________________________________________ SCHEDULE OF SERVICES: Sunday Morning Worship…..........................9:00 AM Sunday Morning Bible Study…...…………....10:15 AM Mission Missive Remembering Our Heritage The Absolute Authority Batsell Barrett Baxter Authority has always rested with the Godhead and never with men. The prophets, the apostles and other people miraculously guided by God were simply spokesmen. God’s Word has always been the final authority among men. Our Only Guide The Bible is our guide, our only guide. For this reason it is encouraging to hear people say, “Let us have a ‘thus saith the Lord’ for all that we do in our religious faith and practice.” Still another way of saying it is, “Let us speak where the Scriptures speak, and be silent where the Scriptures are silent.” Each of these is a statement indicating the acceptance of the authority of the Scriptures. At this point let’s examine two opposite positions on the matter of the authority of the Scriptures. Martin Luther championed the idea that whatever is not expressly prohibited in the Scriptures is permissible (History of the Great Reformation of the Sixteenth Century, by D’Aubigne, Book II, p. 297). Luther’s view would open the door to all kinds of innovations, such as the burning of incense, the lighting of candles, the use of images, instrumental music and even adding other elements to the Lord’s Supper. Huldrich Zwingli championed the view that whatever is not expressly authorized in the Scriptures is prohibited. (A History of the Christian Church by W. Walker, 1959, p. 322). This view is set forth in the Scriptures themselves. In Galatians 1:8, Paul wrote, “But though we, or an angel from heaven, should preach unto you any gospel other than that which we preached unto you, let him be anathema”. (ASV) John stated the same point in these words, “Whosoever goeth onward and abideth not in the teaching of Christ, hath not God: he that abideth in the teaching, the same hath both the Father and the Son” (2 John 9). Three Avenues In determining what the Scriptures authorize, there are three avenues through which we may receive guidance. First, there are direct commands, such as Acts 2:38. In the second place, there are approved apostolic examples, such as Paul’s eating of the Lord’s Supper on the first day of the week (Acts 20:7). And, finally, there is necessary inference. Each command of God authorizes whatever is necessary to carry it out. When the Lord commanded Christians to meet for worship, He necessarily authorized the providing of a place for Christians to assemble for worship. Our religion-our relationship to God-is our most important relationship. We must be absolutely certain about everything that we believe and practice. Gospel Advocate, July 10, 1980 Reprinted with permission from the Gospel Advocate. Sunday Evening Worship………..………..…….6:00 PM Wednesday Evening Bible Study…..………....7:00 PM Phone: (615) 373-4353 Newsline: (615) 373-3038 Fax: (615) 373-9743 Preschool: (615) 661-4612 Toll Free Phone: (877) 226-5747 Website: www.concordroad.org Mobile Website: m.concordroad.org Join us on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ConcordRoad LEADERSHIP Elders: Buddy Williams Dwayne Stubblefield Ron Thomas Jerry McCormick October Chairman for Elders: Dwayne Stubblefield Ministers: Minister: Dan Chambers (615) 815-5382 Youth Minister: Paddy Flanagan (615) 829-4276 Office: Office Administrator: Melissa Tolbert (615) 373-4353 Prayer List: • • Peggy Hooper’s surgery has been rescheduled for Tuesday, November 11, for her aortic aneurysm. Lynn Fraizer, sister of Janet McCormick has pancreatic cancer. Shut-Ins: Bob & Glenda Guy, Martha Harris, G.W. Head; Jack & Dot Joyner, Carmie Miller, Josephine Prickett, Ann Thompson, Lee Tomberlain, LeEleanor Tomberlain & Jim West. Continue to Remember: Roy Arnold; Doris Beasley; Jerry Flowers; David Good; Kay Good; James Hunter, LeeAnn Hunter; Tom Jewell; Ruth Orr; Harold Pratt; Sue Baker (mother of Linda Gilliam); Kenneth Demumbran (father of Kevin Demumbran); Phil Hardeman Sr. (father of Phil Hardeman); Virginia Johnson (mother of Sheri