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n e w s - Mary McDowell Friends School
A Monthly Newsletter for Parents n e w s Debbie’s Note MMFS News is published the first Friday of each month by Mary McDowell Friends School, a Quaker school for students with learning disabilities. May 2013 In This Issue Debbie’s Note 1 New Playground at Bergen St. 2 The MMF Fund Appeal 3 Upcoming Events 4 MMFS Carnival 4 Alumni Spotlight 5 PA News 7 Birthday Book Club 8 Upper School Play 8 Speaker: Sister Helen Prejean 8 News From the Divisions 9 Language Therapy at MMFS 11 Lightning Team Games 12 Mary McDowell Friends Fund 13 Spain: Debbie’s Reflections 15 Preliminary Calendar 2013-14 17 MMFS Carnival May 11th!! See p. 7 for more information. Mary McDowell Friends School 20 Bergen Street Brooklyn, NY 11201 718-625-3939 www.marymcdowell.org International travel forms an important part of Mary McDowell Friends School’s educational philosophy. For students with learning disabilities, exploring an unknown place with the support of faculty who know and understand them is a powerful, confidence-building experience. It allows them to taste independence for perhaps the first time and learn to trust their own ability to navigate the world. In that spirit, our 9th Grade class traveled to Spain last month with Kirk, Linda, Caitlin, Patrick, Gabe, Monica and me for what proved to be an incredible journey. We laughed a lot, learned a lot and had a fantastic time together. To hear more, please turn to page 15, where you’ll find excerpts from the emails I sent home – we hope you enjoy. This past week we were fortunate enough to have National Book Awardwinning author Andrew Solomon give a talk at Mary McDowell. A gifted public speaker, Andrew shared with a packed audience some of the stories, insights and lessons from his book, Far from the Tree: Parents, Children and the Search for Identity. Named one of the best books of 2012 by The New York Times, Far from the Tree documents the experience of parents whose children present them with exceptional challenges due to cognitive, physical, psychological or other differences. As the book reveals, these parents not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but find profound meaning in doing so. Andrew has plenty of first-hand experience being “different:” as the gay child of straight parents, he struggled for years to accept himself. He also faced dyslexia as a child and suffered through a period of crippling depression. Far from the Tree grew out of an article about deafness Andrew wrote for The New York Times Magazine in 1994. While writing it, he realized that many of the issues faced by deaf individuals are the same as those he faced as a gay man. Intrigued, he began interviewing the parents of children who were different in some way, including those with Down syndrome, dwarfism, autism, schizophrenia and deafness. He also talked with the parents of children conceived in rape, children who commit crimes and children who are prodigies. In all he spoke with 300 families over the course of eleven years before the book was finally published in 2012. The first draft was nearly twice as long as the final version, which clocks in at a whopping 700 pages. As Andrew explained, some of the people he interviewed told him their stories right away. They were honest about their thoughts and feelings and eager to share their experiences with him. Others took more time to open up. For example, he spent years talking to the mother of Dylan Klebold, one of two students who committed the massacre at Columbine High School in 1999. The insight those years yielded, though, was worth the wait. “I wish for the world that Dylan hadn’t been born,” she told Andrew, “but I don’t wish for me that he hadn’t.” One of the most moving stories Andrew heard was told by the mother Continued on page 2 New E lementary School Playground We are very pleased to report that the new elementary school playground at Bergen Street, which is located on ground level at the back of the school building, has been installed. This was made possible by two very generous grants from The Morris and Alma Schapiro Fund, thanks to Rufus Collins and Molly Hoagland, parents of Rafie in the Krisberg Room. Thanks also go to Ginny Perrin, Facilities Manager, for all her hard work managing this project. As Ginny said, “It is so exciting to see this project finally become a reality. It is a joyous celebration for all of us now that it is officially reopened.” Last spring, it was determined that the wooden play structure, which had deteriorated over ten years of use by our students, needed to be replaced. It was demolished and removed last summer, along with a portion of the yard surface. This offered the school the opportunity to take advantage of advancements in design and materials for outdoor play structures to create a play area that is even better suited to meet the needs of our students. This April, a crew spent three (four) weeks repairing the backyard and installing the new playground equipment. The new playground will provide a multitude of opportunities for our students to benefit from the outdoor activities that are vital to building their physical, social and academic skills. Continued from page 1 (Debbie’s Note) of Clinton Brown III, who is a dwarf. Clinton grew up and went to college on Long Island. He drove a special car that was fitted just for him. One night his mother drove past a local bar and saw his car parked there. “Oh my God,” she thought, “my son’s in that bar, he’s three feet tall, they’re six feet tall, two beers to him are like four beers to them.” She was terrified about him drinking and driving. Then she realized that, when he was born, she never thought she’d have to worry about him getting drunk at a bar because she never thought he’d be able to have those kinds of experiences. Andrew was an exciting and thought-provoking speaker, and his intelligence, compassion and enthusiasm made for a riveting evening. I want to thank MMFS parent Frank Ligtvoet for reaching out to Andrew and arranging his appearance. I’d also like to thank Associate Head of School Beth Schneider and MMFS parent Molly Hoagland for organizing the event. My thanks to you all. As if one special speaker weren’t enough, on Wednesday, May 15th at 7:00 pm Sister Helen Prejean will give a talk at 23 Sidney Place. Sister Helen is one of the country’s leading advocates for the abolition of the death penalty. Her book Dead Man Walking: An Eyewitness Account of the Death Penalty in the United States, was on the New York Times bestseller list for 31 weeks. It was later made into an Academy Award-winning movie, an opera and a play. The death penalty as it is applied in the United States raises a number of important legal and ethical questions. We encourage you to come learn more about this important issue from the woman at the forefront of the abolition movement. Please call the front desk at Sidney Place at 718-855-0141 to register. Read-A-Thon We are very proud of all the reading our students have done during our annual Read-A-Thon! Not only is the Read-A-Thon fun, it raises money for our sister school, Lwamaya Primary School, in Uganda, and for Red Hook Rise, the non-profit organization founded by PE teacher Earl Hall. The close of the Read-A-Thon was celebrated in the elementary school with Wacky Hat Day on April 30th. The total raised will be published in the next newsletter. Thank you all for participating! 