Fr. Adam Shares His Passions
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Fr. Adam Shares His Passions
Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish 7820 Beechmont Avenue Cincinnati, OH 45255 513-388-4466 E-mail: [email protected] Website: www.ihom.org NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATION U.S. POSTAGE PAID Cincinnati, Ohio Permit No. 2975 I M M A C U L AT E H E A RT OF M A RY P A R I S H N E W S PA P E R Published since 1978 by Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish (1944–2011) September 2011 Fr. Adam Shares His Passions From the Pastor BY ELIZABETH BOOKSER BARKLEY A whimsical statue on Fr. Adam Puntel’s desk merges two of the young priest’s passions. The creator of this unusual ordination gift has altered the familiar Frisch’s Big Boy with several clever touches. He has added a Roman collar, dark beard and a fisherman’s chest waders, placed a fishing rod in one of the figure’s hands while balancing an artificial fishing fly (actual size) on the other shoulder. Big Boy has been transformed into Fr. Adam, “fisher of men” and ardent fly-fisherman. Fr. Adam, who recently joined Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish as Parochial Vicar after ordination in May, spoke with HeartBeat about his priesthood and other interests. A native of Dayton, Fr. Adam studied special education at the University of Toledo. It was during those years that he began discerning his vocation while immersing himself in the writings of the Church Fathers, including St. Augustine. “I was a closet theologian in college,” he says, admitting that he spent more time with the writings of these early saints than on some of his assigned education textbooks. “The Church fathers have a beautiful comprehension of scripture,” he says. “When I first read St. Augustine’s The City of God, I was so impressed that he writes equally from the head and from the heart.” He counts Augustine among his favorite saints, as well as the saint’s mother, Monica, “a faithful woman who prayed for her son’s conversion to Christianity her entire life. She is a model for me of longstanding prayer, as well as the patron, among other causes, of ‘disappointing children,’” he notes with a smile. Among Fr. Adam’s living role models is Fr. George Kunkel, pastor at St. Vincent Ferrer Parish, where Fr. Adam resided as an intern and deacon. “At St. Vincent Ferrer, I was first exposed to the lived spirituality of the priesthood,” Fr. Adam says. “Fr. Kunkel was the first priest I’d ever seen struggle—in a good way—to remain faithful to his call to serve the people of God.” A self-described introvert and passionate fisherman, Fr. Adam plans to scope out the nearby Miami and Little Miami Rivers for the best spots for fly fishing, since his favorite rivers are “up North” in Michigan--the Manistee and Au Sable. “Being out there on the river alone with God recharges my By Father Tom Kreidler D Fr. Adam and some of his instruments batteries,” he explains. “I’m always awed by the beauty of God’s nature when wading through the middle of the river.” He views fly fishing as part of “the divine order” and a “proof of God.” He loves the beauty of “being able to pick the right fly, read the river—how it flows and where the fish may be—and catch the fish.” In addition to fishing, he enjoys making music (he plays guitar, mandolin and bouzouki—an Irish stringed instrument). He is confident that he and his musician friends will find some time to schedule local gigs for their band, Easter Rising, which he describes as Irish/soul/rock and roll. He’s also hoping that parish life will allow a little time for a hobby he took up in the seminary, brewing beer, and for his lifelong love of reading. “I read mostly the classics. I was on a Dostoevsky kick for (Continued on page 2) Inside: 60 Years As a Sister of Mercy 3 People in the Pews 4 Sharing Our Blessings Donor Recognition 8 Behind the Racetrack 12 ear friends, One of the sacraments we celebrate well and often at Immaculate Heart of Mary is Baptism. Near the end of each ceremony, the priest or deacon hands the parents a candle that has been lighted from the Paschal candle. The celebrant reminds both parents and godparents that “this light is entrusted to you to be kept burning brightly. This child of yours has been enlightened by Christ. He/she is to walk always as a child of the light. May they keep the flame of faith alive in their heart." It’s not long before that newlybaptized infant grows into a toddler, then a school child, then a teen— and that’s when many parents begin to realize the challenge they have accepted at baptism. Keeping the light of faith “burning brightly” takes a big dose of commitment and faith along the journey. As children become more immersed in frenetic lives of school, play, and work, it is sometimes difficult to find time to do the “faith things” that will keep them grounded in the light of Christ. Although parents are the primary educators of their children in matters of faith, a parish like IHM can make the job a little easier in a variety of forms: our parish K-8 school (and next year a pre-school), our Parish Religion Program, Vacation Bible (Continued on page 2) 2 HeartBeat Servant Leadership to Match God's Call BY DAVID RINDERLE T his account could be about you, me or any number of IHM Parishioners at some time in our lives. Have you ever felt God's call in your life but held back because you didn't feel quite ready, not well enough equipped for the task? Or, have you found yourself serving because of the zeal and drive with which God gifted you, then later realized you didn't have all the necessary tools and experience? Both of those scenarios are quite common. Those of us who have felt that way have a lot of company. Ignite Night in December 2009 was the final input meeting to develop a number of key goals for our parish, with the final product of the IHM Parish Long Range Advancement Plan (LRAP) rolled out in late winter 2010. Two LRAP goals step up to address the need for Leadership Training designed specifically to assist IHM parishioners to become Servant Leaders: C-1: Encourage, train, assess, and support current and future leaders. A-2: Evangelize the unengaged and those without a church home through appropriate formation, witness, programming, and events. Through the work of several well-qualified volunteers with significant background in these concepts, IHM is soon to roll out the first Leadership Institute training in the early fall. You will want to keep an eye on the Parish Bulletin for date announcements and information to enroll. The concepts of Servant Leadership have matured in recent years, and have been expressed by a number of authors, such as the ground-breaking book, Servant As Leader by Robert Greenleaf, Black Belt Leader Peaceful Leader by Timothy Warneka, and Lead Like Jesus by Ken Blanchard and Phil Hodges. IHM's Leadership Institute for the fall of 2011 and spring 2012 is called Foundations of Spiritual/Servant Leadership. The program will take the best from these concepts and meld them with practical skills that fit the needs of IHM's diverse and excellent ministries, commissions and councils. We look forward to the opportunity to equip IHM volunteer leaders to fulfill the Parish Mission and Values through their personal actions and their leadership of parish commissions and ministries. The fall course will focus on “Traits of Successful Catholic Leadership”; meeting, facilitation, and listening skills; and "Vision to Action to Results": planning, prioritization, resourcing, measurement. The Spring session includes such Foundations of Spiritual Leadership as Ministry and commission goals to evangelize and fulfill the Parish Mission and Values; evangelization through spiritual growth in the ministries; and ministry and commissions as small faith community: facilitation, group prayer, faith sharing, witness, and welcoming. Prayerfully consider if IHM's Foundations of Spiritual/Servant Leadership could benefit you. IHM School Starts Year With Strong Staff, Programs BY NANCY GOEBEL I mmaculate Heart of Mary School has completed its first year of hosting three full-day kindergartens. They are housed in the kindergarten building behind the Church. The rooms are beautiful and encourage hands-on learning and social interaction. The kindergarten is a great addition to the IHM family. The Enrichment Program for students has been moved to a new modular classroom. This program services students in the primary grades through grade eight. This year we will be welcoming a new teacher, Julie Shore. She comes highly recommended. IHM also boasts of an extensive Intervention Assistance Team Program that addresses the individual needs of students. Students are referred by the parent or teacher expressing a concern about the child’s progress. An intervention team meets to discuss the student’s strengths and weaknesses. Interventions are set in place to enhance the child’s learning. On-going meetings evaluate their progress. The staff is moving into its third year of PLC Training. A PLC is a professional learning community that incorporates every aspect of the school’s operation. In order to increase student learning, educators must work together. The goal of the PLC is to create a collaborative culture in order to increase the chances of successful school improvement. Spanish is taught to all grades, and an in-house studio gives older students experience in internal broadcasting. The school houses over 20 inter-active whiteboards, several laptop carts, a fully equipped computer lab, a piano lab, and a Starlab. IHM also has a band and a strings program. Students have the September 2011 Fr. Adam Shares His Passions (Continued from page 1) a while,” he says. He’s also a fan of American literature, especially James Fenimore Cooper and Ernest Hemingway. The latter, he points out, loved to fish for trout in the rivers of Michigan. One of his favorite modern day authors is Fr. Raniero Cantalamessa, a Franciscan Capuchin priest who since 1980 has been the preacher in the papal household at the Vatican. His writings--including Beatitudes: Eight Steps to Happiness, Easter: Meditations on the Resurrection, and Loving the Church--“are quite accessible to most readers,” he says. As Fr. Adam immerses himself in IHM parish life and begins to work side by side with Fr. Tom Kreidler, he will continue to discover his “priestly identity, how to interact with people and how to find the correct boundaries,” he says. “I became a priest to invest in the lives of the People of God. Part of that investment is getting to know them.” From the Pastor (Continued from page 1) School, Confirmation small groups, and our teen youth group. One new initiative to help families is being launched Oct. 19, Wednesday Family Nights. The whole family can enjoy a meal prepared by some of our highly-praised IHM chefs, then break into ageappropriate groups to listen and discuss issues related to family life. With all the parish programming available, it’s easy to forget that it’s not just parish staff and volunteers who will be helping parents and children keep the faith light shining in their children. It’s a commitment the whole parish makes when they voice their “Yes” during the Rite of Baptism responding to the celebrant’s question: “People of God, do you agree to support these parents and godparents in the baptismal covenant for this child?” IHM parents can be assured that our parish community is here to support them, not only in the joys but also during the tougher times of parenthood. God bless! Communal Celebration of the Sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick opportunity to enjoy our outdoor classroom which includes seating for an entire class, a water feature, trees, flowers, and children’s statuary. The area provides a peaceful environment to enjoy a good book or paint a beautiful picture. We are pleased to welcome a new first grade teacher, Carrie Ell. Carrie is a graduate of Ohio University with a degree in early childhood education. She has experience in pre-school and first grade. Rebecca Curran will also join our staff as a part-time art teacher. Rebecca will be responsible for art in grades one through four. She has recently been teaching at Bishop Leibold School in Miamisburg. She is glad to be returning to Cincinnati. Rebecca will also be teaching at Guardian Angels. Lastly, Kathy Scheidler will be our new school psychologist. She will be in the building two days per week. For information on school registration, please contact Debbi Hill at 388-3020 or debbiH@ihom school.org. Information is also available on our website: www.ihomschool.org.. Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish Saturday October 15 Mass at 3 p.m .in Church (this Mass fulfills your Sunday Obligation) We encourage those of you who are experiencing illness, injury or weakness due to aging, as well as impending surgery to attend. We are planning to have valet parking that day. If you need transportation to the Mass, please let us know when you register and we will make arrangements to pick you up. RSVP to the Parish Office, 388-4466 by Monday, October 10. September 2011 HeartBeat 60 Years as a Sister of Mercy, And Still Filled With Joy BY SISTER CAROLE TEMMING, RSM I t really wasn’t ministry or community life that brought me to Mercy. I felt a strong call to grow deeper in my relationship with God and it was the Mercy spirit that drew me. . . spoke to my heart…resonated with who I was. After 60 years this joy for life is still very important to me. I like being a part of a group which continues to challenge, grow and bring God into the lives of others. Community challenges me to be my best self, and I believe that invitation is from God. When I entered the Sisters of Mercy, Harry S. Truman was President, the cost of a first class stamp was three cents, and penny candy was really a penny. It was after graduation from high school and after working several months for the Metropolitan Life Insurance Company that I entered the Sisters of Mercy. It has been a path that spanned 60 years of service to the Church and one filled with challenging roles. Vatican II brought many changes from what I knew when I entered the community. As the Church changed so did religious life. All of the rigid structures for community were swept away as we were invited to change so as to live more fully the path of God’s Christian community. It was a difficult time but we adapted to the changes. Through it all there we were patient trusting in the fidelity of God. Prior to entering the Sisters of Mercy, I thought I would become a teacher because the Sisters I knew were all teachers, but the superiors at the time thought otherwise and I was told to study to become a nurse. As a nurse, I was always drawn to loving people into wholeness one at a time and realize that it is not so much what I am doing as how I am doing it. I am not just a nurse. I love the people I work with. I walk the journey with them. . .hear their stories. I pray with people when they are frightened and sick. I try to encourage them and be with them. I believe the Kingdom is very much present and growing in our community at IHM. I hope I can in some way facilitate the connection between loving God and loving others. Perhaps I can do this by fanning the flames of God’s love in people with whom I come in contact.. I have chosen to live my life as a vowed woman religious, in other words, as a sister. That means that because of Jesus Christ, I’ve chosen to center my life around six ideals: prayer, community, service, and the vows of poverty, chastity and obedience. The vows shape my life. They are choices which enliven me. They are most deeply, my “yes” to Christ, who for reasons known only to God, draws me to this manner of life. The vow of poverty warns me to value people above things, and forbids me to equate quality of life with quantity of goods or talents. It asks me to travel light, to share whatever I am or have, and to live in gratitude and trust. Chastity insists that I am ultimately alone and mortal; that as much as I need love and cling to life, no one can truly satisfy my thirst for understanding and acceptance. It requires a singleness of vision. As our foundress, Catherine McAuley said, “We must always be centered in God for whom we alone go forward or stay back.” Over and over, regardless of my age or status – obe- Sister Carole Temming dience prods me to listen freshly to the Gospel and to make decisions in the context of my community and the Church. Prayer and community support and express my vowed life. Prayer is my life line, as essential a communication as that between husband and wife. Like their discussions, my prayer varies. I listen, speak, wrestle, cry, touch and am touched by the Lord. Prayer challenges me. Community is companionship and shared vision and a sense of continuity with women of greatness, past and present. In sorrow or joy we seek to be sisters. Besides bouts with loneliness (which I believe accompanies all of us at some point in our lives) God’s love is ever present. I venture to guess that we all have had experiences with persons in our family or community with whom we don’t always see eye to eye. It has been true for me living in religious community. What I have learned is that no matter how different we may be, we are committed to care for and to love each other. 3 Learning to love someone for who they are, and not for who I would like them to be, has been a great gift to me. It is freeing to live in community and know that in spite of our shortcomings we will be there for each other when the going gets rough. In the midst of these realities stands service – Jesus’s purpose in life and ours. My ministries during the past 60 years have included nursing, chaplaincy and counseling. I believe my role is to carry out the healing ministry of Jesus through the care of the whole person – mind, body and spirit. Would I want my life to be other than it is? No. And I am grateful for the consistent call of Christ who both comforts and compels, who bestows whatever I have of both desire and accomplishment. The past 60 years have sped by quickly but not without the precious memories of very important people who have touched my life. There have been so many great people who have always been there to assist and encourage me. I thank God for all the graces, blessings, love and fantastic surprises which sustained me over the years and which continue to fill my life. I have been enriched in so many ways and feel so blessed as I celebrate 60 wonderful years as a Sister of Mercy. I have never doubted that there is a special place in the world and the church for religious life, rooted in consecrated celibacy. I believe that religious have a very important work to do in this world and in the church. Catherine McAuley, our foundress, is never far from my thoughts. Her legacy and continuing presence among us gives me a strong sense of hope. I don’t think any of us will ever be asked to do anything as hard as those sisters who set sail from Ireland to the United States knowing that they would never see their loved ones again. There will be difficulties as we move into the future. My passion for our future is that we rise above our personal preferences to choose what will be most lifegiving for tending the fire of the Mercy charism so that it will continue to blaze in the hearts of many young women who will follow us as Sisters of Mercy. I pray that God will send to our Mercy community women of fidelity and compassion who will join us in our vowed commitment to serve God’s people. Sister Carole talks with her nephew and her sister, Alice Rombach. 4 HeartBeat A Leave Your Legacy Tool Don’t Do This with Your Will BY SUE GRETHEL Y our will is one of the most important documents you will ever sign. There are certain things to avoid in order to do it right. Here are five of the more critical “don’ts” to consider: 1. Don’t put it off until later. The worst thing you can do in creating a will is to procrastinate. You can keep waiting for a more convenient time. But the years have a way of slipping by. A will delayed is a will not done. Now is the time – while you are able – to do your will. For your sake, and the sake of your loved ones, do your will now. 2. Don’t do it by yourself. Saving a few bucks by writing your own will, or using a mass-produced generic form, will not provide the level of inner peace and confidence you and your family deserve. Nothing can replace the benefits of a face-toface meeting with a good estate-planning attorney who asks the right questions and who knows how to draft a will that meets the specific requirements of your state of residence. Seek out a qualified attorney and have your estate plans done right. 3. Don’t rely on it solely. Your will needs to be considered along with other transfer documents, such as life insurance policies, jointownership accounts, and retirement accounts. Other estate -planning documents might include power of attorney, appropriate health care provisions, and a living will. Again, a good Free Alzheimer’s Education Seminar BY DAVID E. FLECK T he IHM Health Ministry Commission invites parishioners and non-parishioners alike to join us for an informational seminar on Alzheimer’s disease and related dementias. As we age, we have all had “senior moments” where we have forgotten recently known or otherwise important information. This program is designed to help explain the differences between normal memory loss associated with aging, mild cognitive impairment (a possible early warning sign of dementia), and Alzheimer’s disease. If you have ever wondered how to differentiate the nor- attorney can help you coordinate your planning and provide added assurance that everything you need is prepared legally and according to your wishes. 4. Don’t put it away and forget about it. Things change. Children grow up. New laws are passed affecting estate planning. New developments occur regarding health issues and financial resources. An outdated will could create more problems than it solves. It’s a good idea to get out your will every year and review it. Make sure it does what you want. Keep your will current. 5. Don’t put it where no one can find it. A will is worthless unless it can be located and duly recorded at your death. Yet nearly every day someone dies with a “lost” will. Be sure to put it in a safe place, but also let someone else know where it is. Tell one or more loved ones-or a trusted friend. A little foresight like this can spare your family added stress during their time of grief. Please remember that an estate gift to Immaculate Heart of Mary can make a positive statement to your family and friends regarding your priorities…as well as make a tremendous difference in the parish’s future work as we continue Christ’s ministry on earth. Those who remember the parish in their will or other estate plans are eligible for membership in our Legacy Society. For more information on the Legacy Society or remembering IHM with a bequest, contact Sue Grethel in the Stewardship Office (388-4081 or [email protected]). mal signs of aging from those signs that might indicate a problem, in either yourself or a loved one, then this seminar is for you! The program will also focus on issues related to the early stages of progression after a formal diagnosis of dementia is made and the challenges facing patients, care providers, and family members early on. Presentations will be followed by a question and answer session with the audience. Please join us in separating fact from fiction as we address some commonly held fears about aging and Alzheimer’s disease. When: Oct. 20, 2011, at 7-9 p.m. Where: Immaculate Heart of Mary Roman Catholic Church Heritage Hall 7820 Beechmont Avenue Cincinnati, OH 45255 Cost: Free. Advance registration is not required September 2011 People in the Pews Meet Michael Aldrich BY KATE TUCCI M ichael Aldrich is a new Catholic in our parish family with a unique story to tell. Seventeen-year-old Michael will be returning to Turpin High School as a senior this year with a joyful heart, goals for his future, and the sure knowledge that now he has a faith he loves and a home here at IHM, and within the Catholic Church. Michael was born in St. Louis, Mo., and spent a brief time in Chicago as a young child. His only memories of Chicago are of one great birthday party, and his blonde-haired best pal, Travis. His successful parents, John and Kathryn, took attractive career moves here to Cincinnati to be closer to family in Ohio and to raise their two boys, Stephen and Michael. They reside here in Anderson, and are members of Mt. Washington Presbyterian Church. Stephen is currently a sophomore at Capital University majoring in religion and writing. Michael played football for Turpin in his freshman and sophomore years, but he jokes that playing fullback at 140 pounds is brutal, so he honed in on wrestling. He has 80 career wins thus far, and his goal for his senior year is to finish with 100 and go to state championships. He qualified twice for the district until a shoulder injury stopped his momentum. He is eager to return to wrestling, and looking forward to playing trumpet in the marching band, a group he recently joined. He also describes himself as a “math geek”… he hopes to attend Franciscan University in Steubenville, majoring in theology /catechesis with a minor in mathematics, ultimately becoming a Youth Minister. His real story began Aug. 4, 2010. He was invited by one of our IHM youth to attend our youth group kickoff. It was a canoe trip with Skyline Chili afterward. He decided he needed to show off his six-pack and give it a try. He had preconceived notions that the