Daniel); Dawn Lovett (aunt of Molly Rawlins); Charles McLean (friend of Bob Lee); Gary Myers (friend of Lee Isenberg); Betty Pate (mother of Lori Bailey); Vicky Rogers (aunt of Sheri Daniel); Annette Rose (step-mother of Gina Rose); Stephen Zavorski (husband d of LauraLee Zavorski). • • • Trunk or Treat Attention all Parents & Volunteers of the Lads to Leaders Program: We will have our Lads to Leaders kickoff luncheon today immediately after Bible class in Fellowship A. Lunch will be provided. If you have questions about L2L or would like to learn more about the program and what you can do to support it please see Shane Austin. Visitation Team #3, led by Roger & Whitney Jenkins, will meet tonight after evening services in Fellowship A for a meal. It will be catered so please bring money to contribute. Please contact Christy Staggs if you are able to attend. We need an accurate head count to order the right amount of food. The World Bible School Dinner will be held on Tuesday, October 28, at 6:30 p.m. at the Nashville Airport Marriott. Please see Brian Cooper, D.J. Smith or David Harper for more information & if you are interested in attending. October 29 5:00-6:45 p.m. Please join us for pizza, candy, costumes and lots of FUN! Have your cars ready in the parking lot between 5:00-5:15 p.m. Cost for food: $5 per person or $20 per family & guests are free. Adults: be sure to decorate your trunks and bring candy. The elders ask any children or adults that come in costume to please change prior to our worship service & Bible study. See Paddy for more information. • The 1st-5th Grade Youth Group will be hosting a Fall Outing at the home of Sean & Tonya Reininger on Saturday, November 1, at 5:00 p.m. Please call or email Tonya to RSVP & get information on food sign-ups. We hope to see you there! • The Youth Group Young at Heart Thanksgiving Dinner will be on Friday, November 7, at 5:00 p.m. honoring all senior members 70 years & up and their spouses. To R.S.V.P. please sign up on Paddy’s board or call the church office. • The Young Marrieds & Young Professionals Annual Turkey Fry will be held on Saturday, November 8, at 6:00 p.m. in Fellowship A. Sign up on the YM bulletin board so we know how many plan to attend. Please bring your favorite side dish. See the Westmoreland's or Brady's for more information. • The Teacher Appreciation Lunch will be held on Sunday, November 9, after Bible class in Fellowship A. If you have taught a class, any class or any age, in 2014 we would like to invite you to the Teacher Appreciation lunch. R.S.V.P. with your name & how many in your family will be attending to [email protected]. You will get an email back confirming your reservation. See Jordan Vaughn for more information. Thank You Notes: Dear Concord Road Church, What a blessing it is to have a caring church family! The beautiful flowers, cards, calls and offers of assistance will always be gratefully remembered. Thank you most of all for the prayers offered on my behalf. Love, Kay Good • Attention World Bible School Teachers: We have new WBS mail lessons from Zambia and Malawi that need new teachers. Please see Brian Cooper if you have any questions or would like to become a teacher. • Jail Ministry Baptism: We rejoice that Kevin Hulen & Brian Cooper baptized Justin Howell on Sunday, October 12. Also, please continue to remember in our prayers the 5 men that have been baptized in the last 3 weeks. For anyone who wants to send a letter of encouragement please see Dave Beasley for instructions. • Chorus Concert: The Lipscomb Academy Concert Chorus will be here on Sunday, November 16, to lead our evening worship and to perform. A reception will be held following the performance. Please plan to bring lots of appetizers & finger foods to enjoy with our guests. Come see our own singing stars: Colin Stubblefield, Kaylee O’Dell, Rowan Barrett & Holden Montgomery. New Address Nancy Smith 8064 Canonbury Drive Nolensville, TN 37135 (615) 941-1011-Home (305) 646-8600– Cell [email protected] (Orange Group) • Daylight Savings Time: Daylight Savings Time ends on Sunday, November 2. Don’t forget to turn your clocks back on Saturday night! • Members and Visitors: Please remember to fill out your attendance card each Sunday morning so we have a record of your attendance. October 26, 2014 FOR THE KIDS! 9:00 A.M. Worship Service Call to Worship……………....Song Leader, Jeff Thomas See how many times you hear the following words in today’s lesson: Grow Knowledge Jesus Song, “We Have Come into His House”……………#296 Welcome & Announcements Song, “Praise the Lord”…………………..