2 WE NEED YOUR HELP!!! 70% of Mary McDowell families have not yet made a gift to The Mary McDowell Friends Fund, the school’s annual fund. You have until June 30th. Please participate & help us reach our goals of $400,000 and 100% parent support. No gift is too small, & every gift counts. Even in these difficult economic times, please think carefully about what you can give. We are grateful for your support. Make a gift online at http://www.marymcdowell.org/giving/online.shtml Thank you so much! For more information, please call L.J. Mitchell, Director of Development, at 718‐625‐3939, ext. 2223. 3 Upcoming Events You Won’t Want to Miss! May 6 .................. US Performing Arts Night at Sidney Place, 7-8pm May 6-8 .............. Fry, Penn & Levi Rooms Trip to Fairview Lake, No school for Fry, Penn & Levi May 9th May 7 .................. Coffee & Chat for 6th Grade Families only at Summit Street, 8:30-9:30am May 9 .................. All-School Arts Night at Summit Street, 6-8pm May 11 ................ Spring Carnival at Summit Street, 12-3pm May 13 ................ 8th Grade Registration Meeting (Only for families entering 9th Grade Next Year) at Sidney Place, 7pm May 13-15 .......... 6th & 7th Grades Trip to Nature’s Classroom, No school for 6th & 7th Grades on May 16th May 13-16 .......... 8th Grade Workshops at Summit Street May 15 ................ Speaker Series at Sidney Place, 7pm: Sister Helen Prejean, author of Dead Man Walking: An Eyewitness Account of the Death Penalty in the United States. May 16-17 ........... US Spring Play, You’re a Good Man Charlie Brown, at Sidney Place, 7-9pm May 20 ............... 7th Grade Preview of Upper School at Sidney Place, 7-8:30pm May 20-22 .......... Cuffe & Fell Rooms Trip to Fairview Lake, No school for Cuffe & Fell on May 23rd May 29 ................ US Athletics Banquet at Sidney Place, 6-8pm May 30 ............... Field Day for Entire School June 5 .................. PA Council Meeting at Bergen Street, 8:30-9:30am June 5-7 .............. Upper School Final Exams at Sidney Place June 10 ............... Upper School Final Exam Make-up Day at Sidney Place June 11 ............... Moving Up Ceremony at TBA, 8:30am – noon. Noon Dismissal for All Students June 12 ............... 8th Grade Special Silence & Brunch at Summit Street, 10am – noon. Noon Dismissal June 12 ............... Last Day for Elementary and Middle Schools. Noon Dismissal. No School for Upper School. Carnival Saturday, May 11th 12:00 PM to 3:00 PM Summit Street Campus The carnival is for students of all ages. Please join us for lots of fun, including rides, games of skill, crafts, prizes, popcorn, cotton candy and entertainment. Access will be from Carroll Street, between Henry and Hicks Streets. 4 PETER LAW Peter Law moved on from Mary McDowell Friends School in 2003 after completing the “fifth grade.” Peter attended Winston Prep for two years, skipped eighth grade, and moved on once again to boarding school. Peter attended high school at Cushing Academy in Massachusetts. After graduating in 2009, he entered Drexel University in Philadelphia, with a major in mechanical engineering. “Drexel was not a good match for me. It’s a great school in a cool city, and close to New York. For 90% of the college application process, I was interested in Syracuse University, but when I went to an accepted students’ weekend at Drexel, they really sold it, and I really liked Philadelphia. Drexel has a cool co-op work study program. You do the usual courses freshman year and then alternate between six months on campus as a full time student and six-months at a full time internship for the rest of the time – which would look really great on a resume. But, in the end, Drexel was not a good fit for me. It was total culture shock for me – you have to take care of yourself when you go to college. I wasn’t ready for that, and I wasn’t mature enough to handle my studies. Like I said, it’s a great school, but I wasn’t having any fun . . . I wasn’t participating in college life . . . and I wasn’t doing well academically. It wasn’t the right time or place for me.” So Peter left college and did a “gap year.” Noting that there is something to learn from every experience, he commented that, “a lot of kids do a gap year before college to work and earn some money while they figure things out. I did my gap year after freshman “year!” Peter has a sense of humor about the situation: “Yeah, I did my gap year at the wrong time. I definitely should have done it before college – a gap year would have come in handy for me!” Once back in New York City, Peter concentrated on getting some work experience – mostly in restaurants. He eventually landed at the Brooklyn Ice Cream Factory, located under the Brooklyn Bridge and across from the River Café, which has the same owner. “I started learning everything about the restaurant business, and when things got slow, I would Start thinking about the scientific aspects of various things.” “Like what, exactly, happens when water droplets hit a ‘boiling’ surface – like a hot skillet. But the reaction happened too quickly to really study it, so I wanted to freeze the action so I could really see it ... and the only way to do that was with a high-speed camera. And then later it occurred to me that this was a way to combine my interests.” Peter says he’s gotten a lot more creative with his photography since he got serious about it. “I taught myself photography for quite a while – I was using my camera phone for a long time. I got curious about processing and printing film, which is a great way to really learn photography, and now I’ve been serious about it for the past year. I’m interested in fine art photography and am doing my own kind of independent study at the International Center of Photography – they have great equipment, and you develop film ‘old school.’ That’s very cool because you have to get it all right in the camera, so if forces you to be a better photographer.” Peter acknowledges that he has done a lot of growing up and is now ready to go back to school and plans to enroll in a program next spring. SUNY Stony Brook is currently his first choice, followed by Syracuse and the Rochester Institute of Technology. Other contenders include Hunter College, a CUNY in Brooklyn and Alfred University in Alfred, New York. Peter is interested in math, chemistry, physics and, of course, photography. “I’m thinking about going to summer school at a CUNY – I want to get into the system! I also might do some fall courses, maybe at BMCC (Borough of Manhattan Community College).” Continued on page 6 5 Continued from page 5 (Alumni Spotlight) In the meantime, Peter is still working at the Brooklyn Ice Cream Factory, although his job responsibilities have changed a bit since Hurricane Sandy. “The structures are okay, but we had heavy damage inside, so both places had to be gutted and rebuilt. I’ve been there throughout all these repairs.” Peter also spends his nights on-site. “I’m sort of a night watchman, if you will.” Peter’s life isn’t all brick and mortar. “I do some freelance photography – mostly portraits and a birthday party or two.” When he’s taking pictures for himself, it’s all about “street photography” – especially cityscapes and landscapes. “Dumbo has great architecture, and you can’t beat that skyline!” Although he hasn’t quite figured out how to combine his two loves – science and photography – Peter continues to look forward. “I’ve talked to several pros and assisted on a house shoot. Being an assistant is the best way to break in, so I’ve been checking out this option at some studios.” Peter says his learning disability is reading- and writing-based. “I didn’t pay all that much attention to it at the time they were figuring out that I was LD ... but I remember that ‘auditory processing’ was one of the labels they were throwing around.” About Mary McDowell: “I’m glad to hear that the school is growing, and I think it’s really cool that they have a high school now. I enjoyed it all. It was a lot of fun, and it was a great place to be a kid.” The Grid, Peter Law And to the kids who are at Mary McDowell right now, Peter says: “Learn all that you can, and make friends ... after all, it’s in the name of the school!” Kris Hallam Mother of Andrew Corby, Alumnus 1999 Fork in the River Peter Law 6 PA News Dear Mary McDowell Friends School Families, The Parents Association has a lot to report this month! • An absolute highlight of this school year was the PA organized evening with distinguished writer Andrew Solomon, who is the author of Far from the Tree: Parents, Children, and the Search for Identity, which took place on Wednesday, May 1st, from 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm, at the MMFS upper school. The auditorium was packed with over 150 MMFS parents, teachers, staff and friends attending. Molly Hoagland, PA Council Class Coordinator, welcomed the guests and gave a brief overview of the Parents Association’s work. Debbie Zlotowitz gave an introduction to the evening’s guest speaker by reflecting on how the book touched her personally. Mr. Solomon is a very charismatic speaker with a profound knowledge and understanding of what it means to be a parent, and especially a parent of a child who is different. He started his talk with the video trailer of his book and then went on to tell anecdotes of his many interviews. The evening ended with an insightful question and answer session, and book signing. We want to say a very special thank you to Mott Class parent Frank Ligtvoet who not only came up with the idea for the Parents Association to invite Andrew Solomon, but who also worked tirelessly to make it happen! • This year’s parent-sponsored Faculty & Staff Luncheon was held on Thursday, April 18th, the first day of Parent-Teacher Conferences, at all three campuses. The event went really well and our teachers and staff loved it! The food came from Fairway and included wrap sandwiches, both vegetarian and meat options and various salads – green, pasta and fruit. There were loads of desserts, home-made and bought, such as cookies, cakes, cupcakes, brownies and macaroons. Seltzer was the beverage offered. The teachers and staff were very appreciative and really enjoyed the food spread. A very big THANK YOU to all parents and students (!) who helped with ordering the food, set-up and clean-up, baking, flower arrangements, as well as with making a “Thank You” poster! A special thank you goes to Levi Class parent Vicki Botel for the overall coordination of this event. • Even though the Quaker Cemetery Clean-up had to be cancelled due to weather, we still would like to thank all of the families who baked for the event. We do hope that the goodies were enjoyed by your families instead! • The next and final PA Council meeting is on Wednesday, June 5th at 8:30-9:30am at Bergen Street. The following topics are on the agenda. Finalize calendar of events Talk about additional fundraising opportunities General structure of the PA Council going forward PA Communication Below you will find information on upcoming and ongoing PA sponsored events. Please mark your calendars: • In just one week, the Spring Carnival will be held! The Carnival will take place on Saturday, May 11th, from 12:00 pm – 3:00 pm at 135 Summit Street (entrance on Carroll Street, btw Henry and Hicks). The Carnival Committee and its Chair, Obadiah and Ham Seokheon House parent Gigi Sharp, have been very busy over the past months planning one of the most popular events of the MMFS school year! There will be fun for all ages – inflatable obstacle course, skee ball, caricature artists, giant twister, Mother’s Day crafts, hi striker, cotton candy, popcorn, hot dogs, pizza and more. Plus, this year we have prizes! Win tickets at each activity and choose your prize from special new MMFS merchandise and gear! Tickets are $15 pre-pay admission per person / $40 pre-pay for 3 or more people, and $20 at the door per person / $50 at the door for 3 or more people. Please note that there is no rain date for the Carnival. To make the event a success, please volunteer to man your assigned class game booth as per your class representative’s request. Thank you so much. • The best kept secret at MMFS is the PA Council Parent Library! Did you know that you can borrow an extensive selection of books on learning disabilities, child development, parenting and related issues for elementary through high school from the MMFS Parents Association Parent Library? Located on the second floor conference room at 20 Bergen Street, you can arrange library access with the front desk. Call or email Leslyn at leslynr@ mmfsnyc.org . For any library questions, contact Molly Hoagland, PA Council Class Parent Coordinator, at [email protected] We hope that the PA events will provide many opportunities for you to get involved and/or to mingle with other MMFS parents who are going through similar experiences, challenges and joys as a family, and that they will Continued on page 8 7 Continued from page 7 (PA News) foster a strong sense of community between our families and our school. The PA Council is always keen to hear and implement your ideas. We also appreciate your feedback – especially with regards to what should be improved. Please contact us! We are looking forward to seeing many of you at the CARNIVAL next weekend! Until