Catholics he knew were cultish, but he said he had a great experience, and never felt so accepted. When he said, “Hey, I’m not Catholic,” it was just no big deal. They accepted him where he was. Michael goes on to explain that in subsequent meetings there were a lot of YG sessions devoted to relationships and how we treat one another in today’s culture. He regrets he did- Michael Aldrich n’t see girls as real people, that he also just used girls. He says now it sickens him to look back at how he thought and that what a blessing it was to have his world rocked, and his attitudes of how we truly love one another re-oriented. He credits Julie Farmer for having invited him to youth group in the first place. He holds youth minister Patrick Ries in high regard for teaching the truth of the Catholic faith, and pointing the way to be truly happy in this life by living for Christ. But Patrick has taken Michael and the rest of the group so much deeper, right to the heart of what the Eucharist is to us, straight into John:6, and this resonated with a young man hungry for truth. That truth is flourishing in Michael. He says that the IHM community is great at not judging…and that lack of judgment pulls in a variety of kids to our high school youth group. He describes it as a melting pot of athletes, geeks, band kids, smart kids, not-so-smart kids that all have an escape from the culture on YG nights. He says you can tell the adults involved in YG anything, and they will listen to you. His own parents support his choices to become Catholic and admire the young man he has become. This adult thoroughly enjoyed listening to Michael and the knowledge that our young people are in good hands at the IHM youth group. They meet on Wednesdays and Sundays. Patrick Ries can be reached at 3884185. September 2011 HeartBeat Time Talent and Prayer Annual Renewal BY JEANNE FELDKAMP R enewal: a time to start over, begin again, recommit. A fresh beginning; a time to continue a wonderful undertaking. Soon it will be time again for us as a parish to renew our time, talent, treasure and prayer commitments to one another, our parish, ourselves and God. As in years past we will take time to evaluate all of our commitments in each area: time, talent, treasure and prayer. The timing of our renewal program will be segmented slightly to make sure we provide space for the new missal instruction that is also occurring this fall. You will first have the opportunity to focus on renewal of treasure Join IHM This Fall For Family Nights BY KATE TUCCI A fter almost two years in the planning, and in direct response to the needs our parish families identified in recent surveys, IHM will be offering a unique program. Wednesday Family Nights will begin this Fall….Yes! You can take a night off from cooking and cleanup, have a delicious dinner prepared just for your entire family and then take in age-appropriate teachings written just for you and your family by our Blessed Pope John Paul II. He challenged families to fulfill what they are called to be: “A community of life and love.” These five Wednesday evenings starting Oct. 19 and running through Nov. 16 will begin at 6 p.m. with your dinner prepared by very popular parish chefs Juli and Steve Daly, or Lorena Janes…. No cooking, no cleaning, great food, and an amazing program…reason enough to come! The registration fee of $30 covers all the materials and the dinners for your family. There will be a chance to make a IHM Preschool Opens Fall 2012 BY KRISTA DEVINE J esus said, “Let the children come to me and do not stop them, because the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” Matthew 19:14. We are excited to announce the opening of the Immaculate Heart of Mary Preschool. The preschool, on target to open in the fall of 2012, will be housed in Hageman Hall, one of the three buildings set to be renovated in the upcoming year. The IHM preschool will serve children ages 3, 4 and 5 throughout the school through a program being used by all parishes in the Archdiocese of Cincinnati. It is very similar to the program we have been using in the past. Following that, we will turn our focus to time, talent and prayer. This will begin in late October and conclude during November--giving thanks together for all that we have been given and commit to what we can return. Time, talent and prayer are of course not as easy to measure in numbers. However, it is easy to look around IHM and witness so many who obviously have made commitments in each of these areas. It is easy though to miss the amazing amount of talent, time and prayer that is never seen--that is given behind the scenes, off campus, in the community and throughout the world, the commitments that are made between you and God. This year during our renewal time we ask each parish member to set aside some time to really reflect on what it is that you have been blessed with and that you can return to God. The Stewardship Commission will assist you with articles for reflection, descriptive information on ministries within the parish and a commitment card and other items that will be printed in the November issue of HeartBeat. We want to renew together and move forward growing together, while still understanding and appreciating that this is an individual commitment-a commitment by you, to God. free will offering for dinner as well. Then the real feast begins with sessions for adults, teens, middle school, grades 4-5, grades 2-3, and 1-K with babysitting for younger ones, if they are one year old and walking. Everyone in your family will be hearing the same message (with a similar age appropriate topic for our youngest ones) and enjoy wonderful discussion questions for the family to take home….you will all be “on the same page”! The sessions explore “Theology of the Body,” the title used to describe the 129 talks Pope John Paul II gave the world. His reflections on the meaning of human embodiment has been called a theological time-bomb. In materials appropriate to each age, we will see that he teaches us that the human body alone is capable of making visible what is invisible, making us able to experience and see spiritual realities, freeing us to live life more fully. Theology of the Body scholars speak of the Trinitarian journey taking humans from the union of man and woman on to the union of Christ with his Church, and ultimately to the eternal union of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit, laying out the meaning of our existence, and the roadmap to a fulfilling and happy life here on earth with our families. Please join us for a delicious dinner, and then treat yourself to the teachings our recent Holy Father wrote just for us and for our families so that we might live well and become what we are: A community of life and love. All families are welcome at our newest program, Wednesday Family Nights. We welcome all ages and stages of life for Family Nights. Adult Formation Director at IHM, Debbie Birck adds, “We are so thrilled to be offering such a terrific program for our families, something we have been working on for some time. It is fun to finally see it come to fruition. The idea that families will be able to eat dinner together, pray, and break out to hear the same message is exciting.” Go to www.ihom.org to register for the five sessions. Attending all five Wednesday night sessions is not mandatory, but for food planning purposes it would be appreciated, and your learning experience is enhanced as lessons naturally build on one another. Call Debbie Birck in the Parish Office at 388-4189 with any questions. year. The nurturing of the physical, emotional, intellectual and social growth is vital to a child’s development. The Immaculate Heart of Mary’s Preschool will nurture each child’s spiritual growth as well. Our Catholic preschool program will strive to provide a unique learning environment for the young children of our parish, an environment in which each child’s Catholic identity is supported by the parish in which they belong. We are currently finalizing our launch plan and timeline for the preschool. We are planning to begin the registration process in January for the 2012-2013 school year. Please watch the bulletin for announcements and information on the progress of this new blessing that our parish has been given. 5 2011 Giving Trees Will Bloom in November BY KRISTA DEVINE The Immaculate Heart of Mary Giving Tree has been assisting various organizations throughout our community for many years. Bill and Judith Haines, along with Judy O’Brien, established this ministry 30 years ago and have worked hard to keep its spirit alive. Each year the donations from the December Giving Tree provide much needed assistance for many organizations such as A Caring Place, Bethany House, Our Lady of the Mountains, and Welcome House, just to name a few. The Giving Tree not only helps out many people within our local area, it also gives our IHM community members an opportunity to work together and give back to others. The students at Immaculate Heart of Mary School get involved in helping out the Giving Tree committee by assembling the tags and getting them ready to hang on the trees. Throughout the three weeks that the trees are up in the church, many IHM parishioners are taking tags, buying gifts, and providing necessary items to those in needs. The many parishioners that help, sort, load, and distribute the gifts are amazing. The collection weekend of the Giving Tree is an overwhelming sight. The ability to give so much to people in need truly portrays our “Strong in Faith, Alive in Spirit” parish community. This year the Christmas Trees will be filled with tags and available in the front of the church the weekends of Nov. 12/13, 19/20, and 26/27. We are asking that all gifts be returned to IHM the weekend of Dec. 3 and 4. If you would like to assist with the 2011 Giving Tree, please contact Krista Devine at [email protected]. HeartBeat 6 September 2011 Thoughts on Batahola Trip Kelsey Overley BY SUE KEEFE O ne hundred fifty-nine IHM parishioners have visited the Cultural Center of Batahola Norte since 2000. This year, our song for scripture sharing was “The Servant Song” which seemed to echo our thoughts. Kelsey Mueller: I saw the face of Christ a multitude of times in various people. The person that reoccurred most from my perspective at the Cultural Center was Amanda, one of our three translators. Not that the other translators weren’t precise or not well trained, but Amanda had a sense of deep love and compassion for the kids and adults she worked with. Rob Hiltz: As one of the more recent of those 159 visitors, I have been able to witness how IHM has been blessed by this relationship. Having the opportunity to visit the Batahola center classrooms and break bread with the students and staff, I left with a feeling of special blessing – that sense of gratitude! I’m not referring to the people of Batahola thanking IHM parishioners for our support. Certainly they do appreciate and thank us for what we send to them, but more importantly the students and staff are very grateful for what little they have! Molly Hiltz: The people of Nicaragua are the kindest, most open community I have ever met. They were very patient with me as I practiced my amateur Spanish with them. They have so little, yet they welcomed us with open arms. Emily Forsthoefel: The people who go there are so kind and nice. They were over joyed to see us and the children were precious. We went around to the many different classes they offered there at the Center and talked with the students. Every student was so thankful for their education and really inspired me to appreciate mine a little more. We always got time out of the day to play with the children, which was my favorite part. Each person down there made me feel so loved and like we at I.H.M. are really affecting and helping better their lives. I would go back to Nicaragua in a heartbeat. Matt Schneider: I felt I was prepared for a very fun journey with some of my fellow McNicholas students and students from other schools. I was at first Kelsey Mueller. hesitant about the relationships that would be formed on the trip, but all my doubts were proven wrong when the first two days of the trip felt as if it had been months or years of bonding with my roommates of “Cuadro Cuatro.” I believe the friendships that I made over the trip will last for a long time. Jack Castleman: I was also amazed by the strong community I saw at the Cultural Center. I don’t believe I truly understood the meaning of the word community before I met these people. Not only are these people co-workers and classmates but they are also neighbors and life-long friends. They rely on each other for emotional support as well as assistance in getting an education, job, home, etc. Not only did everyone know each other’s name but they also knew each other’s life