New Resource For Adopting Older Children!
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New Resource For Adopting Older Children!
CCAI WAITING CHILD PROGRAM NEWSLETTER SEPTEMBER 2012 The Waiting Thread New Resource for Adopting Older Children! CCAI is excited to announce the release of a new book, Toolkit for Adopting an Older Child! With so many older children being made available for adoption and now being adopted, it became clear that an informational book providing preparatory information for families considering or already entering into their own older child adoption was much needed. Toolkit for Adopting an Older Child is our effort at CCAI to provide insight from both professionals and families who have adopted older children into the unique challenges that adopting an older child can present. This book explores the initial adjustment of a child over the age of 5 into a family, how to cope with basic, immediate needs, and how to prepare for long term behavioral, emotional, and developmental difficulties. It is our sincere hope that this book will meet the need of our families to have a resource to help them thoughtfully consider and prepare for the adoption of an older child. Toolkit for Adopting an Older Child is now available in hard copy for $12.95 (plus S/H) and is also available in an e-book format. To purchase your copy of this insightful and valuable new resource, please visit CCAI’s gift shop at http://www.chinacharm.org/ Welcome New Henan Families! If you are waiting to bring home, or already are home with a child from the province of Henan, then make sure to stop by www.henankids.blogspot.com This is the site for our non-profit, Henan Kids International, which works hard with CCAI to raise money and awareness for the kids still waiting in orphanages in Henan. You can follow families’ trips to China on the blog, connect with other families, donate money to your child’s orphanage, and find out how to contribute to our current fundraiser, our annual HKI calendar. For more information, please contact Emily Adcox at [email protected]. www.ccaifamily.org CCAI WAITING CHILD PROGRAM NEWSLETTER SEPTEMBER 2012 Last Month’s Statistics In August, the CCCWA released 31 children’s files designated to CCAI, 14 girls and 17 boys. 19 were Special Focus and 12 were LID-only (must be matched to a family with a dossier already in China). Ages of Waiting Children matched in August: 13 5 3 3 0 0 24 children were matched with their families in August, 10 girls and 14 boys! Of those matched children, 20 were from our agency-specific list, and 4 were from the CCCWA’s Shared List of Waiting Children. Families matched in August who had Medical Conditions Checklists (MCCs) on file with CCAI (87% of the families matched this month) ranged from January 2011 to July 2012. 2 children were accepted as part of the Special Focus Program. Of the 24 children matched in August, 6 have cleft lip and palate, 6 have heart disease, 3 have limb differences, 2 have developmental delays, 2 have imperforate anus, and the remaining children have the following special needs: albinism, diaphragmatic hernia, Down Syndrome, hemangioma, intersex, etc. 3 children have multiple special needs. Question of the Month: Q: What can I be doing NOW to be prepared to receive a child referral? 1. Know where you will send a potential child referral file for medical review! Will your family pediatrician be available to assist you, especially on short notice? Do you have an International Adoption Clinic in mind where you could email a file? Particularly when a quick decision is required for a child match, it’s helpful to know in advance who will help you to fully understand a child’s medical situation. 2. If your dossier is already in China, make sure you have a copy handy! At the time you accept a child match, you’ll need to fill out a “CCCWA Worksheet” with some basic information about your family that matches what was presented in your dossier. 3. Make sure your immigration approval is current! CCAI strongly encourages ALL families with a Medical Conditions Checklist (MCC) on file to get and keep their immigration approval current! 4. Continue researching not only the medical conditions you have indicated openness to, but also the resources in your area for treatment and support when you come home! 5. Check to ensure that CCAI has your correct phone numbers and email addresses, especially if they have changed since beginning your adoption process! www.ccaifamily.org CCAI WAITING CHILD PROGRAM NEWSLETTER SEPTEMBER 2012 In the Spotlight… “Quan” - ZJQ0612.1.5 Male, DOB 6/9/2011 This little boy was abandoned when he was approximately three months old. Based on his physical development and condition at that time, his date of birth was estimated to be June 9th, 2011. He was diagnosed with congenital heart disease and an umbilical hernia. However, these ailments have healed on their own. He has been also been diagnosed with developmental delays. He can stand while supporting himself on something, call out ba ba, and crawl. He can understand adults’ instructions. When the nanny is happy, he will smile, but when the nanny pretends to be angry, he will lower his head and not look at the nanny. He can turn and look at things on his own, he loves to smile, and he likes to crawl by himself and play. He asks the nannies to hold him, he is a bit shy, and if strangers hold him, he will cry. He can make a few sounds at people and things, and when he hears some people call his name, he will turn his head looking for the origin. He can understand adult’s facial expressions. He is lively, active, likes to play by himself, loves to play with toys, is very interested in sounds, likes to listen to music, loves to smile when he sees familiar people, and likes to be held. His biggest fear is to be alone by himself , and when he is crying his little heart out, it’s best to hold him or pat him. This precious little boy’s file is marked “LID-only,” which means he must be matched to a family who already has a dossier in China (or is very close!). Please hurry – CCAI has only a short amount of time before his file must be returned!! Contact: [email protected] www.ccaifamily.org Important Reminders: Keep Your Immigration Approval Current!! ALL families with Medical Conditions Checklists (MCCs) on file are STRONGLY encouraged to GET and KEEP their immigration approval (I-171H or I-800A approval) current with the correct age range, gender(s), and medical conditions they are open to and approved for. If your immigration approval is not current and inclusive of special needs at the time you are matched, it will significantly extend your timeline between match and travel. As families who have “been there and done that” will tell you, the wait gets much harder AFTER you are matched, and you don’t want ANY unnecessary days spent holding that sweet little picture while you wait to travel! Complete your Parent Training!! Your parent training requirements must be complete before you can file your I-800 paperwork. Your travel to China can be DELAYED if both parents have not fulfilled the training requirements by the time your acceptance letter (LOA) arrives. If you have questions about parent training, please contact CCAI’s Parent Training Coordinators at [email protected] or [email protected]. CCAI 6920 South Holly Circle Centennial, CO 80112 Phone: 303-850-9998 Fax: 303-850-9997 www.ccaifamily.org Your Waiting Child Program Staff: Pam Rodriguez [email protected] 303-850-9998 x 35 Sarah Harmon [email protected] 303-850-9998 x 25 Judy Winger [email protected] 303-850-9998 x 38 Tony Goffredi [email protected] 303-850-9998 x 19 Follow us on:
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