next month, Tanja Tanja Bruestle-Kumra PA Council Secretary [email protected] 917-415-4521 Mary McDowell Friends School Presents Bi r t hday Book Club Thank you to the following families who recently participated in the Birthday Book Club. This is a great opportunity to bring new and wonderful books to our library. Sandra and Jeffrey Justin for Zoe Justin Sandra Goldberg and Paul DiLorenzo for Marc Di Lorenzo Howard Epstein and Sandra Hartog for Isaac Epstein Charulata Prasada and Richard Bridle for Vir Prasada-Bridle Fran and Michael Berini for Michael Berini Anthony Catalano and Peter Delizzo for Tereza Catalano Rosemarie Ingleton and Edgar Cooper for Niles Cooper you’'re a good man, charlie brown BASED ON THE COMIC STRIP “PEANUTS” BY CHARLES M. SCHULZ BOOK MUSIC & LYRICS BY CLARK GESNER May 16 & 17, 2013 7PM Upper School 23 Sidney Place Directed by Sharon Counts Starring Choreographer Sarah Misch Ben Lefkowitz Music Director Sinai Tabak Cristina Groby Set and Lighting Design Daryl Embry Emily Kiamie Henry Tippens-Richan Stage Managers Karina Rubin Nikolas George Brown Linus Jakobson Arianna Levine Malcolm DosReis Gabby Fox-Denize Malik Fleary Shira Silver Together with St. Charles Borromeo Church, Mary McDowell Friends School presents Dead Man DE A D M AWalking N WA L K I–NG The Journey Continues:– H E JOU with R N E Y CON An TEvening Sister Helen Prejean Wednesday, May 15th at 7PM Mary McDowell Friends Upper School 23 Sidney Place Brooklyn NY 11201 Registration is $20 Call 718-855-0141 8 News From the Divisions Elementary School We love traditions at MMFS and have happily been participating in a variety of annual events this past month. We loved celebrating Mary McDowell’s Birthday and Earth Day as a whole school and especially enjoyed having Meeting for Worship all together outside. In the elementary school we celebrated a few more annual events that were very exciting. For photos, go to the flickr galleries on the MMFS website. On Friday, April 26th the Mott, Fox, Obadiah and Whittier rooms held their annual Variety Show. You would be amazed at the range of performances! We were treated to martial arts demonstrations, a drum solo, acapella singing, break dancing, original poetry reading, accompanied singing, a variety of sports demonstrations, the reading of an autobiographical book about dyslexia, a violin solo, coin collections, a lesson on skateboards, ballet, impressive Lego structures and the list goes on! Students were wonderful audience members, cheering on classmates who felt nervous, sitting quietly during each act and clapping enthusiastically for all who braved the ‘stage.’ It was really a thrill to witness and celebrate the assortment of accomplishments! Later on that same afternoon students in the Cuffe, Fell, Levi, Penn and Fry rooms participated in our annual Cup Stacking Tournament. Cup stacking is an official competitive sport that was developed by a physical education teacher in the 1980s. Justin introduced it to Mary McDowell students several years ago and it has caught on like wild fire! Many long tables were set up on the roof. Teachers took their places behind the tables and students lined up ready to challenge them. Other classes came up to watch the fun. Students had been practicing cup stacking during recent gym classes, so some of us adults were at a distinct disadvantage! The competition was fierce, and though emotions ran high, everyone remembered to shake hands after every came. It was a pleasure to see the level of sportsmanship that was maintained. We look forward to celebrating more MMFS traditions in the coming weeks! Hannah Wiltshire, Elementary School Director and Franziska Laskaris, Elementary School Assistant Director Middle School Once I decided that this year’s middle school production would be a musical, it took all of September to decide which show satisfied two important criteria: the students would love to perform it and the audience would enjoy watching it. As October drew near, Leah Wasserman, Julie Ackerman Hovis and I committed ourselves to bringing “Bye Bye Birdie!” to the MMFS stage. In the February newsletter we invited the community to join us for our performances in April, and shared the fervor and momentum that was building as all facets of preparation were in full swing. By March we were rolling up our sleeves and dedicating every waking moment to scene work, songs, set design, and costumes. The proverbial blood, sweat and tears were poured in from those in our community who wished to be involved; Genna Chan (costumes), Melody Olsen (Set Design Club), Johnny Young (Sound), and by the week of the performance we knew we had a good show. But no one was prepared for opening night and what was to follow. Flashforward: It is opening night. We adults are calm, but the cast and crew are energized, anxious and nervous. The last few rehearsals were good, but not yet exceptional. Some actors hadn’t fully absorbed their Continued on page 10 9 Continued from page 9 (News From the Divisions) characters, there were some choreography issues and pitch problems, not to mention a few costume mishaps. Cues were missed, props were misplaced and I had the dream; the one where everything goes horribly wrong. As I enter the gym-turned-auditorium I know everything is happening as it should. I see the joy in those individual faces as they line the perimeter of the gym, anxiously awaiting the start of the show. I take my seat and cue music. April 11th and 12th will go down in MMFS history as the period when magic infused a group of kids, some very weary adults and an initially skeptical but supportive audience. Every individual brought something special those two nights and it is almost impossible to put into words. This group stretched beyond the limits of its daily boundaries and surfaced as actors, actresses, comedians, singers, dancers and crew. This experience proved determination could dispel the preconceived ideas about what our kids can and cannot do. The leads were outstanding and the supporting cast/ chorus transported us to a time and place that seemed very real. The fairy dust lingered as the community celebrated the success of its members over several days. New friendships were formed, confidence was found, and those lurking in the corners, unsure of themselves, stepped forward and said, “I want to be in the show next year.” For photos, go to the flickr galleries on the MMFS website. Suzanne Leake Middle School Theater Teacher Upper School During the last week of April, twenty-five ninth graders and seven chaperones traveled for eight days in Spain, and the junior class took an important next step in their college and post-secondary search processes. The ninth grade Europe trip has become a highlight of the upper division’s school year. This year, the group traveled to two quintessential but distinct Spanish cities: Barcelona and Madrid. In Barcelona, we were introduced to the fantastical world of the