story. There was a bond between these people that I have never experienced or even seen before in my life. Building stronger relationships in my own life, as well as truly appreciating the ones that I do have, is something that I want to focus more on now that I have visited Nicaragua. I have no doubt that it will make my life more fulfilling. Lauren Overley: When I got to see the classes, I was speechless. All of the talent that the people of the Batahola Center have just amazed me. The art class, craft class, cooking class, etc. made me smile knowing that the people of the Center are getting what they need to support themselves and their families. Kelsey Overley: The one activity that I was touched by was when a huge group of students and the group from Cincinnati all got in a big circle and played games. My favorite was when two people were partners and one had to close their eyes and the other had to guide him around by making an animal noise. I kept opening my eyes. My partner said that I needed to let go and trust him. That exercise was amazing because I learned to trust Joseph even though I had no idea who he was. This whole experience was so touching and I learned so much. I feel that this trip has really opened my eyes to more than just my life and surroundings. This was such an adventure and I am so thankful that I was fortunate enough to go. Nancy Kleespies: The Cultural Centre of Batahola Norte is a place of miracles! There is a deep commitment from the volunteers and staff of the center to work diligently to provide a safe haven to learn and to grow in intellect and faith. Dignity, respect, faith and joy are gifts that can’t be purchased and these are the foundation of what brings the people of the surrounding poverty-stricken region to the There’s something for everyone! Molly Hiltz September 2011 HeartBeat 7 Perpetual Eucharistic Adoration Our Chapel and a Bottle of Water BY SALLY SCHRODER L ife has been likened to a bottle of muddy water; as long as it is kept in motion, it is impossible to see anything but swirling particles of mud. Given time to rest, however, the mud settles and the water becomes clearer. Given time to rest, we gain a different perspective of ourselves and life in general. A life that is too busy for “time out” is merely a form of existing – not living! When we humbly turn to God in prayer, everything is easier. There is no better place to let the muddiness of our lives settle down than before our Lord in the Blessed Sacrament. Four of our parishioners tell of their experiences spending time with Jesus in our chapel. Every story is unique and yet the same. There is a clarity, a vision that can only come from God. Maybe their stories will resonate with you. Linda and Jeff Gauggel write: “With the renovations made and the new Chapel so visible on Beechmont, I would often think to say a prayer as I drove by on my many trips to and from McNick. On one such trip, I had picked up our boys from an afterschool activity, it was late in the evening, homework still needed to be completed and they were not in a good mood. I don’t know what came over me (well, maybe I do) but I swerved over and pulled into IHM’s parking lot. My sons looked at me in astonishment. What are you doing, we still have homework, it’s late, etc. I said we needed an attitude adjustment and were going to spend a few minutes in the chapel with Jesus. What peace we found there. After a short time, not wanting to keep them up too late, I motioned that we could leave. Now, to my surprise, one of the boys was motioning back that he wasn’t ready yet. That was one of my earliest experiences with adoration. I became an infrequent visitor. There were always excuses and never enough time. In the fall of 2007, Jeff and I decided to make a commitment to adore once a week together. There was a need for Friday at 5 p.m. and we decided to give it a try. The time commitment has been a lot easier to keep than anticipated. It has become a peaceful start to our weekend. That one hour with Jesus has helped us to refocus our lives each week. It has made it easier for us to continually put our lives in God’s hands and to trust His direction – His will. It’s a great thing to share that hour with Jesus and with each other. When I first brought up the subject of committed adoration to Jeff, his thought was what am I going to think or talk about for an hour with God. He finds himself reflecting about self, spouse, children (living and past), parents (living and past), saying the rosary and, before you know it, the hour is up. We always find ourselves thanking God for the 60 minutes with Him one on one. It’s a great time to get out of the daily fast paced life and sit in a reflective environment where you have no one to impress but the Creator who knows you best. The week after Easter 2008, we drove our 19-yearold son to New York for a co-op job. He would be living on his own, many hours from home, not knowing anyone for three months. We were scared to say the least. While there I looked up the local Catholic Church (Immaculate Heart of Mary!) and we drove there for a visit. I entered the chapel with all my fear and I felt it literally lift away. I realized that the Jesus I visited in our chapel was here for my son too. What peace! At that moment I knew he would be okay. What a blessing we found in that Chapel and what Linda and Jeff Gauggel a blessing we find in our Chapel. Our continued commitment to adoration has opened a constant dialog with God. He is with us every step of our lives. What a wonderful thing to not only know that but to feel it in our hearts.” Frank O’Toole tells us his experience: “Back in 1997, I had a strong inspiration from the Holy Spirit to attend mass during the week. I did some research and started calling around to see who had a noon mass that was close to where I worked. I was led to Old St Mary’s church downtown. I started going to noon mass every day at Old St. Mary during my lunch hour. Fr. Al Lauer was a very devout and holy priest who said mass there. His message was always very strong and straightforward. In his homilies he urged us to practice holiness, and to visit the sacrament of confession often. After about a year of attending his daily mass, we had several conversations after mass. He mentioned he was starting Eucharistic adoration everyday downtown in the evening. I agreed to commit to Eucharistic Adoration every Wednesday evening from 6 to 7. I found this to be a very peaceful and quiet time to reflect on my life, to pray, and strengthen my relationship with God. At times my job tends to be very hectic, and adoration seemed to lift up my spirit no matter what the situation. This also gave me a chance to improve my relationship with God. Since attending adoration it gave me a chance to pray for all members of my family, relatives, friends, workmates, and anyone who needed to be prayed for. About eight years ago, I was asked to devote an hour for IHM also. I am blessed to be able to offer Eucharistic adoration twice a week. I feel I have received many blessings, and answers to prayers since I’ve started adoration. Sometimes my prayers are not always answered the way I want, but I know that God gives me what I need, not what I want. I have learned over the years that I must follow God’s will, not my own will. I feel very blessed to be a part of adoration. I highly recommend you visit the Blessed Sacrament whenever you have the chance, and maybe even commit for an hour. I promise if you spend an hour with the Lord every week, after prayerful discernment, Jesus will help you to understand His will for you. Here is one quote of many by Mother Teresa of Calcutta on Eucharistic devotion:” Every holy hour deepens our union with Him and bears much fruit.” Jo Ann Best’s witness: I've known that Jesus is present in the Blessed Sacrament since I transferred to Catholic School in fifth grade. I attended daily mass quite often since out of Catholic high school. I've known for years that our relationship with Jesus could become personal. It was not so when my 4 children were young of course. It actually became so much more when I was older and became a Eucharistic Minister which was long before I came to IHM. It intensified when I went on pilgrimages to Medjugorje, Guadalupe and in the footsteps of St. Paul of the Cross, founder of the Passionists, in Italy. My faith has grown over the years but I always tried to be close to Jesus, Mary and all the saints due to my family and God's grace. Now that I am 69, I spend hours each week with Jesus in our beautiful chapel. Grace builds in us if we let it. I feel I've been extremely blessed but find it difficult to put it in words. And finally, Brother Edward Kesler, who teaches our young people at Immaculate Heart of Mary School, writes: My earliest memories of time spent before the Blessed Sacrament were from my childhood. Our parish, St. Francis of Assisi in Philadelphia, had Forty Hours Devotion every year, initiated decades before by then Bishop John Neumann, now a canonized saint. We went as a family to spend our hour before the Lord. I grew up in a faith community that encouraged visits to the Blessed Sacrament. Stopping in to visit Jesus was part of a Catholic's way of life in my youth. As I entered religious life, devotion to the Eucharist within mass and outside of mass continued. It seemed normal to want to have some quality time with the Eucharistic Lord. I made a visit even if it couldn't always be an hour. Now, I come to our beautiful and inspiring chapel in an early morning hour. It takes will power but the Lord provides the graces to keep coming…. To me, it’s just like spending time with family or friends. Being with the Lord refreshes and strengthens me. Two of the graces of adoration have been a real sense of peace and, over the years, a more intimate relationship with Our Lord. Just being together makes all the difference. If you enjoyed these witness stories, for more information about adoring Our Lord, go to ihom.org Get Involved/Ministries/Perpetual Eucharistic Adoration or for more information, call Grace Schmidlin or email There’s something for everyone! • History buff? • Sports fan? • Fan of Blessed John Paul II? • Ready to learn more about our faith? Check out the kiosk in the gathering space and the parish library for these and other CDs and enrich your time in the car, time in the kitchen, your workout. Listen anywhere and grow in your Catholic faith! HeartBeat 8 September 2011 Donor Recognition Gifts recorded in the Parish Office as of August 18, 2011. Thank you to everyone who shared their blessings of prayer, time, talent, and treasure to make this effort such a success. Anonymous (4) Michael & Julie Abar Carl & Mary Ann Ackermann Terry Alvarez Richard & Marcella Anderschat Anderson Hills Eye Inc. 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Please contact Sandi Zibulka in the Parish Office at 513388-4183 to report any mistakes. Thank You. A Stewardship Parish, celebrating 66 years as a faith community – Sharing Our Blessings 10 Book Review The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks By Rebecca Skloot Broadway Paperbacks 377 pages/softbound/$16 ISBN 978-1-4000-5218-9 REVIEW BY MARY POMMERT H enrietta Lacks was a poor, uneducated black woman who lived in Baltimore, Md., and who died in 1951 at the age of 31 of a vicious case of cervical cancer. During an office visit, her doctor took a tissue sample of her tumor and passed it along to an interested researcher at Johns Hopkins, without her knowledge or consent. It’s here that the true story of Henrietta’s amazing cells begins. Scientists had been trying for decades to keep human cells alive in the laboratory, but they all eventually died. Henrietta’s cells were different, however…very, very different. They reproduced an entire generation every twenty-four hours, and they never quit. Scientists named her cells HeLa, using the first two letters from her first and last names. They became the first immortal human cells ever grown in a laboratory. HeLa cells, the author writes, have changed the face of medicine over the last 60 years. They’ve been used to study genes that cause and suppress cancer. They helped to develop chemotherapy drugs and drugs for treating herpes, depression, high blood pressure, leukemia, influenza, hemophilia, and Parkinson’s disease. They’ve been used to study lactose digestion, sexually transmitted diseases, appendicitis, human longevity, and gene mapping. They were used in the first space mission to determine the effects of zero gravity on healthy human cells. In the early 1950s, trillions of HeLa cells were grown each week to help discover a polio vaccine. Today, there are trillions more of her cells growing in laboratories or stored in freezers in small vials on ice all over the world. Amazing as the HeLa cells are, the author never intended to