…….………..#74 Song, “Just a Little Talk with Jesus”…………….……#959 Song, “I Come to the Garden Alone”………………#595 Prayer.........................................................Ralph Isenberg Song, “I Stand Amazed”…………………….………...#147 Song, “How Deep the Father’s Love”……………Screen Lord’s Supper……………….…...…..Preside: Kevin Hulen Assist in serving the Lord’s Supper: Chad Stephens Roger Jenkins Brian Jones Eric Marvin Keith O’Neal Andrew Pratt Matt Reaves Chris Rhodes John Rochford Mike Sheppard Caleb Chitwood Clay Stubblefield Collection/Song, “We Will Glorify”…………………..#578 Dismissal for Children’s Bible Hour Song, “In Christ Alone”………………………………Screen Scripture Reading, 2 Peter 1:5-9…………Jeremy Paisley Sermon, “It’s Time to Grow”……………..Dan Chambers Invitation, “Do You Know My Jesus?”……………….#943 • The Concord Road Playgroup will meet on Friday, November 21, from 9:30-11:30 a.m. in the downstairs fellowship room. We will be making cards & crafts to put inside the M.A.G.I. Boxes. Please check your email for information about the M.A.G.I. Boxes & Healing Hands International & how your family can help. There will also be a donation box to bring supplies for the boxes. If the weather is good the kids will play outside on the playground. Check out our bulletin board outside the Bible hour classroom for information & pictures of past events. See Jenny Jones for more information. • The AGAPE Annual Dinner will be held on Tuesday, November 11th, at 6:00 p.m. at the Franklin Marriott Cool Springs. Please join them for dinner and an entertaining evening with magician Eric Anderson, as well as an evening of inspiration about the work and ministry of AGAPE. Online reservations at agapenashville.org. For more information see Rosa Chavez. • Jail Ministry Certification / Recertification: Mark your calendar for anyone that wants to participate in the Jail Ministry at the Williamson County Jail (men & women). You are required to attend one of the upcoming certification / recertification classes. The dates for this year’s classes are: Thursday, October 30, 6:30-7:30 p.m. & Tuesday, November 18, 6:30-7:30 p.m. The classes will be held at the Juvenile Justice Center (408 Century Court in Franklin, 37064). This is where the county jail & sheriff’s offices are located. Please see Dave Beasley (414-9541) if you plan on attending or for more information. Song, “When He Comes in Glory By & By”…………#854 Shepherd’s Prayer………………….Dwayne Stubblefield 6:00 P.M. Worship Service Song Leader..............................................Shawn Everson Prayer………….……..……………………..……Hollis Casey Scripture Reading…….....………….………..Andrew Pratt Sermon, “Sunday Night Q & A”…… ……Dan Chambers Preside…...…………...….……………..……..Glenn Gentry Prayer of Thanksgiving…………..……..Jack Stubblefield Infant’s nursery: Deana Smith & Sydney Smith Toddler’s nursery: Allison O’Dell & Kaylee O’Dell Children’s Bible Hour: Kevin & Melinda McCormac Study: Noah Preparation of Communion Trays for October: Joan Thomas & Melba Gentry Video cameras: Dwayne Stubblefield & Colin Stubblefield Sound System for October: James Hagewood Safety Team Members: Mike Zelnik, Brett Smith & Lee O’Dell Greeters: Front: Carl & Sue Harper East: Charlotte Tuttle West: Chip & Carolyn Beasley E-mail Addresses: [email protected] Wednesday Bible Study October 29, 2014 [email protected] Song leader: Steve Hilton Devotion: Shane Austin Prayer: Tom Taylor [email protected] [email protected] The Record — October 19, 2014 Sunday Worship: AM: 442 PM: 309 Sunday Bible Classes: 342 Wednesday Bible Classes: 335 (10-22-14) Contribution TOT: 10-19-14 $20,252 Contribution YTD: $985,567 Contribution Goal YTD:$1,008,000