architect Antonio Gaudi. From the ongoing construction of la Sagrada Familia church, to landscape architecture and private homes, we were inspired by Gaudi’s fusion of natural themes, his creative use of color and shape and his engineering genius. Barcelona also afforded majestic views, albeit not always sunny, of the Mediterranean and an introduction to Spain’s wonderful food markets. In Madrid, the group learned beginning flamenco dancing steps and was treated to a trio of outstanding dance performers, accompanied by a virtuoso guitar player and a singer whose voice seemed to recall the entirety of Spanish history from the Moors to the present day. We also saw some of the finest paintings in the western world and were awed by our first-hand experience seeing Picasso’s famed Guernica. Seeing famous sites and learning about art, architecture and history are normal benefits of travel; but for our students, growth and the ability to experience greater independence are, perhaps, the biggest payoffs of programs such as this year’s trip to Spain. Experiencing the challenges of getting along with a wide variety of fellow travelers, eating new foods and navigating a culture based on a language other their own provide wonderful opportunities for students to feel accomplishment alongside satisfying their curiosity about the world beyond their usual context and routine. While the freshmen were away, the juniors passed a milestone of their own. On Thursday, April 25th, the students who will soon comprise our first senior class attended a day-long pre-college program. In the morning, Director of College Guidance Amy Salomon-Kohn orchestrated workshops and a speaker. In the afternoon, our students joined their peers at Berkeley-Carroll, Brooklyn Friends, Poly Prep, Packer, St. Ann’s and Staten Island Academy in attending the Brooklyn and Staten Island Independent School College Fair, held at St. Francis College. This event is open only to juniors from the sponsoring independents schools and it affords much better access to representatives of scores of colleges than college fairs that are open to the general public. At the fair, students spoke directly with college representatives about various schools and programs. Events such as these are important ways for colleges and prospective students to connect with each other and to help them begin to determine whether an appropriate match between the two is possible. Amy reports how proud she is of our students. They presented themselves well and asked great questions. They were excellent representatives of our school and they demonstrated that students from a specialized program such as ours can be every bit as focused, articulate and engaging as their mainstream peers. The college search process is alive and well-underway at Mary McDowell. Kirk Smothers Upper School Director 10 Language Therapy at MMFS ELE M EN TA RY SC HOOL May is Speech and Hearing Month! information so that their thoughts make sense. “We tell ourselves stories, and we live by the stories we tell.” – Carol Westby, PhD., Speech-Language Pathologist How can you improve your child’s verbal narrative skills at home? What is expressive language? “Newstelling:” Encourage your child to share a “story of the day or week.” Verbal narratives can be object-based news (describing an object), activity-based sharing (talking about an activity the child has completed) or an event-based news/recount (talking about something the child did or something that happened). Expressive language skills relate to the verbal organization, production and context of what a person says. Expressive language skills include vocabulary, morphology (grammar), syntax (sentence structure), describing/ defining skills, discourse skills (explain, persuade, inform, compare/contrast) and verbal narrative skills (retelling a story). Expressive language skills relay how a person communicates their thoughts, wants, needs, experiences, ideas and opinions. Expressive language skills can also impact writing skills such as sentence structure, sequencing and organization. What is a verbal narrative? A verbal narrative is a monologue in which a student retells a story or personal experience. This expressive communication task encompasses many language skills such as sequencing, utilizing vocabulary and depicting story elements (i.e., characters, plot, problem and resolution). On some occasions students may tell a personal story but omit important details, such as when an event occurred or who was involved. This results in a break in communication wherein the listener often needs to ask several follow-up questions to understand the main idea of the story. Students may also become stuck on irrelevant details when re-telling the plot, sometimes missing the main idea of a story. Narrative skills are important for students in order to describe events in an organized way for their listeners. Verbal narratives must include a beginning, middle and end. Students are taught to include enough background Reviews: Your child can review a television show, movie, video game or camp experience, remembering to include at least one event from the beginning, middle, and end of the story. Use a story map to help your child recall characters, plot, setting and other story elements in an organized way. Pictures: Create a visual notebook story with your child. Cut illustrations from magazines and newspapers to create a collage that tells a story. Encourage your child to recall WH questions (who, what, when, where and why) as he or she creates a verbal narrative with three parts: a beginning, middle and end. Favorite “Re-telling” Books: A Boy, a Dog, and a Frog by Mercer Mayer, The Snowy Day, by Ezra Jack Keats, The Wolf’s Story by Toby Forward and What Are You So Grumpy About? By Tom Lichtenheld. Favorite Ipad applications: Super Duper StoryMaker, Toontastic, GoAnimate, Puppet Pals and ZooBurst. Franna Bari, Senior Language Therapist Linda Pelligrino Heather Rutka Bevin Small Elementary School Language Therapists M I DDLE SC HOOL Language therapy in middle school focuses primarily on language for academics. There is a significant shift in the type of language used by teachers and that is found in texts once a student reaches the middle grades. A complex interplay of language systems (auditory comprehension, word knowledge retrieval, expressive fluency, reading comprehension and written language) is necessary in order to develop more abstract ideas and demonstrate knowledge of learned concepts. Middle school language therapy takes the unique needs of adolescents into account. There is a stronger emphasis on using curriculum material as a way of reaching language goals. Language therapists are able to teach content area information with an increased level of language supports, as well as allowing students additional time to work on long term projects. In addition, language therapists work frequently with teachers on a consultation