write a science book about them, their hardiness, or the fact that they may be the most important boon to medical research in the last hundred years. No, the author set out to write about the forgotten woman that the cells belonged to: Henrietta Lacks. The result is a riveting book that takes readers down both dark labyrinths of despair and up avenues of redemption. Surely, the darkest moments in the book are the recounting of the ways that destitute blacks were used for medical experiments during the 1950s without their HeartBeat consent. The chapter, “The Hospital for the Negro Insane,” is especially heartbreaking. Shortly before her death, Henrietta took her daughter, Elsie, who was diagnosed with epilepsy and mental retardation, to live at Crownsville State Hospital. The gruesome details of what occurred at that hospital… grossly inhumane living conditions and unscrupulous medical testing…are horrifying. The book is written more like a novel than non-fiction, and it’s a page-turner for sure, especially the chapters on Henrietta’s husband, sons, and other daughter, Deborah. Each family member is outspoken and opinionated, and each feels wronged by the medical community. Poor and uneducated, just like Henrietta, they were not aware of how famous her cells had become, until journalists began showing up at their doorsteps asking questions. It was 20 years after Henrietta’s death before the family discovered that HeLa cells were being sold for profit. A multimillion-dollar industry had sprung up around the cells, yet no one in the Lacks family had ever received a dime. The author writes much of the story from the point of view of Henrietta’s daughter, Deborah. Henrietta died when Deborah was a year old. The author helps her uncover the truth about her mother’s illness, death, and medical treatment. She helps her obtain a copy of Henrietta’s medical records, as well as the medical records of her sister, Elsie. Along the journey, Deborah and the author meet scientists, researchers, and administrators whose attitudes, except for a precious few, range from arrogant to indifferent. They encounter journalists and distant family members, some supportive, some opportunistic. Deborah, emotionally fragile and anxiety-ridden, learns not to trust anyone who approaches her about her mother’s cells. When she finally actually sees them in a vial, shown to her by a compassionate researcher almost 50 years after her mother’s death, Deborah nearly has a nervous breakdown. It only makes sense that a subplot of the book is about informed consent. Even today, the author writes, “when you go to the doctor for a routine blood test or to have a mole removed, when you have an appendectomy, tonsillectomy or any other ectomy, the stuff you leave behind doesn’t always get thrown out. Doctors, hospitals, and laboratories keep it. Often indefinitely.” She cites one study that estimates that more than 307 million tissue samples from more than 178 million people are currently stored in the U.S. alone. That number increases by 20 million samples yearly. Most people, she writes, are okay with this, but their feelings change if the samples might be sold for profit, are used for research they don’t support, or could uncover damaging information about their genes or medical histories. If you ponder the HeLa story for long, the legal, moral and ethical issues it presents are endless. For IHM Offers Hope for Kabingo BY BUZZ AUVIL I mmaculate Heart of Mary is making an impact in the little village of Kabingo, Uganda. In July, four IHM parishioners joined a team of 18 on a medical mission trip to provide medical care and to work on sustainable health and educational projects. Your support through the Social Ministries Commission funded education for 10 high school students and provided mosquito nets for 300 villagers. Your generous donations of health and hygiene products will help prevent the spread of disease. Your prayers and kindness instill the gift of hope that will nurture them as they strive for a better tomorrow. For all of the above, they are grateful. It was great to meet the 10 St. Josephine Bakhita Secondary School students (Continued on page 12) September 2011 starters, should matter from a biopsy belong to us? One research director quoted in the book believes that questions of consent should apply only to the collection of future samples, not the millions already stored, including HeLa. “What are we going to do,” he asks, “throw them all out?” At the outset of the book, the author quotes Elie Wiesel from his book, The Nazi Doctors and the Nuremberg Code: “We must not see any person as an abstraction. Instead, we must see in every person a universe with its own secrets, with its own treasures, with its own sources of anguish, and with some measure of triumph.” At first, I thought it was an odd quote to open the book with, but now I understand. HeLa is not just an abstraction, an extraordinary line of rapidly multiplying cells that have and will continue to unlock medical mysteries. HeLa is Henrietta Lacks: her living cells with her DNA imprint. And, Henrietta Lacks was a living, breathing human being with a spunky personality, a life cut short by cancer but with some measure of triumph, a husband, and children she adored. Doesn’t her brief life demonstrate how God works in mysterious ways? Who would think that the cells of one young woman would become so important to the work of researchers worldwide? Were here cells taken ethically? Does the end justify the means? Should her family have been compensated? You have to decide. When Henrietta lay dying, George Gey, the researcher from Johns Hopkins who requested Henrietta’s original tissue sample without her knowing, leaned over her bed and told her that her cells would help save the lives of countless people. It’s doubtful that she understood all the implications of what he was saying, yet she told him she was glad her pain would come to some good for someone else. Neither George Gey nor Johns Hopkins ever profited financially from Henrietta Lacks’s cells. Neither has the Lacks family, though many others have. The irony is none of Henrietta’s children, or her husband, could ever afford health care. Before The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks was published, the author established the Henrietta Lacks Foundation. She is donating some of the proceeds from the book to the Foundation. September 2011 The How, Why and What of the Change in the Missal And with Your Spirit’ BY DANIEL MERZ, SLL P robably the most noticeable change for the laity in the revised translation of The Roman Missal will be the response to “The Lord be with you,” which restores the phrase “And with your spirit” in place of “And also with you.” This change is specifically called for by Liturgiam Authenticam, the instruction from the Congregation for Divine Worship and the Discipline of the Sacraments regarding the translation of liturgical texts. It states that the Latin phrase, Et cum spiritu tuo, must be translated as literally as possible. English is the only major European language that does not mention the spirit in the current translation of this response; the Greek liturgy of the Eastern Churches also employs the equivalent of “And with your spirit.” So the new form has both tradition and widespread use on its side. Underlying the use are scriptural and theological reasons. This ancient Christian use of “spirit,” in both Greek and Latin, was strange to the ancient world. “Nothing like it is known outside Christian writing” (Paulinus Milner, “Et Cum Spitiu Tuo” in Studies in Pastoral Liturgy, vol. 3. ed. by Placid Murray, osb, Dublin: The Furrow Trust, 1967. p. 202). “With your spirit” was long thought to be a Semitic idiom meaning nothing more than “with you.” The Hebrew word nephesh means “soul” or “spirit,” but it can also mean “self.” But the Hebrew word behind “with your spirit” is not nephesh but rather another Hebrew term, ruah, An Invitation to Faith BY DEBBIE BIRCK T he Bible is a collection of amazing literature. There is truly something for everyone from poignant narratives to beautiful poetry. It has intriguing characters, great beauty, and gripping stories. We are called to read the Bible, within the context of the invitation we have been given, to develop a deeper faith and relationship with our God. Getting involved in a Bible study is a wonderful way to share the journey, to appreciate the art of the inspired authors, and to see Sacred Scripture in just the right light. Immaculate Heart of Mary will be offering five Bible studies this fall. Each is using a different resource to help you understand the people, places, and events of the Bible. Tuesday morning, from 9:30-11:30, the study of Genesis will be offered. Catholic Scripture Studies International provides a comprehensive resource for this study. You will receive a student binder, watch well researched DVDs, and share in small groups dur- HeartBeat which means “breath” or “spirit.” The Greek word for spirit, pneuma, is never used in the Old Testament to render nephesh, but only when translating ruah. Thus, it seems clear that the use of “spirit” in the liturgy is not intended merely as a euphemism for “you” but bears some other special theological significance. Sometimes, Saint Paul calls the gifts of the Holy Spirit pneumata (cf. 1 Corinthians 14:12: “So with yourselves, since you are eager for pneumaton, spiritual gifts...’ and 14:32, “The spiritual gifts of the prophets are subject to the prophets”; see similar usage in Revelation 22:6 and 19:10). The episcopal ordination prayer of The Apostolic Tradition (third or fourth century ad) asks God for the “spirit of leadership”: “And now also pour forth the power which comes from you, of the spirit of leadership which you gave to your beloved Child, Jesus Christ, and which he accorded to your holy apostles who have founded the Church in every place . . . .” This ordination prayer, then, specifically refers to a gift of the spirit that was given to Christ, which Christ in turn bestowed on the apostles, and which this prayer shows is bestowed upon bishops in the Church. The ordination prayer for priests similarly asks, “Look upon your servant who is here and grant him the spirit of grace and of council of the presbytery so that he may aid and govern your people with a pure heart . . . .” In the prayer for deacons: “Grant the spirit of grace and zeal to your servant.” Given the petitions employed in these ordination prayers, it is noteworthy that the phrase, “And with your spirit” is used only in response to an ordained minister. The non-ordained member leading the assembly in prayer (for example, at a wake service, a Holy Communion service, the Liturgy of the Hours), would never say “The Lord be with you” because, at least in part, they do not receive the phrase in return “And with ing the course of the morning. With commentary written by Steve Ray and lecture series presented by Father Matthew Kauth, come journey with this study back to the beginning. Wednesday afternoon, from 1-2:15, the Gospel of Matthew will be studied, also using Catholic Studies International materials. The Gospel of Matthew emphasizes Jesus as the promised Messiah of the Jewish people. He is portrayed as teaching the New Law and calling the people to be faithful to God. CSS has done a wonderful job with terrific materials. This commentary is written by Dr. Scott Hahn and Mark Shea with the lectures presented by Fr. Matthew Kauth. Wednesday evening from 7:30-9 the Acts of the Apostles, through the Ignatius Study Bible, will be explored. The Acts of the Apostles is one of the most powerful books in Holy Scripture. Not simply a chronicle of the early Church, it is also a dramatic illustration of the Holy Spirit at work. Each class will provide both scriptural commentary and opportunities for in-class discussion. Each student will receive a customized 100-page study guide, a copy of the Ignatius Catholic Study Guide on the book of Acts, 11 your spirit.” The “spirit” mentioned here refers specifically to the spirit received in ordination. It is an affirmation by the assembly that the ordained minister has received the appropriate anointing with the spirit to make him the leader in sacramental ministry. This usage has a special beauty: it is less about the person of the priest than about the office of the priesthood, which is supported and guaranteed by the Spirit of God given in ordination. Early Church Fathers, such as John Chrysostom, Theodore of Mopsuestia, Narsai of Nisibis, and Abraham bar Lipheh explicitly back this interpretation. One scriptural usage may be set in objection to this interpretation: Galatians 6:18, Philippians 4:23, and Philemon 25 all use “spirit” in a more general sense as addressed to the whole Church: “The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.” Saint Paul is not referring