basis to further support the language needs of all our students. This also helps to generalize information outside of the therapy room. Pragmatics, the way in which we use language, also begins to take a different form. The way in which language is used for classroom discussions plays an important role in the academic success of students. Are they able to express Continued on page 12 11 Continued from page 11 (Language Therapy) their point of view, listen to the views of others and integrate ideas from various sources? This requires both comprehension of language and the ability to express oneself. Jennifer Volpe Leah Wasserman Middle School Language Therapists U P P E R SC HOOL Language is an essential skill for learning in school, getting along with peers and for acquiring and maintaining employment throughout our lives. Adequate language skills are necessary to acquire knowledge in math, history, science, and to read and comprehend complex novels in English. Although the upper school has only been in existence for three years, it is well equipped with highly skilled educators who possess a wealth of knowledge and experience that they impart to the sizeable population of students diagnosed with a language based learning disability. The language therapist, in collaboration with these specialized teachers, strives to help our pupils to maximize their abilities and learning potential. In the upper school division, we work in partnership to enhance the language development of our pupil population. The traditional theory model of pull-out is not the pedagogical approach that is practiced in the school. Rather, curricular language intervention is employed in the classroom setting. In other words the language therapist provides intervention in the context of the classroom and in conjunction with the goals of the classroom teacher. For example, students receive remediation when engaged in formulating a hypothesis L I G H T N I N G during scientific writing, establishing a thesis during expository writing in English and/or analyzing and writing evidence critically in history. In consumer math class, language intervention is conducted by implementing techniques that assist students in acquiring the mathematical vocabulary and concepts to facilitate knowledge of everyday math skills by targeting their auditory processing language skills and short-term memory weakness through mnemonic supports. Transitioning between classes presents a challenge to many of our students due to the lexical conversion that is required of them when shifting from one subject to another. Therefore, assisting them with transitioning between the conceptual structure and vocabularies of different classes is essential. As we continue to grow as a division, our language department will also expand clinically to help facilitate stronger organizational writing skills and improve our students’ development of grammar. Marie-Michelle Monéreau-Merry Upper School Language Therapist Upper School Track and Field: Meets Remaining Meet Dates Time Location Thursday, May 9th 4-6 pm Red Hook Park Thursday, May 14th (Championship Meet) 4-6 pm Van Cortland Park Van Cortland Park is located at 1 Bronx River Parkway, Bronx, NY Red Hook Park is located at 155 Bay Street , Brooklyn, NY Middle School Softball: Games Remaining Date Opponent Time Tuesday, May 7th Garden School 4pm Friday, May 10th Gateway 4pm Home/Away away - St. Michael’s Park, Queens home Monday, May 20th St. Luke’s 4pm away - Central Park Wednesday, May 22nd Churchill 4pm home Tuesday, May 28th C&C 4pm home Wednesday, May 29th Child School TBA TBA 12 The Mary McDowell Friends Fund 2012-13 We would like to thank the following individuals who have so generously contributed to this year’s Mary McDowell Friends Fund, the school's annual fund. Each year, we depend on the annual fund to provide direct funding for educational initiatives that tuition alone does not cover. We need everyone’s participation to reach this year’s goals of $400,000 and 100% parent Trustees and Former Trustees (and spouses) Alan Alpert and Linda Trotta Wade N. Black and Wendy Wong Heather and Peter Campbell Nell Clark Cynthia Crossen and James Gleick Nancy Feinberg Lynn Gernert and Susan Weiler Rebecca K. Givan Joseph Gosler and Sheila Wolper Sharon and Barton Inkeles Milt Sleeter and Joel Herman Avis Hinkson Arline Krisberg Michael C. Lasky and Peggi Einhorn Talmadge and Edith Neece Felice Shapiro Friedman Alan and Lisa Sinsheimer Pauline Thomas Benjamin Warnke Susan L. Weiner Sherri Weiser-Horwitz and Michael Horwitz Sue and Joel Wolfe Current Parents John Illig and Merry Alpern-Illig Eileen Ayling Freddi and Edward Baranoff Albert and Drusilla Belman Fran and Michael Berini Stephen and Kimberly Biehle Vicki and Larry Botel Peter and Cathy Brown Tanja Bruestle-Kumra and Vijay Kumra Eva Kolodner and Eliza Byard Mary Cahill-Hojraj Joseph and Karen Calvarino Alan Carver Deborah Carver Darwin Chan and Genna Allen-Chan Alexandra Chasin Isabelle Dervaux and James Christie participation. No gift is too small, and every gift counts. Please think carefully about what you can give, and please stretch your giving to the fullest extent possible. We are very grateful to all of you who have given. As of May 2nd, 2013*, contributions total $281,753. Andrea and Paul Compton Ernest and Donna Chornyei Marya Cohn and Tjebbo Penning Molly Hoagland and Rufus Collins Ann Weathersby Cooney and Michael Cooney Nicole and Brian Cox Frank Ligtvoet and Nanne Dekking Lisa Aguilera del Puerto and Fernando del Puerto Yves Denizé and Susan Fox Bridget Elias and Townsend Davis Loretta and Curt Dill Paul DiLorenzo and Sandra Goldberg Howard Epstein and Sandra Hartog Susan Dooha and Robert Fasano Josephine and Riccardo Fischioni James and Lee Gallagher April and Daniel Goldberg Jacqueline and Nicholas Gravante Sheila Harley and Mark Simonian Kellie Hart and Alasdair Philip Amy Hausknecht and Stephen Lichtman Caren Golden and Peter Herzberg Delicia Shaw-Hitchcock and William Hitchcock Betty and Michael Huber Sandra and Jeffrey Justin Stephan and Stacie Kiratsous Lori and Larry Leibovich Oswald Liew and Betty Lee David and Mary Jane Lifson Elizabeth Mair Hope Manville Cornelia Buckley Marakovits and Bob Marakovits Christine and Andrew Merola George Michael and Miriam Mayerson Claiborne and Benjamin Milde Melissa Miller Catherine and Cathal Moore Rebecca Mueller and John Hojnacki Bonnie Eissner and Joseph O’Connor Faith Rose and Devin O’Neill Antonio Perez and Myriam Juarbe Tracy Plauski Pamela and Gabriel Rabinovici Caroline and Laurent Rimmen Beth Ann Day and Ben Rinzler Joshua and Alexandra Rosenstein Carolyn and Ernie Roth Cordy and Raquel Ryman Gigi Sharp and George Gilpin Robert and Vera Silver Michele Smalley Janee Waner-Szekely and Steven Szekely Caitlin Thomas and David Clark Maria Pyrros Vergos and Dorian A. Vergos Monica Elias and Roy Walter Jennifer and Robert Wheelock Molly and Stewart