here to the particular gifts of the Spirit possessed by each member of the local Church, because “spirit” is in the singular. Rather, he is referring to that gift of the Spirit which each local Church possesses in so far as it is a unity in Christ for the worship of the Father (Milner, p. 206). In this sense, the ordained minister represents the whole Church in a way that the nonordained does not. For this reason, the laity may offer a blessing in their own name only, whereas the ordained bless in the name of the Church — because of the “spirit” they have received in ordination. Father Daniel Merz, SLL, is the vice-rector and dean of students at Conception Seminary College in Conception, Mo. Watch for future Bulletin inserts that will explain more of the upcoming changes. Any questions about the changes or this article please call Carol Braun, Chair of the Worship Commission, at 513-528-4866. Revised Roman Missal: “And with Your Spirit” © 2010 Archdiocese of Chicago: Liturgy Training Publications, 3949 South Racine Avenue, Chicago IL 60609; 1-800-933-1800; www.LTP.org. and a recap CD at the conclusion of the class. Class size is limited to 20. Thursday Morning from 9:30-11:30 will continue studying the Acts of the Apostles using materials from Ascension Press. It will be fairly easy to catch up with the group as they begin with lesson 9 if you are new to the group. The Acts of the Apostles provides an historic framework for understanding the rest of the New Testament. Paul’s letters in particular come alive in a new way when they are read within the context of the Acts narrative. In this DVD series Jeff Cavins provides comprehensive teaching and commentary on the book of Acts. Each student will receive a student binder with thought provoking information and questions. Thursday morning also finds our longest running bible study meeting from 9:30-11. This group is reading the bible in the order of the 73 books it was written. Jump in and join them in their appreciation and discussion of the Sacred Word. There is so much being offered to you this year. Will you answer the invitation to a deeper faith journey? Join us as we continue to explore the relationship between God and his people through Sacred HeartBeat 12 Kabingo (Continued from page 10) sponsored by IHM. They feel very blessed for the opportunity of an education. Many are orphans who live with extended family and would not otherwise have the funds to attend high school. They show their appreciation through hard work as they know that education is their only way out of poverty. They’ve sent messages of gratitude. Winnie Nakimera writes, “I am so happy for the opportunity. I promise that I will work hard so that I will perform well…” and Lydia Nabayego, “a lot of appreciation for your kind heart from the people I live with. They are promising you more prayers.” The insecticide-treated mosquito nets were hung in the students’ dormitories and the villagers’ homes with the help of the secondary school students. Without the protection of the nets, the villagers are at high risk for contracting malaria. Malaria is life-threatening, especially for children. We treated over 100 children with malaria during our two week trip who may now, with IHM’s support, be protected from future episodes. In addition to medical care, we worked with a bee hive cooperative and villager health workers who are excited about the prospects of being able to help their friends and families. We also celebrated mass with the villagers. During the first mass, 13 babies were baptized! The beauty of the liturgy filled with African drums and the villagers’ angelic voices is beyond words. Since our return home, two Ugandan villagers have arrived and now share mass with all of us at IHM. Mackline Tumusiime is a 13-year-old girl who was attacked by a pig as a baby and will have facial reconstructive surgery at Shriners Hospital for Children. Maria Nakfeero came as her caretaker, tutor and translator. They will be in Ohio for a year and are adjusting wonderfully. Our work in Uganda has been in collaboration with our neighbors, the Comboni Missionaries. We will continue to take annual trips and work on sustainable projects to support the villagers’ efforts to pull themselves out of poverty. IHM’s generosity towards education and improved health provides essential ingredients needed for a brighter future. Weebale nnyo!! Thank you very much!! Your support through the Social Ministries Commission funded education for 10 high school students and provided mosquito nets for 300 villagers. Behind the Racetrack BY ANNIE & JEANNE FELDKAMP I t is almost a rite of passage to spend a summer day at Coney Island, either splashing in the water and enjoying a quick ride down the slide or feeling your tummy tickle as you ride the twirling and spinning rides. Maybe one evening you get to enjoy a concert at Riverbend or take in the beauty of the racing horses at River Downs. Any of these could be great fun and provide lasting memories. For some parishioners River Downs has created memories they will never soon forget. It is a hot Monday evening as we drive into the “special entrance” only to River Downs. We are looking for Reverend Vincent. As we follow the rock path around behind the stables it is like we just entered an unknown village. We had no idea there were people who lived at River Downs in apartment-like complexes. I guess you never think about who cleans all the stables and cares for the grounds and tends to the horses--the trainers, the workers and the families who make it all happen. You just know it is the place where the horses race. As we see the security guard, he points us on ahead to the trailer with the unmistakable large cross on it. Oh yes! That makes complete sense. Each Monday night we have learned the Reverend offers a prayer and worship service to any of the individuals who live behind the stables. Then at Don’t Pass Us By — Stop in the Fatima Room BY MARGE ENGLISH Y ou see the A-frame signs on your way into church announcing “Shop$mart for IHM Available in the Fatima Room after Mass.” You see a similar sign on the Fatima Room window .What do these signs mean? Shop$mart for IHM is a gift card program that raises funds to help reduce the IHM Parish debt. You purchase gift cards from Shop$mart and the merchants rebate a certain percentage to the parish. You receive the full cash value of the gift card. We have gift cards for over 65 different merchants available for immediate purchase. Our top sellers include Panera, Carrabba’s, Target, Chipotle, Kohl’s, McDonald’s, Applebee’s, Starbuck’s, Speedway, Macy’s, Olive Garden, and Home Depot, just to name a few. IHM parishioners also reload an IHM Kroger Neighborhood Reward card to pay for their groceries, gas, prescriptions and stamps at Kroger. This program results in approximately $3100.00 worth of profits monthly for the Parish. What do I do when I come into the Fatima Room? Pick up a clip board that has a Shop$mart for IHM order form attached to it listing all the merchant gift cards that are available for purchase. Merchants are grouped together by categories. Find the gift cards you would like to purchase and indicate on the form the number of gift cards you want to order. Fill out your name and phone number on the top of the form and then hand the form to a Shop$mart volunteer. They will fill your order and you can pay for your gift cards by cash, check or credit card (VISA, Mastercard or American Express). It’s that easy. I’m a Kroger shopper, what do I need? You can pick up an IHM Kroger Neighborhood Reward card and instruction sheet from the Shop$mart volunteer. You will load this card at Kroger with the cashier for any dollar amount. You will then use this card to pay for your groceries, gas, prescriptions or stamps. When your balance gets low on this card, reload it again with the cashier for any dollar amount. IHM earns 4% every time you reload this card. September 2011 the end of the service an area church will provide dinner and fellowship is shared between those providing and those receiving. And as he is sure to remind newcomers that this is not a food thing, this is a church thing. Well, this summer IHM has been able to assist with providing these meals after the service. Paul Hillebrand, who serves as the chair of Helping Hands ministry and represents IHM on the SEM board, met the coordinator of Race Track Ministry of SEM (Southeastern Ecumenical Ministry). He sent out word to the Helping Hands ministry and others within the parish to see if it would be possible for our parish to provide one meal for this ongoing ministry. In true IHM fashion, the response was overwhelming. Due to the number of donations we were able to provide and serve dinner on three Mondays in August. To witness the Reverend welcoming in person after person to a place at the table and see the heads nodding “Amen” together is awesome. He will share gospel stories first in English, then “catch everyone up” in Spanish. He moves those in attendance to be grateful for all that they have---a roof over their heads, a job, a good meal and a God who loves them. Not once is the 95 + temperature living or working conditions mentioned in a negative way. It is obvious everyone is hot, tired and hungry. But the “Amens” and “Praise God” comments keep flowing. Even those who may not truly believe yet are able to share a grateful smile. A shared hour of praise to Jesus our savior, followed by a simple meal served to humble servants...a true summer memory! I’m a Remke/bigg’s Shopper, what do I need? You can pick up an IHM Remke/bigg’s Caring Neighbor Reward card and instruction sheet from the Shop$mart volunteer. You will load this card at Remke/bigg’s with the cashier for any dollar amount. You will then use this card to pay for your groceries, prescriptions or stamps. When your balance gets low on this card, reload it again with the cashier for any dollar amount. IHM earns 4% every time you reload this card. Don’t pass us by. Stop in the Fatima Room after Mass and help IHM raise funds to reduce the parish debt. A Big Thank You From Shop$mart Thank you to all the IHM parishioners who purchased gift cards from Shop$mart or reloaded your IHM Kroger Neighborhood Reward card or reloaded your IHM Remke/bigg’s Caring Neighbor Reward card during this past fiscal year. Your efforts reaped great rewards for IHM: $70 thousand was earned through these programs to help reduce the parish debt. Thank you! Help us increase that amount for the next fiscal year. Just tell a fellow parishioners how easy it is to use Shop$mart gift cards for everyday purchases or gift giving. Or, tell a fellow parishioner how easy it is to reload an IHM Kroger Neighborhood Reward card or to reload an IHM Remke/bigg’s Caring Neighbor Reward card and use that card to pay for your groceries, gas, prescriptions and stamps. Thanks for sharing and thanks for caring about your IHM parish community. We are all blessed by your efforts. September 2011 HeartBeat Imbus and Mrs. Jossart, learned that 4,000 children a day die from unclean drinking water, and clean water is inaccessible to about a billion people worldwide. In the spring, they completed their fundraising efforts and have raised over $1,000 to benefit The P&G Children’s Safe Drinking Water (CSDW) Program. Two anonymous businesses are willing to match 50% of their earnings, which will double their intake to over $2,000. About half will go to the PUR water project and the rest will aid Comboni Mission Center in building a “Protection Well” in Uganda. The process of the PUR water project is simple. First, the contents of one “PUR” packet are poured into a large jar of dirty water. After about 10 minutes, the dirt and parasites separate from the clean water and sink to the bottom of the jar. Next, water from the big jar is poured into a smaller jar with a paper towel filter on top of it. The fibers in the paper towel catch the bad particles, separating them from the clean water. Just like that, the former dirty water becomes drinkable. For just one penny, a four-gram packet of “PUR” chemicals can purify ten liters of dirty, contaminated water. One dollar gives someone 50 days of clean drinking water. Thirty dollars is enough to supply a family of four with clean drinking water for an entire year. Agencies working with P&G and The Cincinnati Foundation use all the donated money from this group of boys to deploy boxes of purifying packets to the neediest areas. Along with Africa, the boxes will be sent to earthquake victims in Haiti and Chile. This process is extremely beneficial and will save a great number of lives by supplying them with one of our most basic needs. Both the Children’s Safe Drinking Water Fund of the Greater Cincinnati Foundation and the Comboni Mission Center are doing incredible things, and the more donations they tional international projects