Winter Claire Schultz Yaffe and Rick Yaffe Connie and Koray Yilmaz Grandparents George Abrams Louis Alfieri Hale and Mildred Alpern Linda Attoe Ronnie Berish Lydia Brown Marilyn Buckley Joe and Jean Butera Ms. Rosalie Byard James and Eileen Cassidy Marie and James Connolly Jerry and Harriet Dorf Daniel Fisch and Babette Coffey Fisch Marilyn and Lawrence Friedland Elizabeth Gilmore Joseph and Joan Juliano Isobel Konecky Lee and Rusty Meshier Warren and Flo Sinsheimer James and Jean Smida Sidney and Brian Urquhart Continued on page 14 13 Continued from page 13 (The Mary McDowell Friends Fund) Kenneth and Carol Westlund Bob and Mary Jane Woodward Lois and Bob Yaffe Alumni and Parents and Grandparents of Alumni Greg Brooks and Rachel Adams Richard Bearak and Adrianne Wallace Irmgard and Kai Borner Maureen and Richard Carruthers Joel Cohen and Diane Milder Thomas Lee and Joan Giambusso Camille and David Gillespie Fred Myers and Faye Ginsburg Michael Green and Andrea Hirshman Francis Greenburger and Isabelle Autones Tracy Gross Zeph Grunschlag Paula Katz and Rick Mandler Andreas Killen and Marie Sacco Laurin and Norman Kleiman Fay Leoussis Joseph Magnavito Robert McLoughlin and Jeanne Arfanis Edward and Mary Miller Julie and Jesse Miller Laura and Neil Mitchell Rayna Rapp Rajpal Sandhu and Mary Henry Gary and Dana Shapiro Don and Lori Sellitti Phil Silvestri and Rita Senders Silvestri Ellynne Skove and Roger Gilchrist Michael Slater and Leslye Noyes Marjorie Slobetz and Donald Pickering Marjorie Small-Medney Trevor and Barbara Sohan Klay and Jane Stack Basil Williams and Heather Shamsai Bill and Louly Williams Neal H. Rosenberg Lois Schiffer Frederick and Jane Sillman Regina Silvers Regina Skyer Robert and Paula Usadi Bernard and Shirley Zlotowitz Robin Zlotowitz Friends Louis Bastone Lauren Baum John Bava Kristine Baxter and Jim Rein Daniel Beder Steven and Joan Beder Mr. David Berman Judith Bickart Loren Blackford Charlotte Blankfield Marvin and Ellen Ciporen Harvey P. Dale James Dejesus Emily Franzosa Deborah Friedman Micki and Robert Friedman Muriel L. Frischer Curtis Givan and Alice Longobardi Givan Eric and Carolyn Gould Steven J. Kimble Erin Lynch Lee and Rusty Meshier Sherri Miller Beverly and Charles Morris Mary Nerney Calvin L. Palmer Janine Pollack Staff and Former Staff Bevin Daly Orla Dunstan and Robert Salmieri Deborah Edel and Teddy Minucci Bernie McCormick Courtney Nuzum Jiménez Ginny Perrin Leslyn and Don Rigoni Jodi Scheurenbrand Beth Schneider and Steve McFarland Kirk Smothers and Sarah Clarke Katherine Sorel Debbie Zlotowitz and Rick Greenberg *** *Due to printing deadlines, all gifts received after May 2nd, 2013 will be acknowledged in the June MMFS News. This report gratefully acknowledges gifts received between July 1st, 2012 and May 2nd, 2013. Every effort has been made to ensure the accuracy of this report. If there are any errors, please accept our apologies and notify the Development Office at 718-625-3939, ext. 2223. dents u t S l o o h r y Sc arden G Elementa c i n a t o klyn B on the MMFS website. o o r B t i s i s V kr gallerie s in See photo the flic 14 9th Grade Trip to Spain: Reflections from Debbie Thursday, April 25th Hi All - Greetings from Spain. We arrived in Barcelona, excited but tired after an approximately seven and a half hour flight that was relatively smooth except for a few pockets of turbulence. Our trip began with one student leaving his backpack at security. Thankfully it was found. Everyone had one dinner at the airport and a second one on the plane. There was lots of bravado around not sleeping on the plane and how many hours each of them could stay awake. The answer? Not as long as they thought. the city and learned that every corner building is flat so that one can see better while driving. We drove past the Olympic Stadium and the former bull ring (bull fighting is not practiced in Barcelona any more). We stopped at Montjuic or Mountain of the Jews – so called because an old Jewish cemetery was found there – to see beautiful sweeping views of the city and the Mediterranean Sea with cruise ships in the harbor. Going through passport control and getting our luggage was easy and quick. We took a bus to the hotel, dropped off our luggage and began our journey. By now it was 11 am and the students were getting tired but they were too excited to sleep. So we walked and then walked some more and then we still walked! We also rode the metro, which the students loved. They were very impressed that the doors to the subway cars didn’t open automatically and that each platform had a vending machine. We had a great time walking around Barcelona. It’s a beautiful, cosmopolitan city with wide boulevards, lots of greenery and apartments with large windows and “Juliet balconies” overlooking the boulevards. Vendors line the streets selling flowers, pets and food. Perpendicular to the boulevards are narrow, stone streets with decorative doorways and arches leading to a large square with a church. Friday, April 26th Hola All - We had a great day. Your children are doing very well. They are cooperative, helpful and responsible. They were real troopers today as we walked and walked and walked and it poured and poured and poured!!!! Wake up was at 8:00 am. The students got up fairly easily. After a breakfast of breads, cereal, cheese, eggs and yogurt, everyone got on the bus. Most of us were still a little tired, so a bus tour of Barcelona was a perfect morning activity. We drove on the major boulevards of Saturday, April 27th Greetings All - Luckily the weather was better than predicted today. The first drizzle started as we were walking to dinner and it began to pour as we were leaving our final activity at 9:00 p.m. Everyone has been grappling with the concept of “time” and being in a different time zone that is six hours ahead of New York. Some have been confusing the days because we left on Tuesday but didn’t arrive until Wednesday and didn’t sleep until Wednesday evening. So two days felt like one really, really long day!!! They love figuring out the time in New York and contemplating what you are doing. Tomorrow wake-up is early as we say farewell to Barcelona and travel to Madrid. Monday, April 29th Hola All - I am grateful that your children are more cooperative than the weather is. It was FREEZING today. But in spite of the weather we had a fabulous day. Your children were exhausted. It is midnight here and all is quiet and calm. At the Royal Palace we had great guides and a great tour. The students listened, asked wonderful questions, learned a lot and enjoyed themselves. The Royal Palace was built 250 years ago by Carlos III in the center of Madrid at that time. The last king to live there was the grandfather of the present king, Juan Carlos I. Today, King Juan Carlos lives about six miles outside of Madrid and the Royal Palace serves as a museum, though it is still used for Continued on page 16 15 Continued from