received funding, along with sixteen local and two national projects. It is especially exciting to report that 45% of our grants went to programs not previously supported. Finding jobs for those in need was an emphasis this year. Two new programs are working to help their clients find jobs in Cincinnati. We all know that we have a high rate of unemployment in the area. Finding a job is hard, and harder still for those in need. Two local grant recipients are helping change things. First Step Home, a residential substance abuse program for women with children, helps residents prepare for jobs. It is the only facility in the tri-state region that allows children 12 years old and younger to live with the women as they go through treatment. Their grant will buy three computers to help residents with job searches. Another new grant went to a Franciscan priest with St. Francis Seraph Parish in Over the Rhine. His HELP ExCons project works with ex-offenders to access job training, mentoring and education. HELP Ex-cons works in close collaboration with other agencies providing needed services. Our own IHM Job Search Ministry was able to purchase books for participants to use, and the Dayton Youth Ops program used funds to prepare teens for work. Many new things happened with our international grants this year. One is for The Library of Love in Uganda. Molly, a 13 year old student from St. Maximillian Kolbe Parish in Liberty Township, was preparing for her Confirmation. With guidance from Embrace the Children, she decided to raise enough money to provide books for a sixth grade class at St. Mary’s Primary School in Uganda. Her application was a joy to read--she did a thorough analysis of the need and her goals. We were glad to send funds toward the total needed for the library. Another exciting new grant went to Mary Queen of Heaven Missionaries in the Philippines. A parishioner’s father put us in touch with the “Home of Love” in Cebu Archdiocese to help transform the lives of victims of female and child prostitution. It is a shocking statistic that the Philippines has the fourth highest rate child prostitution. This mission provides rehabilitation and livelihood training for victims. In addition to the Philippines, a second new country was added to our evergrowing list. This time a parishioner recommended a grant to The Jeevadhara Mission Center in India. The Society of the Holy Spirit priests run the center and this grant will help them with alcohol and drug rehabilitation, enabling people to return to their homes and families. Everyone at IHM has contributed to the goal of helping people break the cycle of poverty. If you would like to make an application for a grant, the empowerment team would be happy to work with you. Please contact us at Back row; Joe Imbus, Mrs. Debra Imbus, Devin Carroll, Ryan Holbrook, Jake Bridges, Mrs. Kristyn Jossart, Ronnie Ehemann Front row; Danny Feldkamp, Nate Ries, Will Jossart Missing from picture: Matt Fisher, Kyle Morrisroe Clean Drinking Water Project BY KYLE MORRISROE A small group of eighth grade boys from Immaculate Heart of Mary, after learning about how some people in our world cannot find clean drinking water, decided to do something to help. As part of their preparation for Confirmation, this group, led by Mrs. Empowerment Fund Gave 34 Grants in 2010–11 BY CAROL KELLY S ince 1988, the Empowerment Fund has been part of the IHM Parish budget. One percent of the previous year’s collection is set aside for the fund. The Empowerment Fund was based on the belief that Christians must walk with two feet: the foot of charity which helps meet the needs of people today and the foot of justice, which helps break the cycle of poverty so that a person can achieve self-reliance. Special collections at IHM helped people with their material needs. Wanting to support people and organizations working to help break cycles of poverty, Parish Council agreed to make the Empowerment Fund part of the budget. In 2010, the fund started with $26,705.50. Social Ministries Advisory Coordination Commission manages the fund, using specific guidelines to ensure that grants help empower people to break the cycle of poverty and oppression and following the guidelines of Catholic Social Teaching. Thirty-four grants of various amounts were awarded this year. Nine students received stipends for the mission trip to Batahola Norte, our twinning community in Managua, Nicaragua. Seven addi- 13 Project Education God Is Extraordinary Because… BY MARY POMMERT R egina speaks for hundreds of students at the Batahola Cultural Center, IHM’s twinning community, when she says that God is extraordinarily good to her because of her Project Education sponsor. Sponsors allow students to start or continue with their education…their single best hope for climbing out of poverty. In October, parishioners who sponsored students this past year will receive handwritten thank-you letters from their students. The letters are filled with expressions of love, of their deep faith, and of overwhelming gratitude. The excerpt below from Regina’s letter is a good example of that heartfelt gratitude. Regina is 26-years-old. Last year, she received a college scholarship from an IHM parishioner. Regina writes to her sponsor: Hello! My name is Regina. I have a big family, my mom is a wonderful person. I love her. I live with 2 sisters and 9 nephews. I don’t have the necessary conditions for going with my studies, but God is extraordinary because I am part of the Center Cultural of Batahola North. Thank you so much 4 your help. I know life is not easy. I know it well. Sometimes I feel like giving up, but when I’m at the Batahola Center, I feel so good with the people who work here. Please don’t stop helping us! You’re already part of my life, of my family, and especially you’re part of my friends. It doesn’t matter if you can see me or not, the improtant thing is: you’re my friend, and you’re there for me, and I’m here thinking of you. – Regina This year, 249 students wrote thank-you letters to their Project Education sponsors. Volunteer translators (adults and fourth-year Spanish students from area high schools) worked hard to translate the letters into English…a labor of love. All 249 thank-you letters will be mailed to sponsors in early October. Each letter will carry Regina’s message with it: that God is extraordinary in the way that we care for each other. HeartBeat 14 September 2011 Socks, Underwear And Our Twinning Parish BY JUDY O’BRIEN T The Elmardi Family Thanks for Support Of the Elmardi Family BY SARA ELMARDI T he Elmardi family came to the United States on Sept. 29, 2001. Since then we have moved on to larger things in life such as learning the language, making new friends, picking up on important skills and adapting to a totally different environment. We have grown into a completely different life style. When we were younger, we all began at the elementary school level. We have grown up and moved to college. Sara is a freshman at Wright State University majoring in pre-med. Mazin and Majed are juniors at the University of Toledo. Mazin is majoring in international business and finance, Majed is studying international studies and political science. Our little brother Mohamed is a freshman at Lakota East High School. We lost a much loved member in our family two years ago. My father Adil Elmardi passed away from brain cancer. He played a very big role in our lives. Congrats! BY JOSEPH STONER I HM Boy Scout troop 694 held their spring 2010 Court of Honor on March 14. The meeting started with an opening flag ceremony and a prayer. The court of honor proceeded with the introduction of the cub scouts who had just completed the bridging ceremony in which they become boy scouts. Scoutmaster Jim Kopcha recognized William Babb, Tyler Ficker, Lukas Moreland and Adam Romick on their recent National Junior Honors Society award. The court of honor is much more than an award ceremony, for the scouts and their families. This court of He did a very good job in raising us to become responsible and respectful young adults. We miss him. I remember him telling us that, “We came to the US for a better education, so we have to work hard." We were all very touched and motivated which resulted in us never forgetting the main idea of what he had said to us. So we are trying to work really hard to prove to him and also to ourselves that we made the right choice of moving to America and achieving the American dream. My mother Nadia struggled because of her English. She attended an English school to increase her knowledge of reading and writing, which has resulted in a certificate of success. She has come a long way to have a better life. She is working as a babysitter and she loves it. We just want to thank everyone for everything that they have done so far to get us to where we are today and achieve all that we have achieved over the years. We sincerely thank everyone so much. You are all such great people with warm gentle caring hearts and we would like to thank you with all of our hearts. Thank you very dearly. honor was also a celebration. After the awards were presented, the scouts were shown several video clips from past campouts and given cake and ice cream for dessert. All in all, I would say it was a fun event. The following scouts were recognized for their achievements: Sam Adams, William Babb, Jacob Bollman, Grant Foreman, Nicholas Groh, Iain Heineke, Adam Kerth, Kevin Kerth, Daniel Knight, Joseph Knight, Daniel Kopcha, Spencer Lea, Ben Liming, Liam Lindy, Lindy Chris Mullarkey, Joseph Romer, Paul Romer, Adam Romick, Matt Schneider, Michael Szucsik, and Matthew Taylor. The following adults were recognized for their achievements: Robert Knight, James Kopcha, Don Lakes, Patricia Taylor and Tom Wiles. hree thousand pairs of socks, 1,800 pairs of underpants, 1,800 camis/tee shirts piled on the tables of the community room at Our Lady of the Mountains. Fourteen members of IHM and ten members of OLM on a July Saturday sorted those items into plastic bags for the over 200 families who had applied for help through OLM’s back-to-school sock and underwear giveaway. We arrived about 9:30 a.m. and after some introductions and chatting we were each given a plastic bag and a paper for each family. On the paper were the names, ages and sizes of each child in the family from preschool through eighth grade. OLM works with the schools in Powell County to determine who is in need of the help. With our paper and bag in hand we made our way from table to table picking up the needed supplies. Seems pretty easy, right? Although it wasn’t hard work, it was a bit tedious and took much longer than we thought it would when we started. Where do all those socks and underwear come from? Some of course from OLM members but many from people here at IHM. In January there was Undee Sunday, and some of the underwear was kept for this drive. In February during Catholic Schools Week IHM day students brought in socks, lots and lots of socks, about 2,000 pairs. Then in June Vacation Bible School devoted one day to the missions, and Our Lady of the Mountains was the mission chosen. Those attending VBS brought in socks and underwear and a favorite book to give to a child in the Stanton, Ky., area. Sister Mary Jane Kreidler and Brenda Roberts were here for the day and Sister’s car went back to Stanton loaded to the brim with all the items the kids had brought in. Individuals at IHM Helping at OLM were Silvia Fries, Cindy O’Connor, Sylvie and Mary Catherine. who know of the need also donated socks and underwear over the past few months. All of this together filled the tables that day in July. Our help included adults, a teenager and several children. One family of helpers was made up of three generations: Silvia Fries, her daughter, Cindy O’Connor, and her two granddaughters, Sylvie and Mary Catherine. In the morning the two girls helped their mom and grandmother fill bags, but after lunch they were seasoned helpers and asked to have their own bags. So bag by bag we got the job done. On the way home we talked about how difficult it would be for the people of OLM to do this job without outside help. Without the donated items from us it would not be possible at all. They could do the sorting without us but it would take many more hours. So it is easy to see how OLM profited from our involvement. But what did we gain? Not as easily seen but even more important we had the opportunity to get to know better and become friends with the wonderful people of OLM. As we worked, took a break and had lunch together, we had a chance to talk and share our stories. For those who were there for the first time they are no longer strangers for those of us who have been there before we are closer friends. That is the true meaning of twinning, forming relationships and becoming one community of faith. She’s a Fan of