page 15 (Spain: Debbie’s Reflections) state visits. It is one of the largest palaces in Europe and has gone through several renovations. You can tell which rooms are renovated because the floors are made of wood whereas the original floors were made of marble. The palace is magnificent with over 3,000 rooms (we all heard different numbers so I’m not sure about this). The dining room was most impressive as it had seating for 144. Imagine having matching plates and silverware for 144! And the plates have gold on them so they have to be hand washed!!!! The throne room is the only room that never changes, except for the king’s and queen’s chairs, which are made specially to fit their bodies. Dinner was a huge success. Everyone had a choice to go to either the indoor market and informally stop and buy from the many stalls serving all kinds of fresh, cooked foods or a traditional, more formal sit-down Tapas restaurant and order lots of small plates to share. Most of the group chose the restaurant. The group I was in went to the marketplace. We loved everything. Between us we ate and drank hot chocolate, rice balls (the clear winner as everyone kept going back to that stall for just one more), sushi, fried octopus, dried fruit, Japanese pancakes, lobster tails, olives filled with cheese, goat cheese and crackers and chicken and garlic empanadas. For dessert we had cake and chocolate churros. The other group was REALLY adventurous and ate octopus with white rice covered in the black octopus ink, ham and Roquefort croquettes, Jamon Iberico with eggs and fries, fried calamari and potatoes in a mildly spicy sauce. At the end of a very satisfying day, everyone wrote in his or her journal and went off to bed. Tuesday, April 30th Hi All - Our final day and guess what? It poured! We had a really nice day in spite of all the rain. As usual we packed a lot into the day. We started our morning by taking the commuter train into the center of Madrid to be at the Prado when it opened at 10:00 am. When we got to the train station near the Prado we saw the outside to the memorial dedicated to those who died from the terrorist attack in Madrid in 2004. We next went to see the oldest synagogue in Spain. No one knows when it was built, but it was in use by 1196. The synagogue was built by Muslims because they were the best builders. They had never built a synagogue before, so they modeled it after a mosque, facing Mecca and with traditional arches. It was a Sephardic, Orthodox synagogue so the pulpit was in the middle and the women had to sit upstairs in the balcony. After 1492 it was converted to a church and took the name Santa Maria la Blanca or Saint Mary the White. A cross was hung there. Today there is only one symbol left of Judaism, a Jewish star on the wall. The original Torah was taken by the congregation to Portugal when the Jews were forced out of Spain and eventually made its way to Savannah, Georgia, where it is now. Our final stop on the tour was to see how swords were and are made. I have no idea how a group of students from a Quaker school ended up there, but we did and they LOVED it. Of course, they all wanted to buy swords. One of the students tried all week to change Kirk’s mind and was surprised that he never did. Another bargained down the price of everything in the store. I am sure the store still made a nice profit on our students! After our visit to Toledo, we went to dinner and then back to our hotel to finish our journals and work on our projects. In addition to writing in our journals every night, each group has to complete cards listing facts we learned during the day, new Spanish words learned, kindnesses performed, conversations in Spanish, new foods tried, haikus written about the day, drawings made, and about ten other categories. Each team accumulated points based on the number and quality of the submissions. The last two nights, the competition has been heightened as two of the groups vie for first place. Looking forward to the results tomorrow morning. As I end this email, I am thinking about our week and how much everyone has learned, changed and grown. Your children have done really well. You should be proud. They have problem solved, worked together, helped and supported each other, laughed and cried together, tried new foods, become more responsible, dealt with adversity, become more independent and lived together 24/7 mostly in harmony! It has been an excellent week. 16 Mary McDowell Friends School Phone: (718) 625-3939 ♦ Fax: (718) 625-1456 Preliminary School Calendar 2013-2014 2013 September 2 Monday Labor Day September 9 Monday Open House for Krisberg and Anderson Rooms First Day of School for All Other Classes – Noon Dismissal September 10 Tuesday First Day of School for Krisberg and Anderson Rooms Sept. 10 – 12 Tues. – Thur. Upper School Overnight Trip – Mandatory for All US Students September 13 Friday Noon Dismissal October 1 Tuesday Middle School Back-to-School Night October 2 Wednesday Elementary School Back-to-School Night October 8 Tuesday Upper School Back-to-School Night October 14 Monday Columbus Day – School Closed October 15 Tuesday Professional Development Day – No School October 16 Wednesday PSATs College Visit Days No School for 9th and 12th Grades November 11 Monday Parent/Teacher Conferences – No School for Entire School November 12 Tuesday Parent/Teacher Conferences for Middle and Upper School No School for Middle and Upper School Only Nov. 27 – 29 Wed. – Fri. Thanksgiving Holiday – School Closed Dec. 11 – 12 Wed. – Thur. Upper School Play December 20 Friday Elementary School Winter Performance – Noon Dismissal for Entire School Last Day of School Before Winter Break Dec. 23 – Jan. 3 Mon. – Fri. Winter Break – No School Continued next page 17 Mary McDowell Friends School Phone: (718) 625-3939 ♦ Fax: (718) 625-1456 Preliminary School Calendar 2013-2014 2014 January 6 Monday School Resumes January 17 Friday Elementary and Upper School Writing Day No School for Elementary and Upper Schools TBD TBD Middle School Writing Day – No School for Middle School January 20 Monday Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Day – School Closed Feb. 17 – 18 Mon. – Tues. Presidents Day – School Closed February 19 Wednesday Professional Development Day – No School for Entire School March 14 Friday Last Day of School Before Spring Break March 17 – 28 Mon. – Fri. Spring Break – No School March 31 Monday School Resumes April 7– 8 Mon. – Tues. Parent Teacher Conferences – No School for Entire School April 14 Monday Half Day of School April 15 Tuesday First Day of Passover – No School April 18 Friday Good Friday – No School May 23 Friday Elementary and Middle School Writing Day No School for Elementary and Middle School May 26 Monday Memorial Day – School Closed June 11 Wednesday Upper School Writing Day – No School for Upper School June 12 Thursday Last Day for Students 18
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