CRHP BY MARY ELLEN MARKO I was new in Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish and knew no one when the Christ Renews His Parish weekend came up. I thought of every excuse as to why I could not attend but my heart was telling me that I needed to be there. I signed up the week before the weekend and was glad that I did. The joy and calmness that I experienced in renewing my life with Christ was something that I have never experienced before and it was worth it. The food was good and I have met wonderful friends and built great relationships with other women in the parish. I would recommend it to everyone HeartBeat September 2011 Environmental Stewardship Starts at Home, Saves Money BY BRUCO BERNO W hat do the snowy winter and blistering hot summer of 2011, high gasoline prices and our current economic challenges have in common? They combine together to provide an opportunity to reflect upon our faith, our lifestyles and priorities, and our stewardship of our resources and environment. The good news is that by being good environmental stewards we can take better care of God’s creation and save money. Double bonus! In “Renewing the Earth: An Invitation to Reflection and Action on Environment in Light of Catholic Social Teaching,” a Pastoral Statement of the United States Catholic Conference (Nov. 14, 1991), we are invited and challenged to be better stewards of God’s creation, our environment. Environmental stewardship starts at home and involves the whole family. We all make decisions every day where we can be better environmental stewards. Here are a few simple ideas to consider: 1) Ride the bus to school. Save gas 2011 IHM Festival Sponsors MAJOR SPONSORS: Bove,Connolly, & Taylor Transamerica Life Insurance T.P. White & Sons - Funeral Home 30+ Catholic Singles Anthony Guanciale - Cinti. Spine Institute SPONSORS: IHM Boosters Ronald Poulos, DDS Rafalske & Layne CPA’s Ameristop – Beechmont Mt. Washington Care Center Residence of Salem Woods Thor Investvestment Mgmt. Anderson Hills Plumbing Hayes – Eadie Inc. Eric Hickman , DDS Knights of Columbus Dunphy Wealth Mgmt. Burd Bros. Trucking, Inc. Asbury Woods Apartments Woeste Remodeling, Inc. Arnold Printing and wear and tear on your car. Show your children that riding the bus with their friends is fun and that public transportation gets the job done. 2) Car pool with neighbors and friends to sports and extracurricular activities. Build up the sense of teamwork and community at IHM. 3) Use ceiling fans and floor fans to reduce air conditioning use. Save electricity and reduce pollution caused by our coal-burning power plants. 4) Use a timer thermostat to turn the heat down in the evening at home when you are sleeping. Small office business settings are great candidates for timer thermostats to save energy in the evenings and weekends when offices are closed. 5) Just say, “I don’t need a plastic bag,” when you are only buying one or two items that can easily be carried from a store. Saving a little oil and landfill space is an easy thing to do. 6) Think twice about using a plastic water bottle or beverage container when a reusable container would do. Have you ever thought about what a water bottle really costs? 7) How much trash do you put out each week? Are you buying too many things with wasteful packaging? Have you recycled as much as possible? When on IHM’s campus, use the recycling containers properly. May God help us all to be better stewards of His creation. E.M.E. Fence, Inc. Jersey Mike’s – Beechmont Berno Financial Mgmt. Keep Judge Fellerhoff Rolfes & Swisher, CPA’s Scarlett & Gray Cleaning Debra – Kuempel Home City Ice Derek Engineering of Ohio Auxier Gas Eastgate Animal Hospital Kellogg Food Snacks PLATINUM PATRON Brian Vaughan & Jessica Metzger Cutting Edge Services Corporation GOLD PATRON Doerger Family Andy & Patti Filak Bob & Carmen Hodge Maintenance Methods, Inc. Dale & Jackie White SILVER PATRON Fred & Barbara Betz Vic & Karen Borejka Cassani Family Mary Daniel Dooling Family Don & Pat Francis 15 Spiritual Motherhood Never a Burden BY JO ANN MCDERMOTT A s I rise each morning, I say a prayer given to a visionary by the Blessed Mother at Medjugorje. While making the sign of the cross, I say slowly, “I consecrate my mind, my words (pausing at my lips), my body, my heart (left shoulder), my soul (right shoulder) in order that your will be done through me this day.” God’s will for us is to be prayerful people. The heavenly Father created us with a built-in need for Him. As women, we are nurturers by nature, willing to protect, share, give, sacrifice, and most of all love. This is not by accident but by God’s design. Since I am praying each day for my husband, children, grandchildren, and great grand children as well as my extended family, I find it rather easy to slip in prayers for priests and religious. Upon noticing the Spiritual Motherhood article in the Sunday bulletin, I said some prayers to discern if I could commit to praying for a particular seminarian or priest every day of my life. After a week of debating with Hayden Family The Herpers Harry & Pat Manton John & Kimberly McDonald Mary Lee & Don Olinger Paul & Sarah Reeder Ned & Ellen Rohan Dick & Betsi Schimpf Anne Marie Wolfer Dominic Wolfer Family BRONZE PATRON Gene & Rosanna Ardine Balda Family Lee & Gennie Beran Ed & Debbie Birck Helen Bishop Michael & Gloria Ann Castleman Guy & Judy Chandler Ron & Sandra Coleman Dick & Marilyn Cozzi Daly Family Mr. & Mrs. Harry DeMaio Al & Maureen Dufour Virginia & John Finnigan Roland & Linda Gabriel Grannen Family Jim & Gerri Grassinger Ralph & Barbara Gruppo Jim & Mary Haney The Hensler Family Bob & Sandy Hilmer Jo Ann McDermott myself, I knew I could make that choice. Because God is an all-encompassing God, I even slip in the names of several other priests as I pray. For those who think the commitment of each day for the rest of your life is too difficult, I suggest that you may be underestimating the grace of God and the power of the Holy Spirit to make all things possible. Prayer is simply lifting your heart and mind to God. Even our tasks of the day become a prayer if we have given our day to the Lord. As I pray for all the priests and religious and especially the newly chosen names, I ask God to wrap His divine arms around them and hold them close. I ask the Blessed Mother to surround them all with her mantel of love and protection. Hopefully, many more women will answer God’s call to prayer. Houston Family Gloria Ingram Phyllis Jones Bob & Judy Koesters Ed & Gail Lear Gilbert & Janice Linz Jess & Gina Luna Tammy & Ken Mai Margie Parish Joseph & Terri Parker Carol Rhoney Riccardi Family Riemar Family Christopher & Kristen Ropp & Family Dave & Linda Ruehlman Dick & Gert Schweikert Marty & Barb Sexton Jan Snell (Silpada Designs) Susan & Louis Staub Dennis & Chevi Sweeney David & Charity Taylor Dick Tobin Joe & Cathy Trotta Betsy Turner Wahlbrink Family Jan Willenborg Helen Williams Frank & Beth Yantek John & Sandra Zibulka 16 HeartBeat September 2011 Baptisms May, 2011 Addison John Haverkamp, son of Adam and Jenelle Grant Stephen Lange, son of Nicholas and Rebecca Diego Rodriguez, son of Gaston and Atziri Samantha Leigh Dowdney, daughter of Eric and Jamie Luke Edward Amann, son of Geoffrey and Elaine Sienna Elizabeth Creasey, daughter of Paul and Sandra Sawyer Daniel Kuschel, son of Robert and Christine Annabelle Zoe Scheel, daughter of Kevin and Melanie Dawson Samuel Greene, son of Joshua and Debra Emma Rosella Greene, daughter of Joshua and Debra Jacob George Cyran, son of Christopher and Jessica Anna Rose Ernst, daughter of Neil and Erica Kristen Marie Earley, daughter of Gregory and Mary June, 2011 Mary Megan Fullarton, daughter of David and Ashley Austin Patrick Hance, son of Bryan and Diane Jack Milton Erickson, son of Scott and Becky Brady Rhein Dorko, son of Andrew and Andrea Catherine Anne Dorko, daughter of Andrew and Andrea Alexander Germain Dorko, son of Andrew and Andrea John William McCafferty, son of John and Megan James Justin Whelan Jr., son of James and Sarah Carson Adam Hayes, son of Brian and Allicia July, 2011 Jackson Charles Goebel, son of Chad and Bridget Kieran Dennis Doyle, son of Brian and Janie Dominic Albert Doyle, son of Brian and Janie Anabella Doyle, daughter of David and Angela Skylar Rae Kutcher, daughter of Brian and Ashley Raegan Annabelle Kutcher, daughter of Brian and Ashley Addison Elizabeth Ackel, daughter of Bradley and Sarah Elijah Carel Swart, son of Alexander and Leia Thomas Owen Huebsch, son of Charles and Latisha Grayson Alan Gillespie, son of Jerry and Lindsay Lillian Ashley Gillespie, daughter of Jerry and Lindsay Brady Matthew Gillespie, son of Jerry and Lindsay Lilian Elizabeth Hughes, daughter of Andrew and Kristina New Registrations Immaculate Heart of Mary extends a warm welcome to the following new parishioners. We hope that you will come to find peace and joy as you become active members of our worship community. May, 2011 Anthony & Dana Sticca and Lauren & John Tim & Pat Planitz Elizabeth Dowling and Andrew & Mary Brian & Ashley Kutcher and Skylar & Raegan Kevin & Melanie Scheel and Annabelle HEARTBEAT A publication of Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish, 7820 Beechmont Ave., Cincinnati, Ohio 45255 Phone: 388-4466 Pastor: Fr. Tom Kreidler Editor: Elizabeth Bookser Barkley Layout: Natalie Corzine Designer: John Nagy Staff Liaison: Lisa Taylor Published four times a year Next deadline: November 7 by noon to the parish. The next issue will be mailed in early December. All submissions are subject to editing. Parish Mission Statement We are a welcoming Catholic community centered in the Eucharist, striving to live and share the Good News and grow in discipleship in the Lord. Curtis & Lori Hamm and Kyle, Ryan, Blake & Ava David & Ashley Fullarton and Mary Marc Grau & Maria Garces Steven & Vanessa Hartman and Sophia & Jerod Ben & Lori Morrison James & Shelly Sargent Daniel & Jessica Shelly and Hayden, Noel & Tanner Norma Wolfer February, 2011 Richard & Anne Brown Elizabeth Conard Andy & Andrea Dorko and Catherine, Alexander & Brady Mark & Lindsey Elder June Greene Jason Heskett William & Brittany Holmes and Sophia & Jackson Kaitlin Korte Michael & Kristin Lowe and Madeline & Catherine John & Jessica Murphy and Thomas Amanda Peterson and Landon David & Laura Peterson and Sarah Jessica Peterson Neil & Stacey Radulski and Morgan & Liam Kyle & Jennifer Scheidler and Stella, Thomas & Gretchen Christopher & Suzanne Stautberg and Elizabeth & Nicholas June, 2011 Jack & Ruth Gulden Brian & Allicia Hayes and Carson Lacey Gendron and Jacksons Benjamin & Katherine Staubach and Jack Lindsey Benvie Hatie Gondoza Patricia Randall ice Whitford Stephen Zvonar July, 2011 Christopher & Elizabeth Hardy and Jake Michelle Ernst and William Joseph & Amy Scott and Payson & Pierce Jeff & Mary Dannenberg and Dylan Kenneth & Rossybel Frescoln and Kaitlyn & Steven Charlie & Tishe Huebsch and Jackson & Thomas David & Mary Fleischmann Gary & Patti De Jesus and Matt & Jessica Andy & Linda Fox Jamie Gaddis Mark & Beth Gaddis Jerry & Lindsay Gillespie and Lillian, Brady & Grayson Adam & Janelle Haverkamp and Kelsey, Avery & Addison Rob & Stephanie Knarr and Lauryn, Mitchell, Nathan & Sydney Robert & Christine Kuschel and Addison, Ava & Sawyer Andrew Martin & Mei Zhou and Cecilia & Mitchell John & Belinda Puening Brian & Elizabeth Rigby and Madison & Charlie Andrew Schmidt & Tiffany Bailey and Mitchell Departures Immaculate Heart of Mary bids good wishes and farewell for now to the following parishioners who have left our parish. May our Lord guide you as you join new worship communities and face all of the challenges associated with any change. We shall keep you in our prayers and look forward to the possibility of your future visits or a return to IHM. May, 2011 Mary Jane Erdman Daniel & Phyllis Ricciardi Robert & Helen Biernat Glenn & Lisa Anderson Donald & Mary Ann Mofford David & Kimberly Dettmer and Justin & Hannah Stella Sheehan Jay & Jamie Gilligan and Andrew, James & Mary Pat Rhea Gerde Shirley Murphy Judie Sclafani and Michael & Jenna Kelly & Vanessa Land and Gabby & C.J. Jason & Karen Oswald and Joseph T.J. & Julie Reed and Mae, Stella & Mac June, 2011 Kelly Hannon Robert & Betty Sue Royse Michael & Joanie Calico Belinda Warren Donald & Jill Devine Joshua & Ana Hayes and Alex & Jonny Nancy Nash and Ryan & Johnn July, 2011 Matthew & Carrie Bucksath and Brandon Matthew & Christy Wiesenhahn and Jack, Ben & Grace Michael & Carol Schutte Claudie Tepper Frances Guerra Charles & Joan Brady and Allison Daniel & Rita Cahalane Robert & Trena Kelly Shannon Washington and Brianna Peter & Colleen Deane Jason & Sheri Kehren and Zac Dennise Way and Robert Matthew & Corinna Asbury and Ali, Gabriel, Marisol & Xavier Helen Kuhn William & Christine Lally and Ethan & Alessandra John & Marilyn Bishop Laura Kushner